Why you have Trouble Being in your Feminine Energy
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Today we talk about the reasons why you have trouble being in your feminine energy ! We will talk about deep reasons why you sometimes cannot be in your feminine energy as a woman even when you want to.
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To be honest no not really I don't have trouble my feminine energy.
You can not be in your feminine energy when youâre in survival mode đ
I never knew just how much stress make it difficult to feel feminine. I just realized this week that I haven't felt safe in years, and you're right, it's played a huge role in not being able to feel feminine.
Yes, me too! Just in the last week or two I realized how much stress was causing me to be in fight or flight mode. I think many women have unconsciously normalized it! Glad we are all taking our power back by recognizing we deserve to feel safe, feminine and be in our queen energy đĽ°
@@livstanton4251 Definitely! đ
I feel like I am in my feminine energy but it triggers/offends people and they project and it makes me question myself.
Most people are just unhappy in their own lives , that's what make them project their insecurities into you.
You being in your devine beautiful energy will obviously trigger them ! Work on yourself enough so that someone else's insecurity won't make you question yourself đ
Thank you đ¸
I have the same experienced.
@@slaylormoon my pleasure đ¤
I started my feminity journey 5 years ago, and I'll tell you that people being intensely offended and jealous of you comes with the territory. The deeper you get into it, the worse it will become. Don't question yourself though, you're doing just fine!đşâ¤ď¸
I wanna be in my feminine energy so badly, but Itâs so hard when I always feel so unsafe as a woman and always have to be on alert therefore being in my masculine.
SAME!!! How can you really relax into feminine energy if youâre not safe and secure??? Itâs hard! My own mom is always telling me to put on feminine clothes and stuff. When Iâm with my mom I remember that I havenât been in my feminine energy for so long she has to remind me! But not only the fact that I havenât been secure financially, my husband says and does triggering things. But every time I say itâs narcissistic behavior he gets upset and act like itâs impossible and crazy!
It also has a lot to do with your mother. If your mother sufered a lot it is gonna be difficult for you to truly embrace to become a woman, you choose either to stay a " child" or become masculine.
It happens to a very big percentage of woman specially for genz and milenials that our mother had to endure to work a lot be sucssesfull and be a mothers at the same time and that caused them pain sometimes.
There can be a lot of other reasons of course that is overly simplified.
But unless your mother was a truly happy fullfilled and selfrealized woman, you are gonna be scared or strugle to embrace womanhood on its fullest expression.
I leave this here in case it can help somebody because to realize about this helped me a lot.
I was never masculine but I have kept myself being a kind of.. asexual kid for many years because it scared me so much to become a woman.
I could start to embrace the feminine energy to the fullest, once I understood and embraced more my own mother.
It may sound weird but I can assure you it works like that.
â@@YFL.111 100% truth...wow.
@@YFL.111 This
I know, right? Or if masculine "men" simply don't exist in your area and they ALL demand 50/50 đ
When Iâm in my feminine energy, other women around me treat me poorly. They tell me Iâm too soft, too sensitive, too âmuchâ. It puts me right back into my masculine shield when Iâm around these types of women. I wish I knew how to deal with it.
Same :( even some men
â@jesseriddlecameron6261 Western men make fun of women's sensitivity everyday and then wonder why so many become rough.
I always wondered why most of my teachers in college were women, and now I understand being a physical therapist and rehabilitation require a lot of care, nourishment and empathy and that unconsciously made me more feminine and caring still protective with my patients.
Oh Lisa, Iâm so sorry to hear you lost your dog. Losing our pets is truly like losing family - the unconditional love they bring and their unique personalities are irreplaceable.
Iâm wishing you healing as you move through this hard time đ
its true having a more masculine energy can mean past trauma so we dont have that nurturing empathy and are more hardened in personality. i would explaine it as we are alway's in protection mode and surviving instead of actually living and enjoying life and being happy.
