I love their food but I worked there And I quit because of The dirty dishes that come out of the dish pit.. They will slop your ranch right over that dirty dishwater 😢 The plate you eat off of the fork and knife you use everything is dirty
I dated a girl like this producer. I dumped her. That whole perceived “lack of thought = how you feel about me” is as insecure as it gets. It doesn’t stop at dinner or a date. It’s EVERYTHING. Hard pass.
They want all the thought and affection; they won't equally return. You are getting some stranger spending his time and money to get to know you.....just that itself is crazy considering it might not even work out anyway, we payin just to "get a chance".......Its borderline tricking. Then to complain about "Cheesecake" of all things. I can understand Chipotle or BWW. You realize how much of our relationship with the opposite sex is just chauvinism and damn near a circus act.
I think these women have different love languages than what u offer. Idk ur situation but the woman feeling, as if the perceived “effort” of the man’s, during the first date, was lacking…. Means he don’t really care too much for her. Not that crazy. On the first date too? She’s right to not be interested after that. I think it’s different if it’s money and finances situation, but choosing a lower-end restaurant intentionally on the first date with a woman?… she is right and to leave… And it would probably be the smart option bc what weird shit u onnn?😂
Good. Because then the date wouldn't about you two, it's going to be about the opinion other people she, for sure, will be telling the date about to. First dates in fancy places are just for bragging rights to these type of women.
When my sister came and told me that she agrees with me now that Rory in Gilmore girls becomes an insufferable bitch in like starting in season 1 honestly, I knew I didn’t have to worry about her.
drake could take her ass to a grungy wafflehouse... thats the whole thing if a girl is head over heels for you it wont matter thats what you gotta look for is girls who like you not wasting your time on the ones who really like you and shit like that. she "wants" drake to take her to a fancy ass restaurant but she would still rant and rave about how he took her to some horrible place but it was SOOO fun!!! find someone who loves to just go out and have fun then you can enjoy the ups and downs of dating... you will enjoy the good food/dates/etc and laugh about the bad ones.
Sh!t Drake would be having that girl pick-up the Applebees herself, make her pay for it, drop it off at the hotel and make her bounce after getting topped off and not even give her any 😂 And that would prob the highlight of her life
Not really. Those dudes have the same mentality as taylor and they settle for sex workers or women who live in 2nd or 3rd world countries. Pretty pathetic actually. Plenty of good women in the US
@@DCshandle That's the problem, they can get B*tches because there are an abundance of them. But what they want is a Lady, and there aren't too many of those to be found here. Unfortunately many women have been corrupted by bad Culture here that promotes materialism and independence to a fault. Ladies can be found here but their hard to find. Wh* res and B*tches are all around the world, but in some places outside of this country it isn't promoted as much. Also the description of the gender roles and responsibilities in a relationship are different!! Arguably the culture here is me and f*ck everybody else, outside of the country it's family over everything.
Taylor repeats the take she hears overwhelmingly on social media. She doesn’t really think for herself, but I have faith she will one day. I hate the entitlement. Put into the other person you’d want from them. Period.
So many women do this. I was talking to this one chick that had plenty of great talking points that peaked my interest. But as we dug deeper into those topic points I realized she just had the talking point and never put any true thought into it.
@@LetMeEatDemI’m fine with dating those women so long as they are willing to respect me more than the bullshit they read on line. The girls that are willing to adopt my viewpoints and learn from me are pretty nice to date since there are less things to argue about. I don’t seek out those people, I’m not trying to brainwash girls or nothin, but if the girl just naturally wants to divert decision making to her man then I’m fine with that. I’m not as great in social situations so I’ll probably lean on her in those, giving us a symbiotic relationship where we make eachother better.
Same brotha, my wife asks to be taken to cheesecake she legit picks it over way nicer spots, and that’s why she a keeper. I can take her to in n out and she would be grateful to spend time together and have some food. These single hoes tripping lol.
The thing that confuses me more is, she is saying for a FIRST DATE you have to impress her, so it doesn't even matter if she loves Cheesecake Factory, she would be disappointed if you took her there on a first date...after that she would be 100% happy to go there, but don't you dare make it a first date. AND THEN SHE SAYS SHE IS OKAY WITH NETFLIX AND CHILL WTF
@@XekTOr89 is she splitting the tab? What value is she bringing if she’s in a position to state what’s appropriate and what’s not appropriate for a first date? Your view point is in a stance in which you can state one party is superior than other based on genitially not what the individual is providing.
@@koolaidremixed2She deserves that can with no label from a food pantry. It just has a stamp that says "Beef with juices" No nutritional info or anything Nah canned tuna is too good. Too much healthy protein and healthy fats.
The worst part is how passionate taylor gets while pushing a take that she hasn’t even put thought into. She thinks she’s siding with society so she’s willing to fight her way out of the corner over it
As a girl. I think shes right. i mean I would rather go chill at the park then go to a fast food place… like eww I dont eat unhealthy so it wouldnt even be a good match.😅
She’s conflating creativity with how many dollars signs someone is spending and she probably knows it but will continue to act like she doesn’t because there’s no second thought behind the superficiality.
Women are looking for signifiers of wealth and class becasue they don't want to end up in trailers or clipping coupons for the rest of their lives... Its really simple. They are looking at the whole picture, not just whether or not they like or are attracted to a guy, there are a lot of women who are miserable and struggling becasue they did not take everything past that into consideration.
