Girl, Get Up. How I Did It.
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- How I got myself unstuck from years of depression to finally living the life of my dreams
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Starseed…what’s the name of the book you read again and the CZcamsr?
Book - Reality Transurfing by Vadim Zeland. CZcamsr - Aaron Doughty
I love you for sharing this. It has really inspired me. I’m living in my car currently, and worked hard for years until
I was wrongfully terminated: I got really down, but when I saw your video title, I instantly liked and subscribed! Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@KayRadebethank you ❤
Starseed
me too. And lauren, I pray that everything works out for you. I know it will eventually. Don't quit...keep moving forward. I believe your future is very bright.
This is why we shouldn’t give kids participation trophies. Grit is essential. Learning to move from failure to failure without allowing it to crush you is vital to mental wellness. It’s important to teach this at a young age. It’s harmful to only praise children. The real world is hard and will not provide constant praise.
May I please trouble one for help with food and shelter. Anything helps. Thank you ❤ $triumphant33
Well said
Indeed!
Um I think it's less about participation trophies and more that children get abused thus breaking their spirit..
Facts!!!!
You may not be aware of this but you've just set souls free and saved some people's lives. Blessings to you! ♥
🥺❤️❤️❤️
"you've just souls free and saves some peoples' lives"
🙌🙌🙌True💞
@@KayRadebewas the name of the book you recommended
Reality Transurfing by Vadim Zeland
Very motivating 👏
1. Decide what you want to do is possible
2. Research like a maniac 😊
3. Try a bunch of stuff
4. Keep re evaluating your values and choose the best
5. Keep taking massive actions
6. Be present and enjoy every step
Very very powerful,,thank you!😊❤
#starseed
Finding this video is so timely for me as I too have felt lost and unfulfilled for several years. It is definitely time for me to start living again. #starseed
Your video came into my CZcams feed a few minutes ago. I have been down too long, and God is reassuring me that it's time to get up. Thank God for using you as a vessel to help others get up!
That’s always my prayer 🙏🏽
me too its like God knew i needed this
How is it possible that she has lived my exact life. 😢 she came right on time. My goodness, God works in mysterious ways.
Thank you Kay! Thank you
😂🤣 Bathong I've paused this video so many times thinking "how on earth is she talking about me" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
YES HE DO PRAISE GOD IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME WE PRAY AMEN
Same !! Lol
Glad you know it's the Most High. He is always delivering guidance but we often miss it.
same!!!!
Imagine being stuck and having narcissistic partner who is a breadwinner from their home😢. Thank you girl I BELIEVE I WILL GET OUT OF BEING TUCK.❤
Yoh I'm so sorry to hear that 😢😢😢😢😢 if I may ask, what actions would he do to make you say he is one?
The partner is more likely to be distant and not aware of the pain she is going through and often believes that she is lazy, and incapable and exclude her from all financial decisions!!!
Stop believing that you are a victim 🎉
@@CamaguNcoso it starts by being the protector of your home and as a result, there would not be any victims to start with.
Am soo sorry am also going through that same thing but now it's getting better coz of prayers nothing but God
People underestimate the trauma & negative side effects of a toxic work environment and workplace bullying. It’s not talked about enough.
You’re so right
Woah! You should be on a stage somewhere, in seminars and webinars speaking these words and telling this story. This is so, so, soooo uplifting 🤲🏽🥹 Thank you for sharing!
I’m so shy but I would love that 🥺 thank you 🙏🏽
One day someone is going to come back here and share how this video literally saved their life. Thank you for sharing your story Kay. ❤️
This video has literally saved my life. ❤
🙌🏽❤️👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I’m dealing with depression right now and life is very difficult. It’s like I don’t even know who I am anymore. I have gained a lot of weight and I don’t really love my body. I feel sad, empty and drained. I have kids that I love more then life itself and they are the only reason I keep going every single day. I love watching your channel and you’re so beautiful, thank you for letting me smile even on the days I just want to cry. Peace and love all the way from Sweden 🇸🇪 ❤
same to me😒
It is well sister. You will sing a new song. Every problem has an expiry date
Stay strong!! Don’t give up!
I was there at that stage 1 week ago. Girl you need to get up and fix your life no one will be there for you only you!
