1 Magic Phrase (Power Phrase for Work)- How to Politely Interrupt When Someone Won't Shut Up?

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  • @TheWizardOfWords
    @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed rokem +2

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    • @christopherkey2272
      @christopherkey2272 Pƙed rokem

      What in the world was that sound with the kids screaming YAEEEE lol totally out of place. Dude did you just figure out how to add sounds into videos? LMAO oh snap i just heard it again lol. Bro... good info but the sounds have me laughing literally out loud
      After every sound, i stopped paying attention to what you were saying.

    • @christopherkey2272
      @christopherkey2272 Pƙed rokem

      ah man. again. YAEEEEEEEEE LMAO

    • @christopherkey2272
      @christopherkey2272 Pƙed rokem

      AGAIN! dude im dead HAHAHAHAHA

  • @farisSTINGrai
    @farisSTINGrai Pƙed 9 lety +107

    This guy is so good at delivering useful information in digestible format. Also very likeable personality, well done

  • @orlytugob
    @orlytugob Pƙed 11 lety +5

    THANK YOU FOR YOUR VIDEO DAN! I am a member of Toastmasters International and I have never heard a presentation like yours that directly hit the target on how to learn public speaking. I learned so much from you. Have a wonderful, wonderful day!

  • @TheWizardOfWords
    @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 11 lety +3

    Hey Allan! Are you aware that you delivered your constructive criticism in a very savvy savvy way? You started with a compliment and then made a suggestion for further improvement. GREAT JOB and I'm seriously considering your suggestion.

  • @joeygagliardi7380
    @joeygagliardi7380 Pƙed 8 lety +5

    This was so fitting for me concerning one friend of mine, who could have the story told in less than a minute. Now i plan to do exactly what you said. I get so frustrated sometimes, with the details, that can go from what everyone was wearing. I have at times caught myself grinding my teeth, and biting my lip till it hurts. Now I will say, so your telling me!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Cannot wait to try it. He is the greatest, however, I have to do what I have to do. I actually did bleed once, from biting my lip so hard.

  • @arlet101
    @arlet101 Pƙed 10 lety +3

    You are a genius! Finally someone that tells exactly what to say without talking too much and says things that make sense and are simple to achieve and on top of that you give examples?! Even better! Thank you so much for your sharing and work loved it!

  • @centralpark404
    @centralpark404 Pƙed 5 lety +7

    Love the way you talk and explain things! Very uplifting!

  • @lindalee7600
    @lindalee7600 Pƙed 11 lety +2

    I adore you, Dan!!! Not getting anything done around here since discovering your videos but am on my way to becoming a Savvy, Polished, Professional, Educated and Powerful Communicator!!! Thank you for your public service and hope I'm not breaking any rules about "excessive exclamation point usage"!!!

  • @fazbell
    @fazbell Pƙed 6 lety +1

    This is great. Lots of people at many of my former work places chattered non-stop and were hyper-sensitive. This is valuable information.

  • @AlgisKemezys
    @AlgisKemezys Pƙed 6 lety +3

    So your telling me, So your telling me? Good one Dan!

  • @theaterhobo
    @theaterhobo Pƙed 10 lety +1

    I realized you don't even have to say "So you're telling me," all the time. Just repeat what they said with a question mark at the end and you're likely to get the same response. It was fun to try this out.

  • @dineshdhatrak4821
    @dineshdhatrak4821 Pƙed 10 lety +3

    Just found this amazing training program to improve communication..now I'm sure its going to help me a lot to improve my skills. Thanks a lot Dan. :)

  • @christikovach6394
    @christikovach6394 Pƙed 5 lety

    Priceless info ! Thank you , just doesn’t do it justice! Buddy was adorable with his ONE bark !!!

  • @AmericanTreeBug
    @AmericanTreeBug Pƙed 11 lety

    Dan, I just want to hug you! I was browsing around the web for helpful videos before I start my new job tomorrow and found your channel. I'm so glad I did! Thank you for all your tips and help! I will be reccommending you to my friends. :)

  • @joanwashington1371
    @joanwashington1371 Pƙed 5 lety +2

    Oh how I wish I’d known about your videos three years ago. Thank you so much

  • @annaanderson7919
    @annaanderson7919 Pƙed 9 lety +2

    You are amazingly bright and hilarious!! Thanks for the tips and laughs!