It’s a popular chain, and they’re successful for a reason. It’s not the best food, but a good for a good price. The only people who hate on Applebee’s are people who are typically rich or think they’re too good for it.
@@martijnprinzen7124it’s not the worst… it’s the place you go with your friends for drinks and a game or maybe a large family if you don’t have a lot of money… food isn’t bad but not good, it’s just something to eat 🤷🏾♀️
@@Cvzar07 Yea, the people that don't like applebees are either just not that into it...or go out of their way to act like they have some superior pallet that other people don't (and will probably pay $20 for a burger lol)
I’m soooo glad I’m married already 😂😂 my wife does not care where we eat, it’s about being together and having a good time. Our first date was a hole in the wall place.
Dude. Seriously. That’s the issue now man. I remember when girls and guys just enjoyed each others company Nowadays they’re like airheaded, superficial, narcissistic, etc. So sad
My current girl likes local spots that cost the same as Applebee’s sometimes even cheaper. She has taste. BUT we recently went to Applebee’s cause she wanted the $1 margaritas lol. Most girls just wanna take a nice picture for social media, Applebee’s is too common and isn’t worthy of a picture. Just take them somewhere pretty it doesn’t have to be expensive. But if you live in country ass towns then Applebee’s should be fine
I am a woman and this list is ridiculous. If a woman is expecting this grand gesture on the first date from the guy then the guy should have the expectation to sleep with you on the first date. It’s not just about your expectations. 2 people are going out.
You know whats crazy..if she was worried about her safety so much she wouldnt even agreed to the date. But she is a mooch, and a mooch will guilt trip you for free food/experience. Totally useless and heres the kicker SHE AINT PAYING FOR SHIT!! NADA! So she should be happy whatever we're doing. How about getting to know the person and asking engaging questions be the goal, not how much the dinner bills is that you AINT PAYING FOR lol Mf wont even leave a tip, but trying to tell him how to be a Man?
No he should not. The list is a bit silly but saying because a man took you to a nice dinner he should expect is sex is even more stupid. Yes men tend to. But saying he should? Stupid. It's equating sex and money as equal exchange. They are not. But if that's how you see it good luck to you.
@@Naomi-sy9lp It’s not equating but we have to acknowledge that men and women are different and have different expectations. Society is saying you have to confirm to one side’s expectations and not the other. Again not saying it’s even exchange by any means because I value that with the man more than a date but for women to have exceedingly high expectations on the first date is ridiculous and that’s the point I was trying to make.
Starbucks being there is wild. I love good coffee so I'd rather go to a local cafe. That's not an option across the country. A coffee shop is a good first date low commitment, easy to talk, relaxed atmosphere. If the vibes are good you go to dinner.
This is all fabricated from a recent insane woman who went viral on TikTok for putting her first date on blast, filming him in the car taking her to Cheesecake Factory, and her having a tantrum because he chose a “chain” restaurant. The guy uno reversed it on her and said “It’s a great place and affordable. I’m not going to spend my whole budget on a first date before we know each other.” She kept complaining and he eventually said “That’s fine. I’ll take you home now” and politely proceeded to drop her a$$ off. She was so shocked and started saying “wait so we’re not going to eat?”💀 She expected him to crumble out of desperation and take her somewhere else. He stood tall and suddenly she was begging for him to take her to eat! Don’t let women emasculate you and hold your ground. Be decisive and take charge. That’s more attractive to women vs where you go on a date whether they admit it or not.
Well explained recap with a phenomenal Cherry on top! I couldn’t agree more my man I’m 25 been married for three years and there are humble women out there who are willing to grind from the beginning with you and grow.
That whole thing was staged in fact there are 2 different takes posted of that. Easy to find, was all manufactured by the guy that "interviewed" them after. Total ruse that suckers endlessly fall for. The hilarious part is all of this manufactured bullshit is starting to leak into people's actual options about shit.
@@msnewsenior "You’ll get turned down and she’ll go to an actual date with another guy" Ah you seem to refer all women like a monolith who follow a specific formula. The misogyny is showing bud. (If you're a woman, the gaslighting is on point though)
Not these days. Atleast not the smart ones. Most guys found the red pill back in 2020 they are moving accordingly in these streets already. Anybody you see getting online hollering about this is someone who just took the pill like this year😂😂 this is pure comedy for us cuz none of these types of chicks are on my radar any dam way. why do you think most people are goin over seas now🤣🤣
Damn that’s actually sad. Only way she validates herself is by what her SO spends on her. Like honestly that’s heartbreaking. Hope she gets with a good person and becomes more secure in herself.
My first date with my husband: he made a full italian dinner and packed it all into his back pack, picked me up on a tandem bike, and we rode to the edge of the water in the bay area and ate dinner by candle light ❤ 13 years as of right now
He just happened to have a tandem bike? And he cooked pasta and everything then you all did a bike ride so you ate cold ass noodles at the end of it? The bay is cold and windy especially after dark so yall ate cold noodles on a chilly night with your candle blowing out?? I've got so many questions
@hambone4728 hahaha yeah so the roommates had a tandem bike he borrowed. We rode to a place they used to call the Tea House which was by embarcadero-ish, by Jack London Square. It was not windy that evening, thank God..lol. and the food was like Luke warm and not great. We lit the candles inside the tea house, so they stayed lit. We made out a bunch, it was super cute. We are not boojie people, we were in the punk scene at the time so being a little disheveled and sweaty for a date was not a problem...good times :)
Yeah but that was thoughtful tho. I dont think the woman really articulates her points well. Her main point was about thoughtfulness and actually showing you took the time to plan something out. And the men got triggered. I do think taylor is also not accounting for the fact the person might like applebees.
