How I improved my style + confidence!
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- čas přidán 2. 07. 2024
- My style evolution! Today I share how I found my style and confidence in the last four years. It has been a journey ya'll! I also share tips on how to find your style and confidence!
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00:00 - Into
00:40 - 2018 rainbow boi phase
02:53 - 2019 edgy baggy phase
04:40 - 2020 feeling fem
05:23 - 2021 timeless fashion
06:28 - Haircut phase
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My style evolution 😎 My intent with this video is not to bash my old outfits, my 2019 fits were top tier lol. It is simply to show how my self image evolved with each phase :)
2018 - rainbow boi phase - 0:40
2019 - edgy baggy phase - 2:53
2020 - feeling fem - 4:40
2021 - timeless fashion - 5:23
Haircut phase - 6:28
Girl your style is beautiful in each phase! I love it !
I love it! 2020 kinda brought me to also have more of a capsule "minimalistic" closet, and I love it, also have been doing way more thrifting, so definitely have been inspired. Pretty pls make more videos on how to thrift the perfect peices, and actually putting stuff together❤ keep being a chingona!
Hey penny
Can you please try out the Phil Smith curly locks curl cream next?
Please do a video wherein you give us a breakdown and guidelines on how to assemble a timeless capsule wardrobe. Your tips and tricks will be greatly appreciated 😊
Actually i like the old style as much as the new style. Both are authentic because they reflect the personality of the time. Her style changed because her personality changed too. Now she's a more mature person, but it's still cool.
Yes!this! The evolution of her style is golden 😂😂
my thoughts exactly and its okay to go between the two
I think we should normalize dressing how we feel for each day, everyone always tries to pick a style and stay with it 24/7, some days I wana dress more "masculine", some days more "feminine", some days more baggy or sporty, one day more dressy, they're all me, just different moods!
Same
Honestly very well put. We box ours in way too much for no reason 😂😂 wear the dress or wear the cargo shorts or both no one should care that much! You just do you hun!
Girl don’t even sleep on yourself like that, you were the shit
Facts !
Wdym?
@@Minahil111 theyre saying penny shouldn't be so hard on herself because she always had amazing style (according to them)
@@melowlw8638 ok tysm!
I don't doubt billie liked your post purposefully, and was maybe looking for style like yours, because her style until recently was very similar to that 'tomboy era'. don't undervalue yourself ♡
Yes! I had the picture where Billie actually had the yellow smth style that she wore as well. It’s circa 2017
I remember the rainbow boi phase and i still like it. Back then you inspired me a lot to experiment with a more masculine look
I actually want to experiment with a more refined masculine look! Def wanna experiment with more androgynous fashion
Same!
Same i recently cut my hair short as well and love the androgynous look
dude, but you were ahead of the game with those looks. i used to avoid shorts, skirts, v-necks because of my curves. i'm almost 30 and finally realize that i look good and i shouldn't have to "hide" my body. i'm still covering a lot (grew up with the "modest is hottest" burned into my head), but i still get "the looks" 👀 definitely looking for well-made, staple pieces to define my style.
babe, you ate in every era. and you're still eating 🤪
she is! she could wear a paper bag and still be snatched
😋🍽️
@@nathalieschumann8499 they're saying all of Penny's outfits have been good throughout the years
@@richardpapenapologist1703 😂😂Lolll fr
Yesss she has dope style !!! 🥂❤
"now i find myself being 100% comfortable in my femininity AND my masculinity"
I can't afford fashion, but when I can it's over for the girlies.
Most of my clothing is thrifted, my fav jeans cost $10 :)
Yo, thanks for talking about the whole, "Being afraid to be feminine" thing, of course your story is a bit different than mine, but over the last year I really decided that I wanted to wear dresses and skirts more often, because there's nothing wrong with it! It's just what I like, and so what if they aren't figure hugging and short, I feel most comfortable in a long flowy dress/skirt because a) I think it just looks good on me, b) I don't have to constantly worry about bending over and showing everyting, and c) I can still do yard work yo! I have found that for me, putting a little more effort into actually putting together an outfit is not as uncomfortable or time consuming as I thought it would be.