Most people in my life hate me being feminine but I like it
I am a freshman in college studying medicine and I just feel like I am in an endless cycle of stress⌠college is no joke! I just think I need to be able to prioritize myself and really take the time to destress and relax to allow myself to be in my feminine energy. Easier said then done thoughâŚ
I also want to be a housewife and work part time something fun. ⤠Iâm 31 now and discovered that 3 years ago, wish I did sooner. Every job was draining me so much. â¤
Thanks for covering this topic! I feel like there's such a schism in my own personality between being hyper feminine and being quite masculine, so it's hard to reconcile the two, or switch between one and the other. It also makes dating hard because I feel like I'm more of a man than a lot of the men I meet which is a BIG turnoff lol
I feel the same way. But I was able to find a good husband that is good to me and strong. So I feel I can be more feminine when I'm around him.
It also has a lot to do with your mother. If your mother sufered a lot it is gonna be difficult for you to truly embrace to become a woman, you choose either to stay a " child" or become masculine.
It happens to a very big percentage of woman specially for genz and milenials that our mother had to endure to work a lot be sucssesfull and be a mothers at the same time and that caused them pain sometimes.
There can be a lot of other reasons of course that is overly simplified.
But unless your mother was a truly happy fullfilled and selfrealized woman, you are gonna be scared or strugle to embrace womanhood on its fullest expression.
I leave this here in case it can help somebody because to realize about this helped me a lot.
I was never masculine but I have kept myself being a kind of.. asexual kid for many years because it scared me so much to become a woman.
I could start to embrace the feminine energy to the fullest, once I understood and embraced more my own mother.
It may sound weird but I can assure you it works like that.
@@YFL.111 That makes a lot of sense, and I have no doubt it's true. My mother and I do not get along - we love each other, but we do not get along, and I am 100% certain that affected my personality. On top of that, my father died when I was 13. So there's plenty to pick from there as far as causation goes.
I'm currently redoing my entire wardrobe,and working on my mindset in order to receive the things I deserve!đşđˇđźđđđ
I feel like sometimes if I donât feel safe, I donât feel comfortable being my true feminine self. And Iâm looking for the right person to make me feel safe
Sorry to hear about your dog. I lost a dog and a cat I had for 11/12 years and a sibling all shortly before the pandemic hit in 2020. Not fun.
I totally agree with the fear to self protect! But I usually am protecting myself from other women. Where I live majority of masculine women do all they can to inadvertently make feminine women appear weak, stupid, and of no value. As well as make them seem they are only being feminine to please men instead of them wanting to for themselves.
I was once like Lisa from my youth until I divorced in my early 30s. As a single mom now for over 6 years we have no choice but to be more masculine unfortunately. I donât think I will ever really feel safe again with a man. But I will with a nice retirement and emergency savings that can carry me and my children for 6 months. Lisa is young and beautiful with her whole life ahead of her. She is almost blemish free. I would encourage all young females to remain as feminine for as long as you can. It actually will put you were you need to be in both your personal and professional goals. An intelligent woman is one that knows how to be both. I am now masculine at work and feminine at home.And I prefer it this way. Good luck to everyone in their journey to living a happy balanced life.
I am sorry to hear that your pupper đś passed away . I know how stressful and difficult it is to go through the death of a đś since they are like family. Sending prayers your way đđźđ
Iâm sorry about your dog beautiful đ I send you a big hug with so much love
I only have Trouble maintaining my feminine engery at work
Dependant on your type of job then it may be necessary to be in the masculine energy during your work hours. Or dip in and out. But you could balance it outside of work? Thatâs what I try and do đđťđ
It also has a lot to do with your mother. If your mother sufered a lot it is gonna be difficult for you to truly embrace to become a woman, you choose either to stay a " child" or become masculine.
It happens to a very big percentage of woman specially for genz and milenials that our mother had to endure to work a lot be sucssesfull and be a mothers at the same time and that caused them pain sometimes.
There can be a lot of other reasons of course that is overly simplified.
But unless your mother was a truly happy fullfilled and selfrealized woman, you are gonna be scared or strugle to embrace womanhood on its fullest expression.
I leave this here in case it can help somebody because to realize about this helped me a lot.
I was never masculine but I have kept myself being a kind of.. asexual kid for many years because it scared me so much to become a woman.
I could start to embrace the feminine energy to the fullest, once I understood and embraced more my own mother.
It may sound weird but I can assure you it works like that.
I think i lack some femeninity is from dangers with family what makes it better , safe and fun for my femeninity is self care , fashion (styling & design) being in artistic side is amazing then journaling helps alot even getting to know myself . Condolences for your dog
Hi Lisa, thanks for this great beautiful content, and you look amazing too!
