How to Set Better Standards for Yourself
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 1. 08. 2024
- Today we talk about your Standards ladies ! How to set standards as a high value woman. Your standards can change your life for the better of for worse ladies. It has an impact on who you surround yourself with. You can attract marvelous or horrible people in general depending on your standards.
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I am refusing to participate in 'last minute' dates. I have learned to say "I'm sorry, I didn't hear from you so I made plans, maybe we could try another time?" My 'plans' might be puttering in the garden but it does feel good to value myself.
On another note, I've made a point of taking myself out for brunch or lunch once a week and wearing dresses that normally sit in my closet. It's fun to go out and be alone and elegant and mysterious!
And yes, I have the rule that the only men who get invited into my house are ones I am paying- handyman, plumber etc :)
I love that! yes I agree on the last minute date it is an essential boudarie. And the brunch to wear your beautiful clothes that is such a good idea đ high value energy âš
I love it! I've been wearing my nice clothes out to brunch too! It feels good to dress up when the vast majority of women in my area wear yoga pants, T-shirts and messy buns. No shade, but classy clothes are a new area for me and I am having fun exploring this. I feel beautiful everywhere I go and I don't care if I see someone I know because I'm always prepared. Keep doing what you're doing! Love your standards!
You are my kind of woman, fabulous! I love that you treat yourself to a nice brunch in a gorgeous outfit, I love to do this too! I bet you sit and people watch too, not one to be fixated on your phone whilst you're out. Keep enjoying yourself lovely lady đ„°
I love that! Well done!
Standards are important. If you had thousands of $ would you buy the fake Gucci bag thatâs is noticeable fake or the authentic bag? donât sell yourself short to the lowest bidder
I think a good boundary is personal space. Hear me out!! In the beginning stages of courting/talking/dating, you want to establish a sense of respect. He canât just touch you wherever, whenever. He can only touch you as he would a lady. I think that will help him see you that way.
Yes I tried with my ex but he assaulted me so I stayed with him because I thought I was ruined.
@@ametrineambrosia4929 my heart goes out to youâ€ïž
@@ametrineambrosia4929 yee I hoped you have healed đ
@@lishanamfukwe5489 working on it. Thank you.
@@ametrineambrosia4929 God bless you!
11:17 "You don't have to explain yourself." Thank you, I didn't realize that was an option.
These videos literally help me so much because I never grew up with the ides of Standards and how to embody them. Could you please do a specific video on how to say âNoâ gracefully, how t express your boundaries and standards to men, friends, family... and how to really embody this energy? Love your content Lisađ„°
I think one thing is keeping yourself in environments where saying yes wouldnât even be possible. In public
Ive seen books with those sorts of titles, worth checking on amazon
Iâve watched every single video in this channel even reviewed most of the couple of times! Since then i became aware that iâm the prize i am goddess i get to set rules boundaries and expectations though i lost my relation ship since then i dated couple of times but no man stands for my standards but i just know that itâs better to have standards and boundaries this way you donât waste your precious time and energy and focus on leveling up yourself and your dreams and not any random guy can have you this lifestyle is gorgeous is sweet is high caliber next level and this way you will end up in your dream life thank you lisa lots of love baby girlâ„ïž
I'm so happy to hear that my videos help you dear đ Yes you are the prize! Lots of love đ
When I was young I had no self confidence and didn't know how to set boundaries. Now I am so different...I have learnt all the lessons. I wish I had set better boundaries for myself earlier in life, but I am also grateful for where I am.
Lisa is a style icon in her own right
please can you do a video on more of your outfits, every one of your dresses is so gorgeous and classy!!
She actually has a lot of those đ
@@ametrineambrosia4929 oh thank you!!
I love that you often put clips of Steve Harvey in your videos! He gives a lot of great advice based on traditional roles of male and female and of traditional dating + marriage rules. His wife is living the beautiful hypergamous life!
He cheated on and left his first woman who supported him early in his career.
Lisa this was so helpful! I sometimes get afraid of being too picky or having too many standards but your words comforted me that it is part of being a high value woman. A love coach expert said that men respond to how your tolerate or what you put up with and this reminds me of that.
Absolutely đ I'm so happy my video help you make you feel better about your standards! Don't forget you are the prize!
@@Lisaglamour Merci beaucoup :)!! Thank you!
I never succeeded in any relationship
IAM married now
My life is very low standard
Because of the character of my husband
I tried my best
Same⊠Iâm trying to do better now that Iâm getting a d******.
Thank you Lisa for always encouraging us to hold high standards for our lives and what we want in a man. You are a blessing to women everywhere. Love this!
