‘Love Is Blind’: Milton & Lydia on MARRIED LIFE & Getting Past Uche Drama (Exclusive)

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  • čas přidán 14. 10. 2023
  • Milton Johnson and Lydia Velez Gonzalez said “I do” on “Love Is Blind” Season 5, and they’re still going strong! They chatted with “Extra” at the reunion taping, gushing over how “awesome” married life has been. Milton and Lydia also opened up about how they were able to move beyond the surprising revelation that she had a past with one of the other contestants, Uche. Milton reflects on some tense moments with Uche at a cast party during the season, insisting he never believed Uche’s claim that Lydia “followed” him onto the show. Plus, Lydia reveals where she stands with castmate Aaliyah, whose relationship with Uche fell apart in the pods.
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  • @Noble-light01
    @Noble-light01 Před 9 měsíci +167

    Milton is very smart…a lot of men have let their male friends badmouth their spouse but Milton stood firm. And he won, both him and Lydia won against Uche who was trying to cause division.

    • @jakestroll6518
      @jakestroll6518 Před 9 měsíci +10

      Uche didn’t manipulate Milton into becoming his closest friend though. He was open with his toxicity, he didn’t play mind games with Milton the way Lydia started using the friendship to get into Aaliyah’s head. Apples and Oranges.

    • @TheDawnofVanlife
      @TheDawnofVanlife Před 9 měsíci +14

      ​​@@jakestroll6518Aaliyah and Lydia started there friendship way before Aaliyah was interested in Uche. Was she overbearing and messy, for sure. Lydia was also fully out of it once she was out the pods except for when he drug her back into his conversations and it was almost like Uche couldn't deal with the fact she really could not care anymore. Even she said in an interview she probably shouldn't have said as much as she did to Aaliyah, she was just so relieved to talk about it she didn't shut up. Inappropriate, yes. But certainly not as calculated as it's been painted.

    • @terrycrews1760
      @terrycrews1760 Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@TheDawnofVanlifeand this is the problem w/ Lydia and her supporters “probably shouldn’t have said”. The way she even explains stuff is manipulative. Like she won’t fully take responsibility for what you called it, inappropriate behavior. And questionable I might add. She said at the reunion she wasn’t reading the room?? Ma’am that’s not a failure to not read the room. Telling her you had sex w/ Aaliyah’s potential husband and then beginning to tell her about his car, his dog, his personality, his apt. Who does that??? There was an agenda. Uche said in an interview also that he told Lydia he was looking into casting for the show. Is it a coincidence all of a sudden that she’s in it also? Cmon people really just pick and choose what they want to hear as long as it lines up with the story in their head.

    • @terrycrews1760
      @terrycrews1760 Před 9 měsíci +2

      If you think Milton is smart for not letting his friends bad mouth his wife I’m concerned about your moral compass. That’s not smart. That’s just respectful. It’s not like he defended her either. He just drew his boundary on not engaging.

  • @sanzavala4780
    @sanzavala4780 Před 9 měsíci +112

    I definitely feel that Lydia, after watching herself on the show is so much more composed as an individual. Milton’s maturity has rubbed off tbh

  • @yasminbinyniley
    @yasminbinyniley Před 9 měsíci +118

    Unpopular opinion they had great chemistry they made the most sense they go really well with each other he allows her to be her self and she gives him room to Be vulnerable and express emotion and feeling i think they will last rooting for them ❤ love how Milton stood up for her and always has her back

    • @mari97216
      @mari97216 Před 9 měsíci +5

      Is that an unpopular opinion? I was cheering for them, still is for their marriage to last :)

    • @simonegarciatsu2854
      @simonegarciatsu2854 Před 9 měsíci +2

      I don’t get why they get so much hate !!!?? They are awesome! I especially love Milton. He’s so mature & a cool nerd type! I love how he thinks & his manor of speaking. Lydia is a lucky girl because he absolutely adores her & it’s so obvious which is a beautiful thing !!! I think ppl just don’t get their personalities. They are misunderstood but totally my type of people 🤍

    • @terrycrews1760
      @terrycrews1760 Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@simonegarciatsu2854mature? Talking about her accent, making snide remarks about her age, saying she is too emotional when she’s hurt? It’s crazy how people didn’t see the “26” on him. Or “24” or however young he was.

    • @dysmissme7343
      @dysmissme7343 Před 8 měsíci

      How is this unpopular?
      I kept watching those wild and intense moments worrying that they were gonna explode and every damn time Milton found a way to thoughtfully, calmly just walk right through it
      I think we could all learn a lot from him tbh

  • @kathymawer9295
    @kathymawer9295 Před 9 měsíci +39

    Milton is so in love and he is true, like he sticks up for Lydia and protects her (oil can emoji) and is so smart and full of character. Why are there not more men like him?