You started by talking about the extremely important relationship between safety and femininity, here is my personal experience:
I struggled my hole life with the context of my country and culture, I grew up being harrased (an unfortunately molested) in every single space of my life, at my own home, at school, at work, in the streets, in the public transportation , it's no joke to be a woman up here, I had to be tough, strong and very smart in order to survive, I was always stressed, controlling and very masculine, detached from my nurturing and sensitive nature in order to protect myself.
It was right at the moment when I felt the call of my femininity that I actually doubled down on my efforts to thrive and recognized my level on agency on the situation but in a surprisingly different way, I realized how lucky I was to live in a place that, just like you said, provided me with many opportunities to be my own provider and leader, that's when I started to prioritize my needs, happiness and safety, I walked away from people, places, jobs and any situation that didn't make me feel safe, and focused on what gave me the security I needed to be the woman I always wanted to be, a safety relationship, a safety home and happy family and even a safety and well paid job that allows me to protect myself in this challenging environment. Now I know that my feminine energy is my rock and my strength because it lead me exactly to my own prosperity.
Don't give up girls, we can do it!
Yes, I think it is difficult when you are in a masculine work environment (IT).
The difference in your energy when dating is so crazy depending on if the man is masculine or feminine. First point was absolutely trueđŻ
Ah yess, please do a feminine fashion haul for summer I would love to get some ideas for my wardrobe
Your style is impeccable â¨
In my case, very simple: because "men" simply refuse to be in their masculine energy, no matter how I act.
I personally do as of right now because I feel like you can be the most in your feminine energy when you feel safe and stable in your life and right now I'm going through a really rough season and I really have to step up and take the lead, even if it's not necessarily what the "feminine energy" would look like.
My partner is very masculine, but there is a one big problem we seem to can't overcome - I am smarter than him. I know it, he knows it. I can't let him lead most of the time, because he makes stupid decisions. He wants the best for me, he showed it many times, but my logic works better almost every time. Some of the cases are simple, for example: I rest all day and when I am about to clean the house he tells me to go back to relaxing, because "I sound tired" [and no, he isn't cleaning instead, we don't live together yet]. As we can see his intentions are all the best, but logic... well... It's not there. I also have trouble with finances - most of our income is from my mother, who doesn't know how to manage it and who doesn't want to hear any advices, so I usually have to starve myself at the end of the month, because there is no money left for food [fortunately my partner is there for me to feed me, but I feel bad when he does that, because I can't give him much in return]. I am also at a very stressful moment in my life, because I just graduated, but there are some exams left + I have to find a job, so I can afford univercity. I can also add a childhood trauma to this list. While I'm writing this comment I feel like there is no hope for my femininity... But I will keep trying. Things will get better soon, I can feel it!
Iâm so sorry about your puppy!
Wow, this is an excellent video. Thank you so much. I recently discovered your channel and have really enjoyed the videos I've watched so far. But this one is especially relevant and helpful to me. It really resonates. I'm inspired and encouraged by the way you've addressed several specific elements here, including the way you disclosed a little bit about how these things pertain to your own life and experience. Although your overall level of glamour, confidence, and beauty seem out of reach for me, you present yourself and your ideas in a way that is inclusive, accessible, and adaptable. You make the concepts applicable to all women. Rather than feeling totally discouraged because of where I'm at right now, your insights and practical suggestions encourage me greatly, and your example is inspiring rather than intimidating--I think largely because you convey kindness and dignity rather than haughtiness. Thank you again for addressing the impact of trauma, grief, and stress on feminine energy.
I'm so sorry ot hear about your little dog :( I lost a very special little dog four months ago and it still is very painful for me to deal with. Sending you healing thoughts and love
Great video right on point! Sorry for your loss, losing a fur baby is very difficult, I understand the pain. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Yes please make a spring/summer haul! Love your style! And the dress you are wearing in this video is simply beautiful! â¤
Hello Lisa, thank you for the video and thank you for addressing past trauma.
This is definitely the case for me. I have been sexually abused for many years, being a woman was the reason for all my suffering.
Since a few years I'm learning to embrace my feminity, learning that it's beautiful. But I have to admit that it's very difficult.
I came a long way and still have a long way to go.