What's aggravating me about this entire discourse is great questions are being asked but not given time to really be thought out to get a legitimate answer. When a great question is asked it's ruined by interruptions. This man asked one of the greatest questions that a lot of these women have to process. Why are you worth impressing?????
I saw and thought the same thing you did. They were trying to be too funny about this very timely subject. What a missed opportunity to get men's points across.
@@cedricbethea yeah it's like you don't have to keep going for the joke all the time. When Taylor was asked a question about why is she so special, she actually got stomped but then they keep talking over it and it just ruined it
@richbrass12 yes indeed, once again you made some excellent points and observations. I hope that they read them and respond as I did. I appreciate your response and comments, thank you brother.
because they don't have much to offer besides giving birth. I think if they thought well enough of themselves it wouldn't matter where a guy "takes" them.
That's keeping it a buck the first date should be the most what Taylor would call basic, I need to get to know if the woman is worth trying to impress before she getting it like that. These women are too selfish and materialistic
I agree with the guy in the middle. Happily married for 10 years never cared about where we went. To each there own but its true instagram ruined everything. All these unrealistic expectations. 😵💫 sucks for everyone
Yo this is the hardest I've laughed at a clip in a while 😅😂😅😂😅 Charla saying "I don't believe anyone ever treated you like that" 😂😂😂😂 The "Your mouth saying Nobu but ya hair sayin AppleBees" omggg
@@SASMADBRUV7probably waiting for her to hopefully forget marriage being a thing because there’s absolutely no benefit for a man to get married lol. Wtf is with men who are concerned with other men being married or getting married? It’s like they feel so stupid they don’t wanna be alone lol.
i appreciate these women that make these lists bc it absolutely identifies the women i need to pass on, the point of dating is to get to know the person you're dating. if you're more interested in the place i take you, i dont need u
Cheesecake Factory is the perfect first date place because the menu is 40 pages long. Imagine taking her to a fancy place and she doesn’t like anything on the menu
The only criteria I ever had about dates was safety. So it always had to be public, take my own transportation, etc. other than that I didn’t care. We are meeting each other for the first time, that’s it.
Women like Taylor are not there to meet you, but to experience the date. The strange part is if they do this five days a week and ghost all the guys - they'll experience over 200 restaurants a year without spending a dollar. Most guys in NYC except finance bros, won't do anything more than a coffee first date because we all know how deceiving the women are here.
They say expectations kill happiness, and these expectations keep a divide between actually connecting to a good guy and attracts the type of guy that wants a girl to have these types of expectations so he can use them against her.
The fact that thoughtfulness is measure by the material things or niceness of a place is why everyone keeps crying about their relationships and experiences. If y’all try to gauge people by who they are and how they think and the way they treat people, you won’t be having all the issues you have today! It’s not hard to hide a horrible personality and attitude with money and nice places.
Damn, Taylor is literally the embodiment of modern women and what’s wrong with them. A first date is meant for getting to know each other more and seeing if there’s chemistry. The only place I agree with not going for first dates are the movies and their house. That’s more of a 2 or 3 date thing. The only reason they want to go to expensive restaurants is because they want to flex for their socials and get a free meal and drinks. More importantly they want to see how much money the man has. I’m not spending 30+ a plate unless we’re in a relationship. Plus, I’m not there to impress you. You’re there to impress me and show what value you can add to my life besides ass🤷🏽♂️
My first date was at a whataburger with the girl I’m dating. This whole thing is crazy. The second date was nice but I’m not spending a lot on a girl I’m entirely unsure about.
I like cheap dates to be honest. It's fun and less pressure. I like a diner or a picnic vibe or like a flea market lol. I think real issue here is having expectations. Only thing I do expect if dude better pay if he asked me on the date. It could be McDonald's, but you're paying if you asked me.
As the wise Patrice once said: if your 20, you can get whatever you want. When your 30+ your expiration date has passed. It’s like opening a fresh bag of chips, or a stale bag of cereal. I’ll eat stale cereal, but I want it right now. Just throw it on the floor.
"I don't believe anyone treated you nice". Finally, Charlemagne finally said something I agree with. Girl you're in your 30s, your stock value dropped a little from your 20s. Soon she'll have take what she can get
Lmaoo I love this argument. Have it all the time at work with coworkers. My point stands at what is the point of the first date? We’re getting to know each other, no one should have to drop a ton of money on something that may not even lead to a second date. If the person is shitty then I just lost a ton of money. A simple casual first date is the way to go. Fancier establishments when you want to prove to someone you value them.
That list is for people that care about being taken to a fancier place. If your too good to go to any of those food places you better be a 10/10 model.
She's litteraly saying that the amount he spends doesn't matter, she just wants to go to something other than a chain restaurant. You could take her to a small mom and pop restaurant that she's never been to. Why these dudes focused on applebees?
She is NOT saying an expensive place. She saying a ma & pop place and NOT a franchise. I agree! In New York, Queens for example has so many places. Franchise restaurants are tacky and easy. Small business like a ma and pop shop should be supported.
