Our Ghanaian Mother-in-law Leaving Kenya And Saying Goodbye Is So Hard!

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Komentáře • 804

  • @daviddevlogger
    @daviddevlogger Před rokem +84

    First
    Pls pin 📌 mine
    THE TRUTH SHALL SET US FREE🥰

  • @talkszaniculinarykitchen
    @talkszaniculinarykitchen Před rokem +39

    Trudy, am an African mum,older than your mother-in-law. I want to tell you this my babe, your relationship with Maya's mum is the best and the sweetest, all eyes can see. Don't let negative comments hurt you. Do what suits you best. Call her what makes both of you comfortable. Trust me, you are one of the best daughters in-law I have seen. Maya's mum is also a very sweet woman. Enjoy your relationship.

  • @0tismadaline
    @0tismadaline Před rokem +38

    I just love the vibe between your mother-in-law and dad,hopefully daddy visit Ghana soon 😍 💕

  • @sherefulkam2885
    @sherefulkam2885 Před rokem +41

    What a beautiful time between your dad and mom-in-law🥰

  • @jazzythoughts-maat-ra
    @jazzythoughts-maat-ra Před rokem +24

    Trudy, you are amazing!!! Your mother-in-law is a gem 💎 I totally get it and I think this experience has broadened your mother-in-law view of you and your family. 💝

  • @berthekabwe871
    @berthekabwe871 Před rokem +52

    I hope Maya's mum enjoyed her stay in Kenya. It sounds like she has been taking care of you. I love how she called you her daughter without hesitation.

    • @bigmama5048
      @bigmama5048 Před rokem +2

      That what we do in Ghana if your child marries you are automatically that person’s mother it’s normal to us

  • @alicethomasroberts676
    @alicethomasroberts676 Před rokem +63

    Ms Trudy, because your life is public, people want you to please them, but you don't have to justify your feelings and emotions to everyone. Just continue to be who you are: a genuine caring and loving young person. You'll eventually get comfortable to call Maya's Mum whatever he calls her. Continue to be you. Your fans will have to be patient with you.

  • @mavisarhin8254
    @mavisarhin8254 Před rokem +18

    So happy to see the 2 parents meeting together and being supportive of their children, Loved the 2 parents very much❤😊

  • @iammaggie.6019
    @iammaggie.6019 Před rokem +35

    I love how Trudy's dad is well mannered and carrys himself so respectful

  • @abioliab
    @abioliab Před rokem +26

    Awww the prayer part and the part MIL said Trudy is my daughter. This hits hard. Like I always say May God continue to bless your union with your husband and May he keep all your families together in Jesus Name

  • @benmulenga2648
    @benmulenga2648 Před rokem +9

    Trudy that's brave of you. It's good you have talked about this. I also did advise that it'd be nice to call her mother-in-law. I entirely understand and agree with you now. It is fine, you take it a day at a time. God bless.

  • @sophykere6471
    @sophykere6471 Před rokem +41

    I love how Kids can grow up,get married and bring the parents together Look at this beautiful family having a conversation it just melts my heart.Trudy,do you people will always judge .

    • @sabrinalockett4882
      @sabrinalockett4882 Před rokem

      You’re so right. Folks still talking about Jesus so who are we folk won’t talk about us negatively? We already got the victory so just keep working from it, doing you Trudy. My prayer for this channel is that God moves the negative ones out the way to make room for ALL of us that are genuine and appreciate you Trudy sweetheart. ❤️❤️🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @msdraea68
    @msdraea68 Před rokem +3

    I get you and certainly understand your apprehension in addressing Maya’s mother as mom. You are a kind person and I appreciate each time you upload a video about your beautiful country and share parts of your life. I’m most happy with these east versus west videos. Your father is such a good man and will be bless for how well he treated and raised you and your siblings.

  • @shirleyakinyi1971
    @shirleyakinyi1971 Před rokem +49

    May your Dad live long to see your children children 🙏🏾💕

  • @soniamatthews3267
    @soniamatthews3267 Před rokem +2

    Trudy love how u have grown into a calm mature woman..ur videos are so peaceful..love how u interact well with your mother in law. Sure she enjoyed her visit and loved when ur dad came over to say goodbye and pray..your videos are like a breath of fresh air.

