Why You've Been Lied to About Where to Put Your Time, Energy, & Focus | Seth Godin on Impact Theory

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    Are you struggling to accomplish your goals because you’re so focused on the outcome? If something “fails” or isn’t a “success,” do you let that eat away at your motivation and define who you are? It’s time for you to throw away everything you’ve learned about success and begin to shift your mindset to focus on your effort in everything you do, rather than the outcome. On this episode of Impact Theory, Tom Bilyeu is joined by author, entrepreneur, and teacher Seth Godin to discuss such matters and more as they explore why you need to stop focusing on outcomes and begin focusing on your efforts. They discuss why we’re all brainwashed from an early age, the power of streaks, feedback, and criticism, how to move through life with intention, why you have to put your work ‘on the hook,’ how to act with generosity, why making new mistakes is moves you closer to your goal, how to overcome imposter syndrome, and the power of having a group around you to provide constructive criticism.
    Order Seth’s new book, “The Practice: Shipping Creative Work”: geni.us/kD6UWdp
    SHOW NOTES:
    Outcome vs Effort | Seth discusses his book and "showing your bad.” [1:01]
    Brainwashed | Seth shares how we’ve become brainwashed without knowing it. [2:15]
    Changing Lives | Seth discusses his new book and the time taken to write it. [3:35]
    Streaks | Seth shares the power of getting feedback and criticism on your work. [5:53]
    Intention | Seth discusses how to move towards goals with intention. [7:35]
    On the Hook | Seth shares why you should put your work ‘on the hook.’ [9:21]
    Generosity | Seth tells a fishing story and the purpose of being connected to your work. [11:10]
    Real Life | Seth discusses how to practically build your ‘art’ into a way of income. [14:00]
    Self | Seth discusses why you need to trust yourself. [17:58]
    Behavior | Seth discusses why changing your behavior changes your identity. [19:59]
    Passion | Seth shares why passion is a choice and how to choose it. [21:24]
    Better | Seth discusses the power of ‘seeing’ and developing ‘good taste.’ [25:32 ]
    New Mistakes | Seth shares how to move closer and closer to your goals. [28:12]
    Imposter Syndrome | Seth discusses the power of verbalizing. [33:08]
    Dangers | Seth discusses why always being authentic has its downfalls. [38:14]
    Feeling Alive | Seth discusses the purpose of our lives that gives us meaning and joy. [42:46]
    Feedback | Seth shares how to let your guard down so that you can take criticism. [40:39]
    Build Your Group | Seth discusses the people who’s feedback you should be listening to. [44:14]
    Bitterness | Miles Davis and the rabbit hole he got stuck in that turned him bitter. [47:43]
    Mindset | Seth shares how he approaches people, life, and our abilities. [51:25]
    Takeaway | Seth shares what he hopes you takeaway from today’s discussion. [55:17]
    Connect | Seth shares ways you can continue to follow his work and to stay connected. [56:10]
    QUOTES:
    "The practice is not the means to the output. The practice is the output, because the practice is all we can control.” [6:42]
    “Doing the work changes our story about the work and I think it’s so much more reliable, and so much easier, to love what you do than it is to do what you love.” [21:48]
    “Consistency is part of being peculiar. Consistently generous, consistently showing up, rhyming with yourself in a way that you’re proud of but no, not authentic. You’re not entitled.” [38:44]
    FOLLOW SETH:
    Blog: seths.blog
    Podcast: www.akimbo.link
    Twitter: ThisIsSethsBlog
    Facebook: sethgodin/
    Instagram: sethgodin
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  • @RosieOs101
    @RosieOs101 Před 3 lety +1234

    Not everyone wants to forget 2020. This has been the best year of my life! So much spiritual growth and inner peace.

    • @KyChristensen
      @KyChristensen Před 3 lety +38

      I agree - This had been a wonderful year for me and my family as well...even with some of the hardships and things we have missed out on this year - It has been a great year of growth and progress and increase in understanding

    • @queenofheartspromotions6721
      @queenofheartspromotions6721 Před 3 lety +9

      Rose that's great news Namaste

    • @RosieOs101
      @RosieOs101 Před 3 lety +4

      @@KyChristensen 🥳👏♥️

    • @RosieOs101
      @RosieOs101 Před 3 lety +4

      @@queenofheartspromotions6721 Thank you and many blessings to you. ♥️

    • @RosieOs101
      @RosieOs101 Před 3 lety +18

      @es I haven’t been “working” this year. My ex-husband passed away and I have stepped completely into my role as a full-time mom and I am loving it. I also have had lots of spiritual growth happen.
      Check out Abraham Hicks to help in your journey. Just let go of the oars in life and relax-it’s wonderfully delicious!

  • @LulaS
    @LulaS Před 3 lety +701

    "The practice is not the means to the output, the practice IS the output, because the practice is all we can control."
    Seth Godin
    👏👏👏👏👏

    • @frankmanning3815
      @frankmanning3815 Před 3 lety +5

      Honestly, that's the only thing of value I got from the whole hour and even that isn't very original.

    • @evlstoryteller3567
      @evlstoryteller3567 Před 3 lety +5

      THIS! I loved this so much because we do put way too much emphasis on the output. I find this with my clients ALL the time.

    • @SeleckPlays
      @SeleckPlays Před 3 lety +3

      Legend!

    • @jimihendrixx11
      @jimihendrixx11 Před 3 lety +6

      Process>Event

    • @BulleyBhakt
      @BulleyBhakt Před 3 lety +6

      This is one of the primary teaching of Hindu book Bhagwat Gita

  • @InnerResearcher
    @InnerResearcher Před 3 lety +139

    "When you see someone who is angry, look for the fear." wow. Powerful!

