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I have had white men be racist to me because I am not attracted to them.. White men that like me have often told me they cannot see me being with a black man, as if black men are below me …meantime my daddy is a Black Man, my brother my cousins my grandfather etc .. Racism abounds with them and racists have NO MANNERS
Let's be real. W men terribly abuse W women - especially in early childhood.. Those girls grow into venom, making ill anyone they please. It's a vicious cycle B men (and women) suffer from the lack of positive male figures in the home, which leads to B male degeneracy later in life - another vicious cycle. There is a reason B men & W women typically find hope in each other, while W men & B women find a partner.
I don't think it's that they don't understand. It's that they are surprised that we know what they're actually like. They think we are stupid and won't see through them.
Boom, they expect and feel entitled to our blind allowance of violating our humanity, ongoing. They are offended that their WP card is rejected. I am that one that will burst that little entitled bubble with a sharp stick pin😂
We’ve had 400 years to watch them, study them, and see how dangerous they can really be when they want to. I’m a black man and I see how they behave around black women in the workplace. Hell, we’re not even safe around them. White tears, manipulation, and complaints in the workplace lead to black people losing jobs, etc.
I remember my mother told me she worked with a nice ww but one day she went to my mother’s house for one thing or another. After that day she treated my mother horribly. She expected my mother to be living in abject poverty but she was probably living better than her. She was ok when she thought my mother was beneath her but.
I had a weird WW,who is over a decade older than me,look me in my face and say " I don't understand why you look so young,we're the same age". I was like What in thee entire???? She looks me in my face searching for wrinkles etc. Truly INSANE BEHAVIOR!!!!!
My cousin got fired from a job at a high-paying corporate position because she put her hands on her hips during a conversation with one of these people. The woman reported that she felt threatened by my cousin because she put her hands on her hips during a conversation.
Well, she never should’ve put her hand on her hips during a disagreement because I’m black and if she would’ve did that to me, I’m going to HR. This is not the corner of 24th and Lennox you make any gesture to me that’s threatening. I’m going to HR tell your cousin to learn how to professionally curse someone out. A black secretary came around the counter to address my very black friend and because the principal don’t like my black friend the secretary did not get fired Absolutely not you Women are crazy.
When I worked a corporate job it was a white woman I thought was a friend who cried to the boss saying I was aggressive with her. I was stunned I had never gotten aggressive period, found out a comment I made to her about where I got my suit because we were both plus sized women hurt her feelings and she went to him in tears. It was eye opening for me and it had me realize I couldn't trust the people around me.
Same here and sometimes the Asian woman plays this role too sadly I was called aggressive because I had to get up from the table to go to the bathroom I literally dismissed myself and they said it looked threatening because I was tall What the heck?
This isnt a good example because you dont say that to random people. Go online or a store where its ok to say that. Some ppl arent ok with you lumping them with your plus size self.
@@Gia-mg5nx It wasnt a random person it was a coworker, who got me into the job (hence why I thought she was a friend). Excuse me for not disclosing the full context because its a youtube comment section but she was plus size as well and made a comment about my suit which I gave her the were I got it and that she could get stuff there to. There was no aggression and should not have been reported as such. It was a microaggression and taught me to guard myself on the job.
The same white woman who touched my hair without permission also cried in class because I said white women owned slaves. We we in grad school and both non-traditional students.
It’s actually not weird, I think it’s normal curiosity. Just not always welcomed. People are weird. There was a video of a black girl who was mesmerized by an albino man sitting next to her on a train; she thought he was an angel. He looked different from her and she reached out to touch him. She even touched his hair. Gasp! The audacity! A child, people. It was an innocent and endearing moment. Not salacious. I also used to have people ask to touch my hair all the time when it was bone straight because it looked silky. It was a normal thing. I didn’t take offense, I just didn’t always respond with a yes. People are curious about things that are different from them. Yes, some people can be rude and condescending, even horrible, and I get that! But, a lot of times people are attracted to you because of your beauty and difference. There was also a girl in my high school that I wanted so badly just to touch her beautiful hair. It was long , red and magnificently curly. It’s not because I thought less of her. It’s because I’d never seen something so beautiful. Many women with curls have people that want to touch their curls: white, black and in between. All people are weird and dumb and rude and confusing and great and wonderful. All people. And I don’t think many people know about or even try to remotely care about boundaries. That’s the real issue. I have tattoos on my sides and strangers would walk up to me and just start lifting up my shirt to look at them. Like, excuse me, back off. I understand people don’t want to be touched or bothered, but it really isn’t limited to one type. I understand you are speaking about one type of person on here; this is my experience, perhaps I can shed light on a different perspective. And as far as women (of any ethnicity or color) in the workplace?!! Don’t trust a single one of them.
@@wendybmorebut are you a child? Also since when did you become a yardstick for what people deem acceptable or not? I'm sure your little story is a lie because..... But also, this narrative is not played out. Stop harassing and abusing black women because they said they don't want you to touch them. The entitlement.
She just wrote a whole dissertation…these folks touch our hair on the sly and even sniff it. It’s weird and its nothing like that video with that man. Nice try though 🙄
Recent events with these WW and DJ Vlad prove this very point. The moment they don’t feel centered they try to destroy a black person’s career/ income. They are truly way more vindictive and hateful than we actually think
But if the bear isn't there, and the next button choices are WW OR WM, I'm choosing WM. I can see him coming a mile away. I'll know he's a friend or foe. WW will pretend to be my friend on a recon mission only to her ammunition to use against us. What's worse, if we stay to ourselves, doing nothing to no one, saying nothing to no one, ww will come for our careers. I'm sure many bw in this comment section found themselves in the bosses offices for saying nothing to no one too much.
I had a white coworker who couldn’t accept the fact that I was shy. She started telling people I was mean and didn’t like her. And she would cry all the time to me like oh you really don’t like me. I eventually warmed up to her, until I heard these rumors came back around to me.
@@KEOSHAANEILIAgirl yes! I work at a chiropractic place for this doctor & his wife. They are clearly racist. I have 5 coworkers(4 black & 1 Hispanic). They give them their ass to kiss but I don’t tolerate it. The wife has this hateful obsession with me. Watching me,talking about me,even coming to the area I work to stare at what’s on my desk. lol
The comment by a ww saying "ww are not a harm to black women"... proves our point. Most ww don't listen, they just want to throw their white power around.
true , but we blk women would rather play the victim ..than make the men of our own group raise the standard . Its natural not to like those that dont look like you but crazy when most of the real harm comes from inside the blk diaspoas various communities
@@sayeedharem4673 stop it. Blvck women are the least likely to play victim. They are also the main group of people that holds blvck men accountable for the current state of our community and also knows what part they have played.
1st Question: Would you rather be stuck in a room with a BM or BW? 2nd Question: Would it be offensive if other races congregated in the comment sections to make their pick?
Even if you know them in the workplace, still feel apprehensive. They may be cool with you for a long time, but they’ll suddenly show their racist disdain for you unprovoked.
I do that but it's really bc I'm tired of you being in my face and being so trusting in such a cutthroat environment. We all have to pretend we like each other and it's exhausting. I'll do the same thing to other white women but just in a different way. And they react the same as bw and hw. Get all freaked out and upset and sad. But it's really because I don't know how else to tell you I'm over it. And then y'all start harping about "oh then why are you working here and doing this job?" Well, Tricia, maybe it's because without a job, I'd be homeless and nobody wants that.
