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19 THINGS YOUR DAD SHOULD HAVE TOLD YOU THAT HE NEVER DID | Richard Cooper
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 18. 08. 2024
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0- 00:00 Video Start
1 - 1:43 - Don't let people make their problems your problems.
2 - 4:49 - JOB, Just over broke.
3 - 6:29 - Do not get into long-term relationships with attention-seeking women in your life.
4 - 9:18 - There are no cheat codes to life's challenges.
5 - 10:26 - Stop ignoring red flags.
6 - 12:47 - Avoid women with daddy issues.
7 - 14:01 - Pick up heavy shit and put it down.
8 - 15:18 - Optimize your endocrine system as you age.
9 - 19:51 - Never allow the state to decide.
10 - 25:13 - Learn how to deal with rejection.
11 - 27:07 - You will always gonna lose money chasing women, but will never lose women chasing excellence.
12 - 27:41 - Make FU money.
13 - 29:08 - Treat this life like it's the only one you get.
14 - 29:59 - Do NOT LTR a single mommy.
15 - 31:46 - Haters are confused admirers.
16 - 32:34 - You have 100% responsibility and 0% authority as a man.
17 - 33:11 - The burden of performance is 100% on you.
18 - 35:53 - Stop giving fucks to things that aren't fuckworthy.
19 - 39:03 - You've started as a winner
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I'll be there yes sir.
Tell me right now how to make $270 a day, every single day and ill start immediately.
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gawd you guys are like that tom cruise character in Magnolia. Cringey balding guy.
How about:
1) I love you son
2) I'm proud of you son
3) How are you doing son?
4) It's gonna be ok son.
I wish I got one of those from my dad.
There was a great meme with four panels over a boyâs life. In each, the boy would call out to his dad but the dad would say, ânot now, sonâ. In the final panel the father finally says, âhey, sonâ. The boyâs response, âRuff!â (Dressed as a blue dog)
Can't recall those 4 either
My dad never did this but I make sure I tell my son regularly you do the same and correct the generational curse.
If you didnât have that man then become that man
5) Are you winning son?
âYouâre suppose to be a compliment to my life. Not the focus.â Iâll be burning that quote in my head
Great stuff here.
Supposed to be a complement.
Well... if you're married, it's the hub of your wheel. If your primary relationships suck, your career, and definitely your children will be negatively impacted.
Dont burn it in your head .just burn his garbage
@@karencourt5684 what?
@@karencourt5684 Single mom much?
"Women don't care about the struggle. They hang out at the finish line, and ****** the winners."
So fking true. When you stop winning it can change real quick
A few years ago I did a little experiment. I told 5 friends my bank card wasnât working and I needed gas to get home. Not one person helped me. Not because they are completely hateful. The reason for them Not helping me is because none of them had 5 bucks to spare. Most didnât have a car. 5 bucks.
At that point I realized why my finances were in disarray. I hung out with people who didnât have shit and didnât care. I was the average of my 5 closest friends.
I had to jettison them from my daily life. Amazingly, my financial situation improved.
Howâs your relationship with them now?
@@bluezy1 I donât see them very often anymore. Several have moved. I just worked a lot and drifted out of their lives. Without me needing them to help me obtain drugs, they served no real purpose.
I delivered pizza one time poor folks tip rich folks tip very little.
@@alanroberts6918 men tip more than women though in my experience but expect more tips when they're servers...
If you have lunch with a millionaire , you should pay for lunch?
I would add my 20th rule: anything you need to learn about or figure out is found in a library. Rich guys have big libraries. Broke guys have big TVs.
Smart guys have big libraries, stupid guys have big tvs.
(Because rich people can have both. Poor people can have neither.)
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Facts!!!!...people donât understand the point of a personal library , my mother told me this , if you read one book a month, you learn 12 new things a year ...which is more knowledge attained than a full time student
I watched this on my tv
@@rahimgaymon4243 I don't get it. Why 13? Shouldn't it be 12?
No matter who you listen to....all of these cats are basically saying the same thing....'get on your own purpose".
Facts
I think you listen to the saint and the sinner!
it's the key
Thanks for the heads up. Almost wasted fifty minutes.
I agree, it's incredibly important. There's some tips and pointers in this post for those interested:
Finding Your Life's Purpose - www.reddit.com/r/MindOverMatterScott/comments/a114mp/finding_your_lifes_purpose/
What your espousing and teaching was given to me for free on childhood/teenage fishing trips. I was blessed with an old school WWII generation father. The content of your lecture was everyday typical conversation with dad on a daily basis. What is considered as toxic masculinity today was wisdom in my family life. I wish the best for all of you.
it's like you people are using cheatcodes lol
My dad never told me any of this stuff because he himself never knew any of it. He was the ultimate beta. Had I known the red pill info 50 years ago it would have spared me incalculable suffering
Ironically, my mother would have never allowed my father to teach me these things.
That's why you're here. Welcome brother!
Same deal, brother. Bet you anything it was about control. But the cat's out of the bag now, time to become what we were always meant to be.
To espouse these values will never make you popular w/ married couples. This is very great advice.
Really? Why so? Why was your mother against this?
@@jorgefigueroa2231 my mother was the domineering type. She treated my father like shit. He stayed for his kids. Subsequently, I've always dated these types of women. I truly didn't know any better. I'm sure I'm not unique.
'If you put women on a pedestal, they will surely look down on you'
Yup. Or as the other saying goes, "Treat her like a star and she'll treat you like a fan."
I absolutely put nobody or anything above me but God.
@@robertwasinger2286 ^^truth right there-- you can worship God or you can worship women, but only one will take you to the Promised Land... The latter will drag your ass through a nasty divorce...
@@robertwasinger2286 i say we are all our own god.
No, this is not correct...
My father was a Marine and believe me he had no problem telling me most of this stuff in which I thank him for today I am a strong physical and emotional man that I am today
Rich Cooper and Coach Greg Adams are two voices I desperately needed growing up. Iâve read both their books and had to learn the hard way with a lot of the things they discuss. The importance of their message cannot be stressed enough fellas!!! đđâ
The only two guys I listen to in this space on the regular. Peace brother âïž
You forgot to mention about Rollo Tomassi.The Rational Male.