    • @sabvrao
      @sabvrao Před 3 lety +12

      Fear is the root of anger. A great book “Power vs Force” breaks down all the different emotions ... fear and guilt are right at the bottom...

    • @tripzville7569
      @tripzville7569 Před 3 lety

      So true

    • @mistyculous9644
      @mistyculous9644 Před 3 lety +6

      I've also seen sorrow behind fear. But think about it; it would feel better to feel powerful with anger than it does to quake in fear or collapse in sorrow.

    • @catherinecruveillier
      @catherinecruveillier Před 3 lety +2

      It's Gabie this is true ... but Seth (and you) seem to imply that anger or fear may (always) be undesirable or inappropriate... well at times fear is totally appropriate and so is anger ... and there’s a way to manage both with reason so that everyone grows. We do need, in this world, to protect ourselves from dangers that are real and at times to enforce our boundaries. Knowing the difference between a real danger and an illusion ... now that too takes wisdom and practice!

    • @bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12
      @bageshwaradhamanubhavreact12 Před 3 lety

      czcams.com/video/6TdWRmLaARw/video.html

  • @JayNealTheReal
    @JayNealTheReal Před 3 lety +449

    Once you take the focus off of the result and just show up to add value consistently, then you can make things better

    • @katelynmccorkle9902
      @katelynmccorkle9902 Před 3 lety +6

      well said

    • @illsonr6
      @illsonr6 Před 3 lety +7

      Secret to sales

    • @YaTut169
      @YaTut169 Před 3 lety +13

      The only thing that is appearing to stop you from enlightenment/self-realization/eternal life/knowing yourself to be unconditional love is identification with thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences instead of being aware of being aware and knowing yourself to be that unconditional love pure consciousness in which all thoughts, emotions, sensations, perceptions and experiences appear but are not inherently one with you; they are an expression of unconditional love; you are that infinite that is expressing itself as suffering/pleasure but inherently you are neither; you are that nothing/unconditional love/pure consciousness in which they are appear and by which they are perceived;
      Suffering/pleasure comes and goes; there is an awareness that is aware of them coming and going; that you are; remember and know what you are; never identify with anything that is appearing within you; since it appears within you; it can't be you; you are that in which it appears. When you abide as that in which it appears instead of identifying; nothing has a grip on you; if anything comes; it quickly goes; like clouds passing; only if you identify as a cloud then it will appear as if the cloud is here for longer than it is originally supposed to; if you simply rest as the awareness and do not identify; it will quickly dissolve; be unconditional love by being aware of being aware; this is the highest; this is what you are seeking in absolutely everything else; you are seeking yourself; you are seeking unconditional love; but you are looking outside of yourself; instead of being aware that you already are unconditional love. Love love

    • @stephaniemodkins4624
      @stephaniemodkins4624 Před 3 lety +2

      Awesome approach.

    • @Rob-on-the-Road
      @Rob-on-the-Road Před 3 lety +2

      @@YaTut169 Infinite?
      Psalm 82:
      5 They know not, neither will they understand; they walk on in darkness: all the foundations of the earth are out of course.
      6 I have said, Ye are gods; and all of you are children of the most High.
      7 But ye shall die like men, and fall like one of the princes.
      8 Arise, O God, judge the earth: for thou shalt inherit all nations.

  • @AskAW
    @AskAW Před 3 lety +127

    I didn't keep making the same mistakes, I started making new mistakes.
    ~ Seth Godin

  • @YonasonGoldson
    @YonasonGoldson Před 3 lety +289

    Media manipulation is so deeply woven into our behavior and at the root of so many of our problems. We have to make the commitment and exert the discipline to reject it's influence on our lives and choices.

  • @wahjmohamedkhair8018
    @wahjmohamedkhair8018 Před 3 lety +33

    "It would be horrible if you died with whatever you have inside still inside of you" That hits home and was my personal most profound takeaway especially after how he laid down a good foundation for trying to understand the world as it is. Thank you.

    • @gemsstr7933
      @gemsstr7933 Před rokem

      Wow! That really puts a spin one how you engage with your life. I'm curious, since its been a year, how has your life been? I just heard this, so i'm excited to move with intention on this.

  • @MIHMediaInc
    @MIHMediaInc Před 3 lety +5

    What I took from this video:
    Love what you do and not to do what you love.
    Thank you Seth Godin 🙏

  • @thediycarguy4441
    @thediycarguy4441 Před 3 lety +106

    I purchased Seth's course for freelancers while I was still employed FT. Fast forward to COVID, I'm unemployed and wondering what to do so I pulled out the course and created an LLC. I landed 2 clients and doubled my normal hourly FT employee rate. Nothing will accelerate you confidence like earning independent income. I'm happy to answer any questions if I can help you and your situation.

    • @NoName-to5xl
      @NoName-to5xl Před 3 lety +1

      Im an IT professional. My hourly rate is 140$/h.
      Im confident in my experience and capacity, but i remain an employee at 70k/year.
      I do not feel to do what you did because i have a 750$/mo mortgage and a young son (4yrs old). Im 40.
      I feel i cannot risk, any advice?

    • @alwayswatching4351
      @alwayswatching4351 Před 3 lety

      A sucker born every minute I guess.

    • @cindyavalos6200
      @cindyavalos6200 Před 3 lety

      @@NoName-to5xl start cutting down on hours at work as you build. It will be super hectic and crazy at first but it’ll eventually get easier and pay off

    • @jasonb.7622
      @jasonb.7622 Před 3 lety

      What do you do in your new LLC?