They got her page demonetized because they're mad they got exposed...not because she lied. Which proves further the point that most WW know why most BW would not choose them.
The term "Karen" was not created for no reason, and there's also a reason why ww are often depicted as hypersexual in black films, always throwing themselves on black men even if the man never indicated any interest, the groping I've witnessed in real life is crazy.
@@bootscooty Many BW would prefer to work with a BW versus a BM. So no, it is not about women, unfortunately, is about the race of woman. BW would rather work with an Asian woman, Indigenous woman, than a WW. So when I say the most problematic group to work with is a WW. Even other races would agree.
@@evadburns That's cool and I understand where you're coming from because white women are problematic with even each other but as far as women in the workplace I will definitely take a man over a woman most times because the amount of BS I've had to deal with has been literally crippling. I'm talking about (no matter the race of woman) immediate and automatic challenges to my legitimacy, side eyes right away, trying to get me fired, talking all kinds of crazy cutting stuff while the boss isn't around and then all smiles when the boss is around... it just makes me feel so insecure and scared that I've picked delivery driving as a profession because that's how little I want to deal with people at this point.
These are the same group that utilizes the police force at their whime - walking dogs, selling water, minding your own business… etc. yet, they are shocked at bw’s response. 😂😂😂
Same group that made our history books so screwed up, that is the reason for the confederate flag is worshiped, and is willing to lie to your face and then cry a river when their proven wrong
And the most trashy. The only race that will date/marry/f--outside their race consistently and when they are ready to get serious claim they are as Pure as snow when they know they have TONS of notches on their bedposts. I have seen it time and again. Even had a white neighbor tell me if I were to ever leave my husband she and others in the neighborhood would make sure he was taken care of. 😮. Quickly unfriended that b--.
I’m a black woman and at my previous job I was micromanaged, gaslighted, bullied, and lied on. I also wasn’t being properly trained as well. When I tried to speak up about not being properly trained and being told to just have the clients send us emails, my manager at the time who was a white woman accused me of lying and said I wasn’t following policy on purpose. Before that, I BEGGED my trainer to properly train me but she always claimed she was “ busy “. She was a white woman as well. I was later fired for not being “ the right fit “. What worst is that manager bragged to everyone that I have time off for my birthday then she fired me two days before my PTO started. My PTO was paid out to me and even though I tried to fight back, they told me there was nothing I can do. I choose the white man over the white woman when it comes to managers anyday.
I've experienced the lack of training in almost every job that I've had. It's intentional to sabotage our performance and stall our career growth. We've GOT get together on these things. You had a lawsuit on your hands if you documented as well.
As a mixed person, it's interesting that both WM and BW are the most educated and go getters of their race when you look at statistics. Interesting stuff. It is sad BW can't even express their misogynoir experience but WW can express their sexism experience.
Let's be clear, BM, are the most educated women in America! My belief is WW learning and expanding their education has been stagnant due to the belief that their skin color is all they need!
This is what I think happens: White mans mind: "alright next interview. Hmm, resume looks good, professional outfit, I like this candidate. I wonder what I'm doing for lunch? Isn't the game this Sunday? I need to ask Dave for the name of that beer we had last time. I want Chinese food today" White woman's mind: "ugh another interview. Who is SHE? Why did she wear those shoes? I hope she knows I'm seeing Dave. Why does she have to apply here of all places? I'm the girl boss, the queen bee, this is my territory. Let me just play nice, she won't last long"
I've also noticed that some white men (who know who they are) who have Black women on their teams will see her presence there as a mark of pride in his leadership sometimes. If she is assertive in getting things done, he will actively encourage her, and when she shows off her skills and talents for all to see, he will show open pride. I once worked for a white man like that, and honestly, I was not expecting that kind of behavior.
I work for a high grossing “small business” owner who is a white male & it’s this exact comment all the time & im the only BW employed between 98 employees & 2 locations. He’s always complimenting my work & giving bonuses. You nailed it with this comment because he does get that glowing look when clients compliment my work.
The passive & microaggressions I deal with at work is really disgusting. Her emotions being labeled passionate and ours aggressive is the epitome of why I will never sit in comfort around them.
One of the things about them is their entitlement.Their words are taken as gospel over you.And you have to assess the surroundings you are in and have to move with caution is like walking on eggshells.
I remember being asked why you are always dressing up ? This is a call center. No one sees you, I replied because I can, she never approached me again.
My mom befriended a white woman at work. The other white women looked down on her because she was a young single mother. She started stealing. When she got caught she blamed her ONLY ally...my Black mother!! It was decades ago and I still get mad about it!
@@Mangoos393 if you don't understand history, you can't fix your present or future. They would lie and call people witches when they were jealous. So thousands died from yt lies and tears. If you understand this, you don't invite to the cookout. Smile, wish them well and tell them stay over there. The problem has always been the women. The men just do the nasty stuff to make their women happy. King George of England changed a law so that they wouldn't look bad for killing children. The rule is used till this day by police " Don't resist". They can shoot you because you resisted arrest. Again know your past to fix your future.
@@bdott1538yes I can agree with this. I mean wow, lest black men and women decide that either one is greater the great is way, I don’t know what I would saying but contribute one either isn’t getting us nowhere.
When one of the commentators spoke about her experience with white women at the gym, I yelled out. Yes! They complain about everything. They go to the gym. They’re sweating. They complain that it’s too hot to the front desk. In Zumba class they’re telling the instructor what type of music they want to hear or not hear. But on the white man versus white women issue, I would prefer a white man because I’ve had better experiences with white men. The experiences I’ve had with white women was to hold me down from reaching my full potential. My principal was white, and she passed me up for promotion. She gave the job to another white woman who did not have a license for the position and I did. That’s another story.
You are not lying. They do it to all ages. There was a news story of a ww who gave out cupcakes to the black students at her school that had her husbands sperm in it and she took pictures of them eating the cupcakes. It was all over the news. I recommend not participating in their potlucks.
I've had situation w/white teachers when I was in school. I had my kindergarten teacher (ww) grab my arm and yank me out of a chair bcuz I raised my hand to go to the bathroom. 1 even thought I was cheating cuz a WOC couldn't be smart enough to get a 100 on a test.
My 3rd and 4th grade teachers were both racist white women, who also happened to drop their white woman tears when I told on them about the mistreatment. I had never been in so much “trouble” except the years I was in their classrooms. When I had a white man the following year things turned around for me. He was the best teacher I’ve had out of my elementary, middle and high school experience. 20 years later and he still keeps tabs with me and other students. He was my 5th grade teacher. A really kind and caring man.
I am reader. I checked out as many books as we were allowed each time. In 6th grade the teacher gave us a reading assignment in social studies. I read the chapter and then pull out a book. She yells at me for not doing the assignment. I'm told to read it again. So I do. I finish AGAIN, and pull out another book. Once again she yells at me and takes the book. I'm told to read the chapter that I've already read 2 times. This time when I finish I leave the textbook up and put the book on the inside so it looks like I'm reading the textbook. She walks up to me, snatches the book, and yells at me for reading another book EVEN THOUGH I read her requested passage thrice now. She sends me out to another with a disciplinary sheet. I take my last book with me. I fill out the sheet, read my book and the other teacher never says a word to me until it's time for me to go back to my class. Mrs Hankins was an old white mean lady that should have retired. This was the beginning of me being discouraged about school as a whole. I believe had I had a different teacher I would have tried harder and consistently.
