DON'T DO These 13 Things in Finland

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  • čas přidán 8. 05. 2024
  • The 13 Things Not to Do in Finland should be considered when coming to Finland. Once you have watched this video, you will be fine with Finnish people and Finnish culture. However, at the same time, I want to remind you not to overthink these. Finns are quite tolerable people and understand if you make a mistake as a foreigner. :)
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Komentáře • 584

  • @AleksiHimself
    @AleksiHimself  Před 3 lety +22

    WATCH NEXT: Weird things that are normal in Finland: czcams.com/video/HZ0_56oW1N8/video.html

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 3 lety

      @@danmarlovsky1977 you can send me an DM on instagram @aleksihimself

    • @DarthAuml
      @DarthAuml Před 3 lety

      This comment is Finnish:
      This comment lives in the happiest country in the world,first place in education,this comment going to sauna,lives in apartament close to a lake,in winter have sixteen hours of night and the summer sixteen hours of sun,this comment love salmiakki and adore Heavy Metal,coffee,languages,Nokia smartphones and tecnology.
      SUOMI🇫🇮

    • @iloliemi1858
      @iloliemi1858 Před 3 lety

      I agree with Aleksi in some cases but I feel that these facts tell more about Aleksi Himself than Finns in general. There are tons of gamers and coders who never spend time in cafes or go out. Instead of learning social interaction skills in real life, they study life through memes, discussion boards, and dating books. These type of guys use to be always too drunk in student parties.

  • @atsuko1422
    @atsuko1422 Před 3 lety +185

    Wow, there are so many same things that share with Japanese society, such as don’t speak roundly in public, don’t get too close to the others, and be on time! Which is very interesting 🤨

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 3 lety +43

      Yeah I know! When I lived in Japan, I noticed the same.

    • @atsuko1422
      @atsuko1422 Před 3 lety +13

      @@AleksiHimself Hey Aleksi. Keep up the great work! I'm also a big fan of your channel.

    • @Lumperi65
      @Lumperi65 Před 3 lety +5

      I am wondering that we finns (finnish-ugric populations) have 6% of very-very old Asian genes.

    • @vilidious
      @vilidious Před 3 lety +22

      @Atsuko Well, I think there is a fundamental difference, though, since I feel we Finns are more independent and individualistic than people from f.ex. Japan who seem to be all about respecting older ones and being a part of society.
      I feel we do what we do more because it is how we were raised and because it feels appropriate and good to us and nature, than to please other people and answer to their expectations.
      So I think the symptoms may be the same, but the disease is different. :)

    • @atsuko1422
      @atsuko1422 Před 3 lety +3

      @@vilidious Such an interesting point of view. Thanks.

  • @SoloTravelStory
    @SoloTravelStory Před 7 měsíci +17

    Everything you've mentioned sounded normal to me. I'm German, we also don't tip (it's included in the costs), we take off shoes, are respectful when someone talks and prefer quietness in public spaces. Littering is frowned upon, too. The more I watch your videos the more I feel at ease tbh. I lived for many years in the UK and was often labelled as "weird" and ostracised because I was reserved and respectful instead of loud and extroverted. It made me question if something was wrong with me but ever since I spend some time in Finland and also back in Germany again, I noticed it wasn't me I was just not compatible with anglophone nations.

    • @polarblade1159
      @polarblade1159 Před 4 dny

      I don't know where you lived in Germany, but I grew up here learning that you do tip most of the time. Being introverted seems pretty common here though, but I still get labeled as a weirdo because I do not talk randomly

  • @leonalynazucena3311
    @leonalynazucena3311 Před 9 měsíci +29

    I don't need Finnish DNA to be Finnish, these are all relatable and I felt bad I wasn't born in a place where my personality fits. Same thing about Norwegians. I think these two are like twins when it comes to habits.

    • @Lauri2014
      @Lauri2014 Před 6 měsíci +1

      Well one could become a member of Finnish society, but never a Finn...unless one had been adopted and raised by a kantasuopmalainen or Native Finn parent. However, one could have Finnish children if they are completely immersed in the Native Finnish spouse's culture (it does happen)... it's reality and there's nothing wrong with that. Just as a Finns cannot appropriate someone else's culture.
      Now, between Swedes, Danes and Norwegians it seems to be almost interchangeable...but not with Swedish Finns, you should see them in Sweden, they still assert their identity...
      Personally, I don't identity with anything...my wife and kids constantly remind me of holidays or traditions, so I go along with it. Except going to the sauna without shorts, just can't do it; but everything else from eating määmi to eating Porvo Licorice I embrace.
      To quote Reemu Aaltonen "Pää asia on, että tossu nousee".

  • @RoadtoFinnish
    @RoadtoFinnish Před 3 lety +86

    Falling cows are a pain! They make me late all the time so its totally something that you should watch out for 😅

  • @user-rp1jr2qo1k
    @user-rp1jr2qo1k Před 3 lety +157

    And NEVER sit in the sauna with a swimsuit on.