  • @cathyharris9696
    @cathyharris9696 Pƙed 8 lety +1

    your Magic Phrases to use in certain circumstances has been very helpful and I can use this in my everyday converstions

  • @janr.1077
    @janr.1077 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Thanks, Dan, for your helpful tips! I'm enjoying seeing the results when I put them to practice. :)

  • @AllanGildea
    @AllanGildea Pƙed 11 lety +1

    You're a gentleman Dan. I look forward to benefitting further from your mentoring, fx or not. Enjoy your weekend!

  • @misscsb1
    @misscsb1 Pƙed 2 lety

    Love this! I am a quality assurance specialist for a call center and this will absolutely help me with my reps!!!!!

  • @karenmacphee9186
    @karenmacphee9186 Pƙed 4 lety

    Thank you 🙏 Appreciate your sharing this tool that seems extremely helpful. I will be practicing today. đŸ‘đŸ»

  • @taylanhoca
    @taylanhoca Pƙed 11 lety +1

    Another practical an awesome video, thanks :)

  • @zyrinaz
    @zyrinaz Pƙed 11 lety

    Wonderful! I really love your energy. Thank u

  • @TheWizardOfWords
    @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 11 lety

    Thanks for the feedback, Allan; I'll keep that in mind going forward.
    Dan

  • @grantaugustyniak6667
    @grantaugustyniak6667 Pƙed rokem

    Your a blessing ! Thank you !

  • @patriciabennett1819
    @patriciabennett1819 Pƙed 5 lety

    Hi Dan that is excellent. Great tip to interrupting politely.Thank you.

  • @mistydelaine6088
    @mistydelaine6088 Pƙed 8 lety

    You are GREAT at what you do!!

  • @lisag3359
    @lisag3359 Pƙed 9 lety +1

    Thank you! I can totally use this with my mom!!!

  • @siobhankelly2275
    @siobhankelly2275 Pƙed 7 lety

    Really love all your videos, you explain very well. Thank you

  • @TheWizardOfWords
    @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 11 lety

    Thanks, Jack!
    Dan

  • @christiafisher5995
    @christiafisher5995 Pƙed 4 lety

    I really enjoy the short videos because it's easier to learn to use.

  • @playapnoyx05
    @playapnoyx05 Pƙed 11 lety

    you make a lot of sense! thanks for all the videos!

  • @Ondesdevie
    @Ondesdevie Pƙed 11 lety

    Very entertaining way of sharing your stuff, thanks!

  • @TheWizardOfWords
    @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 10 lety

    That would be wonderful, Mike!

  • @bonitaohyea9258
    @bonitaohyea9258 Pƙed 5 lety

    Great advice!

  • @ronharveyII
    @ronharveyII Pƙed 11 lety

    Love your stuff man!!!

  • @jamaicasky
    @jamaicasky Pƙed 9 lety +2

    yes, i have to deal with customers who dont stay on topic of how i can help them and it gets quite frustrating. I love my customers, and the company and I would love to help them in a more efficient way, and sometimes the conversation gets way offtrack, its hard to get it back when I am trying to be polite. This video helped.

  • @FSFA11223
    @FSFA11223 Pƙed 11 lety

    You are a inspired speaker. A lot to learn from.

  • @mananagevorgyan7231
    @mananagevorgyan7231 Pƙed 10 lety

    Great! Thanks a lot!

  • @capnbobretired
    @capnbobretired Pƙed 6 lety

    Brilliant. TY for posting.

    • @TheWizardOfWords
      @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 6 lety

      Hi CapnBob: Thank you for writing! When you have a moment, check out my website at www.danoconnortraining.com/ and drop a note from there, telling me what you think.
      Dan

  • @albinotoad
    @albinotoad Pƙed 10 lety

    Loving this!!

  • @bendemare5270
    @bendemare5270 Pƙed 5 lety

    thanks, maybe gonna check this technique out.

