How I mentally glowed up (in a few months)

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Komentáře • 151

  • @nishchalskulkarni10
    @nishchalskulkarni10 Před 22 dny +168

    Brother. U uploaded this video at just the right moment! Thank you because yesterday something happened in my life which shattered me. I will watch this video for that reason itself. Thanks man!🎉❤

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  Před 22 dny +54

      dw bro i gotchu

    • @FunnyAmped
      @FunnyAmped Před 22 dny +16

      @@ItsMeRuff Ruff always got our back. G

    • @dpkadp935
      @dpkadp935 Před 22 dny +3

      ​@FunnyAmped ngl that sounds wrong lol

    • @busdriver6321
      @busdriver6321 Před 22 dny +2

      @@dpkadp935bro what are you talking about 💀

    • @dpkadp935
      @dpkadp935 Před 22 dny

      @@busdriver6321 🎃🎃

  • @_NightLite_
    @_NightLite_ Před 22 dny +129

    "Scroll back up"
    *He caught me*

  • @haloitsjme5267
    @haloitsjme5267 Před 22 dny +70

    Time Stamps:
    0:00 - Just Solve the ROOT problem, instead of fixing the symptoms.
    - 2:08 - Analyze your life. Notice the causes of your symptoms.
    3:50 - Exercise - Cardio, Social Sports, Gym
    6:24 - Breathwork - Conquer Anxiety
    10:04 - Direction - Set Smaller Goals to Lead Up to the BIG goal.
    - What is your life's biggest constraints? Alleviate them one at a time.
    13:34 - The Spiral
    - Take 1-3 Week to Remove the Weed. (Focusing on Mental Health)
    - Take time to Recover Afterwards.
    Hi, everyone! I just did this to make sure I paid attention!
    RUFF PLEASE DROP THE BREATHWORK V.S. MEDITATION VIDEO.

    • @Netherite0_0
      @Netherite0_0 Před 20 dny +1

      Thanks! It's good to remember what we learned!

  • @BasicallyCleve
    @BasicallyCleve Před 22 dny +52

    finding out what fits you the best on self improvement is so real ngl. I would fall asleep if i watch a 2 hrs podcast, but I can stay 4 hrs reading a book💀.

  • @RobotDude375
    @RobotDude375 Před 21 dnem +33

    Here are my goals for the summer. I’m writing them down in the comments to solidify them in my mind.
    1. Lock in on my job and make it through training without getting booted
    2. Study for exams over the weekend so I absolutely crushed them.
    3. Get my drivers license and develop friendships by going to the gym and going to get food with my homies
    4. Lock in on RL and smash bros ultimate for the next esports season at my school
    5. Do 10 pushups every day, adding another 5 each week
    6. Keep reading the Bible and get my summer work done

    • @Netherite0_0
      @Netherite0_0 Před 20 dny +2

      Power through on your awesome goals bro 💪

    • @YurreeZy
      @YurreeZy Před 19 dny +1

      Yo W Goals, Smash Ultimate player here too but no Esports or tournaments here in the Philippines it blows, there's no drive and competition 😞
      But on the upside, I got my classmates and I'm teaching them the game, they fast learners.
      Who do you Main or play? I play half the roster but I do Main Luigi

  • @pogzival
    @pogzival Před 21 dnem +17

    2:58 BRO IM THE MADISON FROM CALIFORNIA WTF. But I listened to your advice and now I'm transferring to a different college called UIUC instead of UW-Madison for computer science. I think it'll help me find more like-minded people and a better environment on self-improvement.

  • @RedKiimuse
    @RedKiimuse Před 22 dny +24

    Ruff, I’ve been watching you for an almost a year now. Before I discovered your channel, I was struggling with depression, grades were shit and I was chronically online.
    But over the course of the year, while applying your advice, stuff seems to have gotten better. Ive quit gaming, I’ve joined my school’s football team, im going outside way more, and I’ve even managed to bike 10 kilometres the other day (which I’ve never done before)!
    My life is wayy better than how it was before. I’d like to thank you for reminding me that you can always make things better & to “take action”.

