Oh my gosh… everyone says with little ones you need “self care” but also “enjoy the moment” and “you can’t pour from an empty cup”. But I’ve never heard anyone point out that you CAN’T enjoy the moment if you haven’t taken care of yourself already. It solves the guilt of “maybe if I take some time for myself I’ll miss an important magical moment I was supposed to be present for.” SO genius and well-put. Thank you! ❤️
I'm so glad to hear you understood what I was getting at! Sort of like with Disney planning we used to say "tired guests can't make happy memories." So truly you CAN'T enjoy the moments if you're wiped out!
Homeschooling - good insights! Also, if one is considering homeschooling, please understand that it is not only an educational choice, it is a life style choice!!! They are with you almost.all.of.the.time. It is important to take "outside" classes (co-op, hybrid, music lessons, martial arts, etc) so that the kids are responsible to other adults for some school work. But, I wouldn’t have traded our homeschooling years for anything. ❤
DCL for the Parent of the three year old. Unless you're going on an older Royal Carribean ship in a inside cabin you will be paying the same price as a DCL trip. You are getting drinks, different dining experiences and world class entertainment on Disney. The drink packages and specialty dining adds up on Royal
Yes, at 59, I can relate. The skin on my arms is the same. One thing I think about the checking and recheck is because you need to be mindful when you check. We're done these things over and over for so many decades that we do them without thinking, so then we later think, did I do that? Or did I remember doing it last week or last month etc.
Dream cruises Alaska, Alaskan family owned. 50-80 person boat. Expedition style. Wonderful and an incredible value….have a naturalist and native Tlingit on board.. highly recommend
We’ve sailed both Disney (7 cruises) and Royal Caribbean (over 25 cruises). If you sail on an Oasis class ship, there will be lots for a 3 year old to do. We loved Disney, but we can sail 4 Royal Caribbean cruises for the price of 1 Disney, if you plan well. But definitely stick with and Oasis class ship.
We went on DCL Wonder to Alaska, the last cruise of the season (before Covid). Yes, it was cooler, however, it was fabulous. There were whales, bears and so much more. Plus, there were mostly adults on board as children were in school.
Im a retired fa from a major US airline. Love to travel.especially 1st or business. Last trip from lhr, got business and slept 9 hrs. Dont travel in the summer. Cooler weather only.love the perks.
I had 2 daughters 11 months apart and I thought it was hard when they were babies, but the teen years were much more emotionally exhausting!!That being said I wouldn’t trade it for the world! Being a mom is my most treasured blessing! I homeschooled starting in 5th grade. I’m from newtown, CT and it was just really hard to send them back to school after they lost friends etc. that being said like you I needed the support the school offered in those formative years of reading for my youngest. They did such a great job that she’s my little bookworm now. Also knowing you had trauma from your past and yet you blossomed into this wonderful and positive person you are now makes me love you even more! 🫶🏻
I love Royal. The value for the money is very good. It also depends on the ship as to what type of activities the have have for small children like splash pad and small slides. I love the ice shows too, which can be found on the Voyager, Freedom and Oasis DC lass ships.
Royal Carribean has multiple class ships and multiple ships within each class. I think all Disney ships, regardless of the size, cater to families and small children especially. Royal Carribean is not the same case. The bigger class ships cater to everyone but I feel the smaller class ships are more adults or young adult friendly.
I just adore your down to earth no nonsense logical content! My girls are only 9 and 10 and I seriously miss those toddler years. I do remember them being hard but I miss how sweet and snuggly they were and oh so funny. Toddlers are hilarious. This is when we started doing Disney and I have the very best memories of them interacting with characters as toddlers.
When I traveled a lot in my job…it was glorious! Everything stayed organized and at the ready ALWAYS!! Now, in retirement, after C-19 and with just less funding to throw at unique vacations…packing has turn to “ugh”! I am very much like you and so many of your fans - an anxious traveler who needs the things I need to make peace with the journey. I can keep one small Urgent Needs bag fully stocked - but the clothes, shoes, electronics, specific destination needs are part of my everyday routine and just can’t be left tucked away, waiting for the next adventure. At least my Master List is laminated and can stay in the luggage - and I generally will buy SOME new things to take on vacation because I keep the receipts handy for reimbursement when (not IF) my luggage goes to Spain and I’m headed to Vegas. 💕
I’m a RC cruiser. I don’t have kids and I was extremely disappointed in my Disney cruise. Food was not good and boring without many options. Not enough for adults to do.
