Moving Your Filipina In To Your Home Could Cause A DISASTER!

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  • @GiointhePhilippines
    @GiointhePhilippines  Před měsícem +2

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  • @oahuguy3918
    @oahuguy3918 Před měsícem +16

    It's always a bigger decision a single guy thinks it is. But once you've made the mistake, it sticks when you realize how much of your freedom you lose.

  • @VENEMPASTOR
    @VENEMPASTOR Před měsícem +8

    If she doesn't have her own money, if she's a single mom and if her family can't financially sustain themselves without your money,
    DON'T GET INVOLVED!

    • @Ron4885
      @Ron4885 Před měsícem

      @@VENEMPASTOR 💯%

  • @vimassdaproductions4321
    @vimassdaproductions4321 Před měsícem +17

    No marriage, no cohabitation. Keep your peace, quiet, and freedom.

    • @RealGaryGibson
      @RealGaryGibson Před měsícem

      Keep your boredom.

    • @VENEMPASTOR
      @VENEMPASTOR Před měsícem

      ​@@RealGaryGibson
      Enjoy getting taken.
      Enjoy your downfall.
      Enjoy creating monsters.
      Her families appreciate you.

  • @EddyMuneybags
    @EddyMuneybags Před měsícem +9

    Some of these girls have made a career out of getting money from 4 or 5 guys at the same time. I was at western union and saw a woman get in line 4 times and sure as hell she was getting money from a different guy each time she got in line. She got over a $1000 USD in one day while I was there.

    • @wayneclose5299
      @wayneclose5299 Před měsícem

      Sometimes your little head takes over just give her a x number of days …then ….move to a new island

  • @georgevwalking
    @georgevwalking Před měsícem +7

    Getting married could be a bigger disaster
    Men continue to make silly decisions when it comes to woman
    In the west in asia no difference
    Some guys never learn

  • @4abetteru
    @4abetteru Před měsícem +8

    Thank you, Gio, for sharing very practical information from your own life experience and story.
    I was advised over and over during my last 5 month stay, primarily in Cebu, to go slow when it comes to forming a relationship with a Filipina.
    As you pointed out, it is low risk for a Filipina to get attached but high risk for the foreigner.
    Personally, I like the privacy, security and comfort of having my own "man cave" space that I can retreat to without any worries or cares.

  • @PuppetMasta2077
    @PuppetMasta2077 Před měsícem +13

    Do you think they lie sometimes just to guilt trip men when in reality they dont actually live in the squatter areas?

    • @GiointhePhilippines
      @GiointhePhilippines  Před měsícem +11

      I haven't come across that yet but they do lie sometimes about sick relatives, broke phones, no food, etc...

  • @superbirden57
    @superbirden57 Před měsícem +9

    Instant coffee. Instant pudding. Instant girlfriend

  • @RawContent
    @RawContent Před měsícem +2

    I'm so familiar with this. Great one to post Gio. THIS IS SO TRUE. And I never judge but until you see it, people can't imagine and the culture shock. ~Peter

  • @nairb9321
    @nairb9321 Před měsícem +5

    I was living with a very attractive pinay off and on.. when we were together she became pregnant. 9 months later a beautiful little girl was born. My name as father. Everyone was saying how much she looked like me everyday. I was thinking something not right. I secretly did a DNA test. 3 weeks the results were in my email. Brian you are NOT the father. I confronted her about who the father is. She knows him as a hook up. 7 months later, I returned to the US. I told her I had doctors appointments. I'm not planning on coming back to PI. Can she hunt me down for money?

    • @cookybuna1859
      @cookybuna1859 Před měsícem

      @nairb9321 if you re not the Father and mostly importantly if you re two not married
      No haunting just ignore that filipina modus schemes of scams
      Be careful of filipina they re not as they seem to be !

    • @kgkgkgkgkg
      @kgkgkgkgkg Před měsícem +1

      You good don’t go back though

    • @YourFilipinaGrace
      @YourFilipinaGrace Před měsícem +2

      Nah, she does not have the right to ask money from you when you're not the biological father of the baby.

    • @clb24
      @clb24 Před měsícem

      Does she know your U.S. address and passwords?

