Scars of Solitude
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- čas přidán 28. 05. 2013
- "A short documentary with the idea that people will realise how damaging loneliness really is. In the summer of 2012 we found a village in Romania, a beautiful place, which at this moment is populated by only one souL. An old lady who refused to leave her home behind and go with the rest of the village. We went there on a sunny day and we found a deserted village. We were sorounded by abandoned houses and silence. Total silence. But in one of the houses we were shocked to discover this old lady, mutilated by the loneliness, almost an animal with poor or no judgement at all remained, living among other animals.
We really hope you'll like this video and realise how important is to have someone in your life who is there for you."
Directed by Beny Cosma
Assistent: Daniel Fratila
Produced by Beny/Alex Cosma
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Look at her hands....strong and big fm hard work.....her gaze is clear.....beautiful old lady...
"I have my own Germany "I was born here I will die here!
My hat off to this beautiful human being.
I agree totally! What a wonderful lady!
You dishonour this brave woman with your silly assumptions and biases.
+59acres Probably the filmmaker is some dependent idiot who can't imagine surviving on his or her own. Disgusting that they had to exploit an admirable elderly lady.
am urmarit filmuletul, tote bune pana la presupunerile din final. Total deplasate. Sunt un singuratic in natura, da niciodata singur. Intelegi ? Doar din realizarea faptului ca esti singur poti fi in relationare cu totul !!
Not once did this woman say she was lonely. The author of the description is obviously too feeble to see the strength this woman possesses.
The sappy sentimental piano score is a pathetic choice for such a strong subject; a Beautiful human being.
+Phillip Murphy I know right, some dubstep would suit her personality better
"almost an animal" ?!?! WTF ?!?! This could have been a very touching film if it wasn't for the disastrous description and the unnecessary statement at the end.
what a son of a bitch isn't he?! like the fuck was that supposed to mean???
I agree. She is more beautiful in and out than many so called civilized people.
I wish I had half the conviction she has! Man! My grandma was like this too. Lived alone in a small town for about 20 years. She had a tough time getting used to the city. Passed away three years after she moved! I think this documentary is highly biased. The woman has seen much life and she is not scared of being alone. I think we have a lot to learn from her.
Very inspiring. Thanks for sharing.
This documentary is NOTHING like the written description. This woman seems FAR from damaged. She seems strong and admirable. She is not "almost an animal" and her judgment seems just fine. Moreover she seems to have a whole bunch of family who she keeps up with somehow from a distance. What in hell is the description all about, a completely different movie? This would have been fascinating enough just as the story of an old lady who refused to leave her home when others all did...there are many such older people who want to stay in the place where their memories are and it would have been much more interesting to focus on that rather than try to make her out to be some lonely old mental case which she most definitely IS NOT. You could probably find lonelier old people living in the middle of bustling cities than this person is.
+yootuba - I think this is about the loneliness of the filmmaker, not about the woman.
You should do a documentary on how damaging socializing can be....bullying, abuse, rejections, discrimination, etc.
what a beautiful strong woman.
This is the last great generation,
when elders like her die ,
we truly have lost a great treasure,
And sadly the younger generations
Will not be strong enough to stand
The coming hardships ,
They have been coddled and pampered
And raised entitled,
Not all ,but a lot ,
God Bless this beautiful lady ,
Just realized she is 90 if she still lives ,
Wow 😌
i cried the whole time ...this lady reminds me of my grandma who died 11 months from now ..the same look, the same eyes the same life style when she was young..she use to tell me about how she took care of her cows and sheeps and stuff ..too bad she died in the city and not in such a beautiful place
amen
A wonderful lady living simply surrounded by animals and nature.
Relationships can be overrated at times.
Happiness can exist wether there is a relationship or not.
There is a vast difference between loneliness and aloneness.
Many people are lonely in some relationships.
@@abovethelaw4417 ✨ lololol 🤣
She's knows what she's doing. She knows what's this world has become. So she made the trade. And in the trade. She lives along but safe.
Damm, I cryed all the time this lady speaks of her past. She kinda reminds me of my late grandma. Good video, makes me think how will my life be at that age, because I´m walking the path of loneliness and solitude
Hmf I pity the ones that are unable to grasp the beauty of silence and solitude every now and then. it strengthens the soul in a world of superficial gains and so...much....noise everywhere, every second of the day.
What a lady, I take my hat off for her. Just look at those sparkling eyes and strong hands, you don't see those in our 'efficient' retirement homes!!