    • @ruha9302
      @ruha9302 Před 3 lety

      @@natashacastro71 miks nää emojit

    • @emeraldquest1832
      @emeraldquest1832 Před 3 lety +12

      We are wearing swimsuits in public ice swimming sauna (Rantalan sauna).

    • @siiri1904
      @siiri1904 Před 3 lety +9

      swimsuits in public but if not then u HAVE TO BA NAKED

    • @sorsaanimation5542
      @sorsaanimation5542 Před 3 lety +3

      Or a towel its weird

    • @emeraldquest1832
      @emeraldquest1832 Před 3 lety +5

      @@sorsaanimation5542 Yep, towel is even weirder than swimsuit

  • @aquamarine53
    @aquamarine53 Před 3 lety +129

    ”Finnish streets are so clean”
    Kouvola:

    • @aquamarine53
      @aquamarine53 Před 3 lety

      @산드라 ainakin manskarin lähel on paljon roskaa

    • @mabussubam512
      @mabussubam512 Před 3 lety +1

      *Laughs in Helsinki: Vuosaari*

    • @freeastonet
      @freeastonet Před 3 lety

      @@mabussubam512 kato puhosta itiksessä

    • @Pinkalicious112
      @Pinkalicious112 Před 3 lety

      LMAO IKR?! I've been to Helsinki and amazingly... seen quite some littering.

    • @PM-gx2bp
      @PM-gx2bp Před 3 lety

      I think not and smells like urine.

  • @hyacinth86
    @hyacinth86 Před 3 lety +50

    I was in Helsinki 3 years ago for the 100 year independance celebration. We went to the president's place to hear his speech and see the firework. There were sooo many people, but it was so quiet! It was crazy! Lol!

    • @tbirdparis
      @tbirdparis Před 3 lety +10

      So true! Same thing when your plane lands in Finland and everyone is standing up to disembark. Even on a packed flight - complete silence!

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 3 lety +5

      It was a big party back then!

    • @KawaiiCat2
      @KawaiiCat2 Před rokem

      @@tbirdparis that sounds so nice! I’m from the states and everyone here yells so much and are loud and rude.

  • @noemibaki7276
    @noemibaki7276 Před 3 lety +120

    I'm form Hungary and here wearing shoes at home or wearing a hat inside is considered rude too 😁 It's so weird that it's considered normal at some places

    • @youraveragemexorican
      @youraveragemexorican Před 2 lety +3

      Wait- but how is it rude tho? What does a hat mean- have i offended people by wearing a hat before? ;-;

    • @noemibaki7276
      @noemibaki7276 Před 2 lety +1

      @@youraveragemexorican I think that the hat thing comes from a Medieval tradition or from old (outdated) etiquette. But I think that only older people consider it disrespectful

    • @harjad9546
      @harjad9546 Před 2 lety +7

      @@youraveragemexorican I have not found much information regarding the history. It's likely based on the religious Christian custom of removing your hat upon entering a church but it could very well predate Christianity. It's just a gesture of respect.

    • @youraveragemexorican
      @youraveragemexorican Před 2 lety

      @@harjad9546 oh

    • @harjad9546
      @harjad9546 Před 2 lety +5

      @@youraveragemexorican People also remove their hats during lowering of the casket in a funeral and during the national anthem playing. I think those might be more universal rather than just Finnish customs.

  • @juletaurus
    @juletaurus Před 3 lety +22

    Tipping in the USA is ridiculous. Employers are permitted to pay low wages and we are expected to compensate.

  • @MarlomRV
    @MarlomRV Před 3 lety +38

    I live in São Paulo, Brazil, and I hate when I see people in buses talking loud and listening to music loud as well. This is so annoying and disrespecful.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 3 lety +5

      Thanks for sharing!

    • @alekbonfire9553
      @alekbonfire9553 Před 3 lety +2

      That is the reason headphones exist. And I feel you totally here in finland

  • @neljakielta
    @neljakielta Před 3 lety +36

    Having moved to Finland from Japan, I never needed to worry about any of the points you made :D
    But many of the Finns that I personally know are often late when I meet up with them, and they also interrupt me a lot and talk over.

    • @derpdiu
      @derpdiu Před 3 lety +27

      Some finns have that habit when we get too exited about the conversation (or when we're drunk) and I apologize on behalf of all of us :D

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 3 lety +1

      Good stuff!

    • @Aurinkohirvi
      @Aurinkohirvi Před 3 lety +11

      If you are close friends with someone, interrupting happens in Finland ALL THE TIME. Especially listen youngsters and women (adult men generally behave more calm, that's just the way Finnish culture trains men).
      I think interrupting is more a good behavior custom, show of respect, with strangers, people you know superficially.