  • @gwenlane1038
    @gwenlane1038 Před rokem +2

    Mrs. Trudy:
    You are a true blessing. Your video content is heart moving and God sent! The part of video when your father visited your mother-in -law to say
    goodbye was heart felt. Your father requesting to pray 🙏 made me😢 cry. I felt God's presence all the way in
    Phoenix, AZ (U.S). Keep the good work. GOD IS WITH YOU & Family!
    Blessings & Prayers,
    Ms. G

  • @bellaolum9768
    @bellaolum9768 Před rokem +21

    I love your dad's prayerfulness

  • @NoaPenda
    @NoaPenda Před rokem +25

    Having prayerful parents is the biggest blessing 🙏👌❤️

  • @jameswilson1522
    @jameswilson1522 Před rokem +62

    Mrs Trudy is teaching the modern women how to be an honorable lady.... an honorable wife... daughter... and sister. Long Live Wode Maya & Mrs Trudy ! 🫡

    • @MissTrudyy
      @MissTrudyy  Před rokem +8

      Awwwww! 😀

    • @tfl4963
      @tfl4963 Před rokem +4

      Correct 💯. Allow her to live her Almighty God lifestyle 🙏.

  • @AgainstColorism
    @AgainstColorism Před rokem +7

    It is important to talk about it for those going through the phase right now. We mortal humans will all pass someday, but our stories live on as examples to make the world easier for those going through what we went through.

  • @kofirey6752
    @kofirey6752 Před rokem +2

    GREAT VIDEO 💯 THIS IS A WRAP
    💯ONE OF MY FAVORITE VIDEOS 💯

  • @helenebounsana5384
    @helenebounsana5384 Před rokem +11

    Trudy, so sweet to have a loving mother-in law. I really love ❤️ when your father is praying with auntie Maggy. This is how our God’s love is. You, Maya, your dad, and auntie Maggy are showing us how the United of Africa should be! I love it ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤!

  • @mercyfrost641
    @mercyfrost641 Před rokem +57

    Your Father is kind and respectful..

  • @julietnayigadendwa2515
    @julietnayigadendwa2515 Před rokem +5

    Ooooooo no I feel so bad that my mother from another land and mother is going back to Ghana without seeing her physically oohooo God may you go ahead of them and grant them a safe journey even if have not seen her physically my love for her will never disappear I am so much in love of this mum I had prepared a gift for her bit fortunately haven't gotten an opportunity to see her thank you for gracing trudys dream and came to spend time with her in nairobi i will forever be grateful on behalf of trudy and to your son no comment apart from blessings ahead of him and his wife trudy all the best in what ever journey your walking love you all tell mama I will mis her and I love her

  • @ronaldcuieii8639
    @ronaldcuieii8639 Před rokem

    Hey Ms. Trudy!! Beautiful vlog my friend. And that looked like a Boeing 787-9 dreamliner for Ethiopian Airlines. Awesome awesome very very nice. Please keep coming out with more vlogs!!

  • @Queencnlb
    @Queencnlb Před rokem +27

    Ms. Trudy, you are so real, and I appreciate your honesty. Don't allow others to dictate how you feel about your life experiences. We are all different. You do what is best for you and your family. Blessings, @Queencnlb.

  • @elizabethsonga7698
    @elizabethsonga7698 Před rokem +3

    I hear you Trudy. From where I sit now I can understand. May God heal your scars.

  • @joycewells1530
    @joycewells1530 Před rokem +12

    Trudi you have such a beautiful heart! You don’t owe anyone an explanation. Just do you ! You are loved and appreciated for your realness xx

  • @dianaachieng1018
    @dianaachieng1018 Před rokem +68

    one thing i have learn is to never tell people what to do because situations hit differently

  • @cynthiaadams7689
    @cynthiaadams7689 Před rokem +5

    I love the bond you have with aunty Maggie. 🤍
    Safe travels to your MIL. 🤗

  • @ayubarosalia9362
    @ayubarosalia9362 Před rokem

    Love to see that you chose the black doll!!
    Thank you to promoting us!!!

  • @MsEast8
    @MsEast8 Před rokem +29

    Such beautiful respectful parents. They're so sweet

  • @stephaniezionabubakariel844

    This is so amazing! Your father…………. I LOVE HIMSO MUCH. He is TOTALLY a stand up MAN.
    💚💚💚💜💜💜🪶

  • @jullymuah4076
    @jullymuah4076 Před rokem +3

    May your mom in law have a blessed safe flight back to Ghana,,,

  • @irene_ivy_kamau
    @irene_ivy_kamau Před rokem +19

    Your family is soo adorable and intentional 🎉...God Bless You all

  • @user-gm5tr7gx9p
    @user-gm5tr7gx9p Před rokem

    Wow thank you for sharing … don’t do something that you don’t feel comfortable with

  • @eselecrown
    @eselecrown Před rokem +14

    You are a great daughter-in-law. Your mother-in-law visiting you in Kenya is well worth it. Get well soon 🙏🏿

  • @monicahachola4374
    @monicahachola4374 Před rokem +2

    I also lost my mum at a tender age that, i only get to hear stories of her from my elder sister...@Miss trudy take your time whenever you are ready to share we'll be here to listen...sending lot of love to you, maya and auntie maggie❤❤❤

  • @PleasantGreetings2u
    @PleasantGreetings2u Před rokem +3

    Miss Trudy, I have enjoyed all the videos with your mother in law visiting Kenya and meeting your relatives!

