Mom Calls her Daughter a LOSER?!
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- čas přidán 24. 06. 2024
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Story 1: OP is good apple. OP has been on them from day one to take care of their end of things. There is no excuse unless doc has put her on bed rest for the daughter in law to not be picking up after herself. If she can fix herself food, she can put her dirty dishes in the sink. She can even take 5 seconds to rinse them off so that they are ready to go into the dishwasher. Dirty clothes in a hamper. And so forth. No excuse to disrespect someone else’s home that is allowing you to stay in by not picking up after yourself even at 8 months pregnant.
Agreed. There is no discussion of deep cleaning or going on her hands and feet to scrub the floor. Putting one’s shoes away - or even just taking them off in a spot where they are not a tripping hazard - and taking care of dirty dishes after eating is not a crazy expectation.
I do agree that kicking an 8 months pregnant woman out the house is not a good idea, even if they are super annoying, but I think OP just had enough after tripping. She could have seriously hurt herself or even broken something. The daughter-in-law’s actions are a potential danger to others.
Though I will agree with Mrs. Rogers that she should have spoken up months before. She did ask them over and over, but she never gave them the ultimatum when this girl was in a physical standing to be able to do it and stick to it. I agree she is being messy and needs to help clean up. I carried both my kids to 10 months and not only did I work to nine months, and seven months with my kids, but I cleaned up fully until I was nine months pregnant. But the stress that you put on a pregnant woman that’s eight months pregnant by threatening to kick her out for things that she may now have a limitation for that she did not have limitations for before could cause unnecessary stress on the baby
Yeah, most women can do light chores all the way up until giving birth. If there was some chores she couldn't do, like sitting on her knees or picking up something, she can ask for chores she can do. Laundry, dishes, putting away things. There is no excuse to do nothing.
Agreed
Rebecca, she’s been limited (in her participation) the whole time. If she cleans up after herself as she goes. She’s been telling them all along to clean up and they haven’t done it so you can’t stay or say if she had started six months ago because she had.
For story one: she said she had been asking her for months. She had every right to be mad. She tripped and could have really hurt herself.
I agree with Rebecca and this. (Mainly on the putting the foot down months ago). She could have really hurt herself. This is the straw that broke the cammel's back.
@@Lu13s in my opinion, Rebecca was completely wrong. She tried to be understanding but had been telling them for months that she needed help, and I can tell you being 8 months pregnant does not make it to where you can't help or at least move your shoes.
On number one she said that when she walked in the door and tripped over the daughter in laws shoe while carrying groceries that was the last straw. Just because you're 8 months pregnant doesn't mean you can't move your shoes. Yes she can't scrubs a floor or toilet but she can do dishes and not leave her crap around the house. And she has been complaining all along but the daughter in law just ignored her.
This! The daughter-in-law’s carelessness is a safety hazard. OP could have seriously hurt herself or even broken something. Pregnancy can be difficult for some women but that is not an excuse to create a dangerous situation for other people.
Honestly at 8 months it is harder to move but chores are not a problem . Now I wouldn't be crawling on the floor washing it by hand but they make mops. The more you move and stretch the easier labor is. So if her Dr doesn't have any restrictions there is no problem cleaning
She is at least able to pick up after herself and put her shoes away
Exactly. If she can take her shoes off she can decide where to take them off. If she can get food out of the fridge she should be expected to throw the plate in the sink (or garbage depending on material.) All the mom wants is her to pick up after herself, not do all these back bending activities.
It also bothers me Rebecca is acting like OP hasn't been asking for months. It's clear she's been asking repeatedly since they've moved in. She just finally put her foot down.
@@blank6023 the last straw was when she tripped over the shoe
@@JessFirefox exactly
"what kinda mom bullies their child?" girl MINE SINCE FOREVER😭
Baby, same. I'm so sorry.
@@sweariefaerie9621 thank you girl:( i'm sorry about yours too:(
oh no! i hope that u both r able to get a support system and get out ♥️
@@nyahtonks3914 thank you❤❤
Same, I'm so sorry
Story 3 hits so hard for me, my husband passed in Sept and me and his parents are closer than ever and I’m so happy we are. I would never take away my children’s grandparents ❤️
So sorry for your loss 🌻
For the 3rd story: OPs children come first. And this includes maintaining a relationship with paternal grandparents. There's so many red flags with boyfriend. Grandparents are the relationship should be the ultimadum.