"unable to grasp the beauty of solitude every now and then..." it's not just an occasional hobby for some people, at their own greedy leisure, in between all the love that they deprive others of, you callous scumbag.
Clearly the film-maker is an extrovert and so yeah he would think being alone would be horrible. Extroverts energize from being around people. An introvert would think this is a paradise. She is sad because she sees her way of life dying and no one is there to continue it. That is the true tragedy of this film, not that she is alone. She inspires hope in me and I only wish I could meet her.
Wow, she is great. But I don't agree with your assestment of her being almost an animal with no judgement. She knows what she wants: does not want to leave, she wants to be in the only place she can call home, and she wants to die where she belongs and where memories are. My impression is that she is alone but not lonely. I was hurt though thinking that she may get ill soon and won't have anybody to take care of her.
A beautiful, simple and profound documentary, both personal and universal. We are hyper-social in our nature and to a great extent have no separate existence outside of our relationships. This beautiful woman, who personifies the dignity and strength that the best of us are capable of, tells the story of a world in constant upheaval. Families and communities are being undermined and fractured by the forces of war and economic turmoil. In the end, it is our relationships to each other and to the land that counts and that is most fundamental to our humanness. Always has been, and always will be. Materialism, greed and a world-wide economic system that converts living systems into dead matter must end, or we will. God Bless this lovely human soul.
Humans are not as social as the media make you to believe. It was manufactured by industries. Loneliness is only bad the moments when you need someone else. Otherwise, it's not the cancer people think it is.
All in all.....one of the best stories in CZcams......my opinion....
She's bright.....and clear eyed....may she live long....
She has her own "Germany" where she is. It is her choice. It doesn't mean she is lonely and doesn't mean she is unhappy where she is. She may be alone, the way you see that there is no other physical person living with her. Give her some dignity for being a strong woman living by herself. I bet whoever wrote the description of this short film couldn't stand that situation had he/she been in that circumstance. She is not almost an animal. That assumption is only in your mind. What kind of gratitude is that description who put in here after she spent time who grant you that interview? Perhaps you would find it in your heart to re-write that description. I honor her dignity and I know I'm not the only one thinking and feeling this way among those who watched this film. But thank you for sharing.
Old lady, the willage, all that wolrd, looks just the same as somewhere in Serbia. her's life story and destiny is the same as the story of many people in Serbian remains of willage. I take this "personale" if I can say so. Perfect... And spechless.
It doesn't make sense to me that this is supposed to be a sad video. How is it sad? I think she is a very successful person, to be able to live that long and by herself. That is one tough lady. She isn't "mutilated" by loneliness, she is just old, what do you expect? When she said the village is 400 years old, I thought, "well where did she live before the village was built?". She is like a hundred and doing better than I would do living alone, and I am a relatively young man. It's not sad, it is unique and interesting, and quite remarkable, but sad? Come on.
Yeah, after getting thumbed up I am reminded that this video exists. And every time I think about it, I can't help but think that this video is an insult to the lady. To quote the description, ""A short documentary with the idea that people will realise how damaging loneliness really is." What a complete misrepresentation and insult to the women.
+fnog9 I wonder if it was written by a person for whom English is not a first language. That would explain it maybe.
+vivaloriflamme no, the description is too well written, and there is no mistaking the intent of it.
"But in one of the houses we were shocked to discover this old lady,
mutilated by the loneliness, almost an animal with poor or no judgement
at all remained, living among other animals. "
pffff!!!!!!!!! .... so insulting and demeaning.
+fnog9 Not to mention that a LOT of old people are living in relative isolation because many of their family and friends have either died or moved away. It doesn't matter if they live in the middle of a city with neighbors and such, it's still not the same as seeing your brothers, sisters and old friends. Yet they are not necessarily "mutilated" by loneliness nor are they living like "animals" with "no judgment". Losing loved ones is part of aging - the longer you live the more losses you have to live through.
True. Well said.
A very old Saxon once said, “Any village must produce something in order to survive”. This is one of those examples where this is so true.
You can't just interview someone and then project your own views and ill fitting soundtrack to it... finishing with really bad and incoherent poetry...
Astonishing! I kept waiting to see why this lady was "mutilated", but I never did. I saw a brave, admirable woman, who we should all give thanks to for setting an example to this modern world that´s going down the plug hole. I think the only mutilated person involved is the idiot who wrote the description of the film, who can only see in this woman a poor, lonely soul. That is the saddest thing about the film: the incapacity to appreciate honour when it stares you in the face.
