SWV & Xscape Queens of R&B Ep.3 | Tamar vs Kandi & Todd Live Review

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 20. 03. 2023
  • Rose Forever shop: bit.ly/3MtJFkd
    Get $25 off, using code: BondyBlue25
    SHOP SEDURE
    USE MY LINK
    www.shopsedure.com/?sca_ref=2...
    USE BONDY FOR 15% OFF
    *************************
    SIGN UP FOR MY WEBSITE
    www.bondyblueshow.com
    BE APART OF THE CONVERSATION
    / 1546088129099278
    💪🏾 JUST MOVE SUPPLEMENTS 💪🏾
    justmovesupplements.com/?rfsn...
    AMAZON SHOP
    www.amazon.com/shop/bondyblue
    👍🏾 VLOG CHANNEL 👍🏾
    / @relaxwithblue2524
    Peja & Amari
    pejaandamari.com/?rfsn=512771...
    😘SHOP PrettyLittleThing 😍
    tidd.ly/3mZc3gL
    💪🏾TEAM LASHAE
    teamlashae.com/?rfsn=4422930....
    ☕️GET THIS TEA
    retail.totallifechanges.com/b...
    SUPPORT MY CHANNEL ON PATREON
    www.patreon.com/bePatron?c=11...
    ❤️ MY EARRINGS????? ❤️
    👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾GET THEM HERE 👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾
    www.bohindiestream.com/?rfsn=...
    😁 GET MY GLASSES HERE 😁
    www.firmoo.com/?invite_code=2...
    CASH$APP $BondyBlue
    Venmo: @bondyblue
    PAYPAL bondy.brittany@gmail.com
    P.O. Box 2218
    Marrero, LA 70072
    MERCHANDISE
    teespring.com/stores/bondys-b...
    THE MISERABLE MEDIA
    • Episode 1
    USE: BONDYBLUE AS YOUR CODE TO GET 10% OFF OF YOUR PURCHASE
    www.sultrylimb.com/
    *************************************************************
    MAKE YOUR BATH TIME EXTRA SWEET
    www.sugarshakcollection.com?afmc=34&
    GET MY HAIR OR SOMETHING LIKE IT
    USE CODE: BONDY FOR 15%OFF
    www.omiaje.com
    follow me on ig @bondyblue
    email me for mf'n advice bondy.brittany@gmail.com
    SIGN UP TO BE KEPT INFORMED
    docs.google.com/forms/d/1_Iz2...
  • Zábava

Komentáře • 352

  • @health_is_wealth333
    @health_is_wealth333 Před rokem +38

    I'm graduating with my B.S. in Alternative Health, then I'm going to medical school next year to become a naturopathic doctor, I will be 41 when I'm done! Keep going, everyone! Don't quit!!!

  • @xPROGNOSISx
    @xPROGNOSISx Před rokem +152

    It’s bizarre that peoples detest for Kandi removes all logic from their argument. Tamar is a known liar and is abusive. She’s shown us, Iyanla told us and her sisters have told us. She has a strange relationship with reality and her stories rarely ring true. Bringing up domestic violence after being a victim (according to her MOM) was disgusting and calling her a billy goat while looking like a Muppet was my last straw. Team Kandi w/o a doubt! Loved the live!

    • @keepsit100atalltime9
      @keepsit100atalltime9 Před rokem +15

      Right. People are way too emotional and we don't even know these people for real.

    • @xPROGNOSISx
      @xPROGNOSISx Před rokem +17

      @@keepsit100atalltime9 right. I never thought I’d be standing up for Kandi but here I am because people are being intellectually dishonest. lol.

    • @keepsit100atalltime9
      @keepsit100atalltime9 Před rokem +8

      @@xPROGNOSISx I can't stand when people choose a side and be loud and wrong. I'm the same way as Kandi, I try to do my research and present all the facts. It's funny cracking know- it- all people's faces😅

    • @mollyshaj.3888
      @mollyshaj.3888 Před rokem +13

      Let's not forget her and David both accused each other of being abusive. She said that man was beating her and he said the same thing about him but turned around and gave him a father's day shout out when he aint got no child with her

    • @deans9459
      @deans9459 Před rokem +10

      Yes, Her domestic violence accusation was extremely disgusting! I hope they sue her!! And to the baby daddy to several baby momma’s! while he going in so hard on Todd, it’s just a matter of time before it’s you in that position of defending yourself against her accusations!!!

  • @tamcar04
    @tamcar04 Před rokem +26

    I almost cried looking at Tamika's eyes when her mom was telling her she loved her.....I said, "she don't believe it." 😢

    • @meannoharm1561
      @meannoharm1561 Před rokem +1

      Tamika looked like she accepted the fact that she’s going to have to step back

  • @Phillybags
    @Phillybags Před rokem +45

    It was low key funny how Shamea asked Tocha if she ever asked JD about why her album didn't come out, Tocha was taken a back and answered no like she never thought of that before.

  • @nike60258
    @nike60258 Před rokem +45

    People are weird. You can NOT like her voice without downing her talent. Kandi can sing.
    Tamar and her funky attitude is the exact reason she has the interpersonal issues she does.

    • @KC-kg3ld
      @KC-kg3ld Před rokem +4

      Kandi can’t sing 😂😂😂😂 but I respect her hustle. Also I like Kandi and Todd together. Her making more money than his is neither here or there. He ain’t broke and they are definitely not broke together. .

