“You’ll regret transitioning”

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  • čas přidán 17. 03. 2022
  • Ten year later and zero regrets. Transitioning saved my life and allowed me to be myself.

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  • @mamnun631
    @mamnun631 Před 2 lety +11250

    At least he managed to keep the red hoodie in good condition for 10 years

  • @Master_Conner
    @Master_Conner Před 2 lety +8166

    As a cis man, I am so glad that you were able to find joy and happiness in your true self, despite what people told you.

    • @spino-ace
      @spino-ace Před 2 lety +142

      Same!
      Good for you
      And f those ppl

    • @Master_Conner
      @Master_Conner Před 2 lety +121

      @@redberryterf Yeah, I’m a man, who happens to be cis.

    • @Jeltea
      @Jeltea Před 2 lety +114

      @@Kiwi_Teen that's not true tho, some people are born with both, what then? But lemme guess, the rules suddenly change when your proven wrong?

    • @EspeonMistress00
      @EspeonMistress00 Před 2 lety +126

      @@redberryterf And I am a women who happens to be cis.
      Also, "don't subcategories" or "no labels" type of people make me laugh.
      I guess adjectives should be banned now huh?
      What about nationality, ethnicity, race, jobs, social class, diabilities, etc etc. They are all meaningless and non existent now because you "don't want labels" ?

    • @pacegotlost89
      @pacegotlost89 Před 2 lety +122

      @@redberryterf saying someone is a cis man is the same as if you'd say he's a blond man. It's literally just an adjective lol

  • @ari-berry...
    @ari-berry... Před 6 měsíci +700

    i feel like the main transition here wasn’t the physical part, it was how you looked so so much happier and comfortable after

    • @BedyBARNARD
      @BedyBARNARD Před 6 měsíci +6

      You said it right. he looked cute as a woman though so pretty

    • @AiGenius-tr5bv
      @AiGenius-tr5bv Před 6 měsíci +36

      ​@@BedyBARNARDcan you read

    • @BedyBARNARD
      @BedyBARNARD Před 6 měsíci

      @@AiGenius-tr5bv I'm asking ya

    • @Bakedbean843
      @Bakedbean843 Před 6 měsíci +1

      That’s what transition is

    • @rosaarodriguez9968
      @rosaarodriguez9968 Před 5 měsíci

      Actually, she will never be a man...

  • @felixcatux
    @felixcatux Před 29 dny +18

    believe me or not conservatives will either still want this guy to go to the womens bathroom or just get confused and say ”youll never be a real woman” lol

    • @Fknweed
      @Fknweed Před 5 dny

      Pretty sure it's woman that don't want men in their bathrooms.....

    • @wildmanlopez9772
      @wildmanlopez9772 Před 3 dny +1

      This is a woman she will never be a man biology will not allow it

    • @cara-seyun
      @cara-seyun Před dnem

      @@Fknweednope. Polls say the majority of women are fine or neutral
      It’s the men who are more negative

  • @Hooty._.
    @Hooty._. Před rokem +5673

    Can we all talk about how he had the same red hoodie for 10 whole years and it still looks good?
    Edit: Guys I didn't want to start a war in the comments so can you pls stop texting comments? I wrote this almost a year ago and I still get notifications
    Edit: Guys please stop commenting things like "it's a she!!" it's his life and his decision
    Edit: I just got a comment saying "you don't have the authority to tell anyone what to do" like ok? I know that? Sorry if anybody felt that way tho,

    • @ducati3241
      @ducati3241 Před rokem +100

      Its a she.
      Wadya expect.
      Of course she knows how to maintain it.😆

    • @brisaquina8816
      @brisaquina8816 Před rokem +636

      @@ducati3241 uhm Jamie is a guy--

    • @Gladuos1
      @Gladuos1 Před rokem +463

      @@ducati3241 ur cringe

    • @asoupyferretnamedfar3634
      @asoupyferretnamedfar3634 Před rokem +262

      ​@@tigermeow2630 shut.

    • @Hooty._.
      @Hooty._. Před rokem +270

      @@ducati3241 He was born a girl but now its pretty obvios that he's a guy

  • @jadianwild1883
    @jadianwild1883 Před rokem +2721

    "You'll regret being happy!!"
    no tf i wont-

    • @alim.9801
      @alim.9801 Před rokem +181

      What I wonder is why people think it's their responsibility to manage other people's abstract regret 😮‍💨

    • @brightsmoke6106
      @brightsmoke6106 Před rokem +96

      Wait- people are actually happy!?!? Its not just a joke!?! My life is a lie!

    • @swearimnotarobot3746
      @swearimnotarobot3746 Před rokem +191

      Transitional surgery has a very small regret rate compared to similar elective surgeries. When these people say that you’ll regret it, they mean they’ll regret it. And they can’t figure out the most basic of facts, that you’re different people. Nothing they say is backed by evidence.

    • @calistafalcontail
      @calistafalcontail Před rokem +19

      No matter how much you lie to yourself now, it will haunt you....

    • @C.u.m_s.l.u.t
      @C.u.m_s.l.u.t Před rokem

      @@calistafalcontailhoney you lied to yourself about your failed marriage your age and your ugly ass skin marks because your insecure I tell people to truth about myself because I am better and no insecure like you

  • @frozenlillypad2070
    @frozenlillypad2070 Před 2 měsíci +79

    Turned from a boy to BIG MAN 👨❤

    • @X.L.X.V
      @X.L.X.V Před 9 dny

      From a girl to a boy 👍

    • @frozenlillypad2070
      @frozenlillypad2070 Před 9 dny +3

      ​@X.L.X.V He wasnt a girl at the start he was a boy before transitioning medically

    • @X.L.X.V
      @X.L.X.V Před 9 dny +1

      @@frozenlillypad2070 okay

    • @egg2520
      @egg2520 Před 8 dny +1

      That's a big man to you? Looks the same just has facial hair

    • @blazeingking2
      @blazeingking2 Před 5 dny

      ​@@X.L.X.VHe was never a girl... He was a boy born with a birth defect that presented as female genitals.... His heart and soul were always male.

  • @1bfnmusic1
    @1bfnmusic1 Před 8 měsíci +193

    I start Estrogen today. It was a 10 year journey just getting to this point. If anyone thinks I'm gonna regret this, they should look at themselves. Take all the shit that you regret and ask yourself why you do. Once you have that answer, you can then talk to me about what I'm "regretting".

    • @fuck_youtube_handles
      @fuck_youtube_handles Před 7 měsíci +14

      im so happy for you! how’s it been going since you started?

    • @sourdeez5558
      @sourdeez5558 Před 7 měsíci +21

      You'll regret it lol

    • @nawbruhawhellnaw
      @nawbruhawhellnaw Před 7 měsíci +17

      Weirdo… ew.

    • @d4-v1d22
      @d4-v1d22 Před 7 měsíci +11

      This guy seems happy after taking HRT. I hope you’re doing well!

    • @tyler2102
      @tyler2102 Před 7 měsíci

      You can even tell in this comment how weak and mentally insecure you are though. Hopefully you don’t lose yourself even more.

  • @unnaturalredhead1559
    @unnaturalredhead1559 Před rokem +1206

    My general stance on transition regret is “I don’t think I’ll regret it, and if I do then it’s my mistake to make, not yours.”

    • @tatiana4050
      @tatiana4050 Před rokem

      Like, they pretend gender dysphoria isn't real. That trans people should just accept to love their bodies and not change them... then they say you gonna regret irreversible changes... but I just heard gender dysphoria isn't real, why if I realise I'm wrong about being trans, regret my body not fitting my gender?

    • @frenchrevenge6406
      @frenchrevenge6406 Před rokem +60

      Literally

    • @RonSill1986
      @RonSill1986 Před rokem +47

      just take your time. this is one happy ending but not all end the same way. there's too many people that have influence in other people's decisions who aren't the right people to listen to. plus this young man is young and for some it takes years to regret it. find the right people.

    • @kaspianepps7946
      @kaspianepps7946 Před rokem +143

      @@RonSill1986 There are way more people who are happy they transitioned than regret it. And many people who detransition still identify as trans but struggled due to societal transphobia.
      Also he said it's 10 years since he started T (and he probably socially transitioned before that) so how long does someone have to have transitioned before you accept that it was the right decision for them?
      "find the right people" translation: find the people who agree with me who will try to convince you that transition is a terrible idea regardless of your circumstances.

    • @shaylamckay1174
      @shaylamckay1174 Před rokem +36

      @@RonSill1986 it often doesn’t take more than a few years to regret transitioning lol (from what I’ve heard from most transitioning it only took a a few months-2 years tops to have that “oh shit” moment)

  • @waitwhat6056
    @waitwhat6056 Před rokem +3357

    It's the change in his eyes for me. There was a quiet sadness before transition. After transition, those eyes and his entire face is litup with happiness.

    • @rabbit3212010
      @rabbit3212010 Před rokem +177

      I believe that is the best comment. Even the most cynical would have to acknowledge that.

    • @PhaythGaming
      @PhaythGaming Před rokem +96

      @@rabbit3212010 nope. Most cynical would say just chose photos he likes that make him look good to pretend like he’s happier to justify a bad decision. I don’t believe that. But I was far right wing for almost 10 years and I can tell you that’s exactly what my old buddies woulda said.

    • @junetime_panic
      @junetime_panic Před rokem +40

      Fun fact: humans can accurately determine several factors in the face for mood. Of course, some are not able to do this well or at all.

    • @theaveragecomment1014
      @theaveragecomment1014 Před rokem

      @@junetime_panic Yeah me, I wish I could identify emotions well. I think I can in certain situations but I definitely have to learn it instead of intuitively know it. Autistic btw so that likely plays apart. Tho obv not all autistic people would be the same as me lol

    • @arrowfinnegan
      @arrowfinnegan Před rokem +88

      Bro there’s a chick arguing with me on one of my comments about trans surgery saying he’s mentally ill
      Mf, the World Health Organization doesn’t even consider him mentally ill, tf are you on about
      Jamie’s happy now, people just don’t like it

  • @Holier_cafe
    @Holier_cafe Před 5 měsíci +59

    Blud is more handsome than me,goddamn

    • @mikoajp7321
      @mikoajp7321 Před 4 měsíci

      Fr

    • @qwertyuiop2161
      @qwertyuiop2161 Před 4 měsíci

      its called lots anad lots of surgery.

