How To Find Your Soulmate | Dr John Demartini

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  • čas přidán 20. 07. 2024
  • Discover the secrets to truly manifesting your soulmate. What if you discovered that your soulmate is always there, you're just not recognizing it’s forms and thereby not honoring it? After this video, YOUR NEXT STEP is to... Balancing Emotions for Greater Achievement. Watch Dr Demartini’s FREE Masterclass Now 👉 demartini.fm/balancing
    About This Video:
    Get ready to dissolve some of the illusions you may have about relationships and be awakened to the many forms of love that surround us 24/7. Dr Demartini shares a powerful exercise you can do that will leave you present, poised, and authentic, where you strengthen your magnetism and attract to you that which you love.
    Prefer to read the article? Visit: demartini.ink/3vo94o1
    ⌚ TIME STAMPS:
    00:00 - Intro
    01:13 - At the level of the soul nothing's missing
    03:27 - Attracting somebody that loves you
    04:06 - Story time and a powerful exercise to attract your soulmate
    09:18 - Your soulmate is always present
    11:03 - Perceived wounds and unconscious motives
    13:44 - Clearing wounds with the Demartini Method
    17:52 - Being ready for the soulmate
    About Dr John Demartini:
    Dr. John Demartini is a human behavior specialist, a polymath, philosopher, international speaker and best-selling author. He has recently been awarded the IAOTP Top Human Behavior Specialist of the Year as well as the IAOTP Lifetime Achievement Award.
    His work is a summation of over 299 different disciplines synthesized from the greatest minds in most fields of study today. His extensive curriculum focuses on helping purpose driven individuals master their lives so that they’re able to more extensively serve humanity with their inspired vision and mission.
    #soulmate #attractsoulmate #manifestsoulmate

Komentáře • 384

  • @coolbreeze5683
    @coolbreeze5683 Před rokem +301

    So many people like to play games and manipulate others into loving them. It's really sad. I can truly say that I met my soulmate in life. No games, no lists and no façades. I was traveling when I met him and wasn't focusing on meeting people. I was just trying to get from point A to point B. We started talking and it was just so effortless. We communicated and spent as much time as we could together. I knew he was it within 2 weeks and he said he knew as soon as he met me. It sounds crazy and like a fantasy but it does happen. We've been married 14 years. Everyone thought I was nuts when things were moving fast except his mom. She told him a few minutes after meeting me "I can see this one will be the love of your life"

    • @kaylanalou4397
      @kaylanalou4397 Před rokem +14

      That's so sweet. What a beautiful love story

    • @adriannerossbach2080
      @adriannerossbach2080 Před rokem +6

      So happy you shared this very beautiful happy for your true love!!! ❤

    • @melssf7852
      @melssf7852 Před rokem +9

      Thanks for your story. It made My heart happy to know it's possible 😌

    • @coolbreeze5683
      @coolbreeze5683 Před rokem +14

      @@melssf7852 thank you, it is 100% possible. My husband and I are still very much in love to this day. We've both changed over time but manage to balance eachother out through the changes. I really believe there's a higher power at play with a lot of things in life and we need to get out of our own way sometimes to allow things to happen the way they are meant to.

    • @jamesbyrne9312
      @jamesbyrne9312 Před rokem +1

      Thanks for bragging

  • @pricklypear1111
    @pricklypear1111 Před rokem +81

    I did this and my soulmate came into my life when I leaned into the deepest most authentic version of me. No masks.

    • @lavatr8322
      @lavatr8322 Před rokem +2

      For years i didn't feel anything but recently I joined the gym....and this woman is from Atlantis or something.
      I don't even know what e energies are these. we both are extremely awkward around each other to the point we ignore each other.
      But she always searches me through mirrors... She shys away when I catch her eyes.
      But suddenly recently she brings her "gym buddy" (male) idk who he is , but I have guessed her husband....and if she really is married then Damn....why would she ogle around??🙆

    • @jeanenelatique
      @jeanenelatique Před rokem

      Authenticity brings blessings!😍

    • @kaybase6967
      @kaybase6967 Před rokem

      @@lavatr8322she’s probably attracted to you. You should approach her and talk to her. Eventually bring it up and ask if she’s married. If she says no, ask who’s the guy she came to the gym that one time. She’ll either be offended or she’ll be flattered that you are interested. Either way, by process of elimination, you will find out what type of person she is and whether or not to pursue it.

