Redefining Etiquette with Expert and Netflix Star Sara Jane Ho

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  • čas přidán 28. 05. 2024
  • Mind your manners! This week on TTFIO we are talking all about etiquette. Sara Jane Ho is a Harvard Business School grad, a Netflix star, a manners expert, and an etiquette institute founder. She joins me to talk all about how she is redefining etiquette in the modern world. It’s not all about sticking your pinky out when you hold a glass or being able to balance a book on top of your head; Sara Jane shares how etiquette can be a playbook for helping you navigate social situations with ease. You’ll get tips on what to do on a first date, how to approach an argument with your partner, how to make friends in a new city, and whether you should look someone in the eyes when you’re making a toast.
    Check out Sara Jane Ho’s new book, Mind Your Manners: How to Be Your Best Self in Any Situation. Available now!
    Out now on all podcast platforms.
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    Host: Ally Petitti
    Producer/Editor: Eliza Laycock
    Camera/Audio: Jeremy Bassett and Tristan Pelletier
    Research: Jillian Himmelwright

Komentáře • 59

  • @Didasinc
    @Didasinc Před měsícem +113

    Tiktok sent me here. And i wasn't disappointed 😊

  • @user-lb9yx1vh9z
    @user-lb9yx1vh9z Před měsícem +35

    I was ready and in it for a full hour. And sadly realized it’s like 20 min. Loved this. Sarah seems like the coolest

  • @ras-negusbloomfield8145
    @ras-negusbloomfield8145 Před 19 dny +4

    CZcams shorts got me here. ANYTHING with Sara Jane Ho I watch....The Lady is beyond beautiful 😍. She's such a WOMAN!!!

  • @Jimemar
    @Jimemar Před 28 dny +8

    Here we are all the people who want to learn and stand out in an elegant and subtle way in society and constantly improve our being.✨

  • @lukefisch9483
    @lukefisch9483 Před měsícem +12

    Im so impolite and vulgar and totally have no manners lmao. This is good for me, I like being myself but I still want to learn HOW to have etiquette as an extremely argumentative, philosophically investigative person who has to use conflict resolution every single day and talk about hard stuff with people I have perfect “manners” when people need space to communicate but my emphasis is on leading with curiosity not politeness, because being messy is needed when people have a mess to deal with especially in the home. I spend so much time working with the abnormal I do really crave normalcy at times. Thank u for this

  • @Diannadelagarza88
    @Diannadelagarza88 Před měsícem +11

    Wow… I loved this podcast, I learned so much! Definitely buying her book now!!❤❤❤

    • @D2Amethyst
      @D2Amethyst Před měsícem +2

      Can you please buy it for me as well? 😢

    • @jewelsbarbie
      @jewelsbarbie Před měsícem +1

      @@D2Amethystyou can ask your local library to order it, and then you will be able to read it without having to purchase it. ❤

  • @lukefisch9483
    @lukefisch9483 Před měsícem +1

    I love a world where we can now meet emotional needs AND conform to a polite world in a place of safety. I think this is a really well integrated model. I see the work that y’all are doing. A lot of people can’t be polite because a lot of their negative experiences in childhood occurred in a polite way right, and many people who had psychological harm inflicted on them had cultural pressure to be nice to them, so an emotionally informed way to renter this space with consent is really groundbreaking I want to say thank u again for posting this have a great day

  • @Orangecatty
    @Orangecatty Před 20 dny +2

    What a lady with grace and interesting things to say! Wished it was much, much longer interview tho

  • @inzjin4350
    @inzjin4350 Před měsícem +3

    I just got her book on audible, I’m excited to listen to it while walking my dog :)

  • @mariasofito
    @mariasofito Před měsícem +11

    TikTok sent me here. I loved this. Thanks for sharing!!!!

  • @MaybeTheyreBatman
    @MaybeTheyreBatman Před měsícem

    Love this angle. Education is all about empowerment- when you really know how to use a skillset you’re free to decide when and how to use it. I think the stereotypical etiquette class (like what my mom had to do) was less about learning or teaching and more about TRAINING and instruction.

  • @khadijaomer1261
    @khadijaomer1261 Před měsícem +1

    Thanks for this useful podcast, both ladies are amazing and articulated.

