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Why Jennifer & David Didn't Go to Selena Gomez Concerts
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- čas přidán 21. 02. 2023
- Why Jennifer & David Didn't Go to Selena Gomez Concerts #shorts #podcast #disneychannel #wowp #selenagomez #wizardsofwaverlyplace
They sincerely wanted to be a part of her life. You can see the hurt in their voice.
I know! And at the same time she didn’t like being on the show as she felt extremely used by Disney. It’s weird to see two sides to it all.
its sad but im glad that selena herself said she felt bad for not keeping in touch, also that she was going through alot and didnt wanna be around people that would actually tell her the truth and not stuff she wanted to hear (paraphrasing selener) but yeah its crazy to see both sides and how both are effected
You meant hear, right? Not see?
boo hoo. Buy a ticket and go b**ches!
She's amazingly incredible and so sweet.
If asked, she'd be giving away free tickets and all.
@@jesse5658 lmao found the toxic fanboy, go to bed. You're prolly one of those people who doesn't get invited to things but still asks to come😂
He sounds like a step dad that really wants to be supportive but doesn’t want to over step the kids boundaries 🥺
I love Jennifer being worried that Selena could feel bad about them not coming to her shows.
yes! she seems so sweet tbh! i’m glad we’re getting to hear and see them both!
Because they know Selena is a perpetual victim so the only way to get ahead of it is bring it up with the Selena victim narrative already included so she doesn’t get defensive.
@@mellyr2584 Damn did she dump you or something?
@@parogesexbang fr. These random ass CZcams comments thing they know Selena. Meanwhile, the two people who worked with her for years don't even know how she feels. Like my god, simmer down
I love how they didn’t bash Selena, but had a mature conversation about it❤
Maybe because they are mature adults. (I know kids don't see a lot of normal people now a days) I feel bad for them:(
@@spookybabe9042 I don’t know who you’re referring to. Take your negative comments somewhere else.
@@spookybabe9042 the only one that seems abnormal is you?
@@spookybabe9042 you don't sound very mature.
Why are yall so offended by my comment? It really wasn't meant as an insult.
I like how Jennifer is mature enough to see it from Selena’s point of view. Maybe you want the people you worked with for years to say “hey I wanna come to your show, tell me when you’re in town.”
Edit: I never had 10k (that I know of) agree with me before 💀 humbling.
Completely agree, this is the sign of total maturity.
@@miketython8055yea but if I'm not into your music like that but I was work friends, I can see not really feeling like buying tickets for a big event if you don't know if they cared for you that much anyway. I can see both sides
Yeah definitely, it's like acknowledging that they all kind of missed a step there, which is sweet and mature
@@ggundercover3681 well that's maybe what Selena was thinking, "maybe they're not into her music" so she never asks for them to come to her shows.
@@miketython8055 then what’s the purpose of Jennifer going if she’s going to be there just like any other fan? Their talking about the personal friendship and bond they had. Imagine going to someone you know’s concert, and then they feel bad that you had to pay and enter like everyone else?
He's giving English teacher that changes your life.
omg right 😭
she’s actually a nurse! ❤
She changes and saves lives now 😍
CARPE DIEM, SEIZE THE DAY, MAKE YOUR LIVES EXTRAORDINARY!!
Can someone pleaseee tell me why I recognise his face!
I love that they don't blame her. They say they wanted her to invite them, yes, but they're also saying "we should ask if it bugged her we didn't ask." Like just admitting it's possibly a miscommunication on both ends
Yes exactly. Conversations like these are needed. No jumping to hurt feelings or assuming what someone might have been thinking, just pure understanding for both sides
Well, there was definitely miscommunication, not possibly. If you don't express your needs/wants to others in some way, you not only can't justify blaming them when things don't go the way you hoped but you also definitely miss out on things. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. Use your voice. Worst Selena could have said was no, which would hurt, but not more than assuming she didn't really want you there.
@@pretzelmaker3122 This is actually one of the points I’m working on most with my kids right now. I keep telling them to “just ask, the worst they can say is no” and then we walk through what happens if they say “no”. You’ll be a little sad but then you’ll know and you won’t love with regret. Regret eats at you over time. Even the tiny stupid stuff like, “I should have asked where she got that hat from. “ It’s a subject I struggle with that I don’t want my kids to struggle with in the future.