    • @Holier_cafe
      @Holier_cafe Před 4 měsíci +1

      @qwertyuiop2161 he only had br,what are you on

    • @qwertyuiop2161
      @qwertyuiop2161 Před 4 měsíci

      @@Holier_cafe that and she also had lots of hormone replacement therapy, which isnt surgery but still very much artificial.

    • @harryfucker1988
      @harryfucker1988 Před 4 měsíci +1

      it's a woman what did you expect? 😒

  • @barbscale
    @barbscale Před 9 měsíci +318

    Man's living his best life, hell yeah!

    • @SixShots5
      @SixShots5 Před 9 měsíci

      Would love to see this man get a woman pregnant

    • @steveo0127
      @steveo0127 Před 8 měsíci +25

      Yea drug make you your true authentic self spoken like a true drug addict

    • @sashathedonut
      @sashathedonut Před 8 měsíci

      @@steveo0127theyre happy though, and theyre healthy
      also the docter prescribed them this

    • @Mushroom._.Goblin
      @Mushroom._.Goblin Před 8 měsíci +41

      ​@@steveo0127yeah and antidepressants helping people means we're junkies lmao

    • @birkrock
      @birkrock Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@islmic879oh no, a person being happy about their decision and who they decided to be? disaster!

  • @danielfenton4230
    @danielfenton4230 Před 2 lety +2705

    He's genuinely so handsome fr...

    • @Weeb_editz92
      @Weeb_editz92 Před rokem +107

      nah

    • @abcxyz-dp4rl
      @abcxyz-dp4rl Před rokem +222

      @@Weeb_editz92 it happens, Some people just don’t like men with mustaches and beards, It’s all down to taste and preference. Ur taste / preference is still valid.

    • @ArtsyKnox25
      @ArtsyKnox25 Před rokem +118

      @@Weeb_editz92 he's still a valid man, even if u don't think he's handsome. That's down to your own prefrences. U do u man.

    • @GatlingGunEnthusiast
      @GatlingGunEnthusiast Před rokem +48

      @@ArtsyKnox25 he said one word, don't get pressed lol

    • @werewolfrosenberg
      @werewolfrosenberg Před rokem +67

      @@GatlingGunEnthusiast based on your comment history you’re the only one getting pressed

  • @GoddessOfThree
    @GoddessOfThree Před 2 lety +3001

    They think you'll regret it because they would regret it. Because... well, they're not trans. They can't get out of their own heads and fathom that any life experience might be genuinely different than their own, and not just a "delusion" or "phase". It's literally just the epitome of egocentrism.

    • @trueblueflare
      @trueblueflare Před 2 lety +128

      Very well said!

    • @Screamingcryingvisibllyshaking
      @Screamingcryingvisibllyshaking Před 2 lety +86

      Exactly! I literally couldn’t have explained it better. Good job.

    • @pheonixrises11
      @pheonixrises11 Před 2 lety +82

      you see it on a minor scale, too. I might get shocked or a bit defensive if someone hasn’t seen a movie I like or they didn’t like it, but many people can act insulted or that it’s “factually incorrect” to have a different opinion because sympathizing with a different viewpoint can be very hard. That’s not to say anyone that gets insulted over this is a bad person, it can just be a way of expressing how important that piece of media is to them. But it shows how common it is to think one’s opinions and feelings are the “correct” ones when meeting others that feel differently.

    • @keeprkyd
      @keeprkyd Před 2 lety +18

      so well said

    • @crystalh4016
      @crystalh4016 Před 2 lety +48

      I know 3 people who have detransisioned, and I'm only 1 person. It's not an invalid concern. I know people who are definitely better off, and have had the opportunity to become their truest self through transitioning, but I'm not Gunna pretend it's some magical solution. It's a complicated issue, and should be addressed as such so that all people with dismorphia, or any other identity or self esteem issues can truly be supported

  • @Ben4Life792
    @Ben4Life792 Před 8 měsíci +214

    its funny how if the transphobes didnt know he was trans theyd not say a thing💀 Thats why most people just keep quiet about being trans and only share their stories with close ones

    • @blobbertmcblob4888
      @blobbertmcblob4888 Před 7 měsíci

      Until you pull the pants down and realize there's still a vagina.

    • @LuneMoonChild
      @LuneMoonChild Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@robbythecubanHe. that is a full ass man are you blind

    • @Justajokebro
      @Justajokebro Před 7 měsíci +13

      @@robbythecuban*him

    • @-Tomarrystan-
      @-Tomarrystan- Před 7 měsíci +13

      @@robbythecubanhe* jamie is a trans guy which means he transitioned into a guy though he personally has said on his channel that hes always felt like a guy even when he had the 'body of a woman'. or whatever that means. so just to correct you and spread information in a positive way.

    • @tyler2102
      @tyler2102 Před 7 měsíci +8

      @@-Tomarrystan- how could she know she had the body of a guy though ? Maybe she felt nothing like how men actually feel. She wouldn’t know. It’s all just delusion and Jamie is literally using it to build a career for herself. It’s madness.

  • @weevil8025
    @weevil8025 Před 9 měsíci +122

    This channel makes me sad because there's so many hate watchers viewing it. I'm just a cis guy trying to understand the trans community and the more I learn, the more I lose faith in humanity. Why is it such a big deal to you transphobes? There are so many articles and studies online which suggest gender-affirming care is the 'cure' for transgender people, not forcing them to live as the gender that causes them dysphoria. I say we should just let people live as the gender they feel comfortable with. I would hate to be forced to live as a woman, and I'm sure it's even worse for this man.

    • @So-ef2ef
      @So-ef2ef Před 9 měsíci +1

      (you) Based gigachad trying to understand people and accept them VS (them) crying virgins who are miserable with themselves and everything around them that doesnt follow their flawed religious cult while they spew misinformation and wrong statistics

    • @dnzozo
      @dnzozo Před 9 měsíci +21

      Thank you for taking your time to do research, unlike many of these people here who try to argue without knowing about the topic.

    • @michaelcapcino4907
      @michaelcapcino4907 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Understanding is knowing you don’t need to an extra word to know your actual gender.

    • @seth7745
      @seth7745 Před 7 měsíci +6

      Just because someone disagrees with you doesn’t mean they hate you.

    • @seth7745
      @seth7745 Před 7 měsíci +8

      @@michaelcapcino4907 No, but there are words like "woman" that have a verry specific meaning. It's literally a human with a womb. Its in the word itself. This is why people get mad, becasue they twist language. A "birthing person" is a woman . No need to invent new language. many woman find this insulting and rightfully so.

  • @leonienuhn4571
    @leonienuhn4571 Před 2 lety +1604

    my gf is trans and she recently started her transition
    she's mtf and couldn't transition until now because of some past health issues, I'm so happy for her
    love you darling😘

    • @nealgamby
      @nealgamby Před rokem +123

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂🤣

    • @bigsbee7416
      @bigsbee7416 Před rokem +219

      @@nealgamby whats funny about this comment? /srs

    • @nealgamby
      @nealgamby Před rokem +106

      @@bigsbee7416 the entirety of it

    • @bigsbee7416
      @bigsbee7416 Před rokem +195

      @@nealgamby transphobic?

    • @steveheimlerfanpage
      @steveheimlerfanpage Před rokem +185

      That makes me really happy. I hope you’re both doing great!

  • @catz_circus
    @catz_circus Před rokem +594

    How you managed to keep that hoodie in amazing condition is a mystery to me

    • @Soarfloh
      @Soarfloh Před rokem +3

      ​@user-tm8fz3vw7z"👴"

    • @eggsandwich5728
      @eggsandwich5728 Před rokem +9

      @GB Lee The illness you may be referring to is gender dysphoria, and it can be ‘cured’ by transitioning which can help match a transgender person’s gender identity with their gender expression.

    • @eggsandwich5728
      @eggsandwich5728 Před rokem +7

      @GB Lee so no, transgender people do not think that transitioning is a fun game

    • @Soarfloh
      @Soarfloh Před rokem +2

      @user-tm8fz3vw7z do you just spend all your time in the reply sections of trans youtube videos 😐

    • @Soarfloh
      @Soarfloh Před rokem +2

      @user-tm8fz3vw7z When the majority objects everything you're saying, it won't make you look like the hero at all, just move on with your life, im sure there's better things to do than type out paragraphs in reply sections to "educate" kids, you're just wasting you time.

  • @Doodlebuggy347
    @Doodlebuggy347 Před 7 měsíci +84

    He looks happier, more comfortable and confident, and has no regrets. God made us to be happy, and live a full life of no regrets. Not to be miserable and ashamed of are body. He’s proud of you.

    • @irxosm1
      @irxosm1 Před 7 měsíci +14

      Finally a christian ally lets goo

    • @o11iepdragoon32
      @o11iepdragoon32 Před 7 měsíci +6

      @@irxosm1woooooh let’s gooooo

    • @robbythecuban
      @robbythecuban Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@irxosm1 Not to be rude, but using the word “God“ doesn’t make somebody a Christian. God did not create us “to be happy and live a full life of no regrets”; that notion is ludicrous, and not found anywhere in the Bible.
      God created Man to know Him and therefore love Him; to worship and glorify Him, serve Him, and to do His will. A Christian would know that.
      As stated in Genesis 1:27, “So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.”
      We were made in His image and likeness, as male and female; aside from the obvious and self-evident truth that a woman can never become a man (and vice versa), it is an affront to God to presume otherwise about His creation.
      And it is the purest arrogance to assert that God is “proud” of a person who has committed blasphemy by attempting to do so.
      A Christian would know all of this.
      So there is no such thing as a “Christian ally”, because a person who asserts otherwise is no more a Christian than this woman is a man.

    • @blobbertmcblob4888
      @blobbertmcblob4888 Před 7 měsíci +2

      No, actually, God wants us to be miserable as hell. (pun intended) because otherwise we would have never been given "free will" in order to be the way we are. If God wanted us to be happy, then we'd all be living in a Utopia with no crime, plenty of friends, unlimited access to everything. But that's a cardinal sin, right?
      I'm not even religious and I have a better grasp on what "god" is than Religious people do.

    • @jdaway1962
      @jdaway1962 Před 7 měsíci

      Amen

  • @Minconproxy
    @Minconproxy Před 9 měsíci +240

    It's so nice to watch people pursue personal happiness

    • @Topatos-dg4ud
      @Topatos-dg4ud Před 9 měsíci +1

      @user-op8lh8nr8iyou are what’s wrong with the world

    • @spacewanderer9
      @spacewanderer9 Před 8 měsíci +4

      41%

    • @chrisnotpratt1903
      @chrisnotpratt1903 Před 7 měsíci +11

      ​@@spacewanderer9 bro, you act like you're 12 or something.

