Melanie Martinez - Pity Party (Official Music Video) | FIRST REACTION!

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  • čas přidán 27. 08. 2024
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    In this video, Psychotherapist Tom Stevens REACTS to Melanie Martinez - Pity Party (Official Music Video) FOR THE FIRST TIME!
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  • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
    @ReactionTherapyOfficial  Před rokem +23

    Go to our sponsor betterhelp.com/reactiontherapy for 10% off your first month of therapy with BetterHelp and get matched with a therapist who will listen and help.

    • @niblothecactus1735
      @niblothecactus1735 Před rokem +2

      you should listen to Ashnikko - you make me sick .... its super personal and emotional (the hard way) , take a listen if you wish :P

  • @michaelinthebathroom7560
    @michaelinthebathroom7560 Před rokem +347

    Yes, they are Melanie's real tattoos! Also I don't know if you knew this but the line 'It's my party and I'll cry if I want to' was a sample from the song It's My Party by Lesley Gore, which was released in 1963!

  • @VShinkarenko
    @VShinkarenko Před rokem +123

    Interesting fact, Pity Party was based on It’s My Party by Lesley Gore and some pretty traumatic real life events of Melanie. Melanie said she wrote this song so people would understand a tiny bit of how lonely and rejected she was as a child, and the emotions she felt while going through it, just for being "different from the other children". I think a lot of us can relate to that, sadly.
    Oh, also, she invites "Johnny", the character from soap and training wheels, and he doesn't show up. Johnny is also the name of Lesley's boyfriend, that left her party with another girl back in the time, nice easter egg.
    As always, loved the reaction! 😊

  • @The_Real_Emu_Otori
    @The_Real_Emu_Otori Před 2 měsíci +10

    11:06 it’s the fact that crybaby is supposed to not like cake so when she says “there’s way more cake for me” just makes it sadder 😭😭😭

  • @CarlosLopez-on8wh
    @CarlosLopez-on8wh Před rokem +154

    I love how he slowly became a melanie stan since the death mv reaction 🤣❤

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  Před rokem +55

      You’re so right! I love her music and her creativity😊

    • @sophiathe2
      @sophiathe2 Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@ReactionTherapyOfficial welcome to the melanie martinez fandom!!!!!

  • @felixthebrat
    @felixthebrat Před rokem +124

    Next is Tag, You're It and Milk And Cookies double feature.

    • @kirstiebriggs3068
      @kirstiebriggs3068 Před rokem +11

      I was literally just gonna say, that I can't wait for the tag you're it / milk and cookies reaction ❤ XxXxX

    • @Kateluvssuu
      @Kateluvssuu Před rokem +1

      Also Teddy bear and gingerbread man XD

    • @felixthebrat
      @felixthebrat Před rokem

      @@Kateluvssuu Aren't those in the deluxe version? Not part of the main storyline?

    • @felixthebrat
      @felixthebrat Před rokem +1

      @@Kateluvssuu Teddy Bear, Gingerbread Man, Play Date, and Cake are all on deluxe, not the main storyline.

    • @Kateluvssuu
      @Kateluvssuu Před rokem

      @@felixthebrat oh ok

  • @Nevermind-ng7lr
    @Nevermind-ng7lr Před rokem +39

    1. Yes, these are her real tattoos (in the k-12 album, when shooting the film, she covered them up to separate herself from the character (in the portals album, she went further and I think this is a great move))
    2. The names on the invitations reveal the names of the other characters in the previous music videos and the characters that will appear in the next ones (at least one (if I remember correctly))
    ❗Theory❗
    Given that there are 9 candles on the cake, then crybaby is 9 years old at the time of this mv. This means that the chronology of crybaby album and k-12 is parallel for some time (I think that mad hatter (crybaby album) takes place at the same time as the nurse's office (k-12)) since the hairstyles are very similar and in both music videos she uses some kind of drink. Well, either it was just a mistake and I'm looking for a non-existent meaning

    • @Nevermind-ng7lr
      @Nevermind-ng7lr Před rokem +1

      although if you consider the approximate age, given that each song in k-12 is the next grade and year, then at the time of the nurse's office she will be 9, so this theory is probably untenable

