People need to realise that Ben is a guy that was taught to resolve all his problems through violence and now hes actually trying to do something to help and got it wrong.
@@justaperson2222 After all these years I see the same old Ben. I know healing trauma is rugged and harsh and it takes a lot of time to overcome a single one. I know it is really challenging to make any little change, although, I wish he could put the first step in the right direction and not see this depressing character he has become. I love Ben, but I don't know the first person who's not been down the road.
He /just/ got back. We all saw how he wasn’t dealing or eating before he left. I totally agree he’s a selfish moron most of the time. But let’s give the show a bit of time to see where they take him… he just legit 2 seconds before this found out Lola died.
Does Ben not know that sorry isn't going to bring her mom back. He seems so calm about it. I don't know if at this moment when he was talking to Lexi if he was in shock or what.
@@taylorphinney6711 I do know that. But if someone you knew was dying you would try to spend every moment with them. I know he was in denial over it and wanted to fix things. But everyone told hi. It was too late. I know I would love to spend ti.e with my dad before he dies but I know I can't. This whole thing has made me want to give my dad something off my bucket list before he dies. And I'm scared that I won't be able to. I know how Lexi feels. It hurts. I know what's going to happen to my dad. I hope I can HD it together like Lexi did. She handled it real good for a little kid.
The regret Ben feels for not being there for Lexi and Lola will be with him for a long time. It may never leave him.
I hope the writers take Ben in a more hopeful and less selfish direction from here
Doubtful 😭
Ben needs to be in therapy n won’t change till then
Sorry for asking what happened
Hi phoebe sorry for asking what is happening
Nope.
When Lexi has better maturity than her own dad
When Lexi wasn't raised by a gangster and an abusive step mother
@@haunteddreams7856 ???
@@haunteddreams7856 I don't follow
@@Jodacro-it4zz you're saying a girl who grew up in a safe space has better maturity than a guy who got brought up by a gangster and an abusive mother
@haunted dreams Kathy wasnt abusive was she, I get where you're coming from with Phil but Kathy, abusive? Really?
People need to realise that Ben is a guy that was taught to resolve all his problems through violence and now hes actually trying to do something to help and got it wrong.
With another Mitchell characteristic; stubbornness.
Just like his dad Phil then. Ben is so self centred
@@abbieroseholden4174 yeah because of his rough child hood. He's self centered because he was taught to be
But Mitchell's are also taught blood comes first
@@melissaclark1051yeah but you saw how Phil couldn’t even face saying goodbye to Lola.
It's the most scene between Ben and his daughter, Lexi on the show!!
Ben should learn from his own mistakes for once, and fix them all. When will he grow up?
telling people with fragile mental health and a lot of unresolved trauma to grow up ain’t the one
@@justaperson2222Honestly you Ben fans remind me of the Snape fans (who are even worse).
@@justaperson2222 After all these years I see the same old Ben. I know healing trauma is rugged and harsh and it takes a lot of time to overcome a single one. I know it is really challenging to make any little change, although, I wish he could put the first step in the right direction and not see this depressing character he has become. I love Ben, but I don't know the first person who's not been down the road.
He /just/ got back. We all saw how he wasn’t dealing or eating before he left. I totally agree he’s a selfish moron most of the time. But let’s give the show a bit of time to see where they take him… he just legit 2 seconds before this found out Lola died.
@@paulyb7267 The anti-fans are just as obnoxious. (Coming from someone who doesn't like Snape and critcized Ben plenty.)
Going to miss Lola and Lexi so much. Lola was there for Lexi since daycone ❤❤❤
Obviously cause that’s her daughter 🙄
@@fa__.4060 Well yeah duh I ain't simple
@@abbieroseholden4174 You sure bout that cause you asked a dumb question
@@fa__.4060 Never asked I stated a fact
@@abbieroseholden4174 really, didn’t seem like it
Does Ben not know that sorry isn't going to bring her mom back. He seems so calm about it. I don't know if at this moment when he was talking to Lexi if he was in shock or what.
Personally, I think he’s just trying to stay strong for Lexi I mean, if you saw part one, Ben did break down quite a bit
@@taylorphinney6711 I do know that. But if someone you knew was dying you would try to spend every moment with them. I know he was in denial over it and wanted to fix things. But everyone told hi. It was too late. I know I would love to spend ti.e with my dad before he dies but I know I can't. This whole thing has made me want to give my dad something off my bucket list before he dies. And I'm scared that I won't be able to. I know how Lexi feels. It hurts. I know what's going to happen to my dad. I hope I can HD it together like Lexi did. She handled it real good for a little kid.
Bless her heart she was amazing 😢❤
It will be weird without Lexi’s mum but let’s say R.I.P Lola pierce stay in peace so sad 🙏🙏 xxxx
😢 Lexi I’m sorry about your mum I love her she was beautiful
😭💔