  • @talachedaka2000
    @talachedaka2000 Pƙed 9 lety

    Hi Buddy! :D
    Love your channel Dan. Thank you

  • @smalloscar1
    @smalloscar1 Pƙed 4 lety

    I’m going to use this one thx Dan 👍

  • @GS-st9ns
    @GS-st9ns Pƙed 6 lety

    So you're telling me that you really want me to subscribe and give you a thumbs up.😊😊... Done!! You're the best, Dan.

  • @alexlex7397
    @alexlex7397 Pƙed 10 lety +8

    Did anyone else notice the mirror moving the moment the dog barked? freaky... anyway another great video Dan keep it up!

    • @oneInAMillionNJ
      @oneInAMillionNJ Pƙed 10 lety

      Yes

    • @sjpalmer1987
      @sjpalmer1987 Pƙed 6 lety

      I didn't realise until you brought it ot my attention. LOL yeh freaky

    • @jfilm7466
      @jfilm7466 Pƙed 6 lety

      Sarah Palmer The mirror moved the the dog barked. It continued moving 😂

  • @artintelligence4973
    @artintelligence4973 Pƙed 6 lety

    You are a Star !! Thank you !

  • @AllanGildea
    @AllanGildea Pƙed 11 lety

    Thank you Dan! You are a gentleman. We'll be benefitting from you mentoring, fx or not. Have a great weekend :)

  • @tdawg1962
    @tdawg1962 Pƙed rokem

    Love the training, very useful and I am putting it to use.

  • @Sunbreeze7
    @Sunbreeze7 Pƙed 11 lety

    thank you Dan for the tip ;)

  • @rhondastaley174
    @rhondastaley174 Pƙed 5 lety

    Thank you!!

  • @gregorymason102
    @gregorymason102 Pƙed 6 lety

    Helpful, Thanks

    • @TheWizardOfWords
      @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 6 lety

      Thank you Gregory. Please let me know what you think as you go through more videos, would you? And if you like what you see, please share. Again, thanks.
      Dan

  • @MelissaJMJ
    @MelissaJMJ Pƙed 7 lety

    Thank you.

  • @LizaLermontov
    @LizaLermontov Pƙed 11 lety

    I just want to put in a good word for the sound effects; they make me smile!

  • @775shahrukh
    @775shahrukh Pƙed 8 lety +1

    amazinggg.gud job sir .keeep it up

  • @OCDlosp
    @OCDlosp Pƙed 9 lety

    thanks for the lessons cheers m8

  • @joopsnoop
    @joopsnoop Pƙed 10 lety +4

    Just discovered your videos and web site. Great advice!

  • @julianbullmagic
    @julianbullmagic Pƙed 4 lety

    keep up the hard work

  • @hannahlillian1690
    @hannahlillian1690 Pƙed 9 lety

    Great tips 👍

  • @mirzaabdulrahmanbaigbaig2725

    Ur vedios really tought me what needed in formal situations. Thanks Dan

  • @got2go4word
    @got2go4word Pƙed 8 lety +1

    You rock!

  • @Javster
    @Javster Pƙed 11 lety

    Thank you! SUBscribed!!

  • @dmarie44
    @dmarie44 Pƙed 6 lety

    You're so much fun!

    • @TheWizardOfWords
      @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 6 lety

      Hi Daniela Daniela. Yes, I think you'll agree that lessons can be fun or lessons can be boring! I try to keep mine light but useful and practicable. Daniel Daniel!

  • @SusanaXpeace2u
    @SusanaXpeace2u Pƙed 2 lety

    Oh this is good. I'm in a new job and today at lunch to make conversation really, I said to the woman who organises the lotto that it's a lot of work and she's a hero! She then launched in to how much work it was. She had to keep track of 42 people and she had to set up revolut and some people aren't on revolut and there's Irish lotto, the euro millions, the bonus ball, the bonus ball is when......................
    OMG. I should have said So you're telling me it's a *lot* of work!

  • @iwanttofight69
    @iwanttofight69 Pƙed 11 lety

    Great example in this vid bro

  • @akristen4971
    @akristen4971 Pƙed 6 lety

    Thank you! I find the sounds fun. Especially the dog sounds LOL Your approach is very positive and I walk away feeling my own confidence and positivity flow!