  • @bluwtrgypsy
    @bluwtrgypsy Před rokem +301

    Nothing is missing in my life. I love being alone, independent and free. Blessings

    • @KerryLeighBrett
      @KerryLeighBrett Před rokem +12

      me too I dont like to be with anyone and to make me feel bad

    • @salmasalute
      @salmasalute Před rokem +9

      We all need a partner. My affirmation is im never alone now i have guardians around unseen and i know i can do my best to feel good anyway so i can be ready when he enters my life.. of course i need him and so does he. But im also okay right now. Listen to john gray.

    • @gandziaragandziara5425
      @gandziaragandziara5425 Před rokem +5

      After 10 years of relationship that almost totally broke me I can say it. People staying alone because they have chosen that way, are the wisiest people on this planet. Being with someone longer than six months is boeing and science proves that😃 And being serious I think that after knowing someone longer period of time, even if someone is your "soulmate" you start to feel like you were alone. Simple you know about this person everything like about yourself, no more secrets, borring as hell.

    • @mswong6874
      @mswong6874 Před rokem +2

      Thank you. Their are not many humans that understand that preference, moreless embrace it.

    • @Holmes.2.0
      @Holmes.2.0 Před rokem

      That's the absolute sign of an Unresolved Severe Trauma. Go to therapy. Else u r a Psychopath

  • @cutzymccall7675
    @cutzymccall7675 Před rokem +93

    How to find your soul mate: look in the mirror. When you recognize that YOU are your first soul mate and love yourself unconditionally you’ll meet your twin soulmate. Love yourself unconditionally and you’ll find your “other.”

  • @gavinspeaks
    @gavinspeaks Před 2 lety +263

    “Don’t ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and then go and do that, because what the world needs is people that have come alive.” - Howard Thurman
    💜 Heart-Based Manifestation CZcamsr

  • @SD-rm5ty
    @SD-rm5ty Před rokem +67

    For me as an INFJ on MBTI my list of criteria is quite different from the norm, I do not care about looks or money, at the very top of my list is authenticity, emotional intelligence, and is mentally stimulating. 😢😪

    • @quindaniels5149
      @quindaniels5149 Před rokem +6

      Preach. Fellow INFJ

    • @SD-rm5ty
      @SD-rm5ty Před rokem +2

      @@quindaniels5149 are you single?? 😊😍

    • @lavatr8322
      @lavatr8322 Před rokem

      Wtf is that....I'm McD then

    • @simol.176
      @simol.176 Před rokem

      Fellow INFJ here (with the difference that the looks matter to me). This clearly drives me to men who are too much for me. It sure comes from some wounds, but I believe it's waaaay better (for me, at least) to leave them where they are, the way they are. Working on them would expose me to pain. I hate to tell lies to myself, knowing that I'm doing it console myself, it's pointless. I prefer to brutally admit to myself what I'd love to have, compare it to what I could realistically have (as an average woman), and spare myself pain and disappointment, insecurities, inner struggles. Working on my wounds would hurt and sure not change the real thing, not lead me to the place where I'd love to be...because there are objective limitations, because IT'S NOT THE WAY IT WORKS. So I'm single, safely, and I would never want to look for a soulmate or try to have him manifest, I already know he would be some of those men I don't like. Or, if I managed to have someone I'd like manifest, THEY wouldn't like me, 😂 period. Brutal, bitter and convoluted as it may sound, I'm sure my INFJ fellas will understand 100%. Maybe even agree. There are things that are soooo nice to hear, but they don't always exist in real life. Peace

    • @ispeakdfwinstruction7678
      @ispeakdfwinstruction7678 Před rokem +2

      Always looks are a bonus, not a requirement
      Who needs a Piqué? No thank you. I’ll take a humble and authentic, responsible and most importantly God fearing man any day who treats me like the Proverbs 31 woman I am. He is worth 5 billion men to me.

