RELATIONSHIP TIPS FOR SINGLE AND ENGAGED BROTHERS || TRUE TALK WITH TED|| SO6E19

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  • This episode is a must watch for single bothers and sisters too. It will certainly bless you.
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  • @simeonadu8932
    @simeonadu8932 Před 14 dny +23

    How should a brother get prepared to receive a 'no' as an answer from a proposal to a sister?😂
    This one sank in my head.🤣🤣🤣
    But I'm really blessed.

  • @oladunnijosephakin341
    @oladunnijosephakin341 Před 13 dny +5

    Wow, thanks to the TED
    I'm getting values to build my home. My marriage will thrive, Amen ❤❤

  • @Oluwanifemi_Marvelous
    @Oluwanifemi_Marvelous Před 14 dny +11

    This episode is insightful and powerful 🔥.
    Never journey with someone when they've not made their intentions known. Kai, that's powerful.
    Thank you for being passionate and intentional about us. God bless you, Mama Darasimi, Mama Tolu, Mama Ella. I love you❤

  • @mitchelnwaokolo269
    @mitchelnwaokolo269 Před 12 dny +8

    I just shazamed the intro song: "JayMikee - By My Side" - What a beautiful song!
    I always wondered where the soundtrack came from but never really shazamed it. God bless you all ❤

  • @jeremiahogbadu
    @jeremiahogbadu Před 11 dny +5

    My dear brothers, I take God beg you, if she says no, MOVE ON. Talk to God, He has other daughters. As for the ego part, humble yourself before God and before your wife. Be a leader yes, but let her play her role as a help meet. Accept help. I enjoyed this. Thank God for these great women!

  • @uchennajideofor
    @uchennajideofor Před 14 dny +7

    Today's for the brothers 😂.
    May God help us all. Thanks TED!

  • @Specialgift9421
    @Specialgift9421 Před 14 dny +4

    God bless you mamas!
    My brothers must hear😊

  • @rjayspeaks
    @rjayspeaks Před 14 dny +2

    Very good teaching! God bless you Sisters!

  • @timmyxamm6049
    @timmyxamm6049 Před 14 dny

    This is great.
    More grace

  • @samuel_akins
    @samuel_akins Před 14 dny

    Thanks for shedding more light here Sisters 😊
    It's a privilege to learn these ❤

  • @emmanuelbolajoko
    @emmanuelbolajoko Před 12 dny +6

    Tolu is looking different
    Hope nah wetin I dey think
    Safe delivery in Jesus name
    I miss you, your pics and that smile especially

  • @gloriakasunmu6316
    @gloriakasunmu6316 Před 14 dny +1

    May God bless you all and more anointing in the name of Jesus amen❤

  • @ChimaHenry-qi8gx
    @ChimaHenry-qi8gx Před 14 dny

    Nice topic right here. All are commentary are well noted.. Thank you

  • @gracebanda7180
    @gracebanda7180 Před 14 dny

    God bless TED

  • @user-ys1bw4ii6e
    @user-ys1bw4ii6e Před 14 dny

    More grace

  • @ilerioluwaakinbade9988

    God bless you, TED! 🙏

  • @dennisasare2509
    @dennisasare2509 Před 13 dny

    Very insightful. God richly bless you

  • @fadaemmanuel6741
    @fadaemmanuel6741 Před 14 dny

    Thank you so much for this! God bless you

  • @oluwatayooyarinde2489
    @oluwatayooyarinde2489 Před 12 dny

    🎉🎉it's so good to be back here🎉🎉i have missed True talk with TED ❤❤

  • @rachaelaber6088
    @rachaelaber6088 Před 9 dny

    This is a great episode surely
    Wooow!

  • @joginahlesetja3550
    @joginahlesetja3550 Před 14 dny +3

    "A woman appreciate your efforts..... As a man don't be passive"

  • @AnointedPreachersPulpit
    @AnointedPreachersPulpit Před 12 dny +2

    God will also take care of marriages that springs from His hands and there not be divorce. That does not necessarily means that there will not be challenges or problems. But the truth is when they come, they cannot win.