    • @TheWizardOfWords
      @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 6 lety

      Kristen, when I get a testimonial such as the one you just wrote, it makes me want to press on with my communication lessons! Thank you!
      Dan

    • @akristen4971
      @akristen4971 Pƙed 6 lety

      Effective Communication Skills With Dan O'Connor â˜șâ˜șâ˜șâ˜șâ˜șâ˜ș

  • @name.terrie
    @name.terrie Pƙed 6 lety

    Have to try this. 😊

  • @ahmedmohammed4520
    @ahmedmohammed4520 Pƙed 5 lety

    That was really awesome
    I liked it🙂

  • @sandeepkaur2331
    @sandeepkaur2331 Pƙed 10 lety +1

    superb

  • @TheWizardOfWords
    @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 11 lety

    Just the usual-- answer questions directly and succinctly; sit with an attitude of attention (sitting straight up, looking at the interviewer and nodding acknowledgement of what is being said; TURN OFF YOUR CELL PHONE BEFORE GOING TO THE INTERVIEW; and go to get the job--not to give an interview. And even if they don't ask if you have any questions, make your departing comment as you are saying goodbye--and ask if there is any reason you wouldn't be given this job.

  • @stepha3121
    @stepha3121 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

    Thanks!

  • @PeterCKell
    @PeterCKell Pƙed 10 lety

    Hey man your awesome!

  • @catherine8326
    @catherine8326 Pƙed 3 lety

    Thank you!
    Steer conversation:
    ‘So you’re telling me....’

  • @DENISELEE2012
    @DENISELEE2012 Pƙed 8 lety +1

    Im that! Ramble on ! Poor people. I have pretty much stopped talking. BTW...your right on! Thank you!

  • @laramaealcantara6782
    @laramaealcantara6782 Pƙed 10 lety

    Thankyou. :) Very GENIUS. :)

  • @reincarnatedprincess
    @reincarnatedprincess Pƙed 5 lety

    I like your sense of humour.

  • @bbjudyfit
    @bbjudyfit Pƙed 5 lety +2

    I just want to say THANK YOU. I feel so much more confident in my social interactions. . Like i won't just shut down when I can't figure out how to *respectfully* say what's on my mind.
    I've asked MANY people how to respond to multiple scenarios you've addressed.. and they always give me aggressive ways they'd handle it. My goal is to be nice .. not make things awkward... yet be assertive. And your channel has some of the most unique and helpful information I've ever come across. i appreciate you ! K bye.

  • @TheWizardOfWords
    @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 11 lety

    Thank you for your feedback, orlytugob. I'm grateful for and flattered by what you said. Please keep in mind that myï»ż primary business is delivering keynotes (and onsite training), so if Toastmasters International is ever having a convention-- remember me!
    Dan

  • @rlittlefield2691
    @rlittlefield2691 Pƙed 6 lety

    love it

  • @kasharene
    @kasharene Pƙed 10 lety +3

    I love your mini teachings! I could listen to you all day :) these lessons are short but fun and informative. You've made proper communication techniques so easy to learn. Definitely your gift Sir!

    • @TheWizardOfWords
      @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 10 lety +1

      Hi kasharene: The moving mirror comments are funny. If you look to the right of the mirror, you'll see a bank of windows. They're open. But I prefer to think of it as a miracle.. . . So spread the word--miraculous things are happening on this channel!
      And thank you for your encouraging words.
      Dan

  • @mlimcarreon
    @mlimcarreon Pƙed 11 lety

    I adore you!

  • @MySecretJourney
    @MySecretJourney Pƙed 11 lety

    I dare you to try to get my grandfather on track...lol...great video! =)

  • @TranquilE3
    @TranquilE3 Pƙed 10 lety +6

    Magic mirror moving

  • @SuzannaKiraly
    @SuzannaKiraly Pƙed 6 lety

    Interesting tip. I usually just ask them a new question that gets them back on track.

  • @sunnyc25
    @sunnyc25 Pƙed 10 lety

    great work
    Thanks Mate

    • @TheWizardOfWords
      @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 10 lety +1

      You're welcome, Sunny, and please continue to like and share; that's what enables me to continue putting free videos on CZcams.
      Dan

    • @sunnyc25
      @sunnyc25 Pƙed 10 lety

      Online Communication Skills Training Videos with Dan O'Connor and Power Diversity Will DO !!!

