Why ghosting is more dangerous than normal breakups and leads to mental trauma? Siddhant Agnihotri

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  • čas přidán 5. 09. 2024

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  • @StudyGlows
    @StudyGlows  Před rokem +78

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    • @ZeenathKauser
      @ZeenathKauser Před rokem +2

      🙋🏻‍♀️Sirji👍🇮🇳

    • @MBA-ne8re
      @MBA-ne8re Před rokem +4

      Plz make the video on such topic. It's help us to be more mental awareness// Self conscious balancing segment.
      Thanks for uploading such video. 🙏

    • @himachali_Dost737
      @himachali_Dost737 Před rokem +2

      Aap ka ye lecture mere pe hi bna hai lg raha sir.... Maine bhi usko aise ignore kiya ki wo bhi sochti hogi kahan fans gai.... Ye ghosting wali baat sahi hai... Kuch log apne fayde tak baat krte hain.. Wrna aise bhagte hain jaise pichware pe petrol lga ho....hum sage nahi to hum thage nahi 🙏🤟

    • @ALITASINHA
      @ALITASINHA Před rokem

      Sir please give the link of the article 🙏

    • @ALITASINHA
      @ALITASINHA Před rokem

      Sir please give the link of the article 🙏

  • @dr.anandraj7456
    @dr.anandraj7456 Před rokem +1965

    Never love someone who don't love you back, I said never.

    • @KrGaurav_Kr
      @KrGaurav_Kr Před rokem +35

      exactly in such situations its not easy to figure out on your own that the other person doesn't love u, that's why a person needs help.

    • @sron8246
      @sron8246 Před rokem +4

      Yes bro

    • @privinit9930
      @privinit9930 Před rokem +14

      @@KrGaurav_Kr bhai agar tum ladki nahi ho toh aajkal ke date mein tumhe pata chal jayega. par agar simp ho toh tum jhoothi ummid zaroor lagaoge. simple formula talk to the person directly and politely.

    • @KrGaurav_Kr
      @KrGaurav_Kr Před rokem +5

      @@privinit9930 bro mai koi umeed nahi de raha, a person need help ka matlab ye nahi ki koi ladki hi ho, help means koi bhi samajdar insaan jispe trust ho vo siblings, parents, grand parents, teacher ya friends koi bhi ho sakte hai, jinse hum apni situation ka solution le sakte hai, thats what i mean as help.

    • @KrGaurav_Kr
      @KrGaurav_Kr Před rokem +6

      @@privinit9930 ha we can talk to the person directly but agar koi explaination hota to ghosting kyo karta koi, ghosting ka matlab hi hai no explaination and run away.

  • @junevibes.365
    @junevibes.365 Před rokem +2038

    For 6 months I hadn't sleep .... terrible mental trauma.... I was severely frustrated bcz the toxic treatment I recieve from the man I loved the most. I couldn't speak to anyone in my family Nd friends. Well that was my biggest mistake 2 years ago ... but now I am doing well ... I raised up with the help of Krishna consciousness. Hare Krishna, may lord give u all strength that one needs to overcome 🙏 anything on its way.

    • @dancegod1869
      @dancegod1869 Před rokem +35

      Can i contact u on any social media platforms.cauz i hv similarly the same issue and i want to talk about details about how u felt nd recovered through Krishna consciousness

    • @user-xw1hf
      @user-xw1hf Před rokem +5

      It's been 17years.

    • @junevibes.365
      @junevibes.365 Před rokem +24

      @@user-xw1hf I am happy that u overcome.... god bless you.

    • @gaurangpatel5779
      @gaurangpatel5779 Před rokem +20

      Be strong and have faith in Krishna 🙏

    • @NotVeryCommonName
      @NotVeryCommonName Před rokem +28

      From 2009 my life is mental trauma, because as a man you are treated good only when you are rich and good looking.

  • @Mayo-pv1qq
    @Mayo-pv1qq Před rokem +846

    People who experienced this know how horrible and traumatic ghosting is

    • @souviksarkar.7219
      @souviksarkar.7219 Před rokem +7

      From your comment it seems you have experienced it. My brother recently has experienced breakup. He doesn't show his inner self to us but from his behavior I can understand what he is going through but am totally clueless about how to help him. Can you share something in this regard if you feel comfortable?? He is in 10th std now and it's really a crucial time in his career

    • @sauravverma1185
      @sauravverma1185 Před rokem +12

      @@souviksarkar.7219 The best way in my point of view is start practising meditation. Delete or throw every material thing which reminds her . Keep yourself busy in order that it doesn't left time to remember her.
      In starting he will find it difficult to do so , sometime he get drowned by her thought its okay but try again to come back what he are doing .
      If he felt like crying ,just cry and let the emotion come out .
      And have a conversation with somebody whom with he can comfortably share everything thing . Actually sharing really reduce the burden

    • @souviksarkar.7219
      @souviksarkar.7219 Před rokem

      @@sauravverma1185 thank you very much for taking the time and addressing my concern Sir. I will tryna tell him to do all these things but I am pretty sure that he is not gonna throw everything about her as he was deeply in love with the girl. I don't know how he will react if I tell him to throw everything away about her. But the meditation part is what I can rely on. I will definitely tell him to try meditation. Thanks very very much again for helping. And I think I can't read your whole message as it says "read more". Is there any more lines after "..reduce the burden" line??

    • @sauravverma1185
      @sauravverma1185 Před rokem +2

      @@souviksarkar.7219 no dear it ends at reduce your burden.
      I understand your concern if he doesn't throw then atleast keep all things away from his sight which make him remember her
      When i was in graduation i got to fall in love with her but she neither agree nor let me go away of her life . We just keep talking for about 1- 1½ years but with course of time my mental peace become more distorted , it started to affect me badly . I used to think that with a lot of love gradually her mind will change and she will also fall for me .
      But with time it become worse jb v mai janne ki baat krta wo bolti nhi saurav Mt jao aise hi chalte Rehne do Acha lgta hai tumse baat krke
      Finally one day i decided to not be in contact with her because only 2 month left for my graduation final year exam .
      I stopped talking her ,deleted all her photo and thrown all thing which reminds her
      My mental condition was so worse that I couldn't even calculate simple maths problem despite i am good at math & couldn't even count rupees properly.
      I start running and practising meditation and mantra chanting .
      I tried to keep myself busy in order that it left no time to remember her .
      Out of nowhere i met a girl in youtube comment . We started to talk , she calmly listen to my problem and suggest me way out . She was so older than me . She helped me sail through the tough days because she had gone through this phase . I am still thankful to her .
      Now her existence doesn't even bother me as she was admitted to the same college for post graduation
      Even she talked with me several time but it doesn't bother me .