  • @sosha4050
    @sosha4050 Před rokem +40

    I always said my soulmates are my friends- male and female. They really fulfill my needs without codependency

    • @nic3715
      @nic3715 Před rokem

      That's really beautiful.

  • @alexwill1784
    @alexwill1784 Před rokem +10

    OMG, I just realized that every quality I want in a man is divided up between 2 people in my life, and both of them are safe. One by being gay and the other by being in a relationship. Thank you! I will now work on myself differently with this in mind.

  • @breezy985
    @breezy985 Před rokem +12

    Thousands of video viewing on CZcams, then I randomly came across this. This was phenomenal and eye-opening. I had an epiphany on what I've been trying to explain for a very long time.

  • @DanielSquires
    @DanielSquires Před 2 lety +52

    *Nothing is missing, energy cannot be created or destroyed. Everything there ever was or will be is 100% evenly present at all times.*
    Since energy can only be transformed, Our only job is to recognise its current existence and transform it into the new form we prefer.
    Thank you for such a great share Dr John 🙏

  • @amix73able
    @amix73able Před rokem +2

    I just found my list of qualities that I wrote over a year ago that I wanted to manifest for my next husband to be and right at the end. I’ve written “ Released all past resistance “ ❤️✨

  • @kompalyathunderbird7651
    @kompalyathunderbird7651 Před rokem +6

    This is powerful! I will be listening to this again and again. I realize I have soul mates all around me, and I want no intimacy with the ones in my immediate surroundings. I keeping myself safe due to fear. This was mind-opening. Thank you.

  • @majaradojkovic
    @majaradojkovic Před rokem +45

    This was soooo powerful, important and meaningful! Thank you John 🙏❤️👌😊 Great point of view. Love 💕

  • @perlasdevida
    @perlasdevida Před rokem +25

    Wow 3:15 minutes into and I had to paused the video to grasp all these wisdom. I felt this statements deeply. Like you peeling a big onion 🧅 Taking plenty of notes and self reflective in between. ❤❤❤Thanks Dr. Demartini, I just found you yesterday and I am watching as much as I can your videos. Amazing 🤩

  • @cleopetra87
    @cleopetra87 Před rokem +3

    It's very rare to find valuable information like this on CZcams! This is tops 👌👌👌👌

  • @kimberspun7682
    @kimberspun7682 Před rokem +14

    Thank you for pointing out the two sides to all that we are looking for . The authentic self is what we need to present and value . Looking forward to undertaking this journey 😇🙏

  • @Sublime-energy
    @Sublime-energy Před 2 lety +9

    Thank you for this amazing reminder! I’ve done so much of the breakthrough work for nearly 20+ years now.. it’s profound and applies to all situations. Thank you so much

  • @ChrisProutyVideos
    @ChrisProutyVideos Před 2 lety +16

    I'm so pleased that I found you on a Friday because your video has really added value to my day.

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  Před 2 lety

      Thank you Christopher. You can find more longer training if you're intereseted in going deeper into the work here: demartini.ink/training - Enjoy 🙂

  • @kallidaggett7259
    @kallidaggett7259 Před rokem +6

    This video was exactly what I needed today. Thank you so much 🙏

  • @francescaextracrispy3912

    That was eye opening! Thank you for sharing your wisdom!

  • @FontaineMuseMe
    @FontaineMuseMe Před rokem +8

    This was so profound and made so much sense to me. Thank you!!!! 🙏🏻

  • @barbaraerickson9134
    @barbaraerickson9134 Před rokem +6

    Will be taking notes on second viewing. Thank you for this gift. Love & prayers 🙏 ❤️

  • @liinu01
    @liinu01 Před rokem +1

    appreciating your teachings so much... feels like quantum theory understanding in a grounded way.... many thanks and lots of love from London, UK xxx