My son was eating lunch next to me while this video was on the TV. The part about relationship advice for pilot wives was interesting to him. He's only 19, and doesn't have a relationship yet, but he listened to what you had to say so that whoever he has in his life later, he can communicate this advice to them. He's in no hurry to find a girlfriend. All his extra time is spent studying ground school and getting his tests done for the next step in his pilot journey. I'm FINE with that!! 😄 But I'm glad he paid attention to what you had to say. Thank you!!!
I’m always so grateful about how honest and transparent you are about your journey with CZcams . Many people just graze over the pros and cons and make it seem like it’s easy when it’s really not.
Yasss for therapy! And girl, listening to you and your wisdom is an added dose of therapy for all of us! Can’t wait to see and hear all about your future fun plans!!
We did our Alaskan cruise with a land tour. It was wonderful but mostly because of the land tour. We started in Fairbanks, Denali, Talkeetna, Anchorage and then Seward to board the ship. The sad part is that all the cruise ships come in at the same time so the ports are packed. In Skagaway, we were told there were 30k people in that day. It's so crowded that people just walk on the street. The gentleman driving us to the sled dog camp said, "welcome to the world's largest sidewalk!". My husband hated the cruise part because of all the people but as you said there's just no other way to see somethings!
Therapy is so big!!! I would have given the same advise. As one with ADDH I wish there was the resources now back when I was a kid. And trauma therapy for 10 yrs ago. Jenn you have helped me over the past 5 yrs, helping me find myself in more way than you will ever know!!!❤
Lindsay that means the world to me. I didn't do anything but say the things your heart was ready to hear - if it hadn't have been me, would have been some other source but I'm glad sometimes it was me!
Wow this was a real eye opener on so many levels… Firstly you look amazing. Yes get therapy…I wish I did earlier but did in the end!! Love tge going out advice and when there home. I’m about turn 61.. I feel younger,I run I’m quite fit,and I’m probably the happiest I’ve ever been and your a good part of that…rest is important and distressing with your partner/ husband is good too. I’ve only just found this your other channels and I’m loving it……👍🇬🇧
So I'm back for another comment after finishing the entire video and just have to say, what I realize I love about our friendship is you are like the (just barely) older sister I've needed for a long time and what you share is usually exactly what I need to hear ❤
We just came back from our first Royal Caribbean cruise....to Alaska. So two comments from me - 1. I will stick with Disney moving forward and my kids are 16 and 19 now! Happy to talk difference between Disney and RC 2. An Alaskan cruise, regardless of the line, is amazing! Works beat for communities/locations you can't reach any other way, the scenery is incredible and the marine life abundant! Definitely do it! I will again, but most likely on Disney :-)
I am glad I seen your comment. We sailed our first cruise ever to Alaska on RCL. Loved the destination. The ship however wasn't much for my family. The food really detered us, we were told to try again with a different line. We said if we go again it would be Disney. We are accustomed to the Disney hospitality and service.
Your words were a great comfort as my son just turned 2. I feel a lot better about my juice and smoothie subscription service because I really do need the convenience and health benefits even though it’s a cost I could never justify before.
You’re so lucky and blessed your mom is still able to travel. My mom is turning 75 at end of august and my dad is turning 77 august 17. They both act much older and sadly their mindset hasn’t been good. It’s all in the mind and sadly mine just aren’t healthy and their mindset increases the severity by 90%. ❤️ I work for the public schools in NJ - trying to find something full time and remote - I support resource room ELA and math- 😊😊😊
Disney cruise line is wonderful, even if you don’t have kids along. RCI big ships also have their advantages- lots of stuff to do. Many different shows. And much less expensive.
Love the advice! I also enjoyed every phase of life while I was in it, and I was able to fully embrace the next phase as it came. There were some difficult times (deaths, divorce, child going off to college), but there were joyous times throughout.
An Alaskan cruise is wonderful. We stayed a couple of days post in Anchorage and before in Victoria. My friends own cabins in Seward now, so when we go back, we'll stay there and explore.
Thanks for the tips with toddlers. Many of my friends complain but I think it’s a short period of time as you said so I hope to need sleep and nutrition at that time
My husband is a retired firefighter, and the same thing applies…I would do things with my three kids without my husband, he would be gone 24, 48, or more hours at a time. Thankfully I never felt odd, or weird going without him.
Thinking about an Alaska cruise for my 40th birthday. My family traditionally does a big party for the 40th and I'm more of a "let's go on a vacation" speed...