    • @souviksarkar.7219
      @souviksarkar.7219 Před rokem +1

      @@sauravverma1185 your story is very much similar to my brother's. It seems you had a one-sided love for her but my bro was in a proper relationship and both were in love for about 2 years. But just recently she started ignoring him and told him the reason for doing so after ignoring him for a few days. She said that she has told her family about the relationship and her family has made it firm that they won't ever let her marry my brother. Earlier in relationship when asked about family's approval, the girl said she would fight with her family for him and change their mind about the matter. But now all of a sudden she changed her stance. They shared so many happy moments with each other and were very happy in the relationship. But now it's all over. And like you said, she also urges him to stay at times but after sometime she starts ignoring him. And on top of that my brother has his secondary exams this February. I was feeling helpless about how to handle the situation. Thank you so much for helping me in this regard. And am happy to know you are well and are able to come out of that phase. I on the other side am in love with someone from school days and now its probably more than 8 years we know each other and 5 yrs in a relationship. As someone who has never experienced a breakup I was finding it difficult to help someone who is going through one. Can't thank you enough in this regard. Have a great day and great life ahead.

  • @metalrattle7357
    @metalrattle7357 Před 11 měsíci +164

    Ghosting is good. When somebody treats you like another option then help them narrow down their choices by removing yourself from the equation. This is self respect.

    • @Sereneloverwanderer
      @Sereneloverwanderer Před 11 měsíci +5

      That can't be called ghosting...

    • @JheelamBanerjee
      @JheelamBanerjee Před 10 měsíci

      Yes

    • @aishwaryap308
      @aishwaryap308 Před 9 měsíci +2

      You can just clarify and leave, ghosting is definitely not a good option to satisfy your ego.

    • @niti470
      @niti470 Před 9 měsíci +2

      Agree with you 100% one should do the same ! Do they ever realise how much mental traumas they are giving to us on purpose because they wish us to chase them to satisfy their own ego !

    • @sggg2604
      @sggg2604 Před 9 měsíci

      Ghosting m ghonster ko farak hi ni peedega

  • @letsseeklife3516
    @letsseeklife3516 Před rokem +52

    "Ghosting hurts you more than breakup, because breakup give you reasons but ghosting give you mixed signals" - OMG so trueee! I'm a woman and a man this to me since 4 years. I observed it's his behavioral pattern and through this video I got more clarity that he was a Ghoster, a coward, a selfish person and an insecure person. Such people have no idea what they are doing and how it'll affect another person's life. They have no idea!!! 🙌

    • @veenanarwani761
      @veenanarwani761 Před 11 měsíci +1

      This is kinda entrancing you. Total breakup will not let the ghoster reghost you.

    • @chinmayeesaikia6507
      @chinmayeesaikia6507 Před 11 měsíci +5

      it happened to me also..I was not in a relationship with the person..but we were having endless talking, sharing our good/bad days (I started to feel for him actually) it lasted like 5 months probably...then suddenly he ghosted me ..no fight, no reason nothing!! I was devastated.. depressed..after investigation I found that he started an affair with a girl..but that's ok..he could have told me since we are not in a relationship! But he was a coward, he deep down knew that I had feelings for him..he didn't have guts to confess..but thanks to almighty to be with me all the time...I found the perfect man as husband....btw his girlfriend this year ghosted him after many years of relationship and went to foreign! This is the karma!

    • @ashutoshsingh72476
      @ashutoshsingh72476 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Chal nikal pyar karne chali hai Jake apna career bana😂😅

    • @KRISHNAPRIYA077
      @KRISHNAPRIYA077 Před 9 měsíci

      So true ..😢

    • @rc207
      @rc207 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@chinmayeesaikia6507Ru by any chance talking of someone from Bangalore. I know an exactly similar story of about 5 months by someone from there even in that case they weren't in any relationship but the girl had feelings

  • @tuhinamukherjee2028
    @tuhinamukherjee2028 Před rokem +309

    Never fall in Love with anyone....Self Respect is greater than Love....i think That's the Life saving Message Here😀

    • @anjalitaneja8627
      @anjalitaneja8627 Před rokem +2

      Good 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

    • @mansetu8498
      @mansetu8498 Před 11 měsíci

      bilkul shi

    • @WARRIORSWORLDs
      @WARRIORSWORLDs Před 11 měsíci +6

      Mili thi mujhe wo dubara , sorry bhi bola par maine bola , chal nikal ,ab toh meri mauz hi mauz hain.
      Acha hua tu khud hi nikal gyi .

    • @Success10080
      @Success10080 Před 11 měsíci

      Hi

    • @rajeevranjan7338
      @rajeevranjan7338 Před 11 měsíci

      Larki ka vi Dil tutta hai...

  • @babubiswas8249
    @babubiswas8249 Před rokem +256

    I have been a victim of ghosting ... It took four years of my life ... Let nobody suffer from this terrible situation 🙏

  • @ankushbajaj5764
    @ankushbajaj5764 Před rokem +138

    "Silence is the worst good bye".💔 Remember that.

    • @yashpatange1136
      @yashpatange1136 Před 11 měsíci +1

      😢

    • @HMX_MRX
      @HMX_MRX Před 10 měsíci

      It's not easy when u give your 100% to save your relationship
      But saamne wali ready hi nhi hai kuch sunn ne samjhne ko💔
      And it's too difficult to forget someone whom u loved so much even u didn't thinked of living without her😢

  • @anything6597
    @anything6597 Před rokem +18

    Finally someone said boys do more ghosting.... 🙂🖤🌹🥀

  • @kaushalsingh8058
    @kaushalsingh8058 Před rokem +128

    First time saw someone talking about this inferior and guilty feeling that continously eats victims and knew this is called ghosting .
    Thank you sir🙂

  • @nowornever7198
    @nowornever7198 Před rokem +195

    ITS NOT ONLY ABOUT BOYFRND AND GIRLFRND ,IT HAPPENS WITH FRIENDS,COUSINS ALSO

  • @knightwing2024
    @knightwing2024 Před rokem +1599

    Never give your girl the full package wife treatment until you're both married !!! Simple 😊
    Ps : mera comment se kitni ladkiyo ki jali hai pta chl rhaa hai reply mai. these kinds of girls do not deserve respect of men.