  • @sikazwejerry4620
    @sikazwejerry4620 Před rokem +4

    Let's the will of God prevail in our private, families and communities at large. God bless.

  • @elvinzihuramyezihuramye3939

    Ms. Trudy, it's ok. One step at a time. People had the best intentions, correcting you, especially since they were not aware of your past. Wishing you the best. You have the best mother-in-law, husband, and your family.

  • @purity7355
    @purity7355 Před rokem +13

    The chemistry between your dad and your mum in love is just great trudy

  • @TinoSparks
    @TinoSparks Před rokem +2

    That southern bypass road is vibes, really beautiful

  • @mumjarra
    @mumjarra Před rokem +9

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡💙💙💙💙💙💙💚💚💚💚💚💚❤❤💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝 Your Mom and Dad are so Lovely you are blessed to have them both. Love watching your family. God protect your marriage and union.

  • @idwinner9517
    @idwinner9517 Před rokem +13

    Nothing can go wrong watching you Trudy.

  • @stephenjohnson3542
    @stephenjohnson3542 Před rokem +5

    THANKS SO MUCH OUR KENYAN INLAW . ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @christined.a.w4686
    @christined.a.w4686 Před rokem +2

    Trudy, it is true. I get your point. I lost my mother when I was 13 years. Everyone grief differently. Emotions and situations are different for everyone. For some people, it might be easy. I hope people think before they talk. Some people are sensitive. A mother is a loved one whom you cannot replace.

  • @amakachukwurah5801
    @amakachukwurah5801 Před rokem +2

    When you ready to talk about your grief, we are here to hear you! Still be your best Trudy! Love from Miami.

  • @3738loma
    @3738loma Před rokem

    Yes, I’m with you! I’ve dealt and I’m still dealing with that same issue. My mom passed away too. So please feel free to share your heart. It will provide healing for yourself and your viewers.

  • @mutsawashe1369
    @mutsawashe1369 Před rokem +6

    We will miss aunt Maggie. She is a pleasure. I really love your relationship. ❤❤❤❤

  • @JackiehAkinyiehGeorgieh2022

    Amazing Vlog Pretty 💞Trudy😃,thank you so much for sharing your experience with us 🤗.May you Stay Safe and Blessed by God's grace hun💞😃🙏🏻

  • @toussaintnkurunziza3670
    @toussaintnkurunziza3670 Před rokem +1

    Waah , your dad is beyond dignified and special , he encompasses both wisdom and such a loving heart , a truly rare combination nowadays , may God's supernatural healing and blessings be upon him , yourself , your amazing mother - in - law and Wodemaya , always always indeed !

  • @highpraiseglobalministries7166

    Trudy just be yourself. You are such a lovely and genuine person, JUST BE YOU! Shalom. One love from Jamaica❤🇯🇲💯

  • @twinnei1966
    @twinnei1966 Před rokem +5

    Beautiful video Trudy, I thoroughly enjoyed it ❤

  • @loisewanjiru-5207
    @loisewanjiru-5207 Před rokem +7

    So true, i lost my mum at 5 yrs, its hard for me to call my mother in-law mum,
    I do call her then i end up crying, i miss her alot

  • @marietakilonzo1309
    @marietakilonzo1309 Před rokem +16

    Praying for Dad to overcome all the pain he endures may God heal you Baba trudy

  • @evalynangelina5045
    @evalynangelina5045 Před rokem +3

    I totally understand you trudy i lost my mum too when i was 19.my dad remarried and i have never been able to call the lady or anyone else mum .its just so hard to call anyone mum. Mum is such a special name. Hugs trudy.