    • @Aurinkohirvi
      @Aurinkohirvi Před 3 lety +9

      But I admit, we Finns aren't as skilled in talking over (and listening same time) as Mediterranean culture people are.

    • @JariMattiK
      @JariMattiK Před rokem +1

      tell them they are late

  • @akumayoxiruma
    @akumayoxiruma Před 3 lety +50

    All of these rules are true for me except the hat wearing rule: While I wouldn't wear a hat when eating myself, I personally don't mind when others do. Regarding table manners, I find it important to wait until everybody has their meal on the plate, wait until everybody is finished (except if there is a really good reason to leave earlier) and to close the mouth while eating so that others don't have to see and hear you chewing.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 3 lety +7

      Thanks for the comment!

    • @Zing_Zang
      @Zing_Zang Před 3 lety

      I agree, but I suppose it depends on the people.

  • @easylearn9350
    @easylearn9350 Před 2 lety

    Absolutely useful points n video. Thanks for sharing!

  • @acaciabathory9705
    @acaciabathory9705 Před 3 lety +3

    Great video like always. These always keep me informed and it makes it easier to find Finnish friends. Honestly, they make great friends; They keep it straight and they are loyal. Much love to Finland!

  • @vivianblack2951
    @vivianblack2951 Před rokem +5

    About punctuality: I left 15 minutes early for a Finnish concert here in Canada. I ran into a large bit of road construction but could still make it by 7:30. I got to the door of the hall at 7:30:31. I was 31 seconds late.

  • @helenajarvinen4057
    @helenajarvinen4057 Před 3 lety

    Tack för en informativ video!

  • @ag1805x
    @ag1805x Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks for the tips!

  • @kansaIainen
    @kansaIainen Před 2 lety +10

    I once sat on a mall bench in Canberra, Australia. It was quite quiet there, the only loud shouts I heard were in Finnish. There, Finns think that others do not understand them, and shout at the other end: "osta sipulia ja juustoraastetta (buy onions and grated cheese)". It was kind of weird, there aren't many Finns in Canberra.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety +2

      😄😄

    • @TheIdlesurfer
      @TheIdlesurfer Před rokem +1

      I love it when Finns speak Finnish on the London Tube or bus. And I love it even more when I offer an Anteeksi when I move past them, and they twig a few seconds later. I speak Finnish adequately but it is clearly not native. I did have to scold two Finns in Paris, in Finnish, for blowing smoke over me and my family. That freaked them out! My cousin, also a Finnish speaker loves a loud Terve with a really rolled R to any Finnish speaker he hears in London.

  • @dzvile
    @dzvile Před 3 lety +77

    Funny, you just mentioned about precise time. Two days ago I got meeting with one Finnish guy and he come 6 minutes late. :D

    • @pahakasvivenuksesta2653
      @pahakasvivenuksesta2653 Před 3 lety +9

      :O :D

    • @Aurinkohelmi
      @Aurinkohelmi Před 3 lety +21

      Yeah many of these don´t fit everyone. Personally I tend to be bit late and no problem talking about money example ;) But many points are spot on too.

    • @hauskalainen
      @hauskalainen Před 3 lety +27

      I had a job interview arranged by phone for "puoli viistoista" (sic).. ok. I understood it as viisitoista, 15. And I got it that really meant three in the afternoon. So "puoli viistoista" is literally "half three". But half three in my country means half an over PAST three. So I arrived at 1530. But in Finland puoli viistoista means half an hour BEFORE the hour. I should have been there at 1430. I didn't get the job. Of course. Lesson learned. Don't be late.

    • @DanielRodriguez-do3ib
      @DanielRodriguez-do3ib Před 3 lety +7

      So funny. In Spain no one is ever on time, they usuly arive 15-20 min late unless is a job interview. And no one ever takes the shoes off when they visit, i had some german friends doing that and its always unconfortable, like what are you doing? leave them on! Haha

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 3 lety +18

      Yeah unfortunately some Finns do always come late but nevertheless it's very annoying.

  • @threethrushes
    @threethrushes Před 9 měsíci +17

    My list based on living there for just two months:
    - don't drink salmiakki.
    - be prepared for mixed gender sauna
    - play sport (the more the better).
    Finns are some of the most hospitable and friendly people I've ever met in my life. Hyva kiele!

  • @vivianblack2951
    @vivianblack2951 Před rokem +3

    The other thing about manners at that concert was when some people started talking during the music they were told in no uncertain terms by several people that they needed to be quiet and listen. I have had concerts ruined before by people talking so this was refreshing to me as I didn't have to shush them myself.

  • @serdip
    @serdip Před rokem

    Poljon kiitos! Great and very informative video! Thank you so much!!

