These videos are such a gift. My husband started praying over me every night about a month or so ago and it has totally shifted our marriage. There's more tenderness and intimacy and spiritual alignment. Praise God!
Husbands are grown men not boys that need a wife mother, they can make the same effort and decisions as the woman and also NEED to put the SAME effort as the wife does, not all the weight relies on the wife to make a marriage work 🤦🏻♀️
I was saved about 4 years ago. My husband and I had been married for 4 years at that point with 2 little baby boys. 1 chorinthians 7:14 is what I held onto dearly! Having faith that one day my unbelieving husband would be saved. Lo and behold, the Lord worked through my family like you wouldn’t believe 😭 my husband was saved about 2 years ago, praise God! It still blows my mind that Jesus would save a couple of punks like us. All the glory to God.
I’m believing this for my husband, praying for the Lord to pick him up and love on him like the father he never had. Our family needs this desperately. Our family needs more Jesus.
It’ll come!! I’m not as long as the older women she talked about but I prayed for my husband for a while I’ve been saved 5 years and just this last Easter he got baptized me and my mama prayed for him everyday straight and had people in church pray for him and I saw his heart soften now we read the Bible and pray he’s still growing in doing things on his own (we’re always growing lol) but for him to be open to all these things is such a amazing prayer answered. Keep praying keep inviting him to church, my hubby use to play video games when I took the kids to church each week now he gets upset missing a week. It seems like it won’t ever change but it will be the light and love of Christ Jesus will soften his heart God bless ❤
Yes! Can we have more husband perspective videos!? Love hearing their side on what we can do. I feel like a lot of men are closed off on how we can help them emotionally. Living for these series your putting out! ❤
Wonderful! I love this and the other one too. I listen to your videos during my workouts! My husband wasn’t a Christian for the majority of our relationship. By the grace of God, he accepted Jesus on our 7th year! 🎉 It has now been 10 years for us. This year, our eldest son died and it has only strengthened both of our faith. I’m not sure that would’ve been the case had he not come to God a few years prior. God’s timing is immaculate.
Loving these videos! Sending them to my married friends. I’m noticing so many marriages going through trials - the spiritual attacks are so real and heavy right now.
I love the messages here! There’s a lot of truth. It is important to note that you can and should still have healthy conversations regularly about what you need from each other so that you can meet each others’ needs. Women don’t have to silently hope and pray. Prayer is powerful, but so is acting and speaking in kindness.
Hi Milena, thank you for making these videos. I’ve been a single mom for 11 years I use to write letters to my future husband but stopped due to pain from past relationships, but as of recently The Lord is softening my heart and placed a desire in me for marriage. He has me praying for my future husband every Tuesday and not just my future husband but my daughter’s and son’s future spouse. So these videos are helping me to prep myself to be a godly wife who is intentional about the things I do for my future husband. Thank you for you faithfulness in the Lord and being a example of how a godly holy wife should carry herself. 😊❤
I absolutely love the moments that Jordan makes guest appearances with you on your channel. It’s nice to hear a man’s point of view, and it’s great that you guys model such a healthy relationship 🤍
It’s awesome to take responsibility for being Christ like to your spouse, 100%. However, biblically , a lot of these things start with the husband- you said, “A lot of these things start with the wife.”God’s will is that husbands reflect Christ, and Christ is the initiator, He is the example of love that wives respond to with love in return. In Christian culture, I notice often just how much pressure is put on women to hold the relationship. Husbands are called to be the head, the head is the source of the body. I wish more husbands would see the seriousness of their role as a husband SO that women could respond. This video series seems to assume women are generally constantly nagging, abrasive - laughing at their husbands prayers to their face? Does that really happen with people? Am I missing something? That’s insane. I like to believe the best in women, especially Christian women. No one is perfect, but to laugh in someone’s face as they are praying speaks to a more serious issue that’s not related to the gender of “woman.” I’m thankful I have a wonderful husband; and I will not stop being Christ to him if he ever were to stop being Christ to me. However it is incorrect to say that it starts with the wife and we need to be cautious of putting traditional views (which often blame the woman for everything, even if they are the ones getting abused)- over scripture.
Thank you for these videos! My husband and I have been walking through a super tough season in our marriage. Milena your video inspired me to pray over a renewed mind and spirit for my husband & I and also strive more to honor my husband biblically. Working on myself ; I can tell has changed the way my husband treats me and responds to me. Thank you both!
I tried the quick pick up of the house before my husband got home and the first thing my husband said when we greeted each other was “the house looks nice babe” and all I could do was laugh to myself because it worked 😂
I am 2 minutes into the video and you both called me out!! THATS A GOOD THING! I would have send this to my husband mad but you reminded me what I want to really do is pray for the change and let god do the work, cause he will do a way better job than me!!! Thank you Jordan and milena ❤🙏🏽
Some much of showing true love is doing things we do not necessarily FEEL like doing in the moment... But its so worth it in the long term... And it goes so much further than our words do... but in the right moments words are good too... when my husband seems stressed by work or nor loving it i try to find a moment to thank him for providing for us so well Love the direction your channel has taken.. 😊
i absolutely love these type of videos!! it's also very refreshing to see Jordans perspective as a husband. even though i'm not married nor engaged yet, i enjoy watching videos like these that prepare me for when the time comes. glory to God for this, may God continue to bless your marriage together. thank you for letting us witness a piece of it hehe ❤
There’s no greater love than someone who will pray with you and for you. Because they literally love you THAT much to take your needs to JESUS who is the one our soul loves more than anything else in this world. ❤ so good!