I live in Southern California and do not like cold weather. However, I am obsessed with Alaska and its beauty. I am doing two Alaska cruises this year after sailing on one in 2016. One 7-nt and a 9-nt - Two new ports and two new glaciers. Next year, I will branch out and likely do Princess to Glacier Bay since Disney doesn't do it. Luckily, I have been able to take advantage of military discounts, and I almost always sail in the cheapest inside cabin so I can travel more often. Alaska's beauty is calming and meditative.
Agree 💯 Especially the part about keeping the connection with your spouse. I've literally heard souses say, "I didn't even know he eas scheduled to be back this week" and I was always just 😮
@@JoyfulLivingwithJenLefforge I stayed home with my kids until they entered elementary school. I glad I had that opportunity. We have a daughter who was 2 1/2 years old when our twins were born.
Loved this. Appreciate your insight and candor. JUST subscribed to your travel channel (Very choosy about whom I subscribe to). Also, 52??!?! Carry on! XO
therapy is so so important. it's easy to get discouraged due to stigma and therapists that aren't a great fit at first. thank you for sharing your story with us
Great video Jen - I am just watching this now. So many great wisdom nuggets! I went through cancer so I totally agree on not feeling the "bad things = a blessing/lesson/growth.". I just flat out wish it didn't happen.
Jolly! Alas…retirement will come and then there will BE NO WORK TO SEND HIM TO so be prepared for that. Yes - 73 and I’m looking for a non-cashier job because, you know….peace and quite!💕
@@claudiamiller7730 I can’t wait. He’s my best friend. I miss him & I miss having him w me at events. But, he works a job where he has to miss these things & people often ask where he is. So I have a cute little canned response for it.
Great video!! I do enjoy staying in one place as a base and traveling from there, days trips, that kind of thing. My first cruise was Disney, then 2 Carnival cruises. No comparison. The Mouse wins! Worth the money. Go on the Magic.
I've cruised in a lot of different places (Europe, Alaska, Caribbean, Bahamas) and a lot of different cruise lines (DCL, Holland America, Royal Caribbean, Celebrity) and if I'm sailing in the Caribbean and Bahamas - choosing a cruise line matters more than itinerary. For trips that are more port heavy (Europe/Alaska), looking at what the ports are matters more than the ship. When my kids were littler, we opted for DCL because the cruise was in lieu of a park trip and then my littles got to meet characters and just have general Disney magic. They are teens now and while we do love Disney and miss the magic on other lines, they are more excited by things like rock climbing walls on ships and amazing excursions we can afford for the lower price point. And while we do miss DCL when we are not on it, each line has things we miss when we are on DCL.
Great video Jen. My husband does not travel but does work long hours at times. I have shown up to many BBQs alone with my five year old. Definitely the right decision for me.❤
Honestly it's so much smarter to just design a life you love and not make that completely dependent on your partner! I think it's good wisdom no matter the profession
i can speak with regards to RCCL vs DCL. I like both, but disney has a lot of characters, the RCCL had dreamworks characters not sure that partnership still exists. The DCL has a lot of things that are fun and we typically like the smaller ships (so not the oasis class ships -- I'm diamond on RCCL.. so i've been on a "few" RCCL ships). RCCL does have a lot of activities but we found that we were happy with the DCL offerings. I did love bumper cars, iFly, and the north star on the RCCL ships but they are often so crowded that while fun it can get old fast. DCL has all the character meet and greets, box office movies and so IMHO it depends on what you like. I love to find a quiet corner and read so either line allow me to do this. On the oasis class ships, i love the internal balcony rooms so i can sit on the balcony and read ;P yes im boring.
Chiming in on RC vs DCL. At age 3, I’d save your money and do a larger ship with RC. In a few years, I’d splurge on DCL if you can. I wouldn’t go in reverse 😂. Way more magical for kids on DCL but I don’t know that I’d consider the price difference worth it at 3. If you’re gonna be one and done on cruises and can swing DCL, do it.
Loved this video and I’m ready for a JLL group cruise on the Wonder to Alaska! Can I start a rumor that is happening?? Alaska on the Wonder was my first-ever cruise last summer and I’m ready to go back.
Hi Jen, When you plan your trips, do you go through a travel agent? How do you know what you want to see and do? I too am the daughter of a pilot and was a flight attendant, but travel has changed so much since I quit! I'm a very active 70 year old, but I don't know if my only option is a tour. P.S. My husband doesn't want to travel anymore!
I'm pretty adventurous and do most of my planning by (shocking!) watching YT VIDEOS! I find there is SO MUCH research out there and I love the process of the research as I learn so much about my destination as I plan. However, if that's not your style, a travel agent can be a great resource and there are many companies that offer great tours for solo travelers!