That's one of the reasons I left corporate America only to find they are like that everywhere if they are in positions of authority. The more I've been complimented for my work and my appearance, the more of a target I became to the WW in management. They are disgusting, competitive, underhanded and insecure AF! I just went through the same ish again and my co-worker contacted me and let me know everyone sees it. He said they are starting to put in complaints on her and feel like she is a cancer to the whole department. We had a diverse race of supervisors and she was over them all. All of the other supervisors were respectful and complimentary and she hated when they praised me. The more compliments I received, the worse it got with her (not surprising) The co-worker that contacted me was a male who was also very good at his job and he said, it always has to be a WW that messes everything up. Not only do they go insane if you are good at your job, but when men, especially BM, even speak to BW, just on a platonic level, they get retarded AF and start losing it. They literally act like the BM is their property. I have gotten along well with some WW co-workers, although they pull that victim ish all the time, but when they are in authority, they are like a dark crazy cloud over everything
She's not allowed to ask the question?!?!! But yt women can ask theirs... colonizers trying to colonize what questions can be asked... LOL but really sad too
but blk men have the means, yet havent built platforms for you and I to vent , voice and a private space away from Nazi admins and moderators , so we're now scared of taking action with the men and boys we birth ??gotcha
Y'all are allowed to dish it out, but can't take it back or else you cry racism and try to silence the Whites who dare to oppose your BS points and lies about us. See how that works?
SMH. Yep. They have absolutely proven our point. The fact that they collectively reported that sister’s account and got her demonetized speaks volumes. And they wonder why we don’t want to have anything to do with them.
you can only be competition to a Becky if the men in your family provide, protect ,build and ride for you Theyll see that and try to take whatever crumbs fall by the wayside .Since blk men havent featured us as a collective neither hospitals ,films , comics or art ....we bk women must act now
Racism isn't limited to gender though. Whilst WM don't view BW as competition, I think even by the content creator asking the question, it's making it seem as though WM are fine with BW at work and I'd say that isn't the case, especially when you're more likely to have a male boss than a female one. WW will most likely outwardly show they don't like you. whereas, WM will pretend they do, but behind office doors, take action that could be detrimental to your working life. Overall, though, some people in all places, and of all races, you will connect with or clash with. That's my perspective anyway.
I honestly believe they know exactly what they're doing. The real reason they're angry, upset, and ready to report this creator is bc she called them out and made them uncomfortable. We have to stop giving them grace bc I promise they won't give it to us.
In my experience, working with WW for 34 years has been a roller coaster ride. Some were ok, but others were terrible humans to both men and women if they didn't get their way. 1. WW actively concern themselves and insert themselves into ALL spaces. 2. Their damsel in distress syndrome is real, and the WM in my office often complained about their wives not having the capability to do the most basic tasks and how they were financially stressed because their educated wives demanded to be at home moms after the kids are over daycare age. 3. You can't present yourself as smarter than them even though we have different degrees and pay scales. 4. You can't show your creativity. I cook and decorate our office to perfection and WW complained. 5. WW find the token melanated person to do their dirty work to other melanated people to avoid a conversation when they are wrong. 6. A WW complained about me coming into the office. "Put together and smelling good." 7. My daughter and my white co-worker daughter were home for spring break, and she forced her daughter to go home and put herself together while she was injured because my daughter came in PUT TOGETHER. 8. I have seen a WW try to use their influence to get a person assigned in a different country because her daughter fell in love with a Mexican man. 9. WW make it a point to know what you did over the weekend, where you live to assess your property value, and the level of degrees that our kids have. 10. Ultimately!!!! If a WM come into my office and take an interest in a woman of color, WW come unglued because they can't fathom the thought that WM are attracted to women of color. And ask each other, how did she attract an attractive and high earning WM.
Absolutely on point! And yes they want to know about your weekend, holiday, vacation because they have to measure themselves up against it to try and figure out who they are- nothing
Although this is true, it’s better to work with wm than ww. However, we cannot ignore that wm seem to condone ww behavior. When bw expresses their concerns, wm tends to disregard them, and ww's behavior goes unchecked.
When white women speak, white men see their moms, sisters , aunts and daughters…. They will defend it.. as they should… Our MEN missed the MEMO… those guys will always protect their women right or wrong…. Had Black Women had the same privilege of OUR MEN seeing us that way; and protecting us …it would be a balance and women of all races will have mutual respect for one another….THE SCALES ARE NOT BALANCED. They see us a strays, we have no protection other than each other, and that becomes a threat for them…😮😮😮 The threat is the fact that we Self Teach ,Self Motivate ourselves , multi-talented and task on another level, very intelligent and witty, excellent business women and leaders , and our looks are given youthful beauty,even when aging,…etc. I can go on…😂😂😂
This is true but the same if not worse can be said about bw. You all act entitled to non bm jobs, resources, and opportunities while screaming racism, misogyny, and saying how much you all prefer bm. Why would wm favor bw over ww when most bw don’t like wm? Ww are still wm daughters, sisters, mothers, friends, and dating prospects. What’s bm excuse as to why they favor other groups of women over bw? Bw have to change their perspective.
No still try to be accepted by them ,the newest fad white man , black women glow up on CZcams ! Only race on earth explaining interracial relationship. Sooooo tired of this stupidity.
YES, it's become comic view for me over the years. Each occasion below I've noticed that it's been mostly older WW age 40/50+ doing weird jealous stuff. WWomen (never a WMale) have stopped me or come over to me as I'm loading groceries, getting in/out my car or waiting on the hand car wash. They've made eye contact to give me a nasty look. Move their cars at the gas pump. Have come over invading my space acting fake EXTRA asking _"What type of car is this!?! It's beautiful!!!! You're tiny, how do you handle such a big car"_ 😱😱 It's a newer premium German mfg car. It's NOT _exotic_ but it is nice. There's PLENTY of them on the road in SoCal. What I've figured out is they really want to make this stank _statement,_ to a stranger, but can't. _"How can YOU, a BWoman, afford to have a late model car that even I don't/can't have._ They're always in a silent race against other women, except you don't know to lace your running shoes. When I've caught what they were up to a few times, I've told them the _truth,_ and..I RUB IT IN! since they're really being a sneaky sh!t starting PAggressive Karen: I sweetly say _"My "executive" huZband is a car fanatic._ Keywords I KNOW they'll hate to hear coming from me because it confirms that I'm not struggling single BWoman. It signals to them that I too have the nice lifestyle most of them have always had. Unfortunately, I know the WCommunity doesn't automatically equate "executive" to black men. My hubby is not black. I go on to add: _"He LOVES nice everyday cars and is also an antique collector. I don't care about cars nearly as much as he does, yet he still BUYS me a new one every 3 yrs. This one is for errands & our 2 big dogs._ The hostile look that washes over their faces😡😤 My husband has witnessed it when the woman didn't think we were a couple going to the same car. I know they're driving off calling me all kinds of black witches🤬 😂 SideBar: I mean NO disrespect to hardworking SingleMoms/Sistas. I don't have kids but once upon a time I've been in a tough spot too. It ain't pretty nor fun. I've got so much respect & LOVE for you👸🏾❤Always choose yourself first. DIVEST your dating options!
@@beeznhoney4323 It is so considerate of you to add this side note!!! You must be a really empathetic person. Not that it should mean anything to you, but, happy that you're doing well financially and relationship wise.