    • @megscott3241
      @megscott3241 Před rokem +5

      @@KC-kg3ld exactly if someone say she cant sing that not downing the fact that she is successful are having respect for her. Just because you think she can sing not every one has to agree with that and this weird thing where no one can say anything that's not in Kandi's favor has to stop and if u do critique her your hating. Ridiculous!

    • @nike60258
      @nike60258 Před rokem +4

      @@megscott3241 if you don’t know about voice from technique and harmonic blend - that’s ok. Not liking her voice is ok. But saying someone can’t sing bc YOU do not individually care for it is ignorant. To each their own I suppose …

    • @megscott3241
      @megscott3241 Před rokem +1

      @@nike60258 correct to each their own as I said a person can say I don't think she can sing that doesn't mean your speaking for everyone no need to offensive on what some one else think's it doesn't even mean I am correct it just means I think she cant sing which I have the right to my own thoughts. This is the issue everyone is so focused on being right when this is just a matter of opinion not right are wrong.

    • @datgurlky1
      @datgurlky1 Před rokem +2

      Another hating chic with a great voice mad that Kandi has success with her voice. 😂

  • @Beachey
    @Beachey Před rokem +26

    I don't understand people's lack of logic. I'm not taking a pay cut so your feelings won't get hurt.

    • @xPROGNOSISx
      @xPROGNOSISx Před rokem +6

      Likeeee…your price is not my price, PERIODT. The disconnect is troubling.

    • @taneishac4116
      @taneishac4116 Před rokem +6

      FACTS!! Run me ALL my money!! It’s foolish to think that Xscape should take a pay cut for the culture.

    • @keepsit100atalltime9
      @keepsit100atalltime9 Před rokem +4

      SWV had a similar situation with Salt n Pepa. LeeLee and Taj were amped to open b/c they saw SnP as legends. Coko, not so much.
      It seems like SWV are looking at things from a moral standpoint saying they paved the way for Xscape, so they should respect them by co headlining a tour. I mean not to take anything away from SWV bc they are great artists but I don't see how they paved the way for Xscape when they came out around the same time. I wonder what SWVs argument would be in regards to TLC.

    • @Beachey
      @Beachey Před rokem +1

      @@keepsit100atalltime9 I was thinking this. Like swv came out before destiny's child as well. That doesn't mean anything.

  • @keepsit100atalltime9
    @keepsit100atalltime9 Před rokem +21

    That's why Tamar's sisters and women in general distance themselves from Tamar. She took messy. Toxicity follows her wherever she goes it seems. She can sing though😁

  • @justty4080
    @justty4080 Před rokem +91

    ANYBODY SAYING KANDI CANT SING GO WATCH XSCAPE SOUL TRAIN PERFORMANCE SHE DISPLAYED HER WHOLE RANGE! And every last one of those girls killed it!

    • @keepsit100atalltime9
      @keepsit100atalltime9 Před rokem +9

      They'll never admit it😟

    • @aranielleb7718
      @aranielleb7718 Před rokem +8

      Masked singer she was amazing but that doesn’t mean xscape is better than swv

    • @megscott3241
      @megscott3241 Před rokem +6

      I would say this whether she can sing or not is a preference thing what I don't understand more is why people get so defensive when people say she cant sing I personally don't feel like that is even that big of a deal.

    • @justty4080
      @justty4080 Před rokem +6

      @@aranielleb7718 that wasn’t even the conversation so I’m confused on why that made it into your comment. IN MY OPINION THEY HAVE THEIR OWN LANES! I love SWV and I love Xscape. But this was about people trying to say Kandi can’t sing so how did you go left! Please explain

    • @justty4080
      @justty4080 Před rokem +6

      @@megscott3241 Wait what! Your telling a Singer who’s profession is to sing that they can’t sing. That means you think your qualified enough to tell them they are unqualified to do their jobs! That’s a slap in someone’s face especially when the ones saying it are still singing the songs! Who wouldn’t be offended! YOUR SAYINGN THEY ARENT GOOD AT THE THING THEY ARE SUPPOSE TO BE GOOD AT! And what’s due to preference and becomes debatable is WHETHER YOU LIKE HER TONE OR NOT! Not whether she can sing, but a lot of non technical musical people don’t understand the difference! Like me personally I don’t care for Kandi’s tone a lot but I love to hear it in an Xscape song because that is some of my favorite parts. But I can’t say the girl can’t sing because I’ve seen numerous performance where she is singing the song in the right key and on the right note, just the same way it was sung on the recording! ALSO I HATE TOCHA RUNNING ALL OVER THE ENTIRE SONG! I HATE TO HEAR IT! I’D RATHER HEAR TAMIKA SING IT, BUT I CAN NEVER SAY TOCHA CANT SING!

  • @a.wilhite4126
    @a.wilhite4126 Před rokem +25

    Tamar started this mess and now she changes the narrative of what really happened. When has Tamar ever been calm and peaceful? All I ever saw was LOUD, Bousterious and a OBNOXIOUS. I don't believe a word that comes out of her mouth. Bondy you hit the nail on the head with this one.

  • @schnitzel1024
    @schnitzel1024 Před rokem +71

    Xscape gets that success because of Kandi and Tiny on their shows. Kandi and Tiny should get promotor or marketing credits and not contribute it all to Xscape. It’s clear that Xscape wasn’t popping until Kandi came back and brought her Real Housewives fan base. They are over-inflating the brand of Xscape and conflating it with the brands of Tiny and Kandi. They brought this project to SWV as a collaboration. You can’t change things up midway through. The SWV women said they had already signed contracts for things. They didn’t have to be paid less, SWV should have simply changed their rate. This type of tour required a change in rate, as it would be a partnership and come with exceptional risk, Tocha leaving being the perfect example.