  • @mehdi3071
    @mehdi3071 Pƙed 10 lety

    The mirror behind is moving by itself dude!!!!!!!!!! :O holy shit!

  • @TheWizardOfWords
    @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 11 lety

    Thanks for watching AND for recommending! I appreciate that American TreeBug. And you can hug me anytime I'm speaking in your area--wherever that is!
    Dan

  • @sduncanfoto
    @sduncanfoto Pƙed 4 lety

    great

  • @TheWizardOfWords
    @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 10 lety

    Perfect; whatever works for you theaterhobo.
    Dan

  • @TheWizardOfWords
    @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 11 lety +1

    onlinecommunicationtraining (with the dot com, of course)-- THAT'S WHERE YOU GO, ANGELA, and also, stay with me on CZcams, please!
    Dan

  • @TheWizardOfWords
    @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 11 lety

    Hi Smiley Weepy:
    I will be completely revising my powerdiversity site, but the training site is totally different--onlinecommunicationtraining There will always be videos on both, but one is geared towards my onsite training, and the other is totally online training.
    Dan

  • @TheWizardOfWords
    @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 11 lety

    Thanks for watching, Gino.

  • @katiec2830
    @katiec2830 Pƙed 6 lety

    Hahahah that’s me. I’m like your dad. I am so random and spontaneous, and I love to talk. 😇 I often start stories and never finish because I am all over the place. 😂

    • @TheWizardOfWords
      @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 6 lety +1

      Well if you're like my dad, then you're A-OK in my book, rambling and all!
      Dan

    • @katiec2830
      @katiec2830 Pƙed 6 lety

      Effective Communication Skills With Dan O'Connor hahaha thanks! 😇

  • @jj54178
    @jj54178 Pƙed 5 lety

    I'm going to test this out on my soon to be ex-husband, when I'm forced to go to mediation with him. Thanks for the excellent advice.

  • @AllanGildea
    @AllanGildea Pƙed 11 lety

    Excellent teaching, thanks! I think your content and delivery are so strong that the sound effects are a bit distracting - just some constructive feedback. Look forward to more insights and thanks again.

  • @sameribrahim9583
    @sameribrahim9583 Pƙed 10 lety +5

    So you are telling me that this might work? :-)
    As usual, I really like the way you present your ideas... Big LIKE

  • @mlimcarreon
    @mlimcarreon Pƙed 11 lety

    I need help with an interview next week. I will use the training you provided when they ask if I have any questions. Any other final tips is greatly appreciated.

  • @Legacy_125
    @Legacy_125 Pƙed 6 lety

    You know something - You're Awesome! Do you have a book out?

    • @TheWizardOfWords
      @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 6 lety

      I have two books--"Say This not That" and "Energy Vampire Slaying: 101" both available through my website. I also have a 50-lesson program "Step Out of the Shadows and Speak" in addition to several other programs. Just go to www.danoconnortraining.com/shop/ and take your pick.
      Dan

  • @TheWizardOfWords
    @TheWizardOfWords  Pƙed 11 lety +1

    Angela--I'm waiting for you to subscribe to my new online training course. I'll be handling snipers, crybabies, bullies-- every type of energy vampire--in addition to hundreds of communication tactics and tips. It's for people who want to learn to be savvy communicators, but don't want to die of boredom in the process.
    Dan

    • @lovelylinda8891
      @lovelylinda8891 Pƙed 4 lety

      I'd like this course. I am learning to be more assertive, and to protect my energy from bullies and Narcissists. I'm an empath. I appreciate your videos and I appreciate YOU! Thank You Dan.

  • @AngelTovar
    @AngelTovar Pƙed 9 lety +14

    "so you're telling me there's a chance?"

    • @mackhomie6
      @mackhomie6 Pƙed 6 lety +2

      Angel Tovar was that dumb and dumber?

    • @capnbobretired
      @capnbobretired Pƙed 6 lety

      Dogma, I think. Jay the Prophet talking to the last Scion.