Tips that helped me to be happy is
Praying and connected to the creator
Workout
Clean my space
Reading a book current book I'm reading is “why did nobody told me this before” by Doctor Julie
Journal
And slowly stopping using social media
Affirmation every morning it’s hard but it is worthy
Plan my future into plans A-E
Gratitude
Do not give up on your dreams and your happiness. Think about what makes you happy and try to write it down. We all struggling however we can’t give up!
Show up every day because of you and your loved ones ❤️ you strong mama
Sending you positive vibe ❤️hugs 🫂 you got this 💪🏾
"If I'm going to be stuck here on this planet, then I'm gonna figure out a way to get the life of my dreams." YES!! WHAT SHE SAID!
Starseed. I am that girl who everyone believed in their potential. The first to go to varsity in my family. Straight A student. I have battled depression without knowing especially post-partum depression. I have settled for self love and contentment, taking one day at a time.❤
starseed. I love engineering work but I can not stand working in some companies. especially private. also shaping my career to be what I want has been impossible. so much pain. I started farming 2021 and it saved my life. I have indigenous chicken. I found peace.
I was so depressed before at some point that I cancelled all policies just to prevent myself from commiting suicide. yoh! some dark thoughts. moved to a ground level home because I'd feel an overwhelming urge to jump out of our 4th floor apartment. working from home also was a god sent. that has given me more peace.
thank you for sharing. this life be not easy!
I’m loving this new soft era for sisters! Years ago when I was young I remember dreaming of the perfect life! People laughed and mocked me saying I was delusional and not black enough! Now, fast forward into the future I’ve grown and learned I’m worthy of finer things because I’m a great person. ❤❤❤❤
My God Kay..Ngwanyana !!! It’s 1am and I’ve been crying in bed for a while. Your video just randomly appeared in my feed and I’m shocked! You have no idea how my life is almost exactly like yours. From what you studied to how your studies went to your struggles, lack of support system, depression…EVERYTHING! Thank you for uploading this video. This video was a voice of love and encouragement that I’ve been praying for, a light to a dark time, a calmness to my storm ,a hug that I’ve longed for. You genuinely are a God send..an angel that saved me. I cannot thank you enough. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you Starseed. I don’t know you but I love you. And thank you for loving me Chommie. May God bless you with your hearts greatest desires💖
Thank you Kay.....I am currently more stuck than you were😢
God! Am an engineer who wasted her entire life to be a best version of me.
I have been trough every hardship you mentioned. I even tried to commit sucied many times. Everybody was expecting me to be successfull but i was failing in everything i do. At 29, God started paying me off for all the effort i made. God is watching who hussle hard and pray.
Iyo Kay... I relate to EVERYTHING you're saying😢. I quit my job because it was so toxic and frustrating, went into a business with a friend whom I recently found out has defrauded me. I was suicidal the whole of 2022, My car was repossesed on the day I found out I was pregnant. I hated my pregnancy and cried throughout it. I'm stuck with a house I cant pay. I dont know whether to just sell it and go back home or what to do💔 I cant let go as I've barely even lived in it. Just last night I decided I'm quitting praying, its enough. I can't carry on praying for a situation that just wont change. I dont know how to get myself out of this dark hole i find myself in.
Please don't give up praying and don't lose hope. Trust in the Lord because when all else fails, he remains faithful and will never leave you nor forsake you (though you may feel like that at times). The enemy comes to steal, kill and destroy but the Lord comes to restore and make you whole again. Hang in there sis, the Lord loves you and you will surely testify to his goodness ❤️🙏🏽
Please don’t give up praying. There is a reason why you began praying in the first place… because you believe that God is who he says he is, and he will cause us to become whatever he desires. Keep on believing. This is a dark time, but nothing ever beats the power of prayer. Tell God that you feel like giving up, ask him for strength, inner peace and the courage to keep fighting. He may not help you now, or in a way that you thought he would help, but help is on its way.
Going through the most aswell , can we contact each other and fight ourselves out of this dark place by doing daily routines that will help us get back in our feets I just need an accountability partner
That’s exactly what the devil wants, for you to quit praying then he and his demons will swallow you up. dark times don’t last hun and it is only prayer and thanksgiving that can bring you out.
EPH 6-12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
13 Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand.
Change the direction you pray, don’t pray against your situation anymore, pray against the spirits that are bringing those dark situation into existence. May Good be with you and protect you.
❤❤❤
Starseed This video is just what I needed today. I'm currently in a job that I hate and is causing me so much stress and I'm really considering quitting. The only thing that is still keeping me there is the paycheck and the bills I have to pay. You've just inspired me to start working towards my dream life and to take that leap of faith.