Andrew shouting out the avocado egg rolls at Cheesecake shows he is a man of substance AND class
I love their food but I worked there And I quit because of The dirty dishes that come out of the dish pit.. They will slop your ranch right over that dirty dishwater 😢 The plate you eat off of the fork and knife you use everything is dirty
@@lightasafeather9750there's probably a lot of places like that unfortunately 😔
@@lightasafeather9750extra flavor. You too bougie ✌️
I look like a penguin named Pablo Sanchez the fourteenth
@@fbi10 📠
The fact she said Netflix and chill would be a better option told us all we needed to know
Absolutely
Gold Digger mentality
Arguing just to argue
Should of mentioned it to dad n see what he thought 😂
all she does is 🧢🧢
I dated a girl like this producer. I dumped her. That whole perceived “lack of thought = how you feel about me” is as insecure as it gets. It doesn’t stop at dinner or a date. It’s EVERYTHING.
Hard pass.
They want all the thought and affection; they won't equally return. You are getting some stranger spending his time and money to get to know you.....just that itself is crazy considering it might not even work out anyway, we payin just to "get a chance".......Its borderline tricking. Then to complain about "Cheesecake" of all things. I can understand Chipotle or BWW. You realize how much of our relationship with the opposite sex is just chauvinism and damn near a circus act.
That’s hard. Lack of thought = how you feel about me. Ima use that
I think these women have different love languages than what u offer. Idk ur situation but the woman feeling, as if the perceived “effort” of the man’s, during the first date, was lacking…. Means he don’t really care too much for her. Not that crazy. On the first date too? She’s right to not be interested after that.
I think it’s different if it’s money and finances situation, but choosing a lower-end restaurant intentionally on the first date with a woman?… she is right and to leave… And it would probably be the smart option bc what weird shit u onnn?😂
Good. Because then the date wouldn't about you two, it's going to be about the opinion other people she, for sure, will be telling the date about to. First dates in fancy places are just for bragging rights to these type of women.
When my sister came and told me that she agrees with me now that Rory in Gilmore girls becomes an insufferable bitch in like starting in season 1 honestly, I knew I didn’t have to worry about her.
If Drake asks her to Applebee’s I’m sure she won’t hesitate to go 🤣
No doubt
drake could take her ass to a grungy wafflehouse... thats the whole thing if a girl is head over heels for you it wont matter thats what you gotta look for is girls who like you not wasting your time on the ones who really like you and shit like that. she "wants" drake to take her to a fancy ass restaurant but she would still rant and rave about how he took her to some horrible place but it was SOOO fun!!! find someone who loves to just go out and have fun then you can enjoy the ups and downs of dating... you will enjoy the good food/dates/etc and laugh about the bad ones.
Exactly..
Sh!t Drake would be having that girl pick-up the Applebees herself, make her pay for it, drop it off at the hotel and make her bounce after getting topped off and not even give her any 😂 And that would prob the highlight of her life
Fr
She’s making passport bros look real smart right now 😂
Not really. Those dudes have the same mentality as taylor and they settle for sex workers or women who live in 2nd or 3rd world countries. Pretty pathetic actually. Plenty of good women in the US
Going 3rd world cause you can’t get bitches is crazy
@@DCshandlegoing to another country because you don’t want to have to go through all of this is the most sane thing a man can do.
@@DCshandle That's the problem, they can get B*tches because there are an abundance of them. But what they want is a Lady, and there aren't too many of those to be found here. Unfortunately many women have been corrupted by bad Culture here that promotes materialism and independence to a fault. Ladies can be found here but their hard to find. Wh* res and B*tches are all around the world, but in some places outside of this country it isn't promoted as much. Also the description of the gender roles and responsibilities in a relationship are different!! Arguably the culture here is me and f*ck everybody else, outside of the country it's family over everything.
@@DCshandledamn Mr. Bitches
Taylor acting like she ain't a 3/10
That ain’t nice. True tho
shes finna die alone or wit a baby daddy.. most of these women are
Like she don’t look like Yo Gotti’s previously conjoined twin.
A 3 that is being way to generous
I think most of y’all fans of the podcast just don’t like black women lol cuz 3/10 is crazy
Taylor repeats the take she hears overwhelmingly on social media. She doesn’t really think for herself, but I have faith she will one day. I hate the entitlement. Put into the other person you’d want from them. Period.
This is the internet...its all fake. And these new kids eat it up like Stalin contolled Russia
💯
Lol, that’s pretty much most women these days.
So many women do this. I was talking to this one chick that had plenty of great talking points that peaked my interest. But as we dug deeper into those topic points I realized she just had the talking point and never put any true thought into it.
@@LetMeEatDemI’m fine with dating those women so long as they are willing to respect me more than the bullshit they read on line. The girls that are willing to adopt my viewpoints and learn from me are pretty nice to date since there are less things to argue about.
I don’t seek out those people, I’m not trying to brainwash girls or nothin, but if the girl just naturally wants to divert decision making to her man then I’m fine with that. I’m not as great in social situations so I’ll probably lean on her in those, giving us a symbiotic relationship where we make eachother better.
4:17 Andrew's "you're the box" flew over everyone's heads lmao
Underrated comment
I’m married with 2 kids and my wife gets excited to go to Cheesecake Factory… these women wild af these days.
ya they don't make em like that anymore..sadly. well done, dogg👏👏
Same brotha, my wife asks to be taken to cheesecake she legit picks it over way nicer spots, and that’s why she a keeper. I can take her to in n out and she would be grateful to spend time together and have some food. These single hoes tripping lol.
That's why your wife got a ring, good for you bro. Wish the rest of us luck.