Oh my gosh y’all we need SO MUCH MORE husband and wife and living godly together content! Please keep this going. I need this. My marriage needs this!! ❤
Absolutely love this video! Hearing about the woman who’s husband turned to Christ after 67 years was encouraging to hear. ❤ 1 Peter 3:1 says, “wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without talk by the behavior of their wives”. Let’s be women who win over our unbelieving husbands!
As a believer, dating an unbeliever is not a wise, and most likely a sinful idea. The Bible says not to be unequally yoked. But if someone is married to an unbeliever for one reason or another, yes! The Lord will work and use you. As he says in His word. ❤️
@@micahmaximWhat if when you got married he was a believer and then through time and years of marriage he isnt? Im not saying this is happening to me. Im just asking out of curiosity?
Thank you for your opening testimony about that woman and her husband being saved. Praying daily for my husband to fall in love w Jesus the way have. I truly believe and have faith that one day my husband will be leading our family through Christ ❤️
Im a muslim and I am learning so much from your channel. And after watching a few videos in your channel, I can definitely say that there are so many similarities in the way God expects us to live this life. Which makes sense obviously, since it is the same God. Bless you and your family❤
At 7:20 you guys cover the very concept that I believe clearly illustrates Conscious parenting- Demonstrating God’s unconditional love to our children & spouse; reaching for curiosity and connection and modeling as opposed to fear, criticism and manipulation. ❤
My husband cheated on me while pregnant with my cleaner and 4 weeks postpartum while moving across country with a newborn. I tried that and now im done. Im done.
Wow, thank you so much, you’re a such a good husband, you challenged all of us husbands to do better not just to expect our wives to do good when we just stand by. I will definitely subscribe to your channel.
New subscribers and I have to say I’ve watched several videos now. I’m loving it. Thank you guys for honoring Abba and sharing. The world needs more of this. 💜🙌🏽💌 blessings to your family.
Good points! ...but I am not sure how these things are based on the wife or start with the wife. Especially when we look at the relationship between Christ and The Church, when the husband is called to lead ..and when initially men 'lead' 'start' the chase as it pertains to courtship/dating. Each person should play their role ..but I don't see it as starting or lasting with the wife. Based on order I imagine it be moreso the husband ...or the person who is called / lead to ...make the change because it can go either way.
I was literally getting ready to type this message! It doesn't start with the wife, it continues with her. The husband has given the instruction to love...period! Lead in love and grace and she will follow in love and grace.
LOL not me listening to this around my kids and the first thing that comes out of Jordans mouth is "SEX". I never put on headphones so fast in my life 🤣
LOL Had the same thing happen the other day, had it playing in the back ground, left room for a minute and she was on that subject. Just gotta remind myself she is a "watch while kids sleep" channel 😂 (not complaining, or bad mouthing, I enjoy her channel so much, like having that close girl friend you can Share all your struggles with and get good advice)
These are great tips! Some I already do and others I need to work on! Your channel is such a blessing ❤ I’m curious if you would ever do a video on books you have found helpful or life changing in motherhood, marriage or your walk with God?
I’m glad you guys shared what you guys are going through bc that is my life rn. My husband is a busy man, he’s in the military and electrician it’s hard to actually spend intentional time together. And I know it’s just a season☁️✨ God bless you guys
Can you please make a video about how you guys kept your relationship spiritually appropriate as you transitioned from gf and bf to engaged to married or tips
I love these videos you have on marriage. Would it be possible to make a video for people who are dating someone they plan to marry? I want to know how we can prepare for marriage and also connect emotionally.
Lol My husband’s behavior, words, and actions should absolutely impact how I treat him. The same should apply to me. Being a man in the relationship does not mean anything. Husband and wife are equal and should be treating each other with the same respect and love.
@@globetrotter3956 thank you so much, I really needed to read this after finishing the whole video. Man and woman are not only of equal value but deserve the same respect, freedom of choice and "honour".
Can you do a singles mess series, how to prepare, what to look for as a single person etc, how to deal with feelings of uncertainty during the last days.
My heart hurts so bad watching this video because I've been praying for years for my husband to have these breakthroughs. Please keep me in your prayers - That I can keep a good heart to believe "If God can do that in/through Jordan, He can do it in my husband," instead of feeling comparison. God is no respecter of persons, what He can do for one, He can do for another, right? I want so badly to be encouraged by seeing godly husbands, instead of feeling deep sorrow that my desire for that is unmet.
