My Coming Out Story | Doug Armstrong

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  • I share my coming out story with you. Peace out friends 💕 ➨ Thumbs up? 😊
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Komentáře • 351

  • @ItsGeorgeHuh
    @ItsGeorgeHuh Před 8 lety +88

    yeah you're still the cutest

  • @RolyWestYT
    @RolyWestYT Před 8 lety +25

    I did wonder if you would ever make one of these! Really glad you made this!

    • @doug
      @doug  Před 8 lety +4

      aw thanks rolland :) I'd been meaning to for a while!

  • @Buionpo
    @Buionpo Před 7 lety +29

    your eyebrows just dance throughout the whole video

  • @CalumMcSwiggan
    @CalumMcSwiggan Před 8 lety +34

    Proud of you Douglas ❤️

    • @doug
      @doug  Před 8 lety +6

      thanks babes

  • @benphillips6386
    @benphillips6386 Před 7 lety +22

    I didn't even realise you were gay. Many LGBTQ+ people who are relatively famous on CZcams base their channel and persona around their sexuality. Your approach is very refreshing, well done Doug

  • @florianefaucon3367
    @florianefaucon3367 Před 8 lety +15

    " And do a powerpoint presentation" HAHA DOUG 🐬

    • @doug
      @doug  Před 8 lety +7

      🐳😁🐳😁🐳

  • @PresentingReality
    @PresentingReality Před 8 lety +2

    You are so right, It's not a big deal! Congrats on being able to be open with who you are. xx

  • @StudentCenterNY
    @StudentCenterNY Před 8 lety +3

    Great video, Doug. I am glad the whole process ended up working out for you and that you got so much support.

  • @HimeeIvy
    @HimeeIvy Před 8 lety +8

    Ily Doug! We will always support you

  • @mwcshk113
    @mwcshk113 Před 8 lety +7

    "It sucks how a word that's supposed to mean happiness can somehow feel warped." - a line from More Happy Than Not.
    Its just that society gave an entirely different meaning and sort of a bad feeling to the word, that its kinda scary even if it just means happiness and being your true self.

  • @saralace8966
    @saralace8966 Před 8 lety +2

    I'm so happy you can now be yourself. we love you and will always support you xx

  • @williamhwl
    @williamhwl Před 8 lety +2

    So proud of you Doug!! Thanks for sharing your story!! Sending you lots of love ♥♥♥🐬

  • @talalahmed4066
    @talalahmed4066 Před 8 lety +5

    Wow, you're so brave, I can't even tell my best friend that I like her... 😅😂

  • @christinacunningham1691
    @christinacunningham1691 Před 8 lety +1

    I'm so proud of you Doug! I love you so much and I'll always be here to support you♡

  • @Crazy101Sheep
    @Crazy101Sheep Před 8 lety +2

    1000000% RELATE TO EVERY WORD FROM HIS MOUTH. So good to hear role models like Doug talking about their own experience of coming out. Thank you for this Doug ❤️❤️❤️

    • @doug
      @doug  Před 8 lety +1

      +Ben Harrison aww I hope it helps some people!

  • @AWWx2
    @AWWx2 Před 8 lety +3

    We love you and all your videos. You are such a polished talented speaker on CZcams that it's amazing you had that much trouble telling people even as a young adult. But why do you have to be so good-looking and talented all at the same time and worry about telling people? That's the strange enigma that is you, Doug. Now you're telling people around the world and being such a good role model for so many millions of men and women. Congratulations on your wonderful accomplishments and your honesty with us all about all the parts of you.

  • @HettieB8
    @HettieB8 Před 8 lety +2

    I feel like it's interesting that you feel like you 'wimped out' by telling people the way you did but in reality there's no right or wrong way to do anything and any way it happens is fine :) Tbh I think your story is much more relatable to how everyone goes through telling people than like~ big announcements.
    It sucks that even these days it still is something that feels like 'a secret' that you need to let people know- hopefully that'll change soon with people like Doug sharing his story!

  • @lostgirlclub
    @lostgirlclub Před 8 lety +1

    You are a great human being. 💖 Glad u shared your story !

  • @jshellenbarger08
    @jshellenbarger08 Před 8 lety +2

    Thanks for sharing your story, Doug. Remember to love yourself as much as we love you. There's no reason to feel pressured to "tell" anyone that you're gay. Live your life and do whatever makes you happy. 🐬

  • @NikiNSammy
    @NikiNSammy Před 8 lety +5

    Great video doug! This will be really helpful to so many people!

