Checking A Partner's Phone - S1 EPS 9| The Honest Bunch ( FKA FRANKLY SPEAKING)
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- čas přidán 6. 06. 2024
- On today's episode of , the hosts talk about the habit of peeping into your partner's phone, Are phones too private? or its no biggie.
let us know in the comments. - Hudba
Husband material just be giving me joy episode by episode 😂😂
"Cheating is not gender exclusive..."
Naomi being the real frankly speaking 💯💯💯
To be sincere
One very important factor that keeps a relationship going...even though most people are not ready for this conversation is Each person in a relationship deserve to be their own person,have their own space to an extent. Yes,share everything together,with each other but you've gotta give each other space enough to be their own person. Then they share things with you on their own Accord. It's not by force. This is how trust is built. You're not trusting a person because you HAVE to trust them. You're trusting because you believe that even though they're free enough to do whatever they wanna do,but they still do right by you.
Toun is always real when it comes to important issues like this 💯👏
Low key Naomi is the most realistic tbh ehennn they say because you are like her ehennn even tho!!!
Seriously whether relationship or marriage your partner phone should be accessible…not really checking in detail but accessible that you don’t have to hide…and nedu there is nothing like small cheating and the fact the women at home don’t check her their husbands phone make them good wives!!!
Omg i love toun's comments she is always very specific and straight to the point.....love you babe 💜💜💖💖
Nedu, you are speaking my mind. My take is, I do not support snooping on your partner's phone. It only brings unecessary insecurity and suspicion even when there is nothing. .I've had my fair share of such experience.
Out of most of their videos 🤣, I actually took note on somethings in this episode, this was really good 💯
Everyone has this natural tendency to check the phone but we go just pretend.. Curiosity drives you to really know what's happening.
Exactly
In this episode, I agree with Naomi on a number of things.
Husband material is funny oo😂 always making me laugh
It’s not ok to check one’s partners phone as it’s a sign of respect and trust. I have never bothered to check. I was brought up to be comfortable with being open. So during my dating days and currently, I would usually leave my phone in open places, openly type in my password and even go through messages and chats openly. Doing this created trust between us and boo found himself also mirroring what I did. Within 2 months, we could pick each others phones cos we are besties too. With this kinda openness, trust and respect we never needed to check each others phones. I have never ever checked his phone and no one has given me any reason to do so 😊. And of course I wouldn’t want my phone checked cos it would feel like he doesn’t trust me.
Naomi is bias in capital letters walahi...one could say a chameleon too.
If you observe, she says contradictive statements, the easiest way to highlight it, is when she's talking am about the same thing concerning the opposite sex.
The main reason for a topic or show like this is to show transparency and undiluted truth.
The truth here is these ladies will always go for what's in their favour first, the rest follows, regardless of whether it's right or wrong.
Fax!
😂😂😂 i love nedus honesty, I like Naomis thinking sometimes but she’s to inequality with men, I like hb character he’s is a soft guy but watch for him 😂🤣🤣😂 you guys really made my day all of you.
Husband material is a super lion!!!!!
Osheeeyyyy!!!!!🙌🙌
UNN folks gather oooo
I'm here oo✋
@@ChinezeNwandu yeahhh💃💃💃 nice to meet you!
You wanna play candy crush on my phone 😂😂 - Husband Material
Thank you Naomi, you’ve got to know if your partner is doing anything funny. You have to be better prepared.
Naomi capping nonsense!!! Cheating has never been a mistake cuz you’re absolutely 100% aware of what you’re doing.
Naomi makes every topic interesting this kind of remind me my secondary School days when we de do debate well well
I'm always watching to hear naomi's takes on different topics and she never disappoints
Hello 😊I really agree with Toun when she said she likes space sometimes , I am also wired that way and sometimes my partner would misinterpret and feel I want to break up.
“You see men and you just see cheating” this Adetoun statement is a wicked stereotype. Probably, people who share this same opinion about men being promiscuous isn’t just based on previous experiences on encounters but possibly having a father who misbehaved. Abeg, let’s be guided.
Naomi didn’t answer if she has cheated…..😂😂😂
Honestly, with the way Naomi talks, I can outrightly tell that she isn't a lady who invests quality time in building her intellectual capacity but she is always on about the trending topics on SM, how to look good, vibes, chills and inshallah. You can just tell from the words that comes from her mouth and the opinions she gives.
Building intellectual capacity to answer whether or not to check your partner’s phone? Lol. There’s nothing stupid in her opinion that you should be able to check your serious partner’s phone.