  • @risat7098
    @risat7098 Před 2 lety +3

    Dr. Demartini, Thank you so much,,, nothing missing...appreciation and Love

  • @ivanalareina
    @ivanalareina Před rokem +14

    This lesson is priceless !
    Thank you!
    Much love ❤️

  • @strohhut1197
    @strohhut1197 Před rokem +4

    This is truly beautiful, soul-touching! Thank you so much, Dr.Demartini! I have been working on 'loving the self' since breaking up. I'm at the level of loving myself unconditionally. But this put me deeper. This reminds me to love myself more as a whole. Thank you !! ❤🥰🙏

  • @LoremasterLiberaster
    @LoremasterLiberaster Před rokem

    I already have a soulmate but new meaningful connections is something I'm willing to be worthy of

  • @andybowker693
    @andybowker693 Před rokem +2

    This is great. Thanks John. I read one of your books years ago but I think this is the first time I have heard you speak. Makes a lot of sense does this video.

  • @spiritualartist
    @spiritualartist Před rokem +3

    A major “ah ha” moment for me! 🤯❤️Thank you so much! 🙏🏻😊

  • @s.h.3622
    @s.h.3622 Před rokem +1

    Wow, I've never thought of it this way . I'm eternally grateful for your wisdom and knowledge.

  • @dzovigounjian6372
    @dzovigounjian6372 Před rokem +1

    Fantastic and helpful! Thanks for sharing 👏

  • @cate-pillar
    @cate-pillar Před rokem +3

    This was so insightful - the idea of centralised vs dispersed love is so interesting!

  • @millanferende6723
    @millanferende6723 Před rokem +1

    You are so full of wisdom Dr John Demartini! I'm glad I have came across your channel.

  • @lunita56medina2
    @lunita56medina2 Před rokem +1

    Hello I just randomly came across this and it is so powerful. The discovery of the wounds present abandonment issues that lead to a façade that turns into a desperate journey of yes suffering. The wounds are a blessing as I can attest. I am grateful for my life and currently learning importance of nothing is missing. GRACIAS!

  • @livingurdreams09
    @livingurdreams09 Před rokem +3

    That was so realistic & authentic 🙏🙏🙏
    otherwise i was trapped in the fantasy of ''positive thinking & unrealistic expectation'' for a long time.
    Thank you Dr Demartini 🙌🙌

  • @thirdworld4926
    @thirdworld4926 Před rokem +2

    Thanks Doctor. I learned very important things from you ever since i started listening to your wisdom. Blessed.

  • @uniquelybeyou
    @uniquelybeyou Před rokem

    Wow this was really profound and deep 🙏thank you for sharing ❤

  • @v4ursmile
    @v4ursmile Před 3 měsíci

    From last 10 yrs i didnt knew what wrong i was repeating, only after watching this video i realised my mistakes

  • @JennSGibbs
    @JennSGibbs Před rokem +1

    You amaze me. Every time I come across your material I'm shocked! Thank you!!

  • @soulsignature1453
    @soulsignature1453 Před rokem +1

    Thank you so much 🙏 this is amazing ❤

  • @JA-mg5cu
    @JA-mg5cu Před rokem +2

    This is so nice. It felt very easy all of a sudden . Thank you😊

  • @kellyj.azania4371
    @kellyj.azania4371 Před rokem +3

    This information is a blessing.

  • @aaloftsdesign
    @aaloftsdesign Před rokem +2

    This is a really interesting and unique perspective. Thank you

  • @102br
    @102br Před rokem +1

    Very inspiring talk, thank you 🙏

  • @ritalifecoach
    @ritalifecoach Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much Dr. De Martini 🙏👏♥️

  • @lindachubbs1790
    @lindachubbs1790 Před rokem

    Awesome! Thank you so much.

  • @leanpardillo
    @leanpardillo Před rokem +2

    This was so inspiring to watch. I really like the way you explained those things, this video is very helpful.

  • @jayatkinson1152
    @jayatkinson1152 Před rokem

    This is one of the most empowering videos I've seen in a very long time. Thank you so much... my dear friend, Ben, alerted me to this. I realised that although I have the relationship I'm happy with, this model will work with anything you think you don't already have... in my case, a house! I'm on a mission now to let you know when I've 'manifested' my/our new home! XXX Bless you Dr John xxx

  • @Alexander-rq9he
    @Alexander-rq9he Před rokem +1

    It’s nice to hear someone mention gender as a spectrum..makes perfect sense!