  • @businkala2554
    @businkala2554 Před rokem +2

    Trudy my angel listen.... you've done what you can with grace and love, yourself still going to carry this assignment through so well and it's ok to feel the way you do about things good or bad, broken people have high expectations of your behaviour and demeanour and tough luck because at the end of the day you report to your maker and everyone has an obligation to bow and surrender their works to Him.... perfect people is impossible as long as we live and if we point fingers and mark others work and lives,who are we....we should be grateful and know that we're all mobile graves so to please God should be our mandate as anytime we can be history and leave the world with bad names instead of the opposite... we love you from south Africa

  • @nyakatoviolet860
    @nyakatoviolet860 Před rokem

    The laughters and joy in the video is amazing ❤️❤️much love.

  • @boakyefelicia2480
    @boakyefelicia2480 Před rokem +12

    Trudy you love your Mother in-law and she also loves you that is what matters, just keep bonding with her, God has given you a mother figure, it is a process by and by you will get there I pray this love continues forever

  • @Lionspride426
    @Lionspride426 Před rokem +6

    You have a such caring Dad

  • @iam_betty
    @iam_betty Před rokem

    Oh! Your story relates to that of Diana Bahati. I understand you.

  • @blessed-jk4zu
    @blessed-jk4zu Před rokem +3

    Don't you worry Trudy,step at a time don't please people,just do you,God bless you for taking care of Maya's mum well,God bless your dad for being such a gentleman.

  • @brendahatito7848
    @brendahatito7848 Před rokem +3

    I have a friend who lost the parents and I Rem she told me she can't her mum in law mum so I totally agree with you it can be hard. Hugs trudy

  • @yo-a
    @yo-a Před rokem +68

    Maya’s Mum and Miss Trudy’s Dad are just the sweetest!
    Also, it’s so sweet to see how the cultures come through, through each parent.

  • @irene_mwinzi
    @irene_mwinzi Před rokem

    I just love the way you relate with your cool dad. It's so sweet 😅.
    About mum or not. As long as each is Okey and the respect is there, baby girl don't worry. Give us content, I learn some things from you

  • @bellaolum9768
    @bellaolum9768 Před rokem +8

    Wow I didn't know mom was still around!❤

  • @act4yew
    @act4yew Před rokem

    LUPE’ , Trudy! you touched upon a very interesting subject - “growing up without one of your parents”! This topic has many causes and effects and is shared by many of us on The Continent and in The Diaspora. A sharing of the many causes and effects could be cathartic - a sort of liberation and burden-sharing. Let’s explore it! #onedollaroneafrica

  • @kojokwame5201
    @kojokwame5201 Před rokem +2

    Trudy I love it Soo much the way you keep saying my mother in-law. That kind is of love is amazing ❤.

  • @lukanyo5413
    @lukanyo5413 Před rokem +1

    There nothing more valuable than being together as a family. Thank you Trudy for sharing your family life with the world. All will be well be blessed. Ny the way you are teaching yhe world about how great Afrika is and how greater its been.

  • @hlamalanibaloyi6331
    @hlamalanibaloyi6331 Před rokem +12

    I wanted to comment about it about it, but kept it to myself the inner person in me was whispering to say what if it reminds her of her mom and it makes it difficult to call her mom . Thank God my Inner person was right . That is the reason i dont judge before i can know the real story. Take heart baby Girl ❤‍🩹❤‍🩹

  • @cjola9773
    @cjola9773 Před rokem +3

    Yes, we understand Trudy. Your mother n law understands, your husband understands, and that's all who truly matters. The love/respect/ honor doesn't go away with words. I get it, and people are people. Everyone has an opinion. Key word opinion.

  • @monicakukubor5524
    @monicakukubor5524 Před rokem +9

    I think Trudy is right, Maya himself calls his mum Aunty Maggi at the right time she’ll adjust.Trudy just be yourself ❤

  • @SermonQuoffie
    @SermonQuoffie Před rokem +5

    You are lucky to have fallen in the hands of a family with golden heart.

  • @oluochmercy5716
    @oluochmercy5716 Před rokem

    That was a good day spent together 🎉...Aunty maggy loves that jacket and it's so nice on him

  • @clementinaajaa3022
    @clementinaajaa3022 Před rokem

    Hello Miss Trudy, I am so happy that your mother0 in-- law came to be with you and your family, that^s a great love and respect to you while she had a mini vacation

  • @NoaPenda
    @NoaPenda Před rokem +26

    Whatever your mom did, always remember that people only love the way they know how to and to an extend that their heart is able to. Sometimes a person is broken herself to an extent that they dont know how to love; or they opt to leave your life because they believe staying in your life will just hurt you more. I hope you really reach a point where you can talk about your mom without feeling ache in your heart.
    I also hope your dad has found peace with everything that transpired in your lives.
    Much love❤❤

  • @lorainethompson8573
    @lorainethompson8573 Před rokem

    Ms Trudy nice to see both your parents, in laws sitting and talking, very nice. I am like your father I love cold weather, one day I might visit Kenya due to the nice weather, but not Ghana, I hate heat.

