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Komentáře • 828

  • @yagikataiser434
    @yagikataiser434 Před 4 měsíci +1041

    Finally, my math degree comes in handy. Time to grab my crayons and become a misogynist

    • @Thatoneguy-o7805
      @Thatoneguy-o7805 Před 4 měsíci +32

      I wanted to say brand new sentence.. but sadly it's probably not.

    • @beybladebaby
      @beybladebaby Před 4 měsíci +22

      his mummy needs to take his crayons away and force him to take a shower

    • @The.Harsh.Truths
      @The.Harsh.Truths Před 4 měsíci

      You aren’t using the word misogynist correctly, but I hope using it to describe anyone that has a criticism for women is getting you laid.

    • @reginene
      @reginene Před 4 měsíci +8

      LMAFOOOO

    • @me0101001000
      @me0101001000 Před 4 měsíci +11

      I mean, hey, that's one way to put that math degree to use and make some money, right? :')

  • @JinStreams
    @JinStreams Před 4 měsíci +1015

    The chart guy would be absolutely adorable if he dedicated this passion to anything other than misogyny. Imagine these little charts, but for gundams or something

    • @bingyboi6303
      @bingyboi6303 Před 4 měsíci +100

      😢 a chart like that for gundam would be so cool now I’m actually sad cause of that thought

    • @The.Harsh.Truths
      @The.Harsh.Truths Před 4 měsíci +2

      You aren’t using the word misogyny correctly. This guy actually bashes men in his videos all the time.

    • @bingyboi6303
      @bingyboi6303 Před 4 měsíci +19

      @@The.Harsh.Truths chart guy?

    • @Jane-oz7pp
      @Jane-oz7pp Před 4 měsíci +153

      ​@@The.Harsh.Truths that doesn't make him not a misogynist lmfao clown take

    • @Jane-oz7pp
      @Jane-oz7pp Před 4 měsíci +96

      ​@@The.Harsh.Truths oh, of course you're redefining misogyny, I just saw your other comments simping for the misogynist. Settle down little guy, he's not gonna kiss you.

  • @susie8799
    @susie8799 Před 4 měsíci +267

    Free this man from the throes of misogyny and let him follow his real hobby: making charts

    • @alexandrahenderson4368
      @alexandrahenderson4368 Před měsícem +7

      Bro coulda been Aristótels student helping him chart stars but nooooo he wanted to be a 21 century misogyny charter instead

  • @theaceofswords
    @theaceofswords Před 4 měsíci +836

    so nice of anastasia to let jarvis and jordan on her podcast!

    • @traditionalnative
      @traditionalnative Před 4 měsíci +33

      Their* they use they/them pronouns (:

    • @shrinebow.
      @shrinebow. Před 4 měsíci +6

      ⁠@@traditionalnativewait didn’t they call them a girl though?

    • @secureviolet4328
      @secureviolet4328 Před 4 měsíci +28

      @@shrinebow.pronouns don’t refer to gender in that way. Someone can identify as a girl or present as feminine but their preferred pronouns are simply that. I see them as gender expression almost , so neutral, masc, fem..

    • @shrinebow.
      @shrinebow. Před 4 měsíci +10

      @@secureviolet4328 oh thanks :)

    • @secureviolet4328
      @secureviolet4328 Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@shrinebow.lil late to this but of course :)

  • @flooffys
    @flooffys Před 4 měsíci +1290

    jordan on the thumbnail today !?

  • @thecartographer118
    @thecartographer118 Před 4 měsíci +346

    Love that Anastasia immediately integrated into the bisexual seating position scheme

  • @coolerrocket
    @coolerrocket Před 4 měsíci +456

    Hating women with math is cringe.
    Hating math with women is where it's at!

  • @ericwoods3316
    @ericwoods3316 Před 4 měsíci +239

    As a neurodivergent person, these charts are highly ND my dude. It’s sad because I can see the appeal if you’re a young ND person looking to provide structure to what can feel like a chaotic and unfriendly world. Feels exploitative, in a way

    • @Guineapigsreadingbooks
      @Guineapigsreadingbooks Před 4 měsíci

      It feels like it preys on young ND men specifically, pretending to explain the world that is often confusing with misogyny dressed up in charts that appeal to people looking for logic in an illogical world.

    • @mintallylost222
      @mintallylost222 Před 4 měsíci +53

      THISS. I was previously subscribed to this guy after seeing one video and I thought, huh, that is like math but cool. But upon watching his ick video, I realised that he's not a great guy after all and unsubbed. You're so right on how this can be exploitative to younger neurodivergent individuals. I'm old enough to form opinions of my own, and even I almost got hooked into his bullshit.

    • @doublejoywilson
      @doublejoywilson Před 4 měsíci +43

      yeah as an ND person can confirm that i have made charts to try to understand social relationships before lol. it’s sad that he’s using that to be a misogynist bc i agree i see the appeal and how it could be exploitative

    • @KattReen
      @KattReen Před 3 měsíci

      Yeah. He's wearing his autistic tendencies on his sleeve. Black and white thinking, taking everything literally, obsessively trying to sort facts into his own little charts and graphs. And it's going to have an appeal to other guys who have the same problems as him. It's really, really sad. Perpetrator AND victim.

  • @darkaiel
    @darkaiel Před 4 měsíci +524

    Jordan's slow break after "vicarriagely" was wonderful. It was like six stages of grief for a pun.