You're 100% right. I hate when people put their lover over their children. If she's a good mother, she'll kick this "loser" to the curb. How long until her lover tells the kids they should forget their father because he's dead. If she had children with this new guy, would he treat her other children as less than.
Also the argument that only family should be invited. The grandparents are family!
Story 3: Good Apple; those grandparents are a part of their grandkids lives, and for the BF to not want them involved in the kids lives is a huge red flag.
Story #1 - I feel this is a tough situation because everyone is stressed and in a tense spot. OP is already resenting the living situation, the son and daughter-in-law are stressed about their situation, and the daughter-in-law has the added strain of being pregnant. Basically no one is happy. For right now, I think OP should allow them to stay until the baby is born (because it's the decent thing to do) but afterward it would probably be better for everyone if the son and his wife moved out. Yes, they'd struggle for a little bit, but it would be better in the long-run.
Or heres an idea… after they have the baby… they or well the one staying home and not working can clean, sure she should have recovery time but after
Story 4: Good Apple; sometimes the people who think peaking in high school actually matters when it doesn’t need to have reality whack them harshly in the face, and if that’s by their mom, so be it.
My in laws are truly AMAZING! If my husband passed away, I would 100% keep them in mine and my children’s lives and if someone told me not to, I would leave that person.
Those people who reminisce about high school like it’s the glory days peaked in high school. And I feel sorry for those people.
Here’s my thing, story 1, in theory she could be too physically pregnant to clean. But she’s not too pregnant to wash dishes or take her shoes off and put them in the correct spot or fold laundry. There should be no reason why someone is tripping over her stuff on the floor. Mom is a good Apple. Daughter in law is 100% in the wrong.
Yes
Story 1: If the daughter in law picked up her dishes and tidied after herself the MIL would understand some limitations. 99% of pregnant women have run their households, careers and taken care of other kids if medically clear to do so. I had HG which is 9 months 24/7 morning sickness and I still baseline functioned for my husband (he was very helpful and accommodating) and kids.
Light cleaning while 8 months pregnant is not asking a lot. I was cleaning and taking care of my 22 month old at the time the day before my 2nd was born last year.
Rebecca, I love how you respectfully tell people not to argue!
What kind of mom bullies their kid? Mine. Until the day she died. When my sisters called me to tell me she died, my words were "Oh, I'm so sorry for your loss!" And I truly was. They lost a mom that loved them & cared about them. However, I lost a woman that barely even liked me & I don't have a hole in my life now that she's gone. I actually have healed a lot since she passed & I like to say that my sisters and my brother and I don't have to pretend to like each other now that Mom's gone. Life moves on.
I love how respectful you are in the beginning of your videos, love you Ms.Rogers!
Story 1; The mom had asked them constantly throughout the pregnancy to clean up after themselves. The kids just kept putting it off and not doing it. The mom mentioned that in her story. I think that MOM had an incredible amount of patience with them, but after 8 months of the same thing over an over, she reached the end of her rope and had enough.
On #1, I’ve had two very large boys. I was cleaning until the day they were born. At this stage she probably can’t get on hands and knees but they do make tools. Unless there is an enclosed room and materials with fumes are used, there isn’t really any restrictions unless she is having complications and has to be on bed rest. I was even cleaning some on bed rest. She is being lazy. Being active is actually good for labor and recovery. I ended up with 2 c-sections because my boys’ shoulders wouldn’t fit through my pelvis, but being active definitely helped with recovery and being able to take care of my boys. OP is good apple.
Well for story one: Don't forget OP is literally a mom too lol so she would know. Also, different women have different limits in what they can and can't do during pregnacy but I do believe OP is a good apple to expect her DIL to clean up after herself or for her son to pick up the slack. I've also seen a woman 8 months pregnant wearing heels and shopping and another one 9 months along just before her due date, out partying at a club. Some women can just do it. 🤣
Story 2: GOOD APPLE!!!!
Story 3: GOOD APPLE!!!! RUN GIRL RUN!