No person is to far for Christ ❤keep praying the Lord will soften his heart he did for my husband just recently I never thought he would be as open as he is now don’t ever give up praying 🙏🏻
Even if a wife is nagging, even if she is contemptuous, immature, and failing, her husband, by the grace of God, can and ought to love. He can sit down, look her in the eyes, and listen to her, even if she isn’t a good wife. Men are capable of loving their wives even when they are not lovely. The same goes for women, too! So long as there is not abuse or danger, there needs to be consistent love outstretched, spiritual/emotional/physical intimacy initiated, and consistent effort to be the spouse and person that God calls us to be. God gives us all we need. He is our strength, our protection, and our joy. If you are experiencing strain or hurt in your marriage, I am so sorry. That is not how it’s supposed to be. Stay strong in the Lord and remember that he cares for you. That he sees you. That he will uphold you. Continue on in love and prayer❤️
I watch these videos and read the comments and I just think “how do I get a spouse?” I pray about, yet I’ve been single for years and nothing really seems to change. This content is beautiful and heart warming. As a 31 year old single mom (my sons father left when he was 1.5). This just makes my heart ache because I long for this but it’s just not in Gods will. Idk how people get so lucky to find men of God at such a young age who love and admire them and put them in a position to raise children, rather than work full time. I’ve never been blessed with a man who either A. Truly loved me or B. Had any ambition for the future it’s always one or the other. So many married couples who love each other in the comments, how do you even meet people nowadays? Asking for a friend. Prayers if anyone comes across this comment. I found the Lord much later in life and now I fear being alone forever or not being able to get married young enough to have a family and children. May God bless all of your marriages I pray peace and prosperity over all of your families.
For your Maker is your husband, the LORD of hosts is his name; and the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer, the God of the whole earth he is called. Isaiah 54:5. I recently listened to a woman who went through a long season of singleness and still is, and prayed to God about it, and his response was this verse. It is different, buut, there is no better husband than him! While you are waiting for a human husband, ask God what it looks like for him to be your husband. I hope you will find encouragement and know that you having faith later in life was in God's perfect timing!
The part of respecting your spouse even if you’re not happy with them is kinda like the structure in the military or government. You respect the rank like you would a commanding officer or the president. After all why would you disrespect someone you chose to call your husband or wife.
Milena I like your videos but honestly this was way better getting your husband’s perspective because when it was just you telling wives what they should do or advice it made me feel guilty but with both perspectives it really made me understand why I act or feel the way I feel sometimes.
Honestly I’ve been nagging my husband because the lord has changed me so much and my husband doesn’t even spend time with the lord to be changed. I have resentment watching this video so please pray for me to soften my heart and trust that the Lord will change the things that need changed.
I’m in the same boat as you girl! I’ve been trying to do the wife’s version she made and it has ended in me crying so much because if I don’t “nag” he doesn’t hear me!! I want to feel more important than his phone but I’m just not and now I have resentment growing in me.. I take our kids to church and he will NOT attend. I pray quite a bit during the day but it makes me upset when it feels like I’m the only one trying to improve our relationship.
@@dirtbikelife6159 I am praying for you sister in christ! Even when you nag he's not listening to you because he wants to so therefore he does things out of resentment and avoids you with his phone. So today instead of nagging maybe just pray. God will handle the rest. It won't be on your time either It will be on God's timing. Have patience and love your spouse as Christ loves your spouse. These changes don't happen right away. Ive been the nagging wife and trust me when I say I never got what I truly wanted out of nagging. I started giving compliments and sharing how greatful I was for him for even the small things and it changed our marriage. May I ask is your husband a believer?
@paytongrant8103 The lord has changed you because you are seeking him and asking for change. Our spouses are not always on the same page as us. I have 6 children and took them to church alone many times and my husband sees the change in me and wanted to join. I didn't beg him or nag him, I'd simply invite him hey you want to go to church with us today. Eventually he said yes. We can't ask God to change other people the only thing we can do is ask God to change us and help us. We can pray for their salvation but they have to want the change for God to work in them. I hope I'm making sense.
I think my comments are backwards I apologize but yall get my point. I am praying for both of you ladies. It's so hard to be in your situation. I'm not judging you at all ive been in the same situation. But when we start to serve our spouses and not expect anything in return it changes things. Keep praying because I believe in the power of prayer and I believe God will open doors for both of you no man can close. ❤
1.- Pay attention to her 2.- Notice the little things 3.- Pray with her and for her 4.- Do things you know she’ll appreciate with her having to tell you 5.- Go to bed with her 6.- Randomly and spontaneously take the kids out 7.- Work out and try to eat healthy 💕💘💖💞
6:09 this is so true! My husband (who is a minister) is the one who nags, complains, etc and is not affectionate unless he wants sex which he thinks/calls “quality time” so as a result I emotionally shut down, it’s so confusing to think that I’m suppose to ignore my feelings and still give my body. 😫 other than his attitude & situational affection, he’s a good husband.
you don't ever have to ignore your feelings and "give your body". your feelings are valid and if you ignore them for too long, the situation will only get worse. maybe talk to your husband? if you are afraid this talk might turn into a fight (which sometimes is also fine, because humans have complex emotions and anger is often triggered when we are/feel vulnerable - which is good, because a marriage the the place for vulnerability!) I encourage you to look into nonviolent communication. Also choose the right time and place to talk about this issue. I hope this helps and good luck! xx
It's sad how so many "godly" men are the ones mistreating their wives. This is not the first testimony I have heard like this. I sympathize with you sis. Would he be willing to go to a Christian marriage counselor? Prayer and fasting on your end is needed in this matter, along with communication with you husband about what you need from him. Nagging and criticism kills the intimacy on so many levels
I do have a quick question you mentioned earlier that we should stick by our partners, even when we feel as though they don’t deserve it. How do you go about it when a sense of trust has been broken in any way it could be infidelity, spiteful words, or even lack of honesty, how do you continue to serve your partner and when do you know it’s enough to draw the line.