The thing that confuses me more is, she is saying for a FIRST DATE you have to impress her, so it doesn't even matter if she loves Cheesecake Factory, she would be disappointed if you took her there on a first date...after that she would be 100% happy to go there, but don't you dare make it a first date. AND THEN SHE SAYS SHE IS OKAY WITH NETFLIX AND CHILL WTF
@@XekTOr89 is she splitting the tab? What value is she bringing if she’s in a position to state what’s appropriate and what’s not appropriate for a first date? Your view point is in a stance in which you can state one party is superior than other based on genitially not what the individual is providing.
Taylor, you deserve ramen noodles with that mentality 😂😂😂
Yes
As a Korean she don't deserve no ramen. Ice soup at best
Nah ramen too good. She deserves canned tuna lol
@@koolaidremixed2She deserves that can with no label from a food pantry. It just has a stamp that says "Beef with juices"
No nutritional info or anything
Nah canned tuna is too good. Too much healthy protein and healthy fats.
Shit not even that I make my ramen with love she ain't getting that shit ever
Moral of the story: The more you give a person, the more entitled/ Ungrateful they become.
THIS COMENT RIGHT HERE!!!
*women
Fixed it for you.
Giving them the right to vote was the beginning
This is universal. Same with kids and pets
The youth is doomed because of this type of mentality it’s really sad for real.
The youth is only doomed if these women with these mindsets have children to groom this mentality
she not even youth
Not rly sure it’s ok to have standards yall just like to hate woman it’s crazy
@@xfaithoverwatch4235 Nah women missing out on valuable guys by inventing childish obstacles so they can brag about it to their friends
@@xfaithoverwatch4235They're complaining about restaurants they can't even regularly afford. They deserve criticism.
“You can’t even pronounce salmon” 😭🤣
The absolute funniest exchange! Your mouth saying NoBu, but your hair screaming Applebees!
This was funny
YO😂😂😂 😮😮
The worst part is how passionate taylor gets while pushing a take that she hasn’t even put thought into. She thinks she’s siding with society so she’s willing to fight her way out of the corner over it
Girls, in general, argue things they don't agree with
As a girl. I think shes right. i mean I would rather go chill at the park then go to a fast food place… like eww I dont eat unhealthy so it wouldnt even be a good match.😅
@@slimshady1293Applebee's isn't fast fucking food.
BINGO. That was painful to watch
@@slimshady1293most food at the store is unhealthy too. You pay for sevice
She’s conflating creativity with how many dollars signs someone is spending and she probably knows it but will continue to act like she doesn’t because there’s no second thought behind the superficiality.
Women are looking for signifiers of wealth and class becasue they don't want to end up in trailers or clipping coupons for the rest of their lives... Its really simple. They are looking at the whole picture, not just whether or not they like or are attracted to a guy, there are a lot of women who are miserable and struggling becasue they did not take everything past that into consideration.
Taylor keeps giving L takes 😂 love the older brother energy everyone be giving to her 😂
Nah lol, they all knew she was right. They just argue for fun and cause her reactions are the actual stupid thing lol
@@dieterdohlen6386wtf you talking about
@@dieterdohlen6386 stop the cap
@@Shiggs1231 Oh Jesus, you honestly didn't get the irony? Ok bro, have fun with your mcdonalds date lol.
@@dieterdohlen6386 have fun with women only going for your $$
“You’re the box” was so underrated 😂😂😂
Just heard that! Lol
😂😂
That comment was wild lol
I was waiting for it, and there is was
😂😂
" i dont believe nobody ever treated you that nice" 😭💀 They be treating Taylor like she's Meg from family guy fr
She does it to herself no😅😂😂
She sounds like her too 😂
@@maroonkennedy6213 I cant unhear it now, damn lol.
She exposed women’s thought process💯
God I hope your wrong and this woman is just a anomaly. Nothing screams gold digger then this woman
there wasnt much of it to begin with, lets be honest...
Applebees like “WTF did we do?!”😂😂
as a European I have no idea what it is, but after seeing this am thinking it must be the worst restaurant in the world.
The food is actually pretty good for like a weekday lunch..i like it
It’s a popular chain, and they’re successful for a reason. It’s not the best food, but a good for a good price. The only people who hate on Applebee’s are people who are typically rich or think they’re too good for it.
@@martijnprinzen7124it’s not the worst… it’s the place you go with your friends for drinks and a game or maybe a large family if you don’t have a lot of money… food isn’t bad but not good, it’s just something to eat 🤷🏾♀️
@@Cvzar07 Yea, the people that don't like applebees are either just not that into it...or go out of their way to act like they have some superior pallet that other people don't (and will probably pay $20 for a burger lol)
This woman is giving mad ima be single forever energy
Bruh, she's given it up for shots of henny and a backwood. Now, in her late 30s, she wants fancy restaurants as a prerequisite for dating, LMAO
a nasty ass half smoked backwood LMAOOOOOOOOO
Not even bro, grape swisher
Sounds like my ex
Taylor is a single forever woman. Missing the boat waiting for a yacht. 😂😂😂😂
Lyrics bro
Hold up you spitting... I never heard that phrase before
@@b23beatz I owe that to Marcellus Wiley. Dude is 💯
@@buttmuddbrooks Saying had been around way before Marcellus Wiley said it.
@@lcgoonsquad7650 cool
Taylor deserve that 4 fo 4 deal at Wendy’s. MAYBE
That’s even a stretch
@@amiralitehrani5433lol 😂
Don't disrespect Wendy's like that. She can get leftover Chinese buffet food.
She deserves a first date and the guy pays with a coupon 😆
I wish they bring that back tbh...