But they should. Selena is so weird for not keeping people like these in her life. Not having the time to invite these two on your concert ? Be for real
I understand your reasoning. I would have maybe bought tickets to support her then let her know that you wanted to support her and you would be there. (If you didn't want to be that guy/girl)
I could also see how buying tickets and going might feel weird to them cause it might feel like itd come across as them trying to insert themselves in her life or get attention through her
@M H This I wouldn't want to be seen as a user. IF I wanted to support someone I'd buy the tickets and not say anything. I would NOT guilt them
@@NoThankUBeQuietexactly
Agree!
Yup. As a musician, I've been on ALL sides of this...I've given people tickets, I've had people refuse to come to my performances, I've had people pay to come see me, I've been given tickets to see my friends/colleagues perform and I've purchased tickets to see them and support them. Idk...just not going isn't really what feels the best. I'd rather have someone ask me for tickets and have to tell them no than to have them just...never show up at all.
They knew she was already dealing with a lot and they didn’t want to be another one of those people on her life. I’m sure she would’ve given them tickets and back stage passes and everything if they’d asked.
they shouldn't have to ask she's just selfish and only thinks about herself and her own feelings. but pretends to be this caring humanitarian that loves all people and spreads her be kind to everyone hypocrisy
@@chrisabshire82 They didn't have to ask, but when a friend is struggling, you support them. If that means backing off, do so, or show up even when they don't invite you, whatever. Selena has spoken on similar situations (and on Wizards) and based on this podcast and Selena's words, she was definitely struggling and regrets not reaching out more. It's difficult when you're going through scary things, doing whatever you can to avoid dealing with it and you've got friends trying to help you but you're just not ready. Yeah, it sucks, but it doesn't make anyone in this situation selfish or rude. Wow.
@@chrisabshire82based on your comment, you clearly don’t understand how mental health can effect people.
I loved how they maturely answered this. They seem sweet especially Jennifer
Totally relate to both sides. Don’t wanna be the one asking to come or make them feel pressured knowing I’m coming, but I also don’t want to give out invitations to things and make people feel obligated to come lol
This is a very good lesson for everybody. A phone call is a two way street. Just because one person doesn’t reach out, doesn’t mean the other can’t.
I love that They obviously seem to care about her, wanted to support her, but didn’t wanna impede in her like group/scene she was in. And had a mature convo abt it instead of being butthurt or angry at her. They seem to rlly respect her life and her as a person. They were understanding and mature, I love to see this on the internet
See now there’s two sides to this:
1) it would have been sincere of her to invite you because she wanted to be there but
2) it would have also been sincere of you to go simply because you wanted to show her love and support
It’s a tricky one and no one person is at fault here
Selgo should’ve surround herself with these sort of positive people. Who actually sincerely wanted to be in her life
exactly. people who had nothing to gain from affiliation and could offer her true support. they both have stable families and that’s something selena needs. not saying anything’s wrong with having friends that don’t have family, but when you’ve been through a lot you need actual stability you can count on. i’m not trying to be offensive
@@dreamkitty nah I understand what you mean what Selena surrounds herself is not these ppl who genuinely would have had her best interests at heart. Then again it’s up to Selena to want them in her life. It goes both ways.
Wow they both look great
They really do.
being an top tier celebrity kinda gives you that perspective of “i dont want the people from my personal life to take advantage of my ‘fame’ to get by” yk? these two genuinely wanted to be there for someone they worked with for years but overthought the fact they could bother her in any sort of way. where she is in society kinda gives off that vibe that she could be very busy and they genuinely did not want to invade her space as its already overwhelming enough. i respect that
This is so relatable. Imagine Selena thinking they never cared to come see her in concert, meanwhile they just didn't want to come off clingy or as freeloaders 😢
I have a friend who's starting to get gigs as a singer songwriter where I live. We hanged out a lot last year but i have the feeling the last time we saw each other it didn't really feel like he enjoyed spending time with me. I invited him to a party and last minute he told me he had rehearsal. I receive his newsletter about his concerts, but he didn't write me personally that he'd care to see me so i am not going anymore(i had been to 2 already).