I honestly feel like only you would know that. Have you prayed about it? Is your spouse doing everything he can to try to fix things or does he have a sense of he doesn't care? There are so many factors that play into a situation like this.
Haaa I did the same and my husband was like, that’s the first thing they said not to send and you did lol. I told him I hear mine now hear yours lol oooppps
When my boyfriend, fiance now, first got together we both did not believe in God. Nor did we believe in marriage. We've been together going on 6 years. It wasn't until last year that the Holy spirit came to me. I know that you are not supposed to date or live with someone who is not a believer and to only stay if you are married because as you begin to live a Godly life your husband has the chance to see how God truly is through your actions. I stayed with my man... 6 months after turning to God my fiance started watching different videos with men who were believers. The videos weren't necessarily directed at faith but their faith of course came through in their talks/speeches. 3 months after that he told me he wanted to propose. Then 3 months later got engaged. He has moved from God isn't real to there is a higher power but hasn't quite accepted it to be God, yet.
What do you do when your husband for the last 17 years been wanting me to wake him up everyday with a massage, he goes to bed late (we go to bed together) and he likes to sleep in, while i have to get up no matter what and get kid ready, do breakfast and start school with them(we homeschool) If i dont wake him up, he blames me for letting him sleep long, its been a constant battle for me and i tried to bring this up and he just wont understand that he needs to get up on his own. Kinda told him I can be his mom, but he thinks its my job basically and i do try to please him by doing just that but deep inside im just crying emotionally cause im drained already. I wake kids up and if they dare be loud he gets mad so on top of that he needs the whole house quiet until he gets up. Its hard, any suggestions for me? What am I doing wrong. How can you have a successful marriage when only one side does it all, he works from home so he doesn't have to go anywhere early, if he does has an appointment early he will get up on his own with alarm but if nothing, he will sleep till 11 or 12 pm if i dont wake him up. We had conversations about it and its just useless, he thinks its all my fault that he sleeps long. Do I continue to wake him up with back rubs and be understanding of his struggle?
Hi Milena, would you be able to explain if we need to submit spiritually to our husband? And if so, what does that look like? My husband is absolutely a leader in every way and I LOVE IT but I struggle with the idea of submitting spiritually. I'm not sure why - I don't feel threatened by his leadership, it's more that I don't agree with some of the conclusions he's come to about scripture. I'll use an extreme example: let's say a husband thinks that giving a child a smack as a punishment is acceptable but the wife does not agree with hitting children. What should the wife do if she clearly feels like that is wrong? Submit and be quiet about it and trust that her husband knows best? Does she have to correct the children in the same way? Or should she challenge him and object to hitting children? (Without it being naggy) Would love to hear your thoughts about this and it would really help me.
My husband just got home and I met him at the door and he grinned and said were you waiting for me at the door? He loved it❤
LOVE that 🥺
@@MilenaCiciotti you guys are changing lives and strengthening marriages. I’ve seen the fruit big time in my life. I’m praying for y’all. 🤍
Have you read Fascinating Womanhood?? It's another great one on keeping husbands happy and adoring 😊
Am doing this to my husband every day for the last 23 years❤❤. And kissing and hugging. And the faces of our teens😂😂😂 and the rolling eyes.😂
These videos are such a gift. My husband started praying over me every night about a month or so ago and it has totally shifted our marriage. There's more tenderness and intimacy and spiritual alignment. Praise God!
Wow praise the Lord!!
Husbands are grown men not boys that need a wife mother, they can make the same effort and decisions as the woman and also NEED to put the SAME effort as the wife does, not all the weight relies on the wife to make a marriage work 🤦🏻♀️
Absolutely but the only person I can change is myself. "Be the change you want to see"
Exactly! They have this video and one for the other spouse too :)
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I was saved about 4 years ago. My husband and I had been married for 4 years at that point with 2 little baby boys. 1 chorinthians 7:14 is what I held onto dearly! Having faith that one day my unbelieving husband would be saved. Lo and behold, the Lord worked through my family like you wouldn’t believe 😭 my husband was saved about 2 years ago, praise God! It still blows my mind that Jesus would save a couple of punks like us. All the glory to God.
I’m believing this for my husband, praying for the Lord to pick him up and love on him like the father he never had. Our family needs this desperately. Our family needs more Jesus.
Milena, it’s so refreshing to have a godly channel to watch on CZcams ❤️
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I have tears imagining my husband praying over me. I beleive the day will come in the name of Jesus.
i’m praying for the same thing 🤍🕯️🙏
It’ll come!! I’m not as long as the older women she talked about but I prayed for my husband for a while I’ve been saved 5 years and just this last Easter he got baptized me and my mama prayed for him everyday straight and had people in church pray for him and I saw his heart soften now we read the Bible and pray he’s still growing in doing things on his own (we’re always growing lol) but for him to be open to all these things is such a amazing prayer answered. Keep praying keep inviting him to church, my hubby use to play video games when I took the kids to church each week now he gets upset missing a week. It seems like it won’t ever change but it will be the light and love of Christ Jesus will soften his heart God bless ❤
Amen! His timing is perfect! Praying for that day too! ❤
Yes! Can we have more husband perspective videos!? Love hearing their side on what we can do. I feel like a lot of men are closed off on how we can help them emotionally. Living for these series your putting out! ❤
Wonderful! I love this and the other one too. I listen to your videos during my workouts! My husband wasn’t a Christian for the majority of our relationship. By the grace of God, he accepted Jesus on our 7th year! 🎉 It has now been 10 years for us. This year, our eldest son died and it has only strengthened both of our faith. I’m not sure that would’ve been the case had he not come to God a few years prior. God’s timing is immaculate.