  • @filchigo9426
    @filchigo9426 Před 2 lety

    Glad found your channel,learning a lot ☺️

  • @leonore5187
    @leonore5187 Před 3 lety

    I'm currently learning Finnsh and thinking about doing a semester abroad in Helsinki. Thank you so much for this video, I can't wait to be there next year !!! :)))

  • @finnicvoice4974
    @finnicvoice4974 Před 3 lety +8

    The thing about being late usually applies more on the countryside. In bigger cities (Helsinki, Turku, Tampere) I have found that being a little late is usually okay, because of the distances and the buses time schedules

  • @rilaaleem3670
    @rilaaleem3670 Před 3 měsíci

    Thanks for sharing bro.

  • @romanbeljak1609
    @romanbeljak1609 Před 2 lety +8

    Bro, you completely missed the most important thing you should NOT do in Finland: Never, under any circumstances, call Finland - Scandinavia!

  • @jamesrobinson2175
    @jamesrobinson2175 Před 8 měsíci

    Great video Aleksi. I'd love to meet you Aleksi!!!

  • @SK-nw4ig
    @SK-nw4ig Před 3 lety +16

    Also, I would say one should visit Finland outside the cities too, if possible.

  • @aaronjaff7749
    @aaronjaff7749 Před 3 lety +32

    Damn those stuff sounds exactly like me maybe that's why i want to live there.

  • @SS-qg9jk
    @SS-qg9jk Před 3 lety +4

    Finland is an amazing country indeed. I do not live there but have friends and have visited several times. Besides Helsinki which i love, I have been to Oulu, Kouvola, Kotka.. you miss a lot if you don't actually travel outside Helsinki.

  • @albertomiura
    @albertomiura Před rokem

    Please do a detail places to visit outside Hensinki that has good accees, also love to learn about local festivals of all kinds

  • @vonHannersdorf
    @vonHannersdorf Před 7 měsíci

    Finntastic is awesome word! 😂 pretty cool rules, I'm glad for this youtube recomendation.

  • @karmapeace3140
    @karmapeace3140 Před 2 lety

    Nice Educative!

  • @Neoantinfluence
    @Neoantinfluence Před 2 lety +1

    Aleksi, actually my experience was different when it comes to money. I found people very honest about having or not having money for a particular activity (I was your tutee btw😊)

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety

      Interesting!
      Really? I wonder who. :)

    • @Neoantinfluence
      @Neoantinfluence Před 2 lety

      @@AleksiHimself it's Niusha😍

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety

      @@Neoantinfluence Ahh it's been a while! How's life?

    • @Neoantinfluence
      @Neoantinfluence Před 2 lety

      @@AleksiHimself Fine😇 how are you? I have been enjoying your youtube videos and thinking about beautiful Finland😍

  • @yippie6862
    @yippie6862 Před 3 lety +10

    Most punctual? I'm sure Germany, Denmark, Netherlands, Switzerland, the Japanese and Koreans have something to say about that.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 3 lety +5

      Sharing the #1 spot with them!

    • @bettyakkemaai5499
      @bettyakkemaai5499 Před rokem

      I am from the Netherlands, but I am having such difficulty too be exactly on time🤭😬😁. Only 5 minutes... but still .

  • @frozenmadness
    @frozenmadness Před 3 lety +2

    I've read about the not tipping on different tourist guide websites, and I don't tip when I'm in Finland, but it feels a bit uncomfortable, especially if I got a meal and it was really good or so. So thanks for the clarification.
    One small exception about the distance: The Finns dance closer than middle Europeans. I love the Finnish music and I often go dance when I'm there, and that's what I've noticed. Whether it's disco or tango or whatever, the position is closer.
    Aaand a comment about the cities: Tampere and Turku are definitely worth seeing, but they're still quite international and tourist-oriented (less than Helsinki, surely).

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 3 lety +1

      You can tip if you feel so. :)

    • @Sienisota
      @Sienisota Před 3 lety +1

      Tipping isn't rude, it is simply not needed. If you want to tip, no one will be offended.
      Just don't tip loudly. Not "HERE IS YOUR TIP" more like say quietly "great service/food, here is some extra for you/staff" or "great place/excellent work, keep the change"
      Or just smile and "Thank you very much, here is some extra/keep the change"
      With the compliment, you acknowledge that you know you don't need to tip, but are doing it anyway, because you feel that the service was just that good.
      Otherwise some Finns might feel obligated to tell you that you don't need to tip here, and that might create a moment of awkwardness. (But not if you are a tourist, the awkwardness is on the Finn, and many might just take the tip so as not to make you feel embarrassed.)

    • @frozenmadness
      @frozenmadness Před 3 lety

      @@Sienisota Selvä, kiitos. Asiakin on vähän se että yritän ei esiintyä liian turistina. But I think I'll find a way to tip more tactful.