The description is insulting and outright ridiculous, does not fit the video or the woman at all. The 'poetry' at the end was also too long, unnecessary and unfitting. Better to choose one nice quote to finish it off.
On the other had,the actual video is very good, extremely moving and well made. Reminds me greatly of my grandmother and almost made me cry in my school library today.
But the author should do himself and the lady justice and remove that horrible and unfair description.
why? does it make you feel so guilty? to know that other people matter and need love?
ridiculous... right. People needing to have love in their life is ridiculous... I wish the worst on you.
Although your message of solitude and silence being toxic, her reflections and thoughts with the music set to it was nice and somewhat touching. What beauty can be found in solitude and silence!
She is lonely but keeps strong with her memories and her acceptance of life, her life. What a strong wonderful woman.
alone and lonely are 2 different things
fuck you
I didn't get the impression she is scarred by solitude, but she did seem to vaguely want companionship. She refused to move, though, so her choice was solitude. Very interesting and thought-provoking documentary.
This is the strongest person I have ever seen. My mother is her same age and I can see a lot of similarities. She deserves a medal, award, etc. for her courage, self acceptance, and stamina. We need so many more people in the world like her. She is true to herself and does not follow the crowd. She lives for her authentic self.
This was a beautiful video, thank you. I have met several old Saxon women who were the last Saxons in their village and who had similar personalities. Of course, there usually were many Romanians still living around them. I can imagine this woman's loneliness but she carries on in spite of it. I think she is sadder about the demise of her village than about her personal situation. It seems as if she is sustained by her memories of a happier past. I think she shows a lot of dignity. I don't think she is crazy, she just looks resigned to her situation. The Saxon villagers were proud to be hard workers but their schooling was limited. The Saxons who I met in Germany, the ones who had left their villages and emigrated to Germany, still went on and on about how hard they worked in Germany compared to the other Germans. If the filmmakers were expecting her to expound on the meaning of life (as Romanian intellectuals often seem to do), they came to the wrong place. But none of this takes anything away from this important documentary film about a woman and her life.
I was elevated by this lady and her story and strength. Smiled through the whole thing until the weird commentary at the end that tried to superimpose some deep sadness upon this noble being. I love solitude. When I was younger, I was gregarious and surrounded myself with the chattering of others. Once I bathed in the spotlight, had a long career in the city and raised a family. Now I am at peace, alone.
This is the type of women feminists should glorify, not Beyonce!
White people cant relate
I think she's lonely....but she figures.....Where can she go....her whole world is gone...only memories left....and to her, memories are better than nothing....
solitude and loneliness are two different experiences; this woman appears to prefer solitude and by that does not mind the experience of what we perceive as loneliness. Loneliness is when someone feels negatively about it, whereasas being in solitude is when someone does not feel negatively about it.
off course there are repercussions for being in solitude and isolation from humans...but it depends on what experience we ascribe to the state that we are in. Loneliness can occur also amongst crowds/interpersonal relationship. So it shows the meaning we attach to our experience to the state we are in.
Oh, so I'm supposed to feel sorry for whores? So I'm supposed to feel it's fair that some people are just abandoned from love their whole life, so others can claim it all? You want to romanticize that? I wish the worst on you.
she has such great memory and physically well for a lady in her late 80s, glory be to God. sweet woman.....
"...almost an animal with poor or no judgement at all remained...". Remarca asta v-a anulat toata munca de dinainte. Aveti bunul simt si reformulati.
She had no self pity - admirable quality. I almost felt like going out there to help in any way I can, and to be a friend to her, and pray with her. Her animals look healthy and fine. Her spirit is strong and pure. What an example to humanity!
That's life. This old woman has a very nice smile and seems very real and down to Earth. Since my own Grandma died, I'd give her a hug.
This woman is beautiful...Amazing and blessed.
A very good example of living a life with total peace and harmony....total isolation from the modern world gives the purify our soul and keep us close to our dear creator! thanks for this wonderful documentary may God bless you!!!
Just her and the Earth and both of them at peace with each other.
Life scarres each one of us whether its in the city or in a village alone. She lived 87 years and now she has whole 87 years of story with love, laughter, loss and pain. She has not left alone, she chose to stay there. She is a proper villager who believes she belongs to her lands... It is beautiful.