  • @thedarxhornet
    @thedarxhornet Před rokem +87

    Not just breakups or relationships, har jagah apply hota hai yeh. Cousins, friends and even siblings do the same.

  • @B-PANDEY11
    @B-PANDEY11 Před 11 měsíci +3

    मुझे नहीं पता ये वीडियो अचानक से मुझे क्यों दिखा, लेकिन आज अभी इसकी बहुत जरूरत थी। घोस्टर से डिटैच होकर कन्फ्यूज हो रहा था कि कहीं मेरी गलती न हो। अब सब क्लियर है।
    वीडियो बनाने और आइडिया शेयर करने के लिए बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद। 🙏🙏

  • @its_me4800
    @its_me4800 Před rokem +44

    Girls...never allow someone to fool you and play with your emotions. Focus on your friends, family amd studies.

  • @weareone224
    @weareone224 Před rokem +471

    Only one thing - Expectations hurt so don't expect anything in this cruel world from anyone except parents 🙏

    • @ayushimishra1912
      @ayushimishra1912 Před rokem +6

      Sahi kaha

    • @joydeepghosh9414
      @joydeepghosh9414 Před rokem +13

      Absolutely correct.Dont expect too much from your partner in this cruel world because when they cheat it hurts a lot.

    • @marifsofi547
      @marifsofi547 Před rokem

      even not from parents, they will also stab you in some cases trust yourself only

    • @bokulporibarkatha3728
      @bokulporibarkatha3728 Před rokem +1

      How can people know the limit? It is confusing

    • @weareone224
      @weareone224 Před rokem +2

      @@bokulporibarkatha3728 I didn't mention limit anywhere, clearly said don't expect anything so don't get confused dear. If you still don't understand then contact on some other social platform ☺️

  • @arvin1110
    @arvin1110 Před rokem +144

    सर मेरे साथ हुवा था Ghosting.. 😭😭
    .
    पर अग्ले दिन मोहल्ले मे ऐश्वर्या आई 😜😜

  • @sandeepgupta6513
    @sandeepgupta6513 Před rokem +193

    It happened with me that time i had to appear for mains exam, it was traumatic, unbearable, and today i understood it was ghosting.

    • @jay_s5
      @jay_s5 Před rokem +13

      Oye mains pr dhyan do....ye temprary h khtm ho jayega but mains nhi ayega dubara u have time abhi ...study well

    • @vishalyadav0099
      @vishalyadav0099 Před rokem +7

      Bhai ye sb choro.. Kitna score bna mains ka??

    • @NASTIK_JONI_KHAN
      @NASTIK_JONI_KHAN Před rokem +6

      Same ...us time mera pre & mains huya tha... IBPS SO ka last year
      Aur mera blood pressure high...

    • @exoticindiaa
      @exoticindiaa Před rokem +5

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    • @bhavyasrivastava1184
      @bhavyasrivastava1184 Před rokem +3

      I messed up 3 exams that too in such non frequent notification of vacancies when they were so much important to me because of this

  • @samirborhade3227
    @samirborhade3227 Před rokem +4

    मेरे साथ ये हुआ है और उसका उपाय मुझे आपले और से मिला है शुक्रिया।

  • @madhvi1501
    @madhvi1501 Před rokem +32

    Relief! Someone brought this topic as a serious issue. Hats off! 👏

    • @619ry7
      @619ry7 Před rokem

      Hi are you software engineer?

  • @ManishKumar-sb8ng
    @ManishKumar-sb8ng Před rokem +188

    Finally i understood why I'm suffering. Thank you so much for the information sir🙂

  • @J_R_S
    @J_R_S Před rokem +68

    Guys Just Remember This Quote
    "If You Left Me Without Any Reason Then Don't Dare To Comeback With Stupid Excuses"

  • @sagarsarkar3430
    @sagarsarkar3430 Před rokem +73

    What a coincidence... My relationship was ruin like in the same type.. I am suffering from the same trauma... Thank you sir for this lecture....

  • @priyasinha11112
    @priyasinha11112 Před rokem +63

    I am also a victim of ghosting from 8 year's and I almost lost myself..... physically, mentally, financially....😭

    • @GENIUS-sy6kq
      @GENIUS-sy6kq Před rokem

      Mere sath bhi huaa hai 😢😢😢 aisa

    • @WARRIORSWORLDs
      @WARRIORSWORLDs Před 11 měsíci

      Mam kanha pe bharosa rakhiye , he will take care of everything, mera 7 years ka tha par us ladki ne ek call par hi zindagi badal di thi meri, par believe uske baad aaj jab main peeche dekhta hoon to lagta hain ki acha hua.
      Peechle year mili muje achanak main kisi aur city me gaya tha tab. Usnay sorry bola mujhe hasi aa gyi. Maine usay bola acha hua tu khud nikal gyi . Mere life me maze hi maze hain . Jab tk tu di saza ho gya tha zindgi .
      Uski sakal 😂😂😂😂😂😂 aur sach bolu life ko enjoy kijiye everything will be allright.
      Waise wo thi panautiiii😂😂😂😂😂 jab tk meri gf thi

    • @ambujkhanduri1270
      @ambujkhanduri1270 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@nayan4062just because you suffer from a certain problem doesn't mean your call others problems as nothing .
      You are a victim of ghosting yourself and your words quote
      ...... your problems are nothing ??
      Really cheap I 'd say

  • @anishraj4970
    @anishraj4970 Před rokem +25

    I wasn't knowing about ghosting.After hearing your session I am very shocked that a ghoster was playing with me.Thanks for sharing such knowledge.