    • @doug
      @doug  Před 8 lety

      +NikiNSammy aw that's very kind boys! 😊

  • @Zach.Angelikas
    @Zach.Angelikas Před 8 lety +1

    Coming out is always difficult.. but it's always a huge relief.
    ☺️

  • @danjamesrobbins
    @danjamesrobbins Před 8 lety +23

    Aw Doug

    • @doug
      @doug  Před 8 lety +10

      +DanJames 💖

    • @neo_inc723
      @neo_inc723 Před 8 lety +1

      +Doug Armstrong hey doug I'm Ethan And I'm 13 I
      Love your vids and I don't want to come out to anyone but I kinda need to can you help me a bit I'm really scared about it

  • @imran4968
    @imran4968 Před 8 lety

    I have been waiting so long for this video. Thank you Doug

  • @jazmurphy8871
    @jazmurphy8871 Před 8 lety

    I'm happy for you man. a lot of people will be too nervous, but you shared the news. You are a big inspiration Doug, STILL LOVE U

  • @andrewevans2741
    @andrewevans2741 Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you so so so so so so so much for giving me the courage to come out. Love you David

  • @ashleykiker6935
    @ashleykiker6935 Před 8 lety

    Doug I'm so proud of you! I love you lots and this is just a small part of your huge personality! You're such an inspiration ❤️ once again I love you ❤️❤️

  • @alexbinseattle
    @alexbinseattle Před 7 lety +1

    Great video. An unvarnished look into (continually!) coming out. I can certainly relate. I hope its helpful for others.

  • @Brickteen
    @Brickteen Před 8 lety +3

    Thanks for sharing this with us Doug :)
    Coming out through a powerpoint.. I can see the word art already with a fancy transition... I got way too carried away with that thought.

  • @RobinWells89
    @RobinWells89 Před 8 lety

    Good to hear your story Doug! :) xx

  • @Mozoc123
    @Mozoc123 Před 8 lety

    Loved this! Thanks Doug! 😊

  • @Ray_Vun
    @Ray_Vun Před 8 lety +5

    i've been out since i was 16 and i still struggle to say it all these years later(i'm 23).
    i'm super comfortable with my sexuality, and i've never had any self hate or self denial issues, but it's just incredibly hard to actually say the words "i'm gay". and although i am a bit on the flamboyant (or camp) side, most people still assume i'm straight, and that makes it even harder for me to come out.
    i think i just find the whole coming out situation a bit awkward, and that's what makes it so hard. i came out to my closest friends via text in order to avoid that awkwardness.
    and it gets even more awkward once they start asking questions

  • @Mnxeu
    @Mnxeu Před 8 lety

    Thankyou for sharing this Doug, hopefully this gives courage to other people ♥

  • @ineedlulz
    @ineedlulz Před 8 lety +44

    Damnit Doug. I wanted to hear the details about you and Joey haha. When you went to visit Cali, I was positive Joey was gay, and a little on the fence with you. But when you and Joey spent time together it confirmed it. What happened between you two! Haha

    • @doug
      @doug  Před 8 lety +35

      🙃

    • @ternitamas
      @ternitamas Před 8 lety +3

      +ineedlulz yea, they made a cute couple and looked happy

    • @sadieboden3202
      @sadieboden3202 Před 8 lety +1

      +Doug Armstrong u have nothing to say

  • @raleigh5683
    @raleigh5683 Před 8 lety +29

    Sooooo are we ever going to get the whole story behind you and Joey Graceffa now that you're both out???

  • @MrJason300
    @MrJason300 Před 7 lety

    Thanks for sharing your coming out story with us :)

  • @WilsonWaffling
    @WilsonWaffling Před 8 lety

    Great video - really pleased that people have positive role models as you to support them - keep up the good work!

  • @fideidefensor6427
    @fideidefensor6427 Před 8 lety +5

    You shouldn't have to feel as though you need to tell everyone "I'm gay"
    The different ways you managed to let people know we're very casual and didn't make a bigger deal out of this small aspect of yourself than there needed to be. Congratulations

  • @annieolivia4540
    @annieolivia4540 Před 8 lety

    Proud of you Doug :) keep up the amazing videos

  • @BijanPlaysGames
    @BijanPlaysGames Před 8 lety

    I absolutely had no idea but I'm so happy for you I have struggles like this myself :)

  • @BitsClipsTips
    @BitsClipsTips Před 8 lety

    doug i love this so much you are a true inspiration x

  • @tobioso7730
    @tobioso7730 Před 8 lety +5

    You're hair looks pretty nice mate

  • @rcappucciomad
    @rcappucciomad Před 8 lety +1

    You're awesome! thanks for this.