    • @shaken_thesaurus2001
      @shaken_thesaurus2001 Před rokem +2

      I always had one candle for good luck, so if she did that she'd be 8

  • @LillyChilders-gn5wr
    @LillyChilders-gn5wr Před rokem +38

    Next is "Tag You're It" she has another double feature video for this one, it also includes next song in the story "Milk & Cookies" GREAT VIDEO BTW! So glad you are loving Melanie :)

  • @miadoja9246
    @miadoja9246 Před rokem +11

    Some of her tattoos tell a story (like the rabbit on her thigh). I love how in the video it shows her slowly losing her mind, trying to make herself feel better about it and thinking that she needs to change something about herself,letters,or whatever. I'm glad in k-12 she learns that true friends will be there for you and will love you no matter what. She is actually a super sweet person that likes to spread kindness and love. I would love to see you make a video with her and talk to her in person/video call one day! It would be fun to watch and get to know her more. Plus how she writes her lyrics since they're very unique and like a poem.

  • @lordiedams348
    @lordiedams348 Před rokem +11

    a interesting detail, right after pity party is tag, you're it, and at the start of tag, youre it you can see cry baby putting the party items in the trashcan

  • @donieka27
    @donieka27 Před rokem +24

    I love her! I love to celebrate other people's birthdays more than my own. I like making people happy, but never expect anything on my birthday.

  • @Llama_Loca
    @Llama_Loca Před rokem +15

    This song is actually based on Melanie’s 3rd birthday party :,

  • @taylorrae3947
    @taylorrae3947 Před rokem +7

    My junior year of HS I was president of our GSA. I planned an LGBTQ+ Prom and literally there were 10 people there. The core of my club, my date, and the people I paid to work the event. Super depressing because I put in a lot of work, especially marketing, but we still had a great time. Everyone danced together and my date was really awesome.

  • @elisakrivas
    @elisakrivas Před rokem +9

    Next is Tag, You're It and Milk and Cookies double feature (Milk and Cookies is my personal favorite on the Crybaby album).
    Also, not sure if you noticed that Crybaby wrote an invitation to Johnny (the boy from Soap and Training Wheels) and he didn't show up to her party either.

  • @isabellastewart1577
    @isabellastewart1577 Před rokem +9

    On one of my birthdays either 16 or 17 my aunt offered to host my party and my Mom agreed because the apartment we lived in at the time was to small and so she said we could have it at her place so we started planning my birthday party but my aunt also wanted it to be a Valentine's day party so my other aunts asked if they could get any decorations and My Mom and I agreed to have their help and Mom and I got the cake, extra chairs for seating and got all other things handled. Long story short; there was none of the decorations for my party and it's was all just about Valentine's day and the only thing that signified my birthday party was the cake that said happy birthday bella on it and since there I've only celebrated with My Mom and my siblings 😔😳😅😂

  • @guy-david
    @guy-david Před rokem +6

    It's sometimes very easy to confuse reality and fiction. Cry Baby is a fictional character written by Melanie Martinez. She had a different fictional life than her writer, who is a real person and has a different (and much better) life than her creation. The writer sometimes weaves her own experience into the story. Still, she sometimes draws from other people around her, like the Cry Baby origin story (the first three songs on the Cry Baby album) influenced by a story from her neighbourhood.

  • @NOT_Doma
    @NOT_Doma Před 3 měsíci +2

    You know what’s sadder than nobody showing up to your party? Is having a birthday party with your cousin cuz y’all’s birthday is a week apart and both of you invite people and everyone they invited you feel uncomfortable around and all of them came but nobody you invited came and nobody even looks at you and all the attention is on him

  • @nikitakerry1362
    @nikitakerry1362 Před 7 měsíci +4

    It sucks when nobody shows up for your birthday

  • @gloomysunday9534
    @gloomysunday9534 Před rokem +10

    9:35 oww that hit me like a ton of bricks..last week end there was a huge family reunion with my whole family and i was left behind, im the only one without a car and its been 5 years since ive seen my grand parents, my aunts and uncles, cousins...and nobody came to pick me up, nobody called me...even my mom and sister went...i told my mom how excited i was to see everyone and how important it was. i cant even tell you how awful i feel realizing no one cares 😞

  • @user-mj6mf7jc6t
    @user-mj6mf7jc6t Před 11 měsíci +3

    Party party yeah

  • @Itsklljoyy
    @Itsklljoyy Před rokem +4

    On my 18th birthday I had a birthday party and invited a bunch of people and no one showed up. So I’ve never celebrated my birthday since. Im 30 now. 😅

  • @tblwsam
    @tblwsam Před 4 dny

    That happened to my mom and she felt so sad. She didn’t even wanna have a birthday, but that was like when she was little.