  • @blueheaven7582
    @blueheaven7582 Před rokem +114

    It took me around 5years to get over it. One moment you will feel nothing, next moment you are brainstorming why that person left me. Out of no where you start crying in the middle of the night. You feel shallow from inside. I forgot to laugh. I had to stick smileys in walls in order to practice laughing .

    • @dhodiapratik
      @dhodiapratik Před rokem +6

      Same here. Gone through same trauma.

    • @jindagi190
      @jindagi190 Před rokem +4

      I am also living my life from 6 months of same feeling....some time I think that I move out from those scary moments but fews days after I feel same thoughts....

    • @deliciousredmango
      @deliciousredmango Před rokem +2

      Going through the same right now

    • @Cray3833
      @Cray3833 Před rokem

      6 year

    • @ferihaemir7663
      @ferihaemir7663 Před rokem +1

      Currently experiencing it🥹😭💔💔💔

  • @prasannagupchup7887
    @prasannagupchup7887 Před rokem +25

    If you are ghosted, please respond by ghosting. If the girl suddenly without any reason or without any communication, stops responding abruptly, respect her by following no contact. Accept the reality. If she doesn't communicate, text or call, please understand she is no more interested in you. Don't chase her. Have self respect. Take care of your life, your health, your interests and hobbies. There are millions of other things to do in life than to take part in these stupid games. Just forget her forever and move on. You will meet some decent, sensible, mature , nice women. Don't waste your life for someone who doesn't deserve you.

  • @shailz709
    @shailz709 Před rokem +25

    No one is permanent 😊👍
    Love yourself if others join its bonus .
    Keep yourself at top of your priority list.

  • @ankeshsingh439
    @ankeshsingh439 Před rokem +20

    Thanks to you sir, I'm suffering from this from 2021 so it's my advice to all, don't make anyone that much important, no one is more important than your health and success! Jai hind jai bharat

  • @abdulkhalik6869
    @abdulkhalik6869 Před rokem +3

    सर आप ने बहुत अच्छे तरह से समझाया है,घोस्टिंग से बहुत सारे लड़के परेशान हैं, आप के सुझाव से बहुत लोगों को फायदा होगा, धन्यवाद

  • @amitdutta2796
    @amitdutta2796 Před rokem +403

    So I was not alone to face this. Those months were the most horrible time of my life. Just one suggestion for boys: please don't involve in any relationship till 30. Make a good career by that time. Then if you do arrange marriage that is far better and peaceful than getting hurt by ghosting.

    • @manas2656
      @manas2656 Před rokem +33

      Same thing happened to me mate. Mine was long distance. I was so stupid i used to beg her.

    • @kes222
      @kes222 Před rokem +12

      @@manas2656 same mate , girls ko koi mtlb ni apna mtlb niklne ke baad

    • @holyspirit8520
      @holyspirit8520 Před rokem +29

      Bhai tere angur khatte nikle toh sare anguro ko bura mat bol, its good to walk away if someone treats u like this but arrange marriage have different complicated serious issues. It depends how sharp and mature you are while choosing a partner dont have anything to do with age.

    • @parulpathania9652
      @parulpathania9652 Před rokem +8

      @@kes222 jaruri nhi h bhai i was also suffering from this, now he have gf and i m still suffering from this hope I will recover this gives me anxiety attacks. And not everyone doing timepass some people are serious and some people having 2-3bf /gf

    • @TukulParida
      @TukulParida Před rokem +16

      IPC 498A, 376, 376 2N, 506, 323 ,439 , 354 , 341 , 66 C , 504 , 307 jab lagega arrange marriage pe tab boliyo police ko. 😂

  • @abhishekhiwale5266
    @abhishekhiwale5266 Před rokem +120

    Fully relatable... Being there, faced that situation and now rising 💪.
    Thank you so much sir!!🙌

    • @soumyadip3443
      @soumyadip3443 Před rokem +2

      Same !!! I’ve been ghosted for 2 years by the same person and he acted like nothing happened. So,one day I sent him a reel where a girl was explaining this toxic behaviour in a sarcastic way and after that I blocked him permanently and things are going pretty well for me.

    • @SaurabhKumar-ej5kw
      @SaurabhKumar-ej5kw Před rokem

      Same here...

  • @mumtajali1520
    @mumtajali1520 Před rokem +173

    Ghosting Jyadatar matlab 90% ladkiya karti hai🎯Yahi Sachchai hai accept karni Chahiye💥🔥

    • @jatinthakur8913
      @jatinthakur8913 Před rokem

      Bhai meko toh goliyan deti hai

    • @KrGaurav_Kr
      @KrGaurav_Kr Před rokem +42

      not true, it could be anyone, mostly those who are afraid of making a commitment they do it, because its easy to run away.

    • @sarikagothwal4351
      @sarikagothwal4351 Před rokem +19

      Nai...me ladki hu mere sath hua hai... mentally torcher hota😇or recover krne me 1.5 year approx lag gaya

    • @chiragnaik4182
      @chiragnaik4182 Před rokem

      @Cylinders truck v:wv1v

    • @yuktiyukti02
      @yuktiyukti02 Před rokem +1

      Not true... Girls ko feelings hotii h mera kehne ka mtlb yeh nai boys m nai hote emotions but still... Ladkiyo ko yeh toh pata chlta hi h kii saamne waala hurt ho rha h

  • @subhajitghosh9964
    @subhajitghosh9964 Před rokem +19

    The worst thing your partner can do to you is not the rejection, is ghosting. This is inhumanity.
    Self centred behaviour, Cowardice, Narcissism are the probable reasons. They don't have the courtesy to give the closure. And that hurts.

    • @mitalig222
      @mitalig222 Před rokem

      Right

    • @user-ze9dj3pp2y
      @user-ze9dj3pp2y Před 10 měsíci +1

      Same with me.. She neither accepted nor rejected me... She also said that she likes me.. I was hoping that one day she would fall in love.. But suddenly she disappeared without saying anything ..it's hurts😢.... But hopefully I'm alright now

  • @Manoj.techmagnet
    @Manoj.techmagnet Před rokem +3

    You are 100% right sir ,jo ap bata rha hai,us daur se gujar ke nikal gya hu.

