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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 4. 10. 2021
- Answering all the TMI questions you're too afraid to ask your mum with some advice from your big sis Al Pal đ. We're chatting about first times, weight loss, weight gain, body image, pap smears, mental health and more :) Don't forget to like & subscribe!
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Yes the intro was a dedication to Britney being freed from her fatherâs conservatorship đ
ally i just wanted to say your videos are so cool, i only found you recently from your taylor swift ranking every song video (im a huge swiftie too) and this video is so cool and its so nice the kind of questions you are willing to answer so thank you for this! i look forward to more videos like this in the future if you do any more of them and i hope you are having a great day.
@@kendall57 aw thank you so much lovely!
I first found your channel through our shared love for Taylor Swift and music in general, but by watching your videos for the past few months you really have become my comfort channel. I saw this video in my feed and immediately clicked, most things you said in this video resonate so closely with me. Even if you don't see this comment I just want to thank you for the kind- hearted, free- spirited, good energy you put out onto the scary place called the internet. Thank you.
I had my first boyfriend and was first intimate when I was 26, when people were getting married and having kids at that age, I felt like the odd one out. That same guy, we're still together over 6 years later â€ïž There's no right or wrong age to be intimate or in a relationship! I'm glad he's the only one I've been with, we have a great relationship and connection, I don't feel like I missed out at all and don't compare myself to others.
Love this so much!!! What a beautiful relationship. I completely agree
hows it goiing now?
@@abigailw7146 still together after 8 years and thriving, going overseas next month together. There's no timeline except the one you set for yourself. â€ïž
@@thesamerain6â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž
just randomly came across this video but wanted to chime in, I didn't have my first relationship or kiss until i was 29. I was always self-conscious of that fact and thought it would never happen but it eventually did! I know it feels hard when it seems all your peers have, but those are just the loudest voices. theres a lot more people than you know that haven't had their "firsts" yet!
Thank you love!! I couldn't agree more
I'm not kidding, this video touched my soul Ally! Its exactly the conversation I needed to have right now and I feel so much lighter knowing other people have the same questions and worries. I'm 22 and never had any of the 'firsts' mentioned in the video but tbh there's opportunities I would have missed out on and it has given me more time and freedom to try figure out my chaotic beautiful life! These videos are the best, I'm a big sister but would have loved to have a older sister so thanks Ally!
This means so much to me, thank you for your kind words
I was the typical 20 year old who had never had a serious boyfriend, never had sex etc. and I was so sure there was something wrong with me. Now that Iâm 34 and in a very happy , long term relationship I realize that most of the people who were dating and sleeping around when I was single and feeling broken arenât any happier than me: I was not ready for sex or honestly not emotionally mature enough for a boyfriend until later on and Iâm glad I didnât pressure myself to do any of that or settle for anyone I didnât really connect with just to âfit inâ or do things in a certain timeline .
I've been going through all of these videos again, and they have really helped after a year. I'm sixteen and I had no idea what stretch marks were. Like I knew but I didn't. I was freaked out and I hated seeing them when I wore shorts and swimsuits. This helped me so much knowing they were normal! Thank you Ally for being the big sister I always need đ
Also, to whoever sent in the question about feeling like thereâs something wrong with you because you havenât dated yet or kissed anyone yet or had sex etc etc etc TRUST ME Ally is right! There is nothing at all wrong with you, you have all the time in the world, there are so many people in the same boat, you really will look back one day and think oh wow Iâm glad Iâm waited for the right time for me and avoided all that drama AND got to have extra years to truly focus on yourself. Youâre learning SO much about yourself in your teens and early twenties and itâs something I donât think is admired enough - really taking the time to learn to love yourself in your teens â€ïž teen years can be hard enough so using them as time to grow into who you are, enjoy time with friends, time alone, work hard on pursuing dreams, just chilling out in this crazy world - whatever it is, let it happen and find the joy in it. I wish Iâd never forced myself to âcatch upâ with all my friends and that Iâd never acted on feeling like I âshouldâ date. I literally did the opposite of almost every single piece of advice Ally gives in this video and I donât believe in living with regrets but man itâs hard sometimes looking back at how badly I pushed myself out of what I wanted, beat myself up about a thousand things that turned out to be nothing wrong with me at all and the amount of times I, ultimately, betrayed myself (excuse the superrr dramatic sound of that i just honestly canât think of a better word đ ). You are perfect as you are, you are exactly where you need to be even if it doesnât feel like itâs where you want to be, you are strong, you are loved and lovable, you are worthy of all the good things and the right person is out there daydreaming of you right now I promise đ€
As a fellow just-coming-out-of-high-school girl, let me tell you that no one on my friend group or majority of my classmates have actually had their first times!! Its totally normal and i find that a lot of the people who have had them really don't care you haven't.