  • @risengrind6268
    @risengrind6268 Před rokem +1

    I ve always been myself. Never wearing a facade. But obv. I´ve always been to much for ppl. and not likeable enough. Till that point I decided I´ll be better on my own.

  • @SuperJulie68
    @SuperJulie68 Před rokem +1

    Amazing 🙏🏽 Thank you.

  • @Imasteff
    @Imasteff Před rokem

    Wow amazing! This just clicked ty! I feel more free

  • @n.v.1173
    @n.v.1173 Před rokem +5

    Thank you for your wisdom. 🙏🏼🌟✨🥰

  • @miri-dz9oy
    @miri-dz9oy Před rokem +1

    That was brilliant! Thank you!

  • @HeavenlyLights
    @HeavenlyLights Před rokem

    True. Full Life. Nothing Missing.❤ Present. Poised. Authentic. 🙏🏻ThankYou.

  • @Only1LinaSymone
    @Only1LinaSymone Před rokem +2

    I love this perspective!

  • @Elena-Studio
    @Elena-Studio Před rokem +9

    This really delves into the idea if you even need to be in a relationship to find your soulmate because your soulmate (or soulmates) are already in your life. Super fascinating! I'm going to do the exercise for myself.

    • @LittleMissHoop
      @LittleMissHoop Před rokem +6

      What exercise exactly? I listened to it twice and get the concept, but what is the concrete exercise needed here?

    • @minifigbounty
      @minifigbounty Před 11 měsíci +1

      @@LittleMissHoopI am wondering the same thing

    • @mysticstarlux
      @mysticstarlux Před 8 měsíci

      He specifically talks about writing a list with this lady and the two columns. He explains very clearly

  • @alannaiscoolio
    @alannaiscoolio Před rokem +1

    I appreciate the lessons that came from this conversation but no wonder you don't want to be stuck in cars with strangers 😂

  • @susanaduarteraposo
    @susanaduarteraposo Před rokem

    Greatest speech I’ve ever heard on the subject 😊 Thank you

  • @jameswww9524
    @jameswww9524 Před 2 lety +1

    EXCELLENT video!
    I LOVE the practical example/breakdown. A lot of what you teach can be very esoteric at times, so that helped a lot!…

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  Před 2 lety +1

      Glad you enjoyed this James 🙂

    • @jameswww9524
      @jameswww9524 Před 2 lety

      I just rewatched this again & took some more notes…it took 3 watches (along with watching your interview with Lilou Mace on her channel)…but it finally all came together for me…
      Thank you again!

  • @angellarios4802
    @angellarios4802 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank "You Master"🙏🏼

  • @souldancerwhitedragon
    @souldancerwhitedragon Před 2 lety +3

    I do believe you just changed my life Dr Demartini❣Yes, I do have a list almost 15 years old that I tinker with occasionally but then I stopped. I had a huge AHA moment as I listened began a mental list, understood and could clearly see the the downsides that I,perverse human that I am, prefer to live. That brought a lump to my throat.
    Okay. No more occasional fantasy. I now know the work I need to do to move forward peacefully. Thank-you Sir, as usual.🐉🦄

  • @bzrent88
    @bzrent88 Před rokem

    I’m so glad I came across this!!!

  • @Keamole
    @Keamole Před rokem +3

    Thanx Dr,I realized that my lover loves me to the level I love myself.

  • @Green_Godess
    @Green_Godess Před rokem

    Amazing. Right on time. And totally agree. Thank you 😊

  • @kojoria
    @kojoria Před rokem

    Thank you for this message. I feel whole.

  • @matildap199
    @matildap199 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻💙

  • @iriaMCs
    @iriaMCs Před rokem

    Love it! Thank you so much!!

  • @hungryboy1330
    @hungryboy1330 Před rokem

    Wow.. Absolutely amazing...!

  • @jarpipparah
    @jarpipparah Před rokem +2

    So I’m my own soulmate
    Because I’m all I have and have ever had

  • @ZacchaeusNifong
    @ZacchaeusNifong Před 2 lety +4

    I needed this. Thank you.