  • @payas628
    @payas628 Před rokem +25

    Remember If Someone Ghosts you...
    DELETE their Contact Immediately.
    Out of Sight,Out of Mind and Peace be upon mind.

    • @satorugoju2662
      @satorugoju2662 Před rokem +2

      If she has our family's phone number also . She will call to that number if I block her

    • @payas628
      @payas628 Před rokem +1

      @@satorugoju2662Block & Delete her contact from Family's Phone number too

  • @navaneetdas5454
    @navaneetdas5454 Před rokem +60

    I also suffered the dark eventuality of ghosting after breakup which caused severe depression and degradation of exam grades. Thanks to my parents who stood by me and that availed me psychological treatment which helped me to recover strongly after that.

  • @saeedabatool5263
    @saeedabatool5263 Před rokem +9

    Walk away is the best strategy. Thanks for discussing such issues

  • @AKASH-th8gl
    @AKASH-th8gl Před 9 měsíci +3

    Beware bhaiyo and behno... Khud se zyada kisi ko importance nahi dena hai jeevan me.
    Yaad rakhe ki 3 hi aapke sabse kareeb hai pehla aapka knowledge doosra aapke family/friend and teesra aap khud.
    Ghosting causes a traumatic mental illness. So always take a mental backup by considering all the possibilities of anyone's action. This will help you in recovering...
    And most importantly try to stay away from people faking about the human ethics and values in the world.
    And my suggestion to people who have suffered from it is that despite being nostalgic and thinking about past focus on the future and how to make it comfortable and easy. Because by thinking about it you are hurting yourself more than the other did to you.

  • @Naveenkumar-fk5ux
    @Naveenkumar-fk5ux Před rokem +2

    ये अलौकिक समाचार सुनकर तीनों लोको में बहुत प्रसन्नता है समस्त नर और नारी सुर असुर देवता मनुष्य मुनि गनधर्व प्रसन्न हुए पूरे ब्रह्मांड में उत्साह है दिव्यज्योति प्रजवालित हुई है आगे भी सृष्टि के कल्याण के हेतु ऐसा समाचार डालते रहे तकि संसार प्रकाशमय रहे ऐसी सूचनाओं को पा कर।
    धन्यवाद आपकाइतनी महत्वपूर्ण जानकारी देने के लिए धन्यवाद।आज आप अगर यह जानकारी ना देते तो देवराज इंद्र का सिंहासन हिल गया होता, धरती पर भूकंप आ गया होता।आपने इस खबर को दिखा कर पूरे मानवजाति पर बहुत बड़ा उपकार किया है।इसके लिए आपको कोटि कोटि धन्यवाद सर।

  • @mrwasimmohammad
    @mrwasimmohammad Před rokem +16

    Eat, sleep, work, hangout with friends and repeat.
    be single until unless parents get us an arranged marriage, try to be happy with what we get in our life and make family, friends happy.
    Every introvert, middle class and single story....

    • @marifsofi547
      @marifsofi547 Před rokem +2

      arrange marriage is worst bcz you don't know the person nor you know is she virgin or not with how many she had illegal relatonships

    • @rdar17
      @rdar17 Před rokem

      @@marifsofi547 Yes!

  • @snl313sm
    @snl313sm Před rokem +25

    Its happened almost in everybody life. I agree with ur suggestion.

  • @apoorvgaurav
    @apoorvgaurav Před rokem +82

    Beautiful Session Siddhant, I had similar incident in my early 20s it took time to understand those days we didnt had a lecturer like you and after few incidents I too walked away.. which is the best way way to normalise again.

  • @mocktailsucker5529
    @mocktailsucker5529 Před 11 měsíci +17

    First time someone is speaking on this. Sir thank you! We need to talk about this more ❤ Mental health is a crucial concern these days. Thank you! 🙏🙏

  • @kriyal_kris.
    @kriyal_kris. Před rokem +8

    I tackled with this situation and I won😊 thank God and universe always help us

  • @dhirajkumarrout1812
    @dhirajkumarrout1812 Před rokem +21

    It's been 4 years still couldn't get over from it...

    • @vj-em7qg
      @vj-em7qg Před rokem +4

      A bhai pls. You scared me. She left me 10 days before actually she cheated on me with her colleague. It's my 5 years relationship. I helped her to get everything but she suddenly left me.

    • @bikers_shortz
      @bikers_shortz Před rokem +1

      @@vj-em7qg gb road ja 😈 sabb utar jayega

    • @rajarana8301
      @rajarana8301 Před rokem

      @@vj-em7qg don't sacred first broke your cycle watch develop attraction type channel and learn how to behave then damn work on yourself set your life goal, become bumstead in body, tesla in success and goggins in grind.... And first broke your virginity.. That helps you to think better

    • @Anxh007
      @Anxh007 Před rokem +1

      @@vj-em7qg ye sab dra rhe h bhai fukat chinta mte

    • @vj-em7qg
      @vj-em7qg Před rokem

      @@Anxh007 han bhai

  • @alphabanker23
    @alphabanker23 Před rokem +56

    it took my four years to cope with this situation when she suddenly left me after 3 years of relationship. we didnt fight even for once and i was in same confusion how it happened with me. later i came to know she was dating other guy in the meantime and she was not able to confront me. it ruined my days and nights. it still haunts me and i easily dont trust people now. it completely changed my personality.

    • @maheshkori2645
      @maheshkori2645 Před rokem

      I understand you bro😊

    • @letsseeklife3516
      @letsseeklife3516 Před rokem +3

      Sameeeeee! I'm a girl and a boy did this to me🙂. It's all about individual morals & ethics

  • @KUNAL-cv4sp
    @KUNAL-cv4sp Před rokem +25

    When someone ghost you, use that confused state to push your limits in gym. It is why people end up in gym after a breakup or ghosting.