It would be amazing to get some perspectives from your friends that are lgbtq đđ I loved the video
thank you! i'm sooooo keen i just need to find some of my friends that are willing now haha
TW: mention of sh
I absolutely agree with the SH question. I didn't do it for myself, I did it for my mom. It broke my heart how much it was affecting her, and then, with (a lot) of time, I realized how it was the better choice for me as well.
Been clean for 8 years now, and I wouldn't have it any other way. đ
so so proud of you
Ahhhh! Dolly doctor! Simpler times.đ”đ»
Iâm 29 and happily single, havenât had any attention in at least a decade, not sexually active, and not at all interested in it either. Being single is totally normal, and not having been kissed or anything else is normal too! Some of us donât even want it.
âThose that matter donât mind, and those that mind donât matterâ.
But, Iâm pretty certain Iâm asexual. So my opinion could be moo. đź
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what i like about myself: i, much like alot of other girls, hated every inch of myself and body for as long as i can remember. My fiancé and i were talking last night and i realized that for the first time, i actually dont hate anything. im not insecure about anything anymore. to 'society ' i should have every reason to be insecure. i'm 5"4, 300+ lbs, stretch marks all over my body, scars from past SH. but im beautiful. when i wear crop tops you can see stretch marks and the scars on my stomach, but i love them. every single person is beautiful
This made me SO happy to read. Iâm so glad you see how beautiful you are đđ
Love this video. I really liked how you were very understanding and supportive of different choices with some of the questions, but were able to be very clear on situations that are truly inappropriate (like a student-teacher relationship).
Can confirm, laser is the best money Iâve ever spent! It can be painful in some areas but you can ask the people to turn the machine down and take breaks! But itâs always super fast đđ
My favourite videos ever!! As someone who keeps things to myself or doesnât ask for help. This is honestly the best big sister advice and such a warm safe place
that truly makes my heart so so happy đ I know these arenât viral entertaining videos but if I can help just a few people Iâll make them forever
Definitely would love to see one of these with non-straight friends included :) Also wanted to add that the connection you made between using certain words about food and feeling bad about eating was mind blowing haha. Thank u for making these videos
those words IRK me to my core đĄ easy to look out for and spot a company who is trying to make women feel bad!
I love love love your girl talk videos Ally!! i find them really comforting so i sometimes rewatch them when i m feeling low and they help me feel better. You have such positive and kind energy and your advice is always so uplifting :) so thank you for taking the time to make these
As thank you lovely!
I love to share my story and Iâm no longer surprised how often the subject comes up. We need to talk about it more!! I had sex for the first time when I was 27!! There is no particular reason why I was that age, itâs just the way my journey happened. I felt safe and comfortable with the man I was with and Iâm glad I waited because I had a great experience :))) there were so many time I felt pressure from society and my own expectations to just âget it over withâ Iâm so glad I didnât do that. We all deserve good experiences with sex and it will happen how you allow it to đ€đ€ variations of normal đ€đ€
absolutely!!
This is warming my heart because itâs what I needed to hear at that age. So so much. I wish I could send this to young me.
can we please get another one of these videos?! i love them so much and they've helped me, and I'm sure many more!
I absolutely love you, thank you for taking time to do this, itâs helped me and for sure everyone else
You're so welcome! Nothing makes me happier
what i like about myself is how positive, so outgoing and funny i am... itâs crazy how iâve gone through really, really hard times but still stick a smile on me. I really enjoy that about myself.
hell yes dude!!!
a few things I like about myself: I love the way I know myself really well, I love that I know when I need down time and I love my down time, I love my eyes and my cheekbones and I love wearing hoop earrings. I love my sense of humour, I love when I am totally relaxed and feel free to be myself, I love my fashion sense and I love my creative eye. What do you love about yourself?
this video was fantastic ally
This video was so great. I appreciate the compassion and logic you provide in your answers. I was most helped my the reminder that we can retrain our brains. đȘđ§ đ€â€
A favourite author of mine once said that thoughts are like clothes, and we can choose them in the same deliberate manner đ
This video was amazing Ally! Thank you for your honesty and sensitivity, itâs very inspiring. I wish I saw videos like this when I was in high school, it truly would have made me realise Iâm not alone about so many things. Thanks for creating such a welcoming and safe space đ
that means more to me than you know đđ
my motto is always âbe who you needed when you were youngerâ so I suppose I try to be the big sister I always needed too x
This is so true, Iâm 21 now and have followed Ally for a few years now (best decision ever) but I really wish I had these videos when I was in secondary/high schoolđ
O just want to say that I've found your ranking video and fell in love with your positive outlook! I've been watching 4 videos already and I can't stop smiling because you are smiling đthank youâ€
aww thank you angel!