@@kaybest9607 but she doesn’t want him to check hers..lmao
@@kaybest9607 her opinion is rubbish, she is not honest with her opinion and She has not point. First she said she will delete her chat before she allows her man to use her phone. Abeg
@@kaybest9607 there are evidently stupid things are opinions are based on and very bias
@@kaybest9607 eeeeewh 🤮
This Naoomie dey craze 🤪 😂
Ke ife onye a n'ekwu ifea 😂😂😂
Just be single, and mingle, like a pringle.
Naomi be making me laff
So u wud check yo partners fone buh wudnt allow him check yours...so funny 🤣
Av trained myself not to check on any man's phone. I don't cheat. I am only saving all my tears for tears of joy.
Naomi don start😭😭😂😂😂
Its Touns contributiions for me and her voice. Chai!
Naomi knows how to talk on her favour 😂😂
Ah swear
The double standards 😂😂
How did they get your number in the first place?
Faithful girls don't give out numbers 😂😂
Aswear you no lie 😂😂😂
I support you 💯
I completely agree with Toun, why should I put myself through that emotional stress. Brooooo i choose peace of mind over drama
Naomi always knows how to protect herself 😂 I love her sha
Wow, so Husband material studied in UNN, our alma mater ahbi wetin dem dey call am again 😂👏🏻
I’m not gonna lie the trailer had me disagreeing with Naomi so much but she probably makes the most sense here. I don’t agree that only the man should be transparent, both parties should be transparent. However, I don’t like the other peoples stance why will you not check the phone because you already think they’re cheating and you don’t want stress. Being married to someone you think is cheating sounds more stressful than just knowing the truth tbh.
Naomi is saying rubbish
@@joeogbe2915 absolute rubbish. I think she does cheap drugs. Cos how can an adult be talking like this?? Lol.
I like this conversation menn
I swear i love you guys ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😔
I wouldn't mind if the next talk on the show would be about " doing yahoo and all other fraudulent act,is it really right or wrong??" I really want to hear your says about this... . Thank you 😁❤️
Haba you should know the obvious answer... Lets's not paint or sugar coat a bad thing good 😊
It's nedu's girllll for me 😂😂😂😂
Naomi is the life of this podcast as much as the others and if there is no opposition in this argument, it'll be fucking boring... But her instances are 100% legit cos that's the nature of relationships amongst human (a man having ten women around probably asked eight of them out and two happened on their own and a woman who has ten men around her, its definite they all slide into her DM) and we know our guys, the real demons, even when they hear NO will still keep pestering. So if you as a guy, you dey check your woman phone, it is for two reasons which are to either you want to look for an excuse to push her away or you want to die before your time. So to me, Naomi is the realest. Thanks
Haha, I share Adetoun's sentiments, lol. We both don't want the stress of the unknown. Namesakes thinking alike 😆
Noami sha, sometimes I want nod you 😂🤣
Husband material is spot on, you outgrow some excesses
When noami said “mistakes do happen”
Sis no one cheats by mistake, they either do it or they don’t there’s no middle line and definitely there’s nothing like cheating by mistake
Everyone that cheats does so intentionally
Exactly
The girl na idiot jare I no like at all
She go just da talk nonsense for mouth
Las las... Naomi na ashawo oh, she can't be trusted😂😂
Swears
Naomi: If he gets tired he should leave
Me: watin this one da talk again
Nnedu and his friend are realest persons here...no cap
Clash of the Titans 😂😂😂
This Naomi babe sha 😂
Any girl that is always curious to check her guy's phone, (his messages to be precise) most of the time has things to hide too. Person wey dy use knife kill no dy gree make person use knife go her back. Every relationship blossoms on trust, if you have to check his messages then your trust is compromised, change.
Hmmm... This topic wey Una bring , we fit write thesis on top this and not finish oh.. let me listen first before comment.
Nedu u dey calm down. The show is not about u alone. Abeg make we hear more from others
Make I no talk wettin day my mind sha, but Naomi case na wa ooo
Honestly Naomi represents the views of most young ladies.
Angel Nedu 😂😂😂😂
Marriage and relationship is a partnership, your partner should have unrestricted access to your phone and vice versa, once these things are not there and both parties have secrets and all there's a problem. if you can't be like that with your partner then think twice about being in a relationship with them.
She has a point, but it is a two way sword.
I feel like if you suspect something or you have a gut feeling about something then satisfy your curiosity because in some cases that curiosity might just be the answer that you need, that’s my own 2 cent
Ezugwu chukwudi... wow na Nsk guy?
Please do a part 2 of this topic with a guest speaker please
Naomi na tata ....in every relationship there should be a level of privacy...