I’m soooo glad I’m married already 😂😂 my wife does not care where we eat, it’s about being together and having a good time. Our first date was a hole in the wall place.
At least it wasn't Applebee's
Dude. Seriously. That’s the issue now man. I remember when girls and guys just enjoyed each others company
Nowadays they’re like airheaded, superficial, narcissistic, etc. So sad
My current girl likes local spots that cost the same as Applebee’s sometimes even cheaper. She has taste. BUT we recently went to Applebee’s cause she wanted the $1 margaritas lol. Most girls just wanna take a nice picture for social media, Applebee’s is too common and isn’t worthy of a picture. Just take them somewhere pretty it doesn’t have to be expensive. But if you live in country ass towns then Applebee’s should be fine
For real. You don't even get good portions at high end expensive restaurants.
@@Stunns91Ikr hey lets go eat a 80 dollar chicken leg arranged on a plate like you never seen before
I am a woman and this list is ridiculous. If a woman is expecting this grand gesture on the first date from the guy then the guy should have the expectation to sleep with you on the first date. It’s not just about your expectations. 2 people are going out.
You know whats crazy..if she was worried about her safety so much she wouldnt even agreed to the date. But she is a mooch, and a mooch will guilt trip you for free food/experience. Totally useless and heres the kicker SHE AINT PAYING FOR SHIT!! NADA!
So she should be happy whatever we're doing.
How about getting to know the person and asking engaging questions be the goal, not how much the dinner bills is that you AINT PAYING FOR lol
Mf wont even leave a tip, but trying to tell him how to be a Man?
No he should not. The list is a bit silly but saying because a man took you to a nice dinner he should expect is sex is even more stupid. Yes men tend to. But saying he should? Stupid. It's equating sex and money as equal exchange. They are not. But if that's how you see it good luck to you.
@@Naomi-sy9lp It’s not equating but we have to acknowledge that men and women are different and have different expectations. Society is saying you have to confirm to one side’s expectations and not the other. Again not saying it’s even exchange by any means because I value that with the man more than a date but for women to have exceedingly high expectations on the first date is ridiculous and that’s the point I was trying to make.
Starbucks being there is wild. I love good coffee so I'd rather go to a local cafe. That's not an option across the country. A coffee shop is a good first date low commitment, easy to talk, relaxed atmosphere. If the vibes are good you go to dinner.
My first date with my ex was hiking then a local brunch buffet after
This is all fabricated from a recent insane woman who went viral on TikTok for putting her first date on blast, filming him in the car taking her to Cheesecake Factory, and her having a tantrum because he chose a “chain” restaurant.
The guy uno reversed it on her and said “It’s a great place and affordable. I’m not going to spend my whole budget on a first date before we know each other.”
She kept complaining and he eventually said “That’s fine. I’ll take you home now” and politely proceeded to drop her a$$ off.
She was so shocked and started saying “wait so we’re not going to eat?”💀
She expected him to crumble out of desperation and take her somewhere else. He stood tall and suddenly she was begging for him to take her to eat!
Don’t let women emasculate you and hold your ground. Be decisive and take charge. That’s more attractive to women vs where you go on a date whether they admit it or not.
Well explained recap with a phenomenal Cherry on top! I couldn’t agree more my man I’m 25 been married for three years and there are humble women out there who are willing to grind from the beginning with you and grow.
Yeah but then he ruined it by going still talking to her and going on her PR tour. Should’ve let her spin in the win
That video was staged homie
It’s not fabricated and the Cheesecake Factory was a separate situation not linked to a list
That whole thing was staged in fact there are 2 different takes posted of that. Easy to find, was all manufactured by the guy that "interviewed" them after. Total ruse that suckers endlessly fall for.
The hilarious part is all of this manufactured bullshit is starting to leak into people's actual options about shit.
What’s crazy is the whole list is places people usually go on firsts
Yeah, because it’s a certain group of people that were asked the question. And those are the type of people that you shouldn’t take out lol
@@Thunder-vm2ugbingo
Never take women out to “food” dates, if a chick really likes you she’ll go on a walk in a park with you
FAX. Went with my girl hiking on our first date, slipped and fell but we created a core memory. 8 years strong, soon to be married.
ironically that is on the ban list too lmao
@@omgeohThat’s not a date. You’ll get turned down and she’ll go to an actual date with another guy
@@msnewsenior "You’ll get turned down and she’ll go to an actual date with another guy"
Ah you seem to refer all women like a monolith who follow a specific formula. The misogyny is showing bud. (If you're a woman, the gaslighting is on point though)
@@msnewsenior "You’ll get turned down"
Buddy did you miss the part where he said they are about to get married...??? What is you talking about lmao
My first date with my wife was at cheese cake factory and we ran into my mom and step dad. Married 13 years with 5 kids 😊
I would have been mortified 🤣🤣🤣
So cheese cake factory is bad, but walk in the park is good? Wtf 😂
Logic done jumped out the window
The red pill audience gunna have a field day with this one
Yeah only cause I have to take this chick to a field and let her graze 🙄
everyone going to have a field day with this one.
The ony dudes that defend this are simps
Not these days. Atleast not the smart ones. Most guys found the red pill back in 2020 they are moving accordingly in these streets already. Anybody you see getting online hollering about this is someone who just took the pill like this year😂😂 this is pure comedy for us cuz none of these types of chicks are on my radar any dam way. why do you think most people are goin over seas now🤣🤣
@@MrGarfield900fr I know like 5 people who met their wives over seas, every one of them, is the nicest most polite, least entitled people I know
As a woman in her later 30s had me crying
How her age get older and older each time
Damn that’s actually sad. Only way she validates herself is by what her SO spends on her. Like honestly that’s heartbreaking. Hope she gets with a good person and becomes more secure in herself.
