When Should You Have A Baby?
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First get your life together. Then have kids good
NGƯỜI VIỆT VÌ SỨC KHỎE agree
by that time it's like you're 50
HIV AIDS Or how about not having kids at all.
which is totally fine for a dude, but for ladies.. not so much
Says hiv aids
"when should you have a baby" recommended "9 months ago"
I'm reading your comment 9 months later 😂😂😅
Comment nine months later😂
@3:36 😂😂😂😂 I'm single af that's never gonna be happen
This comment was 9 months later
@3:36 No😂😂 there are so many xute boys but I'm scared to admit that
I want a child soon.
He'll be blonde
Blue eyes
Cute nose
And 4 paws.
Hell no I found the furry
You are very sad
@@ashimochi its a pet. I would assume a cat
Not gonna lie, your comment sounded a little Hitler-y in the beginning😂
Neko
when should you have a baby? when you're financially stable and a mature adult
J G or when you feel like it
How about never
The third world doesn't seem to think so
Should is a strong word
Sarah Hamilfan agreed
I'm going to be a great influence to my children by being a virgin.
Crash Bandicoot 😩😩😩
Crash Bandicoot W O A H
Crash Bandicoot Why?
Like you can do it if kids are adopted
Crash Bandicoot bruh
Financially stable years old
You win.
Nic's Channel true
Definitely!
Ding ding ding. CORRECT!
Which is an age I will never reach
2:22 I like how the baby has a mustache
😂😂👍
Hitler
I'm 42 years old. I had 2 kids, one at 24 and one at 32. My husband and I tried for 5 1/2 years to conceive another child, with no success. Even considered IVF but it's too expensive. We decided to stop trying and accept that it just wouldn't happen. 6 months after we "actively stopped trying", I got pregnant. I didn't know until I was 19 weeks along because medication I was taking covered up all my pregnancy symptoms. I'm proud to report my son is 7 months old and very healthy 😊
omg congrats its cool to think now hes 4 years old 🥺🥺🥺🥺
Well first I need a partner...
:(
The Ace Of Spades i feel you bro 😢
If this ain't me
Actually, you don't. I'm not sure if I will have a boyfriend but I'll definitely adopt a child and love him and take care of him by myself, I don't need no partner and neither do you😊
Laura Paez Reyes please don't make a child go through that.
VIRGIN SQUAD WEHER R U AT
The video didn't mention the most important thing of all:
A kid wont make your relationship better. If you're currently not happy in your relationship, dont even think about having a child. A child needs a stable and caring home. That means enough income, a healthy relationship of the parents and understanding the difficulties that a child brings.
Screw the age question, this is endlessly more important. Enough single parents as it is
It didn't mention it because it's not relevant. Otherwise the title would've been "Do Children Ruin Their Parent's Lives?"
They mention this on their video "why you shouldn't have children" on the Greg and Mitchell channel
I wouldn't put down single parents - they can be awesome. You can't predict how relationships will develop. Personally, I think amicable divorce is better than 'trying to make it work', especially if you can sort out decent custody arrangements.
+Merry Machiavelli In the end, shared custody is the best solution. Even if there are children raised by a single parent, it's best for children to grow up with both their parents
Meme Queen I have to disagree with you for certain situations. Sometimes people break up for good reasons that their kids shouldn't experience. My parents had me when they were 18 but they broke up before I was born. My dad didn't want to be in my life, but my mom really wanted me to have a dad. So eventually he did decided to be in my life but he's treated me like crap the entire time. He's as emotionally abusive to me as he was to my mom. We would have been better off if she had chosen to be a single parent.
THANK YOU for pointing out that sperm also starts to have chromosomal issues as men age. It feels like a really common misconception is that men are always good2go but it's a limited time for women, which in reality makes no sense when considering cell division.
gocanadayayyy My dad had me an old age..... hmmm no wonder I'm so weird. I even pour the milk first 😲
*_feminism_*
@@boobaSL ? what . it is a truth. You have a problem with that?
@Prem Balmacoon ? what. it is a truth, do you have a problem?
@@kelseydinh1598 you're lacking braincells. she wouldnt just point that out if she wasn't a fucken blue haired beluga whale "feminist". look no one pays attention to this kinda shit
Im 28, never been married and i dont have kids. If im not married by my mid 30s im not having kids and im ok with that.