    • @mizzenmax
      @mizzenmax Před 4 měsíci +17

      I was losing it with him while the other two kept taking. It was like a grenade went off and I couldn’t hear anything else other than the echo of “vicarriagely”😂

    • @meinenklinke
      @meinenklinke Před 3 měsíci +1

      Oh man! I’m so excited to get to this!!

    • @berhonkusbardledoo
      @berhonkusbardledoo Před 2 dny +2

      He made an extra stage of grief because that’s how devastated he was

  • @jillopdog
    @jillopdog Před 4 měsíci +333

    how am i supposed to live a peaceful life now that jarvis has implanted to phrase "horse is the basketball of the summer" into my psyche

  • @Sunny_Mooon
    @Sunny_Mooon Před 4 měsíci +284

    The Woman in the sword video is Momo O'Brien, she is amazing! Her youtube channel is about immersive experiences (Theme parks, larp, interactive plays, themed fairs, etc) is one of my favorite youtube channels of all times!!!
    Also she talks a lot about fantasy content and play a lot of characters over her social media... so yeah she was not being realistic, she was playing into the dark fantasy romance fandom stereotypes.

    • @heatheroic
      @heatheroic Před 4 měsíci +39

      agreed! things can be very attractive in specific roleplay scenarios, and yet obviously she is not talking about all women wanting that to happen in real life, but simply a trope that a lot of women who are into fantasy tend to enjoy.

    • @demetriam2408
      @demetriam2408 Před 4 měsíci +55

      Yeah she's just being silly and hyperbolic but he's making it into some big argument. Like dude, she's just into roleplay, why are you making it into a thing.

    • @Charisdreaming
      @Charisdreaming Před 4 měsíci +27

      And I’m ONLY commenting to defend Momo but she also said all “we” want- so it’s not even clear if she was talking about all women or just larp players or her friend group- like it’s splitting hairs but it doesn’t seem like she was trying to represent more than a small community

    • @beybladebaby
      @beybladebaby Před 4 měsíci +12

      And this freak just stands in the corner heavily breathing and clutching his crayolas

    • @TheNerdySimulation
      @TheNerdySimulation Před 4 měsíci +6

      So glad others were here to say this since I haven't watched her in a bit but nothing more immediately put me on team "Fuck This Guy" than seeing he stitched her. I'm so glad they all quite quickly recognized her schtick and it being a fun little bit. I bet they'd even love some of her videos, they're absolutely oozing with genuine passion and love for that craft.

  • @junoestro
    @junoestro Před 4 měsíci +634

    we should really move the wiki to something other than fandom because of the current boycotting of fandom for being horrendous

    • @reckless_herb
      @reckless_herb Před 4 měsíci +31

      what’s up with fandom? or where can i find accurate info on that?

    • @rat8294
      @rat8294 Před 4 měsíci

      just a really bad company in general the website has a horrible user experience especially on mobile where the entire screen is covered in adds far more than needed to run a website of fandoms size and on top of that the site has bad moderation with the site and its mod team doing everything in their power to stop wikis from moving to better sites. also fandom allows anyone to edit pages which causes plenty misinformation on the topic of the wiki also the site doesn't do anything the fact check info that is put on the site or if the info is found to be wrong the don't fix the errors
      @@reckless_herb

    • @incendiarypoprocks8700
      @incendiarypoprocks8700 Před 4 měsíci

      @@reckless_herbjust some horribly bad platform management and gross misuse of the platform for advertisement. They defaced a bunch of wikis into a major brand ad campaign, are weird about taking down defunct wikis or supporting more well-made wikis on the same topic, and have tanked the site’s performance with an overabundance of ads and auto-playing videos. That’s what I personally remember, but I’m sure there’s more.

    • @bronze1557
      @bronze1557 Před 4 měsíci +106

      ​@@reckless_herbHollow Knight youtuber "mossbag" has a really good video on fandom in a general context and how it has fucked up several wikis, has taken dubious actions and overall has poor management. There is also another video on censorship from an editor on the Fear and Hunger wiki but I don't remember the channel name

    • @reckless_herb
      @reckless_herb Před 4 měsíci

      @@bronze1557 mmm thanks!! i’ve used it often but hadn’t heard anything bad about it until now. appreciate you pointing me in the right direction :)

  • @nxgrxmxncxr
    @nxgrxmxncxr Před 4 měsíci +159

    Jordan has convinced me to start using “RATS” as an expletive. It’s SO FUNNY in a ridiculous way and I’m kind of over saying fck and sht

    • @kkuudandere
      @kkuudandere Před 4 měsíci +45

      I've taken to saying "curses!" like an old time movie villain

    • @Jane-oz7pp
      @Jane-oz7pp Před 4 měsíci +24

      I'm a big fan of phrases like "Blast it!" and "scorn and lamentations"
      Getting poetic and weird with your language makes it hit way harder.

    • @GlobnarTheGreen
      @GlobnarTheGreen Před 4 měsíci

      Gadzooks!
      Darn it all to heck!

    • @voidify3
      @voidify3 Před 4 měsíci +13

      I’ve started saying “ah beans”

    • @abigailoverton7610
      @abigailoverton7610 Před 4 měsíci +9

      i’m more of a ‘shucks’ girl myself

  • @RamenKitsune
    @RamenKitsune Před 4 měsíci +204

    RIP "Howdy" Gone but never forgotten.

    • @darkaiel
      @darkaiel Před 4 měsíci +16

      Looking forward to Jordan coming out fully in a cowboy costume on the first day of summer.