    • @Mysocksaresour
      @Mysocksaresour Před 7 měsíci

      thats a fake statistic lmao@@spacewanderer9

    • @leonardopantano5220
      @leonardopantano5220 Před 7 měsíci

      Transition shouldn't be something that makes you Happy, but something you have to do to have the possibility to be happy

  • @SilentMeteorite
    @SilentMeteorite Před 2 lety +1683

    Transitioning has saved my life, full stop.

    • @BigGayIncorporated
      @BigGayIncorporated Před 2 lety +125

      same here

    • @fly1ngf0x
      @fly1ngf0x Před 2 lety +148

      I can’t afford to fully Transition but I’ll feel the same way!

    • @jaredofmo
      @jaredofmo Před 2 lety +130

      @@fly1ngf0x I'm happy you're still here! Sending you a hug over the internet!

    • @evrton
      @evrton Před 2 lety +51

      me too

    • @NatureLover-pj2qe
      @NatureLover-pj2qe Před 2 lety +45

      Same here

  • @julieannu
    @julieannu Před 2 lety +803

    I think Jamie does look male before testosterone. The testosterone helps the body align with who he already was

    • @Gwrather
      @Gwrather Před rokem +1

      She… you can’t change your gender, God made us perfectly and there’s nothing you can do to change your gender

    • @julieannu
      @julieannu Před rokem +72

      @@Gwrather I don’t think it’s like changing your gender. It’s like you are a gender but you’ve been given the wrong body. Imagine being who you are but finding you have a body that doesn’t match that

    • @Gwrather
      @Gwrather Před rokem +31

      God wouldn’t put you in the wrong body, he doesn’t make mistakes

    • @jihancafe
      @jihancafe Před rokem +76

      @@Gwrather most trans people don't even like that term lmfao

    • @ilomilogrunge3407
      @ilomilogrunge3407 Před rokem

      @@Gwrather The main shit Christian’s teach is that God will give “trials,” whether that test is to break you down physically or mentally, you are meant to always pass “God’s trials” or whatever. Haven’t you ever at least thought that God purposefully put a man in a woman’s body? That this is one of “God’s trials?” Now, I’m not religious at all, but Christianity is something that was forced upon me, so I know God is supposed to be love, and Christianity should spread that love, not shitting on people’s experiences because you don’t understand it. I’m sure you haven’t even looked up what it means to be trans and the actual science behind it. Don’t use your God’s name to shield your ignorance. You’re using God’s name in vain.

  • @KaydenDoesMC1
    @KaydenDoesMC1 Před 10 měsíci +169

    Transphobs when he said “no regrets”: 🫨😱😱😡😱😱🫨😱😱😡😡😱😱🫨🫨😱😱😡😡😱😱😱😱🫨🫨😱😱😱😡

    • @damoondagoat
      @damoondagoat Před 7 měsíci +14

      cringe

    • @elliot22131
      @elliot22131 Před 7 měsíci +19

      @@damoondagoat the truth is cringe? (No)

    • @yanleclerc160
      @yanleclerc160 Před 7 měsíci

      You are just looking for a hateful person to hate you need major attention

    • @craigcombes
      @craigcombes Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@elliot22131 lmao look at the state of you? 😂 Listen you're alone you don't feel worthy you don't feel like you don't belong it doesn't mean you should change sex lmao😂

    • @ChuckBeenKinky91
      @ChuckBeenKinky91 Před 7 měsíci

      un alive rate from T-gender people : 32% - 50% 🤡

  • @teissi
    @teissi Před 27 dny +13

    He got a whole glowup!❤

  • @felvkitties8
    @felvkitties8 Před rokem +328

    One thing that strikes me is that in a lot of pictures pre transition Jamie just looks sad or uncomfortable. Whereas after his transition he looks so happy. Hope all people can get that happiness

    • @Cyber489
      @Cyber489 Před rokem +31

      ​@@Sss-nj9ur you realize he's had an actual surgery right? And, why would somebody alter their entire self just to fake being happy on the internet?

    • @tonyweaver2353
      @tonyweaver2353 Před rokem +2

      ​@@Cyber489 wait what? How. They just turned her hoo hoo dilly inside out and put some cartilage in it? No thanks man, I would rather not risk that, that is so risky just to be comfortable with who you are. Sounds more like a mindset issue than a physical one. I mean we all need to stop trying to be like other people were not even good at being ourselves.

    • @UrLocalTransGem
      @UrLocalTransGem Před rokem +37

      @@tonyweaver2353 tell me you haven’t done your research, without telling me you haven’t done your research.

    • @jewels3846
      @jewels3846 Před rokem

      ​@@tonyweaver2353
      Why does it matter to you? No one is telling you to be trans and transition.
      But for him it was life saving because in his mind his body was wrong.
      Science has shown trans brains actually tend to be similar to the gender they identify than are born as which makes the fact trans people exist not only natural and normal but understandable why they can not just stop being trans.
      It isnt a 1:1 anaolgy but I am asexual.
      I feel 0 sexual attraction to anyone. But i didnt know that was a thing until I was 21 and that it was okay. I convinced myself i must be bisexual because i was attracted to everyone the same even though no one was actually attractive to me sexually.
      Because i didnt know it was normal to not feel attraction, when i didnt have the same feelings and experiences as my peers I felt broken and like a failure of a human.
      I let myself stay in abusive relationships because I thought I deserved it and struggled to understand that my boundaries still mattered when clearly I was broken and therefore undeserving
      When i learned asexuality was a thing a normal it was a lightbulb and like a weight was lifted off my shoulders.
      I felt Asexual my entire life just without a word for it, learning about it did not make me ace but gave me words for it.
      People are going after trans people as if it is a fad and a phase. It isnt, people just are finding words for it and more ability and acceptance to recognize who they are and be supported before it mentally hurts them.
      No one transitions for the hell of it.
      And less than 1% on average detransition
      And of that 1% some of them are due to financial loss of access to HRT and care, or through hostile environments/lack of support/harrassment making the 1% not even fully just people who regretted it.
      It is so hard to get the support to transition. The care is hard to access/stupid expensive/long term
      People are publicly transphobic and think it is okay to bully, harrass, threaten and even assault trans people just for existing outside
      No one. And I mean No. One. Puts themselved through that kind of life of social fear and stigma/retaliation for fun.

    • @bears_fan-_-
      @bears_fan-_- Před rokem +2

      her

  • @KyleRayner12
    @KyleRayner12 Před 2 lety +2992

    "You'll regret transitioning."
    *Dr. Cox voice:* "Wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong!"

    • @nekusakura6748
      @nekusakura6748 Před 2 lety +51

      Another Fitting Scrubs Quote:
      "NOT GONNA HAPPEN, NO NOT GONNA HAPPEN! YEAH !"

    •  Před 2 lety +21

      "you're wrong, you're wrong"..
      😂😂😂

    • @squeaktheswan2007
      @squeaktheswan2007 Před 2 lety +10

      His name sounds like he'd specialize in ftm bottom surgery, so it works here. You know, because Dr. Cox. I'll see myself out.

    • @michelle-ve3jb
      @michelle-ve3jb Před 2 lety +5

      To the tune of Big Ben 😂

    • @baz9913
      @baz9913 Před 2 lety +17

      @@squeaktheswan2007 i guess if dr Cox transitioned he'd be Dr Nocox

  • @JustAlice.J
    @JustAlice.J Před 2 měsíci +45

    STARTED ESTROGEN TODAY!!!! 🎉🎉🎉

    • @veraithy
      @veraithy Před 2 měsíci +10

      W for starting estrogen

    • @apolloismydad
      @apolloismydad Před 2 měsíci +9

      you go queennn

    • @Amy12435
      @Amy12435 Před 2 měsíci +2

      @Ostrava_Of_Boletariayou’re an insult to the human race. What a waste of fucking oxygen.

    • @Joker.772
      @Joker.772 Před 2 měsíci +5

      Amazing hope it's going well

    • @IHaveACoolSuit
      @IHaveACoolSuit Před 2 měsíci +5

      wow! you go girl!

  • @user-pg7hn2py5y
    @user-pg7hn2py5y Před měsícem +6

    Realize the look of him at the beginning and then starting testosterone and being happier and then being happiest at the end fully transitioned. Also guys respect him and stop with the rude as hell comments. And dont say stuff like "dont tell me how to live my life" like dont be an asshole and learn manners. Ive struggled with gender identity and finally being able to live that fully is amazing even with peoples inability to be accepting

    • @Truthtellor-vh4ke
      @Truthtellor-vh4ke Před 21 dnem

      ... There is no proof that it was ever a female to begin with you gotta realize that the deep state controls everything...😎😎😎😎😎😎😎crisis actors...sandy hook...vaccines

  • @hairtie3859
    @hairtie3859 Před 2 lety +1105

    I love it when transphobes only focus on the people who detransitioned and not on the ones that transitioned successfully

    • @andysgacha-3-
      @andysgacha-3- Před rokem +129

      Fr like no one cares if 1% of transgender people detransitioned, you don't even know the reason. We should be focusing on the like 99% who happily transitioned and have no regrets :)

    • @elliotmydude
      @elliotmydude Před rokem +147

      @@andysgacha-3- also, a very large majority of people who detransition do so because the people around them are transphobic, or because they can't afford HRT anymore. So even if you focus on detransitioners it still doesn't work for their arguments.

    • @user-ji7vn1ps8j
      @user-ji7vn1ps8j Před rokem

      @@elliotmydude you do realise suicide rates and depression amongst transgender and similar people is literally sky high compared to any other group of people lol so you're argument clearly don't work, 99% of these people are NOT happy clearly... statistics literally prove you both wrong lol

    • @user-ji7vn1ps8j
      @user-ji7vn1ps8j Před rokem +10

      @@andysgacha-3- ^^^^^

    • @notyassine9677
      @notyassine9677 Před rokem +18

      bcz its rare for transitions to sucsess

  • @CamrynsCameras
    @CamrynsCameras Před 2 lety +790

    this makes me even more excited to transition once i’m out of my transphobic family situation

  • @soft_fuzzy_man
    @soft_fuzzy_man Před 10 měsíci +22

    he went from a boy to a man

  • @Alex.The.Lionnnnn
    @Alex.The.Lionnnnn Před 9 měsíci +29

    Not happy about you looking more masculine and attractive than me, but I suppose I can look past it this one time. 😂😂

  • @Sly-Moose
    @Sly-Moose Před 2 lety +278

    They're just mad that other people get to be happy while they're not

    • @inzanity490
      @inzanity490 Před 2 lety +68

      Yeah, why do they care so much that a trans person might regret their transition or not? It has absolutely no impact on these people's lives. Instead, they should focus on their own damn life decisions that they might end up regretting because it actually affects them, and not some completely different person's decision to change sexes.