@Not Taurus Spirit You were a kid once? So you think this about yourself?
@Not Taurus Spirit I'm sorry you feel this way, I think it's the way it is in the west, in the middle east we don't abandon our families even if we become successful. Even our religion (Islam) orders us to not cut contact with our families.
@American Penny I am 12, and I love my parents! I even cook and clean for them! I would trade my life for theirs if they died.
you're fine. freeze your eggs just in case
Freeze your eggs, I’m 29
Its amazing how few people want to talk about such topics. Where as these topics should be talked about the most.
+Amit Goel lolol....amit goel...u had just subscribed to this channel in ted ed video...
wait....u also subbed in last vdo...
wait... ur the one who owns this channel...
If the decision to have children is looked upon broadly enough with a rational lens, humanity might just go extinct lol. Given 50% of all pregnancies in the US are unintended, even if we assume 50% of those pregnancies don't go to full-term (pretty agressive), it still means that *1/3rd* of all births in the US are unintended, if we get rid of all of those (through more rational thought on having kids), the US is gonna start looking like Japan demographics wise real soon...
This topic is EXTREMELY relevant to me as we speak. I thank asapSCIENCE for producing this right here & now.
matthewmatthew638
You're basically saying people shouldn't be rational 😂 wtf
Health Chronicle no they're not
My mom had my last brother when she was 42. The doctor said the baby will have problems but now this kid is more gifted than me 😂❤️
Victoria o gud 4 u
My mom was going to have a baby at 41 in November almost at 42 though she miscarried
yeah but that still had many risks for your mom and your brother. Studies have shown that certain point being too old increases risk of down sydrome. Birth complications if you are too old or young, miscarriage , etc.
@@ingles944 very common at older or extremely young age. Plus not very smart since chances of down syndrome increase a lot
im gonna adopt so i don't pass down that sweet sweet depression to my kid
lane wheeler that sounds beyond retarded
@@monsecko4792 why?
Keerthi Kallanja depression is not genetically inherited lmao and if the op means that the depressed might influence her/ his child then just hide your mental state, it’s easy
@@monsecko4792 Maybe but if you are depressed you should not have children... Instead you should treat it and take care of yourself. If you already have kids, treatment is very necessary because innocent lives are also at harm
Monsecko Depression is the absence/low dopamine levels (and other factors of course) and genetics can alter these levels. Although the tests are in their early stages it is being shown that if a parent or sibling has depression then their offspring or sibling is 3-4 times more likely to have it as well. So technically the research is showing that it’s possible that depression is genetic. The research is in its early stages but the evidence is there with supporting the thought that there is a genetic association with depression in some people
You gotta be kid-ding me
BA DUM psst!
*sans has entered the chat*
hilarious.
LAMEEEEEEEE
Lol
I'm 17 what am i doin here i have my exam tomorrow
Maka Evans How did you do with your exam?
Will this be on it? What is
5+5?
Ovaries. 😱
Me🤣
I'm 18, in college, don't have a job, and watch CZcams on an obsessively daily basis. And i still want kids ( just not right now).
16 and doing the same thing with a chid development exam tomoz lol
How about you just wait till you have an education, a place to live and stable income.
Elias Vågan nah
Thank you.
Elias Vågan sometimes either that never happens or a wrench is thrown into your plans
Elias Vågan yup did all that now am ready I've even found the right lady 😁
The dumber people are, the more kids they have.
Here's when you should have kids - when you're not a kid
Yeah that would suck to not get to be a kid anymore, glad i'm not having any, i can keep playing my games all night and into the morning :)
Wisdom!
When ya know difference between *"Mom/Dad and PARENTING".*
Im 21 and I don’t wanna start trying until im 23. Unless I’m married sooner :)
Yas
True so many have them too young and arent suitable
“Periods generally start around 12-13” I started at 10 excuse me. I feel ripped off.
Saaammmmeeee
Same lol
Mine at 15😂😂
I started at 9 or 10 years old
You shouldn't have kids unless if you're stable. How can you provide a stable life for your kids if you can't provide it for yourself.