    • @dysmissme7343
      @dysmissme7343 Před 8 měsíci

      Fr though
      I kept watching those wild and intense moments worrying that they were gonna explode and every damn time Milton found a way to thoughtfully, calmly just walk right through it
      I think we could all learn a lot from him tbh

  • @theaniacz
    @theaniacz Před 9 měsíci +97

    They each separately felt like the most genuine and most adjusted emotionally people in this cast. Happy for them! And wishing them only love and happiness 🥰

    • @Lawlzinator
      @Lawlzinator Před 9 měsíci +4

      That’s pretty sad, considering Lydia is a sociopath and emotionally abusive

    • @zoharblueroblox2594
      @zoharblueroblox2594 Před 9 měsíci +4

      @@LawlzinatorLeave them alone...

    • @butterliz876
      @butterliz876 Před 9 měsíci +8

      @@Lawlzinator Yet they are the ONLY ones that got married. Just leave them alone....move along!

    • @TheDawnofVanlife
      @TheDawnofVanlife Před 9 měsíci +3

      ​@@LawlzinatorThose are big words when the literal only evidence is some bitterness toward her ex and a he said/she said story with a ton of questions. Were Uche and Lydia toxic with EACH OTHER, yes. But that literally has nothing to do with Milton.

  • @CTN404
    @CTN404 Před 9 měsíci +13

    Lydia did some growing. I guess Milton and his family made some good impressions on her. I’m glad. Sometimes we just need to be surrounded by level-headed people.

  • @Hopeigirly
    @Hopeigirly Před 9 měsíci +10

    Love them together! I wish you both a lifetime of happiness together. You two complement each other so well.😍🙌🏻

  • @Johnny.bar99
    @Johnny.bar99 Před 9 měsíci +55

    I'm so surprised they got married lol. I had zero faith in them 😅

    • @applespace150
      @applespace150 Před 9 měsíci +3

      they married over a year now.they film the show early 2022

    • @cre8ivtyp
      @cre8ivtyp Před 9 měsíci +2

      You and me both. But I do hope they grow together and learn from each other.

    • @Lawlzinator
      @Lawlzinator Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@applespace150oh wow, a year? Such a milestone

    • @zoharblueroblox2594
      @zoharblueroblox2594 Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@Lawlzinator can y'all stop worrying about others. There status doesn't even matter for you... So why do you care? Stop hurting others on the internet and let them be free. If they ACTUALLY like each other they'll try to make it work. If they don't they won't make it work. Its none of our business

    • @butterliz876
      @butterliz876 Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@Lawlzinator are you reading each comment and taking the time to make negative comments.....get a life.

  • @simonegarciatsu2854
    @simonegarciatsu2854 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Love this couple! They both have the best personality too imo! My kinda people for sure. Milton is such a cool nerdy type! So mature & def an old soul. He treats Lydia like a queen I love how he stands up for her. They truly are a beautiful couple & I wish them a lifetime of happiness 🤍🤍🤍

  • @ivapetrovska9986
    @ivapetrovska9986 Před 9 měsíci +18

    You showed what true partnership should be like ! You are a true inspiration and the best LIB couple ever ! ❤💪

  • @Sydonnewarren
    @Sydonnewarren Před 9 měsíci +15

    I feel like im the only one who thinks theyre a cute couple

  • @annafarah395
    @annafarah395 Před 9 měsíci +9

    Is Lydia standing on a box ? 😭

  • @gdhaney136
    @gdhaney136 Před 9 měsíci +8

    I wish this couple a wonderful married life!

  • @zoharblueroblox2594
    @zoharblueroblox2594 Před 9 měsíci +13

    I hate how we are judging their relationship??? It's not our place too??? It's their life from this moment on. Leave them alone if you don't like them... Don't talk about them??? Why do you care so much about them.... That fixation that you have over them gives me lowkey bully vibes. Please check yourself when commenting. If you won't say it to their faces in real life then don't say it at all... OR let's take it it to pre-school. If you have nothing nice to say don't say it at all because it will cause conflict.

    • @jakestroll6518
      @jakestroll6518 Před 9 měsíci

      They put themselves on TV, they could have chosen to take their romance off screen after the pods but they chose to keep the cameras on. And now they continue to give interviews. They are fair game.

