How To Figure Out What To Do With Your Life

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Komentáře • 103

  • @zsuzsannabak1530
    @zsuzsannabak1530 Před 3 lety +32

    Totally true. I was 36 when I realized I'm living my husband life, not mine.

    • @TheAdiia
      @TheAdiia Před 3 lety +5

      Yes, i always think to myself. If i was single what kinda storyline would i like my future partners to know about me? How can i introduce myself and feel proud and confident of the woman i am? If i lack something or feel like i can improve in certain areas i make note to work on that! It makes life fun!

    • @KaylaNoelle1
      @KaylaNoelle1 Před 3 lety +4

      I feel this right now. I’m 25 and still with my first boyfriend from high school. He’s gotten less ambitious and slovenly as time has gone on and I’m starting to feel like his mom. It’s really sad and disappointing but I don’t want to look back and wonder who I would have become if he hadn’t been holding me back.

    • @Erinmayhenry
      @Erinmayhenry  Před 3 lety +1

      You got to live for you boo x

    • @zsuzsannabak1530
      @zsuzsannabak1530 Před 3 lety +1

      Eventually I divorced 😂

    • @rebeccaofpollywogflatts8976
      @rebeccaofpollywogflatts8976 Před 3 lety

      oh, so good

  • @improvewithsoo-selfdevelop1219

    -Figure who you are.
    -Be okay with experimentation.
    -Don't be afraid to let things go.
    -Overcome fear of judgement.
    Just some takeaways wanted to share! Have a wonderful week everyone! :)

    • @Erinmayhenry
      @Erinmayhenry  Před 3 lety +2

      Love this x

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 Před 3 lety +1

      Look at nature and watch the sea ,
      Goodness for all including you and me ,
      With God we watch and see ,
      Yes , knowing the truth would set us free ...

  • @Connectingthedots.
    @Connectingthedots. Před 3 lety +31

    1. Do the inner work and inner exploration to see what you are truly passionate about.
    2. Don't be afraid to quit/ fail/ let go of things you don't want to pursue (you may not choose your perfect career the first time around, so don't spend too much time doing what doesn't light you up).
    3. Be resilient.

  • @nalzym924
    @nalzym924 Před 3 lety +8

    Girl, the waves with the hoops 👌

  • @waelfaraj6705
    @waelfaraj6705 Před 3 lety +16

    There is a book called
    Ikigai where your mission interests with your passion plus profession plus vocation . You get paid by producing what you love and skillful at being what the world requires...

    • @Erinmayhenry
      @Erinmayhenry  Před 3 lety

      Yesss! I have heard of that book it sounds so good!

    • @intentionalliving7326
      @intentionalliving7326 Před 3 lety

      Ah you are the third person mentioning it! On my reading list now! Thank you 🤗☀️

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 Před 3 lety

      You can Google a summary on Google search engine to see the main points before buying it .
      If you live in a developing country like me especially outside bigger cities , you can listen to any book as an audiobook on youtube ...

  • @improvewithsoo-selfdevelop1219

    For so many years, I was so lost and had no idea what I wanted to do with my life. I realized I had been living my parent's dreams and thank goodness I woke up and realized it sooner. I can't agree more with that emphasis on "This is YOUR life." Inspiring video, Erin! :)

  • @haleydaye7246
    @haleydaye7246 Před 2 lety

    You honestly make THE BEST and most helpful, 'doable' videos on YT! 🤩 Your point about what makes you jealous is incredibly insightful!

  • @waelfaraj6705
    @waelfaraj6705 Před 3 lety +3

    Work -life balance is crucial and important especially in the long run...
    Take care of your health and inner peace or balance ...

  • @helenetaffin2878
    @helenetaffin2878 Před 3 lety +8

    I am currently deep into this work and figuring out how to align with my purpose. I know I want to to start a business related to interior design, but there are so many ways that can look like, whether I take on clients or build an online business. I am in the testing period right now, where I am building my social presence and an audience, and analyzing what works and what doesn't. I love that you talked about experimenting but also showing resilience. It made me think of the book Grit which I'm currently listening to. I've typically been the person with many interests and I have developed skills in SO MANY different areas, but I recognize that I need more grit and focus now, pick something and give it my all to see where I can go.

    • @Mitchpert
      @Mitchpert Před 3 lety

      That's so awesome you have that clarity Helene! There is another book you might like called 'The Purpose Project' which reinforces the concept of experimenting, trying and taking on projects that align and push us towards our purpose while we are still figuring out how we want to go about it. If you ever wanted support in any way feel free to reach out 😊

    • @Erinmayhenry
      @Erinmayhenry  Před 3 lety

      Don’t be afraid to experiment with a few things!