Long story longer, thanks for sharing!
I love that your husband supported you through all your fashion changes
My thing is that I currently feel content, probably because I’ve had the same style since high school. I feel confident, but I feel like I’ll be even more confident if I develop a new style. On another note, I’m so glad that you’ve grown and you’ve found your confidence!
I would say look at the current pieces that make you feel the BEST. Analyze the color, texture, fit, cut, and aesthetic. And try to build on that!
@@PennyTovar Thank you for the advice, I’ll definitely try that!
@@PennyTovar hello ,penny oh my Jesus ! I can relate to you in so much I think we had the same struggles but I just wanted to say ur videos have been very helpful and ur funny too ! So u go girl!! ...but Can I ask what r your pet peeves?
Ive always felt uncomfortable with feminine clothes like dresses and heels. But also very afraid to wear masculine pieces, because of the stereotype that all gay women dress like men. But the way i have learned to not be afraid is to find the sweet spot for me, by wearing both traditionally masculine and feminine pieces. And playing around with makeup, but also to anyone reading this, just because you feel comfortable and confident in “mens” clothing doesn’t mean you aren’t a women. Mixing both is the way I express my femininity!
Thank you so much for this post.:) I’m in a space now where most times I’m wearing tomboy, masculine however one wishes to put it most often. But I still do like the feminine side as well and bringing both those ideas together. I’m reminding myself as a person I can wear whatever style. We don’t have to stick to one aesthetic. Trying to learn to let go of stereotypes and judgments of others. And it’s okay to try things out, you aren’t bound by the stereotypes. This is our lives! Let’s live it!🥰
I just prefer feminine style on my part
samee here i try to dress and act feminine so i don’t have to be that typical lesbi but now im trying to dress more androgynous to stop hiding
Your old style gave me confidence to be content in who I am, without feeling the need to conform to today's beauty standards. I really appreciated seeing that.
If your late teens and early - mid 20s aren’t for discovering yourself....what are they for? 🤔 you needed everything that came before now to get to here! 🔥🔥🔥💎
Don't despise your younger self/style, it was cool! We're all evolving, and one day you'll look back at those early pics with nostalgic affection.
I honestly loved your rainbow baggy boy phase, it was so cool and unique to you. If it is something you still love, you can mix it with the vibe that you are going for today. Also the femininity, I don't believe in quitting one thing just to stick to a style. There are ways that you can think about to blend everything together inna cohesive way. At least that's what I've done and I am happy with the results.
Penny.. you don't have to dunk on your old style to justify your new one.. both are really great, you have always looked cool.
I have absolutely loved all of your style phases. You've looked incredible every step of the way. But I absolutely love what your style has evolved into now, solely because you are so much more confident in your own skin and that looks good on everyone.
The tomboy phase will never leave. It helps with being able to move thru the gendered norms. I love it, you grew so much! Continue to mix it all up! 💕
i can’t imagine how damaging the internalized misogyny was to deal with as a child. it’s insane how toxic a church can be because that’s where we go for spirituality
It was VERY damaging. I'm 26 and barely now healed from it.
but your fits were always fire 🤷🏽♀️
It's crazy because I always felt like I had equal amount of masculine and feminine energy but only "embraced" the fem side and along with this timeline, I learned to embrace both and all because I follow you!! Ily :,)
as a fellow 2018 rainbow boi phase girl, I FELT this. It's been amazing seeing your style evolve parallel to your content & mental health :) excited to see where your fashion inspo takes you next!
i started watching you in 2019 and at the time all i wanted was to dress like you. i followed so so many accounts with that style. now i want more of a mature, simplistic style. it feels like we’re going through it together 😭😂
Same!
Penny, you look amazing now but your colorful looks were also super bomb, so please, no slander. ✋🏼🙄💕 they still inspire me to this day 🤧
Don't be too hard on your 22 y.o. self! At the time, you thought that was the best for you and honestly you seemed happy. I've been watching you since 2018 and I enjoyed seeing you develop into what you are today. 5 years from now, maybe your style will be so different that you'll make another video like this. Luv u ❤
I’m so proud of you. I didn’t realize how uncomfortable with my body until I look at old pictures of myself and how I dressed. It didn’t help with my confidence at all and I had no idea how to even learn how to dress the way I wanted to. Thankfully I finally figured it out and the past year I have been in the most confident and comfortable with myself.