  • @juniper1982
    @juniper1982 Před 3 lety +21

    I’m half Finnish with citizenship, but born in Canada and I’ve never been on time a day in my life...oops! It often annoys my CAN friends..,

  • @edarwinjosephdepaz3453
    @edarwinjosephdepaz3453 Před 2 lety +1

    Filipinos like me will really have to adjust since we are extrovert and sociable people. We love talking and we easily make friends. But we know how to adjust to any culture. I am excited to be in Finland hopefully next year to study.

  • @rrsjr
    @rrsjr Před 3 lety +17

    Everything you describe are, to me, indications of an advanced culture and society in which I would be grateful to live.

  • @laurajaeger6439
    @laurajaeger6439 Před 3 lety +1

    Man, that cow is gonna be my forever excuse 😂
    I can definitely agree to all of these!
    Terkkuja 👋🏻

  • @louisekullar5171
    @louisekullar5171 Před 2 lety

    Japan, Finland , Britain ... it's us 20 years ago ( the shoes thing is dependent on each family l think)! Apart from the tipping ( although we never tip if service is included ...many find this too presumptive), and interrupting, we are very similar. Oh and l'm always late for everything ...but l am considered rude 🤣

  • @Kristalya
    @Kristalya Před 2 lety +6

    All the nordic countries deserve praise! Safest, happiest and super advanced! Swedish music does kick ass just like our music in Finland! You've probably heard of Zara Larsson and Avicii! 🇫🇮🇦🇽

  • @The7thFleet
    @The7thFleet Před 3 lety +4

    9:35 I disagree. As a Finn myself, I’d say its polite to leave tips if for example the service in a restaurant was 5/5. My dad’s working in a bar on a cruiser, and he gets tips actually quite a lot. Altought they may be turists but most of them are finns. He also himself gives tips if we are in a restaurant. But yes this kinda correct what he said. Mostly its because people just dont use cash that much anymore, and credit cards instead, so it has became more common not to give tips.

  • @coolvania
    @coolvania Před 3 lety +15

    Terve, Aleksi! Could you make a video about Finnish humour please? It'd be interesting to see if Finns are as fluent in sarcasm as Canadians...

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 3 lety +4

      Good idea!

    • @dalbellinho
      @dalbellinho Před 3 lety +2

      This Finnish channel has English subtitles for Finnish comedies, I just found out and recommend (learn Finnish with comedy) czcams.com/channels/wSbEvLAVDZfsqadXRHkSWg.html

    • @coolvania
      @coolvania Před 3 lety +1

      @@dalbellinho The channel is gone...

    • @dalbellinho
      @dalbellinho Před 3 lety

      @@coolvania it was available two weeks ago! But of course it’s gone - was a good channel.

    • @NuubiKakku
      @NuubiKakku Před 3 lety

      Easy win for Finland.

  • @milkyhamster5003
    @milkyhamster5003 Před 3 lety +1

    But i'm so social! I can't help it! I'll walk up to anyone and say hi! Or i'll be very shy... it really depends.

  • @eltonsalvador7620
    @eltonsalvador7620 Před 2 lety +1

    I experienced the soft talk and conversation, while in Lapland in a cafe, I loved it because I can actually hear what that person is saying unlike here in the States

  • @nostalgiagamer9452
    @nostalgiagamer9452 Před 3 lety +5

    Hey i live in Finland and i just wanted to say this video IS vety accurate (perkele)

  • @MrInitialMan
    @MrInitialMan Před 3 lety

    On the interruption part, well, I have that down pat, I guess. I've had "don't interrupt" drilled into me to the point that there are people who have known me for years who were shocked to learn I CAN speak.

  • @MeredithMengel
    @MeredithMengel Před 8 měsíci

    😂 love the resting Finn face at 4:50 I’m currently in the U.S. Midwest and it would be such a relief to not have to be “on” all the time, in public.

  • @kekamirza
    @kekamirza Před 9 dny

    I appreciate most of the manners that are said here. As a Bangladeshi I can relate to most of them and also relieved about the taking shoes off and not being noisy in public places things. I'm moving to Helsinki soon. People not very expressive is only concerning thing for me, other than that sounds perfect.

  • @kundogb
    @kundogb Před 3 lety +16

    The other day a friend of mine living in the Vantaa area in Helsinki, told me that he crossed the street while the red-light was on, because no cars were coming from either side of the street. At the exact moment he started crossing, a finnish woman started shouting at him telling him that he should be more respectful XD

    • @isadorax99
      @isadorax99 Před 3 lety +1

      omg 🤣

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 3 lety +14

      That's really rare! :D Finns cross the street on reds all the time.