  • @sheikyloly
    @sheikyloly Před 8 lety +2

    I love you Doug, such inspiration. I can relate with your story. ❤️

    • @doug
      @doug  Před 8 lety

      +Javi Aviles aww thats very kind thank you!

  • @talhaahmed9599
    @talhaahmed9599 Před 8 lety

    Well done Doug
    I'm very proud of you
    I think that you are a great inspiration ✌🏽️

  • @alexwilliams7965
    @alexwilliams7965 Před 8 lety +4

    This is literally how i did it too, and i wish i'd had a role model that i could relate with to make it easier.
    The best thing about this video is that adorable dolphin in the background though

  • @troyarmstrong9278
    @troyarmstrong9278 Před 8 lety

    Thanks for letting a fellow Armstrong know he's not the only one to have struggled with the awkwardness and difficulties of coming out. But also the joy that comes with living an authentic life. Keep being yourself Doug, and thanks for being such a great role model in the community! :-)

  • @sundus1900
    @sundus1900 Před 8 lety

    So proud

  • @AJClementinexo
    @AJClementinexo Před 8 lety +3

    Bless 💜 this will inspire others. Much love xo

  • @bqTim
    @bqTim Před 8 lety

    Very open and honest story. Happy you're now comfortable telling people.

  • @frcgfd107
    @frcgfd107 Před 2 lety

    Great video and I loved your shirt! Thanks for sharing it!

  • @alexmcgovern3464
    @alexmcgovern3464 Před 8 lety

    Aw Doug! proud of you! it must be hard to do this! xx

  • @clintbhs02
    @clintbhs02 Před 8 lety

    Very proud of you Doug!

  • @JacobChardBRA
    @JacobChardBRA Před 8 lety +27

    46 homophobics disliking the videos. It is 2016 plz

  • @unseensteph2286
    @unseensteph2286 Před 8 lety

    As soon as I saw a new video immediately liked it. 😃

  • @amexred
    @amexred Před 8 lety

    fascinating to hear your difficulty in revealing yourself. it's the opposite impression you get based on your outgoing behavior in your videos. thanks for sharing your story

  • @joemansfield2369
    @joemansfield2369 Před 8 lety

    Love you lots Doug! (Musicals are awesome)

  • @RockosModernVlog
    @RockosModernVlog Před 7 lety

    Truly enjoyed this vid, I can relate to coming out via other people... done that myself too many times haha. Hope all is going well!

  • @toxicgummybear9101
    @toxicgummybear9101 Před 8 lety

    lmao you made me laugh too much in this video😂💖

  • @laceyx1484
    @laceyx1484 Před 8 lety

    He's so inspirational to be so proud of who he is

  • @AjTheBudderKing
    @AjTheBudderKing Před 8 lety

    So proud of you 😃❤

  • @AlexJima
    @AlexJima Před 8 lety

    Doug, you are so brave and I really respect you! 🐬 :)

  • @nolanschmidt3720
    @nolanschmidt3720 Před 8 lety +43

    I sat my brother, mom and step dad down and couldn't say the words "I'm gay" so I said "I'm not heterosexual."

  • @bawonobudiwaskito
    @bawonobudiwaskito Před 8 lety +1

    This sounds so real and relatable :)

  • @LadyJezzika
    @LadyJezzika Před rokem +1

    Love this ❤

  • @jakel3353
    @jakel3353 Před 8 lety +1

    You should have prepared a PowerPoint presentation. I ROFLd at that XD

  • @agustinlenarduzzi1475
    @agustinlenarduzzi1475 Před 8 lety

    love the eyebrows play

  • @nathansawyer945
    @nathansawyer945 Před 8 lety

    Great video Doug keep up the great work

  • @katieexton9691
    @katieexton9691 Před 8 lety

    Love this ❤️

  • @destinyconcon7932
    @destinyconcon7932 Před 8 lety

    Love u Doug! 🐬🐬🐬🐬

  • @anthonyxdaniel2218
    @anthonyxdaniel2218 Před 7 lety

    Beautiful blues

  • @ternitamas
    @ternitamas Před 8 lety

    that was brave, congrats! love you

  • @neilballou3203
    @neilballou3203 Před 5 lety

    Very nice story. You are a good speaker and story teller

  • @michaelasuorsa
    @michaelasuorsa Před 8 lety

    Love you Doug

  • @harutogames9204
    @harutogames9204 Před 8 lety +3

    good job dude for speaking your mind

  • @taffy3857
    @taffy3857 Před 8 lety

    Great story and you're so fortunate to have accepting friends and family. That must have made the experience so much easier for you!
    P.s - I can't stop looking at your teeth. They are near on perfect!