Perhaps you haven't interacted with his Articles or podcasts.
Those of us who had hard core, blue pilled manginas as fathers had to learn the lessons about women the hard way! I was lucky and had two sisters! I thought to myself, "What idiot would want to tie himself to that!" And my sisters were beautiful back in their time!!!
I'm 18. This is saving my life
you're very lucky! i'm 28, and would be better off today if i had this advice at your age.
here are some other tips that will make you effective as a man:
1. always honor your word
2. hold yourself accountable for what is in your control (take responsibilty for your actions, control your emotions, such as directing your aggression constructively, improve yourself daily (especially when it comes to building your financial acumen), etc.)
3. be honest with yourself; you have to know your fears and limitations to conquer them
4. life has its ups and downs, so take life as it comes
5. practice self-defense
6. present yourself properly (good manners, acceptable physical appearance, showing gratitude to people who are good to you by also being there for them, etc.)
7. learn how to communicate as effectively as you can
8. help others as much as you like, but don't be afraid to confront them if they try to take advantage of you, and don't overextend yourself.
9. be ambitious in your own way. move forward and improve yourself at a pace that is good for you, but never shy away from competition. men
are built to compete!
10. love yourself!!! yes, you should try to be the best version of yourself, but don't compare yourself with others. this also includes enjoying when you do manly things (building something from scratch, fixing something, (___)ing a woman damn good, even something as boorish as belching louder than your friend or male relative, etc.)
@@yesihavealastname1562 wow thank you so much for this advice man đđœ
@@jasonmarachabond7598 you're welcome. and like Rich said, use the advice!
I never realized how much fatherless boys/young men miss out. Seems to be more and more vids on this subject matter. My dad was fricken awesome, I appreciate that more as life goes on. RIP.
This is why I care so much about redpill/mgtow/men's rights. As a young man who couldn't get this wisdom, and paid dearly for it. I would spare every boy that, and I'm 100% certain the world would be better for it.
I grew up without my father even sending a birthday card my entire childhood.
I grew up with a single Mom who was affectionate but abused alcohol and drugs.
I married a single mother and raised her 4 year old daughter. I had 14 misrable years of marriage but stayed to care for "our" daughter. I adopted her at 5. I took her skiing, camping, surfing, kayaking, to Girl Scouts, church, Father/Daughter dances, taught her to ride a bike, rollerblade, change a car tire, how to tie her shoes, cook, ju jitsu, hook up speakers, use tools, do math, U.S. History, Psychology, Philosophy, Theology and a thousand other things. She was loved and treated as my daughter.
Once we got divorced after my ex cheated on me, the daughter I raised for 18 years never spoke to me again. I was not invited to her college grad (which I paid half)or her wedding. To this day I would help her if she called me because I love her as my daughter. But I do resent the way she has treated me.
I wish I had known at 26 I was nothing more than a rental/bank/nanny.
If I had a son I would tell him to NEVER marry a single mother starting out. No matter how well she treats you before you marry, you will NEVER be her first priorty. At least when you have kids together with someone their first priority will be your kids!
To a single mother you will ALWAYS be expendable.
If you are a single man with no kids, find a single woman. Not divorced, not a single mom, not a woman with kids that live with the father. You will end up regretting it.
@Ismael Barrera I do feel like a strong male role model is pretty crucial. Something will teach those lessons and if not a respectable wholesome source there will be issues...
Too many children are badly influenced by their school mates and friends. How can a parent protect them from bad characters?
Same here he was hard working as fuck and worked with his hands as a builder. He now owns 5million worth of assets. He gave me nothing but hard lessons from a man. I respect him a lot now and we get on great
My dad taught me a new lesson today. Know who youâre dealing with. Meaning know who they are, how they work because they might take advantage of you and take your money or jip you on prices.
I'm 30 and I feel I don't excel at anything. Did so many things, nothing I loved that much that got so much into it that I became an expert in. But I'm determined to find my path. Thank you for your content and this talk.
I feel you bro. Gotta risk it for the biscuit! Letâs get after it!!
Just do the work bro. You don't have to love it and chances are you will hate it but that's not important for now - get the cash being expert at something and then deiverisfy into something you want to do or just early retire at 45. Wanting to 'love' your work is from listening to women give you life advice.
Don't wait any longer and jump on it. I had my first expert level job at 30 - I am now 37, mortgage and debt free and the plan is to keep working the job (i don't enjoy but get paid very well doing) until 40 and semi retire and just play sport/train full time.
If you follow your goals the rest falls into place.
I didnât have my real dad, just step dad that didnât help me much. Thanks to the internet and all the great men out there for sharing their Wisdom and Knowledge that made me the great young man I am today. đŻđ„
Me 2. Check out Jordan peterson if you havent yet.
Me too especially as a poc people love to humiliate and emasculate you as it is, So imagine not having any masculinity around you.
Just don't flatter yourself :P
What?
"Poor planning on YOUR part doesn't constitute an emergency on MY PART." GENIUS!
"Poor planning on YOUR part doesn't constitute an emergency on MY PART.
and also,
Poor planning on MY part doesn't constitute an emergency on YOUR PART.
Still,
we can work together if it is possible."
You realize this is a very old saying, he did not make it up himself.
@@haselbasil2488 totally aware. Nothing new under the sun duke. It just resonated with my spirit so much at the time I said the above comment homie.
I had this as a bumper sticker in my tech office 17 or 18 years ago and I know even back then, some folks saw that as offensive but I didn't care, because of the chaos in the other offices it had to be done
Heard this from my career Marine (E-9) BiL along with another gem... "Proper prior planning prevents piss poor performance"
Don't take advice from a man in trouble - one of my favs from my Dad.
Iâm blue collar making 60k per year driving a dump truck hauling clay to a tile factory. Itâs plenty of money for a 36-year-old who has everything paid off and has no intentions of marrying or having kids. I may not be putting a dent in the universe, but Iâm certainly putting a dent in the earth! đ
Men in general are better off not marrying women or settling down because woken complain all the time and usually never really appreciate what you do for them. I know I was married before she was miserable and using me to get a higher status.