    • @rosequartz3525
      @rosequartz3525 Před 3 lety +2

      @@alwayswatching4351 and the negative Nelly is created every minute. You are gross

  • @theredhottruth2061
    @theredhottruth2061 Před 3 lety +5

    Fall in love with the process. It's not what you do, it's how you do it. Two wisdom I'm practicing in my own life. Great interview. Thank you

  • @NoMe-Arts
    @NoMe-Arts Před 3 lety +11

    Love Seth, he's a true genius; so gracious & empathetic. These are the kind of teachers/leaders the world needs right now!

  • @Italiana72787
    @Italiana72787 Před 3 lety +26

    I have been stuck for a while attached to the outcome instead of enjoying the process and seeing what it's actually leading to. THANK YOU

    • @TrevorShredder
      @TrevorShredder Před 2 lety +1

      This is profoundly timely to read this...
      Thank you for taking the time to write it & having no idea that it would spark what it did in a stranger 9 months later 🤘🏻

    • @Italiana72787
      @Italiana72787 Před 2 lety +1

      @@TrevorShredder Rock on that's awesome!

    • @raisibelanga8536
      @raisibelanga8536 Před 2 měsíci

      ​@@TrevorShredder, zz😊die Caz s5
      4😢😢die sind 😢die CA😊😢

  • @socialbuzzhivebyemilystand7049

    Peculiar - in of yourself - particular. Benefit by being you. Exactly. No one else can be YOU.

  • @neverbeforeseenvideos2249
    @neverbeforeseenvideos2249 Před 3 lety +10

    2016 to 2019 I went from suicidal to loving myself more than ever and my relationships and quality of life has turned into sheer bliss.
    2020 was a joke for me. I breezed through 2020 and had the most successful financial year in 2020.
    P.S. I turned off the TV back in 2010 , cut out the noise and go after what ever the fuck you want.
    #nocomplaining #noexcuses
    #livingthedream #peaceofmind

  • @barefootarts737
    @barefootarts737 Před 2 lety

    Hey I'm a ditch digger today, listening to this talk and loving what I do. I love my job 95% of the time. I know intuitively that I must. Never heard anyone else say it before. This talk is awesome.

  • @inchbyinchstories
    @inchbyinchstories Před 3 lety +101

    I just like Seth's voice...it's so optimistic and i generally feel so much better after listening anything from him.

    • @YogawithAliBeale
      @YogawithAliBeale Před 3 lety +5

      Seth is my background noise so many mornings just helping plant my seeds and reassurance in living authentically. I enjoy him so much.

    • @GirishVenkatachalam
      @GirishVenkatachalam Před 3 lety +2

      and his looks too he looks so simple and friendly

  • @cutestpunk4648
    @cutestpunk4648 Před 3 lety +165

    Tom, this show and your channel are absolutely incredible. Each episode can transform a person's life. Wishing you and all of your wonderful guests the best of health and happiness.

  • @ismetgokce1552
    @ismetgokce1552 Před 3 lety +30

    It was nice to hear the theory of putting bread on the hook. I'm Turkish and I'm glad to hear my country is now known for its hospitality and helpfulness.
    Btw, Tom I've been following your content for looong years and actually see the improvement in my life! I even made it to the USA for the 2019 summer and worked for 3 months! Anyways, we call this theory 'Askıda Ekmek' and it actually helps people in need a lot. Highly suggested. My friends in the USA, you can implement this in the drive-through coffee places for the next customer. Love ya Tom, hope to meet you someday!

    • @decide4kamal
      @decide4kamal Před 3 lety

      great Idea.

    • @decide4kamal
      @decide4kamal Před 3 lety

      great Idea.

    • @edgepixel8467
      @edgepixel8467 Před 3 lety +5

      @İsmet Gökçe
      I've been to Istanbul, and I've been particularly impressed with two cases of hospitality and helpfulness:
      1) We took a boat ride on the Bosphorus. The next day, we stumbled upon the same boat, while we were walking around the city. The captain waved us to come on the boat, for a free ride.
      2) While visiting the modern art museum, a heavy rain completely drowned the parking, cutting off our way out. While we were still looking around, a young couple in a car invited us in, to get us out of the drowned area.

    • @sillygirl1139
      @sillygirl1139 Před 3 lety +1

      It's been getting more popular here in the UK for around a couple years now... we're referring to it as 'pay it forward'. Nice to see what some of its cultural origins are.

    • @stephenmann9534
      @stephenmann9534 Před 2 lety

      The way the general public treats cats as evident in the documentary type film "Kedi" is a revelation and inspiration how we can ourselves here in our country learn to practice "Catitude". LOVE. Triad Cat Whisperer

  • @cherylevans1339
    @cherylevans1339 Před 3 lety +32

    👏👏👏👏👏👏 I’m a stroke survivor because I always believed in my own greatness

    • @milogoltz3616
      @milogoltz3616 Před 3 lety +1

      Not unique but common testimony as to what "one" might look like favoring idolatry; AND, why not a healthy dose of narcissism to boot. "I can do all things through Messiah/Christ who strengthens me," (Philippians 4:13) apparently is foreign to you. if so, you're Eternally deader 'n' a hammer. Get a Bible, dust it off and let its Holy Spirit tell you some thing a helluva lot more profound than you, YOURSELF touting your "godawful greatness!" Put your trust in Yahweh and His Word that manifested itself as "Emanuel, Elohim with us," Isaiah 7:14, John 14:6, and I'll see you on the "Streets of Gold." (Rev.21:21) My care, NOT criticism.