I had a woman ask about my car and the features … during all of this , she kept pointing at her car (a Lexus) and kept saying “see that’s my Lexus over there “ …. I’m like lady this isn’t a competition…. Just weird I also had a Caucasian women tell me , Oh ! It must be nice to not have to buy gas … I’m like okkkk , you definitely could’ve kept that to yourself… she didn’t compliment or anything , just made that comment …
I have people flip me off, and I even had one female wightwalker sideswipe me. People also always ask what I do, and how I afford my lifestyle. No one asks wp how they get anything.
I really dislike how we as BW and BM allow white people to say "I know your afraid of us and I, we, should make you feel comfortable". That's gives into an ego and superiority complex.
Bingo. There's this unnecessary self-assignment to do something... anything. The discontent with unprovoked attacks isn't to now try hard to make me comfortable. Don't go out of the way to harm, don't go out of the way appease... GET OUT OF THE WAY. You're not needed, stop inserting yourself.
listen im white and a woman. I’ve worked with all types of women and they all seem to be terrible to each other! i’d rather work with any man of any color over any woman of any color
Please link her CZcams, I want to support this sister, because I’m also a very smart and astute, beautiful black woman. Who has been constantly railroaded by women like this all of my life. This is why I have always had a side hustle, and I’m working my absolute best to have my own business so I don’t have to deal with this type of nonsense or working world anymore. I implore other black women to do the same.🙏🏾
Absolutely! Keep encouraging our young Black sisters to do this. I'm doing the same. We don't need to tolerate this diabolical abuse from these WW entities.
I definitely have repressed the memories of working for white women, my best times ever were working for white men so there’s that. WW literally brought me to tears at this one job because they kept picking on me about my hair and outfits, as a receptionist job of a big hair salon business. not to mention I was the only black receptionist and even though I made the most commissions and tips and I was there from open to close I got treated the worst. I’ll never forget. but I learned at my last job eight years ago as a 20-year-old working for a white woman, that I would never work for someone else again unless it’s for my own clients. I’ve been working for myself ever since. Thank God, I have the skills to do that.
As a bw at 62, I no longer work, but have had many jobs, hence many supervisors. I can only remember having two ww as supervisors. I prefer the wm. I had one wm supervisor say, just do your job and don't get me in trouble. I've gotten great evaluations from both wm and the two ww. Although one ww said I didn't show enough initiative; when I had, she felt I overstepped, so I stopped...just a job. Wm insisted on my receiving awards, medals, going away parties, etc. They don't feel threatened by me, tbh most were protective of me...I was good with that.🤷🏾♀️
I find that ww are more threatened by young black girls,especially if she's pretty, talented and darkskin. They rlly lose it if shes pretty and darkskin.
@sparklesp9304 I agree, wm will be supportive and nice to you until WW come into the picture. Then they will turn on you. My dept is in utter chaos now because of wm siding with all the ww. Needless to say, I've turned them all into hr.
I remember years ago I was walking by a white coworker and she told another white coworker that she didn’t like me. I never had any interaction with before. Never understood at the time why she felt that way. Of course over time I learn the reality. I was like 18/19 yrs old. Just recently was introduced to a white lady on my first day on the job and it was clear she did not like me. Never ever met her before and every encounter I could feel she had an issue with me.
In my opinion, I’m always gonna choose the man over the woman regardless of the race. Some women are so insecure within themselves that no matter what you say or do they will still dislike you without even knowing you or your story. They could dislike you over your looks, your personality or just your energy in general. Some women are not a girls girl, which is fine but EVERYONE deserves the same respect.
What's crazy is she only asked, it's other women that answered. Thats like punishing the reporter cause you don't like the answer the interviewee said.
Yeah, and that jealousy and hatred is coming from YOU folk the most. Or else you people wouldn't constantly be putting up content bashing white people/women all the damn time and getting away with it too because of how antiwhite social media is. But the second a white person calls out black people's BS though, suddenly all hell breaks loose. Because your kind can dish it out but can't take it.
I dated a couple WW and I must admit, they constantly talked crap about BW. They weren’t expecting to get put in their place for it though. I guess they thought I would agree.
@@j.m.8545 yeah well, I don’t know if that’s true like people exaggerate it to be. Lots of blk dudes just date multiple races of women w/o hating on Bw. But you do have those BM that talk that stupid ish about BW and that’s who gets all the attention.
@@neo1053lol. It’s true sometimes but you’ll be surprised to find out ww do a lot of the same bull****Just in a different way. Just ask a WM…Us BM have our ways too. We’re a rough race of people overall. WW do have their advantages though. 😉
As a yt lady myself, I agree. Collectively, we’re the absolute worst. Female relationships are complex and deep. And when a female friend backstabs you, it’s awful. The only “friends” that did that to me were yt. We are two faced as hell.
@@family561 I thought I knew how shitty we were when I lived in Baltimore. Then I moved to rural Louisiana. Holy fuck these yt women down here are horrific
I've worked with a lot of WW in an office setting and the majority of them always did some underhanded stuff like searching mistakes you made to show management, and trying to get you on trouble or even fired. They feel like they always have to be the "go to" person, you can't know more than them, and they want all the praise and accolades so they try to dumb you down bc they think you're trying to take their job bc thats what they do. And the crazy thing is you're just minding our own business
I grew up in both Alabama and Tennessee but been in NJ 10 years and chil what I’ve found out is at least white ppl show u they are racist in the South while in the North u don’t know what ur getting.
My granny used to say that. She was from Georgia but when they moved North she said they'd go into restaurants that didn't have any signs posted and people just wouldn't greet them or ask if they wanted to order, so they'd just end up leaving. It's disgusting.
I have to agree with the point the sister with the glasses made about white men in the US. A WM is not threatened by a black woman because he knows his place in society is at the top regardless of how hard the BW works. In my experience, WW are the primary gatekeepers of opportunity and they are okay with you being under them or being perceived as subordinate. However, once you are someone looked at as a potential threat (whether imagined or real), they will be spiraling with anxiety to plot against you. I must also say that my highest paying position was the result of two WW -- so all WW are not this way but keep in mind, I was not a threat to either woman given their level of influence and status.
I dont care who is in that conference room. i have out-smarted and out karen-ed both wm and ww. You Have to learn how to play their games because they never play fair.
I’m still puzzled by how years ago they were fine with you BREASTFEEDING their babies but you couldn’t use their bathroom. A BW’s bodily fluids can go into your child but not your toilet? Sorry for the mental image but there’s no better way to put it.
Ok im back for the lady that tried to hand the Black Woman the dog shyt. Man if she tried to hand that to me i woulda said the same thing and soon as she rolled her eyes and walked past I woulda said "throw that shyt away and make it snappy.....hurry up too" 😂😂
Some white women, including white queer women, think that because they are marginalized that makes them immune to being racist or holding other similar beliefs about marginalized groups they're not parts of. They either think they their oppression is the worst and so they can't possibly be oppressing other groups, or that experiencing one (or two) types of oppression makes them all-knowing about all types of oppression. That how we get terfs and racist white women. As a white trans man I have more experience seeing this in terfs but I genuinely think it's the same way of thinking. We shouldn't forget that the first wave of feminism was extremely racist. They excluded non-white and working class women from the movement, in the UK the suffragettes wanted to vote so they can represent women in the colonies but didn't want anyone in the colonies to have a vote for themselves, and they also ostracized white middle-class women who were inclusive of women of colour and working class women from the movement. Feminism has racist roots which should be enough proof that just because someone experiences one form of marginalisation, that doesn't make them immune to perpetuating the marginalisation of other groups.
I'm a WW and I would take the WM in the office, too. They're bullies, whereas the WM is more likely to say what he's there to say and go back to what he was doing before.