Story 4: GOOD APPLE!!!! Yes your daughter is truly a loser. She seems like the "cheerleader" girl that peaked in HS lol.
All good apples for me. Apple pie!!
THIS!!! ALL THIS! :)
Story 2, absolutely good apple! If someone has issues with someone being themselves, that says more about them than it does about the person who is just trying to live their life!
Third story: that makes me so mad. As a child whose father passed and mother was remarried. If my step dad were to say something about my dad’s family and me needing to stop doing stuff with them, not invited them to the wedding, etc. I would explode. I would probably completely go NC with him. Run. For. The. Hills.
Story #1. I have had 4 kids and know many women who have had kids too. Yes, sometimes pregnancy is taxing on your body. But unless you have a high risk pregnancy and are on bed rest, you can do simple chores and clean up after yourself no problem. This girl is just lazy and has not lived up to what she agreed to when they moved in.
All mom is asking (has been) is to clean up after herself. I've seen women who were about to pop do superhero type crap(if the pregnancy is completely healthy) and this girl can't even kick her shoe so they are at least out of the way
Story 4 - She absolutely peaked in high school. Yeah, it's ok to reminisce about some things, but she is still living in it and can't move on. I have a friend like that but his peak was college rather than high school. He constantly brings up stuff that happened in the past and rarely asks about what's currently going on or what plans are for future stuff. It's honestly toxic even though I still like him as a friend, I'm just glad we only do occasional video calls since he lives out of state from me. It's fun to chat and hang out, but there's only so much I can handle of him at a time.
I totally agree that High School should NOT be the best time of your life. I mean eek.
Story #3: Why does the current boyfriend feel threatened by her deceased husband and his family? Her in-laws are still her family and her children's family. OF COURSE they should be there!
Story #3 - This feels like another example of a problem that could be resolved if all parties just communicated and listened to each other.
aka 99% of the problems in tv shows😭
Story 1: GOOD apple!! Even if you have pregnancy complications you ARE able to put away your shoes!!
That is just laziness and entitlement!
I was blessed to be able to work a physical labor job untill week 32.
That is the same as 8 months pregnant.
Pregnant and princess might start with the same two letters but it is not the same!!
When my grandma was 7 months pregnant with her second kid (my uncle), she was at the playground with my dad when a kid got "trapped" at the top of the play set so she climbed the fence and climbed through the play set to get her down, and shes never been the most fit person and she admits that
For story 1, I say good apple. While every woman has a different experience, I’d say a majority of women with uncomplicated pregnancies can handle basic cleaning/housework while 8 months pregnant. Sure, I hated every minute of it when I was pregnant because I was so uncomfortable 😂 but I was more than capable and just did it anyway.
My blood related uncle is good friends with his ex wife mainly because my mom.put her foot down and said they were divorcing each other and not the family. After time apart they realized that she was right and started being friends. Over 20 years later she still goes on family vacations at times,including with my uncle.
Story #1. Currently 8.5 months pregnant and I still clean around the house/ do chores. All women are different, but most can still load the dishwasher, clean the counters, etc. She should be able to do something to help. The story sounds like the pregnant lady is taking too much advantage of the mom.
Story 4: This is the exact reason why I am so proud of myself for not peaking in high school lol. I think the mom is a good apple.
Story 1: it sounds like mom has been asking the entire time for them to help. She can clean and pick up without issue(as long as her Dr hasn't placed her on bedrest). Mom is good apple
i love that she got so passionate about story 3 that she didn't even remember the question, and was like "what? why would that even be possible??" when she looked at it again 😭
Story 1: I'm a mom of two. OP is a good apple. She just finally had it after almost falling and months of asking them to clean up. Pain creates change.
Story #4 - Crab apple. While I get where OP is coming from, I don't believe parents should ever call their child a name that could be interpreted as bullying.
I agree with you completely.
Story #3 is 100% good apple. That's the children's grandparents and they should be there.
My brother did something very similar when he and my SIL divorced after 30 yrs of marriage and 3 children. He said we had to stop talking to her and inviting her to family gatherings. My sisters and I told him SIL is our niece and nephews' mother, she is still family, and has been family for over 50 yrs. We still talk to her to this day. We haven't seen him in 3 years cause his gf doesn't like that we talk to SIL.