  • @DACTION1209
    @DACTION1209 Před 7 dny

    Gio, my brother. I really appreciate your honest approach to explaining life and providing guidance in the Philppines. Great Advice! What city are you living? I've taken a look at Christian Filipina and based on what I have seen, all of the ladies reaching out and showing any interest in me are much older and heavier than I have any interest. I've had friends say they found to be a waste of their time and resources. I've also heard the stories of people, that I don't know personally, indicate that they have had success on the site.

  • @richardhogeland8597
    @richardhogeland8597 Před měsícem +3

    Funny you said when you had your Filipina move in, usually they try to move in after first time together and never leave

  • @habashanyair777
    @habashanyair777 Před měsícem +6

    Get two houses 🏠
    First house is your main house
    No one comes there unless your wife and fully vetted for at least a few months to a year
    Next
    Get a burner house 🏠
    A place you keep a few things and don’t care to lose in events you meet a psychopath
    Believe super evil some woman here

    • @gigantor62
      @gigantor62 Před měsícem +1

      I married one of those evil ones. No regrets because I have two beautiful teenage daughters from the marriage, but she turned demonic after she was westernised and we separated. She threatens to kill me in front of our children all the time. I sent money back to her family once a month for 15 years, and paid for her son to go to a private school. Now he's turned 18 he doesn't want to know me and I have nothing. She took the money she got from my house after we sold it and kidnapped my girls. They're in the Philippines now, and I don't have any money to try and find them. 😢 You see all these videos on CZcams with filipino girls smiling and happy.....it makes me sick now. All of her filipino friends and family turned on me. 😢 Please stay away from them guys.

  • @randall811
    @randall811 Před měsícem +2

    Always appreciate your insight and input and real life experiences

  • @roger.b8046
    @roger.b8046 Před měsícem +7

    Once inside your home they will have no intention to leave, and if they leave without a fight you know she stole something valuable 😅

    • @dsrrellgriffith1161
      @dsrrellgriffith1161 Před měsícem +2

      what can she steal? Hide your money, and do not leave her alone in your place. I usually lock my laptop in my suitcase, and never keep large amount of cash in room. I had a gf living with me one time, i was tired of her noise in the condo and on phone 24hrs. So one day i told her my friend had an emergency in the province, and i need to go help him for awhile. I told her to get her stuff and go home and wait for me. I never called or texted her back, she never bothered me again. I have had to do this 3 times over 7 years, it always worked so far.

    • @YourFilipinaGrace
      @YourFilipinaGrace Před měsícem

      @roger.b8046 - Please do not generalize Filipinas. There's a looooot of proper, modest, smart and educated women in the Philippines. Western men who experienced being stolen of something must have met the wrong ones because they do focus first on the girl's physical appearance OR these men are not a good judge of character. 😉

    • @YourFilipinaGrace
      @YourFilipinaGrace Před měsícem

      @@dsrrellgriffith1161 What you did is unfair for the woman. You could have addressed your concerns about her being noisy and let her know you are not comfortable with the noise she makes and see how she will react. If she said - "Well sorry this is me, you should bear with me being loud", then, tell her I'm sorry it's not gonna work and we better part our ways. However, if she said, "I'm sorry, no worries, I will try to be less loud.", that means she's willing to adjust for you. OR both of you should meet half way if it's really inevitable for her to be loud. It's just a matter of GOOD COMMUNICATION Sir. What you did is sometimes the reason why women do not trust men. You come and suddenly disappear too..

    • @roger.b8046
      @roger.b8046 Před měsícem

      @@dsrrellgriffith1161 I have house, there's a lot to steal here, and they do

    • @roger.b8046
      @roger.b8046 Před měsícem

      @@YourFilipinaGrace of course not but even on birthday parties we must have one person follow through the house when people use the CR , you can't let people inside without someone checking what they are doing

  • @willardpolk2871
    @willardpolk2871 Před měsícem +1

    they get too much shit into a hotel or condo. my advice is to just date them and see how much time they are willing to wait. the key to a good Filipina is how long they can wait for you. if they rushing you then get rid of her period.

  • @user-kt6bz5um7m
    @user-kt6bz5um7m Před měsícem +2

    Very good advice.