Same! I’m under contract at my current job and I want to quit everyday. They don’t care about us even though without us the workplace would go downhill. I was happy to acquire new skills, however, I’m not being properly compensated and my overtime got cut so…I have been thinking about a few ways to work for myself since I’m leaning towards that way anyway. It’s scary knowing I have bills to pay and if everything tanks I’ll be out of luck. Praying for better days!
How is this my life😢😢😢😢😢😢I am so tired and have no more fight in me
I resigned from my job last month..i loved my job at first until my manager started to be toxic at times..made sure that im stuck in the same salary and no growth..i ended spending 50% of my salary on transport..i was depressed i even lost my baby prematurely 4 months ago after i gave birth at 27 weeks..that was the last straw..now i have started a baking business and i always had a side hustle of mobile salon braiding and installing wigs and making them..but my business started being quite last year..but i prayed to God to show me the way and give me confirmation if i must resign.i finally did and im no longer depressed like i used to but scared at the same time of whats gonna happen since i have to hustle to get clients..but im trusting God for a breakthrough
@@lesegomosete6273 wow so sorry for your loss. I'm praying for you and your business, it will be a success in Jesus Name.
Wow! This was so uplifting. I’m experiencing what you experienced in the past. God wanted me to watch this. I got out of a 9 year relationship last year and didn’t put myself first. I broke up with my ex and been healing. I been single with friends since then. I am 30 years and I start nursing school in a week. I felt like I wasted my whole 20’s. I am proud of myself but I still feel alone and isolated. I have faith that everything will work out in future.
I’m starting to get this feeling that it’s normal to feel like you’ve “wasted” your 20’s. I’m 28 and working my 20s away to be financially secure. No vacations, minimal eating out and very minimal miscellaneous spending. While I am saving money for a more peaceful future, I always get this feeling of dread and anxiety creeping up on me. As if I am wasting away and should be experiencing more. I don’t know if it’s hormones or brain development but anyone I talk to feels like their 20s were just terrible, even if they spent that decade doing things that should be considered positive.
Just live in the present. Use the lessons learned from your 20s to guide you through the rest of your life. We are all gonna be okay ❤️
@@bobbiolivera4858 YESS!! I pray that our future will bring happiness, prosperity, and strength. We got this ❤️
All the best hey!🫂
Hey I am so proud of you! Just incase no one told you.
I am driving to work feeling like shit..my cycle is on. I'm lost in negative thoughts and my mind in racing. I'm having serious childhood flashbacks. I'm tempted to call my husband but know that would mean receive a lecture so i open you tube to find something and young lady you popped up. When i tell you on time, healing is a process, so many times i feel whole and then quit the final steps. There is no short cuts to healing its important to do the full duration. All i can say is Thank you so many of us are stuck, not fufiling our dreams or purpose and we have no clue how to get up.
Starseed. I’m in tears. Thank you for this video. I’m at the stage where I’m trying a bunch of stuff which is something I would have never done a couple of months ago and I’m happy. I quit my toxic job just over a month ago and God has been faithful. I’m at peace. Now I’m on the road to Living The Dream😊❤️
These statements, misquoting a bit - " Management level, salary was good, but work environment TOXIC... i prayed for the job, eventually quit." and "getting into new age spirituality".... yhoo. This is me 1000% and finding your own spirituality surrounded by Christianity is not easy at all. Thank you Starseed for this. I really needed it.
Thank you girl ❤️.i needed this
LOVE YOU FOR THIS ❤
Love that you referenced Pastor Sarah Jakes sermon, its definitely a girl get up season! Your story is so inspiring, highly relatable, and has touched me so deeply. As someone whose also suffered from depression and severe fear of failure. Things have been dark and path of life treacherous but your story is like a light house on the journey. Your authenticity is so refreshing, thank you for sharing your story. Wishing you more success, prosperity & WEALTH! God Bless you.
Yes that sermon was a turning point for me as well!! 🤍
1000% just the message God wanted to hear. I'm right there at rock bottom, stressed out, depressed all while raising a 15month old. So this message is perfectly timed. Thank for letting God use you. May God bless bless bless you more and more.