At this point the ball is on his court, and the more time passes the more I doubt there is still a friendship there. Any of us could do a move, but i think it's fair to want to see proactivity from the other side, a real friendship is not a one-way ..
I think people are misunderstanding what they're talking about. I'm pretty sure they know they are capable of just buying tickets and going to the show themselves. Its about the fact that they were close to selena. If you feel like you're close to someone, I'm sure there will always be a part of you that expects the other person to invite you to their shows, bc you may see other friends of them attending and are like why did she invite them and not us. But selena also had alot going on and admitted she didnt really keep in touch that much with the wowp cast even tho she loved them. At the same time they didnt want to be one of those people ASKING for free tickets & backstage passes bc you know how theres always those kinds of "friends" that may just use you. I love how jennifer is also considering selenas side tho, maybe she did want them to come as well but didnt wanna force them and was like well they would ask me if they wanna come. There's always two sides and neither one is to blame actually bc you dont know whats going on with them and also their thought process.
Y’all are so thoughtful and kind ❤
Yes she should have invited them
They could've paid for tickets or ask, she ain't gonna invite all her crew and friends.
@@SaluteTheHarajuku and that’s fine… but they said what they said.
@@uramirez28 and they said a bunch of bs, they looked and sounded so salty especially Jenifer like girl get over it
@@SaluteTheHarajuku no they didn't, you should watch the full podcast, they are sweet
@@SaluteTheHarajuku seems like the only salty person around here is you
harper was the reason i liked the show as a child, so i’m happy to see what a good and kind person jennifer seems to be off the show all these years later
I honestly hate these kinds of mentality from people, but I get that everyone has their own perspective and opinions.
But for me, If I want to support a friend, I wont wait for them to come to me, instead I would come to them and voice out my intent.
I hate people who beats around the bushes. I like someone? I go and tell them, not wait for some miracle to happen or for them to say something about it and waste valuable time. It gets straight to the point. It creates lesser/no misunderstandings. Communication is key, people are not psychic, no matter how many "hints" u give its always better to just say what u want out loud and clear. Trust me, this will cause way lesser misunderstandings.
i thought you guys were going to ask her about this in the recent episode. either way, so excited to see this and listen to your experiences. love you both. greetings from colombia.
The fact that they didn't want to ask for tix and at the same time are worried she might be upset that they didn't come says how much they genuinely care for her.
I love how they talked about it from both perspectives and were so understanding wow
They’re obviously perfectly capable of buying tickets but they’re saying they wanted to be invited. Two different things
Yeah…some people just aren’t understanding what is being said
The issue is everyone wants to be invited and to feel like someone else is making an effort to include them in their life, but if we all waited to be invited first then we would never go anywhere. Often, YOU have to be the first person to make that effort for someone else. Then see if they are willing/able to reciprocate it. It feels like in this episode and the episode with Selena, Jennifer & David were waiting for Selena to invite them in and Selena didn't know how to invite them in because of the depression she was going through and being out-of-touch for so long. That's why buying the tickets and reaching out is another viable solution because how is she supposed to know they want to support her if they never show up for her or say "we want to support you"? they want to be invited, but don't want to have to ask to be invited. Selena may want to invite them, but she doesn't want to ask for their time/attention/support. You should never blame someone else for not starting the very conversation that you are unwilling to start. Be the person who starts the conversation.
No I get that, but I'm confused because I personally would have still bought a ticket and went to support my friend. Sometimes a person has to take that first step. The way they went about talking about this seems weird to me.
@@katimillard5924his entire conversation is about staying in contact with Selena. She’s not some local musician who could hang out with them after the concert, she is a global celeb. She has meet and greets with fans and has a schedule. If they want to go to her concert, I’m sure their intention would be to spend time with her and I’m sure that’s what Selena would want as well…that they not just show up and that they could actually sit and talk. Everyone saying they could have bought the ticket and sent a text message that they are there as if she ain’t a global star…like I doubt reading and responding to texts right before a concert would be her first priority. Plus that would make her feel worst that her friends had to buy tickets to see her and that she won’t be able to give them time.