    • @eminempreg
      @eminempreg Před 4 měsíci +1

      So long...partner🐴

  • @ladyweirdo6035
    @ladyweirdo6035 Před 4 měsíci +376

    Bro, I don't f*ck and I can understand that liking something in fiction isn't the same as liking something in real life. Misogynists either want to justify their behavior or they don't want to put in the effort to humanize the people they want to spend the rest of their lives with.

    • @beybladebaby
      @beybladebaby Před 4 měsíci

      pretty much its like when they come up to girls and women and say oh you're a feminist? so I can punch you? I can hit you and beat the cr*p out of you? like they're actually frothing at the mouth with excitement at the idea of hurting women its actually insane

    • @Sanakudou
      @Sanakudou Před 4 měsíci

      I suspect that all the misogynists who fixate on womens fictional fantasies are covert hypocrites and all it’d take is someone leaking a list of their most frequented p*rnhub categories and they’d be real quick to insist there’s no correlation between fictional consumption and one’s actual sexuality proclivities.

    • @vklnew9824
      @vklnew9824 Před 4 měsíci

      Your face needs to touch concrete

    • @dip_doop
      @dip_doop Před 4 měsíci +22

      @@vklnew9824 what’s wrong dude

    • @sakurayankishi9708
      @sakurayankishi9708 Před 4 měsíci +14

      ​@@dip_doophis 13 year old girlfriend dumped him for a Chad

  • @saraisreading4231
    @saraisreading4231 Před 4 měsíci +195

    Taught my 8th graders about logical fallacies today in class… I think this dude hit them all.

    • @vklnew9824
      @vklnew9824 Před 4 měsíci

      Poorly aged white ♀️

    • @purpleofallpurple5542
      @purpleofallpurple5542 Před 4 měsíci +23

      @@vklnew9824girl what 😭

    • @Velvetx4cove
      @Velvetx4cove Před 4 měsíci +9

      ​@@purpleofallpurple5542 They're spamming this and other immature junk in the comments. I think it needs attention.

    • @Hopeskyesk
      @Hopeskyesk Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@vklnew9824did you get the attention you wanted? Feel better now?

  • @voidify3
    @voidify3 Před 4 měsíci +20

    Speaking as an autistic person, this chart has a potent aura of “I’m the worst kind of autistic man who never got the support to learn that modelling other people as flowcharts will always be an inaccurate model”

  • @julialaurenbm
    @julialaurenbm Před 4 měsíci +77

    This man doesn't understand the inherent eroticism of swordfights. Smh

  • @CallmeMelinanow
    @CallmeMelinanow Před 4 měsíci +95

    I have to say that the friendship between Jarvis and Jordan is my favorite thing. It’s such a genuine connection, and the mutual respect and platonic affection always shines through. It’s a great way to model adult relationships between men! I know it’s good for all people, but girls are besties online all the time, I don’t see this level of friendship all the time with men! Thanks for showing us this!!

  • @scottjacobson6619
    @scottjacobson6619 Před 4 měsíci +50

    What Jordan said at the end is what I've been trying to say for so long. The type of people that fall into these beliefs genuinely need social help but dont know how/want to ask for help, and when somebody comes around telling them "it's not actually vague and grey" it's the closest thing that feels like answers for them.

  • @bready2crumble
    @bready2crumble Před 4 měsíci +133

    Jarvis’ soft spoken voice during the golf bit was actually so calming. I need a Jarvis soft spoken asmr vid bro

    • @caycecarson
      @caycecarson Před 4 měsíci +6

      Right? It was a joke but my brain immediately started to shut down into sleep mode lol

    • @vklnew9824
      @vklnew9824 Před 4 měsíci

      Poorly aged white ♀️

    • @dip_doop
      @dip_doop Před 4 měsíci +5

      @@vklnew9824what an odd thing to say

  • @seanisadeadude
    @seanisadeadude Před 4 měsíci +61

    The guy you reacted to is really just “guy who has only ever played d&d with his misogynist friends.”

  • @molina616
    @molina616 Před 4 měsíci +187

    honestly you guys should book some audiobook gigs and use your soft voices cuz it was super calming.

    • @rileylynn5815
      @rileylynn5815 Před 4 měsíci +24

      💯 would listen to “fake basketball game golf style commentary to fall asleep to” every night

    • @bready2crumble
      @bready2crumble Před 4 měsíci

      @@rileylynn5815 dude!!!! Yes!!

  • @4232emmie
    @4232emmie Před 4 měsíci +81

    The segment with Anastasia was so fun, I loved her energy!! Hopefully shes in more episodes in the future :)

    • @Guineapigsreadingbooks
      @Guineapigsreadingbooks Před 4 měsíci +11

      I would not be mad if the show slowly turned into sad boyz and Anastasia

  • @frankensteinlives
    @frankensteinlives Před 4 měsíci +101

    Bugs Bunny's government name is, apparently, George Washington Bunny. So that's. Fine.

  • @ellenardi
    @ellenardi Před 4 měsíci +38

    i am horrified by the guy using Game of Thrones to prove his point, referencing a scene where two Dothraki men fight over the right to SA a woman, and implying that Daenerys "likes" this even though the show depicts her as being SAd by Drogo (and in the book she's THIRTEEN). That is so many red flags in one analogy

    • @PsychoKama
      @PsychoKama Před 4 měsíci +9

      Oh my god, that's so much worse than I thought! I've never read the books or watched the show, so I thought it was bad enough that he used a series written by a man as an example of what women want (along with what context he did provide). Knowing the actual context is so important!