So much valuable information here. All of this is gold. No explanations are necessary. If men canât match you? Donât waste your time on him. đ·
My only standards are (as a 20 years young v!rg!n) are: willing to spend money on me, able to hold interesting or at least decent conversations, not old enough to be my father (or even older) and doesn't smell bad. Yet *everyone* thinks "it's too much". If I can't get someone like this, I'll happily be forever single. It's mindbl0w!ng how short are some women s3ll!ng themselves.
@izzi considine Sadly, this is indeed where we are right now. Her perfectly reasonable standards would be considered outrageous in my country. Really don't understand why it's so hard for some women to put themselves first and why being single as a girl/woman is seen as such a disgrace.
@izzi Yes, they do. That's why I've never had a relationship. I'm curious what exactly would they consider decent standards, if mine are "too much".
@Kira Vampira Exactly. It's so annoying how we are conditioned to respect them no matter what, while they are conditioned to see themselves as the best thing since sliced bread.
@izzi considine Hope you find him. Your standards (at least outside the biblical ones) aren't high either. And your list is shorter than what *they* expect from us đ
The way youâre describing the bare minimum and people still get mad at itđ the bar for men is in hell
@Cheshire says You said it perfectly. Can't help but ask myself when and why has the bar become so low for them.
Excellent video with amazing tips and techniques that can be used on an everyday basis. The one thing that I found truly important was setting up high standards and how they can determine one's life. I absolutely agree with that statement because when doing so, you gain that confidence in yourself and also show others what you're made of and can also bring in respect from others, the higher you set them. It is something that's difficult to do, especially when you're new at it, but giving it time is just as important.
Thank you so much for these techniques and spreading your positivity!
P.S. I adore the outfit! Very beautiful!
Can you please show where you shop at? High end and low places please. I love your style and Ive been getting more simple pieces but Iâd like to take it up a natch. Thank you so much â€ïž
You are such a queen! Just what I needed
Everything you say in this video is SO true. Raising my standards is changing my life. Thank you Lisa for your sharing your soothing feminine energy and thoughts with usđđđđ
Lovely outfit, Lisa! I have recently started watching your videos intently! Within the week I have been watching, I have been able to see changes in my own life as it relates to me being more feminine. All the tips you shared, I have been able to make into habits. I am very happy and super excited to see the long term outcomes. Thank you sooo much Lisa!
Thank you đ i need to work on not explaining myself and keep the mystery
I liked it when she said âThis kind rude to ask a person why they donât do certain thingsâ ,, unfortunately not everyone realizes that !
lisaaa you look amazing in all your clips! i love how your outfits have different vibes like classy, elegant, playful, etc đ btw this video was so helpful!!
Lisa I love watching your videos. Your energy and your general presence is so soft and soothing. I tend to behave masculine (in and out of the relationship) oftentimes. Your videos really help me return to my femininity again from time to time. Just to relax and enjoy being a woman. Thank you!
How are you so young and yet SO WISE?! You are AMAZING! GOD BLESS YOU AND THANK YOU FOR THIS! xoxo
I think that being angry is a positive sign from your body that your limit and standards have been overthrown and thatâs important to listen to. The question is how you express it. It can be done by saying what you feel, need and want with a deep and calm voice that sounds natural - never shout and scream because it actually makes you seem weak. Itâs more convincing speaking with a deep voice than a light one because itâs more down to earth and youâre more down in your body instead of flying up to the sky
Great as usual! Thank you! â€ïž
I always love your advice and seeing your elegant and glamorous looks! So beautiful and helpful, thank you đčđđșâšâ€ïž
Your video comes right on time once again my love! Thank you so much for empowering us women with feminine power...!
Oh I really love it! Thank you Lisa đđđđ
You are so right, I want someone who makes me feel good about myself, if they cannot, they are not the right person for me, cheers.
I really loved your outfit in this videođ
Thank you for your advice, you are a generous personâ€ïž
Lisa I resonate with each and every word you said. Thank you so much for this video đđ
Thanks for the video. I totally agree about stop explaining when you say no to something. đ
This was a much needed reminder, thank you so much for your work!
Thank you â€ïž
Loved this!
You are so right!! Keep going darling!!! Love from Greece!!!
this is exactly the video I needed, thank you) greetings from Ukraine â€ïž
Thanks you! Blessings from Puerto Rico đ”đ·
Thank you Lisa sending love from Indonesia
Love you đ„°
@@Lisaglamour I'm so happy. Love you so much Lisa. You're so lovely, kind, feminine, elegant and inspiring me. I'm always waiting your new video â€
Courtship is actually dating without sex but also putting the man on trial...