    • @mistyculous9644
      @mistyculous9644 Před 3 lety

      Good for you, Cheryl Evans. Yes, to recover former capacity through focused practice, we have to have faith in the possibility of success, (even if that faith was instilled by our parents admiring their kid, LOL)

    • @edgepixel8467
      @edgepixel8467 Před 3 lety +1

      @@milogoltz3616 Shoo, unwanted preacher.

    • @weblightstudio8215
      @weblightstudio8215 Před 3 lety

      I am a survivor of heart failure simply because I didnt die. Maybe next time

    • @justb4116
      @justb4116 Před 3 lety

      Tongue in cheek: your greatness overwhelmed your health to the point of stroke?
      Was there any humility contributing to the recovery process?

  • @hesus6177
    @hesus6177 Před 3 lety +23

    JS Bach said when asked about his creativity: 'I just press the notes and God does the rest.' He also said that anyone can do what he did, they just need to work hard enough. Creativity finds you working, said Picasso.

    • @davidmohanna818
      @davidmohanna818 Před 3 lety

      I needed this

    • @jfo3000
      @jfo3000 Před 3 lety +1

      Read Pressfield's "The War of Art", for more of this type of wisdom.

    • @Larindarr
      @Larindarr Před 3 lety

      I will be devil's advocate. Bach however was a privileged white European man. It's different biologically to pursue creativity and fulfillment under constant stress from survival due to inequality. It is a scientific fact and simple human brain function.

    • @hesus6177
      @hesus6177 Před 3 lety

      @@Larindarr Like Beethoven? Or Van Gogh? Tchaikovsky?

    • @Larindarr
      @Larindarr Před 3 lety

      @@hesus6177 they were all white European men who though they had their very real challenges did not have anywhere near the obstacles in a system even then to prevent them from pursuing their lives. Biologically it is not possible. It has been found seen in CT scans etc.

  • @tonjamcnair8349
    @tonjamcnair8349 Před 3 lety +22

    This interview was air to my lungs! I will continue to listen to this again and again! The message to be myself, know myself so we'll that I never sell out for the carrot 🥕 I Love this 🙏🏾

  • @hadleybee9710
    @hadleybee9710 Před 3 lety +28

    If it's a hobby it's for you if it's work it's for other people...that was a helpful construct for me.

    • @weblightstudio8215
      @weblightstudio8215 Před 3 lety +3

      I was told a different formula. It has to do with paying tax and earning, no matter who you do it for

  • @kearirobinson1308
    @kearirobinson1308 Před 3 lety +46

    "You don't need anybody's permission." Yeah!

    • @HouseFromSmartCity
      @HouseFromSmartCity Před 3 lety +1

      Absolutely. The gray pill is the best way to march to your own drum:
      czcams.com/video/XgcQ-Zg0Ya8/video.html
      🗿

    • @othmane-mezian
      @othmane-mezian Před 2 lety

      Pure Gold!

    • @301rs
      @301rs Před 2 lety

      Duh….

  • @tans3015
    @tans3015 Před 3 lety +111

    Sometimes it's OK just to exist, to love and be loved, to feel content.

    • @juliequirey3984
      @juliequirey3984 Před 3 lety

      I don't think it is ok to exist yes be grateful to be on this planet. However to live a meaningful life in whatever form is living not existing.

    • @tans3015
      @tans3015 Před 3 lety +35

      @@juliequirey3984 You missed the part where is said to love and be loved. Not everyone has a driving passion, and that is OK. There are billions of people in this world. If no one is content to work as a janitor, we will have filthy bathrooms. Trying to push people and lie to them so they think they can literally do anything is delusional. It creates lifelong dissatisfaction for those that never quite live up to their ideals. Life can be meaningful in every day matters. The joy of a baby's laugh. The sound of the crickets. Holding the hand of the person you love.

    • @margerydosh2971
      @margerydosh2971 Před 3 lety +18

      @@tans3015 Thanks for this reply. It gives me a lot to ponder. I'm 82 years old and I think for most of these years I have been dissatisfied with my life. So now I am learning to find meaning in every day matters. I am more peaceful and happier. Thanks again Tan S I appreciate you!

    • @theliberatedplanet
      @theliberatedplanet Před 3 lety +7

      @@margerydosh2971 it's possible the most satisfying years are ahead!

    • @GarretHunt
      @GarretHunt Před 3 lety +10

      Indeed! In fact, I believe all great inspiration starts here. Until we can be content with ourselves, we'll never find it anywhere else. Paradoxically, once we realize we have everything we need, that's when the true gifts can start flowing.

  • @nehainthebay
    @nehainthebay Před 3 lety +43

    “I chop the wood, I carry the water”
    So true. Work cannot be discounted. Practice is the output.

    • @vickryan
      @vickryan Před 3 lety

      here's my problem, no money. so practice is nice, when I can sustain doing it. which I can't. (no money) my problem is, no money. I used to volunteer in my profession, because I love my profession. but then I realized, I ran out of money. had to stop doing that line of work. I need to get paid. (I need the output)

    • @kingpalafox1045
      @kingpalafox1045 Před 3 lety

      @@vickryan the problem is your mindset.

    • @robbydyer4500
      @robbydyer4500 Před 3 lety +2

      _wu wei_

    • @vickryan
      @vickryan Před 3 lety

      @@robbydyer4500 sounds like my Nintendo video game Destiny Of An Emperor.

    • @robbydyer4500
      @robbydyer4500 Před 3 lety +1

      @@vickryan is life not a simulation of sorts?

  • @jackiegrawe_art
    @jackiegrawe_art Před 3 lety +4

    Tom’s question at 52:27 was so beautiful and eloquent. I adored this episode. Too short! I wish it were longer.