    • @believeingod3463
      @believeingod3463 Před rokem +2

      Correct... I went for yoga n meditation n now such things don't affect me negatively

    • @riyaverma1331
      @riyaverma1331 Před rokem +4

      Gym is therapy 💪🔥

  • @thatsmalltowngirl
    @thatsmalltowngirl Před rokem +11

    Have been a victim, it was really traumatizing but finally rose up & broke the pattern cos i realized that this will continue happening if i don't take charge of my life. Walking away from such a toxic person is the best thing to do... Living a happy life now. 😊

  • @VipinKumar-md2wd
    @VipinKumar-md2wd Před rokem +1

    उत्तम कक्षा - जो समस्या पता थी,आज उसको आपने शब्द दे दिए परिभाषा दे दी इसके साथ ही उसका समाधान भी,जीवन के एक बड़ी शंका दूर करने और खुद को आत्मशांति देने वाली बातें बता दी।

  • @01Ashish
    @01Ashish Před rokem +17

    There is famous saying that ' People would not have fallen in love if there was not word ' Love''. No body knows what is ' Love' but everyone wants ' Love'. It's always a hormonal and psychological event don't take it like natural thing, and never ever expose yourself completely to someone.

  • @aditisharma2480
    @aditisharma2480 Před rokem +93

    Thankku so much for session , Sir. Actually , mental pain(ghosting) is more traumatic than breakup pain . A must watch session for every love bird of this era

  • @rahulsinghpb1540
    @rahulsinghpb1540 Před rokem +6

    Mere sath bhi ghosting huyi thi aur maine osho ko sun sun kr apne aap ko heal Kiya everyone must listen or read Osho 🙏

  • @sinitabhattacharya9374
    @sinitabhattacharya9374 Před rokem +1

    Iss liye sab ko Geeta parni chahite...Jinka mool hai, "expectation se saare dukh aatey hai." 😌🙏

  • @journeyanddestination
    @journeyanddestination Před 8 dny +1

    Separation is true and pure love is very painful. No matter what the reason is family, society or circumstances.
    We can't express in words.❤

  • @VibhuMishra707
    @VibhuMishra707 Před rokem +10

    Problem is we ignore, the Red Flags. Watch the efforts of other person towards you and test the person, how they react to it.

  • @pramodsahani6449
    @pramodsahani6449 Před rokem +11

    Sir aap itni late se baat bataye
    Ab to hum barbaad ho gaye hai 😭😭😭 mere sath same yese hi ho raha hai ab nikal jayenge
    Thank you so much sir 💕❣️🙏🙏🙏

  • @BigDaddyGaming
    @BigDaddyGaming Před rokem +17

    There is something people must learn or see "Everything is temporary, always ready for the Worst Case scenario"

    • @3226bigdaddy
      @3226bigdaddy Před 10 měsíci

      I never knew i have a gaming channel , wow 👌

  • @BijitDas-ne1nf
    @BijitDas-ne1nf Před 11 měsíci +3

    When someone loves us, we can feel & when someone doesn`t, that also we can feel. We are the one who deny what we feel & fool ourself.

  • @kayestheking8586
    @kayestheking8586 Před rokem +41

    Arrange Marriage is far batter then getting hurt from gf

    • @englishexpert1989
      @englishexpert1989 Před rokem +28

      Do not even get married. Stay alone

    • @rajvir779
      @rajvir779 Před rokem +6

      you have to be very very lucky if you get arranged with someone with no past trauma, it's a gamble.

    • @kayestheking8586
      @kayestheking8586 Před rokem +1

      @@rajvir779 absolutely agree bro

    • @veenanarwani761
      @veenanarwani761 Před 11 měsíci

      ​@@englishexpert1989🙂 best option!

    • @beardoboy2810
      @beardoboy2810 Před 10 měsíci

      Yehi toh Tv media ka propaganda h stay alone jiska shikar nayi yuva pidhi ho rhi aur fir cool samajhti khudko 😅🤣

  • @heenachopra500
    @heenachopra500 Před rokem +10

    I wanna say to all the people don't do ghosting please we don't need more depressed people in our society, If you'll depress someone you'll get only depressed people. Please be responsible and take a decision and communicate if you don't feel like to be with someone have that courage to say it on someone's face.
    Thanks 🤘🏻

  • @mayanksahai6975
    @mayanksahai6975 Před rokem +89

    I really needed this kind of video. Going through recent breakup and similar situation where already our marriage was fixed and family got agreed for our love marriage. Thanks a lot sir for this great video on ghosting! 💔🙂

    • @parmindersingh1006
      @parmindersingh1006 Před rokem +1

      Edir bhi recently hua hai breakup

    • @sunny-wt5gz
      @sunny-wt5gz Před rokem

      Sorry brother I hope aap thik ho , Tension maat Lo sab thik hi hoga and Aacha hai chod gae , pyaar karne wale nahi chodte , stay strong ❤

    • @mayanksahai6975
      @mayanksahai6975 Před rokem +1

      @@sunny-wt5gz Thank you brother just have blessings of you all!

    • @sunny-wt5gz
      @sunny-wt5gz Před rokem +1

      @@mayanksahai6975 sorry brother but I am sister 🙃

    • @NFS691
      @NFS691 Před rokem +1

      @@mayanksahai6975 it's personal.
      But why ..if ur family support love marriage ???

  • @airport_travel_fun
    @airport_travel_fun Před rokem +16

    Sir!! Amazing video!! This is really common these days!! It has been happening with me ! And I literally started losing my emotional balance. I used to cry and was in depression for so long. But then I realized it was not even my fault.
    You have just one life, don't waste it on anyone who is negative or not worth it.
    Remember your mental health is more important..

  • @cyogian
    @cyogian Před rokem +8

    Exactly, breakup can be handled bcoz we're aware of the consequence, having already lived it. But Ghosting can't bcoz we aren't aware of the consequence & thus are not able to move on.