In almost all off your videos you show my country and I really love that. I appriciate that.
Can you make a video on your diet or what you eat? You have such a nice body youâre slim with curves and I am very small I have curves but since Iâm so slim theyâre not very visible unless Iâm wearing a dress.
Thank you for the video. I love your skirt!
You always make me feel better :)
Excellnet tips đđ thank you so much đ
I really enjoy your videos, Lisa
I love your videos. Shared with a friend. â€â€â€â€
Its still my favorite video Lisa â„ïž
Gracias Lisa, por hacer estos videos. Te amo â€ïž
Ella habla FrancĂ©s y InglĂ©s ella no habla Español todavĂa ella es de Francia
So important!!! Standards! đčđ
I can decide my requirements/set my boundaries...than someone is coming and completely upsetting everything. :-) :-)
I love your channel!
I love this channel! Iâve watched all the videos
Thank you I'm glad to hear that â€ïž
Thatâs what we all need
J'aime trop cette chaĂźne đ„°
Someone has just discovered Mina (The universe guru)! Xx
I LOOOOOVVVEEEE MINAđâ€ïž
I love your look today!
Never forget that you are a Queen â€đâ€ïž
I just subscribed! Iâm in love with your content. Where do you buy all of your clothes from?
Keep your standards high đ â€ïž Love your pleated dress. Please tell us where we can find that
Thank you so much Lisa đ„° you have really helped me level up and I'm only 17! I have a question, do you think marketing (business) degree is a good idea for feminine luxury lifestyle? Thank you đ
I love your outfit !
Thank you đ
I love your outfit đ»
Please make a video on vintage dressesđ
Thank you
Love you sister
I love your outfit.
Where is your dress from??!đđ the nude bodycon one in the clipsâ€
Thanks
Thnks â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
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5 people with low standards disliked this video
I realize that later in life. Im old and underestimated
Where do you shop for your clothes ?
My issue, before disability, has been that whenever i said no throughout my life, the consequences were dire n more painful than saying yes, whenever i tried to maintain boundries, they got trashed and disrespected by others, so before i became ill and had a 'good enough' reason to have boundries, i couldnt defend myself and would either be worn down n exhausted or completely ignored. That said, i recall i would sometimes be afraid of saying no to men (mum was beaten in my childhood) n the only 2 times i did say no clearly i was raped anyway. Usually i was saying no in more subtle ways cos i was frightened of saying no cos past experiences
Ive also been frightened of ending up in a love relationship where the sex is terrible, so i used to rush into the sex n if we didnt click in that department, i knew there was no point going beyond friendship, so i protected my heart n emotions. Good sex is very important to me and im not sure where the balance is. I guess iv been protecting my heart n not my body, plus i used to be needy and 'love hungry' with zero self esteem.
Lots has changed in the last 10 years, im no longer that old version, i now have boundries and can say no much easier. its been a key vital lesson to improving my health. Iv also learnt to have higher standards re friendships, such that im only in contact with 2 friends from before i was chronically ill
I have been thru this too, rape, abuse and chronic illness.
@@ametrineambrosia4929 that sucks, i would wish this stuff never happened to anyone
Yet at same time, its made me who i am n its taught me so much n i LIKE myself
I hope you too have silver linings đ
Nice dress
Hi Lisa
I am just a regular girl. I had a kid 10 years ago and while I havenât âlet myself goâ, Iâm not at my best. What would be the first step you would suggest taking to level up? I was never taught self care (skin care, pedicures, manicures, Etc.) so I donât do those. I donât have the nicest clothes either as I have always struggled financially and only recently do I now have enough for things here and there. Iâm basically starting from ground zero
You don't need the nicest clothes or pedicures. That's what society promotes for women to spend their money. Guess what? The women with the nicest clothes and money are still single or getting cheated on the right and left. True feminity =protection. The goal of feminity is to keep yourself safe and alive for a long time. It's to protect yourself financially and emotionally. Feminity = protection not love.
Keep the clothes you have washed and ironed. Your nails are buffed and trimmed.
Your focus should be on getting inner value first. Listen to some counseling channels. Get a better income. Find a career that can bring income. Think project managers, Analysts etc. Find a way to make money!! make more money
Start with the inner work. Then focus on your mental and physical health. Obtain a career that brings a decent amount of income. You might not have best clothes now, but still try to look neat and clean. You can still do your hair, nails, and skincare.