I freaking love Royal Caribbean. I want, but have never cruised on Disney....YET! With that said here is my 2 cents. If we are talking a 3 year old.....they still are at an age that they will not remember as much as lets say age 5 and older. So right now with a 3 year old, save your money and take RCCL and in a few years (a more memorable age) splurge for Disney. Sure if you have done Disney first, absolutely no other cruise line with regards to kids, is ever going to compare. But my husband and I cruise roughly 3 times a year and we almost always go RCCL, some Norweigan but Disney is definately on our list.
Hi Jenn. I’m really enjoying your channel and appreciate how open and honest you are. I’m a relatively new subscriber who happened upon you while looking for a new carry on bag. On your recommendation I bought the Away bag and love it. I always look forward to your videos!
I think people who start out cruising on Disney will most always prefer Disney. It's a smaller cruise line, so people can get to know cruise staff over time. Personally, I think Disney cruises are completely overrated and way overpriced.
Lol - clearly not introverts. I love the crew, appreciate their hard work, tip extra on top of prepaid gratuities. I am not a bad person, I just want anonymity. I do not want to chat or really get to know the crew on vacation, I have social anxiety, I want to sit on my balcony or the beach with my book - when service is too personalized it make me uncomfortable. I cash tip even when I don’t need to, and generally tip $2 in cash for every drink I get, but I just don’t like talking to people that much, I don’t need to bond with my server or have them remember my drink order. As such, I prefer larger ships where it is easy to get lost among the masses. 🤷🏻♀️
I did have one woman reach out and offer to fly here (if I paid for it) but YES the goal is to find someone local. But you would be AMAZING and wouldn't even put up with Lenny's crap (which is an astounding feat;).
So I can when I'm not traveling for work. And even though it's practically free we have to fly space available so during the busy summer travel season it can be challenging to get a seat.
Oh my gosh… everyone says with little ones you need “self care” but also “enjoy the moment” and “you can’t pour from an empty cup”. But I’ve never heard anyone point out that you CAN’T enjoy the moment if you haven’t taken care of yourself already. It solves the guilt of “maybe if I take some time for myself I’ll miss an important magical moment I was supposed to be present for.” SO genius and well-put. Thank you! ❤️
I'm so glad to hear you understood what I was getting at! Sort of like with Disney planning we used to say "tired guests can't make happy memories." So truly you CAN'T enjoy the moments if you're wiped out!
Therapy - the best advice ever! Wish more people realized what a gift it is to oneself.
Homeschooling - good insights! Also, if one is considering homeschooling, please understand that it is not only an educational choice, it is a life style choice!!! They are with you almost.all.of.the.time. It is important to take "outside" classes (co-op, hybrid, music lessons, martial arts, etc) so that the kids are responsible to other adults for some school work. But, I wouldn’t have traded our homeschooling years for anything. ❤
DCL for the Parent of the three year old. Unless you're going on an older Royal Carribean ship in a inside cabin you will be paying the same price as a DCL trip. You are getting drinks, different dining experiences and world class entertainment on Disney. The drink packages and specialty dining adds up on Royal
Yes, at 59, I can relate. The skin on my arms is the same. One thing I think about the checking and recheck is because you need to be mindful when you check. We're done these things over and over for so many decades that we do them without thinking, so then we later think, did I do that? Or did I remember doing it last week or last month etc.
Dream cruises Alaska, Alaskan family owned. 50-80 person boat. Expedition style. Wonderful and an incredible value….have a naturalist and native Tlingit on board.. highly recommend
You’re the second viewer who’s mentioned them - I’m going to look into it thank you!
We’ve sailed both Disney (7 cruises) and Royal Caribbean (over 25 cruises). If you sail on an Oasis class ship, there will be lots for a 3 year old to do. We loved Disney, but we can sail 4 Royal Caribbean cruises for the price of 1 Disney, if you plan well. But definitely stick with and Oasis class ship.
GREAT COMMENT! Thank you!
We went on DCL Wonder to Alaska, the last cruise of the season (before Covid). Yes, it was cooler, however, it was fabulous. There were whales, bears and so much more. Plus, there were mostly adults on board as children were in school.
Sounds amazing!
Im a retired fa from a major US airline. Love to travel.especially 1st or business. Last trip from lhr, got business and slept 9 hrs. Dont travel in the summer. Cooler weather only.love the perks.
