I either flirt by completely ignoring and avoiding the person im interested in, or by acting like i like them but in a totally platonic straight girl bff way. Surprisingly, it has worked once before
How to know someone is gay.... Assume everyone you are into is gay and wait for the crushing reality that they are actually straight and if that moment never comes then boom! They are, in fact, 🌈. Now you know.
I almost always do the opposite I start to like someone but then I assume their straight or something and then I find out their actually not but I mean I’ve never really fallen for anyone that’s actually straight so far 😭
As a 42 yr old bi woman, my best advice if ur getting in your head too much b4 sex is to try to get "in the moment." Being present or just the act of trying to become more present can really reduce anxiety in any situation. Acknowledge the sounds in the room, the good smell of ur partner's perfume, or how the sheets feel on ur skin.. etc etc.
The Stroll documentary on Max centers the stories of the transgender women who survived as sex workers in New York City’s Meatpacking District prior to gentrification. A 51 year old lesbian friend of mine used to tell me stories about how those women protected her from men who harassed her when she walked home at night. It’s so important for these stories to be told, known, and retold. Stonewall Revolution (not “Stonewall”), also powerful, shows the historical context and significance of the Stonewall Riots through the personal accounts of those who were there.
You're so right about the giving time and energy into friendships vs relationships. Friends and partners are different, but when you don't have a partner you just have more time and emotional energy to put into your friends, so if you have feelings for one they are prolly gonna grow
i watched this in class and the teacher walked past and said "can you turn that video off please, and i swear if you get me fired for being homophobic i will fail you."
I just started following you today after seeing your video of your mom reacting to your thirst traps on my fyp lol. I used to be bi and then les but now I am straight and I got so much hate from it but I’m still an ally for you people because I understand it and how hard it is to be a part of that community. Love to anyone who sees this!♥️
Bro everything abt is so like calming or beautiful like her eyes I would die for, her smile I would die for, her voice I could listen to for forever, her hair I would die for, just everything abt mak is beautiful
My first queer kiss wasn’t good but I wanted that for the rest of my life and it was still a million times better than the best kiss with any hetero I had.
I realize I'm obviously not your type, but I just want to say that you are BREATHTAKINGLY beautiful! Your eyes are mesmerizing and your smile is gorgeous! ❤️🥰❤️
@@numbers9696why do you watch this videos as a straight guy? I’m not trying to be rude, I’m just curious. And yea, Mak is such a beautiful person!
@@elisagrechyeah, the new update doesn’t let you have a homepage without a search history. I am not about letting my work related searches ruin my cookies😂 so no homepage for me too
My Coming Out Story. I have never really written about this before but you know what I would like to. Considering that I'm very young (12) I am not an expert in anything! When I was 10 I was having a chat with my mom and she asked me did I ever like boys, honestly I could never lie because if said that I would actually throw up, Anyways back to the situation, before she said anything I told her I was a lesbian, My parents aren't homophobic but I knew they would be sceptical because of my age. She told me if I was sure and I said yes. She hugged me and I was so happy that it was finally out it took me a while to realise that now everyone knows I like... but I'm used to it know. A year later I came out to my whole class. My whole class is supportive, Now the whole school knows and some are homophobic but I really don't care about there opinion. I do realise I get way more sexualised now that I have came out, recently a classmate sexually assaulted me in the line. he whispered lot things about me that where sexual and also called me a cunt to top it off like a fucking cherry on top. I got him in massive trouble with his parents, but not the school, my parents are working on it to get him suspended :) to top it off after you come you truly never stop. be brave and just ignore the homohphobes (they are most likely fruity) 😺
I just let people flirt with me online and if someone shows interest I then follow through or don’t, but I could never just flirt in person 🥴 I’m so awkward!
I flirt in acting normal and flirty with my friends or people I dont care about that way and absolutely under no circumstances talking to the person Im interested in. Doesent work, I dont recommend
Question: do lesbians have one night stands or even a "just met them quickies" like straight people? Oh flirting, same thing for straight persons; same everything depending on persons of course.
@@JanneBernards Janne: Janne Name Meaning: "GOD IS GRACIOUS". Janne as a girl's name is of Hebrew origin, and the meaning of Janne is "God is gracious". Gracious is the LORD, and righteous; Yea, our God is merciful. Psalm 116:5 Bonus: Now as Jannes and Jambres withstood Moses, so do these also resist the truth: men of corrupt minds, reprobate concerning the faith. 2 Timothy 3:8
how do you deal when you've been 'out' as gay for 2-3 years, but it's like you're newly out because you have had little to no experience and opportunities to connect with other gay/bi women? And you don't know how or when this can get better? 🥲
@@avabackupaccount ah, my friend. I have no solution other than to tell you you're def not alone, and in time let's keep hope alive things get better for us in that area.