    • @intentionalliving7326
      @intentionalliving7326 Před 3 lety

      Yeyy keep going sistah 🤗☀️

  • @gem010677
    @gem010677 Před 3 lety +1

    "You're not gonna live your best life because of some rando on the internet?"...hilarious....AND SO TRUE!! These videos always make me feel like a best mate has just given me a pep talk. Love it. xx

  • @dearlyivy5620
    @dearlyivy5620 Před 3 lety

    Just when I needed it, I saw your vid. Thank you. Bless you, love! 💕

  • @patriciacasal636
    @patriciacasal636 Před 3 lety

    Love it!! So inspiring

  • @ashleighlogansbooks
    @ashleighlogansbooks Před 3 lety

    Erin you don’t understand how much you spoke to me in this video. I’m working through everything you mentioned with fear of judgement being at the top of that list. Definitely will be watching this video multiple times for encouragement and motivation to keep doing the work on myself in my own time. Thank you for your content!

  • @valenalova
    @valenalova Před 3 lety

    Love your energy Erin! 💛 also loving this series, find your advice really helpful and inspiring 🙏 I definitely need to work on being patient and like you say build a sustainable career, as I’m SO passionate about sharing and helping others too 💓 looking forward to seeing your next video!

  • @danafelipe4527
    @danafelipe4527 Před 3 lety

    This is what I needed. Your videos always leave me inspired 💜💜💜💜

  • @rawolives
    @rawolives Před 3 lety +2

    You look amazing! Love the softer lighting/chill vibe!

  • @sarahc47
    @sarahc47 Před 3 lety +2

    You are really leveling up with your content these days Erin! Also the setup is so professional 👏🏽🧡

  • @magaliebrunelle8370
    @magaliebrunelle8370 Před 3 lety

    That’s the best video about the subject I ve ever heard and I have watched sooo many lol thank you ( just subscribed 😊)

  • @sarahlajuett6273
    @sarahlajuett6273 Před 3 lety

    This is my FAVORITE video and it’s how I found you, it’s so inspiring, I can feel my life shifting.

  • @shanikpakeer
    @shanikpakeer Před 2 lety

    Love this as all your other videos Erin 🙂

  • @illgetmycoat1254
    @illgetmycoat1254 Před 3 lety

    Wow this was so good. I'm literally doing this at the moment and good to hear I'm on the right path. My anxiety is getting to grips with the techno side of starting a business. Website, socials, uploading stuff etc... I struggle as its not my happy place. Any vlogs on this would be great.

  • @VivienPap
    @VivienPap Před 2 lety

    Your videos are so fun/interesting to watch and honestly so inspiring ❤️

  • @rika87sp
    @rika87sp Před 3 lety

    Good video Erin. I need to work on posting weekly to my CZcams

  • @andreakennedy7115
    @andreakennedy7115 Před 3 lety

    I love listening to you!!! I love how you explain things. Thank you so much for doing what you do💕🙏🥰

  • @sacdaabdurhman
    @sacdaabdurhman Před 3 lety +1

    Amazing video Erin, I really didn’t know who I am, really going to a medical school won’t solve my problem then I started experimenting things, took classes and volunteer. NOW I discovered myself and passion. Even if trying to take a break would give you back time for yourself I would say do it.
    Yeah STAY HEALTHY and HAPPY 💜

  • @chanorou2075
    @chanorou2075 Před 3 lety

    Thanks Erin for the video. I pray I am able to use your videos as a tool to find clarity of purpose and all. ❤️

  • @lovelyleehere
    @lovelyleehere Před rokem

    Thank you very much for this video, I recently came across your Channel and I thank God I did because I have been learning a lot

  • @staceyshine712
    @staceyshine712 Před 3 lety +1

    Experiment, I'm in a self development phase. And I'm just realizing that I love it. The possibility, trying new things, changing, growing and becoming the next new best version of myself. I'm just realizing to appreciate it and to let go of fear that's hiding behind perfectionism.

  • @stepankapersis
    @stepankapersis Před 3 lety

    Fantastic in all the ways👌🏻 Thank you Erin!!

  • @karthia.creates_
    @karthia.creates_ Před 3 lety

    This is god sent ! thank you so much !

  • @Coachlindiwecara
    @Coachlindiwecara Před 3 lety

    your video are incredible. this hit me and its amazing

  • @kieranhuisman1291
    @kieranhuisman1291 Před rokem

    Thanks for this informative content. You're a very smart person. Cheers from Melbourne

  • @jackiek4159
    @jackiek4159 Před 3 lety

    Your videos are always soo timely to what I'm going through in life and are really helpful! Thank you beautiful! 🙏🏻💞

    • @Erinmayhenry
      @Erinmayhenry  Před 3 lety +1

      So glad you found this one helpful beautiful

  • @amw804
    @amw804 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow so glad this popped up on my feed! Going to see what other content you have now 💕

  • @sophiayuna
    @sophiayuna Před 3 lety

    i like distinguishing jealousy from inspiration! such a good point

  • @JoyfulLivingLinda
    @JoyfulLivingLinda Před 3 lety +1

    Wow, this video had such a poweful and (at least for me) life-changing message! There were so many things that resonated with me big time!