    • @haruhisuzumiya6650
      @haruhisuzumiya6650 Před 2 lety +1

      Bino

    • @haruhisuzumiya6650
      @haruhisuzumiya6650 Před 2 lety +7

      @@inzanity490 and because misery likes company

    • @billcipher8645
      @billcipher8645 Před 2 lety +26

      @GeForce 1030 Benchmarks good for you!

    • @Sly-Moose
      @Sly-Moose Před 2 lety

      @@Dont-worry1618 Open your eyes! There's nearly 8 billion humans on the planet! The only future we need to worry about is nuclear war! This dude acting like billions of people are gonna instantly stop being straight and disappear just because a few million are something else. News flash, bi and pan couples can conceive babies together too, and other forms of couples. XD YOU just wanna be hateful cuz you like controlling others. u-u Just saying it like it is.

  • @monkeconleche
    @monkeconleche Před 2 lety +3006

    ”Yes Samatha I know detransitoners is a thing, but thats only 2% compared to the 50% divorce rate thats prety good. I mean yours is at 100% and if a third man asked you you’d still say yes”
    Passed 1k likes?!, I’m running from home. Mother, I don’t need you anymore I’m famous byeeeeee

    • @monkeconleche
      @monkeconleche Před 2 lety +195

      @@annas4843 marriage is supposed to be life altering isent it? Spending the rest of your life with someone special? Yeah you get a divorce, yeah it’s reversable. But it’s supposed to change your life. Hormones are almost completely revesable as well, transitioning is supposed to be life altering but doesn’t have to be. Just like marriage.
      And no one is mutilating their leg purposely

    • @annas4843
      @annas4843 Před 2 lety

      @@monkeconleche how is marriage reversible? 😂😂 you sign a divorce, you don’t undo the marriage, that’s not an option, what is done is done.
      Are joking when you say hormones are reversible? Which part? The sterilisation? The deepening for the voice for women? The facial hair growth for women? The breast growth for men? These are not reversible…
      Or you expect a woman will grow breasts once they are cut off? Or she will grow new ovaries once she removes them?
      Or you believe men grow penises once they cut them off like lizards 🦎 grow back their tail?

    • @nauuuurrrrr
      @nauuuurrrrr Před 2 lety +56

      DAMN I'm using that thank you

    • @vincentreyes4332
      @vincentreyes4332 Před 2 lety +195

      "furthermore Samantha, most of the people de-transition because they found out that they are non-binary"
      (that's what I've heard at least)

    • @monkeconleche
      @monkeconleche Před 2 lety +80

      @@vincentreyes4332 ding-ding-ding you are correct

  • @lastscorpion3107
    @lastscorpion3107 Před 8 měsíci +48

    He was always a boy and now he is an even more beautiful man, this is amazing

    • @Gloveboxgamer
      @Gloveboxgamer Před 8 měsíci +2

      👍

    • @aci1968
      @aci1968 Před 7 měsíci +4

      I was always a cat 😂😂😂😂

    • @MissLadyG99
      @MissLadyG99 Před 7 měsíci

      That person is a female. Females aren't boys or men.

    • @seth7745
      @seth7745 Před 7 měsíci

      @@aci1968 I dont know what I am, but I know that i need to find a real woman if I want to conceive a child because i have sperm but no eggs or a womb. Womb human woman. I think thats what that means.

    • @Shawblade
      @Shawblade Před 7 měsíci

      Keep dreaming buddy

  • @diealovesveggies1762
    @diealovesveggies1762 Před 8 měsíci +71

    People act like we don't make life changing decisions that we could later regret every day. Im so happy you are living your best life in a body that makes YOU happy. We are the only ones that have to look ourselves in the mirror at the end of every day. We are the longest commitment we will ever make. You deserve to be happy.

    • @Chrisa-qp1mw
      @Chrisa-qp1mw Před 6 měsíci

      Loser

    • @FirstNameLastName-wt5to
      @FirstNameLastName-wt5to Před 6 měsíci +7

      Cutting off healthy body parts, removing healthy organs, sterilization, and a lifetime commitment to pharmaceutical interventions is way beyond the kinds of decisions we make every day.

    • @Itsdasummer32
      @Itsdasummer32 Před 5 měsíci +2

      12 year olds drinking alcohol is ok?
      10 year olds doing plastic surgery is ok? Can a 9 year old own a gun?

    • @Hermione_Granger
      @Hermione_Granger Před 5 měsíci +8

      ​​@@Itsdasummer32what? Of course not, what are you even talking about? Your comment has nothing to do with the vid

    • @JamieNoah638
      @JamieNoah638 Před 5 měsíci +7

      ​@@Itsdasummer32none of those have anything to do with being trans. You're just pulling a strawman.

  • @b.artventurous634
    @b.artventurous634 Před 2 lety +872

    Everyone is like "oh, that's so cool, you're so handsome etc." Am I the only one staring at the pictures with red hoodie and feeling like I REALLY need to know if it is the same one, only washed out after years?

    • @Poppy_pop
      @Poppy_pop Před 2 lety +18

      It is definitely the same one

    • @b.artventurous634
      @b.artventurous634 Před 2 lety +26

      @@Poppy_pop Are you sure, though? Cause I'm only like 95% sure. xD Having the same hoodie for 10 years is definitely impressive.

    • @nancygilmour1941
      @nancygilmour1941 Před 2 lety +21

      I'm pretty sure it is because I remember him saying that in a video

    • @b.artventurous634
      @b.artventurous634 Před 2 lety +10

      @@nancygilmour1941 That's the kind of news I've been looking for. Thank you!

    • @taranullius9221
      @taranullius9221 Před 2 lety +7

      I still have a Puma tracksuit jacket that was my Mums from the 1970s. I also have this little orange parka that was hers when she was younger, then I wore it as a kid then I coopted it again as an adult as a cute little jacket. Times changed man. We used to use clothes for generations.

  • @feveryn889
    @feveryn889 Před rokem +259

    For a second I thought the title was “You’ll regret transforming” 💀

  • @MoistressPlz
    @MoistressPlz Před 2 měsíci +13

    I'm two years into hrt, no regrets. I'm happy as I am, getting laser hair removal, have partners that accept the parts I have, and have no plans for surgery beyond a BA :p

    • @bread015
      @bread015 Před 2 měsíci

      You are pretty messed up!

    • @Stardipped_Paws
      @Stardipped_Paws Před 2 měsíci +3

      ​@@bread015How tho

    • @waffles2450
      @waffles2450 Před 2 měsíci +2

      Aaaack lucky!! I can’t wait to get on HRT to start looking like a man!! Four more years 😢

    • @hmmmmnothanks
      @hmmmmnothanks Před 2 měsíci +1

      @@bread015you’re literally bread

    • @bread015
      @bread015 Před 2 měsíci

      @@hmmmmnothanks does my pfp actually matter💀💀

  • @PunkMarioBros
    @PunkMarioBros Před 8 měsíci +9

    To be honest, I don’t understand how people think they can guess that someone is trans, you look like most cis men I know

    • @nathanielkimpan4825
      @nathanielkimpan4825 Před 8 měsíci +4

      its weird he looks like a cis man even when pre transition but I have seen many cis women that also looked like he did pre transition is this what they call androgynous?

    • @spectscrawlz_
      @spectscrawlz_ Před 6 měsíci +1

      ​​@@nathanielkimpan4825i think it's bc since this whole "trans people are controversial" ordeal people (especially transphobes who look for any excuse) became obsessed with categorizing other people in "you look like this gender" boxes when they just forget that...humans are humans!...and biology's unpredictable...and there can be 2 people with different sex characteristics that look pretty much the same.
      The human body, folks! Truly a fascinating thing.

  • @HaleyJo1992
    @HaleyJo1992 Před 2 lety +473

    I'm not even LGBTQA and this makes me happy cry. I'm so happy modern medicine makes this possible.

    • @anushka3668
      @anushka3668 Před 2 lety +4

      @@libertarianconstantinei186 you don't have to believe in trans ppl but don't call it bs. if something makes a person happy, we shouldn't stop them. also comparing trans surgery to cancer is like comparing apples and oranges. have a good day!

    • @isaacfazekas9672
      @isaacfazekas9672 Před 2 lety +51

      @@libertarianconstantinei186 damn, imagine if we lived in a world where multiple things can happen at the same time! Wouldn’t that be awesome? Shame we have to choose one or the other, cancer research or transition research. Maybe one day we’ll be able to develop ways to help a bunch of different people struggling with a bunch of different things. Choosing between trans issues and non trans issues is totally a valid dichotomy!

    • @libertarianconstantinei186
      @libertarianconstantinei186 Před 2 lety +1

      I’m just hearing simple ‘yes man’ bullsh*t that’s leading to complete idiocy in mainstream society that just continues to devalue and stagnate genuine development in critical areas of science/biology where it’s needed most.

    • @isaacfazekas9672
      @isaacfazekas9672 Před 2 lety +6

      @@libertarianconstantinei186 are you actually concerned about issues holding up development in science, so you dug further into figuring out what’s holding everything up, and came to the conclusion that so many resources are being pooled into giving trans people hrt that there aren’t enough people and funds to do other things? Or are you just pulling in any possible excuse to be against trans people? I promise you, of all the things threatening scientific development, trans people are the thing you should be least worried about.

    • @roxirock5455
      @roxirock5455 Před 2 lety

      @@libertarianconstantinei186 yea good idea because if we stop people from transitioning then all the medics and surgeons that used to do that can go and try to cure an illness in wich they aren't appointed for,they know verry little of and basically have no expertiz,did you think all doctors study the same domain??!!?That's like me saying god I wished all old people WODE just sort their pills by themselfs so all the pharmacists coude go and cure cancer,gee doesn't that sound smart

  • @JTNvm
    @JTNvm Před 2 lety +649

    "You'll regret getting a tattoo when you're 80 and it's wrinkly!" "So? I'll still have enjoyed it until then :) "

    • @SartorialDragon
      @SartorialDragon Před 2 lety +57

      what a great answer & way to view it!!
      Never regret anything if it gave you joy and did not cause harm :)

    • @StudlyFudd13
      @StudlyFudd13 Před 2 lety +59

      Old people with tattoos are bad ass lookin!