Whenever I watch your videos I feel like Iâm at my bffs slumber party. Youâre the best, Allyđ
the way you gave the tip about a weighted blanket helping you out with anxiety is so trueee! because when i get anxious I let my big dog lay on my chest..and it washes away..feels so unberdening
aww thank you! i wish i had a big dog to lie on me haha
i love these videos ally
love you too!
I really appreciate the comment about stretch marks. I found pregnancy really horrifying in a body horror way, like I felt like I was in a horror movie the whole time. And then now when I see the stretch marks on my stomach it brings me back to that feeling of horror. It's something that I'd like to work past. I've never seen anyone say that they genuinely like their own, so thank you for sharing that.
i truly love them so much, not just on me but on other people too, i think they look SO beautiful and are proof how how strong women can be too
When you were talking about what you love about yourself, you made me literally tear up, because if people are asked this question, I often see a lot of them avoid the question and say things like "yes, you should always love yourself and reflect on who you are" but you showed a really positive example of how simple and easy, yet life changing it can be!!!
I was also looking at the resources that you mentioned, and I definetly think that beyond blue is a great resource that has really helped me in the past!!!
I recently discovered your channel and I'm so glad you did, you post about everything I love, and so thank you so much, I really appreciate everything you've done â€â€â€â€â€â€â€â€â€â€
Aw thank you so much!!
i agree with EVERYTHING you said about diet culture. i was raised with really bad views on eating and dieting and i'm now trying to, in a way, fix that. but my parents make it difficult đŹ
Iâm so sorry about your parents!! Itâs a shame they have been brainwashed by it - stay true to what you know đ
I love these videos so much :')
I just wanted to pop in and provide the alternative perspective for anyone who feels like they are missing out because their friends are all getting attention from others - I was one of those girls getting attention from the boys and in the end I regretted not taking the time to focus on myself and figure out what I liked. It was a bummer to get older and realise that I really let myself down by being more focused on the other person and what they thought of me. If you're really feeling the loneliness, I love a lil dance to some of my fave upbeat songs (bonus points for lots of shaking which helps get the nervous energy out) but also giving myself a hug and saying to myself what I would want to hear from the other person/affirmations (I am funny, I am beautiful, I am interesting, etc).
I think this can really become a 'the grass is always greener..' situation. Also it's so important to take a moment and think about if you even like that other person? Trust me it's so worth waiting for the experience with someone who truly sees and appreciates you for who you are, and you definitely deserve for them to see how awesome you are and choose you fully
Thank you so much for sharing this
thank you for this !
You are so welcome!
My hair on my arms was a massive insicurity before this video, the way that you said its like our fur makes me feel so much better because now i know that people dont think its gross and that its okay !!!
Love your top đ though where is it from? I love that big sister energy and honesty about these kind of taboo topics
Also ally love the dress on you! The sleeve are đđŒđđŒ and thanks for making this video (:
thank you! i love it so much too, my boyfriend has great taste hehe
âI like the way that I see the world⊠yeahâ why did that make me cry đ„čâ€ïž
LOVE these videos!!!
Aw I am so glad! I love making them for you guys :)
Recently found your channel and you seem like such a lovely person đ„ș
Thank you so much!
im only in middle school but this video helped so much and i related so much to all these questions. thank you!! :)
that makes me so happy!
These videos are so much better than the sealed sections!!
my heart đ„șđ„șđ„ș
LOVE this Video Ally!! I just wanted to join this open discussion and let that girl know sheâs not alone in feeling left out while friends are in relationships etc. đ
thereâs nothing wrong with you, girl!!
I was that teenager that thought the exact same thing like âwhatâs wrong with me, all my friends have boyfriends and experienced things Iâm never going to, Iâm going to be forever aloneâ etc.
I am now nearly 25 and met an amazing guy last year from Tinder. This is my first boyfriend so I didnât experience those things until 24. But honestly Iâm SO GLAD I was single!!! Iâm GLAD I didnât find someone until now, even after all the suffering and self confidence issues because of being alone, I believe I am now in this healthy relationship because I had time to love myself and know what I wanted/who I am.