  • @chanelc5519
    @chanelc5519 Před měsícem +4

    Great podcast! I love the topic . I will be buying the book

  • @yasminogbu8929
    @yasminogbu8929 Před měsícem +1

    Wow really powerful! Love it! I’m going to buy the book

  • @kkskhin7208
    @kkskhin7208 Před 23 dny +1

    This is so cool. One of the best podcasts I have ever had.

  • @clease90
    @clease90 Před měsícem +2

    This very important💯🙏

  • @Raven62
    @Raven62 Před 19 dny

    This is so useful! I need to get this book

  • @user-tc6ng4tl3l
    @user-tc6ng4tl3l Před 11 dny

    Wow so much insight wrapped in a short time. 😄

  • @LoW-bk8td
    @LoW-bk8td Před 26 dny +1

    I love this content so much. I feel you to my bones.

  • @zoilalopez2597
    @zoilalopez2597 Před 29 dny

    We need this back , the school should have that subject back etiquette and protocol, mandatory.

  • @nqabandlovu9723
    @nqabandlovu9723 Před 21 dnem

    Happy

  • @nenya06
    @nenya06 Před měsícem

    Thank you Sara and Ally

  • @user-uf4ie7tn6u
    @user-uf4ie7tn6u Před měsícem

    that was very interesting thsnk you!

  • @phiwo8998
    @phiwo8998 Před měsícem

    Here from Tiktok 🎉, loved this

  • @kw9592
    @kw9592 Před měsícem

    Thank you

  • @odnlva
    @odnlva Před měsícem +18

    I loove the topic and the vibe, but the whole conversation felt a bit forced. It seemed like there was a rush to discuss a lot and that's why it lacked natural flow between topics. I'd prefer it to be more like a continuous, connected discussion, now it seems more like a Q&A

    • @sba627
      @sba627 Před měsícem +5

      i agree, it would’ve been a lot better if she expanded on and further questioned sarah jane ho’s responses instead of asking new unrelated questions.

    • @armaantulsi9221
      @armaantulsi9221 Před měsícem

      Yes that’s prolly why a lot of podcasts are 1-2hrs, so the people can warm up to each other well

    • @JordynJackson-ir3ue
      @JordynJackson-ir3ue Před měsícem +1

      I agree…. wanna to hear more of Sara love this topic going to get the book

  • @kateseph98
    @kateseph98 Před 22 dny

    It's very valuable to acknowledge that just because finishing school was traditionally women only, doesn't mean that the skills aren't still valuable. Hopefully no one is telling men they can't go or women that they have to. Sidenote: is it enby privilege or erasure to not be considered lol

  • @karolinaspolsky
    @karolinaspolsky Před měsícem +1

    Tik tok brings me here. Very good content 😊

  • @jo-AnnCB
    @jo-AnnCB Před 26 dny +1

    I wish here in America gifts were not a necessity and make you feel so dam bad if you do not get enough gifts or decent gifts

  • @gam9918
    @gam9918 Před měsícem

    ❤❤❤

  • @FrayMiigwetch13_4
    @FrayMiigwetch13_4 Před 25 dny

    00:20 the way she pronounce it😬✌️ idk but ig it should be pronounce as sounds as "who"? Or I am wrong?

  • @EpicLoLs89
    @EpicLoLs89 Před měsícem

    TikTok says hi.

  • @sbshetty6377
    @sbshetty6377 Před 17 dny

    I felt guest is really amazing and know what she speaks about. The host needs to get some training to ask questions and groove the interview more interesting.

  • @CJ2023Incognito
    @CJ2023Incognito Před 13 dny

    The comment section is rude af. lol The irony.

  • @JSB651
    @JSB651 Před 26 dny

    Shes got a slight new zealand accent am i off the mark?

  • @Mahesvara935
    @Mahesvara935 Před 18 dny

    China is progressing in the past years, but the government made many mistakes now that ppl lost its trust, sad though for ordinary ppl.

  • @nav579
    @nav579 Před 22 dny +4

    Once she said she was a Sagittarius, she lost all credibility with me.

  • @hannahpark3462
    @hannahpark3462 Před 22 dny

    Yup cause all asian countries have the exact same culture. Smh

  • @violetviolet888
    @violetviolet888 Před 27 dny +3

    Ally, it would be helpful if you worked on your voice not being crackly. It's extremely distracting.

  • @TecOneself
    @TecOneself Před 24 dny +1

    Sweet

  • @SamYamn
    @SamYamn Před 15 dny

    i like everything about her except the "ho" in her name, it doesnt sound right, doesnt do her justice