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Simple: the bride and groom have the right to invite whomever they want, and the guests have the right to accept or decline the invitation. Problem solved!
I like Alyssa’s idea 😂
I like Alyssa's idea and I'm sure any other spouse would like that
Do you?
Ok your husband is going to event in Vegas and you can keep yourself busy by yourself?
Sounds like fun?
@@shayan4040Yes
@@shayan4040 As a guy, I can guarantee your husband will be happier going to the beach and bar with the other husbands that weren't invited.
Yes, if you have a life 🍻
Bottom line is it's the bride and groom's wedding. They make the rules. If they say no spouse or no kids, then there's no spouses or no kids.
Agreed, but I’d just add that the bride and groom also can’t be upset if their guests choose not to come
@@jonglejuice
Exactly.🎯
Make any rules you want, but do not be surprised when a bunch of folks choose to not go. 😎
I think they'd be ok with that. The people who value them will go... I find it so strange that people feel so entitled to something as personal as ones wedding. If I'm friends with my colleague who has never ever met my spouse I can see why they'd invite me and not my spouse! Someone else who means a lot to them could fill that space. I can celebrate their wedding with my other colleagues. My spouse and I can go together to weddings of people who we're both close to...
@@LadyBugShaun fair point!
Whoopi’s statement about obligations was so on point ❤️❤️
Don’t we all love Whoopi’s white Jewish husband
@@javiruiz8365
None of our business. Or yours.
You’re delusional if you listen to anything that comes out of this evil woman’s mouth
@@javiruiz8365she doesn’t have a husband nice cry
I thought she was a man!!!😅
The whole point of a destination wedding is so that most family and friends can't make it. You invite everyone knowing that they can't afford to go.
One cannot automatically assume that an invitee cannot afford to go. That invitee just might be able to afford to go.
Makes me wanna have a destination wedding 💒. Far far away from home
There should be no expectation...not from the bride/groom, nor the guest. And Plus Ones should not be an automatic thing. Only invited guests' names should be on the envelope. The marrying couple cannot be forced to invite people that they don't want. And the invited guest cannot be forced to attend if they don't want. Exercise your free will and live with it. For every cause, there is an effect...desired or not.
Why is Sunny so proud of being a wedding crasher? I doubt she would have liked wedding crashers at her wedding
Sunny thinks she’s the most important person in the room everywhere she goes.
She might, she loves collecting people.
Imagine how outraged she wold me if this happened to her Latino son. She would be crying and saying it’s racism
Sunny is a racist witch
@@eriktaylor1225 And the most defence attorney ever as she brings it up enough.
A limited budget is fine, but don't invite people if they can't invite their spouse. The spouse should be an OBVIOUS invite to a wedding. Alyssa had the best answer...
100%! Attitude with my spouse for your wedding is representative of your attitude outside the wedding.
The whole concept of destination wedding is not be accessible for a lot of people.
I don't want anyone I don't personally know at my wedding.
But if you're marrying into a family and haven't met all members yet; isn't this the best place to meet them?... just asking x
@@marjorieorveau6707 It's not the only place to meet them. There are other occasions that are less expensive to meet in-laws.
Just go to the JP, it's less stress and less expensive.
I agree with Whoopi, plus the older I get, the less I want to put up with anything.
This is where the wedding is then optional. This means I don't have to go.
I believe that at the outset...whether there are any rules or not...
Or send a gift. Only a card.
Depends on many circumstances. In general I am agreeing with Sara and Alyssa’s.
When it is not a spouse or at least a soon to be spouse (engaged), I am not in favour of extending the invitation to a "plus one." For my wedding, I hadn't even sent the invitations out when a relative of mine already booked a flight for herself and boyfriend for the purpose of coming to the wedding. I never said anything. She just assumed that her boyfriend was included. I deliberately only put her name on the invitation when I sent them out, but prepared a place for the "plus one" for the meal. I guess my subtle message went unnoticed at the time.
Please don't assume that the person you are dating is invited. Remember that the couple having the wedding (or their parents) are paying for every single guest. Don't show up uninvited.
Most people assume they can bring an escort to a formal event.
Bride and Groom are paying so they ultimately decide who is on the guestlist. If you are that offended your other half is not invited, then say you are not going and get on with the rest of your life.