This should be teach in school, but it won't because the school will be calling most parents screw ups and kids accidents.
If you only knew how it went in Africa.... xD
Babies happen when babies happen, no ones "ready" most do fine
Taught*
Rome totally Agree, unfortunatelly most young people in the age 20-29 dont see it that way and saying that they should "enjoy the life more" (note: getting wasted etc).. which in my opinion is not the real meaning of life. Im 21, married (i married this year) with nice career and much more ahead and most important thing happened to me 4 days ago when my daughter was born. The feeling and the responsibility i felt was incredible.
Rome I don't agree. You're basically calling anyone who is super poor at 25 years old retarded. You know how stupid that sounds?
You're basically saying the person should figure out the work place, get started with maybe a $20k-$50k job, and on top of that figure out how to be a parent at the same time. Keep in mind, many are just getting out of college by 25-28. Some even later.
The fact is, there is plenty of people that are having kids in their mid to late 30's and giving a higher quality of life to the kid. To the outside it might seem abnormal, but most parents on the outside don't care about their kids all that much. Most parents use their kids as tools or free labor 99% of the time. And while waiting doesn't give a 100% that things will be more stable. The far majority isn't going to be stable during the age group you listed.
Now if someone did somehow become one of the very few that grown up in a stable life and transfer that, or started their career at a very young age. Then I can see where your argument on the optimal age being 25-29. But the majority isn't going to have that life. It's just a simple fact.
And sadly, by my logic the majority wouldn't have kids because the majority will never become stable. But it's 10 fold when you have kids. Keep in mind, you can move around and do some stuff with your career you simply can't do while you have kids. Even more so if you're single. So this alone automatically increases your chances of having a stable life by a huge amount.
I think the cut off is around 45-50 years old. Some even down in the lower 40's. Depending on how well someone takes care of themselves, someone looks ahead, and so on. This might push the age one way or another. But I think after that point the quality of life for the kid quickly goes down hill towards the later years of the kids life. In fact, most women can't have kids anyways at such a age.
@Andrej Hornak
You're 21. What does the fish in the river know about the ocean? You're way too young to be making such a call on saying it's stupid to have kids after 29. Give it about 10 years and travel around your country (I'm assuming you're in the USA), and then you can come back with your new experience. You might be OK, but the far far far majority aren't.
I agree most in this age group is trying to "enjoy" life by getting high or drunk. Most are more worried about today than several years in the future. Most make bad choices, have no real goals in life, and doesn't care about their responsibilities. Most never had to be responsible for themselves let alone someone else, so it makes sense.
I have a saying that I made. "One doesn't reflect the many, and many doesn't reflect the one." So as you move on, don't compare yourself to others and note how everyone has their own story.
I'm cool with not having a biological kid ever. Adoption maybe, but we already have so many humans in this world that I don't feel like contributing to it. Rather I give a home to a child that needs one :)
agreed
Couldn't have said it better myself
Good
excuse me
Rosanna Berckley racist?
“a women’s first period is generally around age 12 or 13”
i’Ve BEeN rIpPed oFf
Haha I was 11 :D
It was the 1.1.14 and it was like "Hey welcome to 2014...YOU'RE A WOMAN NOW!"
the duck goes moo dude I was 9 lol
Project Mimi If you have early periods it’s really unhealthy.
Anonymous is here! Damn it no, the doctor has confused that I was perfectly healthy, I was just a early bloomer
@@Anon-rt3fx no its not
Never. I don't want kids.
Same
Sad... Simpson prédict it AGAIN ! AH AH Humanity will be destroye and I am agrée with that x)))
Yeah same, I don't want kids either.
YES LETS JUST
DO NOTHING
AND JOIN SOME FOUNDATION
@@what2toinquarantine64 ???
When you can afford one!
TrendSpin Sports looking at you Africa
Cynthia
When you have a stable job that can support an extra person...?
Cynthia
Any job that requires education/training and experience that makes you valuable to whatever company you work for. Probably not your job, if you have to ask.
The ones that make a lot of money providing needed services.
Well I'm an engineer who fixes turbines in power stations.That's never going out of business in my lifetime. There are plenty of areas like this, just need to use your brain when you are 18 and get yourself on the correct path.