    • @Aerodumb
      @Aerodumb Před 2 lety +58

      Hey. I had an idea. Get a tattoo of a grape. When you turn 80, it will be a raisin :D

    • @libertarianconstantinei186
      @libertarianconstantinei186 Před 2 lety +2

      What a sh*t mindset. You might as well do loads of drugs and destroy your system because ‘hey I can have fun and enjoyment now, who cares about tomorrow’. Grow the f up.

    • @MEOWMIX3DS
      @MEOWMIX3DS Před 2 lety +4

      @@libertarianconstantinei186 tattoos and drugs arent the same lmao

  • @Kyle___Broflovski
    @Kyle___Broflovski Před 3 měsíci +17

    Mans even doing that awkward thumbs up pose that every guy I know does. Good on him, lmao

  • @thatgamerbitch24
    @thatgamerbitch24 Před 8 měsíci +20

    Dude, you look insanely good!

  • @yoonminssi
    @yoonminssi Před 2 lety +491

    i really hope i get to this point. im still awaiting my third appointment with my gic and im honestly still so excited to start my medical transition even after waiting for 4 years. its really nice to see other trans men with happy transitions

  • @tsarfox3462
    @tsarfox3462 Před 2 lety +449

    I'm going to be starting HRT soon. I can't wait to finally be the woman I always should have been.

    • @overdramaticpan
      @overdramaticpan Před 2 lety +79

      Wooo! You go girl!

    • @kazikek2674
      @kazikek2674 Před 2 lety +82

      Congrats! I hope your body turns out to be a comfy room for your mind real soon. Good luck going forward.

    • @confused_queer6017
      @confused_queer6017 Před 2 lety +23

      Super happy for ya queen! Here is Ur crown 👑 (^∇^)ノ♪

    • @SourLemonsOfficial
      @SourLemonsOfficial Před 2 lety +40

      Whooooooo! Hello my fellow sister!

    • @voiddarkness3308
      @voiddarkness3308 Před 2 lety +34

      I hope it goes well!!!

  • @simonjriley
    @simonjriley Před měsícem +4

    This made me tear up. I’m on week 8. I’m so ready to look and sound like myself. To get top surgery to be me. I want to hurry up and live

  • @user-rc7im1ff5n
    @user-rc7im1ff5n Před 26 dny +4

    I've been trying to start testosterone for almost a month and a half now but my doctor keeps messing up the prescription so it isn't covered by insurance ;-; I hate the U.S. Medical system

  • @Iheartyourmother69
    @Iheartyourmother69 Před 2 lety +145

    "You'll regret name changing"
    "you'll regret not being with (different gender)"
    "You'll regret transitioning"
    these are NOT okay things to say, and if you say them to somebody who is in a same-sex relationship, is getting a name change, or is currently transitioning in a serious manner than you need to leave, that is not and is never okay.
    (also if you say "no kids? your parents would be disappointed." yes I mean that, my bloodline ends here.)

    • @joda7697
      @joda7697 Před 2 lety +2

      tiny thing, please say "different gender" because "opposite" implies a pure gender binary and excludes nonbinary people

    • @Iheartyourmother69
      @Iheartyourmother69 Před 2 lety +1

      ​@@joda7697 I am literally non-binary, but I have changed the comment, I was tired at the time of writing that so-

    • @joda7697
      @joda7697 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Iheartyourmother69
      so am i (nonbinary, not tired)
      it happens
      i always point it out so people who don't know are made aware of it

    • @Iheartyourmother69
      @Iheartyourmother69 Před 2 lety +2

      @@joda7697 alright, thank you for pointing it out!

    • @hellothere3693
      @hellothere3693 Před 2 lety

      LGBTQ: Land of Great Britain and her Territories with the Queen. IA+: In Addition to the prime minister +.

  • @fandombat3074
    @fandombat3074 Před 2 lety +3009

    Jamie you could be a model the last picture amazing 🤩❤️

  • @prudentreality
    @prudentreality Před 2 měsíci +5

    I didn’t realize it was Jammi at first!! I was like, “Wait…I know that smile…” Yup! I do!!

  • @EmperorMoth
    @EmperorMoth Před 9 měsíci +19

    so proud of you

  • @rainingwhenidie
    @rainingwhenidie Před 2 lety +501

    As a (kinda) closeted trans dude I'm hoping this happens soon lmao. On one hand, it always makes me happy seeing trans guys living their best lives and being happy in their transition. On the other hand: god I wish that were me 💀💀💀

    • @leopardsun
      @leopardsun Před 2 lety +18

      Hey, hope everything goes well for you! I'm sure you'll reach a place where you're happy with yourself eventually :)

    • @SquirrelNutkins
      @SquirrelNutkins Před 2 lety +10

      We’re here for you on your journey

    • @the.comfort.system
      @the.comfort.system Před 2 lety +7

      As a fellow trans boy I wish you luck on your journey

    • @justkris2374
      @justkris2374 Před 2 lety +7

      Good luck on your journey!

    • @LunaProtogen
      @LunaProtogen Před 2 lety +6

      Trans girl here and yepppp I feel this a lot

  • @nightfall_9411
    @nightfall_9411 Před rokem +678

    transphobes the moment they find out he's actually trans: "still a woman."

    • @alenjaison4681
      @alenjaison4681 Před rokem +270

      Yup still a woman

    • @nightfall_9411
      @nightfall_9411 Před rokem +230

      @@alenjaison4681 idk man, looks like a man to me

    • @chandanv8769
      @chandanv8769 Před rokem +150

      ​​@@nightfall_9411 To be classified as a man one should have XY chromosomes.

    • @WillBill6143
      @WillBill6143 Před rokem

      ​@nightfall_9411 does she have a functional penis though is the question

    • @alenjaison4681
      @alenjaison4681 Před rokem +47

      @@nightfall_9411 i mean she only looks like a man but i respect your opinion tho(no hate)

  • @rainbowmagic8842
    @rainbowmagic8842 Před 2 měsíci +6

    you will never regret transitioning
    live your life who you want to be and if that makes you happy it's totally worth it❤

    • @thehonestorange713
      @thehonestorange713 Před měsícem +1

      Fr I'm transfem and I've been on estrogen for like years and don't regret it at all. I do regret the drugs and stuff I did to cope because it's a habit I'm trying to break now but I don't regret transitioning at all.

    • @Anninukichild
      @Anninukichild Před měsícem

      Ask the other 50+ percent who don't agree

  • @Gomezthegoat_
    @Gomezthegoat_ Před 7 měsíci +21

    I hope I get as good of a transition as you, yours was absolutely amazing

    • @sofy3929
      @sofy3929 Před 7 měsíci +3

      Good luck! Hope you'll be happy with it

    • @Edgar_Deltoro911
      @Edgar_Deltoro911 Před 4 měsíci

      Go to a mental institution you need help.

  • @toshinoukyouko2762
    @toshinoukyouko2762 Před 2 lety +31

    They also say this about abortion, being gay, moving to another country, not being christian and pretty much every other thing that doesn't fit with their closeminded view of how everyone in the world should be.

    • @ItIsBeeTime
      @ItIsBeeTime Před rokem

      @Qwerty123 imagine being so desperate for attention that you post stuff like this?

    • @littlebreadlive6232
      @littlebreadlive6232 Před rokem

      why does it say there’s 2 comments when there’s one and the one left is bad

    • @littlebreadlive6232
      @littlebreadlive6232 Před rokem +1

      @Qwerty123 if you were forced into pregnancy in an alleyway, and you were completely broke, what would you do? would you keep the baby or not, because you couldn’t keep the baby and you received it in illegal circumstances?

    • @ADHD-Creature-Official
      @ADHD-Creature-Official Před rokem

      My state banned abortion and we’re pissed about it

  • @sassylittleprophet
    @sassylittleprophet Před 2 lety +287

    People always tell you "you'll really regret" things YOU want to do. This isn't because you will or won't regret it, but because they don't approve of it and are trying to dissuade you from doing it.

    • @thevoid747
      @thevoid747 Před 2 lety +14

      dude, that's such a good point!

    • @NikkiTheOtter
      @NikkiTheOtter Před 2 lety +34

      My moms absolute be-all end-all argument is 'you'll regret...' the only thing in my life I regret is waiting so long to start living. I'm nearly 30 and thanks to my parents pushing, I have a degree I didn't want, debt I didn't want, a job (barely) that is inconsistent and not what I want.
      But sure, I'll totally regret choosing happiness, or choosing a trade over a desk job, or choosing to love myself over pretending to be a boy.

    • @sassylittleprophet
      @sassylittleprophet Před 2 lety +17

      @@NikkiTheOtter I'm glad you've come to that realisation. Even if you feel like it's a bit late, it's never too late for someone to start living authentically. You might regret the time you feel you've wasted, but it got you to this point, and you have the rest of your life to live as yourself. 💜

    • @libertarianconstantinei186
      @libertarianconstantinei186 Před 2 lety

      Well that’s a fucking stupid point.

    • @nyro-lucidz2861
      @nyro-lucidz2861 Před 2 lety

      no

  • @lilygdance8561
    @lilygdance8561 Před 10 měsíci +15

    Guys gender and biological sex are two separate things. You can identify as whatever gender you truly feel like, your sex and genetics don’t matter. Gender is your own personal identity and how you express that identity.
    Tbh I don’t rlly care if people disagree cuz everyone is allowed to have their own opinion and I’m just stating mine

    • @snowpumpkin4318
      @snowpumpkin4318 Před 8 měsíci +1

      genetics do matter

    • @brandethomson
      @brandethomson Před 7 měsíci +1

      Not true! There are only two genders and two SEXES. ONE MALE AND ONE FEMALE. THAT'S IT. You can't make yourself a male by surgery because by genetics you will always be a female. The same as a male going through surgery to become a female, he will always be a male through his genetics no matter what. You can't change what's inside your genes

    • @ChuckBeenKinky91
      @ChuckBeenKinky91 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Nope. they are the same

    • @hellgates_javed6451
      @hellgates_javed6451 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Of course, you're talking from your ass I don't expect logic from the lgbbq community

    • @Bakedbean843
      @Bakedbean843 Před 6 měsíci

      Gender is a scam made by bathroom companies to sell more bathrooms

  • @existent_kindof
    @existent_kindof Před 6 měsíci +7

    that hoodie is magic or smth.. it still looks brand new?