And most of my friends who had boyfriends when I was younger, werenât in healthy relationships after all!
So girl, your definitely NOT alone, I was that girl and I promise it all works out in the end - no matter how long it takes , itâs worth it I promise âșïžâșïžâșïžđ
- Emily xxx
thank you for this comment sharing your experience lovely!
I love this Ally!!!
thank you love!!
Incredibly well spoken ally! I love your positivity and you certainly are hilarious!!
My favorite thing about myself is my passion for things Iâm interested in! Thanks for making me stop and think about it. Iâll be sending you an insta dm about getting into that group!
Thank you SO much for sharing that!
Getting Laser is genuinely one of the best decisions Iâve ever made. No more ingrowns! It generally hurts the longer you get it as theyâll turn the temp up but itâs super quick. Nothing like waxing! Iâve had full Brazilians and itâs worth the maybe 1 minute of slight pain! Iâve been recommending it to all my friends for years! I personally prefer to be smooth but I got it in the beginning for ingrowns & dermatitis. Itâs basically cured both. đ
Ooh thank you!!! Do you have to keep getting it?
I'm almost seventeen and I've only ever talked to a guy. And tbh I feel behind in life as well for not having a boyfriend or a first kiss yet. So for anyone feeling behind in life, I feel you!!
SO normal girl !
i feel everything you said except that iâve never being talking to a guy. im 14 and i donât think i would be yet everyone is telling im boring for not having anything like that. i am young at donât want that this young but i hate it when people even adults ask me âwhen are you going to get a boyfriend like all my friendsâ or simply telling me âlive life your missing outâ. it drives me insane and makes me want to have someone ask me out so i canât be called boring anymore
This helped so much, Iâve been struggling a bit with my body and mental health so this really helped explain and change the way I see myself. I donât have a big sister so this is great. Thanks so much Ally your a literal queen đ„°âšđ
aww i am so glad it could help lovely
I love my authentic silliness that I bring with me everywhere
LOVE THIS
I'm 20 and only recently figured out I was asexual, so I'm kind of glad I didn't have the "firsts" until I figured out my sexuality. I still haven't had them, but I feel a lot better knowing why I wasn't making relationships a priority in the past.
Fun video đ𧥠you look so fresh btw âš
aw thank you!!
I didnât meet my first partner until I was 21, I felt the same I felt left out and that there was something wrong with me but it just meant that I met someone worth waiting for. I have no regrets as many friends are now single following break ups with multiple âwrongâ partners or with a new partner than who they were with when I was younger. Everything happens for a reason!
The diet culture part was so spot on. I was holding onto every word youâre saying
LOVE YOU
PLEASE DO A SEPARATE VIDEOS FOR DIET CULTURE!
We really need this especially people like me who struggle with my self image and weight losing etc.
Love your video! You really helped me a lot. :)
I had a weird situationship when I was 14 - he was my first kiss, but it got very complicated and after a few months it was over. I didn't date again till I was nearly 20. For the rest of my teens I didn't have a lot of attention from guys, and felt unwanted a lot of the time. I didn't date/sleep with many people even in my early twenties, and then when I was 23 I decided to try a dating site just to start meeting people. I went on one date through the site and the man I went on the date with is now my fiance †We've been together nearly 5 years. You can't plan your love life any more than you can plan the rest of your life, and just because you didn't date/didn't get attention in your teens/early 20s, doesn't mean you won't miss out on a great relationship.
Even though these donât really help me, they are still interesting đ€Ł
Aw thanks dude!
Laser is soooo much less painful than waxing. 10/10 recommend!
Iâm scared đ
@@AllySheehan I was nervous too but honestly, it's like flicking a rubber band on your wrist. Tiny sting and then all good. Most of the time I could barely even feel it
love u ally đ
love you too!
bikini lasering you can definitely do!!! my girl had an ice roller that she used right before the laser and it honestly was not bad, itâs just like a little pinch over and over but the ice helps and itâs so worth it.
omg that's so smart!
i promise im gonna make this short and sweet lol. anyway 2 years ago i got a recommendation on my CZcams recommended videos and it was ofc the ranking of every taylor swift song. and though i have been a swifite for almost my whole life i still didnt know every single song and that video really helped me find more of her songs which some of them if not a lot of them are now my all time favs including the way i loved you and holy ground. on that note your channel and videos have been "comfort" videos for me esspecailly during the post still in lockdown world. though we might have different belifs on certian things i just wanted to tell u thanks for making this a kind space on yt.