My 89 year father is in $1800per week retirement village. Retirement hospitals are a breeding ground for bugs and infections. He is constantly sick. He is hunched over from sitting around all day. He is just waiting to die like the other residents. He was a winemaker and orchardist, he would love to be sitting where she is and in the sun.
She is completely upright, lucid, insightful, accepting, she is healthy. Her life is far better than my fathers.
I enjoyed the video, but I wish I hadn't read your description of it. Reading your intent, I can see that, clearly, have a lot to learn about life. This video was only accidentally beautiful.
I think that this woman is an inspiration, I just left a small village to get away from people, my village would have been better without its current inhabitants
the description is not worthy of this elderly woman she is one of the most precious things i have seen in a very long time so unbelievably strong in spirit and fortitude for what all she had been through since she was born in 1926 in that part of the world she made me realize how much value and appreciation to the things and people who i have around me in life and to not squander are waste precious time with things that really have no importance to life at all i am now looking at life with new awakened eyes and mind to what ever i have left in life and has real value to me
I intend to end my days in solitude. I pray for this experience one day. There’s nothing lonely when u chose solitude. It’s y’all who can’t be alone with urself even a day who don’t understand the beauty in it.
I don't understand. But I like listening to her conversation. She was still mentally sharp. This video is a while ago. Sad that she lives alone.
i salute her. she stood on her own principles and refused not to leave. and look at the animals there. the chickens. the cat. the dog. the horse. they all look so healthy. and its surely because this lady takes care of them very well.
What a wonderful precious lady. To bad the author of the film doesn't see that. He sounds like a really tormented person.
I think the author is projecting their feelings on her & cannot even see her...
Living like these is a test of your fortitude. Can we spend a day alone in our homes? like this lady...
beautiful soul
OMG! What a beautiful video....
Filmul e deosebit! Daca n-ar fi fost comentariile de la final putea fi genial! Exista singuratate, si exista solitudine. Linistea este o binecuvantare... pentru cei ce nu cred si nu inteleg asta, sa citeasca despre sihastri si anahoreti care au ales calea izolarii ca forma de comuniune cu Dumnezeu. In film, batrana aceasta este o sfanta, care vorbeste cu simplitatea intelepciunii capatate intr-o viata curata si simpla. Pacat ca cei care au facut filmul n-au inteles frumusetea, vazand doar rana.
An Amazing old Lady, l could not believe her age, just look at her sitting strait the all time just like a young girl! a beautiful soul, free. she is where she belong, she would prefere to have compagny, but not without losing her freedom! somthing that most eldery people lose in order to be confortable look after, but they end up in golden cage, she chose to be free; l salut her, God bless her, when she smile she is truly beautiful , she must have been stunning in her younger days, l admire her greatly, shame on the people that dont see that.... l am old too l know how she feel!!
87 and still working? Pretty much totally self-sufficient? Remarkably clear-minded and still fully comprehensible despite rarely talking to others? But yet the video description says things like her judgement is gone and she's barely above animal level. The major spelling/grammatical errors at the end confirm that the producer is human, too, and clearly has his own biases. Silence and aloneness isn't necessarily some terrible thing. Most seniors stand to learn a thing or two from her. Heck, pretty much anyone for that matter.
This place is so beautiful . It is so sorrow to see the states it is on...The woman could be admirable but she anyway needs help. Does the film maker document her situation for the local government authorities to help her, or he/she only interest was literary. Come on...run the extra mile.
What is going on with the description "almost an animal with poor or no judgement at all" I think she's pretty articulate and self-aware, she's just made the decision that she has nowhere else to go but her village where she has spent her whole life. It's sad, of course, but I can't imagine this woman would have been happier anywhere else.
I want to go and bake this lady some cookies and give her a hug.
She did choose to stay there and to be alone. Her words state how she feels like she's been abandoned. But if all the people came back to that village, she would be the most happiest old lady out there.
This song... "All Myself to you" - Yiruma... Just perfect for this documentary
when the song started playing.. i was like.. " isnt that one of Yiruma;s songs?" :) thanks for naming it , i forgot.
2018 and this documentary is going strong; even though the filmmaker is an idiot. This woman is strong independent inspiration. The other comments are right. The music should have been drumroll to greet such an amazing person!
The last quote from Mark is true, not for that old lady but for us, the city people.We've lost our connections with the nature, ultimately with the Divinity Itself. Are we really happy with our kind of living? She hasn't lived for nothing, we have.