For story #3, she is 100% the good apple! My brother passed when his kids were little, and when my SIL remarried, we were invited to the wedding. Her children with her new husband are my nieces and I call him my BIL. He comes to our family Christmas parties and has attended many other family events for his wife’s dead husband’s family. I hope that woman finds the love of her life that can be just like my BIL!
Story 1 We weren't given a list of what the "choirs" are, so it's hard to know if it's reasonable for a pregnant person. If we are talking about getting up and throwing away trash after eating a snack then yeah she can do it. If we mean bending down and picking up her shoes that might be difficult. Maybe slipping off her shoes at least in a corner out of the way. I'd say anything that requires heavy lifting or bending down would be unreasonable, and no I don't mean throwing something on the floor and going well now I can't pick that up. I actually got pretty good picking up things with my feet during pregnancy.
Story 4 It was not ok to call her a loser. Her mom should have told Kelly that about Sarah instead of sinking to that level. There should have been a conversation on what Kelly should/could do to be where she wants to be financially. Ultimately, Kelly needs to stop fixating on this competition she's created with Sarah, and focus more on Kelly, herself. The mom trying to solve this by telling her daughter she's a loser in this unhealthy competition helps nobody. Kelly will absolutely now double down.
Personally; all good apples. I’ve been pregnant (twice) & yes, there are things at 8 months along I wouldn’t recommend, but picking up after yourself, putting your dishes away & keeping things neat and tidy are completely reasonable unless on strict bed rest. By the way, if the DIL is this bad now, wait til the baby is born! She’s going to blame “taking care of the baby/child” as an excuse to do nothing & expect everyone around her to wait on her hand & foot. Line needs to be drawn in the sand now or they need to move out.
Third story; I’m sorry but run, break it off, he’s toxic & you don’t need that let alone your children! He’s trying to push out their late father’s family!!! That’s disgusting. He has to go girl, please if not for you, for your kids!
I was pregnant at 24, and my now husband and I moved in to my mother's house. We paid $200 a month and had our own food. The only stipulation was we had to keep the house clean. My parents and my brother (16) we're not good at keeping the house clean, and I would clean the entire house while pregnant and working, I worked all the way up to my due date, and after mu C-section I still kept the house clean. When you have expectations in return for free housing, you do it. There's no excuse.
I think for story 1, it's that the mom had been asking her to help out since the start and she wouldn't. 8 months pregnant or not there are chores that can be done that aren't physically demanding. Like dishes, folding laundry, making sure her shoes are somewhere out of the way.. daughter in law is being lazy and using her pregnancy as an excuse. Since there is nothing about her being bed ridden in her. I say the mother is good apple.
While every pregnancy is different, I was way more spry and physically competent at 8 months than in the first trimester, when literally all I could manage was to sleep.
unrelated people get invited to weddings all the time it's not uncommon
4 good apples. Mom should have kicked them out in month two. They have the financial means, so kick them out. Some people work, move their house and defend theses in their 8th month. Her son and daughter in law are entitled.
Each woman will be different, but unless the doctor has put the pregnant lady on limited duties then she can do most stuff. The mom did ask for months to have these people do.
I had a co-worker when I was a CNA at a nursing home that did all her duties (changing people, moving people, picking up after the people) till 2 days before she delivered.
Story 4 crab apple. It is never okay to call someone a loser.
I think the “loser” one goes beyond being an exception and is just not even bullying, unless OP embellished the story to make it sound less harsh. If someone who peaked in high school feels entitled to more than someone who worked hard and justifies it saying the other person was a loser in high school, it isn’t even bullying to tell them they’re the loser now. That’s just meeting them where they are by using their own terminology to get through to them how the situation has changed.
Story 3: My great grandpa's brother died when he was in his twenties, leaving behind a wife and no kids. The wife still stayed close with them for several years. After my great Grandpa died, she got engaged to her old high school sweetheart. My great grandma attended the wedding of her sister law.
They were connected by two brothers who had both died, yet they still stayed incredibly close.