I had 2 daughters 11 months apart and I thought it was hard when they were babies, but the teen years were much more emotionally exhausting!!That being said I wouldn’t trade it for the world! Being a mom is my most treasured blessing! I homeschooled starting in 5th grade. I’m from newtown, CT and it was just really hard to send them back to school after they lost friends etc. that being said like you I needed the support the school offered in those formative years of reading for my youngest. They did such a great job that she’s my little bookworm now.
Also knowing you had trauma from your past and yet you blossomed into this wonderful and positive person you are now makes me love you even more! 🫶🏻
I love Royal. The value for the money is very good. It also depends on the ship as to what type of activities the have have for small children like splash pad and small slides. I love the ice shows too, which can be found on the Voyager, Freedom and Oasis DC lass ships.
YES everyone keeps saying some version of "really depends on the ship" and that's so helpful and interesting.
Royal Carribean has multiple class ships and multiple ships within each class. I think all Disney ships, regardless of the size, cater to families and small children especially. Royal Carribean is not the same case. The bigger class ships cater to everyone but I feel the smaller class ships are more adults or young adult friendly.
Thanks for the comment, Kari! Super helpful!
I just adore your down to earth no nonsense logical content! My girls are only 9 and 10 and I seriously miss those toddler years. I do remember them being hard but I miss how sweet and snuggly they were and oh so funny. Toddlers are hilarious. This is when we started doing Disney and I have the very best memories of them interacting with characters as toddlers.
They are so snuggly at that age (when they're not climbing the walls or doing super dangerous things LOL).
When I traveled a lot in my job…it was glorious! Everything stayed organized and at the ready ALWAYS!! Now, in retirement, after C-19 and with just less funding to throw at unique vacations…packing has turn to “ugh”! I am very much like you and so many of your fans - an anxious traveler who needs the things I need to make peace with the journey. I can keep one small Urgent Needs bag fully stocked - but the clothes, shoes, electronics, specific destination needs are part of my everyday routine and just can’t be left tucked away, waiting for the next adventure. At least my Master List is laminated and can stay in the luggage - and I generally will buy SOME new things to take on vacation because I keep the receipts handy for reimbursement when (not IF) my luggage goes to Spain and I’m headed to Vegas. 💕
Alaskan Dream small boats are fantastic! You get waaay closer to things than large ships can. All excursions included.
I will look into that right now!
I’m a RC cruiser. I don’t have kids and I was extremely disappointed in my Disney cruise. Food was not good and boring without many options. Not enough for adults to do.
My son was eating lunch next to me while this video was on the TV. The part about relationship advice for pilot wives was interesting to him. He's only 19, and doesn't have a relationship yet, but he listened to what you had to say so that whoever he has in his life later, he can communicate this advice to them. He's in no hurry to find a girlfriend. All his extra time is spent studying ground school and getting his tests done for the next step in his pilot journey. I'm FINE with that!! 😄 But I'm glad he paid attention to what you had to say. Thank you!!!
Anna I love this! Thank you!
I’m always so grateful about how honest and transparent you are about your journey with CZcams . Many people just graze over the pros and cons and make it seem like it’s easy when it’s really not.
It's just not. Hear me, I adore it (and I know you do too!) but it's definitely WORK.
Same here ❤️
Happy Birthday next week Jen. I hope you have a wonderful day.
Thank you so much, Penelope!
Yasss for therapy! And girl, listening to you and your wisdom is an added dose of therapy for all of us! Can’t wait to see and hear all about your future fun plans!!
What a nice comment! You must already love me.
@@JoyfulLivingwithJenLefforge (keep it a secret, but yes! I think you’re swell!)
We are doing DCL to Alaska in summer 2025 so it would be really amazing if you have a trip there soon so I can hear all the details 😊
We did our Alaskan cruise with a land tour. It was wonderful but mostly because of the land tour. We started in Fairbanks, Denali, Talkeetna, Anchorage and then Seward to board the ship. The sad part is that all the cruise ships come in at the same time so the ports are packed. In Skagaway, we were told there were 30k people in that day. It's so crowded that people just walk on the street. The gentleman driving us to the sled dog camp said, "welcome to the world's largest sidewalk!". My husband hated the cruise part because of all the people but as you said there's just no other way to see somethings!
Therapy is so big!!! I would have given the same advise. As one with ADDH I wish there was the resources now back when I was a kid. And trauma therapy for 10 yrs ago. Jenn you have helped me over the past 5 yrs, helping me find myself in more way than you will ever know!!!❤
Lindsay that means the world to me. I didn't do anything but say the things your heart was ready to hear - if it hadn't have been me, would have been some other source but I'm glad sometimes it was me!