I said good afternoon and hello 👋🏾. If you will going to back to school college this fall 🍁 season or whatever works yourself job now yet? I will can do that response to honor her you own date or girlfriend 🌹☮️👌🏾✌🏾🆒🫶🏾💪🏾🤓👏🏾👐🏾🔜🔜🆗🆗🆗🫵🏾🔝
I either flirt by completely ignoring and avoiding the person im interested in, or by acting like i like them but in a totally platonic straight girl bff way. Surprisingly, it has worked once before
same ☠️
Yeah l try the ignoring thing! I think they are all grateful and here l am with my cat!
it does work hehe
How to know someone is gay....
Assume everyone you are into is gay and wait for the crushing reality that they are actually straight and if that moment never comes then boom! They are, in fact, 🌈. Now you know.
I almost always do the opposite I start to like someone but then I assume their straight or something and then I find out their actually not but I mean I’ve never really fallen for anyone that’s actually straight so far 😭
WAKE UP MAK POSTED
Nooooooo 5 more minutes mom 😭
your voice is so calming
Ikr that’s one reason why like her
I love how Mak tells us what to reply then says never do that
NEVER DO IT.
@@Makingemi u got it🫡
😝😝😝 truth Mak has never had to pursue… because I suspect she’s ALWAYS pursued! For the rest of us it’s like throwing spaghetti at a wall! 😝😝
I love how I literally wait hours to listen to her give the most random advice
I could listen to you talk forever
As a 42 yr old bi woman, my best advice if ur getting in your head too much b4 sex is to try to get "in the moment." Being present or just the act of trying to become more present can really reduce anxiety in any situation. Acknowledge the sounds in the room, the good smell of ur partner's perfume, or how the sheets feel on ur skin.. etc etc.
The Stroll documentary on Max centers the stories of the transgender women who survived as sex workers in New York City’s Meatpacking District prior to gentrification. A 51 year old lesbian friend of mine used to tell me stories about how those women protected her from men who harassed her when she walked home at night. It’s so important for these stories to be told, known, and retold.
Stonewall Revolution (not “Stonewall”), also powerful, shows the historical context and significance of the Stonewall Riots through the personal accounts of those who were there.
4:11 your advice on labels was really helpful for me mak, thank you ❤
Ur answer to the label question rly helped me and reminded me to stop stressing and trying to fit myself into one certain category
3:10 How do u know if someone is gay? u just do yk...gaydar ✨👑
Fr😭😭gaydar never lies😂
You're so right about the giving time and energy into friendships vs relationships. Friends and partners are different, but when you don't have a partner you just have more time and emotional energy to put into your friends, so if you have feelings for one they are prolly gonna grow
Your explanation of Uhauling is really sweet🥺❤ I wholeheartedly agree!
Mak, you are so lucky to have such an amazing sister. Mattea is awesome!!!
i watched this in class and the teacher walked past and said "can you turn that video off please, and i swear if you get me fired for being homophobic i will fail you."
lmao (also it’s summer rn why r u in school ??)
aw Mak this was a great video, I like how the questionaire had a wide variety of questions from sex to dating to lifestyle
Mak,you are super amazing
Happy Monday
I just started following you today after seeing your video of your mom reacting to your thirst traps on my fyp lol. I used to be bi and then les but now I am straight and I got so much hate from it but I’m still an ally for you people because I understand it and how hard it is to be a part of that community. Love to anyone who sees this!♥️
I just watched your last video this morning I feel special 😁 👀 as if you uploaded twice
Bro everything abt is so like calming or beautiful like her eyes I would die for, her smile I would die for, her voice I could listen to for forever, her hair I would die for, just everything abt mak is beautiful
I love your Q&A videos.
🥰
My first queer kiss wasn’t good but I wanted that for the rest of my life and it was still a million times better than the best kiss with any hetero I had.
This one was so good and so much fun too 🥰
Baby Mak has some solid grown up advice here... AND the most soothing voice.
I realize I'm obviously not your type, but I just want to say that you are BREATHTAKINGLY beautiful! Your eyes are mesmerizing and your smile is gorgeous! ❤️🥰❤️
As a straight guy… mak is my type
Yes, Mak is absolutely beautiful.
@@numbers9696why do you watch this videos as a straight guy? I’m not trying to be rude, I’m just curious. And yea, Mak is such a beautiful person!
MAK your back missed you great video is that a new mic? video quality seemed better new camera?
ive watched that video like 5 times lol. happy to see other opinions!
YOU ARE LiTeRALLY EVERYWHERE
Istg is there any channel you don’t watch?!?!
@@Swiftie641 praeger u lol
I would love to see your queer/ wlw show and movie recs!
hey mak did you go see meg2? its so good !!! the sharks are so cute
Question for mak
Do you feel/ever felt gender envy??