For story 3 I'm super confused. Why is the husband's late parents not considered family? Because 1 those are her children's grandparents, and that is her children's family. And since her children are her family, her children's family are her family. And 2, who doesn't consider they're married family their new family. For my family, when some marries our relatives, we practically adopt their spouse into our family. Is that not a normal thing? So in my mind, she should've already considered them family before the children even came into the equation.
Story 3 good apple. Nana and papa should be there at the wedding for the kids.
First story: they did ask, multiple times. Nothing changed. Putting dishes in a dishwasher and putting them away totally is possible at 8 months. Putting shoes in a closet or shoe rack, totally possible. Scrubbing the tub maybe not, but keeping things picked up and put in their spot, yes possible. I say good apple.
#1- unless there are pregnancy complications, she can absolutely do quite a bit of cleaning. And at 8 months, extra energy often kicks in in the form of nesting. Sounds like she is using her pregnancy as an excuse for not doing anything to help out. Also, it sounded like the mom has been asking for months, and it just came to a breaking point here.
For the first story even if she is on light activity, she can put her take off her shoes in the designated area and not leave her dishes and things wherever. And the mother-in-law has been asking both her son and mother to be to clean the whole time. I'm not sure if the OP was a good apple but she was mostly justified in having an issue with the daughter-in-law's messiness.
Story 1: She has been asking for months however I think waiting until NOW to finally have enough and threaten to kick them out might be a little bit of bad timing so I think crab apple is still fair.
Story 2: No you are an adult you're not the bad apple.
Story 3: He's being ridiculous. That is your children's grandparents! Girl please RUN!
Story 4: Sometimes tough love is what is needed so good apple
Yeah I agree with 1. Putting the foot down now rather than sooner did make op look bad. She had 6 months before this blew up. I feel like it's punishing the unborn child too.
In story number 1 mom asked both her son and DiL to clean after themselves the moment they moved in (she said it was 6 month prior so DiL was only 2 months pregnant). She also repeated it multiple times. I am 5 months pregnant and I do all the house chores. By the end of the pregnancy I could see how it can get tough but sorry DiL was living in this house for months so no excuse for her.
For story number one, the mother said that the daughter-in-law has not been cleaning for the last 6 months either. So she would have only been too much pregnant rather than eight. I think the daughter-in-law. It's just messy.
For those who are new!
Someone who was in the right - Good Apple
Someone who was in the wrong - Bad Apple
Someone who was in the middle (grey area) - Crab Apple
All Good Apples in a story - Good bushel
All Good Apples in a video - Apple Pie
All Bad Apples in both a story and/or the video - Bad Batch
(If I’m missing any terms, lemme know and I’ll edit!)
Side note, for all Crab Apples in a video (which hasn’t happened yet), I recommend Crab Cakes, Crab Basket, or Crab Batch. I personally like Crab Cakes the most
For story 1: I became pregnant immediately after my first child. I'm also a military spouse. House hold chores, grocery shopping landed mostly on me. I was pregnant and had an infant. She was asked and told if you stay at the house you need to help with the chores. Not a crab apple from my point of view. Unless she was on bed rest/limited activity then maybe but she can still pick up after herself and do some small things. My 3rd child I was on limited activities. Which once again stationed overseas, military spouse most things landed on me and I had to be very careful, but still was able to keep a clean house.
#1: Good apple all the way. The mom was asking them to clean up after themselves before they ever moved in. There is nothing to keep a woman who is eight months pregnant from picking up her shoes so that people don't trip!! The mom has asked and asked both her son and his girlfriend/wife over and over to clean up after themselves. Good apple all the way!!! (And I was doing normal cleaning around the house until birth with all four of my kids despite complications with all four pregnancies. The son's girlfriend/wife has no excuse!
My dad died when I was 11yo & we were very close to his parents. When my mom (whose parents both died before my dad) got a boyfriend and it turned long term, we still had Sunday dinners with my grandparents every week. My mom & stepdad were closer to my dad’s family than even stepdad’s family. It really is what you make of it. But I will definitely say that if stepdad didn’t want a relationship with my grandparents, my mom would have cut ties with stepdad.
As a teen I had a gf whose mother was just horrible to her. She couldn't figure out why. Eventually she learned that her mother and grandmother had had a horrible toxic relationship and her mom was projecting that relationship onto her daughter.