    • @zoharblueroblox2594
      @zoharblueroblox2594 Před 9 měsíci

      @@jakestroll6518 This is like saying "you taking your dog for the walk will get them eaten. 1 doesn't equal another. Just because they signed up for reality television doesn't mean they asked for judgement. Everyone is a villain in someone else's perspective. There is no stopping that.
      Think of yourself... Do you never make mistakes, Do you never have to learn from your mistakes because they have always been righteous, Are you extremely nice to everyone without selfish intention, Are you willing to save someone's life even if it means scarficing yourself? If you no to a lot of these things. You aren't perfect and It's okay not to be perfect.
      So do you understand that's its a bit hypocritical to shame someone inperfections and mistakes by a show who doesn't even showcases all the information to us. They also doesn't give us other perspectives besides for the ones that they showcase on the show.

  • @IntheNowEra
    @IntheNowEra Před 9 měsíci +13

    They have always been my top couple from LIB season 5 .❤❤❤❤

    • @mari97216
      @mari97216 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Same! No competition:)

  • @tiny_k738
    @tiny_k738 Před 9 měsíci +9

    Awww.... this is definitely one of my favourite LIB couples of all seasons!!!! Love love them!❤❤❤
    I appreciate Milton for his grace and maturity in dealing with the Uche situation and protecting his fiancée then now wife!
    I wish both of them the absolute best on their marriage journey.
    One thing though, I wish Lydia would listen to Milton abit more and allow him to do things his waý.

  • @tarakemp997
    @tarakemp997 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thanks for a great interview. Cleave to one another with your hands in God's hands. God's continued blessings and favor to this beautiful couple.

  • @Tracydot3
    @Tracydot3 Před 9 měsíci +6

    Lydia looks great!

  • @mella7161
    @mella7161 Před 9 měsíci +1

    milton is so smart, so naive. he puts on an act to be more experienced in life than he actually is. He will get there one day, but you can tell it's not fully there. seems like a great guy

  • @SD-co9xe
    @SD-co9xe Před 4 měsíci

    They are very sweet together. I wish them all of the best.

  • @user-xd2nx9mh1j
    @user-xd2nx9mh1j Před 9 měsíci +12

    Are we going to keep ignoring his s-curl?

    • @jakestroll6518
      @jakestroll6518 Před 9 měsíci +1

      He hates his blackness. It’s no mystery why some black guys do that to their hair especially when they also make sure to pair up with non-black women. This season had two colorist black men.

    • @TheDawnofVanlife
      @TheDawnofVanlife Před 9 měsíci +7

      ​@@jakestroll6518Have you heard these two nerds TALK and I say that lovingly. You really think Lydia's non-blackness is what ranked her with him and not the fact they could probably sit around talking about something as nerdy as rocks over evening wine which a lot of people would find boring.

    • @testing1-2three
      @testing1-2three Před 9 měsíci +1

      😂 I like his curl. It reminds me of the 80’s.

    • @Radmxray
      @Radmxray Před 9 měsíci

      ​@jakestroll6518 I've heard Jlo refer to herself as " a woman of color" which always confused me. She's Hispanic. So since Milton is with a Hispanic woman is that better than if he choose a white woman? Since he could clearly hear that Lydia was Hispanic, he knew in the pods.

  • @newyorkstateofmind4594
    @newyorkstateofmind4594 Před 9 měsíci +6

    She is standing on something. He is way too tall for her to be that close to his neck

    • @dysmissme7343
      @dysmissme7343 Před 8 měsíci

      😂😂
      Lol the producers gotta do what they gotta do to get them in the same frame!!

  • @cc22ful
    @cc22ful Před 9 měsíci +10

    I'm not buying this sorry.

  • @Radmxray
    @Radmxray Před 9 měsíci +1

    I don't think Lydia meant to hurt Aaliyah. Production said if she said something before finding a real connection with someone else, she'd be out. But when Aaliyah was telling her the nice things Uche said to her when they were sitting on the couch and Aaliyah couldn't see Lydia's face, Lydia did look disappointed that Uche was into her. I saw that. But I really don't think Lydia wanted to hurt Aaliyah. But she did hurt her at the end of the day. I hope she learned something from that.

  • @Sibby496
    @Sibby496 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Good match! Perfect match!❤

  • @user-qy2xu1os6o
    @user-qy2xu1os6o Před 6 měsíci

    I love you people ❤

  • @ivapetrovska9986
    @ivapetrovska9986 Před 9 měsíci +10

    Lidia I'm sorry You were misunderstood by the delusioned part of the public and never got Your sorry or thank You from Aalyah !
    Milton You defending your wife at this Reunion and listening to your relationship stands -was so admirable !
    You're both precious people individually and you are relationship goals ‼

    • @chasingthesun90
      @chasingthesun90 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Why does Aaliyah owe her an apology?