    • @chiph9184
      @chiph9184 Před rokem +17

      💯 THIS!!! KANDI is successful with her business. Tiny and Kandi are wealthy. Xscape as a group are not. How many tours did they have to headline in 6 years with 2 years worth of a pandemic? In that time they have also been opening acts. It was also Kandi in the very first episode who said the group should have gotten deals but because of the bad management, they have not been getting offers. They can ask for more money because the draw is in the limited time offer of Xscape. SWV doesn't have to, they choose to tour AND there is still a demand for them. How people believe money translates to intelligence or intelligence in one area means intelligence overall is beyond me 🙄

    • @kc-jv1rn
      @kc-jv1rn Před rokem +3

      Educate the folks

    • @cochineal2851
      @cochineal2851 Před rokem +1

      I don’t know, it’s like saying TLC should get top billing over Destiny’s Child because of success back in the day. Beyonce makes Desintys Child a bigger draw now.
      Or like putting Backstreet Boys ahead of *NSYNC on tour. BB clearly tour more often but *NSYNC has Justin. So yes, if people are coming to see 2/4 members of Xscape and would see them perform if swv and Tamika/Rocha weren’t there, then they are kind of lucky all they are asking for xscape to get top billing.
      Personally I’d be going to see Coko. Like bffr. But from a biz standpoint, I really truly understand.

    • @schnitzel1024
      @schnitzel1024 Před rokem +8

      @@cochineal2851 Beyoncé made a name for herself in Music, Kandi and Tiny have not. They wrote songs that are great, but that’s not a claim for the group. Their personal brands are different from their individual brands.

    • @cochineal2851
      @cochineal2851 Před rokem +3

      @@schnitzel1024 100% agree. I’m just not sure that matters when it comes to q rating and it’s impact on ticket sales. I see both sides. Just don’t think Kandi is coming out of left field with her stance.

  • @kikistarr5590
    @kikistarr5590 Před rokem +32

    I think it's sad how Tocha lost all that weight, looks so good but seems so unhappy and checked out. She should be living her best life right now.

    • @marquitashiver6141
      @marquitashiver6141 Před rokem +7

      Right the older u get the more peaceful life should get.

    • @ParentalDiscretionIsAdvised
      @ParentalDiscretionIsAdvised Před rokem +11

      Its not Tocha, its that shadow of hers! They been together since her mid-20s....she hasnt found who SHE IS! She hasnt taken the time to figure HER out!

    • @LadaBAPS
      @LadaBAPS Před rokem +1

      @@ParentalDiscretionIsAdvised You hit the nail right on the head. That's her biggest problem along with her issues with Kandi and Kandi's issues with her.

    • @ParentalDiscretionIsAdvised
      @ParentalDiscretionIsAdvised Před rokem +1

      @@LadaBAPS He's been the problem with the group the entire time! Just effed up the church's money (and Tamika's)!

  • @blueskieszeta
    @blueskieszeta Před rokem +19

    Just to put it in perspective, Dental School is like Med School. Jaylon finished his first year of college not dental school. Unless he’s at a college where there is 3+4 program, he will work on his bachelors most likely in some type of science while applying to dental school his senior year. If/when accepted into dental school, he’ll gain his DDS or DMD after 4 years. He could come out and begin practicing or he could apply and be accepted into a residency which is an additional 1-6 years depending on type. All that to say, if his heart is not in healthcare, that’s probably not something he should pursue. However, I do agree with him staying in school.

  • @livinglife2572
    @livinglife2572 Před rokem +19

    What is super odd/sad about Tamar is she doesn’t even know Carlos like that. She admitted that. Why did she even insert herself?! At one point Kandi had her on her payroll when no one (including her sisters) wanted to mess with her! How quickly we forget.

  • @THEMOVIEBAE
    @THEMOVIEBAE Před rokem +34

    I don’t watch half the shows you review, but I enjoy your commentary and your gems. As an almost 30 y/o feeling stuck in my career, my main takeaway from this live is “pivot”. Thank you Bondy 🙏🏽
    Blessings to you and your future endeavors. ✨

  • @agregory8
    @agregory8 Před rokem +16

    Bondy, you are dead on about this Kandi and Tamar debacle. I'm so disappointed at some other CZcamsrs I follow who can't see Tamar's bullshit because of how they feel about Kandi. They can not like Kandi and still see that Tamar is on one! These two things can coexist.

  • @tawlfam86
    @tawlfam86 Před rokem +21

    I heard Tamar say I haven’t been on reality TV for years?!?! Is it me or wasn’t she on The Surreal Life just last year?!?!? Have we really changed my girl🙄

  • @mzhoney9190
    @mzhoney9190 Před rokem +14

    He said what he said, because Tamar ass was trying to act like she didn't know what Kandi was talking about, Todd merely said you know what it is, referring to the shit you said pertaining to the Carlos mess, meaning you know why she said she don't fuck wit you.

    • @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr
      @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr Před rokem +2

      Todd went NY on her.