  • @anthonypotter1149
    @anthonypotter1149 Před 7 lety

    aw you're so cute! I love you!!

  • @fanvideostv3995
    @fanvideostv3995 Před 6 lety +1

    You r such an inspirational role model

  • @alexandrasynnerdahl4233

    Awwww your adorable good job so proud just own it

  • @ianlaw4333
    @ianlaw4333 Před 8 lety

    thats soooo brave of u!!!!

  • @scriptedpotato5328
    @scriptedpotato5328 Před 8 lety

    That Dolphins at the back is so adorable and I'm so proud of you for comming out to everybody 🌹

    • @doug
      @doug  Před 8 lety +1

      he is the cutest! got him in canada ☺🐬

  • @AddeBieber
    @AddeBieber Před 8 lety

    love this and you

  • @RishalPatel
    @RishalPatel Před 8 lety

    I genuinely really really like you Doug 😂😍

  • @alexhernandez4670
    @alexhernandez4670 Před 8 lety +24

    lol I knew Joey Graceffa and him weren't just friends...

  • @jekyllhyde7597
    @jekyllhyde7597 Před 8 lety

    Proud of you Doug! 👍🏻😘😆

    • @doug
      @doug  Před 8 lety

      +Tori Cook aww thanks so much :3

  • @evclaydon2191
    @evclaydon2191 Před 7 lety

    This is actually really helpful.

  • @petermccheater990
    @petermccheater990 Před 8 lety

    happy you got over it really proud your
    great person nomatter what
    the only thing that matters is that your happy

  • @topcat2023
    @topcat2023 Před 7 lety +1

    The thing to remember is that to the person coming out it's the biggest thing, but to those you are telling it probably doesn't matter. From my own experience you have to do it when you feel that the time is right for YOU, but as Doug says once you've ripped off that band-aid you'll feel so much better and things will get easier from there.

  • @Tronskanne
    @Tronskanne Před 8 lety

    Hair on fleek :3

  • @MrSquareart
    @MrSquareart Před 8 lety

    great story!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @IndigoF0X
    @IndigoF0X Před 8 lety +4

    You could always legally change your name to "Gay" so you can introduce yourself by saying "Hello my name is Gay!"

  • @boiwhoeveryonedeemstohatem4027

    hi douggie. love ur vids 💕

  • @hatzter
    @hatzter Před 8 lety

    Thanks for sharing this Doug :) It's only really been the past few months that I've had the confidence and acceptance in myself to tell people that I identify as non-binary and am pansexual, and yeah I get what you mean about prolonging things making it harder. I guess I kind of wimped out with some people as well by just making CZcams videos about these things and sharing them with my friends but that made the whole process a lot easier. Keep being you.

  • @ulrichlehnhardt4293
    @ulrichlehnhardt4293 Před 8 lety +2

    very good idea! just tell it to a girl who is into gossip, so you don't have to come out to others.. she will voluntarily do the job for you.

  • @Dust0xxx
    @Dust0xxx Před 8 lety

    I am happy for you

  • @dr-rz5of
    @dr-rz5of Před 8 lety

    I love ur vids Doug🐬

  • @derikevans1076
    @derikevans1076 Před 8 lety

    You're absolutely stunning 😍 I graduated with 16 people. I know exactly how you felt about coming out in a small town.

  • @craymccray954
    @craymccray954 Před 8 lety

    Your coming out was a natural progression and I think that's a better way to be!

  • @Aerkeenglen
    @Aerkeenglen Před 7 lety +1

    You know what Doug... I just think much higher of you now after seeing this... and I remember thinking you'd be gay first video I saw... but you know what, you are awesome

  • @tylersduns5014
    @tylersduns5014 Před 8 lety

    Yas! This video was so cute

  • @katherineruntuwene3298

    "i love guys, guys are the best, sorry girls " Lol me