❤Starseed, thank you for sharing. I needed this 🙏
THANK YOU SOOOOOOOOO MUCH FOR SHARING THIS. I needed this
Your story is inspiring. I am currently at point in my life whereby I want to change everything, I want to start from scratch. I have reading a book and there is a part where it says that life is an illusion, We create the life we want to live in. This book came at the right time because I was afraid. Now seeing your video confirms everything.
What is the name of the book of you do not mind sharing? ❤
You are Badass
@@makwaebalerato8787 thank you so much! I have that book and have yet to read it 🤦🏽♀️ I'm going to start reading it today. Thank you again ❤️
You are welcome
Thank you so much for being kind enough to share this part of your journey with us❤ Exactly what I needed to hear, Starseed!😇
Thank you for this beautiful energy. 🙏🏽🙏🏽💖🙏🏽🙏🏽
So glad you came up in my feed. Thank you for your transparency.🤗🤗🤗
You’re amazing for giving us this part of you. Sending love and light ❤
Ur story is my story, am an engineer as well i did it to make my parent happy, from a young age i been yearning to get approval from them which made me so vulnerable to a point of vultures smelling it from afar and taking advantage of that which led to me being molested at the age of 14. Fast forward i realized later on that i been so hungry to please this ppl that i no longer know who i am and now am on the journey to healing my childhood traumas and loving me and approving my self
Wow this is great self awareness. Proud of you fellow human of your progress👏🏽
@@Youareheretoo Thank u
Thank you for this video soul sister! ❤❤❤ I never would’ve known I needed it until I saw it. So I’m grateful for you and your authentic self, and the parts of yourself that connect with me 🤞🏽
Thank you for this, l needed this ❤... Keep sharing your light
I absolutely love this. I never comment on videos but I love how your courage has inspired so many of us to be more of what we have been called to do.
Thank you. I know I needed this today. You’re absolutely amazing
Starseeeedd!!
Thank you so much for this video. I'm on a journey to healing chronic depression and I am so grateful that you were vulnerable enough to share your story. Much love!❤
This video is the best. A lot are going through the most n this video gives hope.
Starseed! I appreciated this so much! Both myself and someone I care about stuck right now and what you said about suicide it resonated with me on a whole other level. Thank you, keep pushing!
Starseeeeed❤️ thank you for sharing your story beloved it was me you needed to reach!! Our stories are almost identical, and I can’t thank you enough for being generous enough to share yourself with us! peace and positivity to you on your journey. I wish you nothing but the best that life has to offer!!! To freedom bby!!!✨🥂
Thank you Kay ❤ I needed to hear this. You've blessed me with so much grace. I feel hopeful and I am eternally grateful that I stumbled upon your beautiful soul. ✨
This is the most relatable video I have ever come across on this app. You have just given me hope and courage to keep going. Thank you
Yooo you’ve just healed me cc, just watched the video now 😢😢😢😢 thank you so much
Thank you for sharing so honestly, I related sooo much. I had gone from bieng a university lecturer to broke and depressed. This video inspired me to start my CZcams channel to share my knowledge that I’ve been scared to start. Thank you again ♥️
Your story is amazing; there is this fire within you.Don't stop! Glad I stumbled on your channel🎉
Omg this is my story of my life.
Thanks so much for sharing
And this was just so helpful and relatable .I feel my life has just changed after watching this video . There's so much good out there ,and I'm going to achieve it and accumulate so much awards and recognition. I am doing this .
You have been on my mind for days now and as I was going about on this channel boom you have posted, I really needed this as I'm in a time in my life where I feel incomplete but pushing regardless. Thank you soooo much my STARSEED❤
I extend my gratitude to you for taking the time to share your personal story with us. Your willingness to open up and communicate your experiences is truly valued.Thank you.
Girl you're amazing, from wanting to please your parents and learning to love yourself, something I need to learn. Your video Just showed up in my feed, I guess this is my sign❤. Subscribed! Booking the course, and sharing with all my friends.
Great content right here. Just what I needed
Iyooh. This cut deep and hit very close to home. Thank you for sharing ❤
shout out to you Kay. This is so inspirational. Keep doing what you're doing.
You and I have a very similar story. Thank you for being so brave and telling us yours! You have inspired me to take the leap I been yearning to take, but have been to afraid to. Thank you again and a thousand times over.
Starseed. Thank you girl. Really needed😊🎉❤❤
So much sincerity in this video. Thank you for your vulnerability Kay❤️
Thank you for being brave and sharing your story. You took us along with you. You are strong, compassionate and a beautiful being 🥰 Great video!
