How to properly use a knife and fork | European Style Dining

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  • čas přidán 1. 08. 2022
  • When using a knife and fork, the knife is always in the right and fork in the left even if you're left handed. Position your index fingers on top of the utensil and extend to the neck, then proceed.
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Komentáře • 122

  • @iseiyoulaitre
    @iseiyoulaitre Před 8 měsíci +81

    I just ate a baked chicken with my hands, opened a beer with my teeth, all the while loading my rifle with my feet. Lifeskills.

  • @covegirl06
    @covegirl06 Před rokem +98

    It’s difficult for me to do anything with my left hand. So I end up constantly switching my knife and fork between my left and right hand.

    • @fromtheinside-outschoolofe1411
      @fromtheinside-outschoolofe1411  Před rokem +43

      When dining in American style, you are permitted to switch. However, in the European style, you must become accustomed to holding the knife in the right and fork in the left. With practice, you can do it.

    • @covegirl06
      @covegirl06 Před 10 měsíci +12

      @@Colgan1 thank you! ☺️ I became interested in learning how to properly use cutlery to eat when I was at work one day eating chicken thighs that was being served for lunch. I’m sitting there looking like a sloppy little kid, with chicken grease all over my fingers lol. I look over at my co-worker and she’s eating her chicken with a knife and fork, so clean and graceful. I felt embarrassed. I never even knew you could eat chicken with a knife and fork. I just want to look like an adult while I’m eating 😂. But all these unnecessary rules does kinda make me wanna say to hell with lol. So I’ll take your advice and just do what works best for me.

    • @Colgan1
      @Colgan1 Před 10 měsíci +7

      @covegirl06 I am 35 years old, and I am British. I would eat that chicken thigh with my hands also. If it was a boneless piece of chicken like a breast, then I would use a knife and fork. You do you! Eat like a slob. Who cares. As long as you are enjoying the food, we all eat like slobs, i would rather be a slob than a snob, snobby people are up their own arse. I could go to a fancy restaurant and still use my hands to pick and eat something. Who cares 😅 but seriously, when it comes to which hand you should or shouldn't use with knife and forks. That is totally up to you.

    • @Colgan1
      @Colgan1 Před 10 měsíci +3

      @covegirl06 infact i have chicken thighs 😅 I might make them for my dinner now

    • @fromtheinside-outschoolofe1411
      @fromtheinside-outschoolofe1411  Před 8 měsíci

      That is permitted in the American dining style.

  • @chrischarman8707
    @chrischarman8707 Před 3 měsíci +8

    so elegant. tres bien Madame.

  • @biancalawrence3178
    @biancalawrence3178 Před 5 měsíci +7

    Your demonstration was perfect. This is way of eating is easiest and displays the most elegance. (Switching from hand to hand every five minutes is not elegant.) Growing up with European family, this is how we were taught. In formal settings the way you eat shows your respect towards your host who has prepared your meal for you.

    • @ColieBear18
      @ColieBear18 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Just because you don't prefer something doesn't make it inelegant. What an incredibly rude thing to say coming from someone who clearly thinks they are the epitome of manners. The American style of etiquette is just different it doesn't make it less than.

  • @KellyKelly-qd7my
    @KellyKelly-qd7my Před 8 měsíci +9

    I'm Persian Caucasian (from Caucasus). I eat with my hands. It's tastier this way 😉

  • @mikeg8276
    @mikeg8276 Před rokem +46

    I prefer European style dining, but it’s difficult for me to eat certain things this way (salad, rice dishes, peas, etc.) without looking like a crab person 😩

    • @barbaraschneider7922
      @barbaraschneider7922 Před 8 měsíci

      that´s not European style wha sheshows,that´s the British/english style-in Germany wedon´t dine like that,we hold the forks and knives the same way the Americans do

    • @camembertdalembert6323
      @camembertdalembert6323 Před 8 měsíci +1

      What you see in this short is what to do when you need to cut something into pieces like meat of big vegetables. The index finger gives you more strength to press the tool in the bottom direction.

    • @barbaraschneider7922
      @barbaraschneider7922 Před 8 měsíci

      yes@@camembertdalembert6323

    • @oliver_night2000
      @oliver_night2000 Před 7 měsíci

      I eat rice with 🥢

    • @oliver_night2000
      @oliver_night2000 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@barbaraschneider7922I'm Russian, and we eat like that. It is European style.

  • @jetblackfoot
    @jetblackfoot Před rokem +32

    Perfectly done. Regards from London.

  • @shellybless7260
    @shellybless7260 Před 7 měsíci +3

    It's the hairstyle for me 😊

  • @dnm5373
    @dnm5373 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you ❤

  • @italkwhatever
    @italkwhatever Před 6 měsíci +2

    Mam...I just want to eat

  • @lynwoodsoundzofficial9664
    @lynwoodsoundzofficial9664 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Well I just realized I do it European style, interesting I never knew it was a difference

  • @delf5724
    @delf5724 Před 6 měsíci

    I just love the dress❤❤❤

  • @luxpursuits
    @luxpursuits Před 5 měsíci +1

    Don't lick/touch the form when transferring food to mouth

  • @anthonyemmm
    @anthonyemmm Před 10 měsíci +2

    Nah I’m a savage at the table lol

  • @1ayosim
    @1ayosim Před 11 měsíci +1

    thank you.