  • @bigcee6114
    @bigcee6114 Před měsícem +1

    Hello Folks,
    Could you do a discussion on the single mom/ child dynamic in Philippines. Many Filipinas are perfectly okay with leaving their children with relatives to raise and moving around with their foreigner partners. It seems strange from a western perspective as that is not common in USA. Also sometimes the foreigner feels guilty of breaking up that union when entering a relationship.
    Not referring to you guys. I mean children left or sent to province and mom moves to the city.

  • @lemontea2065
    @lemontea2065 Před měsícem +9

    Same thing applies to long term: "I gave you the best years of my life" - now you owe me half of your stuff + alimony.

    • @MakeTheRules2
      @MakeTheRules2 Před měsícem +3

      Every time I hear of a guy who retired here and married a girl, I know that man is low confidence. I can understand that marriage is a requirement to bring them to the USA, if you are pre-retirement age (different story), but being retired here in the Philippines and being permanently married is just plain dumb.

  • @Lazy-A-L33
    @Lazy-A-L33 Před měsícem

    Gio, great advice. I have known people who have done the same thing here.

  • @7rileyst
    @7rileyst Před měsícem +1

    Love is there. Trust is broken. Love is gone.

  • @Dragon_rls
    @Dragon_rls Před měsícem +6

    Having security escort that chick out of your condo after finding out that she was on another man’s dole was music to my ears 😂. Grabbing onto the bedpost was such a nice touch. 👍. Bravo 👏 👏 👏

  • @SPENJERE
    @SPENJERE Před měsícem

    Some very solid advice, thank you.

  • @willardpolk2871
    @willardpolk2871 Před měsícem

    yes, sir a bad move just asks me. I move in a Filipina and she had family move in with us until i said no and i got the hell out.

  • @StevenThomas-mz8lb
    @StevenThomas-mz8lb Před měsícem

    Be an observer not a server to others for the first year or two. Get engrained in the country you want to settle down in and build a network of friends and eventually two will meet where the paths are aligned, and that takes another year or two or up to a lifetime, to see that you both deserve each other and feel when the time is right, to be committed and no regrets. 🙏

  • @WineSippingCowboy
    @WineSippingCowboy Před měsícem +1

    Captain Save a 304 = the Filipina will ask for more! High Value men say no 👎.

  • @paulmackie5622
    @paulmackie5622 Před měsícem +1

    good videos with good helpful information

  • @clb24
    @clb24 Před měsícem +1

    Never get married and don't let her move in with you to destroy your freedom.

  • @user-sz8ng7oj8s
    @user-sz8ng7oj8s Před měsícem

    Since the boarding houses are not expensive it may just be a good idea to make the payments on the boarding house for 3 months and then if things are going well just let her continue staying with her.

  • @nancyamaral5620
    @nancyamaral5620 Před měsícem +2

    As a woman I would never leave my home to go live with a man. I had a friend do this and she was thrown out of his home after a fight-she was walking on a highway in the rain with two cats until she reached a police station to call family to get her.This is a professional America woman who moved from Massachusetts to Maine for a internet relationship

  • @donbuesen3558
    @donbuesen3558 Před měsícem

    Great advice.

  • @AwakenedEntrepreneurship
    @AwakenedEntrepreneurship Před měsícem

    Don't forget the video card for the crazy gf video, Gio! :)

  • @arthurrogers7306
    @arthurrogers7306 Před 25 dny

    What do you think is the best city to visit in the Philippines? For dating, safety.

  • @wayneclose5299
    @wayneclose5299 Před měsícem

    Yes…yes..and yes been there done this …just take them out for dinner a few times and then…move on

  • @willardpolk2871
    @willardpolk2871 Před měsícem

    they do lie a lot and will not leave. I have had a Filipina grab my door and shut the door in my face. you better know the Filipina because they do lie and will not leave.

  • @Myhovercraftisfullofeels
    @Myhovercraftisfullofeels Před měsícem

    One thing about Filipinas is that if you are intimate with them they expect marriage. I'd imagine if she is bitter about a break up she might charge you with sexual assault. Be careful out there.

  • @chocolatecookie8571
    @chocolatecookie8571 Před měsícem +2

    9:56 good that you KNEW this guy because he is a psychopath

  • @wolfgangstimmel8048
    @wolfgangstimmel8048 Před měsícem

    Philippine Income monthly distribution:
    22% earn < 10K is the Poverty line
    36% 10-20K is the low income group
    40% 20-125K is middle class
    2% 125-210K is upper class
    < 1% > 210K the rich
    For almost all foreigners, our dating pool is in the bottom 98%.