Well done....needed this...
Beautiful Testimony…Gratitude for sharing Sis 👸🏽💜🙏🏽
Oh my 🥺🥺 you've just given me so much motivation. I've been feeling so helpless and out of touch with myself. I wanna reignite the closeness to myself again. Thank you so much for this.❤😢
Thank you for sharing, your changing lives through your journey
Stressed, thank you i needed to get this, this morning I am at the point of over and out .thank you for the hope
I'm stuck, and have been been through a similar path...academics, work, mental health struggles and I found your story inspiring. Thank you for this
Hi Kay. I have followed part of your journey. Thank you for your honesty and transparency. It must have taken so much courage for you to share. I'm sure that your message resonates with many people. ❤ Starseed
yeah,ppl care and we do care..its so suprising thta you pulled yourself out and went this far,this video will help lots and lots of youth out there.thanks for sharing
thank you for sharing and being real about this topic.
This was sooo cathartic. I feel like I've been holding my breath but man did I not let out a big cry. I wailed. Kay ❤
Ohhh Kay! What a beautiful video. So happy you are at peace now. Starseed✨
Starseed! I’m so glad I didn’t skip this message. I’m experiencing much of the same things u have. So this message hit different and was needed in this very moment. Thanks for being so transparent in sharing your journey and how u are evolving.
I've been looking for this channel ❤
It's crazy how yesterday I was thinking of giving up on my dream and today I see this video. Thank you❤
As soon as you started talking about all of your trials I said to myself this chic is a Starseed🎉 Well done and thank-you so much for your honesty. I wish for you the most amazing future ❤
For some reason today I just bumped to this channel and this is what I needed❤🥺...
thank you for making this video💓
Your story has inspired me so much. This was such a beautiful story 🥺❤️
By just watching this, I know I’m well on my way up!!! Thanks for sharing your story, it’s sounds very familiar to me, from engineering to religion, repossessed car to chronic depression and suicidal thoughts, the eventual awakening! The only way is up!! Keep shining your light gorgeous 😊
love the intro truly powerful & gripping
Thankyou for sharing Kay🙏
Thank you for this. I related so much. Praying for a job and getting one that doesn’t meet your requests, requirements and needs is so heartbreaking. It hurts. I needed this, this has given me hope. 🥺❤️
starseed 💗
I'm truly happy for you 💛 and this video is very timely ❤
Congratulations girl. Thanks for sharing your personal journey experience. More WIN'S to you.
This is so helpful.. thank you Kay..
Starseed . This was so honest and it will definitely help a lot of girls . Girl we are getting up . Thanks for sharing your journey with us .
I agree with you 100% new age helped me so much through a certain part of my journey (it held me accountable, some things were my doing, God wanted me to be accountable) 🙏🏾 I appreciate you sharing your experience ❤ *Starseed*
Wow. Thank you for sharing your story Kay and being honest. I can relate. And we put so much pressure on ourselves.
Thank you for sharing your story. You are absolutely gorgeous!
Glad I bumped into this! Love it Kay. We’re here, the ones who care❤ thank you for sharing your story. Siyagowa in silence and it’s this type of content that lets us know that everything will eventually work out 🌸🤗
Hi Kay, I resonate with what you're saying about the mental health and financial stability. It's commendable that you're sharing your story because we gain strength from you. Thanks again God continue to bless you, love and light!
Yhoooo what an inspiring one. Thank you so much sisi, I really needed this🙏🏽. My life is a mess!
I dont know you before or ever come accross your video but the algorithm brought me to you and I thank God for the gift. Thank you
I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU! May you continue to thrive.
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As someone who recently dropped out of school and is in the process of figuring this thing out, thank you! You’ve said all the things that I didn’t know I needed to hear ❤
❤❤❤ I can relate. You'll be okay
Wow Kay I needed to hear this today will get up u have motivated me thank u so much❤
Thank you so much for this Kay...Starseed😊😊😊
Starseed.
What an amazing video, thank you for your story. I am feeling currently stuck 🥺 but I am feeling very hopeful for the future. I have suffered anxiety and depression because I have always been a "mostly likely to succeed" and after quitting a very toxic job which no one understands why I did it, this video gave me hope . Thank you 🙏🏾🤗❤️
Kay, this video feels unreal because it’s like God used you to relay every single word to me because your story is scarily identical to mine!
THANK YOU!I NEEDED THIS!
I am so appreciative of this video.