Wow this was a real eye opener on so many levels…
Firstly you look amazing.
Yes get therapy…I wish I did earlier but did in the end!!
Love tge going out advice and when there home.
I’m about turn 61.. I feel younger,I run I’m quite fit,and I’m probably the happiest I’ve ever been and your a good part of that…rest is important and distressing with your partner/ husband is good too.
I’ve only just found this your other channels and I’m loving it……👍🇬🇧
Thank you for your kind words, Bronnie!
So I'm back for another comment after finishing the entire video and just have to say, what I realize I love about our friendship is you are like the (just barely) older sister I've needed for a long time and what you share is usually exactly what I need to hear ❤
I love this so much. You honor me.❤️
It's me, I'm the 3 year old 😂 I want to be taken care of and entertained like the world revolves around me.
We just came back from our first Royal Caribbean cruise....to Alaska. So two comments from me -
1. I will stick with Disney moving forward and my kids are 16 and 19 now! Happy to talk difference between Disney and RC
2. An Alaskan cruise, regardless of the line, is amazing! Works beat for communities/locations you can't reach any other way, the scenery is incredible and the marine life abundant! Definitely do it! I will again, but most likely on Disney :-)
Yeah, this needs to be my next big ticket cruise I think!
I am glad I seen your comment. We sailed our first cruise ever to Alaska on RCL. Loved the destination. The ship however wasn't much for my family. The food really detered us, we were told to try again with a different line. We said if we go again it would be Disney. We are accustomed to the Disney hospitality and service.
Your words were a great comfort as my son just turned 2. I feel a lot better about my juice and smoothie subscription service because I really do need the convenience and health benefits even though it’s a cost I could never justify before.
YES you need to take care of you - it's priority number 1!
We are grateful for YOU Jen Lefforge!!!!!
Oh, Anna, THANK YOU!
You’re so lucky and blessed your mom is still able to travel. My mom is turning 75 at end of august and my dad is turning 77 august 17. They both act much older and sadly their mindset hasn’t been good. It’s all in the mind and sadly mine just aren’t healthy and their mindset increases the severity by 90%. ❤️ I work for the public schools in NJ - trying to find something full time and remote - I support resource room ELA and math- 😊😊😊
Disney cruise line is wonderful, even if you don’t have kids along. RCI big ships also have their advantages- lots of stuff to do. Many different shows. And much less expensive.
Alaska Cruise is amazing! We did Princess about 18 years ago. Veranda suite is the way to go!
That's what I've heard!! Truly hoping this is my next big adventure, cruise wise.
Alaska is a fantastic cruise! I had such a good time I didn't want to leave!
Love the advice! I also enjoyed every phase of life while I was in it, and I was able to fully embrace the next phase as it came. There were some difficult times (deaths, divorce, child going off to college), but there were joyous times throughout.
That's the game, isn't it? The seasons always seem to have BOTH the tears and the laughter. No getting away from it and we wouldn't want to.
You will not regret Alaska! Probably one of my favorite destinations!
I just need to save up for it for a few more months but YES am hoping to do it next year!
I’m a new subscriber and am really enjoying your videos. You are very easy to listen to, have great tips and ideas, and are so funny!!
Wow, Veronica, Thank you so much!!
An Alaskan cruise is wonderful. We stayed a couple of days post in Anchorage and before in Victoria. My friends own cabins in Seward now, so when we go back, we'll stay there and explore.
We returned from an Alaska cruise 2 days ago on the Queen Elizabeth 2. It was fantastic. We even had perfect weather. A cruise to remember ❤
OMG that would be a dream.
Thanks for the tips with toddlers. Many of my friends complain but I think it’s a short period of time as you said so I hope to need sleep and nutrition at that time
My husband is a retired firefighter, and the same thing applies…I would do things with my three kids without my husband, he would be gone 24, 48, or more hours at a time. Thankfully I never felt odd, or weird going without him.
Oh man this was good! So many good nuggets in this one!
Oh I'm so glad you liked it!
Thinking about an Alaska cruise for my 40th birthday. My family traditionally does a big party for the 40th and I'm more of a "let's go on a vacation" speed...
YES I love this idea!
I’m thinking of this too.
I live in Southern California and do not like cold weather. However, I am obsessed with Alaska and its beauty. I am doing two Alaska cruises this year after sailing on one in 2016. One 7-nt and a 9-nt - Two new ports and two new glaciers. Next year, I will branch out and likely do Princess to Glacier Bay since Disney doesn't do it. Luckily, I have been able to take advantage of military discounts, and I almost always sail in the cheapest inside cabin so I can travel more often.