  • @Oasis_of_Peace2024
    @Oasis_of_Peace2024 Před 14 dny

    This is so interesting and insightful. Thank you for this episode.

  • @TIOLUWANIJoseph
    @TIOLUWANIJoseph Před 14 dny

    Thanks, I am blessed

  • @ayotomiwaomidiji2539
    @ayotomiwaomidiji2539 Před 14 dny

    Thank you so much for this episode. I Love you Mamas ❤

  • @AdegbolaOkemade
    @AdegbolaOkemade Před 14 dny

    God bless you all my beloved sisters for this programme for highlighting us

  • @allaboutyou3057
    @allaboutyou3057 Před 14 dny

    Great information
    Thank you so much

  • @boluwatifeadeyina1846
    @boluwatifeadeyina1846 Před 12 dny

    Thank you so much mas. This blessed me. More Wisdom mas in Jesus name.

  • @user-zu3wq4up3p
    @user-zu3wq4up3p Před 13 dny

    Thank you so much TED❤ for another set of Wisdom
    God will continue blessing you ❤❤

  • @mariammartine6875
    @mariammartine6875 Před 14 dny +14

    Tolu, you will be missed in Abbatoir 😮😮😮

  • @olanrewajuside9340
    @olanrewajuside9340 Před 14 dny

    Am blessed ❤❤❤

  • @Footballhighlight0710
    @Footballhighlight0710 Před 14 dny

    Thank you so much ma (s) TED ❤

  • @kehindepeter8777
    @kehindepeter8777 Před 9 dny

    I was massively blessed
    GOD Bless You Ma's ✌️

  • @amyamoah679
    @amyamoah679 Před 7 dny

    Thank you TrueTalk with TED! Enjoyed this message, especially with the part on prayer 🙏🏾

  • @adebayobosede484
    @adebayobosede484 Před 14 dny

    You are here for us am ready for you ma'am 💖 love you all

  • @onaolapoolufowokan
    @onaolapoolufowokan Před 8 dny

    I was blessed!😊 Thank you! 😊

  • @moladeye6
    @moladeye6 Před 9 dny

    Well done with this episodes to add perspective on the topics bring in 3 matured men(brothers) with different experiences as regards to relationship 1. Brother who has never been in a relationship before or had no female friends around while growing up.
    2. A brother who has had failed relationship in the past before his marriage.
    3. Lastly a brother who got married on first attempt with a sister. That will add perspective to the discuss that's if they'll be willing to share or answer some of the questions why some guy do what they do. It's like guy trying to analyse women or ladies they may get some facts right but not indepth. Thanks for your helpful insight of the do & don't.

  • @kingsegunakindoyin2286
    @kingsegunakindoyin2286 Před 14 dny +25

    thank you for this episode. on the matter of sisters saying no, where does a brother draw the line, because sometimes we hear that a sister says he didnt even persist when i said no, why do sisters have to keep complicating things and saying what they dont really mean, a brother also doesnt want to be seen as a person who doesnt here word or sturborn

    • @samuel_akins
      @samuel_akins Před 14 dny +1

      True talk bro!

    • @wordsfromheaven
      @wordsfromheaven Před 14 dny +9

      Great question! You can go back to God and if she's still the one, ask God to convince her. Still greet her, be kind to her. Don't impose physically. Impose in the place of prayers. Fire her there😂😂. If it's the will of God, She'll come around. If you're persistent, do that with the understanding that God is still involved in it but don't be a stalker.

    • @simeonadu8932
      @simeonadu8932 Před 14 dny

      @@wordsfromheaven You are right 👍🏿. May God help us.

    • @phoebehindanmpama
      @phoebehindanmpama Před 14 dny +7

      A godly sister shouldn't say a fake no to stress somebody's son.
      With that out of the way, you can go back to God in prayer and stay as brethren. If she is not ready, God will guide you to another viable daughter.