I’m a WW too and wouldn’t want either to be quite frank. WM at my previous jobs have tried to k*ll me and/or stalk me before for not sleeping with them while other WW have waged psychological warfare onto me. I like more diverse workplaces too, because when it’s just white people or majority white people everyone is stabbing each other in the back and it’s TENSE all of the time. I cannot stand it!
I feel the same. I hate even going into a store with a bunch of them in it. I will just leave. They are absolutely horrible creatures to even be around.
The fact that her page is showing up more frequently following demonetization is very telling. Their actions have inadvertently proven our point en masse! Yt W, y'all get an A+!
they proved her point quickly. Fanbase is Black owned. She should switch to them. But please keep us posted on any updates on supporting her for us non Tik Tok users. Thanks for reporting on this. 💙
The crazy part is I would still walk in with a white man over her because she can still be just as manipulative for the very reasons she explained. People will always use their strengths to get what they want
I’ve definitely seen this behavior irl. A lot of ww refuse to see the privilege they still have because the conversation is only around wm. We also have to look at the history of feminism and how it only included ww for so long and how so many ww still subscribe to white feminism
After what happened with Jonathan Majors and that white lady that literally chased him up n down the block, Im not surprised theyre shocked we didnt fall for it
They don't care... simple yall! Move on. They will never get it until they come down off the high horse. Until then why would they listen they feel they are above everyone. ITS THAT SIMPLE MOVE ON...
I'm not on tik tok but as a BW I would rather work with WM than WW any day. Men are more straightforward & I've just had better experiences with WM everytime in corporate America. I don't feel threatened by WM & in fact many of them have been my work champions. But I have been harmed by WW numerous times for no dam reason. And being in HR, WW are everywhere & it makes it hard for me to feel safe in staying at any company cuz I just straight be clocking how long it will take for a WW to act up 😒 They never disappoint 🙄
I don't have a problem with them touching my hair. They touch first so i grab second. Get a whole handful and pull. That person will never do it again. It will never stop them but it makes me smile 😅
I totally understand the rude hair touching thing is a tangible way to say Is your hair real? I wear locs and they are down to my back now. I had a random ww come up to me and pull one then was perplexed like So its all yours? I was like yes...why wouldn't it be? They were looking foolish later. It is a way some of them feel they are superior to black women its dumb because not all bw have short hair but some they get a thrill when they see our hair isn't our own so they can say we have no hair and must use theirs. However they get filled with envy because they can aee more of us rocking our natural hair at all lengths.
Wait a minute. A WW at work came up to you, touched your hair, threw it down, and you say... Nothing? Most of the time, they can sense who to pull ish on.
You're right. I think I'm too passive. So people try stuff at times. But I'm not one to say anything either. Smh. But that would have been so upsetting. Hearing about it is infuriating.
@@kenya1067 sis, it's OKAY to check your haters. Defend yourself! Just stay professional. Just in case you're accused of being the angry/violent BWoman, turn your phone camera on record, record the conversation, but you don't have to point the phone at them.
@@beeznhoney4323 thank you so much for that advice. I think sometimes I feel it's easier to absorb the situation than to do anything but you're so right. That only leaves me feeling bad in the end and they get no repercussions.
I nearly beat a white chick az for lying when I work with capital one - literally hating on my top sales . And shocked thinking she white that would trumpet over my charisma . . Just catch up . , and another one for talking behind my back for another sales job as a an ambassador. They hate when u do better than them . And when I say talking behind my back saying I’m flirting with potential clients . Like wtf . . So yes I’ll agree- a wm than ww in conference room , because most men don’t take women as competition until u step on their toes but women will always feel threaten by another woman in a competitive market .
I forgot to lock my car door after dropping off Lyft passengers and a drunk yt lady kept trying to get in! Well, a drunk yt man did hop in and scared the crap out of me! The moral of my story is, "Just lock your doors people!" The other thing about being a Rideshare driver is every single drunk person I gave a ride to was palm colored! One man was a yt Medical student who was so drunk, he just kept crying and asking me if I could take him back to where his friend was because he couldn't remember the phone number he had just given him! I drove far to a building out in nowhereville and his passkey wouldn't work! So, asked him to call someone (he tried to explain, but was having a hard time>>> so he handed me his phone>>>>Lolsss). I explained to the voice on the phone and he came down to meet him and take him inside! Weird stuff! Man, I have some wild stories! Oh yeah, that reminds me of a couple who got into my car with two giant bottles of liquor and I asked them to put them down on the floor just in case a cop sees them, I won't get a ticket! The yt woman got all huffy with me, but her yt partner said he understood and complied!
Omg this is so true, quick story, when I call to make arrangements with my car note I have had the opportunity to speak to WW and WM on the phone who was handling my acct, & I’ll be honest the WW was very short with me and even though I was eligible she didn’t want to help me and set up a payment arrangement so after I got off the phone with her I called right back& this time it was a WM, not only was he very polite he cheered me up & he was very eager to make sure he gave me the best options available to me , so if I had to do it again I would definitely prefer a WM instead no offense to WW cause not all WW are like that but maaan there are plenty of them that give off this Ora sometimes before you even get near them.
I notice the lady mentioned gay white men at 11:10 being a threat too. I think it shows how catty ppl can be to you when they view you as sexual competition. I think that’s where it stems from. I know ppl don’t like admitting this but people can be catty and borderline abusive to you when they see you as competition in terms of love (if they seek validation from the gender they’re attracted to). Of course straight men can be jealous too but I think most of the times, being pretty or at least decent looking can make a straight man not be as disrespectful to you sadly while white women and gay men HATE black women who are deemed attractive.
Yes that's a great way of putting it. Sexual competition. I deal with this a lot, even with women who are not single. I just be vibing and minding my business and someone will say a snarky comment to me, or I get back handed compliments etc, and I notice weird behaviors. It's so weird like can't we just exist and this isn't just ww, this is all races of women I've experienced jealousy of others towards me. And they don't even realize it, it's a weird energy they give off.
@@makeuplayshaa I’ve experienced the same exact thing; it’s even worse in the workplace. Jealous ppl are so insufferable like just go to therapy or something
Yeah bw complain about non bw and mixed w being in our spaces but non bw feel the same way we feel if not worse whenever we are around non bm. And the fact that more bw are starting to interracially upsets them. Bm and ww wanted us to hate wm for so long.
Yep, and the sad thing is that a straight man will NEVER want a gay man, so their nastiness is so futile. They just make themselves look pathetic because men who like women will NEVER want them, so there IS no competition. They are delusional.
@@Kendricknia well non blk women and mixed women being “in our space” defeats the purpose of it being ours. I have no problem with then stumbling upon us and making a supporting or observational comment but making it center them is strange. Also having then represent us in the media erases us bc the world is already colorist enough. They definitely don’t like how more of us are dating out.
I had worked at a very prestigious hospital in Baltimore. You all know the one that starts with a J. I worked in an office position for a year and a half with no problem. At the time we, the clinical reviewers had a black interim manager. She was wonderful. They eventually hired a manager that was a respiratory therapist and put her as manager of nurses. She knew nothing about the job and was intimidated that the nurses knew more than she did about this position. She literally wanted to fire everyone that had been hired before she got there to hide her gross incompetence. She micro managed, took credit for work she didn't do. One of the scariest people to work for is someone hired for a position that does not have the background because they are so terrified of being found out they will do anything to cover up their inadequacies. She's probably still there today terrorizing people.