  • @steddielover2143
    @steddielover2143 Před rokem +244

    I wish my parents were supportive of me being trans they always dead name me and call me a girl and say a lot of transphobic stuff to my face but my friends support me so I'm really happy to have them and my gf I wouldn't trade them for the world 💗

    • @crovat5218
      @crovat5218 Před rokem

      Cuz you are. Your chromosomes are still feminine. This means you're a girl, either you like it or not.

    • @LevitheEldritchAbomination
      @LevitheEldritchAbomination Před rokem +31

      Aw, I'm sorry about that dude.
      I have to deal with that with my grandma.
      I hope they come around, or that people will call you by your actual name and pronouns once you get out of the house.

    • @LevitheEldritchAbomination
      @LevitheEldritchAbomination Před rokem

      @Limitless the only thing limitless about you is the amount of bullshit you spew out

    • @LevitheEldritchAbomination
      @LevitheEldritchAbomination Před rokem +30

      @Limitless History lesson time!
      So, yes, kings can be any gender.
      There were female kings in the medieval times.
      And king isn't what I am, it's a nickname.
      Why is my nickname king?
      Because my last name is "Kings" when translated to English from another language.

    • @wijayasumargoo859
      @wijayasumargoo859 Před rokem +19

      ​@Limitless no.

  • @WishGender
    @WishGender Před 2 lety +87

    I'm a transmasc enby and the amount of euphoria and joy i felt when i put on my binder for the first time brought me to tears. i have no intention to get top surgery because i'm a cosplayer and have no dysphoria cosplaying girls, but I have considered trying packing. i love being me, and no transphobes can stop me. transitioning has helped me immensely

    • @autumnbreeze_official
      @autumnbreeze_official Před 2 lety +13

      I had no dysphoria while cosplaying girls either, because I'd be playing a character. But I would still prefer to not be called a girl throughout a whole convention. But then again, I'm pretty big chested...

    • @autumnbreeze_official
      @autumnbreeze_official Před 2 lety +5

      Side note: This Sunday I'm going to Dutch Comic Con and I'll be wearing my first ever male cosplay. It's going to be Sebastian from Stardew Valley😁

    • @user-un2yf7bw2n
      @user-un2yf7bw2n Před 2 lety

      What am i reading 🤨

    • @es-rh8oo
      @es-rh8oo Před 2 lety

      @@libertarianconstantinei186 don't even ask bro, I can't with all these fucking 21st century labels

    • @hellothere3693
      @hellothere3693 Před 2 lety +1

      “transmasc” bro are you a trans face mask or something? you got problems

  • @VortexKiller2
    @VortexKiller2 Před 4 měsíci +6

    He literally became a new man, Jamie is such an inspiration, I might not be ftm as I am actually mtf so the direct opposite, but its so reassuring when I see fellow trans people finally become their true selves❤

  • @francislozano6928
    @francislozano6928 Před 9 měsíci +83

    Adults can do what they want. Just don’t mess with kids.

    • @stanleydude3340
      @stanleydude3340 Před 9 měsíci +29

      Kids cant get bottom surgery

    • @francislozano6928
      @francislozano6928 Před 9 měsíci +28

      @@stanleydude3340 Well first of all, depending on which country you’re in, that isn’t actually true. People under the age of 18 HAVE had bottom surgery. However, when I said *don’t mess with kids,* I meant *don’t mess with kids.* Period. *No blockers, no hormones, no surgery of ANY kind, no nothing.*

    • @fruitrollup90909
      @fruitrollup90909 Před 9 měsíci +28

      @@francislozano6928i bet you that has only happened a handful of times. and i guarantee that youve done absolutely NO research on this topic whatsoever, francis.

    • @Topatos-dg4ud
      @Topatos-dg4ud Před 9 měsíci +2

      @@francislozano6928that’s harmful to trans kids and increases the rate of suicide

    • @rumoured_vampire
      @rumoured_vampire Před 8 měsíci +4

      Valid take

  • @mrmr446
    @mrmr446 Před 2 lety +313

    'I'd rather you were miserable than admit I was wrong' is what I hear when most bigots speak. Hugs x

    • @mrmr446
      @mrmr446 Před 2 lety +13

      @@sekichdawn3913 Did you feel attacked? What 'movement?' If you are neither a bigot or transphobic then how you felt my comment referred to you I don't know.

    • @mrmr446
      @mrmr446 Před 2 lety +12

      @@sekichdawn3913 That entirely depends upon how they disagree, if they do so in a manner that denies the right of someone to exist then I'm not at all surprised by the reaction. Equating the discrimination and violence experienced by transfolks to abuse on twitter directed at bigoted trolls is a stretch.

    • @mrmr446
      @mrmr446 Před 2 lety +13

      @@sekichdawn3913 If you think that transwomen are women and transmen are men then the rest of your post makes no sense. Jamie has posted vids on this. If the subject is so upsetting for you then why are you watching the channel?

    • @sekichdawn3913
      @sekichdawn3913 Před 2 lety

      @@mrmr446 Pops up randomly

    • @mrmr446
      @mrmr446 Před 2 lety +10

      @@sekichdawn3913 If you watch more of it you might learn something.

  • @drewhackathorn9419
    @drewhackathorn9419 Před 2 lety +91

    In two weeks I have an appointment to see if I’m eligible to start T (I have a lot of medical conditions) and I’m super excited but very nervous

    • @IvyJolene
      @IvyJolene Před 2 lety +18

      I hope you can start T 😊

    • @drewhackathorn9419
      @drewhackathorn9419 Před 2 lety +9

      @@IvyJolene thank you kind internet person :)

    • @itsmxtwist
      @itsmxtwist Před 2 lety +8

      @@drewhackathorn9419 yo give an update when it happens! Wish you luck dude!

    • @drewhackathorn9419
      @drewhackathorn9419 Před 2 lety +1

      @@itsmxtwist i will! :)

    • @drewhackathorn9419
      @drewhackathorn9419 Před 2 lety +16

      @@itsmxtwist just had my appointment- might be starting T anywhere from a few days to a week :))

  • @bigmanmccheez5342
    @bigmanmccheez5342 Před 9 měsíci +5

    Too many people in this comment section need to get a dictionary and look up "gender" and "sex" because it is absolutely ridiculous how little the people who are arguing against you know anything about what they're talking about.

  • @cataorshane
    @cataorshane Před 2 lety +2344

    Life needs to be enjoyed to the fullest! Happy 10-yearversary of your transition!

    • @omribn
      @omribn Před 2 lety +24

      Transiversary

    • @Mai_mna
      @Mai_mna Před 2 lety +4

      @@omribn yes 👏🏽

    • @yellow_flash525
      @yellow_flash525 Před 2 lety +17

      @@haydenbellis3047 nah jit trippin

    • @omribn
      @omribn Před 2 lety +14

      @@haydenbellis3047 I'm Jewish

    • @xanmanskaggs216
      @xanmanskaggs216 Před 2 lety +16

      @@haydenbellis3047 im an atheist

  • @speedartandmore
    @speedartandmore Před rokem +95

    Bro when I first saw how Jamie looked pre transition I didn't realize it was him and I kept thinking "Why am I subscribed to this person? I don't think I've seen them before." NOPE it's the man I've been subbed to for like two years, crazy how things change. I wasn't even out(I'm nonbinary, any pronouns, so have fun trying to misgender me confused 12 year olds and weird old people) when I had found Jamie's channel but it's people like him that helped me find who I really am and I'll always appreciate it.

    • @staytars
      @staytars Před rokem +10

      "any pronouns, so have fun trying to misgender me" hahaha i love this

    • @POH341
      @POH341 Před rokem

      You sound like you weigh 700 pounds and is snot-religious.

  • @NathanTheTransformer
    @NathanTheTransformer Před 2 měsíci +9

    I’m trans and can’t wait till I’m 18 so I can go on testosterone. I know it will take awhile for it to really kick in, but I’m excited regardless! I’m so happy for you, man!

    • @PabloLewis-ve6ud
      @PabloLewis-ve6ud Před 2 měsíci +4

      That sounds great I hope it goes well for you

    • @apolloismydad
      @apolloismydad Před 2 měsíci +1

      ​@Ostrava_Of_Boletaria L

    • @elliot22131
      @elliot22131 Před měsícem +2

      ​@Ostrava_Of_Boletaria For no reason. As always

    • @TheBeanMan.
      @TheBeanMan. Před měsícem +2

      @Ostrava_Of_Boletariait is illegal and you can be sued for wrongly accusing people of pedophilia

  • @susanonymous2049
    @susanonymous2049 Před 2 lety +44

    Ahhh I wanna transition so bad- I came out to my mother and she keeps misgendering and using the wrong pronouns because " She gave birth to a girl". Not to mention, she also ranted about how " shocking " it is for her to hear that I am not a cishet. Thank god I'm not the obedient kind.

    • @kazikek2674
      @kazikek2674 Před 2 lety +35

      She gave birth to a new human being. You're not an extension of your mother and neither are any siblings you may have.

    • @SourLemonsOfficial
      @SourLemonsOfficial Před 2 lety +19

      Omg screw her- you’re your own person! We’re rooting for ya

    • @trb4321
      @trb4321 Před 2 lety +9

      Parents see us from the time we're small humans so sometimes it's hard for them to understand. Try not to take her words too personally.

    • @LovelyLawla
      @LovelyLawla Před 2 lety +15

      She also gave birth to someone who was only [insert birth weight] in weight and [insert length] long/tall. Ask her if she would prefer if you were still the same weight/size as when you were born?

    • @libertarianconstantinei186
      @libertarianconstantinei186 Před 2 lety

      She gave birth to a girl. You are a girl.

  • @katzecafe
    @katzecafe Před rokem +153

    Coming from someone who has a father in the process of transitioning (mtf, btw she still has us call her dad so don't come after me) I love this. Transitioning makes people happier, we're making lifestyle changes so she can lose the weight she needs to to get surgery. I'm proud of both you and my father for not staying trapped in a body that makes you unhappy.