I met you on your old style and totally loved it. I love your new style as well. The thing is that you've always dressed just as you felt like it. That's empowering. Love from México and sorry from my english hsjs.
all your looks have been amazing!
All your styles are amazing, everything looks so good on you, I'm so happy you're feeling more confident and you went through that healing journey, your confidence is really showing and we love to see it 💜💜💜💜
The moment you posted your vlog about cutting your hair. I always kept saying to myself how you were truly being your true authentic self. I’m very proud of you Penny, can’t wait to see what phase you’ll be in next. And personal opinion your current fashion style is my personal favorite of yours
I remember your tomboy phase like it was tomorrow! I loved seeing your style evolve tho, you always have the most fire fits
I'm currently transitioning my life and trying to get used to wearing what makes me just comfortable. This video is perfecttttly timed ✨.
This came just right on time. I'm in the middle of finding my style, having that weird relationship with fashion, trying to be the most comfortable I can be and this helped a lot ❤️
I've always liked your style because it's very authentic! You always look like you and no one else, and I love how it has changed 😍
I’m so proud of you penny!! I saw a video a while back where you try on tight clothes and had a feeling you struggled with embracing your femininity. I grew up with brothers and it also took me a while to find my feminine style. Today I literally wear any style feminine or masculine and everyone compliments my outfits. Thank you for making this video for all the young girls out there with the same struggle!
Happy for you Penny! It's been fun to see you evolve and grow into different styles! I keep coming back to your videos not just to see that, but because of who you are and you're great personality!
I love the progression of your style. It's so refreshing to see online how your style progresses through your life changes and personal identity unlike the other style progression of other influencers solely hopping on every microtrend there is.
I love watching the evolution of your style. You are definitely rocking the shorter hair, I LOVE the curly bangs on you.
Penny, you look amazing, and you’ve always rocked your own style. I’m very glad that you’re feeling more comfortable in your own skin. It shows.
I really needed this video rn, thank you
It’s so cool to see your fashion evolution:) I can see how each year influenced the next. Nice!
I love your videos!!!!
So happy for you penny!! You’re light always shines so bright and I’m happy you finally are at a comfortable phase with your style and also mind! Much love. Xoxo
I love you so much Penny! You are an amazing human being!
Love your style evolution. Absolutely gorgeous. Thanks for sharing.
I'm so proud of you. I have been a subscriber and a supporter since 2018 when I was a middle schooler. I wasn't doing so good either, I was being bullied very harshly and that made me feel very insecure for being a bigger girl. And watching you grow all these years has made me so happy and proud of you and hopefully one day I could do the same. I still feel insecure and now I'm in 11th grade but hopefully, I could embrace my femininity as well. Love you penny
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Salem and Penny uploading on the same day is the universe trying to tell me that everything is ok
Please do a video of “must have” pieces of clothing for a capsule wardrobe ❤️❤️
I LOOOOOVED your new look and outfits! They’re 10/10 I myself love fashion and I do think too that it’s a way to show how you grow and I loved you mention that
So so happy for you, Penny.💕 You are an inspiration!!💕
I'm so proud of your growth Penny
I love all your styles !!
What you said about becoming confident both with your masculinity and your femininity definitely resonates. Goals! I liked seeing the transformation and enjoyed all the looks you showed. 💞
I can’t believe I’ve been subscribed this long to see the evolution. I love that !
I'm actually so proud of you. It really shows that you're confortable with yourself
omg I love seeing your style journey :')!!
All I will say is that every style evolution that you have had has been a style icon for me I love every single aspect of it and I incorporate it all into my life. Because I’m a little bit of all of it
girl I love every style that you have/had!
I looove sliding between feminine and masculine looks and especially looking a little androgynous.