Good luck when they clay mine ainât up anymore.
@@mandurian792 well since he doesn't have a women or kids, so long as he has a saving safety net then it won't matter
Here's another tip:
"Time is precious, so scroll to that one commenter that tells you the whole list"
Aslong as its not this bozo.he doesnt know squat
Yes I will avoid people who has low attention span such as yourself
@karen court how is he a bozo, when everything he's saying is right?! yeah, there might be a touch of misogyny there, but he's speaking facts. can you disprove anything he's saying?
@@lumpystilskin5367 good avoid this bozo he knows squat
@@karencourt5684 I mean, your first name says it allâŠ
I'm in my 40s now. Looking back I can't think of one woman I've ever been involved with who brought anything to my life worthwhile. They were all a massive drain of my time and energy. Not to mention a financial sink hole. All of them!
Iâm so sad for you, that you didnât meet the right people, I am so shocked to hear the red pilled men, itâs sounds like something is very wrong in the US. You should try another country
It seems to me the money issue is related to the English speaking countries. It's all money related, marriages kept together by money, not by the pleasure of being married.
To be honoust I don't see this a lot in the Netherlands, ok, people get divorced, but they mostly live on walking distance from eachother so that the children can walk to the other parent.
My father was a kind of super alpha, and that was not a very pleasant situation, causing my mom raising me to be careful, turning me in a sort of beta. My sister tells me I was an alpha male when young.
So if you're an alpha man, do raise your children the way you think is right, and I see this happening at home. I get angry at my son's, my wife says: you shouldn't do that, just talk it over... Do not defend them, let them defend themselves!
And it appears I was right. They listen.
I'm with the same girl () for 35 years now, and I see things on the 'market' have changed. I hope my boys can differentiate between a woman like their mother - who has a higher education than me, works 48 hours a week, does >75% of the household and cooks every evening, spends almost no money, runs twice a week and hasn't gained any weight in all those years, doesn't complain if I'm lying under a car the whole weekend and knows a man's needs- and the trash walking around.
And I, well I look like Richard now 61 years of age. That might help...
I just cannot imagine women in general have become bad in 30 years.
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@@matthewnelson325 Ive got over 2 decades of dating and relationships experience racked up.
I've lived with 3 different birds (as in 3 serious relationships) - 2 of them LTRs and the other lasted 2 years. I've had an assortment of short term stuff including flings, being the bloke in affairs, and all the inbetweens. So I think I have a decent amount of experience of being involved with women.
Here's what Ive learnt... They DONT ever love you and care for you quite like you think they do.
They will and certainly do LIE! Repeatedly. Straight to your face. No hesitation.
They do and will cheat on you. Repeatedly. Without remorse. And when discovered, theyll think of a reason why they did it which will involve either an ex or you being the cause.
They will coerce you and manipulate you with regards to money. She will gladly spend your money and receive it from you, but will be reluctant to spend her money back in your direction. And should she meet abother man that is financially more succesful than you, she will jump ship. Every time.
So there you are. Now you know.
Captain America civil engineer job
I'm almost 50 and never had children. Over the last 10 years I have been slowly compiling a list of things all young men need to know. This is pretty damn spectacular I must admit. You young guys are very fortunate to have this internet thingy at your command. It can be the difference between a lifetime of regret and one of splendor. We will all have our scars and bad times, that is actually a good thing and makes life worth living. But suffering is the one thing you must avoid.
As a young man, I'd genuinely love to hear your list Sean
I'm 50 and just watched this video and made me realise i just flushed 30yrs of life down the toilet, no internet back in our day, and men rarely spoke of these issues, i hope young men take this guy's excellent advice.
We shouldnât avoid suffering to a degree. Jesus suffered and heâs God so why shouldnât we expect trouble here and theređhope for the best
Never to late. Wife and I both spent 43 years at a Fortune 500 company and retired. We then started our own S Corp and doing very well as professional organizers and retail consultants...
Finding a woman that doesnât take selfies... umm sure. Easier finding Bigfoot.
This makes me love My girlfriend even more, thanks u made my day
A few selfies is not a problem, it's the constant attention whoring and narcissism
Is nothing wrong finding the woman just don't keep them remember fellas if you put this in your head it's just your turn and then keep it moving
stefan andersen your a lucky bloke đđŒ
I have 3 long term girlfriends in my life that don't. Come to Asia and Hawaii.
When I was 18 I was a high school drop out.
My dad had a talk with me.
He said I didnât have to go to college
He said I did have to be fair
Work hard tell the truth have integrity
Pay my taxes, admit when I was wrong
Do my best, go to work everyday, be on time
And u will have a good life.
Now Iâm 59 and have my house paid off
No drugs no debt never been arrested
Traveled the world. Love my job.
Walk every day big savings in bank.
Still can do 10 pull ups
Still can ride my bicycle 100 miles.
Great man ! Happy for you , i'm on my way too
@@patriciacole8773
I have a 31yr old daughter. We rode bikes across Italy and China together. Now I have a 1.5yr old granddaughter. I got to see her recently.
I tried to pick up my little granddaughter and she said
No no. LoL
Dang!
I'm 62 and can no longer do 1 pull up.
It's time to get off the couch and stop using pain as an excuse.
@@matthewk6731 I been practicing daily since I was
Nine. LoL.
I did 400 pull ups on my 40th birthday.
@@patriciacole8773 be more specific.
I donât want to offend u
Most of what he said can apply to the mental health community. I do not have a family of my own or a big job, and "Life kicked my ass" anyway. The self-care required to live and survive trauma and depression of any type is of heroic proportions.
Same, what he told is real but im against people that are normal, im very far behind, why should i be willing to do the hard work that people can do easilly, and not just give up?
@@aquiledelrosa Give up then. Stop wasting everyone else's time, since you don't value yours.
Rich is a men's man! The way he carries himself says it all. Great presentation đȘ
âYou started off as a winner. You telling me you canât end as one?â Just absolutely blew my mind like a Christopher Nolan film. Wow.
haha tenet
@@manny2493 Absolutely lol
Yes sir...ASCENDING THE APEX
Everyone ends well itâs called Dissolution
That thing was actually not that smart because by that logic literally every person born is a winner.