I love that they acknowledge there’s two sides to this cause I’ve been on both sides. Both not going to something because I wasn’t invited for not wanting to be a burden or bothersome (it was a similar like public thing that I could have gone to but yeah) and wanting someone to ask about coming with me to something or asking to visit without me having to like tell them to come
aww bless them they’re so sweet
i love seeing my fav characters from my fav show growing up together talking honestly abt their experiences
They could have just bought tickets and went. Actually support her. Then they could have been like, "yes! I bought tickets to this tour, she doesn't know, but she was incredible" and that would have been so special if she found out.
My thought excactly! Instead of passive-agressive guilt tripping selena
@@madeleinemay3317 girl no, you may have taken it that way, but that is not what this was
I mean it's quite a lot of money and effort to buy a concert ticket
@@madeleinemay3317 That was absolutely not “passive aggressive” or “guilt tripping” in the slightest! They genuinely love and care about Selena like family! He was saying how he felt and they both talked about seeing things from her point of view as well and asking how it made her feel. Literally the most healthy and sweet possible way of handling this situation.
@@madeleinemay3317 no no this is how grown ups talk and communicate
Emotional maturity on fleek
People here saying they just should have bought tickets are not understanding the difference between being a fan and being an actual friend. Buying a ticket is nothing more than financial support and being one in a group of thousands. Getting invited means supporting her as a friend and standing by her side through it all. It's not the same.
They were co-workers
That’s so stupid.
Getting tickets shows you actually support them, shows you don’t want special treatment.
If somebody invited me to a restaurant of their own, and told me “don’t pay”, I’m STILL paying something, because a REAL friend doesn’t want to feel like we’re being greedy just talking free food.
So same with tickets, somebody could have bought those tickets to actually SUPPORT Selena. Rather than just coming for free.
Yeah, great friends they are. Will only go to her show if it’s free and she personally invites them. Oh, but they won’t actually make the effort to communicate any of this to her, they just expect her to intuit it, and are also happy to talk about it online so they can frame themselves as being sooo humble and kind.
@@OnlyAl3x yea but u got invited to restaurant by ur friend, then offered to pay. They didnt even get an invite from selena. (Paying for ticket was not the issue.) Hope u got the point they r trying to make
@@OnlyAl3x yea but u got invited to restaurant by ur friend, then offered to pay. They didnt even get an invite from selena. (Paying for ticket was not the issue.) Hope u got the point they r trying to make
Omg!! I grew up watching every show! I loved and still love that show when Disney plus came out that is the first thing I did along with Phineas and Ferb’s!! You guys where such a big part of my childhood!! I now see you guys do different projects and I always make sure to watch every single one!!! This is going yo be so fun to listen to! I listen to podcasts on the daily so I just want to say thank you!!!
I Love you guys so much 😭❤️ you’re so sweet and genuinely care about your relationships with each other 🥺
David is so cute 🥺
Bless he seemed like he really cared for her
I probably would have had the same thoughts. But on the flip side, it’s easy to get caught up in everything in life and miss the way things used to be without knowing how to ask or feeling embarrassed to admit that you’re just craving something else as if your current life isn’t “good enough.” I understand both sides but all it takes is for one person to communicate it ❤
I think this is great to show how we can’t let our fears of being judged or fears of what we saw to be interpreted in a different way stop us from being in the life’s of people we care for. Even if they reject it at least we can know we tried all we could
I understand that they would like her to take the initiative. They want to feel special and part of her life. But if they wanted to see her live to just get the experience, they could have just bought the tickets and gone to the concert.
I have done that for friends. I buy the tickets, or their books. I try to talk to them there or I call them later and tell them I was there. It's great. You reconnect that way it's much better than just staying waiting for the other person to make the move.
no shame on them, but personally if I wanted to support my friends I would buy my own ticket and not tell her until after the show just incase they feel like they have to give me special treatment. Just go, be hyped, join in on the joy, and just message them later and tell them "Hey girl your show was amazing, totally killed it.
They still look so good
Cannot believe a tv show I GREW UP WITH made a podcast. So happy to live in this world rn.