    • @xinleiliu1053
      @xinleiliu1053 Před 3 lety +3

      That woman was just being racist, Fins do jaywalk especially in city center, just not as often seen as in other countries, but still , they do jaywalk, and no one would ever give a damn about it, since they are very“ preserved ”, so that woman who shout at him just found herself a chance to express her feelings about foreigners and that’s all about it , BTW, Finland is the most racist country in the whole Europe (least immigrants employment rate in EEA - 30% )

    • @piakayhko9903
      @piakayhko9903 Před 2 lety

      Finns are big jaywalkers. Makes no sense to wait if the road is empty. 😅

  • @mikeh2772
    @mikeh2772 Před 3 lety +3

    Savonlinna is awesome. The locals know how to cook muikku to the perfection :)

  • @jradfole93
    @jradfole93 Před měsícem

    I’m Australian with a Finnish wife. Born and raised in Australia but both parents from Finland and can speak Finnish etc. a lot of these are pretty true, we were living with my parents at one point while our house was getting built and with Australians generally being more outgoing and friendly my Dad struggled with the fact that when she came home from work she would not go over and acknowledge him or talk to him straight away (Even though he was in a different room most of the time. I tried explaining that she’s just taking some time to herself for maybe half an hour to an hour before she comes and talks to people but it was like I was speaking Chinese to him 🤪. And said “Dad, if you’d just come home from a tough day and had to do the funeral of a child (He’s a funeral celebrant) we wouldn’t be offended if you didn’t talk to us straight away”. Although with punctuality my in-laws are the exception to the rule, they’re always late 😆.

  • @yassies9640
    @yassies9640 Před 9 měsíci +1

    As a Belgian I can vibe with Nordic people (vibe as in, let’s be cold and neutral together in public lmao)

  • @juanpablo2097
    @juanpablo2097 Před 2 lety

    Nice video! Someone knows the rock song playing in the background? Thanks in advance!

  • @suleyabdirahman4349
    @suleyabdirahman4349 Před 3 měsíci

    I love going to Espoo its where some of my Finnish family live aswell

  • @valhoundmom
    @valhoundmom Před rokem +1

    The 1st time a Finnish friend hugged me I was shocked! But after, is now very normal.i do have a Finland hockey shirt, I DO NOT have a Sweden hockey shirt.
    My family is irish anerican, and if you enter my mom's house with shoes on she will hurt you! Come to my house...I just hand you socks, but shoes come off.
    We Also have really strong personal space, like arms length from each other is good.

  • @rumaristo129
    @rumaristo129 Před 3 lety +1

    Kickass "munkkis" :DD

  • @ezoterik1
    @ezoterik1 Před 3 lety +3

    Ok..I'm definitely a true Finn-at-heart! (American born Finn here) because I've always followed 'almost' every Finnish rule you've mentioned in the 'DON'T Do' video...
    except for the American habit of wearing the stupid hat at the dinner table... I promise to fix this one before I visit-- or the local Finns will know where I'm from!

  • @risingsun5867
    @risingsun5867 Před 2 lety

    I watched this video before moving to Helsinki, now that I m here I understand your points! Finns are very different from other people :-))

  • @Harvey142009
    @Harvey142009 Před rokem

    Hi from the USA! Love Finland and its people. re don't forget to visit Finland outside Helsinki - similar to how people worldwide, Finns and others would visit the USA and only see New York City when there are other cities and states. Similar if we all went to the UK and only see London.

  • @meganw6007
    @meganw6007 Před 2 měsíci

    (3:31) hehe, nice, with the "even better FINNtastic experiences..."
    Creative

  • @buenoloco4455
    @buenoloco4455 Před 3 lety +4

    Helsing is imitating rest of the world. You can find some cool stuff if you travel east part and especially in north you will find true culture.

  • @tinaluoma-welcome9607
    @tinaluoma-welcome9607 Před 3 lety +10

    Even Americans know you shouldn’t weR your hat inside especially when you’re at the table but unfortunately this has become a fashion statement for the young and the well, rude

  • @outdoorslifesurvivecraft5078

    Ok this is strange! Born and raised in the U.S. and all but the hat part, just described me and the way I am. What makes this strange is, I have just recently found out that part of my ancestry is Finnish.

  • @aefinn
    @aefinn Před 3 lety

    Hmm. I kind of have to say it's the opposite when it comes to salary. It's a big no no to talk about that in many countries but not in Finland.

  • @shaneberg3653
    @shaneberg3653 Před 3 lety +6

    Must be in the DNA. Im half Finnish and i get told i look grumpy and unfriendly 😂. But I open up once i get to know someone.

  • @pyttpytts2690
    @pyttpytts2690 Před rokem

    hehe, you could make this video about denmark to, especial the swedish part..

  • @theaustralianfinnivlog
    @theaustralianfinnivlog Před 3 lety +1

    I'm always late! Aussie time haha!

  • @MDobri-sy1ce
    @MDobri-sy1ce Před 3 lety +1

    Eastern European are kind of like that. I am half but don’t really show emotions unless I know the person. It’s reserved for more intimate moments. My English professor thinks I am angry I am not.
    In a lot of Romance cultures Like Italian and Spanish it’s normal to interrupt.
    I heard the same thing for “tipping “ in Japanese culture that it’s rude to tip.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 3 lety +2

      Thanks for sharing!