  • @MK-ih6wp
    @MK-ih6wp Před 3 lety +117

    2:30 best part is where he breaks down the insanity of handing your kids over to The State for 12-16 years of public education/indoctrination... Gotta break those kids down before they are ready to be obedient little factory workers! Brilliant ad for homeschooling.

    • @russellszabadosaka5-pindin849
      @russellszabadosaka5-pindin849 Před 3 lety +2

      RE DACTED I really think you missed his point.

    • @detailempire6656
      @detailempire6656 Před 3 lety +6

      @@russellszabadosaka5-pindin849 you have

    • @russellszabadosaka5-pindin849
      @russellszabadosaka5-pindin849 Před 3 lety +4

      @@detailempire6656 this is one of those issues where we would likely go round and round, and still not agree. I respectfully agree to disagree with you and RE DACTED. But I do sincerely wish you both Happy Holidays, and hopes for a happy & productive 2021.

    • @think41c
      @think41c Před 3 lety +6

      @@russellszabadosaka5-pindin849 What?! This isn't the internet troll fight I was here to see! Happy holidays?! Get back in there and fight, Russell! :) Just playing. Nice to see a comment like yours in these types of threads, regardless of who is right here.

    • @jamescampi50
      @jamescampi50 Před 3 lety +4

      When I heard that line, Homeschooling went through my mind as well. If could do it over I would.

  • @cjbobby70
    @cjbobby70 Před 2 lety +2

    Only 5 minutes into this and all ready I'm excited about what more I'm going to hear. Because it is soo much of how I think.Cheers to human kindness!

  • @beltusnkwawir2908
    @beltusnkwawir2908 Před 3 lety +84

    I never get enough of Tom and the brilliant people he brings on board. Thanks Tom. Thanks Seth

  • @Realmikesambo
    @Realmikesambo Před 3 lety +23

    Please stop crapping on 2020. Every day is a blessing.

  • @davidgrigsby8963
    @davidgrigsby8963 Před 3 lety

    "To be able to finally SEE-> DECODE-> Then, VERBALIZE (unique insights) though, NOT... as your AUTHENTIC SELF, but as the version of you needing to show up for ur AUDIENCE
    ...(at the median, of what you BOTH want) is key. This was jam packed GOLDEN! What an extraordinary interview (as always), in that, both of these gracious men are so extremely
    ...tactical, and strategically insightful about the way they BOTH... conduct as well as welcome\acquiesce, in behalf of ea. actually, re: ALL their interviews. ...'Graetful! Thank you.

  • @simspice5485
    @simspice5485 Před 3 lety

    So much of the essence of all of this is already known by deeply religious people and mystics. Put kindness and consciousness in everything you do. Everything.

  • @formerlyknownasanessential2623

    Dang haven’t watched impact theory in a while, but now I’m back. It’s been like a year and a half. This is good stuff

  • @stephaniemodkins4624
    @stephaniemodkins4624 Před 3 lety +19

    Thank you for mentioning what Miles Davis endured to be a musician. His wife Cecilia Tyson is one of my favorite actresses.

  • @rebeccawoods7414
    @rebeccawoods7414 Před rokem

    I'm am utterly captivated by this incredible man. Truly inspiring. Thank you

  • @Futuremason
    @Futuremason Před 3 lety +1

    The fish story blew my mind. Don't forget the tea!

  • @simonamango
    @simonamango Před 3 lety +11

    In Naples, Italy, we leave a coffee "on the hook" (caffè sospeso, literally: "hanging"), same as the loaf in Turkey

  • @loodmood923
    @loodmood923 Před 3 lety +18

    I simply love these two men, their discussion is like the chatter in the brain, Tom is the analytical the hard working the checking all the facts and asking all the right questions, and seth is the emotional, the connected, the person in the flow :)
    what an honest, motivational and filled with emotions interview !
    simply thank you !

  • @ladannazary5546
    @ladannazary5546 Před 3 lety +16

    One of the most profound interviews I’ve ever watched. It’s one of those that you have to watch over and over again because every minute of it is gold. Thank you @impacttheory

  • @live2lovelaughsweetheart662

    Thank you so much... This was special! The last statement from Seth brought tears to eyes... Wayne Dyer's quote... "Don't die with the music still in you" once again thank you for showing up for us! Greetings from Germany 💖

  • @nurtured-channel2953
    @nurtured-channel2953 Před 3 lety +7

    👌🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
    Tom Bilyeu has develop great listening skills and also asks great questions!
    Seth Godin is an amazing human...

  • @guchfun
    @guchfun Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you, Tom, for hosting Seth Godin on your channel. He is a wise sage of this generation with such deep and pragmatic knowledge who appears to be the antithesis of our modern times but actually provides us the tools to operate in it if we are courageous enough to follow him.

  • @gloriamariadc7757
    @gloriamariadc7757 Před rokem

    “We’r not here to just eat work & sleep. We’r here to sing dance connect & lead. & learn something from ea experience.” Genuisly put!

  • @nalanala9725
    @nalanala9725 Před 3 lety +1

    Seth Godin spreads so much love and humanity... and in such a humble way

  • @Jianju69
    @Jianju69 Před 3 lety +11

    This conversation is speaking to my soul, shaking it and waking it up.

  • @Neezy9
    @Neezy9 Před 8 dny

    Wow so much insight and wisdom in this interview.Seth is one of a kind mind and spirit.Blessings!

  • @newplanman9836
    @newplanman9836 Před 2 lety +1

    This guy is profound. I dig his clarity, depth and reflection.