    • @mzhoney9190
      @mzhoney9190 Před rokem +1

      @@VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr as he should, and snowflake will not be meeting her bipolar ass at the alter, Tamar is to problematic she and Nene Leaks are one in the same, only friends they both have is the "girls" as they call them, and Tamar ridin Carlos King zipper for a job, ahe don't know him like that, notice he has not chimed in on nothing Tamar has said, get with gay guys to get their hair and make up done for the low, (nothing against the gay guys) but I digress 😂

  • @michaelmcclain5817
    @michaelmcclain5817 Před rokem +13

    Kandi on the Masked Singer was awesome. She has a great voice. Her voice is unique and does not have a gospel tone, which is popular in the black community. However, she is technically and classically trained.

    • @SirEclectic
      @SirEclectic Před rokem

      She did amazing on T.M.S! I loved all the rock songs she did, they fit her voice so well!

  • @Faisaluvs
    @Faisaluvs Před rokem +10

    Tamar: The original black Karen

  • @Eryn_101
    @Eryn_101 Před rokem +19

    The only reason ppl go up for Tocha is because she did all those runs every other note, which was popular in the 90s. Kandi has range & can still hit her notes. I think she deserves more recognition than she receives

  • @EminJai
    @EminJai Před rokem +20

    Go Lyric! I actually did my first cardio workout in months! It was a 20 minute dance workout I found here on CZcams. I gotta get better. I was so out of breath in the first 90 seconds. But I finished the workout 😅

    • @chiph9184
      @chiph9184 Před rokem +4

      🎉🎉🎉 Keep at it 💪🏾 Cardio and balancing are no joke! 😅

  • @mtwilson83
    @mtwilson83 Před rokem +9

    Thanks for telling us your career backstory, it was interesting! I have to say I think you can still make it as an actress! Especially in plays!! your voice is amazing!

  • @edwardmorris8465
    @edwardmorris8465 Před rokem +7

    Todd knows the business he knows how to conduct himself it wasn't his first time.

  • @wuzzap1233
    @wuzzap1233 Před rokem +11

    Hmmm idk when swv and xscape first sat down episode one it seemed like they were planning a joint show with all the ladies on stage at once. Not a pre show and a headliner. Because they already did that as kandi stated.
    I can totally see SWV’s frustration because Xscape cant even agree on dress code, hire a manger, or get along period but wanna play in their faces like they have it all together in the name of “business” LOL its comical.

  • @lalathepsychnurse3211
    @lalathepsychnurse3211 Před rokem +5

    Your comments on the "mama" was so on point!!

  • @lawyerleya22ify
    @lawyerleya22ify Před rokem +9

    The more I hear Tamar’s story…including what Todd said…the more I feel like the “you know what it is” was more for Kandi. I’ve heard him say to Kandi several times “you know what it is”…it’s Todd’s way of calling out bull**it…Tamar knew what the beef was about (you know what it is) and Todd knew it was BS (you know what it is)…it’s hate for Kandi just like most people who try to come at Kandi for some stupid reason or another…

  • @ifeelncredible
    @ifeelncredible Před rokem +14

    In my opinion there are two types of ways to get paid for a show… a flat rate and top billing. Xscape does not always get top billing, therefore they also have a rate. Im sure the rate can be matched. Which would be co-heading. I’m so many words Kandi feels more relevant than SWV

  • @lyssa71421
    @lyssa71421 Před rokem +7

    Tamika momma hating her daddy & taking it out on her is a story as common as I don't know what...very sad

    • @kayrup3712
      @kayrup3712 Před rokem +3

      I saw on a YT video that Tamika maintains a loving relationship with her father. Her mother seems like the type that would want her children to pick a side and would view a relationship with the father as betrayal.
      It appears they've been divorced for along time but she's still extremely bitter.

  • @Dr.PhD-10
    @Dr.PhD-10 Před rokem +4

    Thank you Bondy, I always appreciate your perspectives and transparency. I support Kandi and Todd, they're doing it! Plus, it's business!

  • @mercedes.nashay
    @mercedes.nashay Před rokem +13

    I don’t think this was a argument about money. using the money is the best way to clean it up. Artists that co-headline don’t automatically get paid equally so not sure why that was her assumption if she knows their rates. Also, Kandi’s & Tiny’s followers don’t translate into streams. They didn’t even chart after Versus but SWV did. So how are they so confident their followers translate into ticket sales. If you look at the albums sold and streams.. Xscape fans are SWV fans but there are still many SWV fans that don’t listen to Xscape. They actually have a chance to expand their audience partnering with SWV especially considering their international presence. I like them both. I think they should co-headline and work out the rates behind closed doors.

  • @candidbutsweet9613
    @candidbutsweet9613 Před rokem +6

    Todd probably said that because Tamar was probably escalated acting like she don't know why Kandi was mad and Todd told her basically stop acting stupid, you know what it is.

    • @sabrina.natalie
      @sabrina.natalie Před rokem +1

      Yeah, that’s the way I interpreted his statement as well.

  • @quinnsmith5143
    @quinnsmith5143 Před rokem +8

    I couldn’t wait for you to discuss this! Always bringing that real

  • @reemcfall
    @reemcfall Před rokem +5

    The conversation should have been had with the promoters & managers!

  • @a.z.6739
    @a.z.6739 Před rokem +2

    This is why artists have management, they are the intermediaries. The road is hard, airports, hotels, Kandi, could really just chill😅

  • @carolpeters2001
    @carolpeters2001 Před rokem

    I absolutely loved every dam minute of this video! Chile you was spittin TRUTH all up an through this video from start to finish!

  • @Royal_Tee001
    @Royal_Tee001 Před rokem +2

    The Kandi hate gives people don’t think certain women don’t deserve love and success

  • @allthewayupnorth_8155
    @allthewayupnorth_8155 Před rokem +2

    I love how folks miss over the fact that Xscape had ZERO representation in that room. SWV had their representation. It wasn't just Kandi, the entire group felt the same....Kandi is just the one who vocalized at the meeting.