    • @teoleno4019
      @teoleno4019 Před rokem +1

      Not really. I am half Baltic Latvian and half Finn and let me tell you, Russians and other slavs are very loud and annoying in public spaces!

  • @viktoriabentham8664
    @viktoriabentham8664 Před 2 lety +8

    Quarter Fin living in the UK here and I personally agree with most of these points, especially about being (mis)judged as unsocial (like it's a worse thing than it actually is) and also I HATE it when someone asks me about money or employment. I'm allowed to complain to you if I'm struggling but never ASK me. If things were better in that area and I wanted you to know I'd tell you.

  • @a_makarov
    @a_makarov Před 3 lety +2

    Most of the rules are totally understandable and easy to follow if you're not completely dumb.
    Except the last one, that's the most challenging.

  • @johncrwarner
    @johncrwarner Před 2 lety +9

    My first trip to Finland was actually to visit Estonia
    (there were cheap flights to Helsinki then but not Tallinn)
    and I stayed with a British friend who was studying
    how Finnish is changing phonetically
    and he was using transcriptions of phone-in programmes
    and he explained it to me on the bus from the centre of Helsinki
    and he got a lot of stares talking "quite loudly"
    plus the topics from the transcriptions were funny / very rural
    and he was imitating the accents.
    That was when I learnt that Finns are very quiet in public,
    LOL
    My Finnish friends have often said that I laugh at everything
    I think they mean I laugh a lot more than Finns.

  • @mikearisbrocken8507
    @mikearisbrocken8507 Před 2 lety +1

    This punctuality topic is so different here in Mexico. When my friends invite me to a reunion at 4 PM. If everything goes well, I'll arrive at 4PM, but they're all like "why are you here so early?"
    Jobs interviews the same. They might schedule me at 3PM, but the interviewer won't meet me until 3:15/3:30PM.
    Doesn't mean I'm never late, but I believe here in Mexico being fashionably late is QUITE expected.

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 2 lety +1

      That's interesting!

    • @mikearisbrocken8507
      @mikearisbrocken8507 Před 2 lety

      @@AleksiHimself It is interesting, but also quite annoying. The good thing is that in case you are late, nobody will be angry with you. At most they will say "Hey, don't worry, it happens to everyone". Its rare that someone gets angry for being late unless you arrive at a party 2 or 3 hours late or you are going to pick them up, in which case, you are expected to arrive 5-10 minutes before.

    • @anneofgreengables1619
      @anneofgreengables1619 Před rokem

      Mediterranean culture...

  • @meganw6007
    @meganw6007 Před 2 měsíci

    "This COW fell on me from the blue sky" lmfao (1:52)
    Of all reasons to be late, that's hilarious and amazing

  • @junnlechs827
    @junnlechs827 Před 2 lety

    Rrr.. it's true i just go to Helsinki and around it & say Finland is really cool 😅 maybe i should go to another place like Lapland and Tampere

  • @meganw6007
    @meganw6007 Před 2 měsíci

    Could you elaborate a bit on the 7:15 segment where having a hat on while eating is not just "disrespectful" towards people, but towards the FOOD??
    Is there a cultural layer where you treat the food itself as an entity needing its own respect, devoid and separate of those who made it or served it?
    Wearing a hat being disrespectful towards the *food* has me very intrigued and curious

  • @jlpack62
    @jlpack62 Před 2 lety +1

    I have avoided most of these mistakes in Finland, but I have kept my hat while eating outside in the Summer Sun because I'm bald, and I want to avoid burning my head!

  • @GiaGRitter
    @GiaGRitter Před 2 lety +3

    All of these things should be around the world haha. These are great rules to live by!

  • @tbirdparis
    @tbirdparis Před 3 lety +4

    I always thought the easiest or most common way to end up dating a Finn (or any Nordic person) was because you ended up going home with them very drunk at a party. And then only after that, you try to actually have a daytime date. :)

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před 3 lety +1

      That happens too. :D

    • @finnicvoice4974
      @finnicvoice4974 Před 3 lety

      I'd say that alcohol has probably caused more births than deaths in Finland :D

    • @MsCatstaff
      @MsCatstaff Před 3 lety +1

      @@finnicvoice4974 As we say in (my part of) the US: Don't drink and park. Accidents cause people.

  • @Tonydjjokerit
    @Tonydjjokerit Před rokem

    Another thing I've learned. Do NOT praise the Ice Hockey team Jokerit Helsinki. Unfortunately I am a big fan of the club as they ran my team in Newcastle so Aleksi do you have any comments?

  • @EraTheShrimp
    @EraTheShrimp Před 3 lety

    Two things-
    I just nodiced even if I am outside and eat I take my hat off lol.
    Yes. It is very annoying if someone interupts.

  • @mistguides
    @mistguides Před 8 měsíci

    Support for my Finnish friend.