I was once IN A WEDDING and paid $1000s for the wedding. I was not allowed to bring a plus one and it was down the street from my house. They had 100+ guests. I’m still kind of pissed lmao
These people have champagne taste and a beer bottle budget! Having a destination wedding when you can't afford it is the height of idiocy!
Just say NO THANK YOU 🙏🏽
No plus ones. If I want your S.O there I’ll invite them. If you’re married, engaged or in a long term serious relationship then yes I’ll invite them but it’s a no to general plus ones.
If there is no plus one, I am simply not going, even a local wedding. If you are having a destination wedding, I am not going... period. I won't complain about it, but I am not going. Destination weddings are a bother for everyone. If, for some reason I went, then my time & money for travel would be your gift ha ha. People have made weddings ridiculously over-complicated. 😎
Dare I say Alyssa is carrying the show for me 😅
Alyssa and Whoopi opinion is good.
Then don't go
I agree with Whoop
Depth of knowledge often leads to a narrowing of focus. As wisdom deepens, priorities crystallize.
I'm about to get married and I'm not giving everyone a plus one. It has nothing to do with the cost I just don't like some of my families plus ones. Thus, I don't want them at my wedding or reception, lol
Don’t expect as many guests or gifts, either.
Most people want their guests to enjoy the nuptials, and their guests.
@@joiisler3012 If I don't invite someone I wouldn't expect a gift from them. It's not about gifts its about the wonderful person I'm marrying.
@@Sweetyluv20
Uh huh. Bet you have a Registry, tho. 🫤
And you run the risk that the people you invite, but refuse their preferred escort would prefer to decline the invitation as well. (Some people feel insulted that their spouses cannot attend a special event such as this with them.)
Congratulations.
If you invite me then you're automatically inviting whomever I'm with. Especially if you know I'm involved with said person. Anything else is pure disrespect to my partner. I assume that anyone I invite to any event is coming with a plus one. If I don't want that other person I simply won't invite either of them. Social etiquette is a lost art these days.
I personally don't go to weddings stag. It's an absolutely horrible experience. But do you really NOT have to go? I think a lot of people will determine how much you actually like or care about them, and will therefore determine how much they like and care about you, dependent on whether your attended their wedding or not. And if you don't care, then that says a lot right there.
I can’t imagine why any person would attend a wedding that their SPOUSE wasn’t invited to. That’s insanely disrespectful. If it was a non-married spouse, there is some leeway there to not invite them but an actual spouse?! In what universe would that ever be okay?
To the couple: Go to Vegas or your local JP office and get married. It is your wedding - do what you want. Forget the guest.
I still think it's appropriate to be able to bring your spouse, but like Alyssa said not a random tinder date lol
I don’t think married ppl should be prioritized over none married ppl. I like Alyssa’s take. I have a wedding I’m invited to in November that’s going to require travel and hotel. Not looking forward to going to a gathering where I’ll know maybe 3-4 people. However this is a good friend and I haven’t traveled in a while. Hoping it’ll all be great. Might take Alyssa’s idea and invite someone the bride and I know and be with my guest after the wedding.
Go on your own be a grown up
Its rich peoples problems…like the ladies sitting at the table
If my husband/ _long term_ partner was invited and not me, I'd probably be a little miffed. But then I'm a sensitive soul. On the other hand, I'm also an introvert, so staying home reading a book would probably be more fun for me 😂
100% valid. If I don’t like your husband, he’s not invited to my wedding
Long ago, I was invited to a long distance wedding to people I was not close to. I easily declined and felt no obligation to send a gift. As a struggling single woman, why should I send them a gift? I truly felt it was the only reason I was invited, they saw the present that I gave a mutual friend when I went to that person's wedding, only because I was in that person's town.
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That’s ridiculous; I got married in the Caribbean & had my single friends bring their plus ones . They’re paying for their
Own Air tickets, hotels & sight seeing ; & Destination weddings are typically smaller anyways ; At least let them
Bring their Plus ones ; it’s more FUN traveling with your Partner💯💯!!! But I guess to each their own!!!
Why no segment or mention of Laken Riley, the young female college student in Georgia murdered by an illegal immigrant this past Friday?
If you are making an issue of having a small budget, then a destination wedding is not for you. I suspect there is something more going on here.