    • @mayaenglish5424
      @mayaenglish5424 Před 4 měsíci +4

      Also I never really got into GoT but from the bits and pieces pop culture has squeezed into my brain without me even trying, I'm pretty sure she was scared and unhappy the whole time and then there was some stockholm stuff going on. GoT is screwed up on purpose, the whole story seems to be almost a "How many messed up things can I do to these characters before they die or go insane?" competition, so using it as a guide on acceptable relationships is pretty funny, in a concerning way.

  • @certifiedgreg_rose
    @certifiedgreg_rose Před 4 měsíci +336

    Im a woman and i hate math and myself so its okay

  • @AKA253
    @AKA253 Před 4 měsíci +22

    “Matt Mercer corrupted by necromancy” is such a beautiful way of putting it

  • @aj_12x23
    @aj_12x23 Před 4 měsíci +56

    If Anastasia has zero fans, I am dead.

  • @Jane-oz7pp
    @Jane-oz7pp Před 4 měsíci +140

    as a certified freak: Just because I want to roleplay it, does not mean I actually want to have someone do it to me for real. Half the reason I have a fetish like that to begin with is because I'm reclaiming a story from my trauma. It gives me _control_ of my narrative. Taking that control out of the equation is only going to traumatise me more.

    • @CSpottsGaming
      @CSpottsGaming Před 4 měsíci +43

      Yeah, there are plenty of people who have, for example, a non-consent kink that they play out in a safe environment with their partner. That doesn't mean they want the real thing to happen to them.
      That's the scary thing about dudes like this - they can't separate the fantasy from someone's actual desires.

    • @sideways5153
      @sideways5153 Před 27 dny +4

      Like, the entire point of role play is that you don’t have to worry about what the consequences would be if the scenario is real. I don’t think every person turned on by maid costumes actually wants to harass or assault their employees, but there’s something exciting about the scenario for lots and lots of people.
      There’s always more to dig into, but usually the entire POINT is to have something and not let it be that deep

  • @shadowcharizard10
    @shadowcharizard10 Před 4 měsíci +249

    is anyone else confused by the Jarvis-only thumbnails? before I started watching last week's I genuinely thought it might be a Jarvis solo episode lmao

    • @occamsaturn
      @occamsaturn Před 4 měsíci +24

      I had the same thought recently
      but we have been redeemed

    • @Donovarkhallum
      @Donovarkhallum Před 4 měsíci +9

      Who cares it's a thumbnail

    • @Hera-ln9zl
      @Hera-ln9zl Před 4 měsíci +17

      I’m pretty sure it’s bc Jarvis has a larger fan base so it’ll bring more of his fans in

    • @demetriam2408
      @demetriam2408 Před 4 měsíci +39

      Yeah sometimes it confuses me and I think it's just a Jarvis video on his channel until I see it's two hours long and had sad boyz in the title. I don't mind though, I imagine it gets more clicks.

    • @katelindrum3022
      @katelindrum3022 Před 4 měsíci +22

      When they did the Skibbidi Toilet ep with Rhett, I mistook Skibbidi (or something?) for a goofily photoshopped Jordan and it took weeks before I realized my misunderstanding 😂

  • @godcopter
    @godcopter Před 4 měsíci +32

    The fact that the girl in the “SWORD” video is quite literally a LARPer is insane. Just like. Click on her page dude she is not being for real. Like. She actually plays swords and princesses she is a dress up girlie.

  • @ryanpooley
    @ryanpooley Před 4 měsíci +36

    Jarvis' hyperfixation on basketball and trying to quiz your knowledge is so real!
    My hyperfixation is bratz dolls and I am in a reddit group where people ask for ID on a doll and it just feels so good when I know who it is!

  • @AlwaysAmTired
    @AlwaysAmTired Před 4 měsíci +41

    I know y'all have a lot of young fans and I love seeing you break down sexist theory this way. I think that's really valuable (and very entertaining)

    • @Guineapigsreadingbooks
      @Guineapigsreadingbooks Před 4 měsíci +10

      It has been helpful for me in this case because I couldn’t really express what felt icky about the hoe math guy when I saw one clip of him, and watching them discuss him helped me understand/pinpoint it better.

  • @lillie4431
    @lillie4431 Před 4 měsíci +151

    u guys always upload whenever i'm crying. thank u so much

    • @spokeinlilac
      @spokeinlilac Před 4 měsíci +12

      Hoping your day brightens up love 💜

    • @lillie4431
      @lillie4431 Před 4 měsíci +3

      ​@@spokeinlilacthank u💓

    • @megan_james
      @megan_james Před 4 měsíci +3

      🩵 hope you’re feeling better

    • @SuicidalKamikaze
      @SuicidalKamikaze Před 4 měsíci +6

      They’re in your walls 👁️👄👁️

    • @ellerose5997
      @ellerose5997 Před 4 měsíci

      same, we're in this together

  • @skyekeating349
    @skyekeating349 Před 4 měsíci +15

    It's good that someone is finally teaching men how to hate women through math. Previously if I wanted to hate women because of fake toughness I could watch Andrew Tate. If I wanted to hate women because of fake psychology I could watch Jordan Peterson. But who was I supposed to watch if I wanted to hate women because of fake math? Finally someone holds the absolutely necessary position of Master Math Misogynist, truly neither the hero we need or the hero we deserve.

  • @jaconater4539
    @jaconater4539 Před 4 měsíci +108

    found this guys content on youtube before; he was just talking abt phycology in a cool way so i looked at more of his content, but then the second i saw him start to talk about women it just switched to this really passive aggressive and bad faith argument and i was like "oh...."
    A lot of women he stitches are making really broad and often incorrect statements themselves, but you arent helping anyone by only picking those people to react to, and using it to launch even more assumptions.