I can’t imagine losing a parent and then not being allowed to see my grandparents any more wtf
As far as the first story is concerned, I agree with your "Crab Apple" ruling, and I'll give you some context as to why I'm doing so. My cousin got pregnant with her first child at 27, and her then fiance and now husband worked full time. Her pregnancy was rough and high-risk, but even despite that, she did all the necessary housekeeping tasks up until her 8th month. After that point, me and my other cousins would come over to her house periodically and help out with the more physical tasks as needed. Her little boy is now almost 2 1/2 and things are back to normal for them, but that's why I agree with "Crab Apple" here.
story #1...she is not bed-bound. If she can make a mess, she can clean it up. She's not that limited. You are being too kind on the kid 😅
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Stories like these are so relaxing to watch❤
Story1 good apple. I was pregnant work 40 hrs a week planing a weding doing housework cooking ect. Pregnant doesnt mean u are not capable.
1st story. I’ve had 2 children. While I was pregnant both times, I still cleaned, cooked and worked a full time job. It is tough to pick things up at 8 months bc you can’t even see your feet at that stage so it’s tough. It also depends on if she’s considered a high risk pregnancy, when that happens, it is recommended by the doctor that the mom to be stays off her feet. I’d say the MIL is a crab apple 🦀🍎
For story 1: I'm not a mom either, and while I know that times are different now, my mom always reminds me that pregnant women in our village used to work outside, picking olives and strawberries, until they were in labor. She even told me stories of women giving birth while working. It's insane to think about nowadays, but moral of this story is, if pregnant women were able to do this not even 40 years ago, unless they're on doc mandated bed rest, they are absolutely capable of cleaning up after themselves a little. From the story, it doesn't sound like OP is asking her to do something super strenuous, just some tidying up.
I've had 3 kids and difficult pregnancies. At 8mo I was working as a nanny and cleaning for work. She is not very physically limited. She can do everything except maybe a lot of picking up off the floor. It's easier pregnant than postpartum and she's just making a massive mess so she isn't just not cleaning, she's making it worse. Definitely good apple. Better now than before the baby comes. Then she may never get her to change.
Pregnancies can vary, and some are more limited, some are not.
For the first story, it sounded like the mom was asking for months but kind of blew up at the daughter in law at 8 months pregnant. I’’ve never been pregnant, I’m not a mom, and not even a woman… so I showed this to my mother. My mother stated that she thinks the expectation is that the daughter in law tidy up after herself, not clean. Pregnant women can do things like use their foot to slide their shoes out of a walking path, clear off the bathroom counter by putting make up back in the make up bag, and move the dirty dishes to the sink. She understands cleaning as scrubbing the sink, mopping the floor, or anything else that involves cleaning supplies rather than just moving stuff around to clear space. My and my mother’s interpretation of this was the expectation of the daughter in law to tidy up after herself, not clean.
Story #1 OP says that she was bugger her since she was about 2 months pregnant. The fact the daughter-in-law can't clean after herself at 2-6 months is slothy, lazy, slobby. 8 months is one month away from birth but the fact OP couldn't pick up after herself before makes OP good apple.
“You want them to be able to feed them pieces of their father” is an absolutely unhinged sentence out of context.
I was showing my mom my cheer while I was doing basketball and she loved basketball so I was showing her and I messed up a few times but when I was almost done she said “maybe you should stick to basketball “ and I cried and she said that she was just giving me constructive criticism😢
Isn't it funny how people only whip out the "maybe you shouldn't be so political" when you say something they don't agree with it.
It's impossible to not be political, because politics is literally how we decide how we want our society to function. How can I just... Not have an opinion on that?
Story #1. It's true that you are limited. You can't be out in the heat for a long period of time, you shouldn't clean the cat litter or use bleach, but if s pregnant person truly believes they can't complete household chores like the dishes, or the laundry, taking out the trash, etc. Then they are in for a hard life.
I've been pregnant 4 times and the only time I was ever limited on what I did was this last time because I had hyperemesis and I was basically dead. No exaggerating there. UNTIL I got my zofran pump and my sub q pump for fluids. Then I was able to cook and clean again.
I think all good apples. I know a few mothers on bed rest that could still keep the stuff they used clean.