  • @aellaainsley7
    @aellaainsley7 Před rokem

    5:12 would they look at me weird and isolate me and stuff if i acted too expressive?

  • @guillomn
    @guillomn Před rokem

    Just to add to the tipping rule as a worker in the restaurant industry here: it's not necessary to tip, but don't be afraid to tip big either, we sure won't mind a little extra money 😁 as our salaries aren't that great

    • @AleksiHimself
      @AleksiHimself  Před rokem

      Exactly! Don't hesitate to tip for superior service.

  • @luanaforrest8238
    @luanaforrest8238 Před 3 lety +3

    I think most pointers in this video are just common sense, except 1) the hat one. I wouldn't have known the extent of the offence, so great to know; 2) tipping, thanks for sharing the customary habit!

  • @UnknownMaster21
    @UnknownMaster21 Před 3 lety

    Kyllä

  • @Arkki11
    @Arkki11 Před 3 lety +10

    I would say, generally speaking, don't tip at all

    • @deathalizer82
      @deathalizer82 Před 3 lety +1

      Only time I "tip" is when in a bar and my order costs 9,90 or similar, I pay with a 10€ bill and say "keep the change".

  • @jessefinneman7680
    @jessefinneman7680 Před 2 měsíci

    One word about finnish streets and why they are as glean they are. House maintenance is a big thing in Finland we work 24/7

  • @chrisroberts1036
    @chrisroberts1036 Před rokem

    4:23 I just choked on my coffee lol

  • @sladkovarkady9321
    @sladkovarkady9321 Před 8 měsíci

    Hm, in Ukraine are the same about shoes and hats but not for helmets :) It's a crazy idea to take off helmets :)

  • @AJBonnema
    @AJBonnema Před 3 lety +2

    If you would like to help language learners learning Finnish, all you have to do is create Finnish videos with Finnish subscripts, about subjects that you like or you think your public likes and it will help learners that have passed the beginners stage. Check the subject "comprehensible input" or checkout a video of Steve Kaufmann or the channel of "matt vs japan" to get more info on one of the most fun ways of learning languages, specifically Finnish. Thanks for the video, I like it!

    • @AJBonnema
      @AJBonnema Před rokem

      Re-reading this a year after I wrote it, I realize it took a lot of hubris to write this. I have never created a video in my life and I am giving you advice about how to create videos?? That is bold. What I probably meant to say was something like, I like Finnish videos with Finnish subtexts so I can export them to my language tool. I apologize for my post: arrogant and unwitting. I hope it did not put you off too much! I really do enjoy your videos in general!

  • @mitchik0o13
    @mitchik0o13 Před 3 lety

    In asia we have inside shoes/slippers.. ☺️

  • @JakeKilka
    @JakeKilka Před 3 lety +10

    "...a friendly rrlrllrlRRLLRrllrlr between sweden and Finland..."

  • @EnterPoet
    @EnterPoet Před 2 lety +1

    Even if they don’t say I love you or act overly expressive like latin guys, their love runs deep. They are action over words. Also they are happy to help with chores, that is the equality bit.

  • @a-mr8745
    @a-mr8745 Před 3 lety

    If you visit outside of Helsinki, you shoud go atleast to Turku or Porvoo!

  • @alastairstaunton7081
    @alastairstaunton7081 Před 8 měsíci

    No litter, polite, reserved, quiet people. I want to move there!

  • @bige1106
    @bige1106 Před 3 lety +1

    Alexi, you have now provided me with a huge conundrum, as I am Finnish living in the USA since a young age, I agree with all you stated that I/someone should not do when in Finland, however since you have stated I should not do this, well being a consummate Finn, I must now do the things you have stated I can not do in Finland. As you know when you tell a Finn they should not do something, well by God, the Finn will do it! The same way that if you tell a Finn to do something, well then by God the Finn will NOT do it. You can see my Finnish dilemma, can't you!?

    • @Aurinkohirvi
      @Aurinkohirvi Před 3 lety

      Absolutely. Resisting rules you think are stupid, doing your own thing, thinking yourself, being a rebel, is a Finnish thing also. Minding your own business and not minding the other peopleäs business is very Finnish thing.
      But being rude and being disrespectful is another thing. That's just immature. Not seen well in Finland either.

    • @bige1106
      @bige1106 Před 3 lety

      @@Aurinkohirvi when in doubt, always consider what I state as sarcasm, I am a Finn after all, just had to say the earlier remarks as it is a Finnish thing as well to do the opposite of what one "tells" a Finns to o or not do and so what Alexi provides is a paradox for a Finn, I am sure you could pick up on my extreme sarcasm in this?!

    • @toivotickenin1280
      @toivotickenin1280 Před rokem

      I'm a 4th generation Finn in the US. I've heard the phrase.... "you can always tell a Finn... but you can't tell him much!" Lol