  • @snehamishra7427
    @snehamishra7427 Před 10 dny +3

    I've been writing diary entries from the age of 8, when I didn't even know a thing like personal diary existed. And writing things down has always affected me positively. I love writing, just as you said, it makes me understand the real problem, and I get relieved after jotting things down, it's better than sharing your feelings with someone alive. At the end I want to quote Anne Frank's golden words- "Paper has more patience than people".

  • @kamomiru5584
    @kamomiru5584 Před 21 dnem +5

    Thank you, Ruff.🌼🌿 Your videos helped me to improve my life throughout this year. I picked up the gym, joined yoga, made cycling a solid habit, and started to socialize! Just a year ago I was on the edge of ending it all. I had 9/10 depression. Your videos helped me to get up and just do healthy things, one by one, and now I feel happier than ever before. Thank you, Ruff! You inspired at least one person to fall in love with life again!😄✨️🌱

    • @Ytuser339..
      @Ytuser339.. Před 21 dnem +2

      Good job 🎉🎉🎉

    • @kamomiru5584
      @kamomiru5584 Před 21 dnem

      Thanks, guy🙌 I've just reread my comment, and damn, the way I formed it sounds a bit cringe lol

  • @cinderella4286
    @cinderella4286 Před 22 dny +14

    No one :
    Me searching up the comment by Madison from California 😂😂

  • @lakshyapappu
    @lakshyapappu Před 22 dny +15

    You probably don't know but you're making me stronger and stronger with every video you post. Sometimes it gets hard but your videos make me feel like it's all worth it and I just need to keep going

  • @farahisnaini
    @farahisnaini Před 21 dnem +4

    I also just realized recently that improving mental health and have clarity in mind are keys to have better life

  • @ItsMeYolan
    @ItsMeYolan Před 22 dny +12

    Tbh every ruff video feels like me competing against ruff in a self improvement race at the same time teaching which in turns wanting to be like him which i don't really think is healthy in my situation

  • @lakshyapappu
    @lakshyapappu Před 22 dny +4

    The fact that i just took my phone to watch one of your videos and you just posted!!

  • @remig.7969
    @remig.7969 Před 22 dny +2

    Thank you for helping improving our mental health, it is a such significant topic !!!

  • @Peterwithanr
    @Peterwithanr Před 22 dny

    love your growth not just as a youtube but as a person. proud of you ruff

  • @cheeseoreos493
    @cheeseoreos493 Před 22 dny +5

    Your always catching us when we slacking and getting us back on trak

  • @YurreeZy
    @YurreeZy Před 19 dny +2

    If you're competing in a race and there's nothing at the finish line, why run? Running a race that leads to nothing is but a mere empty pursuit and is completely meaningless. Find your purpose in life, assess your goals and achieve what you strive for.
    If you set big goals, set smaller goals along the way that lead up to the big goal. Take it as like this, you are in a RPG Video Game, you vow to finish the Main Quest, but during the journey you collectively complete the Side Quests, building your entire skillset and sharpening your skills is what skyrockets your success to finish your Main Quest.
    Bars.

  • @buinyn
    @buinyn Před 22 dny +1

    Always gives me motivation when you drop a new video 🙏

  • @krisppi7077
    @krisppi7077 Před 18 dny

    this is so realistic, thank you. continue being u, i love that you're fuckin authentic in ur videos because sometimes videos like this end up trying too hard and it comes out as ingenuity...

  • @Megsz17
    @Megsz17 Před 22 dny +9

    Yooo ruff perfect timingg

  • @ItsMeStarsky
    @ItsMeStarsky Před 18 dny +1

    The message here felt like it was directly written for me. Yesterday I was thinking about all the future "what if's", terrible consequences and what I am going to do in case anything bad happens. I realize now that it all was just useless- I did nothing, but made myself suffer for no reason. Thanks for the video, as always, right message at right time🕊

  • @user-uw8qm4hu2g
    @user-uw8qm4hu2g Před 21 dnem

    Thank you so much, I’ve learned so much from you and I just recently discovered your channel. You have a new sub, keep up the good work!❤😆

  • @chefrecrafter526
    @chefrecrafter526 Před 20 dny +1

    Thanks man keep doing this❤

  • @jeanpaulprod
    @jeanpaulprod Před 22 dny +6

    any madisons from california?