32:00 "People never get jealous of losers." Excellent.
.. what is a Loser??? ... Money is nothing!!
If you truly think about it for a bit, that's very incorrect. We live in a world where people, no matter their circumstance, are always hating and being jealous of people on several different levels. One man's winner is another man's loser. It's all contextual. Billionaires are some of the most depressed people on the planet, because they can't feel true satisfaction, and their fear of loss is actually increasing. They think more stuff, money, attenttion, etc, will make them happy, but it doesn't. they are screwed mentally. The real challenge in life is not to conquer the world, but to conquer the desire to conquer the world.
It would be better if we didn't make decisions based on temporary negative emotions like "Jealousy."
@@MichaelGustavsonArchitect jealously is one of the 7 traits of a Loser
@@staceycole3007 Go talk to a Billionaire face to face instead of meeting them on the internet.
There were a lot of red flags that I noticed when I was engaged.i ignored them because I was really in love with her. After 5 years of us being together,I realized she was never going to stop cheating on me so I broke up with her.hard lesson learned,but I learned it really well.
I am sorry to hear that, take some time to work on yourself and build a better life for yourself and better person.
Several times? Jeesh... How do you cope with that.... I thought cheating was a one-strike-rule for most men, universally?
@@rickarda9232 just being dumb I guesd
â@@steveorick2271 atleast you own up to it. Btw. How did you catch her cheating if I can be so rude(?) to ask?
You cant control others behaviour. not your fault. Just move on. Never stay with a cheater.
1. I spent age 15 through 19 homeless. On the streets, eating food out of dumpsters, stealing food from grocery stores, homeless.
2. At age 20 I met a single mother - she was bipolar and had a personality disorder, two things I neither fully understood at the time, nor was remotely capable of dealing with.
3. Within months she was pregnant with my first son.
4. We were married 10 years and in that time she had 8 affairs. In that time I did not cheat on her 1 time. I stayed to be with my children.
5. We divorced in 2008 after the economic recession.
6. After the divorce things really went to shit.
7. I nearly lost both of my sons to drug use - due to her manipulation and bullshit.
8. I have lost everything.
9. I nearly parked a round into the brainpan.
I stayed single for 10 years, and I've just started a new family, bought a new house. We're three years in, and I'm ready to park that round into the brainpan again.
Feel bad for ya
While it's not what you expected out of life, the struggles we overcome give meaning to life. Nothing is bad or good until we see the absolute finish. Check out Man's search for meaning by Victor Frankel. Wishing you better days ahead
Have you seen a professional counselor or psychiatrist? One not from your church, or someone you met at the gym, find someone completely detached from your life and talk/see them often!
I was suicidal from 16 to 27. Things change and now ppl look at me like an alpha male. Overcoming the past brings a type of satisfaction
Dude. Don't use a permanent solution to solve a temporary problem.
The world needs you. Believe it.
Number 2 is a great point. Typically "success" is not one big break, it's all the small choices you make every day. The choice to not eat that candy bar, the choice to work out instead of going drinking, the choice to save and invest rather than buy that boat, the choice to study and learn new skills rather than simply watching TV. Every day. Consistency.
I'm going to save and invest and still get that boat. I work out and still go out drinking with friends and women. I study and learn new skills and still watch (some) TV.
Everything that is in this world that I like, I go get.
I'm drinking the good champagne and flying in comfort. I go out with the hot chicks no fugly's. It's all out there for the taking. You must put yourself in the position to get it.
Why live an austere life when we are only here once(as far as we know)....?
@@rubydooby1679 If you can do those things successfully, hats off to you. You are an eternal being, whether you believe it or not. Subject for another time. I wish you well in your pursuits.
@@williamjeffreys2980 I love you
@@williamjeffreys2980 forever
Thats so true.
Great talk Rich. I became a entrepreneur at age 50 (now 61) after 28 years of working in fortune 500 world. As you mentioned it is hard hard work for the first couple of years. Absolutely worth it fellas. Also you talked about TRT, I started my therapy 3 years ago. One of the best decisions I ever made. Older you gets younger you back. After years of laziness I got busy working out 5 to 6 days a week and looked forward to it. Lost 50 lbs and now my physique has changed for the better. Like you said Rich lift heavy shit put it down and do it over and over again you won't regret it fella's.
Well if your basing your life on him i feel sorry for you.but if you changed because u woke up and decided using your own brain then good for you
@@karencourt5684 he fixed his own life, thatâs a win period
@@karencourt5684 sometimes even the people you hate most have that golden nugget you personally need to succeed , in this case maybe the dude just took the golden nuggets and successfully applied it, it worked for him
@@karencourt5684 Why Karen, what's wrong with him? Don't worry, you can tell me, I'm the manager here.
@@HTSW i dont know u so why should i talk to you
I watch this video everyday just so I can reprogram myself towards the good that father never would.
I think this is the only video that covers almost everything from all areas, you don't need another motivational/self improvement video. It covers physical, social, mental, financial.. enough to get you in the top x% of men. Now go and take action, apply what you've learned
I use to listen to Rich. Most of what he speaks is truth-ish but nothing amazing. Where he fails is speaking to men in a pretentious downturn. 9% of Americans earn 6 figures and he basically shames you as if you are failing as a man if you don't accomplish this. I've earned well above that but would never talk down to a man who doesn't. Many studies have shown that a single male that earns $70,000 isn't going to have a better quality of life earning more. His mindset on FU money is misplaced. I can see where it stems. He has the same personality. When you speak Rich your words should come from a place of reality that can be applied to the majority of men. Not just your lived reality.
The one thing I find throughout his videos and mindset is applying to the angry, hurt, and jaded men. This will get views and subscribers but will not lead these men of all ages to a place of balance.
Truer words have never been spoke.... THIS, THIS is exactly what I was thinking when I watched this video. Thanks a ton for saying this, god bless you. And yes, you are 100% right, his anger towards women and his arrogance from making a lot of money is just too personal and not necessary for everyone.
@@HouseofGausss his last convention speech he had written "stretched out floppy vaginas". I have absolutely no respect for this man. What adult male talks this way and expects to be taken seriously. Hopefully these men he's fooled for the moment will find better.