  • @trolltrolling9022
    @trolltrolling9022 Před rokem +6

    I absolutely can’t stand Tamar… go away! Then when we verbally assassinate her she will then get on social media crying and threatening to off herself AGAIN and we are supposed to lift her up in prayer?!??! Girl get on your meds & stay on your meds 😢

  • @tesatalkstv
    @tesatalkstv Před rokem +2

    Bondy, Bondy, Bondy....girl you are so right about that moma. That "I love you" was dry and lacked "the LOVE".

  • @YasmineB2468
    @YasmineB2468 Před rokem +4

    For some reason the topic of Kandi makes people completely irrational. I’ve noticed that even when she very CLEARLY explains things, people take and twist what she’s saying. It’s annoying. I’ve just decided to opt out of those conversations because there’s typically no logic on the other side.

  • @QueenNTheMaking
    @QueenNTheMaking Před rokem +2

    I remember when Tamar and Vince use to make those Tina turner/Ike jokes and then we see how that turned out…few years later we learning that Vince is biting fingers off n shit 😭😭

  • @adaada073
    @adaada073 Před rokem +9

    Bondi is always on point with these reviews . First and foremost Tamar is a Stunt Queen 🙃💯now to the mess when meatball was singing again adding runs to other peoples song “I’m so into you” doesn’t sound like that meatball 😂Now Ms. Glo “I’m the 5th member of Xscape and maybe that sentiment is the reason Tamika is short 30,000 and the fact you have resentment issues regarding your ex and taking it out on Tamika cause she resembles her dad yeah where is the family therapist cause y’all need it 💯 I ❤ Coko’s and LeeLee ‘s overall realness regarding their past just so touching and glad they are just doin their thing just collectively as a group I ❤ SWV maturity and willingness to focus on the bag 💯 Meatball and her hubby Ike just get rid of em they are irritating !! Kandi and Tamika Taj is right it should be co -headlining deal . Coko and LeeLee at the end i love em they are not w/ the shits 😂😂😂❤ I love this show

  • @ebonecook2947
    @ebonecook2947 Před rokem +4

    Thank you!!! For what you said about Kandi and Todd's marriage!!

  • @tcraigg4563
    @tcraigg4563 Před rokem +1

    Thank you for explaining the fee breakdown that Kandi was talking about. That makes sense. At first I was like come on and co-headline, but I get it now.

  • @danyellockridge4108
    @danyellockridge4108 Před rokem +2

    Im glad Kandi didn't want Jason Lee people to interview her he hate black women and talk shit about black women Kandi work hard to get her career booming

  • @keysii13
    @keysii13 Před rokem +1

    You made some excellent points Bondy, I’m really glad I clicked on tonight. I was impressed with your perspective on the family dynamics between Tamika and her mother and family abuse in general. Also you were speaking facts about Kandi’s voice, I will never understand why people hate to the level where logic just disappears.

  • @errain2983
    @errain2983 Před rokem +15

    I agree with you 100% regarding the Kandi and extremely messy Tamar situation. Saying you know what time it is doesn’t mean I’m threatening to fight you. Tamar ALWAYS plays the victim roll and ALWAYS puts 100 on 10. That’s why she became sooo triggered when she saw the funny victim video with Wednesday from The Adam’s Family. The video was funny….I’m sorry. Tamar hasn’t grown up after all these years and she ALWAYS drags a boyfriend into her mess. Tamar is sooo tired and extremely toxic. I pray Tamar will finally grow up one day. She needs to stop talking about being saved and change. There’s nothing Godly about the Soap Opera toxic, evil things and name calling mess that comes out her mouth. PERIODT!!!!

    • @keepsit100atalltime9
      @keepsit100atalltime9 Před rokem +2

      Right. I can't even see him saying that. It probably was taken out of context. I still don't think Tamar tried to off herself.

  • @auntysaidit0629
    @auntysaidit0629 Před rokem +5

    Bondy Blue!!! You always bring the real. You have made me a believer 💙 I don't plan on watching Tamar and Evilyn. Nope, but can't wait to hear your review😜 😘

  • @ShaSha2484
    @ShaSha2484 Před rokem

    GREAT REVIEW BONDY YOU LOOK AMAZING!!! SO HAPPY FOR YOU ❤❤❤

  • @lovinkels1
    @lovinkels1 Před rokem +2

    Thank you for being unbiased in your commentary on Kandi. There are so many people who are blinded by their dislike for Kandi that they can never give honest and fair commentary. The news can say "Kandi was mugged and beaten while taking her kids to school," and people will say, "she deserved it".

  • @kayrup3712
    @kayrup3712 Před rokem +4

    I just don't get why some people are so resigned to come at and down talk Kandi. I've never seen or heard of her starting stuff with anyone. It's weird.

  • @TheOfficialprincessa
    @TheOfficialprincessa Před rokem +1

    I swear when you started singing just kickin it I almost choked on this Pepsi

  • @jebrock09
    @jebrock09 Před rokem

    YT know they trippin…this is the first time your videos pop up in my suggested videos in MONTHS. I literally see every creator I subscribe to except yours.

  • @jendayiKa
    @jendayiKa Před rokem

    Congratulations on your next chapter of career. I'm planning on taking that similar vehicle going back to school to get degree to becoming therapist. Sis u will do so well as a counselor, I'm excited for u!