  • @HassanShaikh-mg8lm
    @HassanShaikh-mg8lm Před 22 dny

    i was low on mindfulness and than i tried to check yt and out of no where u popped up,and I'm feel good now

  • @ButtershyWise
    @ButtershyWise Před 22 dny +7

    4:11 bro I am 4 minutes in and I didn't even realise this video is like 18 minutes ago.... TF why am I so early? how do I form my opinions if there are not enough comment.

    • @_astralys_astralys_5958
      @_astralys_astralys_5958 Před 20 dny

      You don't need others to form your opinion

    • @ButtershyWise
      @ButtershyWise Před 19 dny

      @@_astralys_astralys_5958 thanks, I've heard that before and I also known it's importance, but sometimes when I watch a video and have a opinion it changes immediately upon reaching the comment section.... it's almost involuntary... that's why to combat this problem I started leaving my own comments 💪🎀✨

  • @storytea
    @storytea Před 16 dny

    Thanks i really need this , u are the best man

  • @melolyx4317
    @melolyx4317 Před 22 dny

    Yo keep up the good work I love your videos bro

  • @that_browngirl04
    @that_browngirl04 Před 17 dny

    Can you please make a video on how you record yourself? And edit stuffs.. Cause the way you elaborate everything, is so comprehensible. Lots of love 🌻❤️

  • @MaddieFishblob
    @MaddieFishblob Před 21 dnem +4

    2:57 👁-👁
    My name isn’t Madison but my YT and all my other socials are, and I DO freaking live in California so….Ruff ur a creep

    • @Ishmael-Youtube
      @Ishmael-Youtube Před 20 dny

      Why is your CZcams Madison even tho you’re not named Madison

  • @theviper1072
    @theviper1072 Před 22 dny +11

    Wow old ruff was ruff get it

  • @dieseltheduck
    @dieseltheduck Před 21 dnem +3

    ruff, im not sure if it's cuz i commented smth about being depressed in one of your videos, but thanks
    secondary school sucks :(

  • @random.__.2
    @random.__.2 Před 22 dny +1

    When folks feel stuck, in comes Ruff
    to break us free from our rut 🔥

  • @rikanabilahanum835
    @rikanabilahanum835 Před 21 dnem

    You're my lifesaver

  • @blackzuniverse2299
    @blackzuniverse2299 Před 18 dny

    Awesome brother

  • @Hina_1807
    @Hina_1807 Před 17 dny +2

    Me being single n heartbroken being a hopeless romantic n ruff giving kisses at the end of his vidss ahhhhh makes my day n night!!! U make me blush so hard ruffffff ahahagahahhshshsjsdbj

  • @tajallaqureshi7958
    @tajallaqureshi7958 Před 5 dny

    I love how he doesnt shame you for the problem cause he has been through it himself it just feels like youre getting free therapy every time he posts

  • @cheeseoreos493
    @cheeseoreos493 Před 22 dny +2

    Ruff our lord and saviour

  • @BinaybhushanToppo-mr8er

    Thank you bro ❤
    I will take action 👊

  • @yaminaboub-jo2lb
    @yaminaboub-jo2lb Před 21 dnem

    Excellent vedio ❤ very informative

  • @thebrowngirlwithocd
    @thebrowngirlwithocd Před 21 dnem

    this guy can talk for an hour long and i will still be listening to him willingly

  • @DanielManzo-qf7zf
    @DanielManzo-qf7zf Před 21 dnem

    Oh my goodness, I need this information

  • @wavReads
    @wavReads Před 22 dny +2

    Next guide: how to fix brainrot (on skibidi)

  • @jocysatu1038
    @jocysatu1038 Před 21 dnem

    Nice handwriting ruff! all i gotta say today.

  • @RyugaSenpaii
    @RyugaSenpaii Před 22 dny +1

    Thank you

  • @hasrhy.m4
    @hasrhy.m4 Před 22 dny

    It was really helpful 🔥🔥

  • @riya_zpt5332
    @riya_zpt5332 Před 22 dny +6

    Early gang 💀

  • @gui_tar_27
    @gui_tar_27 Před 20 dny

    Hey Ruff!You've helped me improve myself a lot and thanks to you I got into self improvement,and i've been watching you before you had 100k subs.I wanted to ask what do you use to record?