  • @libertynow4047
    @libertynow4047 Před 10 měsíci +2

    This is why I am starving

  • @steponikchad9859
    @steponikchad9859 Před 3 měsíci

    Right on the money. That's Euro style

  • @td1768
    @td1768 Před rokem +23

    I prefer our African way of eating.

    • @workemaild6350
      @workemaild6350 Před 10 měsíci +5

      with your hands and a rock?

    • @KellyKelly-qd7my
      @KellyKelly-qd7my Před 8 měsíci +3

      I'm Persian. We eat wit our hands. It's much more fulfilling.
      Want to learn how to eat pilaf with your hands? It's a form of art 😊

  • @fuckedupman
    @fuckedupman Před 8 měsíci +2

    for ppl who are wondering... nope we don't eat our food with stabbing knife

  • @user-hm3vw2be6j
    @user-hm3vw2be6j Před 25 dny +1

    Never take the fork straight to mouth

  • @IvanFoxDrift
    @IvanFoxDrift Před 4 měsíci

    Obviously that knife cuts because it's sharper than the regular dinner knife types

  • @carolyn7298
    @carolyn7298 Před 4 měsíci +1

    What if there is nothing on the plate that needs cutting, do you still use a knife to help guide the food onto the fork? Do you still use the fork in the left hand?

    • @stumpfy
      @stumpfy Před 3 měsíci

      Yes always knife in right hand and fork in left with tines down (never as a shovel for food)

    • @SaigonBaby100
      @SaigonBaby100 Před 18 dny

      ​​@@stumpfyI run my fork thru food,raise to my mouth and chew...nice n simple..
      live and let live

  • @MondoLT
    @MondoLT Před 3 měsíci

    You turn the fork facing up if it’s soft to cut and that’s look like egg so I think you turn it up

  • @funblogst.v2411
    @funblogst.v2411 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Rather than i use my hand...🤣

  • @guelorboyo6543
    @guelorboyo6543 Před 11 měsíci +1

    bravo madame

  • @moonwalker486
    @moonwalker486 Před 4 měsíci

    🙏

  • @rubitinkerbell9478
    @rubitinkerbell9478 Před 10 měsíci

    Can you please show me how to use spoon and fork

  • @SoberTea
    @SoberTea Před 5 měsíci +1

    Putting the fork in your mouth upside down like that just looks so wrong

  • @victoriahardin1560
    @victoriahardin1560 Před rokem +3

    What loud place are you eating fancy?

  • @imaobongetok9061
    @imaobongetok9061 Před rokem +3

    Wow lovely

  • @jaredtrembath6382
    @jaredtrembath6382 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Good girl

  • @mari00999
    @mari00999 Před 7 měsíci +1

    In this video, you look like Princess Tiana

    • @mari00999
      @mari00999 Před 7 měsíci

      I mean you are beautiful

  • @user-qj7ps8kd3k
    @user-qj7ps8kd3k Před 9 měsíci

    Since it's trendy Mukbang on Korean show. I wonder how was American style for meal manner in U.S.

  • @Chromebandana
    @Chromebandana Před 3 měsíci +1

    Nah eating how tf I want

  • @stevensmith-rb9if
    @stevensmith-rb9if Před měsícem +2

    IM USING MY HANDS. GHETTO STYLE😂

  • @stevensmith-rb9if
    @stevensmith-rb9if Před měsícem +1

    YOU COULD TEACH ALOT OF WOMEN HOW TO PROPERLY USE UTENSIL BEFORE PUTTING IT IN THEIR MOUTH😂

  • @_00w_
    @_00w_ Před 11 měsíci +2

    I really didn’t need this tbh it just popped up😑

  • @mariabarrera5286
    @mariabarrera5286 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Yeah and you're not supposed to do cut it all at once. You gotta cut each bite as you go along 😫

    • @stumpfy
      @stumpfy Před 3 měsíci

      It is seen as childish to precut your meal and a fork should always be tines down and held in the left hand

  • @RubyZan
    @RubyZan Před 5 měsíci

    Flaring your elbows while cutting your food is not a good idea. I love your dress xx

  • @maeryn4200
    @maeryn4200 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Nobody in Europe (except maybe high-class dining) is worrying this much about which hand to use and how to hold the utensils. Just hold it however you can cut and eat best, without making a scene (scratching your knife on the plate and stuff like that) preferably.
    Also nobody will bat an eye if you use your hands to eat ribs, pizza, sandwiches, chicken wings or fries. And nobody will actually look whether you wash or wipe your hands or not. Though you should of course, as that is a general rule anywhere in the world.

    • @BlackCoffeeee
      @BlackCoffeeee Před 8 měsíci

      Sorry. I'm European. I'm definitely no snob but if I see someone eating in a restaurant and they're not using this technique, then it's like having to sit with a neanderthal. Unless you're eating at a fast food restaurant then you better eat like this or it's a big lose.