    • @youngandfree93
      @youngandfree93 Před měsícem +1

      Younger good looking foreigners get the other 2 percent 😂. 210000 pesos is pitiful low on the global scale.

  • @evilchaperone
    @evilchaperone Před měsícem

    Pay for play in a different town. Never let your neighbors see your mongering ways by bringing chicks back to your place.

  • @nomadinthemaking
    @nomadinthemaking Před měsícem

    They should come and stay with you but not give up their boarding house. After all they aren’t losing anything. Filipinos can be quite short sighted in their thinking and the man needs to realise when they give their job up it’s not easy for them to find another job.
    My now wife wanted to give her notice in at work when applying for Fiancée visa for uk. I said no not until you actually have the visa in your hand. As it was she got it in 16 days.

  • @edwardflorence5460
    @edwardflorence5460 Před měsícem +2

    Never do it. Anything that happens the law is always on her side. You are scre?ed.

  • @TheRocket212
    @TheRocket212 Před měsícem

    Doesn't cohabitation have a legal issue over creating a common law marriage? There are places here in the US where 6mo to a yr together would legally bind you to the other person as if married. I'd be careful with all of that. Keep safe out there ✌️

  • @MS-oz2wu
    @MS-oz2wu Před měsícem

    Thank you

  • @brent2438
    @brent2438 Před měsícem +1

    I would wait at least 6 months minimum

  • @willardpolk2871
    @willardpolk2871 Před měsícem

    it's a bad thing don't do it because it will be a disaster for you.

  • @dlhanson51
    @dlhanson51 Před měsícem

    How about waiting for marriage for her to move in with you?

  • @DingusCirc
    @DingusCirc Před měsícem +4

    Those are the beta males.

  • @scottmadoff7444
    @scottmadoff7444 Před měsícem

    Was her boarding house like the nyc flop houses in the 1920's/30's?

  • @garylewis8568
    @garylewis8568 Před měsícem

    I'll save you........dudley do-right

  • @Chassis2014
    @Chassis2014 Před měsícem

    Sex dies down quick , common sex

  • @manchesterr85
    @manchesterr85 Před měsícem +1

    Moving a Filipina in because of her living conditions is actually not even legit. I know many Filipinas who PREFER province life over living in a condo. They are used to those conditions and they see the benefits of it. (Social communities, friends, families and neighbors gathering, karaoke, etc.) I’m sure on the long term they can “get used to” living in western style but for the most part they are used to it and feel comfortable with it. Just like when you take them to a first class restaurant and they can’t appreciate a good lasagne because it’s not sweet and they would rather eat dried fish over salmon.
    I’m just texting with a girl who lives in a mansion as a maid and she said she likes her province better. It’s funny how this comparison is similar to what most expats choose.
    They would rather give up the western convenience for the vibes of the Philippines. Many filipinas also prefer province life for the same reason.

    • @RealGaryGibson
      @RealGaryGibson Před měsícem

      My filipina prefers my condo. And she way prefers shopping at Metro Supermarket over a wet market.

  • @mba2ceo
    @mba2ceo Před měsícem

    smart men do NOT get married

  • @michaelfrandsen6195
    @michaelfrandsen6195 Před měsícem

    It must be Ging you are talking about

    • @GiointhePhilippines
      @GiointhePhilippines  Před měsícem

      Nope it isn't. Ging and I were together for 1 year and never lived in a condo.

  • @RealGaryGibson
    @RealGaryGibson Před měsícem +1

    Moving your Filipina in is way less risky than moving in a Western woman!

    • @garytaylor5937
      @garytaylor5937 Před měsícem

      100% I moved my Aussie girlfriend in and she wouldn't leave. I tried to kick her out she called the cops in the end the settlement was I gave up my house

  • @mikejones5364
    @mikejones5364 Před měsícem

    If I lived in Philippines I would move a few of them in. Why these guy only have single one or some ugly one move in with them I don't understand. I would try to get two cuties to move in with me.

  • @koreanomer
    @koreanomer Před měsícem

    what about prenuptial agreement? can you talk about it?