  • @jeevan0722
    @jeevan0722 Před 22 dny +1

    Bro talking about depression with pop music in background 😂😂

  • @smratichaturvedi3605
    @smratichaturvedi3605 Před 22 dny +1

    Man please make a full self-improvement guide for beginners video

  • @Akshata-lg4qq
    @Akshata-lg4qq Před 17 dny

    Thanks bro❤

  • @VidhayaGaikwad
    @VidhayaGaikwad Před 22 dny

    THANK U BRO

  • @notanonymousperson
    @notanonymousperson Před 18 dny

    Absolutely incredible advice that I've done and it made my life so much better!!!
    sidenote - 14:54 what are those fingertricksssssssssss

  • @unknown-mn9wo
    @unknown-mn9wo Před 22 dny +2

    4:20 anyone know what’s the name of this book? I’ve seen this clips multiple times and every time I wonder the same thing

  • @biiig_dipper
    @biiig_dipper Před 20 dny

    the sharp inhale part of breathwork makes me die laughing for some reason 😭

  • @remig.7969
    @remig.7969 Před 21 dnem

    During covid lockdown, i could not even have a walk ouside in nature, and it really messed up my mental health to be 24/7 inside

  • @kritikarajput6076
    @kritikarajput6076 Před 20 dny

    I noticed a fake sunlight, ur editing is good😁😁. Btw what's the name of the book!?

  • @Trzng
    @Trzng Před 22 dny

    yoo 200k🔥🔥

  • @gramegod759
    @gramegod759 Před 22 dny

    W Stay healthy and get into the gym 😊

  • @talpurr
    @talpurr Před 22 dny

    your such an inspiration ruff! ur explanations are so clear.

  • @Workerforhimalways
    @Workerforhimalways Před 21 dnem +2

    Jesus is the only way to salvation ❤❤❤😊

  • @BinaybhushanToppo-mr8er

    Please make video about meditation V/S breathwork ❤

  • @user-ed6ye5zn7s
    @user-ed6ye5zn7s Před 22 dny +1

    exercise
    connect w/ nature and other people
    breathwork
    big goal

  • @zyyyieee
    @zyyyieee Před 21 dnem

    thanks

  • @SafaKhalid-nt3ti
    @SafaKhalid-nt3ti Před 19 dny

    pretty sure the other thing is "think time" which he mentioned in a previous video!

  • @micoalternate4526
    @micoalternate4526 Před 22 dny

    The BreathWork advice was the most important ngl

  • @SoulBoyDenz
    @SoulBoyDenz Před 22 dny

    Bars bro

  • @squared231
    @squared231 Před 20 dny

    Btw, meditation isn't just sitting there doing nothing. Literally focusing on your breath counts as meditation, so you are technically mediating throughout your day. Meditation can also be just sitting down and being aware of your thoughts as they arrive. Alternatively, you can also just relax and focus on your surroundings. Basically, anything that gives you mental clarity is meditation.

  • @shaantywantsme3765
    @shaantywantsme3765 Před 10 dny

    Ruff what do you do with breath work instead of meditation? Make a video I’ll be the first one to watch it! 🔥

  • @extremerandomgamer1238

    Brother i am very ill and i am absent a lot can u make a video on hw to improve your physical health

  • @indy2832
    @indy2832 Před 17 dny

    When would you usually listen to music? I'm starting to think that the amount I listen to throughout my day is excessive and maybe it limits the time for my brain to be alone with its own thoughts. I would very much love your opinion on this matter

  • @sajidagurfana9688
    @sajidagurfana9688 Před 19 dny

    I wonder why ruff changes the thumbnail including description after every upload
    I guess he wants perfection

  • @covypod
    @covypod Před 21 dnem

    hiii, what was the title of the book you're reading at 4:19?

  • @YOUUV
    @YOUUV Před 22 dny +1

    Ruff uf u r seeing my coment probably not xause am a little late but anyways... I cant do the breathwork properly its just make me feel more suffocated its like the air is not reaching till the pure bottom of my lungs and yeah its makes me angry and the more i do the more its feels suffocated... I dont have any physical lungs condition but yeah... Just wanted an advice...

  • @dgo-nu3dn
    @dgo-nu3dn Před 17 dny

    Hey Ruff, what mic do you use?