  • @lifewithcosmic
    @lifewithcosmic Před rokem +5

    Ay hes back with mel lets goo oo
    Get ready for this story to get dark in the next double feature song 🎉🎉

  • @xowox8909
    @xowox8909 Před rokem +6

    I hope you can react to all the albums/singles that aren't about crybaby storyline! I'll love to see your reaction to some of her singles like teddy bear, death to me, gingerbread man, notebook, etc etc! I love your reactions so much and your lil dances and reactions are so cute and funny, such dad moves! 😂♥️

  • @scarlet2433
    @scarlet2433 Před rokem +2

    There is an interveiw where she explains some of her tattoos! She has a green hat and pink outfit if that helps!

  • @Madhattermealinemartienz
    @Madhattermealinemartienz Před 2 měsíci

    I love when this guy is always friends with a good mood and likes the beats until when something bad happens and hes like “what dee heeeeel”

  • @lynagamer2918
    @lynagamer2918 Před 2 měsíci

    It happened to me (nobody showed up to my birthday) on my 10th birthday. I waited outside for hours and no one showed up i decorated and was so excited at the end i spent my birthday alone with my mom and cousin.

  • @Kourden
    @Kourden Před rokem +1

    I had forgotten to come here to talk about the songs, in pity party the main theme is the loneliness that consumes cry baby, her family is not with her and her friends are not really worthy of carrying that title, at the beginning of pity party we see how cry baby takes her birthday invitations to her so-called friends, including jhonny, who as I said in the soap and training wheels video, he decided to walk away from cry baby because he did not know how to take a relationship further, so that no one attends cry baby's party and she unleashes her great and immense anger at her party, destroying everything she ever built to celebrate her birthday,
    i love your video reacts, y forget come here to comment 🤧🤧💗💗

  • @M1ZUK1_XXX
    @M1ZUK1_XXX Před 2 měsíci

    I love how he loves Melanie Martinez because most people say oh no, she’s weird why she look like that but I grew up with her. I love her she will forever be my favorite ❤️

  • @JeminiTheRipper
    @JeminiTheRipper Před rokem +1

    I never had people show till I was in High school and it was only one person my best friend and he still sticks by me and me stick by him. With how quiet I was and always read a book no one tried to know me only he did and he learned we had a lot in common and he hated people assumed they didn't like me without getting to know me.

  • @fxiry.odxtte
    @fxiry.odxtte Před měsícem

    i honestly feel the pain in crybaby this mv made me nearly wanna cry

  • @Radomfizz4u
    @Radomfizz4u Před 10 měsíci +1

    THIS MY FAV MUSIC VID FROM THIS ALBUM

  • @danielcoats2691
    @danielcoats2691 Před rokem +2

    Those are her real tattoos! She's has a lot lol She done a video talking about the tattoos she has at that time. She's gotten more since then

    • @danielcoats2691
      @danielcoats2691 Před rokem

      Here's a link to the video of her talking about her tattoos czcams.com/video/AsYsbjUiq78/video.html

  • @SassafrasTee7366
    @SassafrasTee7366 Před 2 měsíci

    This is my favorite song of hers

  • @heathermcmin1263
    @heathermcmin1263 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I know the feeling, no one showed up for my sweet sixteen. It was just me, mom and my cat😢

  • @Lil-Boba
    @Lil-Boba Před měsícem

    You said you wanna learn abt her tattoo’s? Ik a fact abt the bunny head one! Its sad-When she was a kid she had a bunny and she left it with her friend that also had a bunny! She came back to her friends place to see her bunnies head in the backyard because her friend left them alone in the backyard for a few hours ):

  • @mistressthorn
    @mistressthorn Před 7 měsíci

    Yep I can relate to this. Lucky me my birthday was always on or near Spring Break so very few of my friends were able to come to my birthday parties because their families always went away on vacation somewhere, so that was more on the parents than my friends. It always made me mad and yes I did blame my parents asking why they had me at the "wrong time"
    This is my favorite song and I love that she sampled It's My Party by Lesley Gore which is another favorite of mine. I love her psychotic scream before she goes nuts and then watching her descent into madness

  • @Theoneandonlyrealspiderman

    Hey!! You should try cavetown, his songs talk a lot about mental health! Just a suggestion:)

  • @wizardlar
    @wizardlar Před rokem +2

    You know what I’m pretty sure those tattoos she has are actually real :)!