  • @bikashbhaisal1309
    @bikashbhaisal1309 Před rokem +19

    I am badly affected by this in Last one year. It have distrubed my mental health and physical health both.vry hard to return normal conditions 😌🥺😭

  • @inscanada2612
    @inscanada2612 Před rokem +8

    And Ghosting is so common because people have also become just a social media entity to each other. I was ghosted in 2015 and then suddenly she came back one year later. Wow

  • @dhruvrajsingh9053
    @dhruvrajsingh9053 Před rokem +10

    I think there is nothing like love, pain, break up etc. it is all human emotions .teenagers should learn and practice how to control their emotions. in this whole world one person is with another person for a reason once reason is detected relationship is over.
    so stay strong and keep trying to achieve your goal

  • @Crickfever110
    @Crickfever110 Před rokem +9

    Tbh I think ghosting is the best thing when comes to mental peace if ur partner isn’t giving u enough value & moves out with or without reason it’s better u do the same instead of putting ur energy somewhere u r valued less . Don’t stress babies u got ur whole life..keeping focusing with time everything settles..🕉

  • @Invincible-ey5oe
    @Invincible-ey5oe Před rokem +16

    भगवान से प्यार करो भगवान का नाम जप kro is दुनिया में कोई भी किसी का होता ही नहीं हैं हमारा शरीर तक हमारा नहीं तो दूसरे लोग क्या होंगे
    जय श्री सिया राम ♥️♥️♥️😘

    • @CHAUHANJii76
      @CHAUHANJii76 Před rokem

      Bhagwan v acche admi ka sath nhi deta.. ajkl

  • @humanitylover6351
    @humanitylover6351 Před rokem +42

    This was much needed video sir Thank you so much🙏... Having a narcissistic mother (only parent) has been making my life tough . Feeling mentally harrasment is the worst.. I've been fighting with this since after my father death .In start I decided to try to elaborate, try to correct but all was in vain so now I try to avoid and dont do much still I love her nd hope she ll be fine soon and become as loving as she used to before . But I want to put forth its positive aspect is I can see red flags very easily and ready to leave any person , friend for peace of my mind .

    • @premkumar944
      @premkumar944 Před rokem +2

      Mine also watch white oleander

    • @humanitylover6351
      @humanitylover6351 Před rokem

      @@premkumar944 is it a movie/ documentary

    • @premkumar944
      @premkumar944 Před rokem

      It is a movie english based on mother that is imposing her daughter some characteristics

    • @premkumar944
      @premkumar944 Před rokem

      @@humanitylover6351 when I was a teenager this movie directed my mind healed me very much now I am a parent and i can understand

    • @premkumar944
      @premkumar944 Před rokem

      I shower love on other people kids but when it's my kids I get angry in them because I want them to perfect

  • @sangeeta8149
    @sangeeta8149 Před rokem +63

    Even kids of class 4 are now a days trying this with classmates. Its tougher than our times

  • @navneetsharma7836
    @navneetsharma7836 Před rokem +1

    kuch cheezen mujhe life me samajh nahi aa rhi thi apne , pattern nahi samajh paa rha tha , means " WHY ? " , yeh cheez me samajh nahi paa rha tha but , life me ek cheez seekh li un-certainty ke liye bhi ek certain level the prepare rehna , situation manage krna , aajka yeh session bohoot accha share kiya taki , ordinary people tak ek msg pohoch jaye taki unhe unfortunately esi situation ka samna krna pade toh woh kuch hadd tk samne wale ki mentality samajh sake , khud ko prepare krke fight kr saken thoda tuff ban sake , thank u for this session

  • @saitama4118
    @saitama4118 Před rokem +10

    My mom use to said to me when I was just a kid now I'm mature and it's always help me-
    "Ladki/ladka bus train ek jati hai dusri ati hai"

  • @niteshsharma6803
    @niteshsharma6803 Před rokem +6

    CZcams recommend it to me ...i always want to express my feelings in authentic words..and i got it

  • @meethi007
    @meethi007 Před rokem +28

    I have gone through this and it's mentally frustrating and after this I lost my truth in this love and relationship . It took me years to get out from this .

  • @TR-ce8wt
    @TR-ce8wt Před 11 měsíci +1

    Thanks for this video , I will disappear from now from social environment. Move on is for weak. I am not weak. I will never regret for not living or enjoying

  • @vaidikamina7412
    @vaidikamina7412 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I Appreciate you for saying ghosting is trait of cowardness.

  • @antarikshghosh7893
    @antarikshghosh7893 Před rokem +39

    moral of the story is respect the dead & ignore the ghost

  • @aghababerkhan
    @aghababerkhan Před rokem +16

    Most precious lession of our life.

  • @wzyvishal
    @wzyvishal Před rokem +32

    I have also faced this thing, I had a long distance relationship with her almost 4 years, & sometimes I thought that only I put efforts on that relationship to grow but still I love her and want to stay with her, and I first time meet her on her birthday after 4 years, when I come back I think 1 week later she called me and say (mujhe nhi rehna hai relationship me ab) and I am just speechless kuch bol hi nhi paa raha tha mein in last moment I said okey decision is yours. She didn't tell me the reason and almost 1 year I thinking day/night what was reason I want to talk to her but I can't because she blocked me from everywhere, and I am literally confused and depressed started smoking not going gym frustrated in work.. literally I am living in a ghosting face.. and now after 2 years has I taken care of mself, going to gym Quit smoking and focused on work. Because no one is there for like you whatever you do for them they don't care. No one cares how you feel, how you live everyone wants to listen to them but no one wants to listen you, so live your life.. regret se better hai Ghar walon ki pasand se shadii karlo atleast wo toh khush rahenge! 💀

    • @invinciblelingaraj
      @invinciblelingaraj Před rokem

      Sab moh maya he , koi kisi ka nahi bhae take care of u and ur lovely parents

  • @ankitamaji3229
    @ankitamaji3229 Před rokem +9

    I have been the victim of this and i knows how it feels . But I am really glad that I came out of that mental agony .

  • @IamSwatiP
    @IamSwatiP Před rokem +2

    Being a victim.. its very very dangerous.... It breaks you completely.... Let's be a centre figure of our own life not someone else....

  • @tulikapandey1208
    @tulikapandey1208 Před rokem +13

    I had been a victim of silent treatment for 3 years...he used this method and controlled me and never let me leave. I was under severe depression and trauma But somehow i managed to leave him.

  • @UDCOOLBUDDY07
    @UDCOOLBUDDY07 Před rokem +42

    Same happened with me 7 years ago, I can't explain How hard it was for me to get out from that situation of 1 year depression. But i resolved this alone without even discussing with anyone. Just googled so many ways to get out, and successfully did that. The only thing that helped me most is the geeta and mahabharata, After that i was able to think from a wider perspective. Jai Shri Hari ❤️🙏

    • @letsseeklife3516
      @letsseeklife3516 Před rokem +2

      Sameeeeee! Hare Krishna 😇🙏🌺✨

    • @radhamohanverma6297
      @radhamohanverma6297 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Learning bhagwath geeta in Sanskrit or its English translation .please make it clear

  • @nipendubiswas
    @nipendubiswas Před rokem +18

    You won our hearts, Sir. This is real, thank you. Life is full of tastes!