    • @PhantomFerret
      @PhantomFerret Před rokem +23

      I'm hoping, I can finally be happy in the right body. I'm a trans guy. I'm glad your dad is trying to be happy in the right body. At the moment, I'm trying to legally change my name, so even if sugery takes forever, I have at least my chosen name being my legal name, not my birth name. However, I'm miserable being seen as female and some days it's neaely impossible to face the day, knowing I'm in the wrong body.

    • @LL-tr5et
      @LL-tr5et Před rokem +37

      having a girl dad sounds kind of like the coolest thing ever

    • @The_Narrator_
      @The_Narrator_ Před rokem +8

      How do you get trapped in the wrong body tho 😭

    • @ADHD-Creature-Official
      @ADHD-Creature-Official Před rokem +6

      @@PhantomFerret OMG I love your PFP did you make it yourself

    • @PhantomFerret
      @PhantomFerret Před rokem +7

      @@ADHD-Creature-Official, yeah I did. Same with my channel's (called Phantom Ferret) banner.

  • @kelly-kx2io
    @kelly-kx2io Před 6 měsíci +3

    Over 4 decades later for me and still no regrets here either. I would never encourage anyone else to take the same path as I did. I did what was right for me. I don't live their life, they do. It has to be their own decision. There is no way back after surgeries for those who regret it and yes some do regret their decisions.

  • @lexcentrique2554
    @lexcentrique2554 Před měsícem +2

    Dude got the charisma of Mr. Beast but better, of course he'd never regret transitioning!

  • @euansmith3699
    @euansmith3699 Před 2 lety +58

    Now, there's a real man.

  • @basementdwellercosplay
    @basementdwellercosplay Před 2 lety +226

    It's so weird seeing baby Jamie, like where's his beard!

    • @Sleepiness307
      @Sleepiness307 Před 2 lety +3

      Ya-

    • @ilovemygirlfriend2640
      @ilovemygirlfriend2640 Před 2 lety +2

      her*

    • @mira.r
      @mira.r Před 2 lety +15

      @@ilovemygirlfriend2640 . . . You don't HAVE to watch this video if you don't want to, you know.

    • @plumadeprimavera
      @plumadeprimavera Před 2 lety +8

      @@ilovemygirlfriend2640 …why?

    • @Mai_mna
      @Mai_mna Před 2 lety

      @@harlequinred9019 PFT-💀 stop treating trashcans like royalty, not cool man/j🙄🖐🏽🗿

  • @Sir_Artemis
    @Sir_Artemis Před 6 dny +2

    Hell yeah, you look so much happier!
    Keep doing your own stuff friend! Dont let anyone keep you from being who you are!

  • @clutteryClownfucker
    @clutteryClownfucker Před 10 měsíci +32

    THAT's a goal, he's handsome fr

  • @jp9707
    @jp9707 Před 2 lety +52

    Same. I started my transition journey nearly six years ago, and haven't had a single day of regret. Things just feel right now.
    Obviously it's perfectly fine if people take their time to figure things out or change their minds. I spent a year figuring out how I identified. But very few people who get to the point where they're ready to physically transition regret it, because by then you've had time to process and make your mind up.
    I can't stand it when transphobes imply that anyone can have a moment of uncertainty about their gender, waltz up to their doctor's office that day on a whim and come away with hormones in hand and a date for surgery. It takes YEARs to get to that point, and all the time you're waiting you've got medical professionals informing you of all the changes and risks.

    • @schnizzyfizz7832
      @schnizzyfizz7832 Před 2 lety +13

      Yeah if only it was as easy as the transphobes make it out to be.

    • @solsystem1342
      @solsystem1342 Před 2 lety +5

      @@schnizzyfizz7832 you and me both sib

    • @l692
      @l692 Před 2 lety +9

      Yes! I especially hate it when transphobes say that kids are being influenced to transition and permanently ruin their bodies. When if they even bothered to look up the basics about trans related stuff they'd know that children can't legally transition with hormones or surgery anywhere. So, that's a complete non-issue.

    • @astrocake584
      @astrocake584 Před 2 lety +8

      @@bee-pv8ph It’s as if supporting trans people causes them to be happier. Who would’ve thought that not threatening or abusing someone because of who they are would make them happier with their life?

    • @anthonyl9126
      @anthonyl9126 Před 2 lety

      It's detransitioners that are supporting the argument that it's easy to transition. Perhaps it's regional 🤷

  • @itsmanlikehark3203
    @itsmanlikehark3203 Před rokem +122

    What the fuck it’s honestly amazing how medicine has developed in the past few years only

    • @moradoesvideos
      @moradoesvideos Před rokem +12

      Right? It’s stuff like this that makes you realize just how freaking advanced we’re getting. It’s awesome.

    • @Grizzbrowtevr
      @Grizzbrowtevr Před rokem +2

      @@moradoesvideos nope we still ain't that much advanced

    • @moradoesvideos
      @moradoesvideos Před rokem +5

      @Mastercard Oh dear, again with this “delusion” b.s. Honestly. Grow up.

    • @madelinewright9790
      @madelinewright9790 Před rokem

      @@Grizzbrowtevr yes yes, in relativity. But in relativity anything can mean nothing. I mean, for example; “whales are relatively big compared to humans.”
      But it doesn’t make this sentence mean any less, does it?
      “Whales are tiny relative to earth.”
      They are both true, it’s just the frame of reference is different.

    • @Grizzbrowtevr
      @Grizzbrowtevr Před rokem

      @@madelinewright9790 bro I'm still waiting for flying cars 😢

  • @kiddkenaii
    @kiddkenaii Před 5 měsíci +6

    I’m 23 now and coming up on 2 years on T and happier than ever! Still trying to overcome the resentment towards my mom because I actually initially came out at 15 and could’ve started hormones then but she was like “you’ll regret it, you’re not old enough to make that decision, blah blah blah”. So I went back in the closet due to that and her transphobia until I was 20. She’s more accepting now, but I’m just like damn.. I could potentially be as far as Jaime at this point 😢 so mad that I lost so many years of happiness due to hatred and ignorance. I DIDNT REGRET IT!! 🖕🏽🏳️‍⚧️

    • @tyler2102
      @tyler2102 Před 5 měsíci +4

      You’re a proper mess. Hopefully you mature one day and see your mother was just trying to protect her very young child. You look like a right mess.

    • @SonOfSparda-eg2fb
      @SonOfSparda-eg2fb Před 5 měsíci +4

      YEAAAAHHHHHH!!!!

    • @tyler2102
      @tyler2102 Před 5 měsíci +2

      You’re a mess. Your poor mother, disgrace of a child.

    • @Ilikecatsalot1
      @Ilikecatsalot1 Před 5 měsíci

      @@tyler2102key why es

    • @mysocksarewet
      @mysocksarewet Před 4 měsíci

      @@tyler2102 it’s a sin to be discriminatory in my religion, that’s disrespectful. To them and my religion.

  • @vqtsx
    @vqtsx Před 24 dny +8

    My dad transitioned after my birth, and I couldn't be prouder of him❤

  • @whoknows4780
    @whoknows4780 Před 2 lety +108

    If it hasn’t saved my life i still don’t regret it. If my surgeries didn’t have the best outcomes, I still don’t regret all of it. You threw me in this hole with no tools to get out. Don’t blame me for using roots and rocks to be comfortable.

    • @kazikek2674
      @kazikek2674 Před 2 lety +25

      Year after year people willing and able to help learn and improve more and more.
      Every usage of the rocks polishes them for the next generation until the tools, hopefully, become perfect.
      Good luck going forward.

    • @hellothere3693
      @hellothere3693 Před 2 lety

      How does that not save you life??? I don’t know if it’s brain surgery, maybe intestines idk but those specific medical procedures are usually meant save your life.

    • @Mai_mna
      @Mai_mna Před 2 lety +5

      @@hellothere3693 idk if I understood correctly, but I don't think they mean those types of surgery

    • @Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice
      @Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice Před 2 lety +9

      @@hellothere3693 Trans-related surgeries are more like reconstructive surgeries. They're for improving quality of life and social safety, and have different strengths of results depending on the indivudal and situation. Thankfully most trans people don't need emergency surgeries for organ failure or illness, since those are not related to being trans. However, despite being non-emergency, they can still raise quality of life from intolerable to tolerable, thereby saving patients from slow stress-death and s*icide.

    • @Dylan-gy1hp
      @Dylan-gy1hp Před 2 lety

      @@Queer_Nerd_For_Human_Justice that would be true if it were true.
      The facts are, if you research instead of talking out of your ass, that transitioning, especially when surgery is involved, even greater when permanent surgery is involved, leads to suicide over 75% of the time.
      It’s literally the exact death sentence you’re describing. It solves the problem to maybe 5%

  • @jussomeidiot5858
    @jussomeidiot5858 Před 2 lety +272

    I’m cis and I don’t get people who say things like ‘you’ll regret transitioning’ Like dude how the fuck do YOU know what he/she/they will regret.

    • @jayrose2933
      @jayrose2933 Před 2 lety +19

      Yepp. If anything, they would regret *not* transitioning

    • @dyanduffy7651
      @dyanduffy7651 Před 2 lety +1

      As long as you have given it due consideration and know with your whole being it's right for you then do so.
      Some who say you will regret it are concerned that most people don't give it the due consideration.

    • @imahumanperson361
      @imahumanperson361 Před 2 lety +42

      @Comrade Legion Congratulations, you figured out the English pronouns that most people use or pick from, your point is…?

    • @lolnah1992
      @lolnah1992 Před 2 lety +1

      @@imahumanperson361 the person could just use they, less words, more faster 😱😱😰😰😰😰😰😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤨🤨🤡🤡🤓😱😈😈😈😀💥💥🤝🏼😏💥😐😐😐😐😈💀💀💀💀

    • @imahumanperson361
      @imahumanperson361 Před 2 lety +21

      @@lolnah1992 You know damn well that’s not why they’re mocking it.

  • @marchg4114
    @marchg4114 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Hah. Regret? Regret a decision you made for yourself, by yourself, against all the world, with all your courage and sense of self and actual future-vision and care for life and the wish for true freedom? Regret decision that brought your entire self into the light of personhood? Regret the realisation that you could BE the person YOU chose to be?
    Those people don't even know how to do life.