  • @MindNow
    @MindNow Před 3 lety +40

    *When you know what to PRIORITIZE on, it makes all the difference* 🙏
    With that being said, I would also like to add to know what ur circumstance is and make the best out of it. Don’t compare urself to others timelines 😊❤️

    • @HouseFromSmartCity
      @HouseFromSmartCity Před 3 lety +1

      Not comparing yourself is key. 100% agree. Also, taking the gray pill is the key:
      czcams.com/video/XgcQ-Zg0Ya8/video.html

    • @clintonsimmonds3956
      @clintonsimmonds3956 Před 2 lety

      Clarity comes with prayer.
      Priority is prayer.
      Compare clarity before and after prayer.
      This is the difference.
      Know this circumstance.

  • @sarahfenlonfalk
    @sarahfenlonfalk Před 3 lety +10

    “The purpose of shipping the work is to make things better.” Yes! This!

  • @seekingcreative8837
    @seekingcreative8837 Před 3 lety +1

    13 minutes. 32 seconds. Life view changed. Thank you - both of you.

  • @lynd4042
    @lynd4042 Před 3 lety +2

    Fantastic. In the first 14 minutes of this video, this man explained the futility of society which I have always struggled with reconciling, AND convinced me to be more purposeful and consistent with turning my dabbling into real professions.

  • @kathywatts3926
    @kathywatts3926 Před 3 lety +9

    “All criticism is not the same” is so true. Especially when read through the lens of an Amazon one-star review. This tells you more about the reader than the writer. I read the one star reviews of The Practice and knew that those reviewers were not my people. I bought the book. Great interview. Thank you!

    • @tubetime39
      @tubetime39 Před 3 lety

      Kathy Watts: Good one, I so agree about reviewers on Amazon. I'll mention what you said about one star reviewers, to one star reviewers next time I read one.

    • @HouseFromSmartCity
      @HouseFromSmartCity Před 3 lety +1

      Yep. That’s the gray pill in a nutshell:
      czcams.com/video/XgcQ-Zg0Ya8/video.html

    • @othmane-mezian
      @othmane-mezian Před 2 lety

      Well said Katherine

  • @ameliale5575
    @ameliale5575 Před 3 lety +10

    Tom is such an eloquent speaker and a fantastic interviewer! Thank you to you and Seth!

  • @Advaya459
    @Advaya459 Před 3 lety +2

    Tom, I have been watching you for years and my admiration has constantly grown. You have a rare capacity to verbalise difficult concepts and ask questions that take us down otherwise-impossible paths; I find myself repeatedly holding my breath to hear such a question - then smiling to a completely new, exhilarating "Aha!!" moment...God bless you. I do not know how many people tell you so, but you have brought real change to my life. Thank you very very much.

  • @johnpearcey
    @johnpearcey Před 3 lety +1

    I'm consistently impressed with Tom's interview technique and exceptionally pertinent questions. Brings out the best in the guest with the most interest for the viewers. Brilliant stuff.

  • @JayFGrissom
    @JayFGrissom Před 3 lety +42

    Bread on the hook is such a beautiful practice. I’d never heard of it before but I’ll never forget it now.

  • @VeronicaKrestow22
    @VeronicaKrestow22 Před 3 lety +8

    This entire interview is 💥GOLD! 49:00 onward was especially mind-blowing .. brought tears to my eyes! Incredible!! Thank you both!! ✨🙏 ✨

  • @egironyt
    @egironyt Před 2 lety +1

    This interview is so transformative that is like a reading a whole book in 25 minutes. But taking action to write your own book and changing your reality will become the byproduct of that.

  • @AnthonyGriz
    @AnthonyGriz Před 3 lety

    "Pay it forward" or "Put it on the hook"...it's a wonderful concept indeed for humanity.

  • @emmaginethat
    @emmaginethat Před 3 lety +11

    Love this. I've instinctively done this throughout my life (ask for feedback during practice moments) and have always been amazed at how few will participate or look at me like I'm alien and or also seem confused by the request.

  • @digitalspecter
    @digitalspecter Před 3 lety +15

    32:15 that's not impostor syndrome. People who have impostor syndrome have a fear that they'll be exposed as "frauds" and don't believe they have earned the praise and success they have.. so it's a condition where you continue to fear it despite the constant outside evidence showing otherwise... that's why it's a syndrome. What you are talking about it just fear and self-doubt.. and that is quite normal for someone who hasn't had much positive feedback yet.

  • @elizabethl3392
    @elizabethl3392 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow! Beautiful … infinite holes can never be filled

  • @alfredosiemo9075
    @alfredosiemo9075 Před 8 měsíci

    How I understand it is this: thought can be aimed at the truth or at error and practice can be aimed at truth or at error. And humans have a choice to make: aim at truth and life goes on smoothly or aim at error and forever seek your way back to truth and hope you might find your way back to truth. Seth Godin and me are saying aim at truth 💯% all the time is the best way to journey of life...

  • @YonasonGoldson
    @YonasonGoldson Před 3 lety +3

    The 13th century classic of Jewish philosophy Sefer HaChinuch (The Book of Education) observes: "the heart is drawn after our actions." Always love it when science catches up with ancient wisdom: change your behavior to change your thoughts and aspirations.

  • @HammyGirl999
    @HammyGirl999 Před 3 lety +10

    Because of this show I listened to ‘The Practice’. It is fantastic and to the point. Ill be listening again.

  • @WisdomBytes
    @WisdomBytes Před 3 lety +1

    There is something in Seth which is beautiful and naturally elegant. Every time I hear an interview he is in, there is always a refreshing wisdom to imbibe for. Thanks for sharing !!

  • @gemsstr7933
    @gemsstr7933 Před rokem

    "When you see someone who is angry - look for the fear". I can only imagine how much our society could heal, if we embrace that! This talk is really deep. Ty Tom and Seth!