So basically...Don't ever have kids. Thanks. Got it.
It makes sense that Bill Gates would support a video urging people NOT to reproduce.
Ahaha
Depopulation would solve every single problem
That's not the message of the video?
When did they say that?
*OMG TY SO MUCH !!! Now me and my imaginary husband can reproduce!*
YO IM FUCKIN CRYING
congrats! 🥰
wait did you download MAL0?
My mom had me at 43 and i’m ok also
I don’t want kids i can’t image the pain😱😱
The pain of having to feed deal with their bullshit
I know a mother that had her son at 39. And he was diagnosed with autism at around 8.
Now, she thinks maybe she waited too long.
@@RB01.10 no i don’t think so , i think it’s more genetics
this video gave me anxiety
punkcrown anxiety is for pussies
Rub your stress balls it will go away. I grope mine daily.
Frieza lmao stfu
I make tons of confidence building, social skills mastery, ANXIETY reducing and educational videos Just for YOU. Go to my channel now if you're interested! YUP
punkcrown Cool. I have social anxiety and G.A.D. so this didn't phase me since I hate kids
So the answer was basically what ever you think is right
Cmon bro
Facepalm
lol
Crash Bandicoot so, you were expecting for someone else to make decisions for you? You cmon bro.
I bit all odds, see my story on my pregnancy
Fer nando we came to watch a video of a suggestion, not a decision. He didn’t even answer the question, he just made a video of random statistics
To everyone saying "you were a kid once!" Hey, I despise the thought of me being a kid. I was AWFUL.
3:32 that guy's having vietnam flashbacks
lmao
Reading the comments, I see a lot of people not wanting to have a kid, and that’s totally fine, but they be acting like that’s the “responsible” desicion😂 like bro, you’re no better than anyone here by choosing not to spend your life raising and funding a child 🙄
Agreed, so many people here are on their high horses just for their belief of not having kids.
Dovahkiin Demacian and they think if they dont have kids they contribute to the lowering of over population.
I have a friend who post on fb 3049823409283409823 memes about how smart he is for not wanting kids, and how stupid is people for wanting them (he's pretty stupid in general by the way xD, but he likes to think he's intelligent), then a lot of his friends commented him, get a vasectomy and stop whining and then he shutted his mouth.
All humans=shit
It's okay if others want to have children, but I personally do not want any.
1) That's great, finally debunking some myths.
2) I bet 80% of kids are unplanned/unwanted. They just don't want them to feel bad :D.
Horrible percentage
MostBeast234 they stated 50%, but I'm Shure it's higher. Still 1 out 2 is a huge x)
It would be interesting to know the real stat, because like you pointed out, that's only the parents who admit it. I bet the percentage would be a lot higher if people admitted that maybe they were planning on having kids eventually anyway, but weren't exactly trying for one when they got pregnant.
50% unplanned seems reasonable, but unwanted is different despite not being planned
my parents might've had my sister unplanned but they don't have any thoughts of disownment for me and my sister and it turned out to be good because after my sister my mom found she couldn't have kids ever again and they were wanting to have my sister...
just a bit later... xD
Just adopt if u want a baby at age 101
It sucks that those of us trying to get our life together are pressured by this biological clock to fulfill our career goals, and avoid having a child with any complications, including down syndrome. Talk about Burden. 😧
We’re 32 and had kids - we own our business and have a nice house and ready now
@@jrw6362 good for you
@Mariya Stoyanova yes we feel incredibly blessed but work our asses off - for what we have.
Having children is wonderful if you are ready for it and want children. Having children is awful if it isn't right for you. Continue to advocate for reproductive rights which recognize that we are different and all deserve respect.
Judith Wallace high freaking five.
I'm a childfree person, but I have to push back on what you just said. That's a tautological statement. You can't consent to existence because you don't exist. But you can't do anything when you don't exist.
Also, people do have a right to do things without the consent of other people. What they don't have a right to do is violate a person's boundaries (consent is a means of communicating and affirming personal boundaries), which basically boils down to not threatening the safety of the person. When a person violates the boundaries of another person (an existing person, to get back to the tautology form early, as existing as a person is a prerequisite condition for any of this to make sense) they are doing one of two things - they are doing things which actively reduce the person's safety or they are creating a conditional threat to reduce the person's safety (if you do X, then I will do Y).