  • @VisionVibe0.1
    @VisionVibe0.1 Před 15 dny

    so true all of my problems i see come from me being changed by my friend group yet its sad for me since i use to have no friends but now I have 1 true friend yet his friends bad habits influence me into doing bad habbits i have experimented with going for like 6 months and i stop doing all bad habits and im happy healthy and everything yet this friend is my business partner so im conflicted in what i should do any help?

  • @Nintendocenter
    @Nintendocenter Před 21 dnem

    I have a question for anyone who knows what to do. I am a youtuber who has been on productivity for a few weeks. My parents said I can only record videos on the weekend which was fine at the time because I was lazy, but know I finish most if not all my work by Tuesday or Wednesday. This leads to a problem were I have time through out the day where there is nothing to do. I am doing most of the good habits and I want to know what I should fill this time with.

  • @krishnaagrawal2661
    @krishnaagrawal2661 Před 22 dny +1

    try reading autobiography of a yogi ruff

  • @tajallaqureshi7958
    @tajallaqureshi7958 Před 5 dny

    This guys smiley eyes look like kim soo hyun

  • @user-np9db5wb4q
    @user-np9db5wb4q Před 19 dny

    Bro, this guy REALLY needs to make a podcast on Spotify, there's a fanpage there, but it's really not the same...

  • @yaminaboub-jo2lb
    @yaminaboub-jo2lb Před 21 dnem

    I am a huge overthinking , it's so annoying i over analyse every situation for days

  • @riyaanna2756
    @riyaanna2756 Před 19 dny

    Hey Ruff, can you do a vid about side hustles for a student?
    I searched for them, some were bs, i didnt find any legit websites on which i could work.. is there any way on how i can make my own money as a 16y/o?
    Btw i love u bro🎀thanku.

  • @funlife_016
    @funlife_016 Před 21 dnem

    If you don't like doing meditation, yo might need it the most.

  • @Restorix0Tension
    @Restorix0Tension Před 12 dny

    Yo Ruff, do you want me to make you a sales page for your skool group?

  • @sugoma8827
    @sugoma8827 Před 21 dnem

    Brother may I know what book you were reading😅

  • @TanZhaoWei-wf6fu
    @TanZhaoWei-wf6fu Před 22 dny

    Yeah

  • @hikkaturfriend
    @hikkaturfriend Před 16 dny

    14:50, this timestamp has a page of a book which I am requesting anyone to recognise
    If u did find it, please do tell

  • @alexei6604
    @alexei6604 Před 21 dnem

    did i jsut get french kissed by ruff

  • @baraamine8125
    @baraamine8125 Před 22 dny

    🤝🏽🤝🏽

  • @ramshapalla3742
    @ramshapalla3742 Před 3 dny +1

    👍

  • @Halamashino
    @Halamashino Před 22 dny

    Omg this is so true I love seeing frogs jump 😂

  • @fedoraaart
    @fedoraaart Před 22 dny

    I’m early !😊

  • @oinkoinkx1
    @oinkoinkx1 Před 22 dny

    woahhhh 20 secs

  • @DDTear
    @DDTear Před 21 dnem

    Isn't there a 1080p choice?

  • @imsaze19
    @imsaze19 Před 22 dny

    i got a question;
    how do you grow your youtube channel? i tried so many times but got 0 views.
    but other wise nice vid

    • @nia6789
      @nia6789 Před 22 dny

      I'm not a content creator, but from the perspective of a viewer I can tell you some things. I've watched the video on your channel and what your telling is interesting. I did find the background woth the flashing white lines distracting and I heard some mumbling, which can make it harder to understand what you're saying. But with some work an patience I think you could get far. I would love to follow your journey and I hope you won't give up before you get to your goal :)

    • @imsaze19
      @imsaze19 Před 21 dnem

      @@nia6789 thank you for the feedback

  • @difevfx3275
    @difevfx3275 Před 22 dny

    A YEAR

  • @calculatedchad4368
    @calculatedchad4368 Před 22 dny

    first. 20 seconds after you uploaded lol

  • @muk9321
    @muk9321 Před 22 dny

    bro legit caught me by saying "scroll back up" 😭

  • @shehrozealmas9403
    @shehrozealmas9403 Před 14 dny +1

    bro stop lifting weights wearing a mask. don't kill urself, the world needs u