The only true cost to the bride and groom for an extra guest is the plate of food. I see that can be $50-75 but as high as $150 (likely more), so let’s say $100. 13 guests and perhaps 2-3 of them are not allowed to bring spouses (some will be invited which isn’t mentioned too). So you are talking maybe $300 or so. Again if your budget is so tight where $300 is breaking it, then you shouldn’t be doing a destination wedding.
Give me a plus one or I’m not going to your boring wedding
Manny is an unsung hero of this show, I'll pray for him.
While I understand keeping numbers down for the bride and groom's budget, however, I feel it is in VERY poor taste to ask people to come honor the start of YOUR marriage relationship by dishonoring their established relationships.
But if they were really concerned with the budget - why would they do a destination wedding? 😎
Think with how little paid vacation Americans get you can politely decline an invitation like that.
As an Indian, this is so alien to me.
I only gave plus ones to those whom I knew had partners. Some friends didn't even get an invite if we weren't in reg contact. Weddings are expensive! 😅
I m Chanakya from Sri Lanka Watch your show everyday! Regarding weddings Sri Lanka is known as great destination weddings where people come from world over to have weddings coz its very inexpensive and world class service in everything hotels wedding planers and everything May be we can talk about in this show
The devout Catholic Wedding crasher 😏
I agree with Alyssa. I hope I spelled your name correctly.
Lost a friend over not letting me bring my man
don’t give me a plus one i’ll return the invite -1
I can see “no children,” but not no “plus one.” Who are people going to dance with?
So many people get absolutely offended when their boyfriend or girlfriend can't come to something. It's proof to me that when you're in love, you're just absolutely stupid. Like literally your brain does not function the same way. 😂😂 I've never turned into that. I don't care who I'm dating, I'm still myself, and I know that this person is not a package deal with me.
Why do they clap after Whoopie when she makes the least sense?
Rando tinder date. 🤣🤣
Alyssa!
No. Make sure everyone at your wedding is single and make sure it's an open bar. Your welcome ☺️
Manny doesn't like watching hens😊
Its their wedding
If it sucks then thats their fault
Sunny just wants free food and drinks and see who she can pick up
Sunny’s husband is an old man who has seen a lot more than people would like to believe. Shenanigans is the last thing on his mind. I think it’s been like that quite some time now 🤷♂️
What does "you go enjoy the location" mean exactly? lol
I took it to mean enjoy the resort/hotel activities, pool, beach, spa, gym, restaurants or travel around the city while she’s attending the wedding ceremony and reception.
@@carap6343 I was implying that her husband may take that as an invation that she's giving him a "hall pass" lol
@@kiroolioneaver8532 ha! I can see that
🤦🤦🤦🤦
I mean you may know no one, except the bride or groom, im bringing one person!!!
It depends.... I have a cousin who has a new BF every 2 days.
Hey whopper, say her name LAKEN RILEY!!!!!!!
And no mention of AARON BUSHNELL? One of the biggest stories going on right now but this virtue signalling panel have better things to talk abt. Your silence is sickening 🇵🇸
I’m not taking marital advice from a multiple time divorced woman. I like Joy and Alyssa’s compromise. Good ideas
I just find sunny weird.
I'm so over Sunny
All the racists are. Congratulations.
I am alway the one who gets invited to a we I am not seeing someone.
Sunny loooo😊attention
Shame on all you women. McConnell is still a person. Wish him well and get on with the show. Noone needs to be made fun of.. Sara is not there today and you wish her well. People are people no matter what you think of them..
I love Sunny 🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️❤️
Marriage is not worth it anymore dont get married .
Who cares boring boring
THESE WOMEN ARE A JOKE!
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Trump 2024!!!
Is Sonny going to pay for her horrific families sins of owning black people, and forcing them into slavery? Her family history is one of pure evil. Shame! If people today are asked to pay reperations, it should be from only the bloodlines of evil. Like Sonny's.
Thank you Whoopi Sarah and Alyssa
Whoopi is Wright. You dont have to go ! You dont have to by a gift, you don't have to ny a card, if it's a V.P it would be polite to decline going. But you still don't have to answer, I dont feel guilty because I'm free to do as I please. Also it the bruses and grooms wedding. They can do their wedding as they choose to.
I dont know why people put do much money and stress on weddings.
Joy needs to stop acting like a Petulant child when anyone disagrees with her. It looks TO MUCH LIKE trump!