    • @andrea-gp8qv
      @andrea-gp8qv Před 4 měsíci +12

      yeaaah i liked his video about levels of thinking and then he lost me with all the "woman wrong" content

    • @jaconater4539
      @jaconater4539 Před 4 měsíci

      same exact situation as me @@andrea-gp8qv

  • @baintreachas
    @baintreachas Před 4 měsíci +7

    wild to both evoke Christian imagery and “REPENT” in the same notebook u keep your lust diagrams

  • @Coast-to-Coast
    @Coast-to-Coast Před 4 měsíci +30

    37:15 Wisdom from my Horse Girl days: that type of horse racing is called harness racing. The "carriage" is called a sulky. In harness racing, the horse does not gallop, it either trots (the two-beat gait where the horse's diagonal legs move together) or paces (a special two-beat gait that only certain horses can do, where the legs on the same side of the horse move together.) Sometimes trotting/pacing races happen with the jockey actually on the horse, but I think it's more common to do harness racing because the trot is famously uncomfortable to sit because it's so bouncy, probably even more so when the horses are going so fast. The breed of horse usually used in harness racing is called the Standardbred (in contrast with the breed of horse usually used in gallop races, the Thoroughbred.)

    • @elizabethpemberton8445
      @elizabethpemberton8445 Před 4 měsíci +2

      “Like to see some stuck-up jockey boy sittin’ on Dan Patch?” We had sulky racing at our fairgrounds during the summer in my childhood. Which was not quite concurrent with The Music Man.

  • @stutterman176
    @stutterman176 Před 3 měsíci +6

    this guy should get into dnd i think he would like making maps

  • @dino-seal
    @dino-seal Před 4 měsíci +93

    I've been so conditioned with Jarvis thumbnails a rare shiny Jordan thumbnail made me instantly click

    • @kishinumaayumi
      @kishinumaayumi Před 4 měsíci +13

      Its a jarvis thumbnail for me :(.. (I love Jarvis he's my bestie but I wanted a rare Jordan thumbnail vid too, he's my bbgirl)

    • @chanyanyanya
      @chanyanyanya Před 4 měsíci +7

      @@kishinumaayumisounds very parasocial of you

    • @kishinumaayumi
      @kishinumaayumi Před 4 měsíci +11

      ​@@chanyanyanya SO REAL they're my besties we wiggle our feet and talk about our day everynight on discord video calls (/j)

  • @soldiaz7261
    @soldiaz7261 Před 4 měsíci +264

    the dark triad is a very ableist (specifically saneist) concept that is based on the idea that people with personality disorders are evil, violent, toxic, and dangerous.
    specifically, it frames people with antisocial & narcissistic personality disorder (and in general cluster b personality disorders) as threats who should be treated as something evil and almost subhuman. this is, you know, not true, and also a very violent stereotype.
    it’s used as a justification for equating a group of mental illnesses with violence and abuse, basically. it’s gross as fuck.

    • @Jay7Rocka
      @Jay7Rocka Před 4 měsíci +9

      Cluster b people are problematic random stranger

    • @reckless_herb
      @reckless_herb Před 4 měsíci +82

      @@Jay7Rockauntreated mental illness/disorders is bad in general. cluster b or not, untreated people can be toxic and dangerous for a variety of reasons. like untreated ptsd can make vets terrible people to be around. that doesn’t mean they don’t deserve treatment and the opportunity to be a good person. most cluster b disorders are born from trauma, being traumatized doesn’t make you problematic. choosing to do nothing about it, does.
      (i am not talking about people who literally cannot access help, that’s a different issue)

    • @jbone877
      @jbone877 Před 4 měsíci +15

      ​@@reckless_herbthe diagnostic criteria for cluster b personality disorders are definitionally problematic. Problematic behaviours are what makes cluster b cluster b

    • @reckless_herb
      @reckless_herb Před 4 měsíci +52

      @@jbone877yes, that is the diagnostic criteria. but it’s problematic behavior, not a problematic person. a problematic person actively chooses to behave that way, i genuinely do not believe anyone would choose to have a cluster b disorder (if that was possible)
      even minimal research shows that they heavily negatively affect the person with the disorder, just as much, if not more than the people around them.
      a common discussion i’ve seen about narcissistic personality disorder specifically, is that narcissists don’t lack empathy, it’s that their trauma response trumps the empathy they have.
      the issue is when people act like when someone is diagnosed with cluster b, there is no chance of them being good people or treating others well. its hard to treat cluster b, but it isn’t impossible. it takes hard work, and a lot of trial and error, but it can be done. it can drastically improve the person with the disorders life; also improving how they treat others.

    • @endless_del
      @endless_del Před 4 měsíci +45

      it's true that folks in the cluster b category can be, and often are, "problematic", as you say. but does that mean they don't deserve empathy and respect? does having a "problematic" behavior pattern mean you'll be a bad person forever? should we hold people accountable for every action they've ever done in perpetuity, even if they do the work to minimize the harm their behavior causes?
      this is the issue i have with framing cluster b in the way people often do. EVERYONE has room to grow and learn as a person, regardless of mental illness or lack thereof. so extending the same grace to everyone, regardless of what they've done is what i believe in, so long as they've made the choice and put in the effort to atone for it and take accountability.
      if you are a victim of someone with a cluster b personality disorder, that is a different story, but it is your duty to judge the person-- not the disorder. it's up to you whether or not to forgive the individual if and when they seek help and get better, and it's absolutely okay to not let them into your lives ever again (and this should be known by them, too, because it's part of taking accountability) but you absolutely CANNOT frame the disorder itself as "problematic" because it contributes to stigma that makes people not reach out for help. which has the potential to create more victims.