  • @renataabrams4118
    @renataabrams4118 Před rokem +10

    I’m watching the playback and I totally agree with your assessment of the situation!!!! Kandi IN NO WAY SHOULD LOWER HERSELF OR EXPECTATIONS to make other comfortable!!! Bondy please go get your therapist degree! Your videos pulled me out the deep depression of losing my stepson 5 months ago, your videos and commentary have given me so much comfort, hope and motivation!!! Please make sure you share your birthday cashapp I wanna donate

  • @tammymorgan5348
    @tammymorgan5348 Před rokem

    "You gotta keep pivoting". YEEESSSSS!!!! I tell people this all the time.

  • @influentialbeautij48
    @influentialbeautij48 Před rokem

    Girl you are a thousand percent right spot on about the wholeeeeeeeee situation!

  • @lesleywillis3650
    @lesleywillis3650 Před rokem +6

    We’ve seen Tamar go at it and insert herself in her sisters and husbands business. Especially Traci and I remember Kevin grabbing Traci to stop her from whooping Tamar’s ass and said a similar thing to her like “you lucky I don’t let her go” and she made it seem like Kevin threatened her and tried to say Kevin was beating Traci. This is what she does. Nothing good will ever come to her because he spirit is nasty.

    • @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr
      @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr Před rokem

      Tamar can sing her azz off.....but no record company wants to be bothered with her entitled BS. ..she has such a nasty spirit.
      She needs to see someone.....
      .

  • @kaseyarmstrong6511
    @kaseyarmstrong6511 Před rokem

    just found the now that we are grown playlist and downloaded almost all of em!!

  • @K.PrettyLAgirl
    @K.PrettyLAgirl Před rokem +3

    If somebody says "I aint fucking with you" you just say okay a leave them alone. Especially if you know why.

  • @cheletekoatransfer
    @cheletekoatransfer Před rokem +1

    Loved your commentary on the Tamar vs Kandi. 100% agree. It's giving let me get the public that already hates Kandi to bully Kandi. Very divisive and bully behavior

  • @theeshavon
    @theeshavon Před rokem +2

    Jaheim almost ruined our Family Reunion when I was a kid, the Aunties was arguing with the cousins about him NOT being the Next Luther 😅😅😅

    • @marquitashiver6141
      @marquitashiver6141 Před rokem +1

      Not the next Luther! 😂😂😂 I know one thing, I love "you can have anything I got, all of me right on the spot daaada daaa da da da". Chile him and RL together ❤❤❤

  • @moniquewillis5930
    @moniquewillis5930 Před rokem +1

    Angry grandmothers spoke to me. Both my grandmothers were angry, but only one really showed me love. The other acted like I didn't exist most of the time.

  • @dewhaneromer613
    @dewhaneromer613 Před rokem +1

    You explained the Kandi/ Tamar situation perfectly!

  • @megscott3241
    @megscott3241 Před rokem +56

    People seem to miss where Taj replied and said to Kandi in the scene fine once you do your tour you can headline all day but for this one night we need to co headline because that one night was the purpose of the entire reality show what Kandi was saying is not wrong as a tour would go but this one night is them doing a collaborative effort . So if it's not going to be equal SWV didn't need to even be on the bravo show Xscape could have just reached out to them and said hey can you guys do a few spot dates on our tour. Periodt I know kandi is a business woman but it was very unnecessary in that instance.

  • @LondaNeen366
    @LondaNeen366 Před rokem

    Finally! Blog or podcast honestly Acknowledging Kandi as successful business woman that has husband, beautiful family.
    Team Kandi Empire💙
    First time here 💜💜

  • @mschocolitdiva
    @mschocolitdiva Před rokem +3

    Ok, so now that I’ve heard what Tamar initially said again on dish nation, it really wasn’t that
    bad.

  • @Its_ReneeNicole
    @Its_ReneeNicole Před rokem +3

    🤦🏽‍♀️if Todd said, “you know what it is” I don’t take that as a physical threat. I have seen him on the show, of course don’t know him in person, but I’ve never seen him threatening towards a woman on the show, so it doesn’t add up quite well for me. Her proof of him threatening her was that one statement of, “you know what it is.” They can be interpreted many different ways, but to me, it didn’t come off as a physical threat. Tamar ran with the narrative and overreacted, which seems common for her. 

  • @RNDiva33
    @RNDiva33 Před rokem +1

    I am 46 years old the only thing I know of is nursing. I wish. I would have branched out more in other fields.

  • @slaycj2413
    @slaycj2413 Před rokem +3

    I need the older generation of women to be open to therapy, but at the same time, I give them Grace. It’s easy to look at old school parents with today’s freedoms and make judgements. But Mama Gloria had those girls almost 50 years ago, when women had so few rights. Couple that with the societal BS of trusting a man to provide, and many of these women can’t help but have some resentment. It’s unfortunate that they transfer the lack of power over their lives or past to their kids. It’s sad and should be addressed & stamped out, but I get it.

  • @delk127
    @delk127 Před rokem +1

    I absolutely agree with what Kandi said in the speak on it about the headlining and fees, but how she said it on the show wasn’t how she explained it unless they cut out those scenes. If it was said how she meant I’m sure SWV would understand and talk to the promoters to get equal billing. I think that’s the issue

  • @Mon_i_que21
    @Mon_i_que21 Před rokem +2

    You can tell the folks who don’t have the business minds. I agree with everything kandi says and does business wise. She barely misses. Folks just want to hate kandi so much because she doesn’t kiss ass or scamper away from stuff. Also I’m tired of folks coming for Kandi because she didn’t want to address the mess on her Amazon live. She was there for BUSINESS not mess.

