How to handle toxic relatives while doing CA?
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- čas přidán 10. 09. 2024
- Advice is free. Every relative gives it. But the question is which ones are good advice and which ones are toxic?
In this video, I'll be giving you a guidance on how to identify which advice to take seriously and which advice to ignore.
More importantly, I'll also be talking about how to handle when toxic relatives spew their hate against you.
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"Action speaks louder than words , Results speak louder than action"
Nailed it bro
Just wanted to take a moment to commend you on your honesty. I highly appreciate this. 👏
You are one of the best mentors of CA students and the clarity of your content truly sets you apart. Every video you produce is crisp and well-structured. Thanks a lot sir and please keep guiding us. 🙌
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Thank you for the extremely kind comment. Hope to keep up the quality :)
it is WORTH for waiting ur videos .. Ur a mirror for a CA students..❤
Hey thank you for the kind comment and your continued support. :) keeps me going.
One thing EVERY ASPIRANT needs to understand be it CA, IAS, SSC , is that people are hypocrite and so are the relatives. Once you achieve your goal you'll be the dude who "never gave up" so keep going on guys
Bro that 30k salary part is personal this always broke me
They just come and speak nonsense, don't they!
"Results speak even louder than actions" thank you hareesh ❤
Your honesty is our asset
Thanks
thank you for the comment :)
I hardly attended events or get together parties since 2023 because all I had to face is toxic relatives who will be discussing about hefty salary of other person with my parents in front of me.
It really hurts when you are in a discussion of handsome salaries and better lifestyle.
Some people just don't have the awareness about what they speak and where they speak. It's better to avoid the events for a short while until you clear your exams.
You gave me motivation to pursue ca your videos are far more realistic than those rank holder influencers
Hey that's kind of you to say. Thank you for the continuous support.
Bro thank you for these videos.. It really pushes to mee to study hard everyday.. With a crisp time table❤❤
I'm so glad to hear that. thank you for letting me know. I wish you the best.
Bro do your book recommendations videos just now finished reading your book wow what a read i can feel the research that had been put behind .
As a fan requet please do a book video
what a coincidence! That's the very next video I'm working on. :) And, I'm glad you liked my book. Yes, indeed. That book took quite a bit of research. Thank you for writing.
where can i find the book ??
@@rohit.patel9040 As of now, the book's not available anywhere online. And I will be uploading the audiobook itself on this channel. 70% of the work is done. So, stay tuned.
@@rohit.patel9040 If you still want to buy a physical copy, I will send a new copy to you by courier. Please leave a DM on Instagram or Gmail and give me your details. the IDs are in the About section on this channel.
Was waiting for your video and good!! here it is!!!
The topic you covered is untouched thanks for taking up this issue and also giving the solution ❤🎉
Keep guiding and motivating us ❤
Your story motivates🎉
Thank you for the kind comment. :) Hope to keep up the upload schedule and the quality.
Please give your insights on how to handle relatives who consistently asks about your exam attempts , results and asking when are you planning to finish this off and why is it taking a lot of time .
Depends on what type of personality you have. Can you confront people naturally? I don't. In my case, I was quite young when all this happened and I didn't have the courage to confront them. Also, that would affect the relationship of my parents with those people. I used to just remain quiet and would aim to repurpose the nagging feeling back into my studies. Now I learnt to confront people in a quiet way. But now, I'm old enough to do that. The best suggestion is to avoid going into the radar of those relatives who poke their nose into your business.
Thank you so much sir for providing such valuable coping mechanisms. ❤
Thank you for the comment. I wish you the best.
Bhaiya mere result se jada mera cousin brother sab ko intazar rehta h...
a stark reality that everyone can relate to...
thank you for the comment :)
Hai sir please make a video about no of revision for ca exam before exam
Thank you for the suggestion. I will see if I can squeeze in a video on that topic.
I've a question if i fill the form and doesnt appear for exam will my attempt count?
Yes.
Sir please make a video on how to become more serious for ca course and avoid all distraction please sir
Thank you for the suggestion. But if you look at the library of videos that I have uploaded already, you would definitely get insights about how to avoid distractions and develop seriousness for CA. Still I will try to make an exclusive video on this topic. Stay tuned.
Meanwhile you can check this specific video: czcams.com/video/9y8o_Ik4lyU/video.htmlsi=uCK-jwPfZK2W6uOY
@@CAHareesh thankyou sir
i was told by my relative beta marketing mai ghuso CA mai kya rakha hain 😂
Super.great guidence.vaazhga valamudan
thank you for the kind words madam :)
true words boss❤
Bro can u please make a video on your complete CA journey ?
Yes, very much on my mind. Maybe 3rd or 4th video from now. thank you for writing :)
@@CAHareesh Really Hareesh bro your videos are not just inspiring , also you are speaking the truth as it is. I'm a CA final Student. Love from Chennai ❤🫂
@@Shankarstrong Thank you and I wish you all the very best :)
Bro I'm studying college till 1 pm and then preparing for inter grp 1
I already failed in my last attempt and also did not prepare well for the sep attempt
I'm not going to skip sep and trying for exemption. Atleast I want to clear in Jan 2025.please suggest me a schedule
You're siesta based schedule doesn't fit for me since I'm pursuing college 😢
Hey sorry about your situation. I will make a video shortly about the study schedule for those who are working as well as those who are going to college. Stay tuned.
Bro i finished my ug and i have two backlog and i am trying to do ca inter also i joined to one academy ca is the only option given by my parents and also i am weak in my English understanding please reply give any suggestions it will save my life
If you really need to become a CA then u should struggle with this...if not u can go other courses
ca is the only option given by my parents
@@manishgamingtamilmanish8318 That's your parents wish .what about you?? Are u really willing to do CA with all struggles ??
Please don't do this ca course out of compulsion , it will eat all your best time of life.
@@CAKumuthapriya yes initially forced but now i am willing to complete CA
Bro. Everything u said is right but my aunty would be saying that you are an intelligent but not in a good manner. She used to tell she is very intelligent she will pass to others. She is telling these bcoz i have not successful in 2 attempts and she knows and she make me more insecure while telling this. It makes me more irritating. And also she keep on asking abt xam dates, result dates, whether i am doing bcom or not etc.. even she knows she keep on asking just to irritate me.
I'm sorry about your situation. The line you said, "even she knows she keeps on asking just to irritate me.", that looks so bad. Try to stay away from these types of people as much as possible. Draw clear boundaries. These people can be so overbearing sometimes. But you have to just stand your ground. Also, just follow the instructions I said in the video. I wish you the best.
What are the other software skills or cources we have to do along with CA?
Advanced Excel, Power BI are the two courses that come to my mind immediately.
sir I have been giving attempts in ca inter missing in aggregate now I'm planning to mba in business intelligent and analytics( weekend) and study for ca inter exam along with it, is doing mba a along is good decision
@CAHareesh or' finance' elective is better? I'm confused..
@@shashankgowda947 2 questions. 1) Were you giving two groups at once so far? or one group only?
2) Is the MBA course distance education? or you have to go to any particular location?
@@shashankgowda947 Businss intelligence and analytics is better since you're already doing CA. Finance would just be redundant.
Bro fix audio....there is some buzzing noise
Yes.There was a slight issue while recording this video. From the next video, it will be sorted. thank you for bringing it up :)
@@CAHareesh Bro I'm studying college till 1 pm and then preparing for inter grp 1
I already failed in my last attempt and also did not prepare well for the sep attempt
I'm not going to skip sep and trying for exemption.
Atleast I want to clear in Jan 2025.please suggest me a schedule
You're siesta based schedule doesn't fit for me since I'm pursuing college