And you helped me greatly along that way!! â¤
Sending you so much love and light during this stressful time Lisa.
I feel being a single mum and prevent me from being in my feminine energy. I'm different people in my life and don't feel like I'm safe to relax as there is always something to put me in my masculine energy xxx
I have balked against being too feminine all of my life. Today I searched for a video to help me understand why that is. Every point you made as to why I relate to. I have a lot to overcome before I can truly tap into my feminine energy. You are absolutely right that always being in masculine energy is draining! I just want to relax and be a woman and feel empowered by doing so!
As you grow closer to the Lord, you will be less stressed. Femininity is our birthright. God will show you.
Femininity is so very much powerful when i tell that trust me on it i use to be so much muscular tomboy type girl on the other hand my bestie is so much feminine i use to hate femininity but know i know the power
Thank you for this video it's so hard sometimes to be in my feminine energy .
Iâm a single mom of a teenage boy, I find it difficult to feel feminine because I always have to hustle. I do have a bf and I notice when I am with him I feel very relaxed, safe, and taken care of; but I donât get to see him often because of course being a mama is my number one role. I donât know how to harness that soft, safe, fuzzy feeling I have when Iâm with my bf in my day to day âregularâ life.
iâm so sorry for the loss of your precious little dog ⥠i hope youâve found the healing & joy
I'm sorry your doggie died. That is incredibly painful. Thank you for your videos! I appreciate your old fashioned ideals in the modern world. Very encouraging!
Yess! Please make a summer haul!âĽď¸
I am So sorry for the loss of your fur baby. I am sending you hugs across the miles.
Lisa you're such an inspiration â¤
A very informative video! And before I get into my comments, happy belated birthday!
There have been moments when I have questioned, even in myself, why it's hard to be in the feminine energy. The topics you spoke about were right on point. I feel like there are a lot to external forces that prevent women from doing so, such as jobs, people, and maybe even family. It is unfortunate that femininity has been demonized in entertainment, when in fact it is the complete opposite. It is good to see that content like this is brining back the beauty of femininity and for what it really stands for and how important it can be in not just society, but also health.
Looking forward to your next video!
Thank you for addressing the struggle and trauma that can make this sooooo hard to rediscover the feminine
Your info and advice is spot on!!!
Yes, please do a summer wardrobe video!! Great video, as usual! Thank you!!
I am 57 and you are my absolute glamour favorite! Ohlala! Dahling!
Thank you for the video, Lisa đâ¤đ
I'm soo sorry for your Lisa âŁď¸đ¤. Grateful you still managed to film this video đđ
Thank you for helping me to tap in to my feminine energy đ it has brought me much of joy and love.
That dress is absolutely gorgeous! I love the fabric belt. Very nice.
Hi lisa. I watched your videos for some time last sunmerr.
Helped me SO much, ive lost my way again and ive found myself back at your amazing videos
A life saver.
Yes, please make a video about feminine clothes for spring. I would love to hear your recommendations!!
sorry to hear about your doggy â¤I was woundering, have you made a video on femininity and creativity? I feel like it would be great to talk about why its so important
i'm sorry about you dog, i hope you're doing okay, sending love to you during this time đ
I love, love, love this video (like most of your's)! đđ đ
I was raised in a single-mom household, so I had to take on my father's role early on in life.
Now, I want to return to my femininity. đşđš
Thank you so much Lisaâ¤ď¸I always learn soooo much from your videos! Really appreciate them!
Another amazing video thankyou! Also Iâm so sorry to hear about your dog pass I can only imagine how you feel especially since theyâre like familyâ¤ď¸ I feel like because I sometimes care what people think about me it causes my feminine energy to flee away at times
Stunning dressđ
Hi Lisa! Wonderfull video, i would love that you do a video about how you was your journey, till you finally reach this level of femeninity
Thank you Lisa đ
I'd love to be in my feminine energy all the time but people would tease and bother me.
This dress is so unique and gorgeous. I love it đ
Enjoy your channel. I am advocate of the Divine Feminine energy. Iâm sorry to hear about your dog. Happy Belated Birthday!!!
more videos about this topic, pleaseee
Amazing video!! Thank you for being so wonderful â¤
Thank you Lisa, ur awesomeâ¤
Your caring heart and love for Toby is still feminine energy, even whilst feeling the loss of him in sad times â¤
And can I just say point number 1!!! All other tips are valuable but without the feeling of SAFETY in your own mind and body then itâs very difficult to feel feminine. Whether your idea of safety is financial, health, love..anything that is helping us to feel secure and supported should be the focus.