Alaska's beauty is calming and meditative.
These videos are always a joy to me! I love hearing your advice and wisdom.❤
Thank you, Amber!
That advice for a pilot wife works for military wives as well! Wish it was advice that had I received when I was in that season.
Yeah, I figured it out but it took a long time and I spent a lot of years very lonely.
Agree 💯 Especially the part about keeping the connection with your spouse. I've literally heard souses say, "I didn't even know he eas scheduled to be back this week" and I was always just 😮
Thank you for just being YOU.❤. Btw; I’m still cracking up about you (unknowingly) knowing all the words to Neil Diamond’s America 🇺🇸.😆🤣
You kill me😆
I mean it was WILD. EVERY. SINGLE. WORD.
When my children were young, we belonged to the YMCA. I had my children in classes 4 days a week, and I had grown up time.
If you're not also working full time outside of the home, that can be a great option!
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I stayed home with my kids until they entered elementary school. I glad I had that opportunity. We have a daughter who was 2 1/2 years old when our twins were born.
Loved this. Appreciate your insight and candor. JUST subscribed to your travel channel (Very choosy about whom I subscribe to). Also, 52??!?! Carry on! XO
Thank you so much!
therapy is so so important. it's easy to get discouraged due to stigma and therapists that aren't a great fit at first. thank you for sharing your story with us
Absolutely my honor to do so.
Great video Jen - I am just watching this now. So many great wisdom nuggets! I went through cancer so I totally agree on not feeling the "bad things = a blessing/lesson/growth.". I just flat out wish it didn't happen.
This exactly. Not everything has a silver lining.
Always glad to see a video from you.
Thank you, Natalie!
My response to when people ask where my husband is bc his job often means he can't make events: "He's at work where I keep him."
LOL PERFECTION
This is funny.
Jolly! Alas…retirement will come and then there will BE NO WORK TO SEND HIM TO so be prepared for that. Yes - 73 and I’m looking for a non-cashier job because, you know….peace and quite!💕
@@claudiamiller7730 I can’t wait. He’s my best friend. I miss him & I miss having him w me at events. But, he works a job where he has to miss these things & people often ask where he is. So I have a cute little canned response for it.
Funny and appropriate answer!! 😹
Great video!!
I do enjoy staying in one place as a base and traveling from there, days trips, that kind of thing.
My first cruise was Disney, then 2 Carnival cruises. No comparison. The Mouse wins! Worth the money. Go on the Magic.
Thank you!
I do in-home pet sitting. Just fly me down to Atlanta. I have references. It's one of the things I do for a living.
You have your mom's eyes ♥️
Thank you for being so frank with your responses. Great video! Keep them coming. 💕
Thanks so much, Nancy!
I've cruised in a lot of different places (Europe, Alaska, Caribbean, Bahamas) and a lot of different cruise lines (DCL, Holland America, Royal Caribbean, Celebrity) and if I'm sailing in the Caribbean and Bahamas - choosing a cruise line matters more than itinerary. For trips that are more port heavy (Europe/Alaska), looking at what the ports are matters more than the ship. When my kids were littler, we opted for DCL because the cruise was in lieu of a park trip and then my littles got to meet characters and just have general Disney magic. They are teens now and while we do love Disney and miss the magic on other lines, they are more excited by things like rock climbing walls on ships and amazing excursions we can afford for the lower price point. And while we do miss DCL when we are not on it, each line has things we miss when we are on DCL.
Great perspective. Thank you!
Gratitude and loving the season you are currently in really resonated with me.
I'm so glad!! It took me a long time to figure that out.
Do the Alaska cruise! We sailed Princess to Alaska, and it was a phenomenal trip. I would do the exact same itinerary all over again.
Great video Jen. My husband does not travel but does work long hours at times. I have shown up to many BBQs alone with my five year old. Definitely the right decision for me.❤
Honestly it's so much smarter to just design a life you love and not make that completely dependent on your partner! I think it's good wisdom no matter the profession
i can speak with regards to RCCL vs DCL. I like both, but disney has a lot of characters, the RCCL had dreamworks characters not sure that partnership still exists. The DCL has a lot of things that are fun and we typically like the smaller ships (so not the oasis class ships -- I'm diamond on RCCL.. so i've been on a "few" RCCL ships). RCCL does have a lot of activities but we found that we were happy with the DCL offerings. I did love bumper cars, iFly, and the north star on the RCCL ships but they are often so crowded that while fun it can get old fast. DCL has all the character meet and greets, box office movies and so IMHO it depends on what you like. I love to find a quiet corner and read so either line allow me to do this. On the oasis class ships, i love the internal balcony rooms so i can sit on the balcony and read ;P yes im boring.