  • @Callmehlivvehcat
    @Callmehlivvehcat Před rokem +1

    Hii i really enjoy you're videos and breaking down song meanings! I'm not really sure if you take request but if so can you do baby bugs next?

  • @novafrost6964
    @novafrost6964 Před rokem +1

    It’s been a while since a billie reaction, could you consider “listen before I go”? It’s such a beautiful dark and eerie song!

  • @marygeorge9303
    @marygeorge9303 Před rokem +1

    Love this Melanie Martinez series, but now it's time to introduce yourself to "Portals"

  • @Aaron_145
    @Aaron_145 Před 4 měsíci +1

    U are so nice and fun u always make my day🍄

  • @Jojo-zt6td
    @Jojo-zt6td Před rokem +2

    Please next do mad hatter

  • @SJ_Killingspree
    @SJ_Killingspree Před rokem

    You should do Fire drill when you have a chance. It was supposedly scrapped from the ending of k-12

  • @meikeetencate4335
    @meikeetencate4335 Před rokem +1

    I'm hoping you'll react to afraid of the dark by chef'special. Anyways love your content, but I always prefer watching reactions to songs I already know. It allows me to see these songs in a different light.

  • @calliewall6256
    @calliewall6256 Před rokem +1

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Angelina-cf7fz
    @Angelina-cf7fz Před 7 měsíci

    It would be interesting to analyze her tattoos for a video lol

  • @TheRealBoxten
    @TheRealBoxten Před 27 dny

    Wait is that clock from duck season or is the clock from Melanie Martinez and then duck season borrowed it😮 cuz I really don't know😅

  • @Cannibalists
    @Cannibalists Před rokem +1

    can you place the betterhelp ad at the start at all so we dont have to skip through it? , good reaction but just wondering or is it stuck like that for sponsor reasons

    • @ReactionTherapyOfficial
      @ReactionTherapyOfficial  Před rokem +2

      I’ll have to check in that, it may be random?

    • @Cannibalists
      @Cannibalists Před rokem +1

      @@ReactionTherapyOfficial Thankyou good sir =) , regardless if that just how it is , thats just how it is , im sure we can live with it haha , keep it up always appreciate daily dose of reactions

  • @MysticLGD
    @MysticLGD Před rokem +1

    Cool .

  • @isaacdahab1
    @isaacdahab1 Před 7 měsíci

    people not showing to my celebrations is why i stopped celebrating anything

  • @dee_1016
    @dee_1016 Před rokem +1

    PLEASE DO UNRENDERED BY BONES PLEASE‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

  • @AndyB80808
    @AndyB80808 Před rokem

    Hi, any chance of doing Tim Minchin "darkside" (awesome version) please?

  • @momodoropomodoro8939
    @momodoropomodoro8939 Před rokem

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Ilovetoxicyuri
    @Ilovetoxicyuri Před rokem +2

    Not better help😭 i mean get your coin but I heard they are shitty 💀

  • @RimuruPhantomhive-ln3up
    @RimuruPhantomhive-ln3up Před 3 měsíci

    Please react to numb little bug

  • @user-vm9ed9bc1k
    @user-vm9ed9bc1k Před rokem

    Please react to American girl group ‘Boys World’ song ‘relapse’

  • @Gelatin_veins
    @Gelatin_veins Před rokem +1

    Hii

  • @madelinesplaytime6422
    @madelinesplaytime6422 Před měsícem

    Crybabys life is horrible because nobody came to her birthday party and she got kidnapped the day after her birthday

  • @sydneymiller3954
    @sydneymiller3954 Před rokem

    Please please do some Sleep Token reactions!!!

  • @anthonynguyen4715
    @anthonynguyen4715 Před rokem

    Have you ever heard of any melanie songs before doing reactions?

  • @neonislame
    @neonislame Před rokem +1

    Early!

  • @HappinessKillingMe
    @HappinessKillingMe Před rokem +1

    stop promoting betterhelp...

  • @matthewb5087
    @matthewb5087 Před rokem +1

    4th! and early!

  • @FnafGamer728
    @FnafGamer728 Před 7 měsíci

    I think you should react to Oliver Tree. His videos are weird lol