The Muslim lady explained very clearly why. I appreciate the perspective she offered on this. It was informative and helpful on understanding this issue. It just shows that this is a pervasive problem.
Because she is facing the same issue. Don’t start this. Breaking women into smaller and smaller groups, and asking them not to support one another is the MOST effective tool to increase patriarchy and white supremacy.
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youtube.com/@thewhitewomanwhisperer?si=l90iPYvgUNBB5B3Z
I have had white men be racist to me because I am not attracted to them.. White men that like me have often told me they cannot see me being with a black man, as if black men are below me …meantime my daddy is a Black Man, my brother my cousins my grandfather etc .. Racism abounds with them and racists have NO MANNERS
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Let's be real. W men terribly abuse W women - especially in early childhood.. Those girls grow into venom, making ill anyone they please. It's a vicious cycle
B men (and women) suffer from the lack of positive male figures in the home, which leads to B male degeneracy later in life - another vicious cycle.
There is a reason B men & W women typically find hope in each other, while W men & B women find a partner.
I don't think it's that they don't understand. It's that they are surprised that we know what they're actually like. They think we are stupid and won't see through them.
You are absolutely right!💯❤️
Boom, they expect and feel entitled to our blind allowance of violating our humanity, ongoing. They are offended that their WP card is rejected. I am that one that will burst that little entitled bubble with a sharp stick pin😂
Precisely!
We’ve had 400 years to watch them, study them, and see how dangerous they can really be when they want to. I’m a black man and I see how they behave around black women in the workplace. Hell, we’re not even safe around them. White tears, manipulation, and complaints in the workplace lead to black people losing jobs, etc.
And you’re right 👍🏾
I remember my mother told me she worked with a nice ww but one day she went to my mother’s house for one thing or another. After that day she treated my mother horribly. She expected my mother to be living in abject poverty but she was probably living better than her. She was ok when she thought my mother was beneath her but.
Yes! They are nice as long as they feel you're beneath them!
This......
I had a weird WW,who is over a decade older than me,look me in my face and say " I don't understand why you look so young,we're the same age". I was like What in thee entire???? She looks me in my face searching for wrinkles etc. Truly INSANE BEHAVIOR!!!!!
YEP THATS WAT IT WAS
Women are like that all round, it doesn't always have anything to do with colour
Just the fact that her channel got demonized PROVES the point!!!
It’s like calling the police because she was expressing her opinion - and who is known for calling the police on other people minding their business?
They try to protect their image at all costs. BW should take a page out of their book quite frankly.
@@WellBeing999 exactly ,crying whining and screaming racism gets tiring when you know your men didnt build ...
Facts!
@@WellBeing999 They should reflect that in their behavior then.
WW...They'll throw the brick and hide their hand, and say " i didn't see anything"!..😮
This! A lot of white men don't even care if you saw them throw the brick.
FACTSSSSSSS
@@Rue100 MTG called out Jasmine, then played the victim.. That's what I mean by throwing a brick, then " I didn't do anything"!!!..
That's what JUST happened in Congress with MTG.
YUP!! And it starts when they’re little girls
My cousin got fired from a job at a high-paying corporate position because she put her hands on her hips during a conversation with one of these people. The woman reported that she felt threatened by my cousin because she put her hands on her hips during a conversation.
I hope your cousin sued not only the company but sued the white woman individually.
Well, she never should’ve put her hand on her hips during a disagreement because I’m black and if she would’ve did that to me, I’m going to HR. This is not the corner of 24th and Lennox you make any gesture to me that’s threatening. I’m going to HR tell your cousin to learn how to professionally curse someone out. A black secretary came around the counter to address my very black friend and because the principal don’t like my black friend the secretary did not get fired Absolutely not you Women are crazy.
Sue
God doesnt sleep
Did she sue?
Emmitt Till anyone?? Point taken.
This ❗️
Yeah, how about that? They would like to think we have forgotten. We have NOT.
I will Trump you with Gorge Stinney Jr. The youngest to be put in the electric chair at 14 year's old. Over White lies.
@@aaabbb8812- They push nasty history under the rug. We don’t. It may not be taught in schools anymore, but we are teaching our children.
@@aaabbb8812it wasn’t even that long ago… and Black people are still being found hung in places in the south til this very day.
When I worked a corporate job it was a white woman I thought was a friend who cried to the boss saying I was aggressive with her. I was stunned I had never gotten aggressive period, found out a comment I made to her about where I got my suit because we were both plus sized women hurt her feelings and she went to him in tears. It was eye opening for me and it had me realize I couldn't trust the people around me.
Similar situation happened to me 😞 sad
I know what you mean!😔
Same here and sometimes the Asian woman plays this role too sadly I was called aggressive because I had to get up from the table to go to the bathroom I literally dismissed myself and they said it looked threatening because I was tall
What the heck?
This isnt a good example because you dont say that to random people. Go online or a store where its ok to say that. Some ppl arent ok with you lumping them with your plus size self.
@@Gia-mg5nx It wasnt a random person it was a coworker, who got me into the job (hence why I thought she was a friend). Excuse me for not disclosing the full context because its a youtube comment section but she was plus size as well and made a comment about my suit which I gave her the were I got it and that she could get stuff there to. There was no aggression and should not have been reported as such. It was a microaggression and taught me to guard myself on the job.
forever proving our point. they're deceitful, underhanded, and spiteful creatures.
NEVER to be trusted
Disgustingly racist comment.
Nah I don't trust them either but on a scale e from 0 to 10 . Ten be most untrusted white women get a 15!!! How do they live with them selves.
I felt this! I stay the hell away from them.
@@Pinesol605you got too they are very sneaky, and evillll
Wholeheartedly agree
I would never walk up to anyone of any race and touch their hair that’s so weird
The same white woman who touched my hair without permission also cried in class because I said white women owned slaves. We we in grad school and both non-traditional students.
It’s actually not weird, I think it’s normal curiosity. Just not always welcomed. People are weird. There was a video of a black girl who was mesmerized by an albino man sitting next to her on a train; she thought he was an angel. He looked different from her and she reached out to touch him. She even touched his hair. Gasp! The audacity! A child, people. It was an innocent and endearing moment. Not salacious. I also used to have people ask to touch my hair all the time when it was bone straight because it looked silky. It was a normal thing. I didn’t take offense, I just didn’t always respond with a yes. People are curious about things that are different from them. Yes, some people can be rude and condescending, even horrible, and I get that! But, a lot of times people are attracted to you because of your beauty and difference. There was also a girl in my high school that I wanted so badly just to touch her beautiful hair. It was long , red and magnificently curly. It’s not because I thought less of her. It’s because I’d never seen something so beautiful. Many women with curls have people that want to touch their curls: white, black and in between. All people are weird and dumb and rude and confusing and great and wonderful. All people. And I don’t think many people know about or even try to remotely care about boundaries. That’s the real issue. I have tattoos on my sides and strangers would walk up to me and just start lifting up my shirt to look at them. Like, excuse me, back off. I understand people don’t want to be touched or bothered, but it really isn’t limited to one type. I understand you are speaking about one type of person on here; this is my experience, perhaps I can shed light on a different perspective. And as far as women (of any ethnicity or color) in the workplace?!! Don’t trust a single one of them.
@@wendybmorebut are you a child? Also since when did you become a yardstick for what people deem acceptable or not? I'm sure your little story is a lie because.....
But also, this narrative is not played out. Stop harassing and abusing black women because they said they don't want you to touch them. The entitlement.