It’s crazy how overthinking leads to missing out on experiences. I can definitely relate to not wanting to bother people and ask to hang
Y'all missing the point here. Its not about getting free tickets. Its about getting an invite from someone u regard as family. They are coworkers and multiple times regarded themselves as a close family. Suppose your sister plans a dinner party and doesnt invite u, how would u feel? (Its not about who's paying)
this is one of my all-time favorite Disney shows
I didnt have my dad around during the time i watched wizards, and YOU were one of my dads. Now seeing how you really act (because ive never seen interviews or anything outside of wizards), i dont regret looking up to you as a father figure because the man behind the Dad is actually a sweet, genuine, loving man. Thank you for being there, and i know im not the only person that looked up to you as a father figure because we didnt have our own.
Buying tickets would have been another option. To show support. And be there without her needing to give you tickets.
You know how quickly tickets sell out right? 💀 especially in big cities they sell our in minutes
@@CarlyGayJepsen plan ahead. Or don't. I'm just saying there are other options
Ikr
Yeah idk why his only option to go to her concert was "I wanted her to invite me" he didn't want to ask for tickets or he didn't want to pay for tickets? 😅
They aren’t asking to go in for free they just don’t want to make her feel like their using her. Also they’re basically family they alll grew up together so they wanted to feel important and wanted
They both look so good
They're adorable 🖤
It’s called, “showing interest!”
Don’t make excuses!!!
You all truly show that you care and I think that is something Selena needs in her life. I hope she starts contacting you all more and getting closer again
Okay but she is so gorgeous theyve both aged beautifully
You have to understand that they are referring to big concerts, but they saw her singing other times and went to other events.
Oh my god, I haven’t seen these two in years. Especially David. I recognized the voice first
He's such a daddy!!!
That's so true. I don't think I'll ever be in that situation, but I can fathom that feeling. Totally understandable where they want to support out of love but don't want to be misconstrued into users, like so many other people have been in the celebrity/Hollywood community
My favorite show ever, miss you guys on tv....
I love Selena as an artist as a strong woman as a business owner she is icon. But man she is not a good friend it’s been proven since forever 😭
Is giving Aquarius vibes
The responsibility is not on her to invite people to a PUBLIC event.
This is so off-topic but I grew up not knowing my dad, and I always looked up to David and wished I had a dad like his character. Watching this right now I finally realize who my father-in-law reminds me of. Again completely off-topic, but just a really sweet moment for me, realizing how similar they are and how cute it is that I wanted someone just like the man I got for a father-in-law 😊
Yes because you are family 🙏🙏❣️❣️
This so real, they all more or less had a big break together and they grew like a family only but then she goes on to be something absolutely phenomenal and iconic and the family has one less member. It just like idk makes you feel sal i guess
aw they’re so sweet dude
She loves you guys and probably didn’t want you to feel obligated.
So true
I love how they don’t take from hate even if they are hurt
I can see it from both points of view honestly. They didn't want to ask her because they didn't want her to feel like they were using her for tickets, and on the other hand she wouldn't want to ask them because she doesn't want to be like ‘Hey, come to my show and watch me perform because I'm amazing,’ etc.
Yeah they could have bought tickets, but tickets for big shows are honestly really hard to get hold of. I've tried to get tickets for big bands/comedians in the past, they sell out in literally seconds.
This is sad 😢 I love his voice though, it’s so lovely. They both seem genuinely hurt.
I mean I get what they’re saying - but it’s not only the two choices of “get free tickets from her and go” or “don’t get free tickets from her and don’t go”. Buy a ticket and support your friend and coworker. Watch someone you care for doing the thing they love, just because. You don’t need to be asked and given a free ticket to go to a concert and show support.
One day I’m sure she’ll remember.
This was so mature I love it
Buy the tickets and go!
At least they think of it both ways that maybe the fact they didn't reach out might have hurt her and acknowledge it but still admitting that they were hurt to cause she didn't ask theyr sweet
I love Jen being concerned abt Selena’s pov bc I could totally see it from that pov. Not inviting people to come bc they never express interest on going
Jennifer is so pretty ❤
Love the honesty
I think maybe she was going through so much that she didn't want you guys to see her that way. Based on "My mind and me" .. she was feeling very bad about herself during shows.. And you guys mean so much to her, she maybe didn't want to let you down....