Loving these videos! Sending them to my married friends. I’m noticing so many marriages going through trials - the spiritual attacks are so real and heavy right now.
amen sis amen!!
I love the messages here! There’s a lot of truth. It is important to note that you can and should still have healthy conversations regularly about what you need from each other so that you can meet each others’ needs. Women don’t have to silently hope and pray. Prayer is powerful, but so is acting and speaking in kindness.
I don’t want this series to end 😭😭😭 I can’t wait to hear what Jordan has to say!!!
Hi Milena, thank you for making these videos. I’ve been a single mom for 11 years I use to write letters to my future husband but stopped due to pain from past relationships, but as of recently The Lord is softening my heart and placed a desire in me for marriage. He has me praying for my future husband every Tuesday and not just my future husband but my daughter’s and son’s future spouse. So these videos are helping me to prep myself to be a godly wife who is intentional about the things I do for my future husband. Thank you for you faithfulness in the Lord and being a example of how a godly holy wife should carry herself. 😊❤
so beautifully said! I will try this myself ❤
I absolutely love the moments that Jordan makes guest appearances with you on your channel. It’s nice to hear a man’s point of view, and it’s great that you guys model such a healthy relationship 🤍
It’s awesome to take responsibility for being Christ like to your spouse, 100%. However, biblically , a lot of these things start with the husband- you said, “A lot of these things start with the wife.”God’s will is that husbands reflect Christ, and Christ is the initiator, He is the example of love that wives respond to with love in return.
In Christian culture, I notice often just how much pressure is put on women to hold the relationship. Husbands are called to be the head, the head is the source of the body. I wish more husbands would see the seriousness of their role as a husband SO that women could respond.
This video series seems to assume women are generally constantly nagging, abrasive - laughing at their husbands prayers to their face? Does that really happen with people? Am I missing something? That’s insane. I like to believe the best in women, especially Christian women. No one is perfect, but to laugh in someone’s face as they are praying speaks to a more serious issue that’s not related to the gender of “woman.”
I’m thankful I have a wonderful husband; and I will not stop being Christ to him if he ever were to stop being Christ to me. However it is incorrect to say that it starts with the wife and we need to be cautious of putting traditional views (which often blame the woman for everything, even if they are the ones getting abused)- over scripture.
I'm not a christian, but i appreciate this comment 🙏 it always goes two ways!
Thank you so much for saying this 🫶🏻
Thank you for these videos! My husband and I have been walking through a super tough season in our marriage. Milena your video inspired me to pray over a renewed mind and spirit for my husband & I and also strive more to honor my husband biblically. Working on myself ; I can tell has changed the way my husband treats me and responds to me. Thank you both!
I tried the quick pick up of the house before my husband got home and the first thing my husband said when we greeted each other was “the house looks nice babe” and all I could do was laugh to myself because it worked 😂
I am 2 minutes into the video and you both called me out!! THATS A GOOD THING! I would have send this to my husband mad but you reminded me what I want to really do is pray for the change and let god do the work, cause he will do a way better job than me!!! Thank you Jordan and milena ❤🙏🏽
Amen sister!!
Some much of showing true love is doing things we do not necessarily FEEL like doing in the moment... But its so worth it in the long term... And it goes so much further than our words do... but in the right moments words are good too... when my husband seems stressed by work or nor loving it i try to find a moment to thank him for providing for us so well Love the direction your channel has taken.. 😊
i absolutely love these type of videos!! it's also very refreshing to see Jordans perspective as a husband. even though i'm not married nor engaged yet, i enjoy watching videos like these that prepare me for when the time comes. glory to God for this, may God continue to bless your marriage together. thank you for letting us witness a piece of it hehe ❤
There’s no greater love than someone who will pray with you and for you. Because they literally love you THAT much to take your needs to JESUS who is the one our soul loves more than anything else in this world. ❤ so good!
AMEN AMEN
Would it be possible to do a video on your winter capsule wardrobe, how you continue to wear feminine dresses even in cold weather?❤
Oh my gosh y’all we need SO MUCH MORE husband and wife and living godly together content! Please keep this going. I need this. My marriage needs this!! ❤
Absolutely love this video! Hearing about the woman who’s husband turned to Christ after 67 years was encouraging to hear. ❤
1 Peter 3:1 says, “wives, in the same way be submissive to your husbands so that, if any of them do not believe the word, they may be won over without talk by the behavior of their wives”. Let’s be women who win over our unbelieving husbands!
I love it when you guys make videos together and get Jordan's perspective too ❤
I want a video from you and Jordan where he gives the male perspective on how to make your husband drooling.
Yes I had the same thoughts
Yes please my thought aswell
If you are dating or married to a non believer - just let God do his thing. Praise him in all you do and it will be contagious ❤
As a believer, dating an unbeliever is not a wise, and most likely a sinful idea. The Bible says not to be unequally yoked.
But if someone is married to an unbeliever for one reason or another, yes! The Lord will work and use you. As he says in His word. ❤️
@@micahmaximWhat if when you got married he was a believer and then through time and years of marriage he isnt? Im not saying this is happening to me. Im just asking out of curiosity?