@@HouseofGausss the other thing he spoke of was TRT testosterone replacement therapy. He was misleading again. This will not make you look fabulous and solve depression amd other issues unless it is a direct result of that. It definitely helps. But it's not a magic potion. You have to put in the work. It's not steroids. With steroids you can get results literally doing nothing. And the spray vs the pill. I take the injection and do it myself. Injections are the best. Side effects, increased blood pressure, sleep issues, high red blood cell count, bloating, etc... you have to be monitored and either donate blood or have it drawn from your doctor. He makes it sound like what I call unicorn theory. I really feel he likes the sound of his own voice regardless of the misinformation, lack of information, and toxic language.
@@HouseofGausss thank you, bless you as well, and you're welcome.
It's all about "niche-ing." Any content creator worth his salt finds the demographic that's their background and they identify with and run with it. He was that angry, hurt, jaded guy. He says so. Maybe he still is, who knows. In the online world you can't be all things to all people, in this case, all men. There would be no way to differentiate yourself and it would be bland, very basic stuff. As a result, he would lose money, or at least not make as much. It's all about marketing. Yes, he sometimes comes across as smug, condescending, etc. However, he does add value with what he has said here, and God knows it's needed by thousands of men.
I had a great father in different aspects. He taught me humility and how to treat other people. Unfortunately he wasnât a driven man and didnât teach me how to utilize life and most of the topics discussed here. My mom left him for another guy and that was a turning point. I am 23 and have already struggled/struggling with substance abuse and depression, I let a girl hurt me. Thank you for this man, I hope everyone takes a lesson from this.
Ur not alone keep up the progress
The J media and their religion have convinced white men to be weak, and itâs why often our women donât respect us. Your fatherâs âJudeo Christian moralsâ resulted in him being cheated on and left. This is a hard pill for me to swallow but itâs true
Donât chase them ,chase your purpose and they will chase you !!!
Best advice ever đș
Young men, take this advice seriously, especially the advice about choosing a wife or you could end up in my position. Business owner, making well into 7 figures a year, and I'm completely trapped. She is very aware she has the full weight of the government behind her and I will be destroyed if I get a divorce, which I desperately need. It sucks, guys. I can't come to terms with giving half of my business that I worked so hard for to someone who was not only zero help throughout the process, but was a massive burden, always trying to bring me down and belittle my accomplishments. Do not marry a woman just because she's a 10 physically. It was a huge mistake. You'll get tired of fucking the same 10 everyday anyway.
Most people overestimate what they can accomplish in a year, and underestimate what they can accomplish in a decade. -Bill Gates
Leave his name out though lol
those are NOT his own words
Screw Bill Gates
@@gaildorries4064 nah screw fake news and misinformation instead! âđ
@@samlee2562 Ok ill give you that....screw fake news and Bill Gates, he's a weird ass psychopath!
I never had a dad so I had to learn everything by myself. It was difficult for me to start an adult life. Thanks for the video, very interesting! :)
Better no dad than a bad one. We had an abusive alcoholic who terrorized us. A war zone.
There are plenty of ppl who had no dads and they managed. Depends on you how hard of a toll it took. But don't expect sympathy just because other people have or had what you didn't. The most difficult challanges in life builds a person, either up or down but that depends on you.
Feel ya, I can ad an alcoholic mother and no father ;) Always felt am 10-15 years behind everybody else. Soon to 40, did ok still ;)
Seek the Kingdom of God that is within you, you will be fine. Jesus Loves you man, trust the small voice in you and doubt every thought.
Iâm just learning
1. Donât let people make their problems your problems
2. J.O.B Just over broke
3. Do not get into LTRâs with attention seeking women
4. There are no cheat codes to lifeâs challenges
5. Stop ignoring red flags
6. Avoid women with daddy issues
7. Pick up heavy shit and put it down
8. Optimize your endocrine system as you age
9. Never allow the state decide
10. Learn how to deal with rejection
11. You will always lose money chasing women but never lose women chasing excellence
12. Make F U money
13. Treat life like itâs the only one you got
14. Donât LTR a single mom
15. Haters are confused admires
16. You have 100% responsibility and 0% authority as a man
17. The burden of performance is 100% on you
18. Stop giving fucks to things that arenât fuck worthy
19. Youâve started as a winner
Stand firm, Men. Stand firm. Know your history, know your value, and thanks for this. I needed this.
Iâm 18, this was an extremely useful video! And the best thing about it is that it is 100% free! Truly grateful for this, thank you! đđ»
Same
u pay with your time
nothing is free amigo
No fair get out of here and figure it out like the rest of us
@@davidcoffman9326 hahahah, even then, with this learned knowledge, im going to have huge mistakes in my life.
Great men have the wisdom to help others overcome their limitations.
Weak men are experts at pointing out the flaws in others while telling you how awesome they are.
@@Wahhhhhhhh-hhh
That's it? Come on, you can do better than that.
I notice this too. The most judgemental are likely the most insecure. The least forgiving also seem to have more that needs forgiving. Also in my experience, the least trusting are more likely to be liars.
@@charliehobson33 hmmmm
This is gold. Iâve already taken a screenshot of this.
THIS is gold. Rewatch this from time to time till you follow these rules. Or just implement one advice after another.
I don't recall my dad telling me much but he always let me watch TV with him, and he had pretty good taste in comedy. I was exposed to Monty Python at a very early age. I still love watching TV with him to this very day. Plus he went to church EVERY Sunday. That's a good guiding light I think.
If your life has no struggles.. I guess.
Idk man, T.V. is mainstream sheeple brainwashing...and most mainstream comedy encourages men to be beta slaves to the system. Glad to hear it didn't consume your life and discouraged you from taking on any heavy worrior projects to make the world a better place.
RIP to that guy at the end who never got to ask his question
I started working in construction at 18 and it changed my life you get a real perspective of hard work and get a killer work out, you become way hungrier for the world and make friends with older guys who yeah some are dicks but some will teach you how to work in roofing or concrete and youâll learn from their mistakes itâs the best choice I made I lacked so much in confidence but when you learn how to break things and build things you become confident your body changes doing asphalt at 95 degrees will teach you how to value a cup of water Iâm 22 now and Iâm going to EMS soon and I feel ready and confident with my self also part of the no dads club
*had to edit this *
When you pass by where you worked and built a side walk or a roof you get a silence sense of pride
respect to you brotha!