  • @catherineh2443
    @catherineh2443 Před rokem +1

    Loved this thank you

  • @hcaboose1047
    @hcaboose1047 Před rokem +1

    Great information! Clear and precise 😂

  • @Lou-xn1pg
    @Lou-xn1pg Před rokem

    Wow this hit deep thank u!

  • @rebeccacronshaw7844
    @rebeccacronshaw7844 Před rokem

    Im coming to the Breakthrough Method in London in June! So excited 😍

  • @Howlite__
    @Howlite__ Před 2 lety

    Thankyou this helped😊

  • @latenitetubing
    @latenitetubing Před rokem

    Wow!!! This is amazing!!

  • @spomusmo2349
    @spomusmo2349 Před rokem +4

    At the level of our soul nothing is missing. At the level of our senses things appear to be missing.
    Read it again.

  • @guillaumemaurice3503
    @guillaumemaurice3503 Před rokem

    Loved this video. Thank you for sharing it that was so beautiful. ❤

  • @munhassan7840
    @munhassan7840 Před rokem

    Amazing so valuable thank you

  • @unplugged1678
    @unplugged1678 Před rokem +2

    God bless your soul!

  • @vj12343
    @vj12343 Před rokem +1

    Wow so many happy people in agreement. Something in the water yall drink I bet. How on earth do you live life without judgement and discernment?

  • @D0C391
    @D0C391 Před 7 měsíci

    I wanted to say thank you for sharing this, I found it insightful. I recently did the Breakthrough Experience and wanted to ask you this very question on finding a soulmate for me. After I finished the Breakthrough Experience with my group I can say that I feel like I have joy in my life again, despite the fact that I have PTSD. Thank you 😊

  • @MsGreenmermaid
    @MsGreenmermaid Před rokem

    This is very good, I'll need to listen again

  • @Netanyabee
    @Netanyabee Před rokem

    Wow, this is wild in the best way. Feeling open ❤

  • @bitemy
    @bitemy Před rokem +1

    Incredible video for guiding people. All points are true and tested in "real life". The problem is, we stuck on fantasies and never realize the "real" ones are the beautiful. Thanks Dr. Demartini.

  • @AnnaBurdach
    @AnnaBurdach Před rokem

    Loved the speech

  • @rickylumo8666
    @rickylumo8666 Před rokem +1

    Very eye-opening.

  • @PhoneixAstrology
    @PhoneixAstrology Před rokem

    whoa! this was AMAZING!

  • @jasonsaleem552
    @jasonsaleem552 Před 2 lety

    Thank you!

  • @diana.diamond
    @diana.diamond Před rokem

    This was amazing thank you❤

  • @jenschears4716
    @jenschears4716 Před rokem

    Absolutely incredible. I totally felt that and what a revelation it is. Thank you so much

    • @DrDemartini
      @DrDemartini  Před rokem

      You're welcome. You may also find these 3 relationship tips valuable too: czcams.com/video/ORXBHv30YtA/video.html
      Hope you enjoy 🙂

    • @jenschears4716
      @jenschears4716 Před rokem

      @@DrDemartini thank you so much 🙏🏽

  • @radovansurlak7445
    @radovansurlak7445 Před 2 lety

    Thank you John

  • @christinagoyette1480
    @christinagoyette1480 Před rokem

    Thank u , so helpful😊

  • @zipporahkwamboka2369
    @zipporahkwamboka2369 Před rokem +1

    Beautiful ❤

  • @dizzyh
    @dizzyh Před 2 lety +14

    This was one of the best John Demartini videos ever !!! 😊🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 thank you John!!

  • @Only1Dash-
    @Only1Dash- Před rokem

    Okay this was great. Im watching this again.

  • @jessicawilliams7384
    @jessicawilliams7384 Před rokem

    This is gold

  • @auntylinda7640
    @auntylinda7640 Před rokem

    We are all beautifully complete. Namaste 🙏💖🙏

  • @domesticbalance-rj4fc

    OMG Thank You!!!!