In my opinion even in this Day an age men are getting want they want (cookies) but, they arenât getting the type of cookies they want.
What's the show you took the clips from
Back in the day there was only a diaphragm and condom for birth control there was no birth control pill. And if you became pregnant without a husband it was a terrific shame. So women were much more careful about intimacy.
Hi Lisa, if I am waiting until marriage, should I explain my partner the reason why I wait? Guys always ask why and it is hard to be mysterious when it comes to this topic. It always seems to be a deal breaker :(
make it a game ...no stranger has the right to know why you make this decision...you cast your pearls amongst swine if you answer.... I've got my reasons too... turning it into a game is being mysterious..being mysterious is no direct answer
@@dutchessofcreativity9397 thank you for your answer :)
Just say because you want to save it for the best man đ if itâs a deal breaker for them, just say thank you! Your body rejects those who arenât good for you , wether youâre aware of it or not. Itâs not worth it to give your body to please a man. Itâs for your pleasure and you are worth so much!!
Which film are the George Clooney clips from?
The movie is Intolerable Cruelty đ
@@SeychelleSunshine thank you!
Loved the video! I have difficulty in saying no when someone invites for dinner, for example, and I am not interested in them romantically.
Is there a polite way of saying no, without offending them? Or should I go, and during the conversation express clearly that I am not interested in a relationship (or just friendship)?
If I may I could offer some advice. You can politely decline and say you're not interested or that you're too busy in the near future (especially if they ask to reschedule). Key is to actually have active interests to make it more convincing and for them to take the hint even easier. It worked for me so far but do experiment with different ways of doing so to see what feels most right to you. It's a bit of a trial and error matter frankly.
Girl, you're lucky. I *wish* I was in your situation, but I'm pretty much invisible to m3n, no matter how much effort I put into my looks and how feminine I naturally am.
If you're not thrilled to be going then definitely don't go.
@@anyamiranda9452 how are you invisible?????? You remind me of fine white lace. They don't make silk lace like they used to. You look like a supermodel. For me what attracts them is that I'm carefree, spontaneous, playful but very spicy and unpredictable. I'm mostly gentle but often strong and fierce and otherworldly so they never know what to expect from me. Being a paradox. And when I'm very in touch with my pleasure and sexuality my energy exudes it. That's what helps me.
@@anyamiranda9452 why don't you spell certain words??
OH MY GOD I GET ASKED WHY I DONT DRINK AL THE TIME!! its so rude!
Better standards?I'd like to set them and be assertive enough to become real life Aphrodite
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Can you zoom in your camera a little bit? I feel like it would create a more personal connection with you and what you teach when we can see your face from shorter distance đ
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what about his standards and your standards contradict? he wants an old school housewife , who takes care of the kids etc, whereas you are expecting him to cook for you . But you still want him as a husband then what would you do ?
Cooking is not gender based. Gordon Ramsey is proof. Cooking is a survival tactic.
If they contradict, itâs not a good match. He wants to keep his standards as much as you want to keep yours.
Totally agree with what is being said.
The only problem:
Not many high value women out there anymore.
Tinder and Co. made women easy and fast to get. They donât wanna put in the effort anymore ( they are lazy, right?)because there is plenty of other pretty women easier to get in line. For âthe cookieâ they just get a different woman every week if they want.
Glad iâm not out in the single pool- must be hard nowadaysâŠ
Urm there is nothing wrong with being and staying single. That is also a high value option...so pls
Oh I agree with you
Not sure if this will work with average or plain looking women. What do you think?
Having standards and requirements about a man treating you correctly being respectful, and a gentleman is not just only for beautiful women, but for all women On top of it, beauty is subjective and anybody can level up !
Many famous women and seductresses throughout history were nothing special to look at but their intelligence and confidence made them irresistible (Wallis Simpson is a good example). French women also exemplify this well. Not all of them are classic beauties like Lisa, and sometimes if you really look at them they can look plain, but they are elegant, refined, smart and stylish and this gives them the aura of beauty. I think beauty is both what you have and what you do with it. So donât let anyone make you feel like you are not beautiful enough. Also as Lisa said if women collectively decided to have high standards, chivalry in society would be a given ;)
@@Lisaglamour yes!!! Remember ladies anybody and that means anybody! Can level up
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What if men choose "pick me women" cause such women accept all the crap they do and desperately try to hold onto them?
I just see this a lot. A majority of men would rather make 0 effort and marry a bitch they feel they can control than learn how to treat a regular woman with consideration, warmth and love.
Im a pick me woman because i dont have choices, options, im ugly