  • @cliquesnvues
    @cliquesnvues Před rokem +5

    Tamar always want to play victim...with her narcissistic asz

    • @kayrup3712
      @kayrup3712 Před rokem +1

      I used to watch BFV, and Tamar was always at odds with everyone, the family played into her being the "baby" of the family and didn't check her until she got too reckless with her mouth.

  • @tammymorgan5348
    @tammymorgan5348 Před rokem +1

    I feel like Kandi talking about headlining was a starting point. I hate that the conversation didn't continue because they could've gotten to a resolution. I'm with SWV about co-headlining but Coko did what Coko does and got and attitude and stormed out as usual. But Kandi didn't approach it as if they were open to co-headlining. They got this opportunity off both of their merits so co-headlining makes sense to me. I was waiting on that damn tour! GET IT TOGETHER Y'ALL.

  • @bebeheart5128
    @bebeheart5128 Před rokem +3

    They should coheadline end of story

  • @shawndaroberts6702
    @shawndaroberts6702 Před rokem +1

    I get it if they take the lower rate now it will set a precedent for a lower rate going forward.

  • @Daug555
    @Daug555 Před rokem +5

    The Tamar/Kandi storyline is BS. Struggling to give a damn.
    Kandi having some business sense in an industry that is highly known for screwing over artists should be respected. Perhaps the way she brought it up could be up for debate, but everyone should be this passionate when it comes to their 💰.
    Not everyone likes Kandi nor do they think she’s a good singer. It has nothing to do with the technicals behind it. Vocals are subjective, it doesn’t take away from her talent nonetheless.
    Tamar has never and will never heal. Her toxicity is what keeps her in the doing to much, loud and wrong, self esteem in the gutter sunken place she will always remain.
    You’d think after everything she’s been through, she’d turn a new leaf but Tamar is gonna Tamar.

    • @sabrina.natalie
      @sabrina.natalie Před rokem +1

      I completely agree. Beautiful articulated! 👏🏽

  • @jendayiKa
    @jendayiKa Před rokem +4

    I'm with Kandi in ALL areas except that headlining thing. It's a one time event and she isn't hungry. A one time co-headlining show does not hurt Kandi. Value for value SWV has more music fans. They will sell more tickets than Xscape. They can both get a great pay day for all! They are both great groups that has nostalgia as their selling point.

    • @keepsit100atalltime9
      @keepsit100atalltime9 Před rokem

      Kandi was ok with doing a one night event with SWV and that's what they ended up doing.
      "SWV will sell more tickets than Xscape", then why haven't they?

    • @jendayiKa
      @jendayiKa Před rokem +1

      @@keepsit100atalltime9 How do u know they don't sell tickets? The only how u can know that is if u have been to their concerts and saw whether they sold out or not.

    • @kennyroberson6216
      @kennyroberson6216 Před rokem

      Actually SWV in concert has never outsold Xscape concerts I think it's highly doubtful on who Has more fans

  • @MsImperfectDiva
    @MsImperfectDiva Před rokem +1

    ​I agree, if someone does not mess with you and they told you, Dont be mad one thing about Kandi she is not about to be fake

  • @allthewayupnorth_8155
    @allthewayupnorth_8155 Před rokem +1

    The joint show happened LAST SEPTEMBER in Ontario, CA. They co-headlined. The conversation is moot at this point. Also, folks need to stop saying "Xscape had other people in their tour. They didn't sell the tickets by themselves".. NEWSFLASH no artist goes on tour by themselves!!!!! The only artist I've seen on tour completely by himself was Prince. Hell, even Beyonce has opening acts.

  • @tg2046
    @tg2046 Před rokem +17

    This is my second listen with you and I love you already because you have a Common Sense perspective to life and speak with intelligence and not just to get clicks and likes. I agree 💯with you about Todd and Kand’s relationship and get tired of people portraying him as less than a man and Kandi as being unworthy to be loved like she has to pay a man to be with her; GTFOH with that none sense nonsense and Tamar need to have a bus load full of seats because she is fried in the head.🤨

  • @2BGMedia
    @2BGMedia Před rokem +2

    Out of all the housewives in the HISTORY of Housewives, Kandi is the least problematic. When people say they don’t like her or that she’s a bully, I just smh. She doesn’t bother anyone.

  • @adored74
    @adored74 Před rokem

    I totally agree with everything you said in this video

  • @sherryt1409
    @sherryt1409 Před rokem

    Preach sis!😊

  • @teshiahicks2544
    @teshiahicks2544 Před rokem +1

    We just left the Chris allegations to now having Tamar calling Todd abusive 🤦🏽‍♀️these lies are out of control!

  • @ladeelisa
    @ladeelisa Před rokem +3

    From what we have seen of both women on our television screens, Tamar has always been an agitator. Also, I don't care how much drama Tamar starts on the internet, I have no interest in watching a show with her and Evelyn.

  • @Expressions00
    @Expressions00 Před rokem +3

    Even on Queens Court with the comment that money is important to her she completely lied and overacted and was so disrespectful to that guy. The instant I saw it I was like here she goes. Damn I thought she had grown up more.