Breaking of bad habits 😭😭 2 mins in and needed this!
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Thank you for your opening testimony about that woman and her husband being saved. Praying daily for my husband to fall in love w Jesus the way have. I truly believe and have faith that one day my husband will be leading our family through Christ ❤️
Im a muslim and I am learning so much from your channel. And after watching a few videos in your channel, I can definitely say that there are so many similarities in the way God expects us to live this life. Which makes sense obviously, since it is the same God. Bless you and your family❤
The way you both look at eachother is so beautiful.
At 7:20 you guys cover the very concept that I believe clearly illustrates Conscious parenting- Demonstrating God’s unconditional love to our children & spouse; reaching for curiosity and connection and modeling as opposed to fear, criticism and manipulation. ❤
Lol the chaining to the bed got me cracking up….you guys are so cute! Jordan spilling your tea 😂 appreciate this video! Thank you❤
My husband cheated on me while pregnant with my cleaner and 4 weeks postpartum while moving across country with a newborn. I tried that and now im done. Im done.
So much wisdom! I pray God continues to use you and Jordan to bless the lives of others. Thank you for opening up and sharing this with us!
I would LOVE for you two to do a video or podcast on how to fight fairly with your spouse!!
Milena!! You guys these video are so precious! You are helping us so so so much 🥺♥️ Praise God!
Wow, thank you so much, you’re a such a good husband, you challenged all of us husbands to do better not just to expect our wives to do good when we just stand by. I will definitely subscribe to your channel.
New subscribers and I have to say I’ve watched several videos now.
I’m loving it. Thank you guys for honoring Abba and sharing.
The world needs more of this.
💜🙌🏽💌 blessings to your family.
wow praise the Lord 🥺
Good points! ...but I am not sure how these things are based on the wife or start with the wife. Especially when we look at the relationship between Christ and The Church, when the husband is called to lead ..and when initially men 'lead' 'start' the chase as it pertains to courtship/dating. Each person should play their role ..but I don't see it as starting or lasting with the wife. Based on order I imagine it be moreso the husband ...or the person who is called / lead to ...make the change because it can go either way.
I was literally getting ready to type this message! It doesn't start with the wife, it continues with her. The husband has given the instruction to love...period! Lead in love and grace and she will follow in love and grace.
I love how right after I watched milena’s video, I was saying I wish Jordan would put one out so I could show my husband ☺️
LOL not me listening to this around my kids and the first thing that comes out of Jordans mouth is "SEX". I never put on headphones so fast in my life 🤣
LOL Had the same thing happen the other day, had it playing in the back ground, left room for a minute and she was on that subject. Just gotta remind myself she is a "watch while kids sleep" channel 😂 (not complaining, or bad mouthing, I enjoy her channel so much, like having that close girl friend you can Share all your struggles with and get good advice)
Sex isn’t shameful. That could have been a great teaching point
Thank you!! Yall did a really great job at breaking all this down.
These are great tips! Some I already do and others I need to work on! Your channel is such a blessing ❤ I’m curious if you would ever do a video on books you have found helpful or life changing in motherhood, marriage or your walk with God?
Praying with your husband is truly beautiful ❤
My grandma was one if those lady that won here husband to the lord ❤
wow praise the Lord!!
I’m glad you guys shared what you guys are going through bc that is my life rn.
My husband is a busy man, he’s in the military and electrician it’s hard to actually spend intentional time together. And I know it’s just a season☁️✨ God bless you guys
Can you please make a video about how you guys kept your relationship spiritually appropriate as you transitioned from gf and bf to engaged to married or tips
I believe that she already did one but it was a while ago. Years ago I think.
I love these videos you have on marriage. Would it be possible to make a video for people who are dating someone they plan to marry? I want to know how we can prepare for marriage and also connect emotionally.
I loveee this…honor your husband regardless of if he deserves it bc it’s positional honor not deserved honor 🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Lol My husband’s behavior, words, and actions should absolutely impact how I treat him. The same should apply to me. Being a man in the relationship does not mean anything. Husband and wife are equal and should be treating each other with the same respect and love.
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@@globetrotter3956 thank you so much, I really needed to read this after finishing the whole video. Man and woman are not only of equal value but deserve the same respect, freedom of choice and "honour".
I loved this SO much😭 This is such a beautiful and eye-opening series!! Ughhh keep it comingg!!!
Yes.. wives need attention. And help in the home.
I’m cracking up so hard at the end “go make-out with your spouse. Byee!”
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Can you do a singles mess series, how to prepare, what to look for as a single person etc, how to deal with feelings of uncertainty during the last days.
My heart hurts so bad watching this video because I've been praying for years for my husband to have these breakthroughs. Please keep me in your prayers - That I can keep a good heart to believe "If God can do that in/through Jordan, He can do it in my husband," instead of feeling comparison. God is no respecter of persons, what He can do for one, He can do for another, right? I want so badly to be encouraged by seeing godly husbands, instead of feeling deep sorrow that my desire for that is unmet.
No person is to far for Christ ❤keep praying the Lord will soften his heart he did for my husband just recently I never thought he would be as open as he is now don’t ever give up praying 🙏🏻
You need to fast
Even if a wife is nagging, even if she is contemptuous, immature, and failing, her husband, by the grace of God, can and ought to love. He can sit down, look her in the eyes, and listen to her, even if she isn’t a good wife. Men are capable of loving their wives even when they are not lovely. The same goes for women, too! So long as there is not abuse or danger, there needs to be consistent love outstretched, spiritual/emotional/physical intimacy initiated, and consistent effort to be the spouse and person that God calls us to be. God gives us all we need. He is our strength, our protection, and our joy.