You can argue about what is a real or perceived reduction of safety and get into some weeds there, but I think if you frame it this way, it's at least useful. But yeah, you have to exist as a born person who has reached the level of communicating their wishes to others in SOME way before consent is possible.
I agree that for humans procreating is necessarily selfish though, and I think it's helpful to argue that, as the narrative around parenting is super distorted and claims not having children is "selfish" without an ounce of thought behind what the hell that even is supposed to mean. So that part was cool, imho.
That doesn't make sense. Pain helps us navigate the world successfully, it's how we learn to keep our organism out of danger as best we can. We don't like pain because that's the whole point of pain. It motivates us to avoid things that hurt or kill us. That is not related to morality.
It's the same mechanism. So is fear, danger, threat. Look into the neurology of it.
Those are just circumstances where you might be in more pain/fear. But...that's really normal to our organism. And again, the only reason you feel that way is your organism wants you to try to solve something. Solving problems and pattern matching mitigates that danger/threat system that leads to pain.
So, if you're trying to make a moral argument (it doesn't make sense though) you can argue back on yourself and say you would be depriving "them" of the experience of joy that is basically little more than relief/present safety from pain/fear/danger. Our brain rewards us for achieving safety (also met via having good pattern matching/recognition skills and working on those skills) because that is again a mechanism that helped us survive.
It's an amoral feature of our organism.
Judith Wallace exactly! It's peoples choice of weather they want children or not despite what people think it's not there business unless the child is being abused then please step in
I’ve got a bunch of health problems at 25, I will not bring a child to the world to suffer like me. (My genes aren’t that great)
It's rare to find responsible people like you. Far too many of us lack compassion and empathy for the next generation
holy shit, you're a really responsible person, honestly. It'd be great if you could think of adoption at least, world would be much nicer place with people who actually care, like you
Adoption is a great option
WonderLizzz People like you are why I still think there's some hope for humanity.
Mateusz Górak yeah if I even get the maternal itch (but like seriously not just spontaneously) i’d consider adopting or fostering
It is a personal decision. Your welcome
Yup I agree
Just got a birth control ad.
Congrats on your partner (BILL AND MELINDA GATES FOUNDATION!!)
ɐuǝɹǝs rumor has it there into eugenics
ɐuǝɹǝs
I don't get it
Yep, glad to see someone else in the comments that knows.
ɐuǝɹǝs shit video by a pair of shit heads
SpongeBobIs DANK one of the two is called "Bill Gates", who is famously known as a co-founder in Microsoft.
If you have to ask, you are not ready.
In my case I wanted to be married first, and I’m lucky my spouse also felt the same way. We both wanted to be married and committed to each other first, have money saved up, and live in either a two bedroom apartment or buy/rent a house so we would have the space for a baby. All we need to do is figure out our living situation, and then we’re going to plan.
I'm just saying I'm 15 right now, and when I have a kid(s), I want to raise them to not act like anybody in my high school. Basically I want them to have sense, since it's so absent these days
Not only that but I'm very smart so I think I will have a good future
Wow you’re also very humble and modest!
Funnily enough most people who have to say that they are smart aren't smart.
Your kids will be just like all the other brats and you'll be filled with resentment.
@@gatortown4690 I remember seeing Kurt Cobain talk about that in an interview, but he stopped seeing it that way when he actually had a baby.
Nah... I'm okay with never having children. I want to adopt instead because I know that so many kids out there have to grow up without parents.
Romandy that's good not being selfish
why is family line so important?? it means nothing now. nobody cares what your last name is anymore. and people have the right to not reproduce
@@jillandjack7631 in 2022 we dont have a right to choose to not reproduce
Why tf am i watching this Im 14 years old lol should be studying rn but
Hey hey, the more you know.
green glitter same
Lol
green glitter Same girl
Yeah... I’m 13...
Fun fact about autism: It's more likely to happen in boys than girls, and I have it, and I'm a girl!
Im a guy and i have undiagnosed aspergers
And? Just beacuse it's less chance don't mean that it's impossible.
I'm also a girl with autism
That means you’re special, in both ways.