Iâm 47 and peri menopause and this ties in to all the fluctuating hormones, one day Iâm safe, the next Iâm not. Itâs all a journey...đ
Yes to a haul! đ
Sorry about your pup. Take it easy. I know how hard it is to lose your dog.
Thank you your content always help us
Hey! Lisa your contents are just peaceful to watch and I love this video so so much you are my inspiration and I wish you reach 200K Subscribers very very soon!đŤđđ
Big huggs Lisa â¤
This was really very interesting. Our culture is overall very masculine and it really makes it difficult. Feminism did quite a bit of damage unfortunately.
Living in my feminine energy this a beautiful journey I appreciate all your video you assist with my awaken of feminine lifestyle, however can you express the negative experiences of be a feminine woman received from other woman who bully , Intagonize feminine woman then copy secrets.
Hello Lisa, i hope you are doing well. Looking beautiful as always. â¤, take care darling
I like your videos. Thank you for encouraging us đ¸đ¸đ¸đ¸đ¸đ¸đ¸
I want my daughter to take inspiration from you.
I love you and I love your videos â¤! I am from Saudi Arabia
hello Lisa my name is Yovana and I really love ur videos but most of all I adore you outfits.Could you please make a video of showing where do you buy these magnificent dresses
PLEASE HAULâ¤đ
Do you have tips to get more money ? As side of work ? Maybe something online ? I live alone with my dog and Iâm 28 years old and I want more money to feel safe
I've been told a thousand times by my father: "I'll end up in jail but you'll be under 2m".
I love being in my feminine energy in all areas except my love life. Being feminine in love life leads to both of us leaning back and neither of us moving things forward. We are socialized to be passive in our love lives and I feel the need to undo that.
This is false. Femininity is not passivity . It is receptive. That doesn't mean you let things just happen to you.
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I've been a Tom boy my entire life. I enjoy masculine activities. I struggle. I find being feminine boring. I feel vulnerable in dresses. I would cry, rebel and scream as a little girl whenever my mom made me wear dresses. I begged my mom to let me wear shorts underneath. Sometimes, she'd bend let me wear shorts underneath. ( Boys at our school would flip girls dresses and laugh. They never were reprimanded. The whole boys will be boys bs mentality.)đ
I'd tell her, mom, can't run in heels and in a dress.
I would rather be riding my motorcycle vs getting my nails done. I'll take a thrill seeking activity. I enjoy teaching martial arts too.
It's frustrating too feminine frowned upon and looked weak. Too masculine as a woman frowned upon. Unappealing. Men are intimidated by you or say your b**chy. I say screw it, have fun and be whoever doing whatever you want.
However, I can switch back and forth but I feel more feminine in a goth punk style. I don't wear black lipstick. I prefer leather over lace. I feel comfortable and confident in jeans.
I've been called the girl next door look. I don't know if that's a bad thing or a good thing? I've heard opposing viewpoints from men and women. Let me know what you think?
My favorite shade is true red. Can that be considered a dark feminine fatale energy? Goth? Punk?
I feel my most feminine energy when dancing. I'm taking dance classes and love it. That's probably the only time I feel feminine.
Other than that I'm a solo wolf on guard constantly. It's eat or get eaten. You are your own infantry. You can only rely on you to defend yourself and serve yourself.
Trust isn't given. It's earned and hard to come by now and days.
We live in a patriarchal society. Even though matriarchs keep families running. Keep in mind that I believe in. E.O. ( equal opportunity).
I think as some women feel like there is a standard to keep up and be the top lioness. That's stressful. Always competing for a better paycheck or better things. Competing to be heard and not be mentrify. Left feeling vulnerable in different ways. Not trusting because of some men in our lives have let us down repetitively. Family, friends, or mates. Some has caused trauma.
On another note, I'm sorry to hear of your little dog passing away. My condolences Lisa.
It's never easy losing a furry baby.
Please reply my comment Lisa đđ
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But I'm with a man who is basically a man child
Dump him