Please change the description on this video. She is more beautiful than many I know in the so called civilized world
Her surroundings are beautiful.
What a wonderful lovely lady''A REAL LADY 'A REAL EARTH LADY''' where money wealth or western 21st century' as not,caught,hooked ,latched or corrupted her and'' tainted 'through every sin ,visual,auditory,etc.'''''' this is absolutely 'wonderful' bare minimum space,and freedom'' these people are pure gold '
I found myself, hurting for the old lady, and in the silence of my own tears.
The description of this video and his assessment says more about the creator of the video than about this lovely woman...
I believe your title should be changed to "Scars of being lonely" This is my comment to the video before yours, "The Philosophy of Solitude, from Boethius to Thoreau " "...It's amazing how solitude sometimes being described as an achievable state, a relation to society or an esteemed, prerequisite training stage of a higher spiritual existence. A dialogue in own thinking is not in solitude, it's just mental activities done alone. Solitude is basic to being , although not to too many of humans, as necessary as sunshine, open space, clean air ,water and rest. If not exist in solitude, beings that prefer that total aloneness yet complete immersion will suffocate, being smoldered. Just like without air, space, water and sunshine. It's a must, the common denominator is just the appearance of their yearnings. Thanks for posting." Although all existence are sacred, there're differences in being physical-oriented, without choices, primitive, instincts-driven, powerless and pitiful. Solitude is different than solitary confinement, one is a chosen state almost by all saints, philosophers, sages, writers, painters, artists and poets while scars denotes being hurt, being done to and hopeless, it is further from this preferred state. Read Virginia Woolf, she defined solitude in the most beautiful way.
I live 2 miles from my closest neighbor....much nicer tha sitting atop of one another. No mistake life can be hard ...anywhere.
I agree with you, atticusFinch; the old woman hardly displays behavior which could be viewed animalistic. She is communicative, still cares about her appearance, has great recall regarding her family members and their whereabouts, etc. She also takes care of small live stock, like chickens. She certainly does not live like an animal. Did this [partially] self-imposed isolation harm her in any way? Perhaps so.. psychologically. But then again, show me the person without sorrow.
i admire her strenght. the only thing that worries me is that if she gets sick theres no one yo help her. if she dies no one Will give her a proper burial 😞 i Hope she is fine
Sometimes not knowing much is a blessing...
What a beautiful place and a beautiful person. I would move there and take care of her.
I hope this beautiful strong lady is still doing alright...and if she left us ,she died in peace just where she wanted. It is appalling the manner Benny Cosma sees her...she had a good life before the revolution of 1989 which she describes it as "the war" , then everything declined ,people left the village...she was indeed strong and independent and content with the life she was leading. Hopefully B&A Cosma have managed to improve their "cinematographic" skills since this short documentary...managed to find Beny on Facebook..Beny Cosma lives in Stuttgart Germany.
Beny get some therapy and please rename this so this beautiful strong woman can be shared more. Too bad your emotional place eclipse this, you missed much of it. She is content in her 'Germany' and accepts life how it happened. Look in her eyes!. I am surprised she opened up to you.....how much more we could have learned if you weren't so self involved.
She maybe alone but I don't think she is mutilated. She is a strong woman. Reminds me of my granny who doesn't want to leave her home & pets in the farm to live with us in the city. We could live with people around us but if it is not what makes us happy then it is useless. We could live in a place full of people but if we don't have connections, I might as well live alone. This is a nice story, but the description is sad & fucked up. On the contrary the woman seems to love her place. She is smiling except when some events reminds her of her loved ones. God bless you. If I live near you I would surely pay you a visit & bring you food. ❤️
She doesn't really seems like an animal among animals, she is really wise and totally aware of her situation. Your description sounds totally disrespectful and mean. She chose to stay here as it is her place and allowed you into her world. This is rather a privilege, not an open invitation to bad judgments
May Allah bless this beautiful elder, I would love to be her neighbour, Allah ALONE knows His plan, she reminds me of the elder tree, the tree who teaches wisdom to all other types of trees and bushes who are fortunate enough to grow around her. Peace.
It broke my heart....
She said that her husband died 23 years ago. She goes on to say that they were married from 1949 to 1964 when he got sick and died. If he died in 1964, and she said that was 23 years ago, this film would have to have been from 1987. Maybe she has dementia or just very forgetful, but the math doesn't add up. I guess being deprived of stimulation from human contact affects everything. I've been so bad for this lady. I want to get on a plane and just go spend a week there just to hang out with her, play backgammon or something. So sad.