@@wendybmore nope. Still weird
She just wrote a whole dissertation…these folks touch our hair on the sly and even sniff it. It’s weird and its nothing like that video with that man. Nice try though 🙄
Recent events with these WW and DJ Vlad prove this very point. The moment they don’t feel centered they try to destroy a black person’s career/ income. They are truly way more vindictive and hateful than we actually think
ESPECIALLY if they are lawyers judges or cops
@JFoster310 PRECISELY.
Not just that, but the lowkey jealousy, neurosis, and micro-aggressions while they smile in your face!
Ww are even vindictive towards other white women. A lot of it has to do with mysoginy and the way we are taught to compete for no reason.
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I’d still choose the bear over both the WM/WW
So would I. A LGBT WM is just as worse as a WW.
I'll deal with neither one.... I can handle the wilderness alone .. more peaceful
Well then you're a fool and the biggest threat to a black person is another black person.
But if the bear isn't there, and the next button choices are WW OR WM, I'm choosing WM. I can see him coming a mile away. I'll know he's a friend or foe. WW will pretend to be my friend on a recon mission only to her ammunition to use against us. What's worse, if we stay to ourselves, doing nothing to no one, saying nothing to no one, ww will come for our careers. I'm sure many bw in this comment section found themselves in the bosses offices for saying nothing to no one too much.
@@staywell7217ooooooo wee you ain’t lying
I had a white coworker who couldn’t accept the fact that I was shy. She started telling people I was mean and didn’t like her. And she would cry all the time to me like oh you really don’t like me. I eventually warmed up to her, until I heard these rumors came back around to me.
They forever use their tears a weapon
It’s so weird and obsessive. Like, you’re not entitled to BW’s attention and friendship.
@@KEOSHAANEILIAgirl yes! I work at a chiropractic place for this doctor & his wife. They are clearly racist. I have 5 coworkers(4 black & 1 Hispanic). They give them their ass to kiss but I don’t tolerate it. The wife has this hateful obsession with me. Watching me,talking about me,even coming to the area I work to stare at what’s on my desk. lol
Oh no, not the ww tears 😭
You fell right into her trap.
The comment by a ww saying "ww are not a harm to black women"... proves our point.
Most ww don't listen, they just want to throw their white power around.
true , but we blk women would rather play the victim ..than make the men of our own group raise the standard . Its natural not to like those that dont look like you but crazy when most of the real harm comes from inside the blk diaspoas various communities
@@sayeedharem4673 stop it. Blvck women are the least likely to play victim. They are also the main group of people that holds blvck men accountable for the current state of our community and also knows what part they have played.
LET ME SAY THIS. THEY WAY THE WT MEN TREAT BLK MEN IS THE SAME WAY WT WEMEN TREAT BLK WEMEN. FACT👈
@@JaiK64 your men lost and didn't build ,period stay deluded if you want to
1st Question: Would you rather be stuck in a room with a BM or BW?
2nd Question: Would it be offensive if other races congregated in the comment sections to make their pick?
WW get on all the apps and ask blk women absurd questions ALL the time. but sis got DEMONatized.
It's the difference between prejudice and racism. They use their power to cause destruction.
I am a white woman and i don't wanna be in a conference room alone with a white woman too...
😂😂😂
Iktr! @PrisciladeMelosilva😂
And once again magically the I'm white comment gets the most likes and simp support
We don’t care. We are talking about black women. Don’t care about your experience
Yes they are known to eat their own.😂
WW getting the demonetized is on code for them. They confirmed her point.
Yes, they did and most likely to dumb to realize it.
Prejudice vs racism
Always have a backup account un related and repost the best videos that made the most money as a stitch 😊.
@@sparklesp9304it goes hand in hand in many cases boo! Let’s not play dumb on this here internet.
Even if you know them in the workplace, still feel apprehensive. They may be cool with you for a long time, but they’ll suddenly show their racist disdain for you unprovoked.
True true
I do that but it's really bc I'm tired of you being in my face and being so trusting in such a cutthroat environment. We all have to pretend we like each other and it's exhausting. I'll do the same thing to other white women but just in a different way. And they react the same as bw and hw. Get all freaked out and upset and sad. But it's really because I don't know how else to tell you I'm over it. And then y'all start harping about "oh then why are you working here and doing this job?" Well, Tricia, maybe it's because without a job, I'd be homeless and nobody wants that.
Agreed. It's disgusting how they use their privilege to ruin our lives.
@@bootscootyso you just randomly be rac1st??
@@ITEEZ- yep like most people
They got her page demonetized because they're mad they got exposed...not because she lied. Which proves further the point that most WW know why most BW would not choose them.
The term "Karen" was not created for no reason, and there's also a reason why ww are often depicted as hypersexual in black films, always throwing themselves on black men even if the man never indicated any interest, the groping I've witnessed in real life is crazy.
File a police report!
The majority of blk men prefer ww. That’s why they have that entitlement.
SA! BM need to speak more about this
Karen is too soft of a term. What many of them have done is criminal.
@@Mi_7xg_879they won’t…
As a black women I can relate. I’ve had better working relationships with white men as opposed to white AND black women sadly.
Same (as a ww). Women are just difficult as hell to deal with no matter what the race.
@@bootscooty Not really. I think WW take the cake.
@@evadburns I think that's a biased statement but do you
@@bootscooty Many BW would prefer to work with a BW versus a BM. So no, it is not about women, unfortunately, is about the race of woman. BW would rather work with an Asian woman, Indigenous woman, than a WW. So when I say the most problematic group to work with is a WW. Even other races would agree.
@@evadburns That's cool and I understand where you're coming from because white women are problematic with even each other but as far as women in the workplace I will definitely take a man over a woman most times because the amount of BS I've had to deal with has been literally crippling. I'm talking about (no matter the race of woman) immediate and automatic challenges to my legitimacy, side eyes right away, trying to get me fired, talking all kinds of crazy cutting stuff while the boss isn't around and then all smiles when the boss is around... it just makes me feel so insecure and scared that I've picked delivery driving as a profession because that's how little I want to deal with people at this point.
These are the same group that utilizes the police force at their whime - walking dogs, selling water, minding your own business… etc. yet, they are shocked at bw’s response. 😂😂😂
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Literally
Lolz whime sounds like a cross between whim and whine. I know you just had a minor typo but that shit is hilarious. I'm stealing it 👍
Same group that made our history books so screwed up, that is the reason for the confederate flag is worshiped, and is willing to lie to your face and then cry a river when their proven wrong
Taking down her page does not change the answer. WW u r dangerous; the most dangerous human alive.
And the most trashy. The only race that will date/marry/f--outside their race consistently and when they are ready to get serious claim they are as
Pure as snow when they know they have TONS of notches on their bedposts. I have seen it time and again. Even had a white neighbor tell me if I were to ever leave my husband she and others in the neighborhood would make sure he was taken care of. 😮. Quickly unfriended that b--.
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Truth!
No men are
Swap it w animal
I’m a black woman and at my previous job I was micromanaged, gaslighted, bullied, and lied on. I also wasn’t being properly trained as well. When I tried to speak up about not being properly trained and being told to just have the clients send us emails, my manager at the time who was a white woman accused me of lying and said I wasn’t following policy on purpose. Before that, I BEGGED my trainer to properly train me but she always claimed she was “ busy “. She was a white woman as well. I was later fired for not being “ the right fit “. What worst is that manager bragged to everyone that I have time off for my birthday then she fired me two days before my PTO started. My PTO was paid out to me and even though I tried to fight back, they told me there was nothing I can do. I choose the white man over the white woman when it comes to managers anyday.