So what?
Nice. Still never having a child though.
Thats what your parents shouldve thought about before creating you
Fluid Gaming I've seen you on like 10 comments where people say they dont want kids, just say you like kids and go
Fluid Gaming But... my parents made a choice to have me and I am choosing not to...? We all have a choice what's your point
Fluid Gaming If my mom had thought about that before creating me, that probably would've been the smartest thought she's ever had.
Jesus says so, no more kids allowed.
I was thinking this vid was wen to decide to have a baby....
I was wrong.
I need bleach
Ur like 6
I need bleach because of looking at your gayfilter
Ur like 14
Mac_h 5 U NEED ME?
Yes
My partner is 32 years of age and I am 29 years of age going onto 30. We are trying at the moment. We had our first pregnancy end in miscarriage and we are hoping our next pregnancy succeeds. We plan to keep trying until we have our child. Some couples have to attempt a number of times before succeeding. Some couples can take a while, even years to have children. It is just the way it goes.
Probably never, as I would probably be a bad mom -.-
Y r u saying like that
Same
Thank you for clearing up that statistic 👍❤️😎🎧
Were do baby's come from
Funny how they posted this the day it was announced that Kylie Jenner was pregnant
Jenna Andrews anti christ that's why
Jenna Andrews anti christ that's why
Jenna Andrews yiss
Jenna Andrews the world doesn't revolve around kylie gender
Jenna Andrews who gives a shit that kylie Jenner is pregnant
I’ve watched a lot of health vids and this is the first one to EVER mention NF- and shed some light on how I could’ve gotten it. My father was 11 years older than my mother and in his late 30’s or early 40’s. So it could just be that.
Pro tip: Don't have kids if you can't afford them. Age doesn't mean shit.
Uh, you're wrong. Age does mean shit.
It literally just explained by age does mean shit.
Lol more importan KNOW YOUR GENES
I'm am only 8 and I came across this and I all of you are making me feel like I don't deserve to be alive😢
Happy :)
I'm 39 and tired of hearing about my expiration date and I figured since talking to my doctor about my physiology that I have retained my fertility and finally after finding a suitable life partner I'm ready to do this!
Thanks for the video that extends beyond the anecdotal to give us old broads some hope ❤️❤️❤️
lol
Kids? No thanks
I rather have a dog
Catarina Silva dog children are the best children
Dogs are a waste of time. They're dirty, loud and can maul you. At least kids will be potty trained by 3, but you still have to pick up your own dogs shit everyday with a plastic glove. Eww
Human semon demons are worse.. nasty snotty gross things..
That one United fan from Malaysia 3 years is too long for me.
@CJ Em no it wont
OMG! THANK YOU!!! Thank you for clarification on just how old those statistics are! I had not read the source of the statistics anywhere among the endless amounts of TTC resources! You guys are so amazing!!! ❣️
How about never
Do a video on "what if the whole world went without single use plastics" or "zero waste"
Life would be shit
+Gabriel Mesiaa Boohoo. Tough. It would be justified.
I'd say in order to have a baby you need several things:
1. Good life experience
2. Maturity
3. Money
4. Resilience
5. Stability
6. Lots of alcohol for the stressful times 😂
TMR Teckk Yeah and right next door the highschool dropout degenerates poop out their 4th child for the child support.
Lots of alcohol to get high and make love*
Lots of alcohol to be a uncaring and abusive parent*
I wouldn't say lots of alcohol is a good idea. my dad was an alcoholic. it sucked
o k Yeah, that's a good point. The last one was a joke but it was in bad taste. The other 4 are helpful though.
I'm an older Mother and I'm happy I waited ❤️
Never
My mom had me when she was 43, damn I'm lucky
And my dad was 46
My mom was 41 and dad 44
My mum was 42 and had pre-eclampsia from the seconf month onward. I was very very lucky
U r a mistake !! XD
Rishab Rao Your grammar has lots of mistakes. Come back when you know basic grammar.
hearing this made me happier to be alive given my mom had 2 kids in her forties, 43 for me and 45 for my sister
and we are both normal, no conditions
NICE
At least ur living a happy life then ye
you can't be 100% sure you don't have any genetic conditions. I have Wilson's disease, I was barely jaundice before I was rushed to the ER and got put on the very top of the transplant waiting list. I hope you don't have any conditions but don't be cocky. I was the same way
I love this video! I'm glad they offered some additional information about fertility at later parts in life. Sometimes it feels like getting pregnant after 35 is extremely dangerous and difficult. I wonder what is the correlation between conception and birth rates and stress?