The way Alex head was barely moving as he silently side eyed both parties in the argument was killin me 😂😂😂
I like how Andrew and Charlemagne both saw Taylor was about to get DESTROYED and tried very very hard to not make this into an intervention 😂
My first boyfriend took me to Cheesecake Factory for the avocado egg rolls… and lemme just say nobody went home lonely that night
I’m taking Taylor to Taco Bell
My first date with my husband: he made a full italian dinner and packed it all into his back pack, picked me up on a tandem bike, and we rode to the edge of the water in the bay area and ate dinner by candle light ❤ 13 years as of right now
He just happened to have a tandem bike? And he cooked pasta and everything then you all did a bike ride so you ate cold ass noodles at the end of it? The bay is cold and windy especially after dark so yall ate cold noodles on a chilly night with your candle blowing out??
I've got so many questions
@hambone4728 hahaha yeah so the roommates had a tandem bike he borrowed. We rode to a place they used to call the Tea House which was by embarcadero-ish, by Jack London Square. It was not windy that evening, thank God..lol. and the food was like Luke warm and not great. We lit the candles inside the tea house, so they stayed lit. We made out a bunch, it was super cute. We are not boojie people, we were in the punk scene at the time so being a little disheveled and sweaty for a date was not a problem...good times :)
Yeah but that was thoughtful tho. I dont think the woman really articulates her points well. Her main point was about thoughtfulness and actually showing you took the time to plan something out.
And the men got triggered. I do think taylor is also not accounting for the fact the person might like applebees.
That’s f*cking beautiful
@@DisasterZone-rh1whnah this was fucking beautiful
What's aggravating me about this entire discourse is great questions are being asked but not given time to really be thought out to get a legitimate answer. When a great question is asked it's ruined by interruptions. This man asked one of the greatest questions that a lot of these women have to process. Why are you worth impressing?????
I saw and thought the same thing you did. They were trying to be too funny about this very timely subject. What a missed opportunity to get men's points across.
@@cedricbethea yeah it's like you don't have to keep going for the joke all the time. When Taylor was asked a question about why is she so special, she actually got stomped but then they keep talking over it and it just ruined it
@richbrass12 yes indeed, once again you made some excellent points and observations. I hope that they read them and respond as I did. I appreciate your response and comments, thank you brother.
because they don't have much to offer besides giving birth. I think if they thought well enough of themselves it wouldn't matter where a guy "takes" them.
That's keeping it a buck the first date should be the most what Taylor would call basic, I need to get to know if the woman is worth trying to impress before she getting it like that. These women are too selfish and materialistic
I agree with the guy in the middle. Happily married for 10 years never cared about where we went. To each there own but its true instagram ruined everything. All these unrealistic expectations. 😵💫 sucks for everyone
Yo this is the hardest I've laughed at a clip in a while 😅😂😅😂😅 Charla saying "I don't believe anyone ever treated you like that" 😂😂😂😂
The "Your mouth saying Nobu but ya hair sayin AppleBees" omggg
I need a timestamp for the hairline comment
@@DavidSpecialis11:56
Coffee and a walk was the first date with my girl now. She was late cause she got high and fell asleep. Going strong for 5 years now.
5 years? Marry her already bro, what are you waiting for
@@SASMADBRUV7marriage is a scam
@@SASMADBRUV7probably waiting for her to hopefully forget marriage being a thing because there’s absolutely no benefit for a man to get married lol.
Wtf is with men who are concerned with other men being married or getting married? It’s like they feel so stupid they don’t wanna be alone lol.
@@SASMADBRUV7im at 7 chill bro. Some of us are smarter with our money than blowing it on a party before a house
@@kennymai1680 don't get me wrong, I'm against super big expensive weddings and rings. It's about committing to her
Best Applebees promo ever
Truly feel sorry for whenever ends up with this woman
i appreciate these women that make these lists bc it absolutely identifies the women i need to pass on, the point of dating is to get to know the person you're dating. if you're more interested in the place i take you, i dont need u
Taylor is the type of girl to be picked last in a lineup. Sports or otherwise
Cheesecake Factory is the perfect first date place because the menu is 40 pages long. Imagine taking her to a fancy place and she doesn’t like anything on the menu
The only criteria I ever had about dates was safety. So it always had to be public, take my own transportation, etc. other than that I didn’t care. We are meeting each other for the first time, that’s it.
Thats cause youre a smart girl with a good dad...
Its a bunch of fatherless behavior going on out here and they blame it on the men they date.
Soon these women will be telling you how wrong you are for setting while they're completely miserable chasing dragons (chad).
Women like Taylor are not there to meet you, but to experience the date. The strange part is if they do this five days a week and ghost all the guys - they'll experience over 200 restaurants a year without spending a dollar. Most guys in NYC except finance bros, won't do anything more than a coffee first date because we all know how deceiving the women are here.
They say expectations kill happiness, and these expectations keep a divide between actually connecting to a good guy and attracts the type of guy that wants a girl to have these types of expectations so he can use them against her.
Women these days are confusing ash. Really don’t go past surface level with anything it seems like.