I lost my dad at 14 so he didnât get to tell me a whole lot. But I know Iâve made him and my mom proud. I work at a company he did most of his life, and I honestly feel like it was my true calling. I want to start my own company and make 6-7 figures before Iâm 30. 23 now and Iâm hungry.
With point#1. I'm guilty of being of something who complains a lot. Sometimes you don't notice how often or bad it is until you notice people avoiding you for it. I used to not do it that much. Idk if its just the higher stress of the worlds craziness these days, but I find myself being more vocal lately. I used to just use the excuse that I'm am speaking about what I honestly feel vs keeping it to yourself all the time (Especially in politics). Its just ranting about world problems doesn't help anyone, especially if you have no control over it. Don't know why it took me this long to reflect on it, but I am glad I am doing it now. Helped me find out I wasn't mentally is a good spot.
The real pain is the guilt that this drove friends/family farther away from me. Not 100% sure where to go from here, but I am so grateful someone finally had the guts to tell me to STFU. Hopes this helps someone in some shape/way/form. Really opened up on this one
My mother use to say to me " never give a woman all of your love, or all of your money" she didn't say why but I never forgot it.
Probably because she, herself, is the kind of woman who tries to get all of a manâs love and money...so she was speaking from experience and warning you.
My mother told me the same fucking thing, they try to prepare you, they know they can be heartless.
Totally accurate - If they think they've squeezed everything out of you (love or money), they will think that's the peak of the "relationship" and see it as to move on. You want them to always think there's more layers to you - more to discover
@@johannwilder1437 The reverse is also possible, she may be a woman who doesn't want to drain a man of his time and resources but is aware that most women (especially young women) are this way to some extent. Thus she warns the son to beware of this behavior and never let himself get taken advantage of.
"Always leave them wanting more."
Many of us never had dads because our mums forced them away and used the law to do it.
It's so disgusting how women can be selfish
@@paulmwai5988 trueđŻ
Bummer. My folks divorced but saw my Dad regularly.
Bruh
Yep, Same here
It's your humble honesty I most admire @RichardCooper
My dad did what he did no regrets he did some good job đđżđđż...may he continue resting if there was anything he was supposed to do i believe God would have given more time here on earth.
That's a great perspective. We all, at some point, must take responsibility for our lives regardless of our upbringing. Most of our parents did the best they knew how at the time. Some are gone now so the ball is in our court. Play ball!đ
My dad died a week ago and watching you talk about this , is a good reminder of what some of the things that my dad taught me about life. Thanks Richard for helping men out there , be men again.
Appreciate this wealth of wisdom. #MakeMenGreatAgain!
I don't even know how to articulate my condolences for your lost, I pray you will have the strength and solace to endure what's ahead friend.
"Never stop gaming your wife." is probably one of the best advices I ever got in my life. Same goes for women, "Never stop gaming your husband." We could even say more and extend this advice to life in general. "Never stop with self-improvement."
I wish I had access to this kind of man knowledge 45 years ago....Enjoy watching & learning from your life man lessons & incite....
This is such an amazing eye opener!!! Definitely helps me to do some self reflection. I am very glad you guys are doing this for our guys in this world. Thank you!!! God Bless you and yours!!! Don't stop!!! Don't ever stop!!!
Me, who doesn't have a father: *desperately scribbling everything down*
Awe
Sometimes they end up not being the person you thought they were. Keep on keeping on, dude.
Glad Iâm not alone on the note taking! Men need more input from Men
Haha same
@@MajorRager504 sometimes the mothers keep them away and poison their child's thoughts. I had this growing up
"losers make excuses, winners make sacrifices. Don't make excuses for your friends because they don't need them. Don't make excuses for your enemies because they don't care."
Treat a woman like a celebrity and sheâll treat you like a fan
I've gone private. Love it. Accept myself and who I am today. Staying positive and don't like arguments. What happens when I do engage in one. The other person will look stup if thats what they want. I do choose who depending how bad they are as a person. My rights and my wrongs I understood it very clearly. Really it's not about neither, it's about you making the right choice. Even when you right but you have to be the one thats wrong. If it brings peace yes do it. Being right all the time you will never find peace
Like 3 years ago i discovered this man on youtube. He really saved my mind during my divorce. Now i'm a better person and a better man. Thanks so much
good on you bro, good luck to you
Saved my mind after back to back breakups. I really do think all men should be aware of this. Question everything of course. I know the thing that helped me was learning about the Soulmate myth/Oneitis and making ourselves the mental point of origin.
42 in June and wish I had been taught this priceless information when I was younger. My father has never been around me much in the past and no man I've ever had in my life has been a true father figure and taught me anything of true value, until I found Rich Cooper and all of his Red, Gold and platinum pill knowledge. Thank you Rich for being here brother. Just ordered your book đ
This guy is seriously changing my life. Thanks man
Basically, what I hear is avoid people with problems. Good luck with that. Sometimes it's you that has a problem. You can sit there and stew - or you can go ask someone. Don't waste their time and have 'potential' answers with you, and hopefully you can be guided in the right direction.
Being married with children whilst having a full-time career, is one of the biggest challenges to a man in my opinion. Takes balls to raise a family and at the same time be successful in your endeavours.
@Blake R I have to add to it, that is why I probably don't listen that much to "motivational speakers" talking about being a man, when they have no children, or when they are not involved in raising their own children. Being a father is on a whole other level in my opinion.
Say that to the women who do it all career, kids and all
@@didiash again, respect. The context for this was for men, which was why I was referring to fathers. But yes, women who do the same also need and deserve respect. In the modern West, good parents, are generally not given the respect they deserve. Well, in my view at least.
Rah
Nope it's not, it's far away from biggest chelenges man can have but for western men that might be somehow true.
I can't even tell is it funny or sad
I didn't have a Dad in the house, but I got raised by the United States Navy for 6 years.