    • @zenithhro
      @zenithhro Před 13 dny +5

      If she says no, pls believe her oooo

  • @teeconcept2225
    @teeconcept2225 Před 13 dny +4

    One month is the max I can go, it's cruel to keep someone waiting for too long, you know that you're mature to be proposed to, you ought to have been praying before anyone even come to you...and you should have your preference of the person you're looking forward to, which aligns with God's purpose for your life...praying for three months after i came to ask you out shows you're not serious 😮

  • @samsonokeseni3557
    @samsonokeseni3557 Před 10 dny

    Thank you for sharing ma

  • @vernonsessoms7859
    @vernonsessoms7859 Před 13 dny

    Great content!

  • @jamalashu2269
    @jamalashu2269 Před 13 dny

    God bless you all

  • @joyceayata5670
    @joyceayata5670 Před 14 dny

    😂😂😂 thank you my beautiful sister's TED

  • @tamarabebedenyefaogunuku
    @tamarabebedenyefaogunuku Před 14 dny +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @OziomaVictory-rz2qs
    @OziomaVictory-rz2qs Před 14 dny

    Wooow!!!! Thank you so much TED. I really learnt a lot though I'm a sister 😂😂😂

  • @Lois_Wosu
    @Lois_Wosu Před 11 dny

    ❤❤

  • @seunadeoye
    @seunadeoye Před dnem

    ❤❤❤

  • @Jeshuron2904
    @Jeshuron2904 Před 14 dny

    I am also here

  • @MensMechanic
    @MensMechanic Před 14 dny +1

    The later can never be leaser than thr former 🎯

  • @toluwalogoademoye8019

    AMEN 🙏🙏🙏

  • @HeleeenTalks
    @HeleeenTalks Před 13 dny +1

    21:07 That side eyeee

  • @christiansalvationist2324

    let me comment before i watch, i am certain it will impact me

  • @liliannwafor1362
    @liliannwafor1362 Před 14 dny +1

    First to view this video 😂😂😂😂

  • @imaobongbright5705
    @imaobongbright5705 Před 13 dny

    I love this episode. Please what should a brother do if he has received "NO" for an answer twice from different ladies at different occasions.

    • @zenithhro
      @zenithhro Před 13 dny +1

      Keep trusting God for your own. Also, keep developing yourself.

  • @osenioluwadamilaresakariya4785

    Lol.... I reserve my comments

  • @paulabraham6510
    @paulabraham6510 Před 14 dny +1

    A prayerful lady gave me a NO after 3 months of telling me to wait as she sought to seek the Lord. God does not go on a sabbatical! I am not sure she was really praying the whole time. But I have learned my lesson... once she's beginning to take more than 1-2 months to decide, I will decide for her...

    • @narteyobedbaah8567
      @narteyobedbaah8567 Před 14 dny

      😂

    • @zenithhro
      @zenithhro Před 13 dny +1

      Please once you decide for her, let her know so she will stop praying

    • @adeleyeiroyinayo3677
      @adeleyeiroyinayo3677 Před 13 dny

      😂😂

    • @themercify
      @themercify Před 13 dny

      😂😂 your last statement cracked me up 😂 😂 Don't worry yours will come in time.
      Please don't use the past to judge the next

    • @teeconcept2225
      @teeconcept2225 Před 13 dny

      One month is the max I can go, it's cruel to keep someone waiting for too long, you know that you're mature to be proposed to, you ought to have been praying before anyone even come to you...and you should have your preference of the person you're looking forward to, which aligns with God's purpose for your life...

  • @Toluwabori.A
    @Toluwabori.A Před 14 dny +5

    Someone once gave me a month to give an answer and didn't even say hello or hi until a month after to check in on his answer ..in the most unfriendly way possible.
    It screamed RED FLAG😂

    • @adekunleifeoluwa9215
      @adekunleifeoluwa9215 Před 14 dny +3

      probably he was doing so to give you space to pray without affecting your emotion

    • @faithosarugue5490
      @faithosarugue5490 Před 14 dny

      I agreed with you.
      He probably was giving you time in order not to becloud your reasoning and the likes. I would not take it for red flag.​@@adekunleifeoluwa9215

    • @promiseekanem4780
      @promiseekanem4780 Před 14 dny

      ​@@faithosarugue5490Not a single hi for the whole month?