  • @Fanful10
    @Fanful10 Před 5 měsíci +6

    (Mocking the transphobes) HOW DARE YOU FOR BEING HAPPY WITH YOURSELF! SHAME ON YOU!!! >:(

    • @Not_midnight
      @Not_midnight Před 5 měsíci

      He’s going to hell, he turned to satan

    • @_str4wb_
      @_str4wb_ Před 4 měsíci

      hOw dare u be HAPY!!1!1!!!1!1!!!!! U DRUG ADICT!!!!1!1!1!!!!!1!1!!1!!1! 😠😡😠😠😭😠😭😠🥺😠😭😡🥺😠😭🥺😡😠😭😡🥺😠😭😠😭😭😠😡💀😠💀😡💀 U ARE A SHE A GURL I NOT BOY U NOT HAPY U WILL REGERT!!!!1!1!!!!💀😭😭😡😭😡😭🥺💀😭😡🥺💀😭😠😡😨 /s

    • @harryfucker1988
      @harryfucker1988 Před 4 měsíci

      pride month of transphobs, we also need parades 😎

    • @mitzyeditz8999
      @mitzyeditz8999 Před 4 měsíci

      How can u tell someone is happy just based on pictures?

    • @Fanful10
      @Fanful10 Před 4 měsíci

      @@mitzyeditz8999 He has said multiple times that he does not regret transitioning

  • @xxFRANKENBANANAxx
    @xxFRANKENBANANAxx Před rokem +238

    Most people that spout the "there are trans people that regret transitioning and transition back!" are wilfully ignorant of the fact that it's a tiny percentage of transitioning people, and that most people in that category choose to stop or reverse due to being unable to continue due to financial and social strain.

    • @BlightestBlight
      @BlightestBlight Před rokem +15

      3% to be exact. And the 25% of those are because of family pressure.

    • @kingzion9689
      @kingzion9689 Před rokem +3

      not the right place but I wish people had the same logic when it comes to abortions

    • @Damo-hg5wo
      @Damo-hg5wo Před rokem

      @@kingzion9689 wdym

    • @kingzion9689
      @kingzion9689 Před rokem

      @@Damo-hg5wo how such a small demographic (rape victims) is being used to justify abortions

    • @ramblingidiot8795
      @ramblingidiot8795 Před rokem +5

      @@Damo-hg5wo people who regret their abortion make up a tiny portion of the full percentage

  • @Malnxxty
    @Malnxxty Před rokem +231

    i’m a trans girl who is having second thoughts about transitioning but this makes me feel warm inside

    • @sisypheanmxe8774
      @sisypheanmxe8774 Před rokem +38

      good luck :)

    • @ekuu8918
      @ekuu8918 Před rokem +84

      Do as much thinking as you need to. You'll figure out what's right for you. :)

    • @jonwivccc7926
      @jonwivccc7926 Před rokem +7

      your a man it’s not the same .. we allow women to get away with murder as a man you’ll will not be spared .. even when you come across a transman most men still look and treat with kindness like a woman ..

    • @sisypheanmxe8774
      @sisypheanmxe8774 Před rokem +81

      @@jonwivccc7926 yo what are you even talking ab

    • @grantschade2072
      @grantschade2072 Před rokem

      @@jonwivccc7926 you are definitely on something. probably should lay off the drugs

  • @w1ld_R0nn13
    @w1ld_R0nn13 Před 7 měsíci +9

    Love how your haters didn’t bring you down🥰🥰

  • @-AshEditz
    @-AshEditz Před 5 měsíci +5

    Wait WHAT! I never knew you were trans! Wow amazing 🤩

  • @zacksartstudio1970
    @zacksartstudio1970 Před 2 lety +171

    As a religious person I'm supposed to hate this
    But on god idrc anymore
    I just realised that shit, we're bound to view things differently, just cuz I don't think it's right or that I'd do it myself doesn't mean you shouldn't
    I don't really support LGBTQ
    BUT I do support one thing, humanity
    Just do what makes you happy mate
    Also that was ONE smooth transition, really you look amazing, more power to you man, keep at it!

    • @melaniewilson1742
      @melaniewilson1742 Před 2 lety +80

      I like you. This is literally all we want. To not be hated.

    • @pgoldschoolboxbreaks1382
      @pgoldschoolboxbreaks1382 Před rokem +14

      Foolishness you are not religious. A dog is a dog and a cat a cat. We can't go around renaming things just because a dog thinks it's a cat that is insanity. You might be religious but you have no relationship with the most high by your words. You want to be accepted by man. Which you will be rejected by God! Goodday

    • @ArtsyKnox25
      @ArtsyKnox25 Před rokem +34

      Thanks for being respectful, even though you don't feel supportive about it.

    • @ArtsyKnox25
      @ArtsyKnox25 Před rokem +38

      @@pgoldschoolboxbreaks1382 oh please. Just let people live their lives. Do you really have to have religion come up in every little thing? Just let people be themselves!

    • @pgoldschoolboxbreaks1382
      @pgoldschoolboxbreaks1382 Před rokem +5

      @@ArtsyKnox25 wow speaking of letting people be themselves. I do bring My God into everything He made all. Why then would He not be in everything? Funny you mention letting them be themselves the whole point of this post is that they are making themselves the opposite of themselves. Sooo what's that day about you. You will be held to account for all you say and do. Wether you sgree with me or not changes nothing. If I talked from my own knowledge I would be like you. But I do not speak of things you speak about. I speak of heavenly things. You speak of worldly things desires and flesh. I declare the things of Heaven which God says. So that it may be manifest to you that you might gain understanding and wisdom. I hope God reveals Himself to you before your day of reckoning. God bless you.

  • @Little_Toy_Soldier
    @Little_Toy_Soldier Před 2 lety +35

    That's why I hate the videos that Blaire white has put out about de-transitioners, because she makes it seem like everyone that transitions has instantly regret it, if my uncle found those videos, he would assume that I'm just transitioning for attention. So detransitoning videos are educational in the sense of those were people that were not ready for it, whereas you cannot tell every trans person that they are going to regret transitioning.

    • @kazikek2674
      @kazikek2674 Před 2 lety +9

      I will always be a bit grateful to Blaire for helping me normalize the existence of trans people earlier in my life, but learning how much trickery and lying she did harming the community made me sad.

    • @jrob4988
      @jrob4988 Před 2 lety +2

      @@kazikek2674 it’s a shame, really.

    • @faithpearlgenied-a5517
      @faithpearlgenied-a5517 Před 2 lety

      She's revolting.

  • @uptown215
    @uptown215 Před 3 měsíci +8

    Just a feminine dude now

    • @cara-seyun
      @cara-seyun Před měsícem

      What is feminine about him? The mustache?

  • @sarabavota
    @sarabavota Před 3 měsíci +2

    Not regretting transitioning happens rarely

    • @Joker.772
      @Joker.772 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Ahh yes 98 percent of the time is so very rare

    • @sarabavota
      @sarabavota Před 3 měsíci

      @@Joker.772 Where did you see it's 98%? Why do you invent stuff? It's not true

    • @weltschmerzistofthaufig2440
      @weltschmerzistofthaufig2440 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Can you cite sources that support your claim?

    • @sarabavota
      @sarabavota Před 3 měsíci

      @@weltschmerzistofthaufig2440 I think authorities don't investigate enough on detransitioners who have regret, the main data you can find is how trans people are happy but I think it is self deception and not a very reliable data

    • @cara-seyun
      @cara-seyun Před měsícem

      Proof? I just googled “transition regret rate” and it was 1%-2%

  • @EternalYorkieMom
    @EternalYorkieMom Před 2 lety +79

    “You’ll regret making yourself happy” is something sad people say to justify their lives to themselves

  • @_rottingfish
    @_rottingfish Před 2 lety +185

    My mom been telling me that too. I don’t respond because idk how but it hurts
    Edit: Thank you everyone for the help! I talked to my mom and she’s more understanding now and was just worried about messing up my name and pronouns :)

    • @MrGreensweightHist
      @MrGreensweightHist Před 2 lety +41

      Your relationship, so only you know how to handle it.
      That said, this might help...
      "Overall, 33% underwent transmasculine procedures and 67% transfemenine procedures. The prevalence of regret among patients undergoing transmasculine and transfemenine surgeries was

    • @connorbroderick7148
      @connorbroderick7148 Před 2 lety +13

      I think being direct and honest with your feelings is best. I don't know how old you are, if you still live with your mom, then sadly maybe some deference is required.
      But I would say something like, "you telling me that really hurts me. If you continue to tell me that you will find yourself playing a smaller role in my life than before." She will push back, but hold to your boundaries.

    • @asympti2185
      @asympti2185 Před 2 lety +7

      Maybe show her this video. I think it's pretty damn hard to argue with (I suppose she might manage; some people also just take time). Sorry you're not getting support where it would help the most.

    • @iferlyf8172
      @iferlyf8172 Před 2 lety +9

      Plus the majority of people who regretted transitioning and detransitioned didn't do so because they no longer thought they were trans, but because the harsh treatment they received over it caused them more pain than repressing their true gender did

    • @CommanderWiggins
      @CommanderWiggins Před 2 lety +6

      There's been a lot of studies which look at trans people and their satisfaction when it comes to transitioning. (Sadly I can't link them because CZcams will probably block my comment as spam.) The rates of people who had major regrets involving surgery are as follows: 2.2%, 6%, 3.8%,

  • @vampirecaptain7676
    @vampirecaptain7676 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Yeah no regret when you look at that damn happy.

  • @skylark6167
    @skylark6167 Před 3 měsíci +2

    "you'll regret it in 5 years"
    5 years later no regrets
    "you'll regret it in 10 years"
    after 10 years
    "you'll regret it in 20. . . or 30 . . or maybe when you're dead . . . idk i know theres regret there somewhere . . . jesus regrets this for you"
    🤦‍♀️

  • @Drudenfusz
    @Drudenfusz Před 2 lety +809

    That smile in transition and after tells more than thousand words!

    • @matthewc1543
      @matthewc1543 Před rokem

      Yup he can smile in front of a camera.

    • @GTTtoni
      @GTTtoni Před rokem +1

      @@matthewc1543 She*

    • @octobro915
      @octobro915 Před rokem +2

      @@GTTtoni nope they meant he

    • @GTTtoni
      @GTTtoni Před rokem +1

      @@octobro915 She*

    • @octobro915
      @octobro915 Před rokem

      @@GTTtoni you know what, I’m not gonna argue with an idiot

  • @A_boy_with_messy_hair
    @A_boy_with_messy_hair Před 2 lety +105

    That's a handsome dude🤘 entry in bro club🤘