  • @theenatashasheree
    @theenatashasheree Před 3 lety +16

    We should know this by now. This is very deep. It’s your emotions that are up for sale. Thankful for this content, we need more Emotionally Intelligent/ Empathetic leaders offering clarity✨ *buys book

  • @alvarojoseortiz
    @alvarojoseortiz Před 3 lety +4

    TOM.... THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR BRINGING GREAT PEOPLE AND HELPFUL TOPICS!!!!

  • @YogawithAliBeale
    @YogawithAliBeale Před 3 lety

    Another hour with Seth! It's a good day.

  • @guitarsz
    @guitarsz Před 3 lety +2

    Seth is so gracious

  • @radg007
    @radg007 Před 3 lety +3

    This was just crazy, best interview I've ever seen with Seth. Thanks for your amazing work and dedication for interviewing him, much love from México, Tom!

  • @ChrisMunichful
    @ChrisMunichful Před 3 lety +3

    Tom, THIS is benchmark ... best interview in a long time! You developed so much! Thank you for sharing this wisdom with the world 👍🏻✅✅✅✅

  • @JeromeChristopherPDavid

    ALL CAPS NOT TO EXPRESS ANGER., THIS VIDEO IS AWSOME. THANK YOU SETH, TOM FOR THIS INTERVIEW.

  • @themessiah1832
    @themessiah1832 Před 3 lety +2

    Yes would love to spend a day in Seth Godin's mind such a genuine person.

    • @themessiah1832
      @themessiah1832 Před 3 lety

      @INSPIOSPHERE . REACH YOUR SUMMIT Haha what a gift to realise how much more you can do and be.

  • @stevenhoch1076
    @stevenhoch1076 Před 3 lety +5

    Picasso quotes:
    I am always doing that which I cannot do, in order that I may learn how to do it.
    Action is the foundational key to all success.

    • @Shay416
      @Shay416 Před 3 lety +1

      Ohhh I really love this quote. How many times do we approach things thinking it must be done in a certain way to be "accepted". DO IT, and learn and then DO It AGAIN.

    • @joannejohnson7006
      @joannejohnson7006 Před 3 lety

      Truth

  • @judededude
    @judededude Před 3 lety +7

    This is ALL gold in this interview

  • @vivianthomas9836
    @vivianthomas9836 Před 3 lety

    What GREAT INTERVIEW. " don't ALLOW what's in ya to die in you" -IJN-VCT

  • @sindiswadlamini2661
    @sindiswadlamini2661 Před 2 lety

    He strikes again. I needed to hear this, again.

  • @hildagertze8539
    @hildagertze8539 Před 3 lety +3

    Filled with gems. Thank you. You're an amazing interviewer Tom Bilyeu

  • @theoriginalnutter
    @theoriginalnutter Před 3 lety +197

    if the government wanted us to be free we would be taught basic survival skills from a young age

    • @formerlyknownasanessential2623
      @formerlyknownasanessential2623 Před 3 lety +19

      "govern-ment" means "mind-control" in like latin or some shit. govern = control; ment = mind (mental)

    • @HAYES9521
      @HAYES9521 Před 3 lety +16

      My dad put me in boy scouts 32 years ago and made sure I was learning and participating.. I made a fire yesterday in the mtns. 2.6 miles away from noise, got lost snowboarding back down .. opened my trail map and got back on the trail , 50 yards off trail in waist high snow sun going down but I knew what it was I had to do to stay calm and focused. I am grateful for survival skills! I could care less about selling out. Or buying into the consumer system that is everywhere.

    • @formerlyknownasanessential2623
      @formerlyknownasanessential2623 Před 3 lety +16

      @Charles Yuditsky damn wtf were we all doing in school honestly

    • @Mayombepaula
      @Mayombepaula Před 3 lety +14

      We could say the same about all parents in the world: Dad, if you wanted me to be free why didn't you teach me about basic survival skills from a young age? The answer, I guess, is they don't have a cloue neither. We must teach ourselves.

    • @formerlyknownasanessential2623
      @formerlyknownasanessential2623 Před 3 lety +3

      @@Mayombepaula starting to think this whole thing is about our parents subconsciously not wanting us to move on without them on this planet until they're gone themselves. makes sense biologically

  • @Ethercloud
    @Ethercloud Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks for the advice on authoring books, and the comment about genius being able to be unafraid to be yourself.

  • @kelliesuepetersartist6263

    I’ve read some of Seth Godin’s books and seen quite a few interviews with him. This, by far, is the most “practical inspiration” one of all of them by far. Part of it is that this new book is really special, and Tom Bilyeu is so on point as an interviewer. This one is pure magic!

  • @Simon-Turkas
    @Simon-Turkas Před 3 lety +7

    Wow, this is really uplifting and insightful! Brilliant interview!!