Jordan.
thank you jordan!!
@@AllySheehan your so welcome ally
love from america!!đ
I'm seventeen never had a boyfriend or a first kiss or even asked out!! I don't think about that often since I've started to focus on myself!
Helll yes đđ
@@AllySheehan OMG I'm so happy you replied ilysmâ€ïž you made my day
Meat sack is the best term for body that I have ever heard đ
meat sack, flesh prison... earth suit is my favourite đ„°
Not sure if this help, but to the girl that feels lonely cause she hasnât had a SO. Itâs okay. Iâm turning 29 in 2 weeks and havenât had an offical boyfriend yet. Yes sometimes it does feel lonely and suck. But when I think about it, if I had a SO through uni, I would have said no to few interstate trips that changed my life, moved to america to work at Disney after uni and then move interstate after Disney to study in something I really wanted to. So for now while youâre single, think about all the things you get to do for yourself when you donât have to factor in someone else. Hope this helps (:
i would give up every boy i ever dated to have done the disney college program tbh
@@AllySheehan one of my best adventure yet. And so wish there was a way I can work at Disney again. Australia needs to get a Disney đŹ
@@Noahxnorah have you done a summer camp?
@@AllySheehan no I havenât. It looks like fun. But Iâm not sure how well I will handle a summer camp cause I donât do well in the heat đđ
@@Noahxnorah itâs the best best thing Iâve ever done!! It never got above like 27 at my camp if that helps :) Iâm sure Disney was hot!!
One thing I would say to anyone in relationship is that always tell your bestie or one person you trust (they need to be unbiased and super honest to you)about your relationship problems because if you don't you wouldn't realise if your partner is manipulating you.
yes yes yes
@@AllySheehan I literally love that you reply to all the comments
@@aditiheda of course đđ
Great video Ally!!! đThis was interesting to watch as a man! I am 39 and single. I did have my first girlfriend at 24 we dated for a year. However since then I have only dated a couple of women. I have been able to travel to a number of countries and buy my own apartment! There should be no set timing for anything in life!
Hell yeah Sean! Congrats on owning property in Sydney, that is INCREDIBLE
@@AllySheehan Thanks Ally, it is a one bedroom apartment I bought six years ago and I had help from my parents!
Hi, I just want to share what I like about my self. And I hope that this won't sound arrogant or what. But I like how I am good I am in terms of analyzing things and writing my thoughts. I also like it now that I kind of acknowledge my emotions prior on reacting right away.
P.S. I am a new fan of you, Ally. I appreciate how big of a Taylor Swift fan you are which I enjoyed and kind of relate. But I think I liked you better because you are like a big sister. All the best!
Thanks so much for sharing!!
Body hair is so normal!
As a side note - please donât ever use hair removal cream on sensitive areas like your downstairs! It can literally burn your skin and cause so many problems. Shaving/waxing/laser/IPL are better options if that is what you choose to do.
Donât let anybody dictate to you how your body should look/how you should maintain your hair. If you want it all there, great! If you want it all gone, great! Or any version of that in between. Itâs all up to you :)
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High School TV shows made me think that everyone was having sx in HS and I felt so strange for waiting for love and not doing it myself till I was 19... but oh my gosh it's so normal!! Don't let TV make you feel less than or like you're missing out!
truuuuly ! it sets such unrealistic expectations
Didnât have my first kiss until 18, Iâm 24 now and never had sex :) youâre not alone!!
I got laser hair removal and it is pretty painful in the bikini area while itâs happening, but it is miraculous!!!!!!!! Expensive tho. If you need it itâs totally worth it, in my opinion. Never waxed down there before, thankful I never have to now!
Thanks big sis đ€
any time sis đ„°đ
Since you asked, here is my age/kiss experience!
I had my first kiss at 18, and I panicked because it was such a weird experience. Later at 19 I had my first "real" kiss. I was more comfortable then, and I truly think that is the most important.
I can imagine how it feels to be in your twenties and never have been kissed. I can also be sad about my lack of experience with girls (as a bisexual woman), and its just so easy to blame yourself.
Even though I would like to have some more experience, I also think that 'experience' is overrated. Most people with "a lot of experience" also struggle. Some people have bad experiences.
I know that comfort, trust, good communication and knowing yourself are so much more important, and in my experience, these things get better over time. You get to know yourself, communicate your need better, and you are less likely to end up in situations like my 18-year-old panicky one :P.