Thank you for posting
BRUHHH MAK POSTED
Mak >>>
why does this comment say 'mom' when I translate it...🤔
@isabellahaider lol idunno..but makes sense¿
@@elisagrech it's just prove
Now that my youtube home page is gone, I am beginning to appreciate the incredible channels I have subscribed to.
gone?....
@@elisagrech yup. It goes blank if you stop watch history. In usa, this was already the case but now its worldwide.
@@elisagrechthey have their watch history off and CZcams took it
@@elisagrechyeah, the new update doesn’t let you have a homepage without a search history. I am not about letting my work related searches ruin my cookies😂 so no homepage for me too
Heyyyyy Makkkk:)))
"Please never do that" Oh I am going to do it now!
WHY DID YOU BRUSH AWAY THAT HAIR, IT LOOKED SO CUTE IT WAS MY FOCUS POINT WHILE I LISTENED TO YOU😭
I wish i could get her haircut 😭 i dont think my hair would look like that everrr
your eyes look absolutely gorgeous in this video
....that was random, but its true :)
ok ew but the way i said that sounded creepy, sorry i didnt mean it like that
Sage advice.
Nice video 😊
Oh, lucky me!
How I flirt: I don't 😂
❤❤❤
My Coming Out Story.
I have never really written about this before but you know what I would like to. Considering that I'm very young (12) I am not an expert in anything! When I was 10 I was having a chat with my mom and she asked me did I ever like boys, honestly I could never lie because if said that I would actually throw up, Anyways back to the situation, before she said anything I told her I was a lesbian, My parents aren't homophobic but I knew they would be sceptical because of my age. She told me if I was sure and I said yes. She hugged me and I was so happy that it was finally out it took me a while to realise that now everyone knows I like... but I'm used to it know. A year later I came out to my whole class. My whole class is supportive, Now the whole school knows and some are homophobic but I really don't care about there opinion. I do realise I get way more sexualised now that I have came out, recently a classmate sexually assaulted me in the line. he whispered lot things about me that where sexual and also called me a cunt to top it off like a fucking cherry on top. I got him in massive trouble with his parents, but not the school, my parents are working on it to get him suspended :)
to top it off after you come you truly never stop.
be brave and just ignore the homohphobes (they are most likely fruity)
😺
when you were explaining the metaphor relating labels to clothes my mind kept leading me down the path of label nudists. lol sorry
I am a radlcaI Iesbain, I just Iike gaIs so much.
Nimble.. a Pianist?
😂
I just let people flirt with me online and if someone shows interest I then follow through or don’t, but I could never just flirt in person 🥴 I’m so awkward!
Uhall😂😂
I feel like the best way to describe my first queer kiss is the song ‘I see the light’ from the movie Tangled😭
I flirt in acting normal and flirty with my friends or people I dont care about that way and absolutely under no circumstances talking to the person Im interested in. Doesent work, I dont recommend
How to know if someone is gay:
Ask them or tell them about you're sexuality, if they are gay too trust me when I say they will tell you.
Question: do lesbians have one night stands or even a "just met them quickies" like straight people? Oh flirting, same thing for straight persons; same everything depending on persons of course.
Slayyy
😎😃😊😜😍😘💖🌹
FIRST
nowp
my mom is super supportive but im scared to come out to my dad
Are you a boy or girl ??
Why do ye not understand my speech? John 8:43
Why do ye be annoying? Janne 00:16
@@JanneBernards Janne:
Janne Name Meaning: "GOD IS GRACIOUS". Janne as a girl's name is of Hebrew origin, and the meaning of Janne is "God is gracious".
Gracious is the LORD, and righteous; Yea, our God is merciful. Psalm 116:5
Bonus:
Now as Jannes and Jambres withstood Moses, so do these also resist the truth: men of corrupt minds, reprobate concerning the faith. 2 Timothy 3:8
You are a baby mak not an expired lesbian don’t lie to us
how do you deal when you've been 'out' as gay for 2-3 years, but it's like you're newly out because you have had little to no experience and opportunities to connect with other gay/bi women? And you don't know how or when this can get better? 🥲
Frr I’m not necessarily “newly out” but I’m not that experienced either
@@avabackupaccount ah, my friend. I have no solution other than to tell you you're def not alone, and in time let's keep hope alive things get better for us in that area.
I said good afternoon and hello 👋🏾. If you will going to back to school college this fall 🍁 season or whatever works yourself job now yet? I will can do that response to honor her you own date or girlfriend 🌹☮️👌🏾✌🏾🆒🫶🏾💪🏾🤓👏🏾👐🏾🔜🔜🆗🆗🆗🫵🏾🔝