  • @lesleysclips13
    @lesleysclips13 Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you so much for this. It was the exact inspiration I needed to hear- and in fact I’ll be creating a response to this video. I’ll name it, “Examining the exam: performance has driven us away from our humanity. Constructs aren’t responsible: we are.”
    The fun thing is I’m fortunate enough to have a professor in university who is receptive enough to alternative methods of assessments for my final exam in modern political thought- to which I am grateful as it appears I’ll be calling into scrutiny methods of traditional education systems as being harmful/self-limiting and how this has stagnated society at large from being innovative and accepting of counter cultures/creativity or in voicing opinions outside from the status quo. (Which I’ve found has resonated with me as a response to this video)
    My plan is to bring attention to this video, add personal story, contextualize with some interesting academic papers and will ultimately focus on developing community as a solution to tackle mental health (among other social problems found at the margins) in Canada.
    As far as my own university campus (Ottawa)- there has been attention in recent years as suicides have jumped and an institutional response is not enough. Disconnect and crumbling under pressure will only exacerbate in light of covid-19. Being rated by overseeing/institutional structures has had adverse rippling and undesired effects. It’s been an ongoing problem- now in light of covid I’m compelled to speak out in solidarity for many who I’m sure feel alone or voiceless at this time. I think we for some time have sorely needed highlighting to the value of unconventional education, how we establish acceptable contributions to society and tie this into self-worth (and this imposter syndrome). Im excited to show how post-structural thinking can help us as a society move forward in understanding ourselves, how we self-regulate and how we continue to oversee/be overseen and thus stuck creatively. It is precisely our own limited thinking in response to social constructs in our own mind that make revolutionary change impossible and has to a degree kept us separated/prevented our collective action in addressing societal problems (or even looking to government as the sole organizations possibly capable of addressing them- when each person, those in private/public/voluntary sectors or civil society-in fact can) . The papers that I’ll propose will be keys to better understanding and will present how counterculture and generosity will help us move in a direction that is constructively forward and together (compared to a polarized society that the media continues to propagate). If you’ve read this far, just know it’s appreciated. Again, thank you for providing me an ounce of inspiration ;) I hope you’ll enjoy what I put out shortly. (Even though I’ll be going out on a limb to a degree haha)

    • @mistyculous9644
      @mistyculous9644 Před 3 lety +2

      Go for it!

    • @drewsuneson9034
      @drewsuneson9034 Před 3 lety +2

      Much appreciation for your vision and initiative to help move the needle in a healthier direction for society

    • @lesleysclips13
      @lesleysclips13 Před 3 lety +2

      I definitely am! Once I have a functional video I’ll comment the link :)
      And thanks Andy- it’s about us all doing our part to help each other make this world a better place- if expanding on theory and showing how it can come into practice can help some see their own potential/purpose or to find meaning in their life again, I’ll see it as a relative success :)
      Won’t know if I don’t try eh?

    • @betrion7
      @betrion7 Před 2 lety +1

      @@lesleysclips13 so, how's that video going?

    • @lesleysclips13
      @lesleysclips13 Před rokem

      @@betrion7 finished a video, volumes a tad off on it (realizing now after awhile) :P not a bad first effort

  • @Premchik
    @Premchik Před 4 měsíci

    Wow! An incredible guest and an incredible host!!

  • @mrashidaliraza
    @mrashidaliraza Před rokem

    I just love the value SETH delivers all the time... I'm gonna grab his book "The Practice" Let's see....

  • @AhmetKaan
    @AhmetKaan Před 3 lety +3

    Tom Bilyeu and Seth Godin, best combination!

  • @JT-xg4di
    @JT-xg4di Před 3 lety +9

    Does this dude have an Oscar just casually buried on his top shelf?

  • @andrzejkozlowicz6332
    @andrzejkozlowicz6332 Před 3 lety +2

    best orator I've heard in a long time. He easily covers so much I have encountered in my life and given me a kaleidoscope of views to consider instead of judging motives and behaviors of others to mine.

  • @davidberrien9711
    @davidberrien9711 Před 2 lety +1

    Love Seth. Love your work, Tom. You always seem to be well-prepared for your interviews, so you ask great questions, and I can see you really listen to the answers.

  • @POLYLIVING
    @POLYLIVING Před 3 lety +5

    “Profound disruption” so cool👏

  • @ArtyMars
    @ArtyMars Před 3 lety +10

    I've almost finished The Practice on Audible and it's blowing my mind how complicated we make our artistic pursuits, just ship it, listen to your audience and yourself, improve it a little more, ship it again 🥳💖

    • @DB-ob7ib
      @DB-ob7ib Před 3 lety

      Sounds like a decent listen, going to add it to my Playlist. Check out Work energy: it has good reviews and I too thoroughly enjoyed it

    • @justbeegreen
      @justbeegreen Před 3 lety

      "Ship it"?

  • @Well_Earned_Siesta
    @Well_Earned_Siesta Před 3 lety +1

    Seth used to be the go-to place for great marketing and branding advice, now he’s that and so much more!

  • @Atlanta718
    @Atlanta718 Před 3 lety +1

    Who is it for? Audience
    What is it for? Purpose
    What impact does it have? Impact
    Pay it forward
    Be generous
    Internal vs External focus
    Results determine what matters
    Make things others care about
    Begin a side hustle that allows you to build a niche
    Bring humanity that can't be replaced
    Don't be standard, be yourself
    Trust your self
    Speaker vs Listener
    Creative courage vs safe fear
    Life gets better when you go for it
    Serve others

  • @dandahlberg4452
    @dandahlberg4452 Před 3 lety +4

    Bread on the hook. I am the bread of life. This symbol is so deeply rooted in our ontological existence. God en-fleshed willingly putting Himself on the hook. Talk about generous!

  • @samwaters9848
    @samwaters9848 Před 3 lety +5

    Such a brilliant interview. Choose your passion, and do the work to try and improve things for ten, or even just one person. Fantastic.

  • @zimfan101
    @zimfan101 Před 3 lety

    Oh the beauty of Stoic principles!

  • @sushantraj6985
    @sushantraj6985 Před 3 lety

    Just love the way Seth takes a pause to think before answering! You see the impact when he speaks, its so fluent, organized and easy to follow.

  • @ArtyMars
    @ArtyMars Před 3 lety +17

    7:45 if it's work it's for other people - Who's it for "who specifically", what's it for, what change do you want to make!