  • @thesplendor2311
    @thesplendor2311 Před 4 měsíci +74

    R.I.P Howdy 😔
    Forever in our hearts ❤

  • @sirius1696
    @sirius1696 Před 4 měsíci +7

    the charts are so autism coded, especially when he said he made them right angles because they're his favorite

    • @kittyfangz5262
      @kittyfangz5262 Před 4 měsíci

      yeah i also pretty quickly was like ‘woah. this guy is clearly autistic’

  • @ramzikawa734
    @ramzikawa734 Před 4 měsíci +50

    To give context on the dark triad, the biggest usage of this in mass culture is the diagnosis of serial killers. Personally, even that use I find weirdly fetishistic in the same way that people misunderstand the point of Patrick Bateman, where you’re supposed to hate him but it turns into a kind of admiration of him. Or the way that directors remark that it’s impossible to make a truly anti-war movie, in that even the most stark depictions of graphic violence serves the ends of positive propaganda.
    In terms of manosphere stuff the general implication is kind of equivalent to the Jordan Peterson idea of femininity as derived from chaos. Women, in their chasing of and desiring of men, allegedly perform a kind of psychopathic value derivation of men and the social and economic status delivered to them as a result of the men they sleep with. Ironically, not so different from how many of the men who holds these beliefs think of women.
    Regardless, the point is that the general conception is that even the most evil man does not hold a candle to the least evil woman. Womanhood is defined by its leading of men away from greatness and the desire to leech off of others. Unsurprisingly, this also becomes used in racial and nationalistic contexts.
    I love it, it’s great, this is a super cool world we live in!!!

    • @beybladebaby
      @beybladebaby Před 4 měsíci +2

      Such a sane planet

    • @Jane-oz7pp
      @Jane-oz7pp Před 4 měsíci +5

      It's just psychological profiling, which has been long since deemed nonsense and shown to actually cause more harm than good.

  • @isabellaanderson5328
    @isabellaanderson5328 Před 3 měsíci +5

    The dark triad is actually a real psychology term. The three traits being referred to are seen in many abusive partners, friends and relatives, which makes it infuriating to see it being used incorrectly by someone who quite possibly would fit under that umbrella.

    • @gurgleblurgle7345
      @gurgleblurgle7345 Před 2 měsíci +1

      If he simply applied this to toxic relationships instead of assuming all women were like that, it would fix everything

  • @gays4holtby110
    @gays4holtby110 Před 4 měsíci +23

    1:33:26 harnessing dark autism powers for spreading evil and chaos

  • @azark8155
    @azark8155 Před 4 měsíci +30

    Insomnia is a city in Final Fantasy 15!!! which is obviously different from a ff7 attack but it's fun that you guys said "Insomnia" and "Final Fantasy" in the same sentence! I am normal about this video game 👍🏼

  • @mariya_tortilla
    @mariya_tortilla Před 4 měsíci +10

    Holy shit the chart guy is a literal nightmare. How is he so wrong and confident at the same time, it's incredible to behold

    • @gurgleblurgle7345
      @gurgleblurgle7345 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Makes me sad that he could use that as a platform to talk about toxic relationships, because SOME people do act like that, but acting like women are all or even mostly like that and therefore means women are shite is of course a problem.

  • @Aidan_ODonnell
    @Aidan_ODonnell Před 4 měsíci +27

    Game Time with Anastasia has to continue

  • @user-jc4ft1hh7l
    @user-jc4ft1hh7l Před 4 měsíci +19

    i used to work at a company that was owned by the guy who owned the cavs when "the decision" was made. he allegedly sent the most angry boomer-iest email to the entire company in comic sans about it

  • @tarettime9392
    @tarettime9392 Před 4 měsíci +16

    2:20:00 Jordan is exactly right. This es the exact reason I got into these kinds of guys when I was in my early teens. I didn’t really understand social cues and how to navigate interactions and people that presented “rules” I saw as very helpful and useful. It did make me a bit of a shithead because I would essentially blame people for not following rules they didn’t know existed but I at the time lacked the ability to navigate things without them.

    • @SmellyHam
      @SmellyHam Před 4 měsíci +1

      They're not absolute rules, they're generalizations. Being aware of true generalizations can absolutely be helpful.

    • @tarettime9392
      @tarettime9392 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@SmellyHam a big part of the issue is these people are making exact statements of “this is how things are. Things just are this way. Here’s how people work” etc they’re not “here’s how things tend to be or people usually react” etc. they’re hardline “this is the rule and if they break it they’re wrong actually” and the other issue is they’re usually not even accurate well considered points. It’s not true generalizations is rules for how I want things to work based off my narrow opinion of how the world should be.

  • @sporemice
    @sporemice Před 4 měsíci +29

    hi sad boyz. you sold me ice cream in my dream last night. please don't do that again it was scary

  • @sarahbischoff2375
    @sarahbischoff2375 Před 4 měsíci +22

    1) Jarvis your puns this ep are ON POINT. Incredible. 10/10
    2) f.d. signifier mention?? Could he come on the pod??

    • @badger6882
      @badger6882 Před 4 měsíci +1

      fd signifier mention timestamp?