    • @maeryn4200
      @maeryn4200 Před 7 měsíci +1

      ​@@BlackCoffeeee Are you really European? Where in Europe have you seen people eat this way? Do you mean Britain? If yes, they always want to be the "special one" or "odd one out", so that's no surprise

    • @BlackCoffeeee
      @BlackCoffeeee Před 7 měsíci

      @@maeryn4200 Yes I'm really European and are you seriously asking where I've seen people eat like this? Everybody eats like this, in every single European country. It's the standard. Anywhere a knife and fork is given at a table you'll see people eating like this. I have to assume you're not European if you don't know this. How could you not? You've been to restaurants that provide metal cutlery, right?

  • @Prince_Jacob_11
    @Prince_Jacob_11 Před 9 měsíci +1

    i dont get it, where are the mummies?

  • @joanwoods7740
    @joanwoods7740 Před 5 měsíci +1

    You are supposed to move your fork to your right hand after cutting. And never put the fork in your mouth upside down. But, it's food and it's eating so who cares

    • @flinchus
      @flinchus Před 5 měsíci

      Why the fk do you need to swap your utensils between hands after cutting food? Are you toddlers or something? You not able to use a fork with your left hand lol?
      Primitives.

  • @tareqanamtheworriorking8378
    @tareqanamtheworriorking8378 Před 4 měsíci

    I love the European style more then American style.

  • @Jana-kx4fv
    @Jana-kx4fv Před 8 měsíci +5

    Make sure your elbowes are closer to your body than shown in this video.

    • @SaigonBaby100
      @SaigonBaby100 Před 18 dny

      yeah...the more self conscience and uptight the better!🤣

  • @paulasantos6301
    @paulasantos6301 Před 3 měsíci

    arms stick to the body too...in etiquette courses they make you eat with card boards in your underarms, so you eat without dropping them

    • @SaigonBaby100
      @SaigonBaby100 Před 18 dny

      a gr8 reason to stay away from etequite courses......

  • @SaigonBaby100
    @SaigonBaby100 Před 18 dny +1

    cut...dig in w fork..put in mouth....however feels natural to u...
    I hate pretentious

  • @peternielsen6510
    @peternielsen6510 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Etiqutte is not waving a smudged knife around in the Air to spill on yourself or others. No points for this video

  • @user-fr2cv2of4m
    @user-fr2cv2of4m Před 3 měsíci

    Even behind l can cut it ine 😅😅😅

  • @cheshirebowman4465
    @cheshirebowman4465 Před rokem +1

    Nice one girl.English bowman from UK

  • @khodges2
    @khodges2 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Props lady. Good thing that’s not American style. People have no manners here.

  • @bruh-ri5by
    @bruh-ri5by Před měsícem

    i thought this was normal imo

  • @Troll.Station2
    @Troll.Station2 Před měsícem

    Deniggatised

  • @vtownslimm
    @vtownslimm Před 6 měsíci +1

    She lost me at European style

  • @albertinaninajoaobatista5806

    American is a headache 😂. I prefer European ❤

  • @sark4786
    @sark4786 Před 7 měsíci +1

    lol

  • @user-np3fc4uf4k
    @user-np3fc4uf4k Před 3 měsíci +1

    Why in God's name would you eat with your fork upside down and poke the roof of your mouth

  • @jsmith498
    @jsmith498 Před 3 měsíci

    Well done. It's painful watching American adults eat like babies.

  • @Martini923
    @Martini923 Před 9 měsíci

    Never hold your knife like a pencil,

  • @APimpNamedSlick
    @APimpNamedSlick Před 2 měsíci +1

    This is corny.

  • @theyarnycaterpillar3563
    @theyarnycaterpillar3563 Před rokem +5

    You're explaining to be neat with potato all over your knife and fork. Looks weird to me. Wouldn't it be nicer to show and explain when the fork and knife are still clean?
    Love your dress. And you have a nice voice. 🤗

    • @tamanawilson9265
      @tamanawilson9265 Před rokem +9

      No! I have been looking for a video exactly like this because everybody keeps demonstrating how to eat without any freakin food on the plate!

    • @chimchimgirlz
      @chimchimgirlz Před rokem

      oh please get over yourself

    • @fromtheinside-outschoolofe1411
      @fromtheinside-outschoolofe1411  Před rokem +8

      Thank you for the compliment. When I've is eating food, you will see food on the utensil. Show a little grace. I hope you captured the lesson. Thank you for commenting.

    • @alananiicole
      @alananiicole Před rokem +3

      Well, I loved this demo. For me, It helps tremendously to see a real authentic example.

  • @kashannarodriuez3047
    @kashannarodriuez3047 Před rokem +4

    ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

  • @larry-kp9sp
    @larry-kp9sp Před 6 měsíci +1

    Silly woman

  • @randomuser5443
    @randomuser5443 Před 8 měsíci

    Im a red blooded american, that’s how i eat. My dad is also red blooded american