But it's still valid to have some sad feelings about it, as long as you try not to be hard on yourself
Hey gurl
Just want you to know I love your videos and fashion scene đ»đ
And if you don't mind which watch are you wearing!?đ
thanks love! it's a digital casio :)
hi, I know I'm late but I'd like to share my experience if anyone needs to hear it. I was 18 when I lost my virginity and I was not prepared or ready for it. I barely had any experience before that happened. I thought I was ready, but I rushed myself and ended up doing something before I was mentally or emotionally prepared for it. My current partner who I've been with for two years was a virgin and had never kissed anyone until we got together when he was 20. go at your own pace and only do those things when you are truly ready to do them. I promise it will all be worth it if you take your time and do things because you want to do them, not because of societal pressures or because your friends are doing them.
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I don't mean to be annoying or rude but even Dolphin have tiny hair on their body when they're born.Also the reason they don't have hair on their body is because they have blubber (like fat thick skin that provides insulation like fur in case of land mammals) People who say body hair is Unhygienic or bad they need to know that it is a common physical feature of Mammals to have body hair. People like that need to really focus on their biology class instead of spreading lies on social media.
I really like the positivity you're spreading in your channel! The world needs more supportive people like you!
I used to be insecure of my body but I've learned to embrace it. I am merely 17 but I just want to say that Self-love doesn't come instantly. It took me 2 years to accept my body and skin tone. So, it will be hard in the beginning but it does get better.
Iâve had laser hair removal. Hurts WAY. LESS. than waxing!!! I will NEVER get waxed down there again but def would do laser!
Ah, I loved this video so much Ally â€ïž It is so insightful and these topics are incredibly important to normalise and talk about openly. Also, a reply to the lovely girl who feels alone and that something is wrong with them - I feel this so much and it truly resonates with my current experience in the world. I too am 19, am super introverted, experience mental health struggles but am very mature and insightful for my age, and I too havenât had my first kiss or a relationship, etc. I even personally find it really hard to make new friends and open up to others, and I donât really have any close friends, therefore I feel lonely sometimes. Please know that you are not alone though, I am trying to learn to trust the process and know that good things take time, patience and that there isnât a timeline we are supposed to follow in life. So much love always, and thank you again Ally for holding this safe space.
*TW self harmful thoughts* Sometimes when i feel super shitty i watch these videos and I feel better almost instantly. Sometimes my friends make me feel like Im not even deserving of existong and i just wanna stab myself and you male me feel so much better Ally!! Ty for always being there and please do more of these but make it so you can also ask on a community post here on yt. Bye!
-Kayla
yes girl, the meat sack! I thought my bf and I were the only ones who refer to it that way lol
ahahah i love it
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I was not prepared to see dally cry đą đą
đą i tried to cut out most of the part where i was crying bc had to keep that in bc i was talking
Man I wish I had you to listen to as a teen đ
that is so kind, thank you!
i love you, im not joking
Ana Luisa is literally my name lol
Iâm 22 and havenât had my first date, kiss or even been asked on a date, havenât had a crush on anyone and honestly I donât care. Iâd be happy with being the crazy cat person in the street except I wouldnât have cats, Iâd have dogs.
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hi to nepal! so glad you like my channel :)
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Hi Brazil!
I'm only 12 years old but i have SH problems and i can't tell my parents to be able to get help do you have any tips?
oh love i am so sorry
@@AllySheehan I don't really have family members that understand what i'm going through.
@@Maddie-oj3nu is there a kids helpline in your country?
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@@AllySheehan Thanks. Do you have any good reasons to stay clean because i'm trying but it's really hard?
Oh wow when I had sex the first time, I found it extraordinarily painful đ it was very painful the first several times actually but from my understanding thatâs still normal, I think it just took quite a while for my body to get used to it
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the thing that i love in myself is my character , i can be really fun & interesting person to hang out with but also can a very intellectual person wise one to talk with , physically i would say my boobies , idk why but it's the only part i like about me (:
i don't mean to break your heart, but the weight loss industry alone (so not including everything else that diet culture encompasses) was worth $192.2 billion in 2019 â â
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The bigger the hoop, the bigger the ???, excuse me??? Are you kidding me?
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Hi Ally. Not entirely true about sex not supposed to being sore. Not a totally inclusive answer. There a few conditions where women experience pain during sex. It might not be the norm. I.e. endrotromitis, pcos etc.
I believe if its sore it's worth looking into as they may have endo, pcos as you said and not be aware!