If you are experiencing strain or hurt in your marriage, I am so sorry. That is not how it’s supposed to be. Stay strong in the Lord and remember that he cares for you. That he sees you. That he will uphold you. Continue on in love and prayer❤️
I watch these videos and read the comments and I just think “how do I get a spouse?” I pray about, yet I’ve been single for years and nothing really seems to change.
This content is beautiful and heart warming. As a 31 year old single mom (my sons father left when he was 1.5). This just makes my heart ache because I long for this but it’s just not in Gods will. Idk how people get so lucky to find men of God at such a young age who love and admire them and put them in a position to raise children, rather than work full time.
I’ve never been blessed with a man who either A. Truly loved me or B. Had any ambition for the future it’s always one or the other.
So many married couples who love each other in the comments, how do you even meet people nowadays? Asking for a friend. Prayers if anyone comes across this comment. I found the Lord much later in life and now I fear being alone forever or not being able to get married young enough to have a family and children.
May God bless all of your marriages I pray peace and prosperity over all of your families.
For your Maker is your husband, the LORD of hosts is his name; and the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer, the God of the whole earth he is called. Isaiah 54:5.
I recently listened to a woman who went through a long season of singleness and still is, and prayed to God about it, and his response was this verse.
It is different, buut, there is no better husband than him! While you are waiting for a human husband, ask God what it looks like for him to be your husband.
I hope you will find encouragement and know that you having faith later in life was in God's perfect timing!
The part of respecting your spouse even if you’re not happy with them is kinda like the structure in the military or government. You respect the rank like you would a commanding officer or the president. After all why would you disrespect someone you chose to call your husband or wife.
Love this series as someone newly married to gain wisdom and start these things now
Milena I like your videos but honestly this was way better getting your husband’s perspective because when it was just you telling wives what they should do or advice it made me feel guilty but with both perspectives it really made me understand why I act or feel the way I feel sometimes.
My husband and I always say “is that my *insert sweet nickname*?” When either of us come home and it makes us feel seen and loved ❤
love that 🥺 how sweet
Honestly I’ve been nagging my husband because the lord has changed me so much and my husband doesn’t even spend time with the lord to be changed. I have resentment watching this video so please pray for me to soften my heart and trust that the Lord will change the things that need changed.
I’m in the same boat as you girl! I’ve been trying to do the wife’s version she made and it has ended in me crying so much because if I don’t “nag” he doesn’t hear me!! I want to feel more important than his phone but I’m just not and now I have resentment growing in me.. I take our kids to church and he will NOT attend. I pray quite a bit during the day but it makes me upset when it feels like I’m the only one trying to improve our relationship.
I am in a similar boat. I feel for you! Praying for you both.
@@dirtbikelife6159 I am praying for you sister in christ! Even when you nag he's not listening to you because he wants to so therefore he does things out of resentment and avoids you with his phone. So today instead of nagging maybe just pray. God will handle the rest. It won't be on your time either It will be on God's timing. Have patience and love your spouse as Christ loves your spouse. These changes don't happen right away. Ive been the nagging wife and trust me when I say I never got what I truly wanted out of nagging. I started giving compliments and sharing how greatful I was for him for even the small things and it changed our marriage. May I ask is your husband a believer?
@paytongrant8103 The lord has changed you because you are seeking him and asking for change. Our spouses are not always on the same page as us. I have 6 children and took them to church alone many times and my husband sees the change in me and wanted to join. I didn't beg him or nag him, I'd simply invite him hey you want to go to church with us today. Eventually he said yes. We can't ask God to change other people the only thing we can do is ask God to change us and help us. We can pray for their salvation but they have to want the change for God to work in them. I hope I'm making sense.
I think my comments are backwards I apologize but yall get my point. I am praying for both of you ladies. It's so hard to be in your situation. I'm not judging you at all ive been in the same situation. But when we start to serve our spouses and not expect anything in return it changes things. Keep praying because I believe in the power of prayer and I believe God will open doors for both of you no man can close. ❤
1.- Pay attention to her
2.- Notice the little things
3.- Pray with her and for her
4.- Do things you know she’ll appreciate with her having to tell you
5.- Go to bed with her
6.- Randomly and spontaneously take the kids out
7.- Work out and try to eat healthy
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6:09 this is so true! My husband (who is a minister) is the one who nags, complains, etc and is not affectionate unless he wants sex which he thinks/calls “quality time” so as a result I emotionally shut down, it’s so confusing to think that I’m suppose to ignore my feelings and still give my body. 😫 other than his attitude & situational affection, he’s a good husband.
Pray for your marriage
you don't ever have to ignore your feelings and "give your body". your feelings are valid and if you ignore them for too long, the situation will only get worse. maybe talk to your husband? if you are afraid this talk might turn into a fight (which sometimes is also fine, because humans have complex emotions and anger is often triggered when we are/feel vulnerable - which is good, because a marriage the the place for vulnerability!) I encourage you to look into nonviolent communication. Also choose the right time and place to talk about this issue. I hope this helps and good luck! xx
It's sad how so many "godly" men are the ones mistreating their wives. This is not the first testimony I have heard like this. I sympathize with you sis. Would he be willing to go to a Christian marriage counselor? Prayer and fasting on your end is needed in this matter, along with communication with you husband about what you need from him. Nagging and criticism kills the intimacy on so many levels
The bit about going to bed together is so true.