Im just assuming based on what i know about her through different shows ive seen and her being open about her health
I’m so glad I found this podcast
Maybe buy tickets and show support... It's not one sided ...
Why would you want to buy a ticket to a friend’s concert (and we’re talking about an international musician here not some local musician with a super busy schedule) and then be a nuisance to her when she’s at work. Jennifer even says that the concert is Selena’s day at the office, and if they want to spend time with her they can’t when she’s busy. The whole purpose is to spend time and to let her know they are there, but if she’s super busy how would she even know they are there?
i went to her houston texas rodeo concert in 2011, it was so iconic. i love her so much.
You're just both si sweet!❤
You know you can just buy tickets right? 😂 if my friend had a concert I would buy a ticket- because that’s how I would show my support. A lot goes into big productions and it is just a wonderful thing to do to support all the stage hands, venue, lighting and sound techs. Be the friend that cheers! Be the friend that lights up their face on stage when they spot you in the crowd. 😊
pretty sure she's richer than them. It's not really about ticket prices anyways, it's not like they said they wanted FREE tickets. And unless Sel was going to have them close in the show, with how big concerts are, she was not going to see them in the crowd LOL.
You didn’t need to ask for tickets. Why wouldn’t you just buy them and go support her??
don’t forget where you come from, and your biggest supporters from day 1. honestly feel bad for them they seem so sweet and genuine.
They most definitely are hurt and love her. But I mean I get why she might never ask. Despite them being close at one point when they were in Wizards of Waverly Place, Selena had a horrible experience w Disney and probably wanted to forget that time. They so badly want to be in her life, but maybe she doesn’t want that.
I think this is very valid from Selena's POV, I also won't know if you don't tell me type thing. I would just think "oh sorry but I didn't know you wanted to be with me in that specific moment" i just would rather not compromise others i guess then i come out as not caring but its just caring too much i think
BUY TICKETS FRONT ROW & SUPPORT HER.
I remember him with Eva, Anna and Zach (his sisters and his best friend)
him and Zach with NACH girls
Wow, I think this speaks volumes about the person that she is, no matter how many documentaries she shoots showing us who she is.
I like that they brought this up
They should have just asked it’s not that big a deal Selena is sweet and wouldn’t mind them asking.
If she’s so sweet, why didn’t she ever invite them? 🤔
@@kerrikline14 listen to what she said when she showed up, she said she regretted not being involved with them but she wasn't because she was embarrassed about things she's done and scared about the feedback they'd give her.
@@BoomerBomb26she says anything and u fans will eat it up lmfao😂 she’ll say anything to sound good
Aw!! Im sure she would’ve loved to have you there if you had asked, David!
“Hey when are you going to be touring in (insert town) next? Would love to see you” doesn’t seem that difficult to me? It’s open for her to offer and you’re showing interest. If it just ends up being for a quick coffee that’s still nice even
Why do we complicate things so much? I often tiptoe around people because I'm afraid of hurting their feelings only to hurt their feelings by not asking personal questions and making them feel like I care. 😮💨
I met her once at the primere of shrek 2 I think, at the Chinese theater on a trip with the boys and girls club, she gave a speech and asked if anyone had questions and one girl asked if she could call Selena, that right there was an inappropriate question in my opinion but the worse part is that she did call her but she didn’t answer her or at least called her or texted her but ig she was busy, at least thats what she said but she def did not look to happy she didn’t answer
I need this show back not the style but the show
One things for sure, it's a selena gomez concert so they didn't really miss much in the terms of seeing talent and musicianship perform lmao
Well I can see selena not wanting to assume that everyone she's worked with wants to see her in concert and like be all high and mighty about it like oh look I'm a big deal come to my show kinda thing. Like I can see thst being another reason she didn't specifically ask them to go to a show cause she may not want to appear like she's inflating her own ego that they want to go see her
Awww this was sweet. They love her they just don’t want to overwhelm her.
1) They shouldn't expect for her to invite them 2) They shouldn't wait for her to get them tickets.
If you care n wanna be supportive, you'd buy you and ticket and just go. She'd have approached that