Secrets | After The Vows - Episode 8 | Season 1| Full Episode

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Komentáře • 36

  • @Tokollop
    @Tokollop Před 2 lety +62

    Me I appreciate you guys for putting these episodes on CZcams

  • @PhindileNdimande
    @PhindileNdimande Před 2 lety +37

    It was great to be part of the panel as the expert on this show. Marriage has to be managed by both parties. Becoming transparent and honest is key to sustain a relationship that is full of trust and commitment.

    • @themphasanes
      @themphasanes Před 2 lety +1

      Your meant to do this, I love watching you babes 🥰👌

    • @masase19
      @masase19 Před 2 lety +1

      Sis Phindi I learnt so much from you 💜

    • @TlangiBaloyi
      @TlangiBaloyi Před 2 lety +1

      I was like wait a minute when I saw the thumbnail, I was excited 💃🏾💃🏾. It was lovely seeing you be you at your best, you made great points and you’re appreciated Queen P ❤️🙌🏾🌸.

  • @kzeetha
    @kzeetha Před 2 lety +3

    "Just don't be late for your surprise parr😅🤣🤣🤣

  • @masilelabg870
    @masilelabg870 Před 2 lety +11

    Very informative. We learn a lot from these episodes. Thank you ❤️💯

  • @haleboneramokoena154
    @haleboneramokoena154 Před 2 lety +5

    Wow I didn't think that such a simple topic can be so broad, but certainly this was quite a learning curve for me even if I've been married for 20 years to be exact but I've learned. Phindile Mazindo is the best👌👌👏

  • @veeem2230
    @veeem2230 Před 2 lety +4

    Phindile mazindo is such a gem! Wow so much wisdom👌👌👌😍😍🔥

  • @joseymoloi7169
    @joseymoloi7169 Před 2 lety +30

    I used to be open with everything thing to the T, however, when there's misunderstanding he'll use them and my weakness as the weapon. Soooo with time I chose to have boundaries, choose what I tell and not... 🤔

    • @cecilemuntu5401
      @cecilemuntu5401 Před 2 lety +3

      Same thing with me. And things like this really kills the complicity between couples.
      Sad reality 😢😞😔😪

    • @PhindileNdimande
      @PhindileNdimande Před 2 lety +4

      That is the unfortunate thing. We need to learn to be sensitive and safe with our partners vulnerabilities.

    • @themphasanes
      @themphasanes Před 2 lety +2

      I agree with you choose what you tell and not 💯%👌

    • @phumieyntoots2940
      @phumieyntoots2940 Před 4 měsíci

      Me too… i now keep choose wat to say

  • @mariamashilo8487
    @mariamashilo8487 Před 2 lety +1

    Very informative conversations 👌

  • @TlangiBaloyi
    @TlangiBaloyi Před 2 lety

    Thanks for this episode. It was very enlightening 🙌🏾✨.

  • @lilykabachia
    @lilykabachia Před 2 lety

    Such a great topic . Thank you for sharing. 🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @justgugu8522
    @justgugu8522 Před 2 lety +2

    Hai, uPhindile!😳 I could listen to you every time mina sisi.🤲🏽

  • @blossom6235
    @blossom6235 Před 2 lety +6

    secrets in a marriage is a recipe for disaster, it leads to divorce and trust issues.

  • @vkmabunda9597
    @vkmabunda9597 Před 2 lety

    Wow all couples/singles need to watch this

  • @P-masutha606
    @P-masutha606 Před 2 lety

    Season 2 please 🙏, this show is helpful

  • @nthabisengprudence4330
    @nthabisengprudence4330 Před 2 lety +5

    🤣🤣🤣 mavusana, like the in between like acts.

  • @Noxii_MaNgema
    @Noxii_MaNgema Před 2 lety +1

    Very informative. ...Asbonge

  • @moe_ramz
    @moe_ramz Před 2 lety +5

    Secrets are bad. Both gentlemen are wrong. Tell your partner.

  • @masegoseroto1019
    @masegoseroto1019 Před 2 lety

    How i sooo love to be on this show

  • @Lirrah_Lee
    @Lirrah_Lee Před 2 lety +1

    Mavusana!!! 🤣🤣🤣

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali Před 2 lety

    Yoh! I’ve only just realised I was not subscribed to the channel!

  • @tsakaninkuna49
    @tsakaninkuna49 Před 2 lety +3

    Secrets make a marriage last longer. Ehh!!! I keep secrets from.people because I ha r seen how they handle other people's secrets or their behavior is not one that should know certain parts of mu life. Something's should be know by me n God. I am taking my secrets to the grave. Six feet under.

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi4769 Před 2 lety +8

    I don't know what to say. Secrets in a marriage is not right, but the truth is we all have secrets. So best way is to create boundaries and expectations.
    Share material information, you and spouse will decide what's material and what's not.
    Create a safe space for the both of you to talk about anything and everything.
    Lastly there is information that will be kept from you, accept that it's not everything that will be shared and appreciate what you've been told.
    Really I feel policing my spouse on other matters is not my portion, the point is to have a good marriage, not policing each other. We are not in court.
    I can't expect my husband to tell me secrets between his friends, really now, it's their business.
    In all honesty, secrets will come out, nothing will stay hideen under the sun, so just manage each other and learn to know when and how to speak, but never think that you'll die with a secret 😂.

  • @masegoseroto1019
    @masegoseroto1019 Před 2 lety

    Invite us for relationship after divorce😉

  • @calvinmatjiu9178
    @calvinmatjiu9178 Před 2 lety

    the way to revel the secret is in the bed room guys

  • @sydneymathuka3635
    @sydneymathuka3635 Před 2 lety

    Ok