  • @kindofyoung
    @kindofyoung Před rokem +1

    I don’t know if you’ll read this, but please go back to school for counseling. I think you already have a great understanding of people and relationships, and how they interact with societal structures, and your delivery is personable. I’m 28 in a PhD program now for education policy (two more years!) and it’s a great time to go back to school. Enrollment is down, many programs are waiving the GRE and there are fellowships and scholarships especially for people of color pursuing a terminal degree. Please keep us updated!

  • @chereemonette8905
    @chereemonette8905 Před rokem +1

    I could be wrong but isn’t it also rumored that Carlos was the person who told Phaedra about the dungeon rumor

  • @tiakayy
    @tiakayy Před rokem

    @bondy please make a video showcasing all the things you and lyric be doing cause y’all are date night goals lol

  • @Lcoop1980
    @Lcoop1980 Před rokem +2

    Someone said Rocky use to work with R Kelly. And why hasn't Tocha gone solo in the past 30 yrs? She waits until the group gets something going to try a solo career.

  • @marquitashiver6141
    @marquitashiver6141 Před rokem

    I got to catch your now that we're grown series.

  • @shawndaroberts6702
    @shawndaroberts6702 Před rokem +3

    Tamar is trying to promote her new show. She is reaching for sure. It would be one thing if Kandi and Todd had been known for this before but it isn’t like that.

  • @vanitysmirror
    @vanitysmirror Před rokem +5

    Ok Bondy I'mma put it like this if something happens "God forbid" to Coco's voice there is no SWV but if something happens in Xscape as it has the show can still happen. Another thing I don't like the energy around Xscape and their group issues when male groups have these same issues if not worse. How many versions of New edition do we have?

    • @marquitashiver6141
      @marquitashiver6141 Před rokem +2

      Yes! I was like ugh women can't get together and do nothin but then I remembered ALL the male groups. There's also the temptations, Shai and so many more.

    • @sherriebumbray1748
      @sherriebumbray1748 Před rokem +1

      ​@@marquitashiver6141 Don't forget Jagged Edge. The twins used to fight like King Kong and Godzilla.😅 50 Cent vs Everyone. There are so many problematic men who never get called out.

    • @vanitysmirror
      @vanitysmirror Před rokem

      @@sherriebumbray1748 facts

  • @CookingWithFatt
    @CookingWithFatt Před rokem +1

    Most singers have bad singing moments that doesn’t mean they can’t sing. Mariah, Rihanna, Whitney, Lauren, shiiiii Britney Spears, and don’t forget the men…Omarion 😂 Bobby, Ray J the list goes on- stop playing with Kandi 🤌🏽

  • @Dr.PhD-10
    @Dr.PhD-10 Před rokem +1

    Tamar did the act just like Gizzle by accusing Todd of an act. Gizzle did the same against Chris Bassett

  • @Neycebadass
    @Neycebadass Před rokem +12

    I like Kandi and I do not think Todd is a bum and that she takes care of him. Todd has his own money. However, I do think Kandi is wild for thinking SWV will open for Xscape. Idc how much popular she think she is from RHOA or how much business oriented she is. SWV would never agree to that

    • @justty4080
      @justty4080 Před rokem +4

      They have already opened for xscape MULTIPLE TIMES! SWV DOESNT HEADLINE IN THE UNITED STATES THEY ARE AN OPENING ACT! So if all y’all that have so much to say would actually buy their tickets and go to their concert then maybe they could be a headlining act in the US! It’s y’all fault that they not a headlining act. DONT WHINE ABOUT IT BUY A CONCERT TICKET! Clearly y’all don’t understand business. If I was Xscape I wouldn’t take a pay cut to oblige someone’s ego! XSCAPE CAN HEADLINE AND SELLOUT A SHOW WITHOUT SWV. SWV CAN NOT DO THE SAME, THOSE ARE THE FACTS! Xscape makes more money for a show then SWV THOSE ARE THE FACTS! SWV opens for New Edition, sold more records then New Edition, and still gets paid less then them! BUT “ITS COOL WHEN THEY DO IT, ITS A PROBLEM WHEN I DO IT!”

    • @Neycebadass
      @Neycebadass Před rokem +3

      @@justty4080 okay calm down lol. Did they open for them or did they just perform before them?? Those are 2 different things

    • @aranielleb7718
      @aranielleb7718 Před rokem +7

      @@justty4080 they were GUEST APPEARANCES: who performed only a few songs. Lelee specifically stated they don’t mind doing that for another act’s tour because they get to go sleep right after. Thissssssss what Mona proposed to the ladies was supposed to be a collaboration. Nowhere indicated that Xscape should get top billing and after Verzuz they definitely don’t deserve top billing over SWV.

    • @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr
      @VeronicaJohnson-yn1cr Před rokem

      ​@@Neycebadass ya'll are getting deep!

  • @Dr.PhD-10
    @Dr.PhD-10 Před rokem +1

    I was dissapointed with Tamar on her new show. A few guys left the show because they were honest about her behavior and she got mad with them and they were released immediately. I wonder how Holly Peete really feel about Tamar behind the scene🤔

  • @diniquebunche4438
    @diniquebunche4438 Před 11 měsíci

    It surprises me when folks say Kandi should humble herself when it comes to business. You wouldn’t tell a man in the business to humble himself. She knows what she is worth. If anyone else wants to lower their worth, it’s on them.

  • @stephm1526
    @stephm1526 Před rokem

    If a man said the same thing Kandi said about billing it wouldn’t be a problem. When a women speaks up about their money it’s a problem. It doesn’t matter if it was SWV or XSCAPE who said it. like you said Bondi she was talking about touring. She said they did not have a manager at the time.