  • @pacreatic898
    @pacreatic898 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thanks for providing this ghostly knowledge😊

  • @anildawda4692
    @anildawda4692 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Real God ho aap sir....🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @chandrimashekhardas9705
    @chandrimashekhardas9705 Před rokem +9

    Introverts don't have any impact of Ghosting I guess. Because we wanna be avoided all the time !!

    • @Shivamkumaryutube
      @Shivamkumaryutube Před rokem +3

      Lekin introverts bhi to kisi khas insan se mentally connected feel krte hi hai. Aur agar wahi ye kaam kr de tab to dikkat hoga hi☠️

    • @nowornever7198
      @nowornever7198 Před rokem

      Haha Chandrima some positivity 😂🤣 some benefits of being introverst jise sath rehna rahega nhi rehna chala jayega,block krdiya so move on this shud be the funda of life

    • @chandrimashekhardas9705
      @chandrimashekhardas9705 Před rokem

      @@nowornever7198 exactly.
      Block kar diya toh 2nd time nhi sochne wali

  • @PrakashSharma-hg4rm
    @PrakashSharma-hg4rm Před rokem +5

    What a brilliant topic.. thanks sir for this ....there is not a single channel on mental health

  • @nirajmahato102
    @nirajmahato102 Před rokem +23

    Sir, Thanks for being this regular even though you have gone through the unpayable loss. Much love and respect to you sir, your dad will be feeling proud looking at you from heaven.

  • @TufanChakraborty-ph7sm
    @TufanChakraborty-ph7sm Před 10 měsíci +2

    I was also ghosted by somebody really special..I was shattered into pieces and it took me several Years to collect all the pieces together and rebuild myself. The most important lesson I learnt * Never give anybody the authority to break you down*. Try to find happiness in what you love to do or what you love to become.

  • @shivamsonimvb5395
    @shivamsonimvb5395 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Thanks for discussion such a deep problem

  • @Aparna.18
    @Aparna.18 Před rokem +79

    I think my cousin is suffering from this kind of pain
    She is being treated by psychiatrist
    It's just horrible how a person came in your life and ruined all your mental peace
    And the most shit thing that victim starts blaming herself

    • @zainabzain4769
      @zainabzain4769 Před rokem +3

      true .. same is with me . I dont know how someone can be so cruel and not able to understand someone's true love and affection for them !

    • @jay_s5
      @jay_s5 Před rokem +1

      Ask her to do pranayam and meditation it will take one months she will be fine

    • @aparajitaacharya5372
      @aparajitaacharya5372 Před rokem +7

      "The biggest coward is a man who awakens a woman's love with no intention of loving her. " Hope them to get the taste of their own shit 💩

    • @Choudhary90098
      @Choudhary90098 Před rokem +1

      @@aparajitaacharya5372 would love to give silent treatment and ghosting b tbh and i don't think love is real lol

    • @Choudhary90098
      @Choudhary90098 Před rokem +1

      @@aparajitaacharya5372 yeah we shouldn't promote sensitive behaviour

  • @ranveerrauniyar4455
    @ranveerrauniyar4455 Před rokem +12

    Pyar ek natural phenomenon hai kisi ke gyan ka asar nhi padta h 😀

  • @depressedhuman2732
    @depressedhuman2732 Před 11 měsíci +6

    Same happened to me, I begged her to stay for a while so that I can understand what was happening. So I asked her that she should stay for a while. Finally she understood and stayed for almost 3 months. And after that she was gone. And I was hurt but understood everything also that she was entertaining more than 2 other guys. I was third.😂😂

  • @kabirkhatri9217
    @kabirkhatri9217 Před 10 měsíci +1

    too good an explanantion . So simply told . though i know all this very well, but almost the entire young generation is suffering from this.

  • @SaumyaRastogi2
    @SaumyaRastogi2 Před rokem +7

    Love-affairs will cripple Indian youths greatly in coming years.
    More depression, suicides , and Crimes.

    • @KrGaurav_Kr
      @KrGaurav_Kr Před rokem +1

      its not because of love affiars, its because people are so alone that they cant express their thoughts and feelings to anyone, phle ke time me ghar pe at least 1 person hota tha jiske saath hum apni sab thoughts and feelings share karte the jo help karta tha guide karta tha, but now everyone is busy in their own life. Main reason ye hai

    • @thewalker338
      @thewalker338 Před rokem

      Government should reduce the marriage to 15 & 16 and child birth age to 22

    • @dibyajitmazumdar3435
      @dibyajitmazumdar3435 Před rokem +1

      @@thewalker338 no everyone should marry after 45 so that everyone is mature enough to not do all this bullshit

  • @vinugautam9318
    @vinugautam9318 Před rokem +13

    It’s first time watching you sir… You are our family member 🫂 Important information for youth…

  • @dope_shubha
    @dope_shubha Před rokem +46

    from 5:40 to 6:24 .. this incident actually happened to my life ... I was in college and she was my first love,, everything was perfect we used to spend time together and help each other in various aspects ..but during corona suddenly after ghosting me 2 weeks , out of nowhere she broke up with me without any reason and left. I asked many times about the reason but she didn't even see my messages and call logs ...I was confused, deperessed broke like a hell. It takes several years to cope me up with that. I have learnt it in a hard way..!

    • @pranaysharma02
      @pranaysharma02 Před rokem +3

      Same viro😌
      Pr jo hota hai acha keliye hi hota hai ❣️

    • @jad45
      @jad45 Před rokem

      She is undeserving for your love.

    • @sauravverma1185
      @sauravverma1185 Před rokem

      Same incident happened with me wo Haa v nhi bolti thi aur mujhe jane v nhi deti thi
      I was in one sided love after 11-12 month when l feel i couldn't control my emotions , mental peace was distorted
      I took a firm step of walking off
      Now her existence doesn't even bother me