    • @ivapetrovska9986
      @ivapetrovska9986 Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@chasingthesun90 For starting that ridiculous rumor- that Lidia followed Uche on LIB, which resulted in Uche coming for her character assassination on international tv and all the social media hysteria of hate and judgment Lidia got and still gets.
      She was a wonderful friend to Aalyah, although she knew her for only 8 days, and never got a thank you for all the help and support she gave Aalyah and all the disturbing talk and crying she had to suffer - listening from Aalyah pertaining to her ex of years Uche.

  • @lindacrawley1639
    @lindacrawley1639 Před 9 měsíci +7

    Lydia: "I didn't want to jeopardise my own opportunity to find love".
    Also Lydia: "But I was more than happy to ruin any opportunity Aaliyah might have to find love".

    • @breelarose8057
      @breelarose8057 Před 9 měsíci +5

      How did she ruin aaliyah's opportunity? People are upset she didn't say something sooner and get herself kicked off the show, but then are also upset when she did say something

    • @tems__30
      @tems__30 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Aaliyah pursued a relationship with Uche after the pods. If it was meant to be, it would have been...

  • @Malaika323
    @Malaika323 Před 7 měsíci

    I love this couple

  • @vgibson6877
    @vgibson6877 Před 25 dny

    Milton may have been 24 but was definitely one of the more mature guys on that show

  • @WilliamJoseVelez
    @WilliamJoseVelez Před 9 měsíci +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @elle788
    @elle788 Před 9 měsíci +4

    I thought they were such an off pairing because Lydia seems to old for him but she acts younger than her 35 year old self.

  • @catherineritch6241
    @catherineritch6241 Před 9 měsíci +3

    I’m not buying this relationship between Milton and Lydia what so ever. It seems very fake to me like the sister had mentioned.

  • @shelleyyas9712
    @shelleyyas9712 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Milton's the best!

  • @ladyras
    @ladyras Před 9 měsíci +7

    Lydia wanted a secured future. Milton with his masters in engineering. May they thrive and not break each other apart.

    • @marriejames01
      @marriejames01 Před 9 měsíci +6

      Most women with good sense want to have a secured financial future. Good for her.

    • @moonarium57
      @moonarium57 Před 9 měsíci +7

      Lydia has a masters too and she’s a literal geologist she doesn’t need Milton to secure her future

    • @dysmissme7343
      @dysmissme7343 Před 8 měsíci

      @@moonarium57
      Lol Fr 😂

  • @terrycrews1760
    @terrycrews1760 Před 9 měsíci +4

    Lydia so scripted as Milton’s family said.

  • @user-xd2nx9mh1j
    @user-xd2nx9mh1j Před 9 měsíci +21

    This is the most delusional situation! Milton got what he wanted which was to stand up to parents, a women like Lydia, & a man like Uche, while getting more love and attention from his mom. Let’s please stop acting like he’s emotionally mature. Ummm, he’s with Lydia! Please, let’s stop! No mature person would shrug off the way Lydia treated Aaliyah.

    • @ceebee1461
      @ceebee1461 Před 9 měsíci +3

      The thing is, Milton didn’t see how she was with Aaliyah until the show aired. But also I think he’s a lot more immature than most people give him credit for.

    • @jakestroll6518
      @jakestroll6518 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@ceebee1461 His immaturity isn’t emotional though. Except around his family where he definitely acts like a stupid defiant teenager.

  • @gwendolyntaylor16
    @gwendolyntaylor16 Před 9 měsíci

    Lydia is smart educated and beautiful. She and Milton make a great match. Uche comes across as a player.

  • @-Lily7415
    @-Lily7415 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Lydia looks beautiful in that dress.Good looking couple❤

  • @breakingfl
    @breakingfl Před 9 měsíci +8

    I just can't trust Lydia. Milton needs to run.

  • @trudykroll7429
    @trudykroll7429 Před 6 měsíci

    Why do I feel Milton is going to be rich 😂😂😂. Lydia you won girl. Milton you won my dude. Lydia is going to be soo supportive in every aspect. Age is a just a number whe you are level headed.

  • @user-on2uc1yu4d
    @user-on2uc1yu4d Před 9 měsíci +2

    No matter how much the relationship between Lydia and Milton will last, it will be hugely beneficially for both. Lydia will start to learn behave like a lady and hold her emotions in place,Milton will have great sex and will become emotionally more aware.