It's the sense of entitlement from Naomi for me
I am of the opinion that as partners in a relationship there should be unhindered access to each others phone. I don't see any reason why your significant other can't have access to your phone. Not for the purpose of checking but just for access sakes, the way you can have access to your partners car, clothes and other belongings. If there's nothing to hide, why hide it.
Thank you
Agreed but some partners abuse the unhindered access. They check it to monitor who you are talking to and this is born out of insecurity.
Hubby's phone should have unhindered access biko
Nice topic. Nedu you have spoken my mind. If the man is doing what he should be doing, the woman should allow peace by not checking on hubby phone. I am happily married going to 10 years with kids but my wife never trusted me a day. She accused me of sleeping with my own blood sis, Which I found it wrong and unacceptable, apparently nothing as such ever happened. I don't hide things from her. We both have each other phone password. My problem is when checked my phone she goes through my family chat and uses whatever we discussed as a family to talk to me anytime we have arguments which i see offensive. My question. I stood my ground not to give her my password, though she accusses me of cheating on her but told her nothing of such only trying to keep my family chat away from her so she won't disrespect me or any of them. I love her and I like to make her secure around me. Should I allow her to go through my phone or stick to the boundaries i set of not giving her my phone to allow peace allow? Thanks
Cheaters think everyone cheats. I hope that helps
Husband material is just hilarious😂😂
E be like say the relationship don tire you
The opposite sex moving to you in your dm is not the problem , I mean people do stuff. The problem is you entertaining them.
Funny Naomi 🤣
NIce one
From the beginning husband material made it obvious where he stands by saying “especially your phone, your own phone”
I check phones oo. I’m with Naomi 🤣🤣🤣 hmm. But I’d rather not. I need full transparency. I wouldn’t want my babe to hide his phone. We should know each other passwords. I wouldn’t even need to search, I know everything.
this naomi sha 😂😂
I agree with husband material … “cheating is not Gender exclusive” 💯💯
Too be sincere Naomi is been realistic
Women insecurities are the reasons for checking their partners phone...
See expo o!!!!! "Search I'm outside " "search Meet me at"
Checking your partner's phone for me isn't bad, I thought serious relationship/marriage is supposed to be an open, transparent thing.. once you say you're inlove with someone how do you even go around fucking every guy/every girl.. I still don't understand why people cheat
Privacy is not always about cheating. There are some other things people keep to themselves, maybe friends conversations or family conversations u don’t want ur partner or anyone else
@@georgeyeya9839 I know that, I just don't support when a girl/guy hides their phones, turn it into an argument, put the phone on silent when the partner ask for the phone. It doesn't mean they want to start checking every single chat.
@@georgeyeya9839 in a relationship I believe in privacy but there's a difference between privacy and cheating
Naomi ooooo😅😅😅 what is your problem….
Staff members of the Slovak and Slovenian embassies meet once a month to exchange incorrectly addressed mail.
The Truth is, For a Relationship to Work, You guys must once in a While know what is Happening in Each others Private Life, Checking is Necessary
husband material😂😂😂
something is really wrong with this Naomi girl 😂😂😂
I just think Naomi likes playing devil's advocate on all topics
If you like stress check and be ready for the outcome too
ashawo dy naomi eyes
Naomi and saying trash 🤝
Naomi hmmm!
Nawah ooo
It's normal to share everything, if you are in a committed relationship
Some people will think that Husband material na stingy guy but if you get am as BF u go enjoy shaa
Aswear ooo
I just love the way he presents himself
Husband material 💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️
I don't know why everyone is picking on Naomi alone......everybody on the panel dey ooze toxic vibes.
Wanting time alone is an empath thing( personality type), however some do it just to manipulate the other person. Toun might be an empath.
Ignorance is not bliss
And "that set of Women" that form ignorant,that men always bring up whenever we have this conversations( not just about phones), is dying inside( either like toun forming I dont care or like the drama queen bleeding all over the place).
Mentioning "that woman" gan sef is manipulation at its finest.
But seriously why should we ignore cheating partners, this is more serious than insecurity and hypertension. Until you get into bigger problems. Every1 will be moving in circle, even your boo get a boo.🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
Make Una no Dey invite Naomi come this show again 😂😂make girl no Dey think like her
(Boy) so me nor go know if I Dey waste my time with ba?
Na only u wan know if u Dey waste ur time with me
Na this thing nearly make me break up with my girl o, u nor wan leave street abi? What stop you from telling other guys you have a male friend already?? Cause u are beautiful? If I don’t fit you, then leave
Its touns silence for me 😁😁
If Naomi was acting this character, then she’s doing a very good job.
Agreed