    • @omachiimmanuel3123
      @omachiimmanuel3123 Před 14 dny +2

      ​@@promiseekanem4780 yeah, I think it's better to give the lady space to think and pray with a clear mind.

    • @graceoluwadunsin
      @graceoluwadunsin Před 14 dny +2

      The fact that he gave one month is already a RED FLAG. Lack of patience is not a fruit of the spirit. This is not to say ladies should delay too, but brothers are not supposed to give you deadline for response.
      The Lord help us all o

  • @phoebehindanmpama
    @phoebehindanmpama Před 14 dny +1

    Someone had proposed to me and before I even started praying, the friends were meeting me one by one to congratulate me. 😮😮😮. Of course my answer was a no at the end of the day.

  • @Friday-gy2qe
    @Friday-gy2qe Před 11 dny

    How long can a relationship last before marriage....?
    I suggest you discuss on this as well....
    By the way, Thank you so much, I've been blessed

  • @eli-stringz8656
    @eli-stringz8656 Před 14 dny +4

    😂😂 that look at 21:10 is priceless..

  • @KulwaMasalu-pr9cc
    @KulwaMasalu-pr9cc Před 13 dny +1

    Praise Jesus, I greet you in the name of Lord Jesus Christ. Ive been a club member for sometime now and i got a question but its on Ladies side. As a 25yrs lady Christian and Fully engaged in knowing the will of God in friendship and more😅 between a brother and sister, I find it hard to open up to a brother and tell him that IM STILL PROVING MYSELF AS A WOMAN WORTH OF MARRIAGE. How do i deal with that while knowing that He is the One? Your beloved sister 🇹🇿

    • @fomenkykelly965
      @fomenkykelly965 Před 13 dny +1

      I think we’re never fully prepared for anyth (by our standards)- but God is our perfector.. take a step with the knowledge you have.. trust God all the way

  • @adedoyinolamide6266
    @adedoyinolamide6266 Před 9 dny

    Now I know it's a general thing. They don't like "no" as an answer. Lol😊

  • @princesefah9545
    @princesefah9545 Před 14 dny

    😂😂

  • @ehime9182
    @ehime9182 Před 13 dny +2

    i wish some brother will listen

  • @factsandopinions577
    @factsandopinions577 Před 13 dny

    Brothers accept NO and move on.

  • @user-xg9yj2em5d
    @user-xg9yj2em5d Před 5 dny

    Please TED
    How can I relate with someone dat love to seeing me be Sad,
    They don't like seeing me being happy or doing fine,
    What can I do to dis cand of people.
    I use to live in darkness and sadness before since long time ago, but Jesus revival me now! I have peace in Him.
    But to dis cand of people, I don't know what to do.
    Please help me out

  • @tosinflorence6269
    @tosinflorence6269 Před 7 dny

    What about if the Brother go back to God and tell God please help me to convince her, if you are the one who truly say she's the one.

  • @dinangakizito903
    @dinangakizito903 Před 12 dny +1

    We are not living in an angelic
    world.

  • @AjayiEmmanuelademola
    @AjayiEmmanuelademola Před 12 dny +1

    Most times we do not know maybe it is science culture or not yes so if I me include . I will say is of no need telling us the place

  • @EnitanJegede
    @EnitanJegede Před 13 dny

    If you and a guy aren't in a relationship and he his giving a green flag but as a lady your intention are pure ,is it proper to collect a gift from him especially on valentine's day as mentioned?

  • @isaiah_Ojo
    @isaiah_Ojo Před 14 dny

    😂

  • @olamideoladoja634
    @olamideoladoja634 Před 14 dny +33

    TED when are we having dami and Joshua on the show?

    • @CrownA-sf2qd
      @CrownA-sf2qd Před 14 dny +3

      Dami and Joshua are truly long overdue to show up on the show

    • @Mavis-lm2fb
      @Mavis-lm2fb Před 13 dny +3

      Please sisters when are having dami and Jaymikee on the show

    • @victorynchendia9302
      @victorynchendia9302 Před 12 dny +1

      I agree. When?