I didn’t get the chance to think about it before it happened
28
Sebastian Vargas my mum had me at 28
Natalie Harrison-Lim same, now I'm 12
28, until you get there.
Alix Nissen oh I was wrong my mom had me at 30 😬 lol I'm 17
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That's why I'm a schizophrenic and my brother is autistic
Great to see Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation to support a nice video topics as this one.. Sure its very informative.. Thanks..
Keep Inspiring.. !!
You should have a baby when you've saved enough to pay for child support for 18 years.
ahaha xD
When? NEVER! I'm enjoying my life too much to be bothered by that.
I’m not gonna have kids
Yeah me nether
@Silver Chariot I honestly don't remember replying to every single comment saying "yeah me neither". It was probably a friend of mine that was borrowing my phone 6 months ago but yeah I agree lol.
What we really should think about isn't when to have a child but if it's the RIGHT thing to do. Would you really want to bring a child into the world knowing that the world is going to screw them over and have its way with them?
Great point. If the world were a different, better place, maybe my opinion would be different.
That’s why I regret being born. School has driven me to near-depression. If I didn’t have this device for playing games, I’d rather be dead.
To make an argument,
i believe living in a world without any conflict would be very boring, and make me depressed. Just imagin every film, book and stories in general without any conflict for the protagonist, going through life without anything bad happening to them. Would you like this story?
I also think that only having upsides would make your life very unstable (talking about your "character development"), because when you finally stumble on a rock, your whole life would be ruined.
My mom was 40 when she had me. My dad 51. And I'm fine :)
Lucie Riley were you their first child?
Lucie Riley wow my was 40 and dad 50 im also fine i thought i was the only
...oh, is THAT what you think... ;P
Lucie Riley My mom was 36 when she had me; almost 15.
My older sister is the first child; almost 25 and she had her at 26
Wow I can only hope to get action at their age 😂😂😂
Women should have a baby only after becoming pregnant. Doing otherwise sometimes brings up questions of witchcraft, etc.
Who wants to have kids in their early to middle 20's??? That's the age where you have fun and explore the world. Not to get stuck in a house with kids who need to be watched 24/7. Hell nah.
@Србомбоница I'm happy for you, kids are wonderful but not now. At least for me. Everything has its time in life.
My mom had me when she was 36. I think this is too old, and I want to have my first child when I’m 25-26
Very educational. Thanks again for the great videos! 👍🏼👍🏼
Not when you're a teenager.
xxIluvyouguysxx Facts!
*gets to the end*
“So, a non-answer? Cool.”
Neurofibromatosis caused by men???
I have NF1 so 'THANKS DAD'
But the good news is I had the tumour removed on June 16th . ( it was on my elbow )
But I still have to get an MRI on my brain every year . And I have a phobia of needles . ._.
So many people here are very close-minded, talking about how having a child will "ruin your life." You were a child once.
I agree with you. It seems like they forgot that they were a kid at one point. I've read things about a lot of people saying that their child/kid is the best thing that ever happened to them.
u wuz a kidd onze xDDDDD
Selfish people don't think about the past or the future, they just think about the here and now and waste their lives away.
Ya exactly and I ruined my parents life I'm pretty sure
Vain people who spend too much time staring in the mirror saying "You, YOU are amazing!" have kids. I hate to break it to you but the world doesn't need another you. Yes, you're great but one is enough, get over yourself.
Re: wasting time.... while your working on 3 hours of sleep, sick at the office again, and staying home to watch that Disney movie for the one billionth time.... the rest of us are out making a positive change, learning, innovating and finding new ways to keep the planet from being crusted under the weight of 7B sheep all lusting after that new iWatch / TV / Car / McDonalds hamburger....
I love kids.I'm 19 now but i definitely plan to have 3-4 kids. Kids are life.That's why i need to find a girl who loves children too.