Great comment! Thank you!
@@JoyfulLivingwithJenLefforge haha i am very round about arent i?
Chiming in on RC vs DCL. At age 3, I’d save your money and do a larger ship with RC. In a few years, I’d splurge on DCL if you can. I wouldn’t go in reverse 😂. Way more magical for kids on DCL but I don’t know that I’d consider the price difference worth it at 3. If you’re gonna be one and done on cruises and can swing DCL, do it.
This tracks with what others have said as well. Thanks for chiming in! Very helpful!
I always enjoy these q & a videos!
I'm so glad, Lisa!
Yes i thought so too. As an employee and spouse and children should be flying free? Right?
Great video, Jen! Welcome back!
Thanks, Beth!!
Posted a link on your FB page bc CZcams doesn't like links.
Great Q and A!
Thank you, Jody!!
Great video ❤️😘
thank you so much, Major!
This video is wonderful. Thank you!
Oh I'm so glad you enjoyed it, Jessica! Thank you!
Loved this video and I’m ready for a JLL group cruise on the Wonder to Alaska! Can I start a rumor that is happening?? Alaska on the Wonder was my first-ever cruise last summer and I’m ready to go back.
Yes absolutely start a rumor I love that.
Thank you for sharing all of these, they are super helpful
Hi Jen, When you plan your trips, do you go through a travel agent? How do you know what you want to see and do? I too am the daughter of a pilot and was a flight attendant, but travel has changed so much since I quit! I'm a very active 70 year old, but I don't know if my only option is a tour. P.S. My husband doesn't want to travel anymore!
I'm pretty adventurous and do most of my planning by (shocking!) watching YT VIDEOS! I find there is SO MUCH research out there and I love the process of the research as I learn so much about my destination as I plan. However, if that's not your style, a travel agent can be a great resource and there are many companies that offer great tours for solo travelers!
Loving this video! ❤
I'm so glad!!! I haven't done one of these in awhile so I was a little rusty but glad I did it.
Your hair is getting so long! Love it. Have you ever used bar shampoo for traveling and if so was it easier than liquid.
I have and I don't like it. Oh and thank you!
I freaking love Royal Caribbean. I want, but have never cruised on Disney....YET! With that said here is my 2 cents. If we are talking a 3 year old.....they still are at an age that they will not remember as much as lets say age 5 and older. So right now with a 3 year old, save your money and take RCCL and in a few years (a more memorable age) splurge for Disney. Sure if you have done Disney first, absolutely no other cruise line with regards to kids, is ever going to compare. But my husband and I cruise roughly 3 times a year and we almost always go RCCL, some Norweigan but Disney is definately on our list.
Great comment! Thank you!
Hi Jenn. I’m really enjoying your channel and appreciate how open and honest you are. I’m a relatively new subscriber who happened upon you while looking for a new carry on bag. On your recommendation I bought the Away bag and love it. I always look forward to your videos!
I love to hear it! Thank you so much, Mary Ellen!
Love to watch you……
Thank you so much!
I think people who start out cruising on Disney will most always prefer Disney. It's a smaller cruise line, so people can get to know cruise staff over time. Personally, I think Disney cruises are completely overrated and way overpriced.
Lol - clearly not introverts. I love the crew, appreciate their hard work, tip extra on top of prepaid gratuities. I am not a bad person, I just want anonymity. I do not want to chat or really get to know the crew on vacation, I have social anxiety, I want to sit on my balcony or the beach with my book - when service is too personalized it make me uncomfortable. I cash tip even when I don’t need to, and generally tip $2 in cash for every drink I get, but I just don’t like talking to people that much, I don’t need to bond with my server or have them remember my drink order. As such, I prefer larger ships where it is easy to get lost among the masses. 🤷🏻♀️
Hi Jen. Would love to talk to you about pet sitting.
Just got the email and responded! Thanks so much for reaching out!
Well, you know I do in-home pet sitting but I’m a bit far….
I did have one woman reach out and offer to fly here (if I paid for it) but YES the goal is to find someone local. But you would be AMAZING and wouldn't even put up with Lenny's crap (which is an astounding feat;).
I thought w a pilot husband you could fly feee
So I can when I'm not traveling for work. And even though it's practically free we have to fly space available so during the busy summer travel season it can be challenging to get a seat.