  • @001joyo
    @001joyo Před 8 měsíci

    She got that pure collagen for sure hahahha

  • @charmaineespeut4627
    @charmaineespeut4627 Před 9 měsíci +5

    They don't seem as genuine as Cam and Lauren or Brett and Tiffany. They don't even live together. It's giving clout chasing.

  • @dianeweekes7759
    @dianeweekes7759 Před 5 měsíci

    ❤I LOVE YOU 2 TOGETHER beautiful people can't wait for your bbys they'll be BEAUTIFUL can't wait pray together stay together EDUCATION IS EXTREMELY SEXY 💖 💗 💓 love love you 2 amazing 💖

  • @filmgram7857
    @filmgram7857 Před 6 měsíci +1

    Uche this uche that! Ask another question gosh!😒

  • @itchywitch
    @itchywitch Před 9 měsíci +1

    Milton is way more mature than Uche. ❤

  • @toyal7329
    @toyal7329 Před 9 měsíci +8

    Milton is mature. I do not like Lydia she’s fake just like Uche. She’s great at crying with no tears and pretending to be someone’s friend. Her apology wasn’t sincere..

    • @jakestroll6518
      @jakestroll6518 Před 9 měsíci +1

      She couldn’t even look Aaliyah in the face as she explained her actions. She was acting like the wronged party and the Lacheys enabled her. Lydia is a very manipulative person imo.

  • @user-tv7kh7vw5m
    @user-tv7kh7vw5m Před 9 měsíci +2

    She married that man as her cover 😂😂😂😂

  • @DrLauraRPalmer
    @DrLauraRPalmer Před 9 měsíci +16

    Lydia is so emotionally uncouth. He is just way too emotionally mature for her. He’s actually just way too smart for her all the way around. Their deductive reasoning is NOT on the same level. It’s like she’s the teenager and he’s the dad. She is mean, derogatory and comes across like she had a behavioral problem. I see why mo one stays. SHES NOT NICE.
    I can’t believe this guy or anyone would ever consider marrying her after the psychotic displays she has.
    The way she talks down to her man and treats him like a child and degrades everything he does that she doesn’t agree with but completely becomes unhinged at the seams the second anyone corrects her obnoxious behavior is absolutely a reason that man needs to run far far away like the other guy did. It’s given mentally unhealthy.

    • @zoharblueroblox2594
      @zoharblueroblox2594 Před 9 měsíci +6

      How can you decide this much from a singular season? You don't know them. Don't judge them. Let them live in peace.

    • @ask4theupgrade359
      @ask4theupgrade359 Před 9 měsíci +4

      A lot of her behavior is cultural. You just don’t get it, like you guys love to say “it’s a black thing”. Well it’s a “Puerto Rican thing”. Enjoy your kool-aid

    • @mikayocc
      @mikayocc Před 9 měsíci +2

      I'm really glad she ended up with someone like Milton. Imagine if she ended up with someone like Uche and they brought more humans like them into the world. Milton inspires her to become a more compassionate and level headed person, and the world is a better place when someone inspires another to spread kindness instead of hate/anger.

    • @DrLauraRPalmer
      @DrLauraRPalmer Před 9 měsíci +3

      @@zoharblueroblox2594​bc I’m a professional and have been in this human behavioral field 30yrs. You haven’t. So YOU wouldnt have that intuitive and professional eye. But DONT speak for me. We are NOT the same. Good day. 😉

    • @lovealexxxx3491
      @lovealexxxx3491 Před 9 měsíci +3

      Uche is that you? 😂😂

  • @Lawlzinator
    @Lawlzinator Před 9 měsíci +15

    Lydia is a sociopath

    • @Hopeigirly
      @Hopeigirly Před 9 měsíci

      Shut up Ushe!!🤣🤣🤮

  • @cindybear2689
    @cindybear2689 Před 9 měsíci

    Milton wins! Uche is a two time looser...😂

  • @selinabutler1164
    @selinabutler1164 Před 9 měsíci +3

    So boring

  • @CarlyFloq
    @CarlyFloq Před 9 měsíci +2

    Sorry but no, only last because Lydia is desperate for the marriage thing and perhaps needs Milton or any guy for make Uche jealous or whatever is in that narcissistic head, she is a terrible friend and so manipulative, stalker, crazy.
    Love Milton but he seems naive, inmature and he is there because this is maybe the first time he is with a real woman and getting all the action he needs. 🤭
    Not seem then together in the long run 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @Chocolatesauce81
    @Chocolatesauce81 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Sorry but she was his last choice and when he becomes a grown man he will fee differently