The fact that thoughtfulness is measure by the material things or niceness of a place is why everyone keeps crying about their relationships and experiences. If y’all try to gauge people by who they are and how they think and the way they treat people, you won’t be having all the issues you have today! It’s not hard to hide a horrible personality and attitude with money and nice places.
You said it....good luck finding listeners who ynderstand and have the bakls to act on it. Men and Women suffer from fatherless behavior like this
Taylor's dad on the phone and Charla switching up on Taylor kiiiiilled me😂😂😂
Damn, Taylor is literally the embodiment of modern women and what’s wrong with them. A first date is meant for getting to know each other more and seeing if there’s chemistry. The only place I agree with not going for first dates are the movies and their house. That’s more of a 2 or 3 date thing. The only reason they want to go to expensive restaurants is because they want to flex for their socials and get a free meal and drinks. More importantly they want to see how much money the man has. I’m not spending 30+ a plate unless we’re in a relationship. Plus, I’m not there to impress you. You’re there to impress me and show what value you can add to my life besides ass🤷🏽♂️
My first date was at a whataburger with the girl I’m dating. This whole thing is crazy. The second date was nice but I’m not spending a lot on a girl I’m entirely unsure about.
I did something similar. It was great since we were there for 5 hours. No one cared that we were their half the night.
I like cheap dates to be honest. It's fun and less pressure. I like a diner or a picnic vibe or like a flea market lol. I think real issue here is having expectations. Only thing I do expect if dude better pay if he asked me on the date. It could be McDonald's, but you're paying if you asked me.
💯 less pressure, our grandparents met at church or school hall dances this has gone crazy
Only way.... A date is about getting to know eachother.. Not the food, not the cost of anything
Taylors dad sounds so educated and mature..nothing like.his daughter
Kevin samuels would be having a field day😂 rip OG
She gonna be a single old lady 😂😂
“Apple bitches” 🤣🤣👏🏾 had me rolling
I lost it when andrew said “what if he read you an Applebees menu” 16:36
"that horse is high as shit" LMAO
As the wise Patrice once said: if your 20, you can get whatever you want. When your 30+ your expiration date has passed. It’s like opening a fresh bag of chips, or a stale bag of cereal. I’ll eat stale cereal, but I want it right now. Just throw it on the floor.
Lol y’all really be dick riding Patrice
Yo🤟🇦🇴 RIP Patrice
I can't stand Taylor this was hard to listen too she needs to get out thinking she all that she really ain't
"You want flowers in an Applebees?!" is the funniest thing I've ever heard
The idea of spending money and buying luxury goods is the result of marketing to keep money flowing to already wealthy people and companies.
They trolling her so hard 😂
"I don't believe anyone treated you nice". Finally, Charlemagne finally said something I agree with.
Girl you're in your 30s, your stock value dropped a little from your 20s. Soon she'll have take what she can get
she will be in her 40s talkin bout "i still look goooooooooood"
Why didn't she see her destruction coming 😂
4:14 you’re the box 🤣🤣🤣🤣
if she ungrateful she don't need the time of day.
Room 40 lmao I'm using that asap 😂😂😂
4:00 “You’re the box” 😂😂
4:18 when he said you're the box I lost it
Netflix and chill on a first date, all I needed to hear from Taylor's mouth lol
Taylor a lost soul
"You're the box!" LOLOLOLOL
Taylor is so annoying
It's easy to demand certain first date standards when you haven't paid for one in your life. Be grateful that someone is spending their time on you.
i dont like Taylor. she acts to good for men
Taylor would be lucky to get an Applebee’s date lol. Starbucks is fine but Applebee’s isn’t?
I was waiting the entire video to break it down the way the men breaking down their points but she just repeated the same tweet for half hour.
💀bruh that list is like 80% of date options
Taylor got expectations but thinks why do guys have expectations
The guy in the middle asked some good question, and all of her answers were nothing answers.
Lmaoo I love this argument. Have it all the time at work with coworkers. My point stands at what is the point of the first date? We’re getting to know each other, no one should have to drop a ton of money on something that may not even lead to a second date. If the person is shitty then I just lost a ton of money. A simple casual first date is the way to go. Fancier establishments when you want to prove to someone you value them.
Apple bees watching this like 🥹
Wild suggestion: If someone is talking 50% of the clip…..put a camera on them
Nah honestly we are good on it
These girls. On social media too much. Tryna out do each other
This the funniest shit I seen in a minute 😂
0:45 Bro killed me
That list is for people that care about being taken to a fancier place. If your too good to go to any of those food places you better be a 10/10 model.
That’s why all these relationships now a days don’t last or are toxic 🤷♂️🤷♂️
your the box lmaooo
I wouldn't touch that woman with a pair of tongs. She clearly just wants someone to spoil her. Why not just go somewhere and get to know each other.
She's litteraly saying that the amount he spends doesn't matter, she just wants to go to something other than a chain restaurant. You could take her to a small mom and pop restaurant that she's never been to. Why these dudes focused on applebees?
You clearly didn't listen to a word what was said
@@GojosBackHand You only heard what you wanted to hear and didn't bother listening to her.
She is NOT saying an expensive place. She saying a ma & pop place and NOT a franchise. I agree! In New York, Queens for example has so many places. Franchise restaurants are tacky and easy. Small business like a ma and pop shop should be supported.
I'm glad someone else noticed that detail. The quality of a meal at a local restaurant is far better than a chain.
I’m at a city in the south that doesn’t have much of a food scene. Chain restaurants and bowling is all we got.
5:14 love the quote lol