Love the duality of your feminine and masculine side. Such an important message for people to hear. You are amazing! 🤩🥳
Honestly, you seem very self aware and it shows; you've grown so much and I think confidence comes from that, too. That's what youth is for, not to have it all figured out :) Love seeing you shine, Penny!
I love the confidence you show, I love how you try new things you like without losing your essence! I love you Penny and I’ve followed you since 2018 and I’ve seen how much you progressed emotionally and professionally! You’re an inspiration ❤️✨
I’ve been a “not girly” girl since I was a kid but thought it was wrong, ever since I met you, I found out it’s not wrong at all ❤️ you’re a superstar!!!! ✨💜
I'm loving your new style!
So happy for you Penny!! I love this new look and your evolution not only outside but inside! I’m sorry you had to go through religious trauma. As a Christian, it hurts to see you go through that. You are so beautiful ❤️ sending love and positivity to you
I think your very expressive and living the life!! Keep going!!
Loved this video!!!!!!!! All your styles, past and present --- FABULOUS!!!! 💗 And your message is inspirational and encouraging. Thanks!!💖
Girl you’ve got style! You had style then and you have it now. I love the way of dressing you used to do, the colour choices are so good! I really relate to not wanting to be dressing super feminine and the safety in dressing more masc/covered up. It’s interesting how style can reflect how we feel in so many different ways. I’ve had similar extreme phases with being either hyper fem or really masc and now i have really happy balance and playful mix of the two 😊 love seeing you become more confident too!!
You look SO stunning AHHHH I cannnnn‘t!!!!!!
I’m loving every bit of this 😬😬
I love you penny!!! ❤️❤️❤️
I love everyyy look!!! and love how vulnerable you are! Growth!
we love you girl!
You're style was and is 🔥🔥🔥!
Love your style!
Go penny!!!! I loved your boi face! I’m so happy you are in a good place ! ♥️
SHE IS BEAUTY SHE IS GRACE!!! I admired every part of your fashion evolution and I think every part reflected you very well at the time, Im finding myself in the same fashion predicament each year. Much love to you and thank your for sharing your journey.🥰💗
You're such an icon. Every season was incredible
I really like the style that you're going for right now. You look amazing! ♥
Girl! You are the shhhh!! Before, today, and forever! Love you Penny 😍💗
Yo, all your fashion was a look. I think you looked fantastic the whole time, all of it and even now. You're indeed a style icon imo. 👌👏
i love your new style
I’m 55 and have been watching you for years. Style, who you are as a person, and how you choose to express yourself is ever evolving. I have had so very many phases in my life and expect that won’t change. Stay true to yourself!
It's okay to have different styles over time and accept your stylistic choices! Your journey is interesting and how your tied it to your mental health. Thank you for sharing this with us :)
Ive always loved your fashion sense ! Your so unique and I love that about you that you don’t look like everyone else ❤️ you actually inspires me to want to explore my sense of fashion
Hey! I first saw you in your rainbow boi phase and honestly I still love it! I love all your changes and such, but that phase of yours really make me confident because I like to dress really masculine too, and IDK I just felt like seen and understood. Love that little boi phase ♥
I have so much respect and love for you Penny .. You are unique and beautiful.
Your energy and self-respect LITERALLY make me wanna love myself too .. Thank you for everything ❤
You really pull off everything so well
New subscriber! Been following your work for a while but it's really the recent content that is resonating
Penny's videos have always made me feel validated in my feelings but i think this one has probably been the most validating one I've seen
Penny, your style has always been poppinnn
I love to see how comfortable you are with yourself now☺️
You looked amazing in every phase!
everything is about it's time and these were amazing for the time
My favs are 2020 and now style🤩 And the video is really well made, really interesting to see your evolution
I've been trying to be more girly since i lost weight.. Before that i was dressing boyish and baggy to see less of myself
...but I got a lot of comments about that i was just trying to show off my body or trying to hard in general
Confident and comfortable is all that matters. You really have taught me a lot tbh like thank you
Penny, you were crushing it and still are. You rock whatever you wear. You're an icon.
I hella loved your style bruh
Been here since day 1 and i like this evolution!