I love this one too! I need to allow my husband more time to work out. For a while I was hindering him.
I love you guys! This video is SOOOOOOOOOO GOOD!!!!❤
Love this!!! Loves that he mentioned about working out❤❤
Love you guys I continue to learn so much through you both ❤ that I install in my life daily
I loved this. Thank you for this video it was truly a blessing ❤
I do have a quick question you mentioned earlier that we should stick by our partners, even when we feel as though they don’t deserve it. How do you go about it when a sense of trust has been broken in any way it could be infidelity, spiteful words, or even lack of honesty, how do you continue to serve your partner and when do you know it’s enough to draw the line.
I honestly feel like only you would know that. Have you prayed about it? Is your spouse doing everything he can to try to fix things or does he have a sense of he doesn't care? There are so many factors that play into a situation like this.
Finding the hero in your husband by Dr Juli Slattery 100/10 recommend!!!!! ❤
Thanks for letting us witness your marriage. Great tips shared here.
Love your channel so much!! ❤❤❤
Yesss thank you for doing the other side .
I love hearing The Lord speak through y’all 🥰
Jordan is spot on
Not me about to send this angrily to my boyfriend and then hearing the message in the beginning to NOT go about it that way lol
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Haha I wanted to share it with mine too! And was like whoops 🙃
GIRL I ALMOST SENT THIS TO MY HUSBAND STRAIGHT AWAY AS WELL 🥴🥴🥴🥴😅😅😅😅😅
So glad Homy Spirit was like “hold up, watch for yourself first” 😅
Haaa I did the same and my husband was like, that’s the first thing they said not to send and you did lol. I told him I hear mine now hear yours lol oooppps
I seriously just love these videos!!
Thank you so much for sharing this video! 💗
Omg the hand towels 😂😭 I'm glad I'm not the only woman who deals with that. God help us lol
Needed these videos so much.
prayer and having worship is very intimate,
When my boyfriend, fiance now, first got together we both did not believe in God. Nor did we believe in marriage. We've been together going on 6 years.
It wasn't until last year that the Holy spirit came to me. I know that you are not supposed to date or live with someone who is not a believer and to only stay if you are married because as you begin to live a Godly life your husband has the chance to see how God truly is through your actions. I stayed with my man... 6 months after turning to God my fiance started watching different videos with men who were believers. The videos weren't necessarily directed at faith but their faith of course came through in their talks/speeches. 3 months after that he told me he wanted to propose. Then 3 months later got engaged. He has moved from God isn't real to there is a higher power but hasn't quite accepted it to be God, yet.
What do you do when your husband for the last 17 years been wanting me to wake him up everyday with a massage, he goes to bed late (we go to bed together) and he likes to sleep in, while i have to get up no matter what and get kid ready, do breakfast and start school with them(we homeschool) If i dont wake him up, he blames me for letting him sleep long, its been a constant battle for me and i tried to bring this up and he just wont understand that he needs to get up on his own. Kinda told him I can be his mom, but he thinks its my job basically and i do try to please him by doing just that but deep inside im just crying emotionally cause im drained already. I wake kids up and if they dare be loud he gets mad so on top of that he needs the whole house quiet until he gets up. Its hard, any suggestions for me? What am I doing wrong. How can you have a successful marriage when only one side does it all, he works from home so he doesn't have to go anywhere early, if he does has an appointment early he will get up on his own with alarm but if nothing, he will sleep till 11 or 12 pm if i dont wake him up. We had conversations about it and its just useless, he thinks its all my fault that he sleeps long. Do I continue to wake him up with back rubs and be understanding of his struggle?
Loved this 💝
Be well 🤍💙🤎
Could you please share the preaching you mentioned in this video regarding praying with you wife 🙏🏼
As a man i just want to say Milena is the absolute epitome of what a wife should be.
As a wife, I’m applying all of this to myself 🤭
Love your videos! I was wondering where you got your copy of the bible? I’m not a Christian but really want to read it
Excited to listen
Love this thank you both
Praying the Lord saves our husbands as well and that we may one day very soon experience a Godly marriage
Great points y’all 👍
Yes .. I love this other point of view!
Omg your cat is so cute.
Very well said!
where is your cardigan from?? Please
Please do a video on how to give your marriage to the lord...
Alright proverbs 31, force to be reckoned with!!
Hi Milena, would you be able to explain if we need to submit spiritually to our husband? And if so, what does that look like?
My husband is absolutely a leader in every way and I LOVE IT but I struggle with the idea of submitting spiritually. I'm not sure why - I don't feel threatened by his leadership, it's more that I don't agree with some of the conclusions he's come to about scripture.
I'll use an extreme example: let's say a husband thinks that giving a child a smack as a punishment is acceptable but the wife does not agree with hitting children. What should the wife do if she clearly feels like that is wrong? Submit and be quiet about it and trust that her husband knows best? Does she have to correct the children in the same way? Or should she challenge him and object to hitting children? (Without it being naggy)
Would love to hear your thoughts about this and it would really help me.