ArgjentD Love your comment. I just can't stand the ones claiming that is selfish and blah.
some of them are serious about it but I bet a good 80% will change their minds.
I love this video so much, good job
Here’s everyone in the comments who have parents who either conceived them really young or really old and how they turned out just fine, and my mom was literally just like the more normal age to have a kid (29 when she got pregnant, 30 when she gave birth) and my dad was 34.
when the orphan population is 0
Funny and creative name That is never.....
Guybrush Threepwood Your current view of the world is inaccurate
Guybrush Threepwood What about parents who pass away?
and when dickheads stop abandoning their babies too, its not only the woman's job to raise a baby
DDD Nzzz don't know if you know but abortion isn't exactly the easiest thing to do since its illegal in alot of places.
Not having a baby until my life is completely together.
Great. I’m still fairly young, and my fiancé is quite a bit older. So our children will have the best of both worlds.They will have my youthful energy, as well as his wisdom, security, and stability that comes with age.Some more gems of advice: don’t put off having kids or never having children at all because you think you can’t “afford it “. Keep in mind that our great grandparents raised large families with next to nothing, and no luxuries of any kind. Just provide the basics of life like food, and plenty of love. You don’t need to provide braces, cars, and a college fund for every child. Give them siblings instead, and they will have built in best friends for life (hopefully).
Hey how are you doing now? Did your relationship with your fiance is good enough?
*If it was up to me to be here, i would've never existed.*
I have no intention to force someone else to live in this world.
ChuddyzZ thats dark
ChuddyzZ Me too. I don’t want anyone to go through the horrible experience that is school again.
@@avelus5984 there is homeschooling...
Never because the world is getting progressively shittier.
••••••••• • lol that would require too much effort
Ohio Girl would you like me to give you some examples? Because I can think of plenty off the top of my head
Kirstyn No, really?
S.A. Snail apparently other people don't realize that
Agreed. I'll just stick to being the fun uncle for my nephew haha
I was born when my mom was 19 and my dad 21
that is early
but it is fine
My daughter was born when i was 18 and my husband 21.
Eddsworld cat /cross sans/animation cat my mom was 17 when she had me by 5th grade she was 27
I'm a bit jealous; I had my daughter at 41 and realized after that being a father was what I should have been doing all along...
Wow, my mom had me at 21 😂😂😂 dad was 25 though
Don’t. They’re too expensive.
Just ask my mom...
I love having old parents because they have so much life experience and so many stories to tell 😄
Frankly, having a kid sounds like absolute hell.
All these edgy teenagers saying never because the human population is too high
it true tho
I'm still saying the same shit at 25. Smaller plots of land, more demand for resources, more traffic on the roads. Enough with the procreation already!
I just don’t like kids sigh
Le Enderman and with less humans, we will have less people to innovate, discover, work, learn, etc. We won't ever reach over 12 billion living as we currently are because birth rates are so low.
NEVER
Here's my answer to this question. Just make sure you have your shit together. Make sure you have everything mental taken care of, you have a stable job, and you have the money to take care of a child. I really recommend getting married to you partner and being married for a couple of years before you have children with them because no kid wants divorced parents or not even knowing one of their parents. Make sure you truly love your partner.
Is mayonnaise an Instrument you don’t need to be married to have kids! I don’t intend on ever marrying
Don't forget, you should know about child development and developmental psychology. And be a non-violent person. But I think you should not have kids ever, at all. I'm just appalled at the psychological damage ignorant people do to their offspring.
so many people and some women just pop out a child praying to god that things will just "magically work out". Quite irresponsible on the child's behalf I say.
@ ik I donf think you need to, but studies have shown kids do much much better in life when they have two parents around. You dont need to be married, that doesnt matter, but having a stable relationship with the partner
2:30 Hitler baby
Lol
Robin Henriksen idk if you're joking or not. He has the moustache cos his dad is Charlie Chaplin, who's whole thing was that he made himself look like hitler
im not pissed about that, im pissed that some fuckwit has the balls to tell me im retarded when he himself makes a stupid comment
This is the internet, how bow you go play Bingo instead.
And what shit don't I know about Chaplin?
Wow! Very helpful, thank you.