    • @sarahbischoff2375
      @sarahbischoff2375 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@badger6882 Jordan mentions at around 2:19:30

  • @utatoners
    @utatoners Před 4 měsíci +14

    i know bg3 is a popular game goty and all that but every time jordan mentions it im like holy shit he knows the thing i like thats crazyyyy

  • @bagelraven
    @bagelraven Před 4 měsíci +21

    This man is not even doing math, where are the numbers?

  • @oops6876
    @oops6876 Před 4 měsíci +34

    More Anastasia! She is a wonderful addition to the banter

  • @octokid7066
    @octokid7066 Před 4 měsíci +13

    Lmao that guy did not understand the concept of enemies to lovers

  • @BrickInTheHead
    @BrickInTheHead Před 4 měsíci +57

    I think i speak for everyone when i say the reisident woman is very entertaining and needs to appear on the pod more often

    • @aj7058
      @aj7058 Před měsícem +1

      Speaking for all the women in their corners.

  • @nakaka3236
    @nakaka3236 Před 4 měsíci +23

    Billy Mitchell's mother is very proud

    • @callmelewsor
      @callmelewsor Před 4 měsíci +10

      Not as proud as Tommy Tallarico’s.

    • @Ghost-lt4sf
      @Ghost-lt4sf Před 4 měsíci +3

      I love finding this reference in different corners of the internet 😂

  • @Sonic6293
    @Sonic6293 Před 4 měsíci +6

    I love how Jordan broke on the slow burn of "vicarriagely".

  • @catgrrrlart
    @catgrrrlart Před 4 měsíci +11

    Since my dog doesn’t have thumbs I am typing this comment for him while he dictates it to me.
    Jarvis and Jordan, your podcast really speaks to me as a fellow very sad (dog) boy. It helps me feel better about being sad. Today I cried because my mom didn’t pet me correctly before breakfast and now I don’t know if I can eat. Before watching your pod, I would’ve felt very ashamed of being sad. But now I know that it’s okay to express my emotions whenever and for whatever reason.

  • @ChristianPierce
    @ChristianPierce Před 4 měsíci +14

    this is dennis from always sunny with the D.E.N.N.I.S system

  • @cemetery.chitchat
    @cemetery.chitchat Před 4 měsíci +5

    The bottles and cans at the bottom of the frame are like a little audience-MST3K style.

  • @Kayla-1
    @Kayla-1 Před 4 měsíci +32

    Jarvis, I saw you were on watcher!! it was so cool to see you collaborate with another one of my favorite creators!!

  • @liamodynsky4871
    @liamodynsky4871 Před 4 měsíci +25

    He talks an awful lot about how men should physically fight over women for a man who would get beaten up by a middle schooler.

    • @The.Harsh.Truths
      @The.Harsh.Truths Před 4 měsíci

      He’s actually really tall and jacked. You probably shouldn’t make false assumptions.

    • @Jane-oz7pp
      @Jane-oz7pp Před 4 měsíci +15

      ​@@The.Harsh.Truths damn you're down so bad for him

    • @The.Harsh.Truths
      @The.Harsh.Truths Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@Jane-oz7pp ad hominem. Is what I said true or not?

    • @The.Harsh.Truths
      @The.Harsh.Truths Před 4 měsíci

      @@KathrynElizabeth-uz8hi and how do you know that?

    • @tarettime9392
      @tarettime9392 Před 4 měsíci +9

      @@The.Harsh.Truthssir this is a CZcams comment section. Appealing to logical fallacies doesn’t actually help you. You’re not in a formal debate you’re talking to people in a colloquial context.

  • @tsingletary6311
    @tsingletary6311 Před 4 měsíci +16

    Jordan looks well rested, and I'm excited for him. Congrats on that 9 hours, man! 🥳

  • @AWholeRat
    @AWholeRat Před 4 měsíci +5

    18:41 hey i was one of the three jacob fanarts! now i know yall saw it! yay!

  • @aridotdoes
    @aridotdoes Před 4 měsíci +17

    I THOUGHT Y'ALL WERE JOKING ABOUT THE COLORED-PENCIL CHARTS. Is bro ten???

  • @hayleyquinnx94
    @hayleyquinnx94 Před 4 měsíci +4

    the dark triad bs is just "women don't like me because I'm too nice, and women only like douchebags" but with more steps. It's SOOOO many words to say no one wants to ride him into the sunset cause he can't tell ren-fair from reality

  • @caycecarson
    @caycecarson Před 4 měsíci +6

    I think it’s so impressive that you got me, a person who knows nothing about basketball and has no interest in it, to be so invested in Basketball Game aka Not The Game of Basketball

  • @allisonb8912
    @allisonb8912 Před 4 měsíci +15

    Truly love that Jarvis wears this shirt in every video, because I wear this shirt like every single day, so I'm always unintentionally wearing the shirt when the pods came out and then we match.

  • @bornsmooth92
    @bornsmooth92 Před 4 měsíci +13

    Anastasia, honorary sad boy! Would love to see her again!

  • @horticulturalist7818
    @horticulturalist7818 Před 4 měsíci +33

    What's so crazy is I spent so much time with people who thought like the h-math guy that i can arrest that is actually an accurate representation of the incel logic

    • @the_Royal_Crow
      @the_Royal_Crow Před 4 měsíci +5

      That is wild, how do they even navigate any of it? Just watching this guy felt like he was explaining Kingdom hearts lore.

    • @horticulturalist7818
      @horticulturalist7818 Před 4 měsíci +9

      @@the_Royal_Crow it's easier to understand the underlying (false) logic when you realize that they don't view anyone other than the people who fit in with them as real people. Everyone else is basically a stat sheet on a NPc with predetermined behaviour. You also have to recognize that to them sex isnt about sharing intimacy or pleasure it's about power/high score. So it's basically them going at all relationships like farming for good drops.