You were raised by an Uncle.
Ignore the other comments, thank you for your service!
You were already grown before they came into the equation
Same but I had my jiu jitsu team
Same...
Thank you Richard. Your book and your videos are helping me through a breakup (which I initiated) of a 2 year LTR, if it wasn't for you I'd probably continue the misery with her.
I read your whole book in one sitting a few days ago when I got home from work. Didn't even realize it was 4 in the morning by the time I was finished.
Bless this man.
He said "do you want to happy or be right" and then he broke down and cried.
Iâm a mother of a 16 year old son who has told my son most of what youâve said. But felt as though he wasnât really paying attention to me. Iâm surely going to show him this video. And hopefully he pays attention to EVERYTHING..!!!
Show him in another 16 years. He might listen then.
@@theterriblepuddle1830 ok
32 year old here. damn....
Did he watch it ?
Well done Jessica
Powerful! 45 years and iv be walking backwards blind folded shoes on wrong feet carrying flowers and candy... Thanks popsđȘ
Iâm a female and I like this . Itâs the truth
I've been harshly criticized by every member of my life. Family, wife, friends and peers. I keep grinding and kicking ass.
The hard reality is that not everyone is destined for greatness and/or FU money. Not to say you shouldn't try of course. Once you've gotten shelter and food and clothing quality of life doesn't change much.
Yes! Many personality traits make for better humans.
That's very true, I've been poor and I'm now wealthy...you're right
Everyone is destined to die and be lost or forgotten in time though
Carlos yes I have so much value beyond $$ I garden can dehydrate raise chickens and rabbits both egg, food .
ive never seen or meet a person who dident get out what they put in. the only limit to what u can do is what you want to do.
I had a former co workers come into work and we were talking. This guy gets all of the hottest women and sleeps around. He doesn't want a relationship. I told him how I want someone who is attractive and I have some unattractive women chasing me. He told me I wouldn't be good looking enough for a woman who was attractive. I realized somthing a few days later. He was scared. Scared that because I was doing so well for myself. Between two jobs and working out I had made somthing of myself. I had somthing he didn't. He was about my looks but more muscle and honestly I couldn't give two fcks about the douchebag. I hope to have a genuine relationship instead of sleeping around like he does.
Totally agree with you. You want stuff, work for it. Build your strength, get rid of losers influence on your life.
Set goals and work for it. Find Friends that support your intentions to grow.
As a 21 y/o, this is some of the realest information ive ever heard. Makes me mad that i wasnt taught any of this when i was younger, everybody always giving shitty advice that never worked and led to nothing and frustration. Nobody ever teaches you how important your Manlihood is :/
Learn about investment and personal finance, study deep. I started at 21 and it changed my life
I hear ya man
Hey man we're learning now. I just turned 23 don't look back wishing you learned sooner look forward and be proactive to make sure you don't look back and think the same thing.
@@Cristian_D63 very tru, gotta remember this
If you are in your twenties then you are still young lol your not technically old till you hit 40. There are older men just getting this information and after divorce and drama. 20 is a clean slate and you get to learn from older mens mistakes.
His presentation skills leveled up SUBSTANTIALLY....this is not just a great content but also a case study in how to present/ speak...Thanks Richard
@To the point. and minus the spelling errors
Big factsâ
Mkay
The repetition, the humor, the chill responses; it's all excellently done.
I wish I knew this stuff earlier. My father passed on while i was really young and I didn't have men that deliberately poured into me this wisdom. I'm learning this 4 years into my marriage.
Female here totally agree with the segments about women otherwise I wouldn't be offended, but hey truth hurts for a reason. That reason being maybe we could all learn a little something thru a different perspective. My dead beat dad left me when i was born just because i wasn't born a boy. Rejection now that's something i can totally relate to. Good advice. Theres some useful information here i can use to make my own .
Very interesting observation actually
I'm blessed to have both parents till today but I watch these videos because I always want to learn more and understand other people's perspective
Never had a father, and was raised by that exact same woman he said to stay away from, no wonder why my heads fucked up
But you can change! Chase excellence and be the best.
At some point we have to stop blaming others and start making changes and taking the risks necessary to become a person without regrets
Very Respectfully With All Due Respect Good Gods Day, This is for those who are waiting for marriage or already married or in between marriages, While you are waiting, here is Scripture To Keep you on track, 1st Scripturally you both must be each other's first spouse ever, If you happen to be a 2nd, 3rd spouse Scripturally God does not even see the marriage because no divorced person is Scripturally they "CAN NOT" re-marry no one new, they Scripturally "MUST" go back to their very first spouse,
Separation is "THE ONLY" authorized resolve that God The Heavenly Father Scripturally allows for marital problems that exist within a marriage that Scripturally consist of the marriage being the "VERY FIRST" marriage for both parties, Scripturally God "DOES NOT" authorize divorce "NOT AT ALL" but Sctipturally God The Heavenly Father Authorizes A separation "BUT!!!!" Scripturally the separation has to be for the purpose of "RECONCILLING THE MARRIAGE", while you both are seperated you both are Scripturally Commanded to be "WORKING ON RESOLVING YOUR MARITAL PROBLEMS TO THEN EVENTUALLY YOU BOTH COMING BACK TOGETHER, THE LORD KNOWS THAT SOME THINGS DO TAKE TIME BUT GOD COMMANDS RECONVILIATION OF THE MARRIAGE, BOTTOM-LINE!!
May Gods Holy Scriptures In Gods Love Enlighten all,
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Since God Is The Authority* *Over All Scripturual Marriages* *Let's us see what The* *Authority God Himself says* *about Marriage*
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DIVORCE IS SCRIPTURALLY NEVER EVER APPROVED BY GOD, NEVER!
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*MATTHEW 5:31-32 NKJV*
âFurthermore it has been said, âWhoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.â But I say to you that whoever divorces his wife for any reason except sexual immorality causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a woman who is divorced commits adultery.
*LUKE 16:18 NKJV*
18 âWhoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced from her husband commits adultery.
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*1 CORINTHIANS 7:10-16 NKJV*
10 Now to the married I command, yet not I but the Lord: A wife is not to depart from her husband.
11 But even if she does depart, let her remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. And a husband is not to divorce his wife.