Ioooi, ați distrus tot efectul cu înșiruirea aia inutilă de neologisme nonsensice de la final.... Ce v-a posedat să vărsați tot DEX'u acolo?
Dacă se termina tot la 12.19 era chiar o chestie faină. Eram în pragul plânsului. Acum sunt nervoasă și prea ocupată să nu îmi placă autorii ca să mai fiu atinsă de situația bătrânei.
This woman is very brave.
The woman is perfectly alright from a psychological point of view. The interpretation of the makers is damaging.
The makers are sick in the head.
Well, I just hope her only son is helping her and checking on her. The German government should have social services to help elderly people living on their own like this. She needs medicine, food, wood chopped and other essentials.
I just hope she doesn't leave horses, goats, or dogs tethered because they would starve to death and not be able
to move if she dies.
I've spent 9 and a half years without any friends or neighbors or people I can socialize to I've been only with my husband who was not really here.and my children in a place.all around I could see was woods and sugar cane around. great experience.then when I started to know how really living with people is .!? after moving in town.i suffer a lot.because human are very naughty. jealous always destroy IMG themselves.egoistic they don't know to love each other .and be sincere.but e can't change that unfortunately.
Ultimately we are all we have. All relationships are artificial. Man made. We are addicted to these relationships and think we cannot live without these so called relationships with friends and family. It would be nice to have someone but don't make it a condition. If it does not happen , just accept your aloneness.
I have to add to the others' comments here. This This documentary, by Bena Cosma, is the opposite of his description here and in the closing comments. This man is a troubled soul, and projecting his depression and sadness and troubled mind onto this woman. "almost an animal with poor or no judgement at all remained, living among other animals." This is 100% false crazy talk. She is none of these, except for living with other animals. Such as a dog and kitty cat. That's called normal, even with other humans around. She obviously gets some sort of supplies that are probably not airdropped in. Do you think she would be better at the end of her life in a city? Watch the video and judge him and her for yourself. It is her or this Beny Cosma who lacks judgment, is scarred, and who has a mutilated mind. Ridiculous.
i think some people should go join her there, shed teach them great stuff. beautiful lady ///
looks like it a great place for nautre not many of those places left
The poem at the end is really nice, I don't know what all these people's problems are in the comments. They are afraid of looking at the torment of the isolation and jealousy, they don't know what it's like to actually sacrifice yourself, they just exonerate whore society. The love which I have sought to invest myself in, in patience, loneliness, devotion, and the way these whores of society have destroyed it is a rape so far beyond any other. My life mattered, and continues to matter, and the love that has been destroyed by people who collect it and throw it away is beyond all forgiveness and is something which can never be made right. I contemplate how it is I can even go on living, what the greedy have done is so far beyond murder or any other crime they commonly condemn. My hatred for the world is unimaginable, my torment is beyond comprehension. You can't just tell me that what I'm feeling is not there and doesn't matter. I will not excuse all these comments written by people who are too afraid to confront our unbelievably wrong whore society, You all just allow it to be continued to be socially accepted and taken for granted.
in short, people are too shallow and scared to look at their own true feelings about solitude. So they try to write it off, instead. make it sound pretty. This is not a crime which I am willing to forgive, because they exonerate whore society in the process of their own self-ignorance.
I know loneliness all too well.
Buna, imi pare rau ca nu ati inteles exact care era mesajul documentarului, in calitate de regizor,spun ca mesajul nu era doar acela de a arata rana produsa de singuratate.Cateva lucruri esentiale din viata, pe care noi le ignoram.In primul rand am aratat ca femeia aceasta a avut demnitate si nu si-a vandut sufletul altor locuri,iar o a doua idee era acea de a ne trezi pe noi la realitate si sa vedem ca trebuie sa ne ingrijim batranii,sa nu ii uitam,deoarece singuratatea provoaca rani in suflet.
I have no one special in my life... My ex said everything about me disgusted them. So... now I just keep to myself.
Yer x was a narcissist-why would you bother to remember their manipulative description, fueled by narcissistic rage???
A prelude to stories some of us will tell if America survives.There is a large number of us living just like this now because we have no other options.You come to embrace it or die.I must admit to having a cheap cell phone and Internet but that's it.Other than that,nothing but the silence of life.We are hidden in plain sight and our story has yet to be told.
Have you gone back to see if she's still alive?