  • @borderlinekitten
    @borderlinekitten Před 4 měsíci +7

    I have also been the sleep bandit lately, I’m just allowing myself to sleep when my body needs it & I’ve felt so much better mentally honestly but I’m sleeping a LOT

  • @phoenixs.1072
    @phoenixs.1072 Před 4 měsíci +8

    So glad our special guest was Anastasia today. She’s so cool

  • @MelodyTCG
    @MelodyTCG Před 4 měsíci +6

    The sword part is a sword lesbian thing and i will not elaborate as i dont want to reveal our secrets
    For more inquiries watch recolutionary girl utena

    • @MelodyTCG
      @MelodyTCG Před 4 měsíci

      @KathrynElizabeth-uz8hi definitely

  • @lissiemassengale5486
    @lissiemassengale5486 Před 4 měsíci +10

    I want a Jarvis and Jordan ASMR Chanel. They could call it Soft Boyz.

  • @allylinsmeier3810
    @allylinsmeier3810 Před 4 měsíci +3

    I think what you’re searching for is the midwestern ope, it’s a classic and can be used to say hey, sorry, express mild shock, among others.

  • @disdainjames
    @disdainjames Před 4 měsíci +4

    The most absurd thing about the chart guy imo is that he has trouble with dating and sex and has come to the conclusion that the answer is to make a graph and post it online. That might be the worst thing you could do for your romantic outlook

  • @PDXDelivery
    @PDXDelivery Před 4 měsíci +8

    Why is this room in a perpetual state of being moved into. It adds some flagrance to the vibes.

  • @Riheinorn
    @Riheinorn Před 4 měsíci +7

    this guy really made a periodic table of women

  • @alternity7838
    @alternity7838 Před 4 měsíci +8

    Genuinely loved seeing so much of Anastasia, she was so fun

  • @gloomy_gal
    @gloomy_gal Před 4 měsíci +3

    I love how you can tell the math guy has never actually spoken to a woman and is making up excuses as to why he doesnt get any women hahah

  • @jarnvir2227
    @jarnvir2227 Před 4 měsíci +3

    The answer to "why do you need numbers" is autism. This is immediately recognizable to me as an autistic straight man trying to appeal to other autistic straight men who are confused by social cues they've memorized and their unhappiness and loneliness despite trying to follow those cues. Rules, number, and patterns are the key thing- if you trust cues from fiction instead, you'll be in trouble. This is a super common pitfall for a certain type of brain, because you realize the rules you've had to memorize aren't working and were always tpo fictional to work. All we have is rules, not insticts- that's the thing that makes social interaction so challenging.

  • @Christine.Baraka
    @Christine.Baraka Před 4 měsíci +6

    34:20 My ADHD brain also went "we can make it if we try" exactly when Jarvis did 💀

  • @OddCanuck420
    @OddCanuck420 Před 4 měsíci +6

    "so today our main topic..." 1 hour and 16 minutes into the episode. classic.

  • @MaeriTheAlien
    @MaeriTheAlien Před 4 měsíci +3

    Before they zoomed in I thought that “accountability” said “accounting” and my immediate thought was like, “yeah, I kind of get it.”

  • @dannymarie
    @dannymarie Před 4 měsíci +10

    Really appreciate y'all givung Anastasia a platform to voice their opinion on the subject

  • @DaemonR13
    @DaemonR13 Před 3 měsíci +2

    You wouldn't download a car did not age well faster than when I was a kid being told by my math teacher, "When you grow up, your not going to be walking around with calculators in your pockets!"

  • @ghumashenaa4414
    @ghumashenaa4414 Před 3 měsíci +3

    imagine he murders someone and his crush still doesnt want him lmao

  • @cupoteena
    @cupoteena Před 4 měsíci +7

    Jordan describing his sleep app is making me realize we have the same one LMAO

  • @percheuropean7175
    @percheuropean7175 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Just deep cleaned my entire apartment and did all my laundry during this. Thank you for the long video

  • @Alice-kr1vu
    @Alice-kr1vu Před 4 měsíci +7

    this billy mitchell stuff reminds me of that tommy tallarico guy who claimed he made the roblox oof sound and would regularly just say verifiably wrong information. it seems like a compulsion or something because there's no other reason to lie

  • @ab33333
    @ab33333 Před 4 měsíci +4

    My seasonal depression is also kicking my ass. Thanks for making this podcast. It helps when you’re feeling awful to talk to people/hear stories that relate but hard to reach out to friends to talk. Good luck boys

  • @AlexanderPetersonml
    @AlexanderPetersonml Před 4 měsíci +3

    Billy Mitchell looks like if Peter Dinklage played Douglas Reynholm from IT Crowd

  • @Alfiemon
    @Alfiemon Před 4 měsíci +6

    No jorden in the thumbnail made me think it was a gold video. Sadboyz was a unexpected but not unwelcome surprise

  • @SleepyVampArt
    @SleepyVampArt Před 4 měsíci +3

    Jumpman is Jordan doing a ballet pose in the air, he was just trying out different stuff messing around

  • @madeleineg.2453
    @madeleineg.2453 Před 4 měsíci +3

    Ok just have to say I LOVE how the captions are done on this video!! Thank you!!

  • @shelbyfawn1337
    @shelbyfawn1337 Před 4 měsíci +14

    I was just calmly playing the video and doing a diamond painting and Matt Mercer cursed by a necromancer caused me to involuntarily scream laugh. dear god.