12 But to the rest I, not the Lord, say: If any brother has a wife who does not believe, and she is willing to live with him, let him not divorce her.
13 And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him.
14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy.
15 But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace.
16 For how do you know, O wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, O husband, whether you will save your wife?
*1 CORINTHIANS 7:39 NKJV*
39 A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord.
*MALACHI **2:16** NKJV*
16 "For the Lord God of Israel says That He hates divorce, For it covers one's garment with violence," Says the Lord of hosts. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, That you do not deal treacherously.
*MATTHEW 19:1-9 NKJV*
Jesus' Teaching on Divorce
19 1 Now it came to pass, when Jesus had finished these sayings, that He departed from Galilee and came to the region of Judea beyond the Jordan.
2 And great multitudes followed Him, and He healed them there.
3 The Pharisees also came to Him, testing Him, and saying to Him, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for just any reason?"
4 And He answered and said to them, "Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning 'made them male and female,'
5 and said, 'For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh'?
6 So then, they are no longer two but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let not man separate."
7 They said to Him, "Why then did Moses command to give a certificate of divorce, and to put her away?" 8 He said to them, "Moses, because of the hardness of your hearts, permitted you to divorce your wives, but from the beginning it was not so.
9 And I say to you, whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and whoever marries her who is divorced commits adultery."
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These Scriptures apply to
1. a male and female marriage only
2. those who are married to their very first spouse
âOnly a spouse that is deceased from the one living spouse is Scripturally allowed to remarry, no one else is allowed to be remarried according to Scripture
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God does not Scripturally authorize nor does God even acknowledge 2nd-second 3rd-third and 4th-fourth spouses
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Same situation for alot of Americans.
Already found all these out the hard way. wish i saw this video 15 years earlier but Thank God( alhamdoulillah ) im doing okay at the moment and growing. this now is time for me to raise my 1 years old son whos gonna be (God willingly).inshaAllah one of the most manliest man on the face of this planet.
Thank you Sir, When you stared talking about money it triggered to me, with the money I was left over from the divorce I can make more money with no one telling me not to spend money. you can wish me luck but i don't think i need it. Thanks again!
I so needed this when I was 18 years old. Great talk dad.
Just call him daddy already đ€Łđ€Ł
Your welcome grandson.. damn i needed this 4 years ago
If this came to you now, you need it now. Don't look back brother, look ahead
Also: "son, don't abandon your daughter if you don't want to create daddy issues..." Very important, the mother-son relationship and the father-daughter relationship. Other then that, great talk. Good and usefull advice:)
made me crying listening to this...
The amount of truth in this video is unreal.
Well, that just about knocks 99% of women out of the running.
100% of your possibilities are knocked out if you are not a handsome Chad
@@MikeBarbarossa Not too sure about that. There are plenty of women that date less good-looking guys because they don't want the competition.
@@newguy6935 100% true, but some average guys will keep complaining anyway...........and complaining is not attractive to women. Many women do not trust good looking guys. Note: good looking and well dressed are not the same. An average looking guy who is well dressed is upping his game for the ladies. Women like style, most men dont (I dont haha).
@@MikeBarbarossa Not really, I live in Eastern Europe and pretty women here are with average and ugly dudes all the time. I don't know any guys who had problems getting girls because of their looks.
@@rudy1999 Srbija il Poljska ? :D
What elevates one man over another is not dominance-itâs confidence.
You Sir have the best comments on CZcams i have ever read.
and money which probably comes with money
Most of what he says is good advice, especially for 2020. I would also add, have serious conversation when youâre dating. Saying âI want to be married soonâ can mean 2-3 years for a male and 6 months for a female. Thereâs also a ton of âindependentâ women out here who believe they deserve the world and man with a big piece, 6 pack Abs, lots of money, a great job but has tons of time to hang home, has women lining up for him but only has eyes for here and come to the table offering 20lbs overweight, a work in progress, emotionally immature or independent, not making much money and surrounded by friends who tell them âthey fees every betterâ when in all reality theyâre 28-35, pass their prime and donât seem to realize a man can have all that she offers plus 6 years younger and not having to feel the pressure of the women biological clock murking up The relationship
I find these women are usually unfulfilled and the happy because everything they were told about not needing a man growing up isnât true (having a family and a community gives you purpose in the world, (especially motherhood and fatherhood) it makes life bigger then yourself. Just sad when a women who is like 5 overall when you add in age and job and everything else thinks sheâs deserves a 10 because they people around her keep saying it
"It's unclear whether testosterone therapy would benefit older men who are otherwise healthy
.. there's little evidence to support the use of testosterone in otherwise healthy men." (Testosterone therapy: Potential benefits and risks as you age, Mayo clinic website). American College of Physicians: testosterone might improve sexual function somewhat in some men, but there's little evidence that it improves other functions, such as vitality and energy.
Risks of testosterone therapy: worsening sleep apnea, acne or other skin reactions, stimulating noncancerous growth of prostate (benign prostatic hyperplasia) and growth of existing prostate cancer, enlarging breasts, limiting sperm production or causing testicles to shrink and stimulating too much red blood cell production, which contributes to increased risk of deep vein thrombosis and/or pulmonary embolism
As a woman who married a man who didn't take control of his life and still hasn't, I raised my children mostly on my own (their father was involved, no "crazy" stuff). and I agree with a lot of what is discussed here. It makes me a bit uncomfortable as a single mom to listen to some of these discussions but I do see the sense in it all. Men have been downtrodden too much and women literally get away with A LOT these days.
I don't want this reality for my sons when it comes to relationships especially. I sent it to my son's and a couple of my male friends who struggle with this stuff.
Thank you for the work you do and this video.
Where were you 20 years ago? You couldâve saved me a lot of grief. Anyway, great video.
WOW!!! Same here!!!!
more than likely he was on the same boat going through bad experiences, that's how he came to be
I had the same thought, but I don't think I would've listened to his advice back then. Seems like you have to go through some shit first before searching for a new way of thinking.
Ain't that the truth
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This talk was pleasantly surprising. I don't think it was just about relationships, but about life in general.