    • @oluwatosinolowookere7046
      @oluwatosinolowookere7046 Před 11 dny

      Why are you eager to see them🌚🌚🤪

    • @olamideoladoja634
      @olamideoladoja634 Před 11 dny

      I just felt I have never seen them on the show that is why I am asking?​@@oluwatosinolowookere7046

  • @AnointedPreachersPulpit

    Brothers should always know that, God created the garden of Eden before creating Adam. 2. God made provision for Adam before before bringing in Eve. 3. Eve was not a problem to Adam as long as she had all she needed in the garden until she broke boundaries by going after pleasure. Genesis 3:1

    • @dinangakizito903
      @dinangakizito903 Před 3 dny

      @@AnointedPreachersPulpit but the society has changed, so rules of engagements are now different. We cannot always refer to Adam and Eve as a good setting in modern time dating.

  • @adebisiemmanuel4843
    @adebisiemmanuel4843 Před 14 dny

    What about when she likes me and wants our friendship it to move to next level and am not in to that what should I do

    • @zenithhro
      @zenithhro Před 13 dny +2

      Let her know and give her a lot of space

  • @adeosunopeyemi1581
    @adeosunopeyemi1581 Před 13 dny +2

    Darasimi is so full of wisdom!..
    I have learnt a lot from the experiences of others that she shared.
    Never journey until intention is made known clearly
    God bless everyone of you in Jesus Name. 🎉

  • @Ebun1011
    @Ebun1011 Před 12 dny

    28:24 Did your entire family prayerfully see the issue with your brother? Let’s be careful and sensitive because the brother in question was he living in holiness? Sometimes family members can be very wrong in misjudging their intended spouse based on their bias….

  • @atikekeresoladamilola535

    It's not ancient time ooo, in my church if you want to propose to a sister you must meet her spiritual head.

    • @KounouOnana
      @KounouOnana Před 13 dny

      Even in mine and personally I think it is the best method

  • @oladejoeunice5172
    @oladejoeunice5172 Před 11 dny

    Is like pe we will have to invite our brothers (your husbands) to give us some enlightened in part 2 of this 😂😂.
    Thanks so much mas, more grace and more wisdom in Jesus name

  • @oangulu
    @oangulu Před 14 dny +6

    Ladies you need to have another edition of this topic handled by married brothers.

    • @adewuyioyin8061
      @adewuyioyin8061 Před 14 dny +1

      Yes.. exactly
      We want an edition of this topic with Mr Dami Bamiloye,Mr Joshua Bamiloye and Pastor Oyor please...let's hear from the married men too for an all around knowledge. Thanks dear sisters. More Grace

    • @factsandopinions577
      @factsandopinions577 Před 13 dny

      So what you are saying is you want to hear from married brothers so you can agree with what they are saying?
      Are yoy people not the one always complaining about how they only focus on the sisters and they should also talk to the brothers?
      There are different programs held by men, go and watch those ones or yoy want this one by TED and digest it.

  • @peteratim2111
    @peteratim2111 Před 14 dny

    The No is not always a straight way out, one of my fathers in the Lord received a No and for the second time, she still said no but later came to ask him whether he still had her in mind and they got married.

  • @WhiteConcepts
    @WhiteConcepts Před 14 dny +1

    Mummy And Daddy Bamiloye, with all due respect ma and sir. Please I need your help in terms of finances for my studies and feeding sir

    • @kingsegunakindoyin2286
      @kingsegunakindoyin2286 Před 14 dny +3

      stop begging....these people have been investing in lives for decades for free, send money to them, not ask

    • @WhiteConcepts
      @WhiteConcepts Před 14 dny

      @@kingsegunakindoyin2286 thanks sir but if not necessary I won't ask sir.

  • @maiisaac1714
    @maiisaac1714 Před 14 dny

    I know a father that had to keep going for about seven times, before the mummy gave him a yes. All those while, it was a no. They are now married for over 25yrs.
    What do we say in this case.

  • @Jeshuron2904
    @Jeshuron2904 Před 14 dny

    😂😂

  • @dadadtriples1503
    @dadadtriples1503 Před 14 dny +1

    More grace