Story 4 - you can have fun stories about high school and your teenage years and talk with your frineds about those stories for laughs or whatever, but acting as if that was the most important time of your life is weird. Yeah, it was a formative time, but also were my early 20s and my childhood.
Peaking in highschool is kind of sad
Story 3: I couldn't possibly agree more with what you said about major red flags. What if the three children speak of their father and their "bonus person" (not using the f word, he'll never be that) says that they need to move past their father cause he's dead. I could actually see this guy saying something so awful. She needs to put her children first and wash that man right out of her hair. Story 4: I might have said crabapple if the daughter hadn't called her sister a loser. She put the word out into the ether. The daughter could go back to college or a trade school and find herself a more lucrative career. Or maybe realize that she might have some advantages that her younger sister doesn't have. Many her sister has to spend a lot of time at work or has more stress with the responsibility of her career. There's got to be something because no one person's life is golden, there are tradeoffs in life.
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I realise not all mum's are the same, but when my mum was 8 months pregnant with me, she was retiling the bathroom floor in time for my brother's birthday so he wouldnt be embarrassed that the bathroom hadnt been finished in time for his party.
But my mum is also a bit nuts when it comes to things like that, she likes to be the martyr. I love her so much though xxx
Story 1: Good apple. First she’s been asking for months for them to clean and they were told they needed to do that before moving in. Also, my bff was in a car accident when she was pregnant and messed up her back and she was still able to do minor cleaning. She load and unloaded the dishwasher, picked up her clothes, put clothing in the washer and dryer ( her husband had to get it out because she’s short and the machines were top loading). She also was able to pick up her own shoes and didn’t take them off where someone could trip over them.
18:09 So true. I cannot wait to be a wife and mom. That will hopefully be the greatest time of my life. Especially making my parents grandparents and raising kind children.
When I was pregnant with my 3rd my 2nd was Les than a year old. They are 16 months apart. I was carrying my 1 year old and changing diapers and washing dishes and clothes and cleaning house at 8 months pregnant. It can be done. even if it is ideal to want to rest and relax it is not practical or considerate of other people’s time and money to do
Story one: I cleaned, cooked, and worked full-time until 5 pm the day before my son was born at 2 am the next morning.
That said, it wasn't easy, and my house wasn't pristine. But I was able to do everything that was needed. However, every pregnancy is different. I have a friend who said she was so glad her first was easy, and her baby wasn't fussy because her second pregnancy was rough, and that baby was very fussy.
I understand being frustrated with the clutter.
For story 1: I would say Crab Apple because there are people who have different standards of cleaning and I know people who are OCD and have a very high t standard and we don’t know how high her standards are
Also can I just say I love your outfit!!
Recommendation watch the video again, this time hold down on your screen for the third explanation, Rebecca sounds furious it's awesome 😎😂❤
Story 1 perspective. I totally agree crabapple. From the sound of it she has been asking for them to clean since day one and is just fed up.
On the pregnancy side, She could have really bad pregnancy brain. When pregnant, your brain shrinks similar to what happens when you're drunk. For little things like leaving dishes out and shoes on the floor, that is totally understandable. I mean with both my pregnancies I for some reason put our toaster in the fridge almost every day. No idea why.
On a more serious end I had health issues which my second pregnancy that literally made it unsafe for me to do basic everyday cleaning. I actually lost friends over it because my sink was always full of dirty dishes. (Baby was pushing on an artery and I would pass out if I stood for more than 5 min)I know there is no mention of restrictions, but in my experience it sometimes doesn't matter how well you explain restrictions, some people just don't get it.
Strongly agree with you on 4
Late husband’s parents are still the children’s grandparents. Of course they should be in their their lives.
I love ur videos
I agree it should have been put down way sooner but the reality of it is if you can’t keep your house clean and safe at best you could have your kid taken from you at worse something horrible happens and you lose your kid a different way it’s not something you can just brush off
Story 1 unless she had been told not to do house work by a Dr or suffering with HG, then she'd fully capable if helping out
The day my daughter was born was both the best day and the worst day of my life.
Story 3: Your significant other should want the children to have the WIDEST support system as possible. He should love that they have those grandparents.