  • @betitolove9781
    @betitolove9781 Před rokem +8

    Missed you so much darling Trudy. Wishing you and your lovely husband all the best in all your endeavors. Lemi watch

  • @janepherkhisa8581
    @janepherkhisa8581 Před rokem +6

    I like your mother in-law she seems to be so caring

  • @alicenalulwe84
    @alicenalulwe84 Před rokem +1

    It's well darling,4give ur mum let her Rip in enternity,take care sweetheart I pray it's agood outcome when the doc says rest

  • @writersfantasykenya
    @writersfantasykenya Před rokem +2

    Your feelings are valid, some pains are so personal you shouldn't bother to explain. Wishing you well Trudy

  • @Cazza321
    @Cazza321 Před rokem

    Hi Trudy I hope and wish your dad get his health back to normal
    Good will never forsake us! and stay blessed

  • @stillgrowingwithjuddy5399

    Let people say what they want as long as you make your own decisions. You dad have done a wonderful job & you will too.

  • @loveinaabmorgan9209
    @loveinaabmorgan9209 Před rokem +2

    I do understand where you are coming from. My mother was emotionally and physically absent. Even in relationships I was scared of my partners mothers but with their fathers. My stepdad was my bestfriend too. So I understand you. Considered Trauma Therapy? I started mine not long ago. Take your time dear🤍🤍🤍. I’d love for you tell us about your Mother. Whenever you are ready❤

  • @jemimmahachieng5592
    @jemimmahachieng5592 Před rokem

    Gal i get u...Have faced the same same pain...relax we move on..Thank God this far.

  • @deegrant9584
    @deegrant9584 Před rokem

    I hope and pray that you feel better soon to go back to Ghana. You are in my prayers.

  • @retirementtoafrica
    @retirementtoafrica Před rokem +1

    Loving your family relation and work ethics. You just doing you, wodemaya doing widemaya, mum doing mum and dad doing dad and everyone is as relaxed with everyone doing gheir thing. No complaints❤❤❤😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉

  • @Browneyezzzztwo11gmail

    I just Love how you are with ur extended family keep doing you and loving those who Love you back❤❤❤

  • @gracemunuhe9023
    @gracemunuhe9023 Před rokem +1

    Miss Trudy I truly understand you I was brought up by my Dad too so I get what you mean! you're still a sweet girl and you're still a nice girl!

  • @mamaafricantradition
    @mamaafricantradition Před rokem +2

    This is how we have to love our in laws and both of you are amazing, let love continue lead you all, Trudy may God bless you for sharing plain love to each other ❤

  • @tammygreen8962
    @tammygreen8962 Před rokem +3

    👋🏼🌍🏞️💚💚💚🇺🇸🤓 Take great care Ms. Trudy 🎉

  • @abioliab
    @abioliab Před rokem +3

    Welcome back my sister I miss you on these streets

  • @shoshannanina5359
    @shoshannanina5359 Před rokem +1

    I get it Ms. Trudy. To each his own and you choice should be respected.

  • @sibongokuhledlodlo7899
    @sibongokuhledlodlo7899 Před rokem +1

    Safe flight Aunty Maggie and Maya, hope you all enjoyed your stay in Kenya, love Trudy

  • @elizabethwainaina339
    @elizabethwainaina339 Před rokem

    Take your time Getrude, once you heal other things will flow easily God is on your side

  • @paliairene1613
    @paliairene1613 Před rokem +3

    Thanks Trudy for the video,
    Poeple will always talk,do what is best for you,at the end of the day it's about you and your family period

  • @loomwheel6355
    @loomwheel6355 Před rokem +2

    Well understood Tudy...those who don't understand you just choose to do so. But, I am of the strong opinion that you refer to her as your mother-in-law. It is more accepting of you and of-course very heartwarming for her to hear you call her your mother-in-law. We love you Trudy. ❤

  • @leahotieno5289
    @leahotieno5289 Před rokem +1

    Hi Trudy Maya... I agree with you jst take your time..... One day at a time

  • @juniorraphael7
    @juniorraphael7 Před rokem

    As in eh! Your MIL seem sweet and genuine. You can tell she thinks highly of you. You did so good with the treat..thoroughly enjoyed your relationship like bread and butter ✋🏽😀
    Safe journey back to Ghana