  • @madeleinepousar
    @madeleinepousar Před 3 lety +1

    I’m experimenting right now and I love it! 😀

  • @presentlymine
    @presentlymine Před 3 lety

    The editing. The editing is everything 😍😍😍

  • @SADEKELLY_
    @SADEKELLY_ Před 3 lety

    I’m working on letting the judgment of others not get to me, especially the people close to me.

  • @Lu.appleton
    @Lu.appleton Před 3 lety

    I’ve just downloaded your workbook and wanted to say thank you 💗🙏💗

  • @missevelynslife9162
    @missevelynslife9162 Před 3 lety +1

    I have never comment, but I was telling my husband how you have inspired me to start my CZcams Chanel. I had to quite my job due to the pandemic and watch one of your videos and inspired me to just go for it.

  • @HappierbySeppy
    @HappierbySeppy Před 3 lety +1

    Girl. Your confidence lately is CONTAGIOUSSSSSS !!!! I love seeing this side of you!!!!!

  • @PlanwithLaken
    @PlanwithLaken Před 3 lety +1

    Your videos are changing my life! Thank you!

  • @Heather-nm4qj
    @Heather-nm4qj Před 3 lety

    Sustainable success takes time 👏🏼 need to repeat this to myself daily

  • @chenlanorange
    @chenlanorange Před 3 lety

    Your hair is gorgeous!

  • @dianacousins6994
    @dianacousins6994 Před 3 lety

    💯 thumbs up 🙂

  • @emmacolseynicholls1
    @emmacolseynicholls1 Před 3 lety

    I love your game changers collective for helping us dive into this some more. Though I'm also really grateful to have found my career which I love from a young age.

    • @waelfaraj6705
      @waelfaraj6705 Před 3 lety

      There is a book called
      Ikigai where your mission interests with your passion plus profession plus vocation . You get paid by producing what you love and skillful at being what the world requires...

    • @Erinmayhenry
      @Erinmayhenry  Před 3 lety +1

      Awww so glad you are enjoying it!

  • @EmmaCaitlain
    @EmmaCaitlain Před 3 lety +1

    Couldnt agree more 👏🏼 I quit a business and a podcast (made 2 episodes and gave up haha), but now I have a CZcams channel instead and that’s much more aligned with me! I feel excited with all the ideas I have now. Great video as always babe x

  • @chanorou2075
    @chanorou2075 Před 3 lety

    You've got a new subscriber also 🥰

  • @emmajeanbx
    @emmajeanbx Před 3 lety

    Wow! Erin, the editing and visual quality of these videos are spectacular! 🌟 I’m here for it all.

    • @Erinmayhenry
      @Erinmayhenry  Před 3 lety

      Thank you so much x

    • @lisajames8010
      @lisajames8010 Před 3 lety

      @@Erinmayhenry isn’t this where you would credit @mikejamesproductions

  • @intentionalliving7326
    @intentionalliving7326 Před 3 lety

    ☀️ See it all as a fun adventure✨✨

  • @sacdaabdurhman
    @sacdaabdurhman Před 3 lety

    START journaling for self discovery and do things you are passionate

  • @NoelleSam
    @NoelleSam Před 3 lety

    How does one experiment effectively? How did you build strong resilience?

  • @KaylaNoelle1
    @KaylaNoelle1 Před 3 lety

    At the beginning of the pandemic I was about to graduate university, my mom had her dream job with an airline, and I was planning on a year of travelling very cheaply with her discount. Ending at my cousin’s ranch in Australia. Instead my mom got laid off and I was sick with Covid-19 when I should have had my graduation ceremony. Now I’m nearly 26, super depressed, having issues with food, my relationship is on it’s last legs, my ferret just passed away and I am literally living below the poverty line while working in health care. My rock bottom ends here. I’ve decided that’s it. I’m getting an inheritance hopefully soon when my grandad’s house finally sells and I am determined to use it to get my life back on track and save. For now I am going to audition for voice acting jobs on the side. I’m trying TikTok I’m trying writing short stories for contests I’m trying making fashion content on Instagram, and when I have the money I’m starting a CZcams channel. I love channels like yours but I think I’d like to fill the niche of motivation from a low point. I want to build a viewer base that can grown with me and see me take that journey from step one, at rock bottom.

  • @natassjaivanov6617
    @natassjaivanov6617 Před 3 lety +1

    Hey Erin! What would your advice be if your qualifications completely conflict with your ideal career !? For example I'm 19 and starting a History degree this September yet I've always been interested in a career in healthcare. None of my other qualifications relate to that at all either and I have zero experience! I feel stuck and really don't know what to do as I don't know where a History degree could lead either x

    • @lilliane4218
      @lilliane4218 Před 3 lety

      Volunteer! Try to volunteer at a hospital as a greeter or as a care worker

  • @TheAdiia
    @TheAdiia Před 3 lety +1

    Goddess!! 🥰

  • @sijilo
    @sijilo Před 3 lety

    🤔👐

  • @owlbookworld5041
    @owlbookworld5041 Před 2 lety

    I think my issue is not other peoples judgement but wasting my time on something I may end up not liking.