I've experienced the lack of training in almost every job that I've had. It's intentional to sabotage our performance and stall our career growth. We've GOT get together on these things. You had a lawsuit on your hands if you documented as well.
Any day!
As a mixed person, it's interesting that both WM and BW are the most educated and go getters of their race when you look at statistics. Interesting stuff. It is sad BW can't even express their misogynoir experience but WW can express their sexism experience.
The BEST boss I’ve had was a white man!!!!!!
Let's be clear, BM, are the most educated women in America! My belief is WW learning and expanding their education has been stagnant due to the belief that their skin color is all they need!
This is what I think happens:
White mans mind: "alright next interview. Hmm, resume looks good, professional outfit, I like this candidate. I wonder what I'm doing for lunch? Isn't the game this Sunday? I need to ask Dave for the name of that beer we had last time. I want Chinese food today"
White woman's mind: "ugh another interview. Who is SHE? Why did she wear those shoes? I hope she knows I'm seeing Dave. Why does she have to apply here of all places? I'm the girl boss, the queen bee, this is my territory. Let me just play nice, she won't last long"
Very accurate!
😂😂😂😂. Sounds about ryt lol
Literally this!
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@@proudblkqueen1067And Also Sounds About...WHITE! Too Me.
I've also noticed that some white men (who know who they are) who have Black women on their teams will see her presence there as a mark of pride in his leadership sometimes. If she is assertive in getting things done, he will actively encourage her, and when she shows off her skills and talents for all to see, he will show open pride. I once worked for a white man like that, and honestly, I was not expecting that kind of behavior.
I agree. They can be our biggest allies and champions.
I am most confident and appreciated by the WM that are executives, WW and BM management were always my downfall.
@@Mangoos393BM are the best we want us to succeed
That’s my TL.
I work for a high grossing “small business” owner who is a white male & it’s this exact comment all the time & im the only BW employed between 98 employees & 2 locations. He’s always complimenting my work & giving bonuses. You nailed it with this comment because he does get that glowing look when clients compliment my work.
The passive & microaggressions I deal with at work is really disgusting. Her emotions being labeled passionate and ours aggressive is the epitome of why I will never sit in comfort around them.
Here's a 'microaggression' for all of you bashing white people:
Stop being antiwhite.
One of the things about them is their entitlement.Their words are taken as gospel over you.And you have to assess the surroundings you are in and have to move with caution is like walking on eggshells.
If you act uninterested in their company or friendship they hate you bc they love to be centered
@@kirawong4629they are egomaniacs
@@kirawong4629 imagine when they know they’re not gonna get it AT ALL! lol I love those kind. I love to tell them to f themselves
I remember being asked why you are always dressing up ? This is a call center. No one sees you, I replied because I can, she never approached me again.
Why did she care? If you dressed the opposite, they'd call you ghetto. Damned if you do, damned if you don't!
Yes girlrly!!
SAME! I'd say, " Why wouldn't I want to look to look presentable?"
My mom befriended a white woman at work. The other white women looked down on her because she was a young single mother. She started stealing. When she got caught she blamed her ONLY ally...my Black mother!! It was decades ago and I still get mad about it!
Salem Witch Trials
Emmet Till
Legislation was literally created to screw us because of those fake tears.
I'll take my chance with an animal anyday.
Salem witch trials? Sis, that has nothing to do with blk women but I guess I see the parallel??
@@Mangoos393 if you don't understand history, you can't fix your present or future.
They would lie and call people witches when they were jealous. So thousands died from yt lies and tears.
If you understand this, you don't invite to the cookout. Smile, wish them well and tell them stay over there. The problem has always been the women. The men just do the nasty stuff to make their women happy.
King George of England changed a law so that they wouldn't look bad for killing children. The rule is used till this day by police " Don't resist". They can shoot you because you resisted arrest.
Again know your past to fix your future.
@@Mangoos393 The first person accused was a black slave
also Tamla Horsford
@@Mangoos393the Salem witch trials is white women tears the movie. It was just against their own.
TT demonetized her account???? This is exactly what us Black women are are talking about >>> Why we chose yt men over them!
You think white men will prevent you from onslaught of white supremacy?
@@wowbigman22011not what she said. Just that WM present less harm to BW in corporate spaces (places of work) than WW.
Both harm BW.
@@bdott1538yes I can agree with this. I mean wow, lest black men and women decide that either one is greater the great is way, I don’t know what I would saying but contribute one either isn’t getting us nowhere.
EXACTLY 💯
Yep. It's the difference between prejudice and racism. Power.
When one of the commentators spoke about her experience with white women at the gym, I yelled out. Yes! They complain about everything. They go to the gym. They’re sweating. They complain that it’s too hot to the front desk. In Zumba class they’re telling the instructor what type of music they want to hear or not hear. But on the white man versus white women issue, I would prefer a white man because I’ve had better experiences with white men. The experiences I’ve had with white women was to hold me down from reaching my full potential. My principal was white, and she passed me up for promotion. She gave the job to another white woman who did not have a license for the position and I did. That’s another story.
And to add insult to it, they'll come back and want you to train the person that they promoted over you. Go figure!
@@SUNROSE7878then they will spread rumors about you being mean and/ difficult if you refuse to help them
“Solidarity is for White Women”
Ww are always given jobs even if they don’t have the experience or education.
@@KendrickniaOMG YES. ged vs BLKs with associate degree and actual.like real world experience
Prime example of why we chose the wm over ww is the recent exchange between MTG and Jasmine Crockett. MTG has the classic ww victim bully mentality.
They are even mean to children. I had a situation as early as kindergarten. 2 more in my adult life it’s even worse if their your
Boss.
You are not lying. They do it to all ages. There was a news story of a ww who gave out cupcakes to the black students at her school that had her husbands sperm in it and she took pictures of them eating the cupcakes. It was all over the news. I recommend not participating in their potlucks.
I've seen that too
I've had situation w/white teachers when I was in school. I had my kindergarten teacher (ww) grab my arm and yank me out of a chair bcuz I raised my hand to go to the bathroom. 1 even thought I was cheating cuz a WOC couldn't be smart enough to get a 100 on a test.
My 3rd and 4th grade teachers were both racist white women, who also happened to drop their white woman tears when I told on them about the mistreatment. I had never been in so much “trouble” except the years I was in their classrooms. When I had a white man the following year things turned around for me. He was the best teacher I’ve had out of my elementary, middle and high school experience. 20 years later and he still keeps tabs with me and other students. He was my 5th grade teacher. A really kind and caring man.
I am reader. I checked out as many books as we were allowed each time. In 6th grade the teacher gave us a reading assignment in social studies. I read the chapter and then pull out a book. She yells at me for not doing the assignment. I'm told to read it again. So I do. I finish AGAIN, and pull out another book. Once again she yells at me and takes the book. I'm told to read the chapter that I've already read 2 times. This time when I finish I leave the textbook up and put the book on the inside so it looks like I'm reading the textbook. She walks up to me, snatches the book, and yells at me for reading another book EVEN THOUGH I read her requested passage thrice now. She sends me out to another with a disciplinary sheet. I take my last book with me. I fill out the sheet, read my book and the other teacher never says a word to me until it's time for me to go back to my class. Mrs Hankins was an old white mean lady that should have retired. This was the beginning of me being discouraged about school as a whole. I believe had I had a different teacher I would have tried harder and consistently.
I have a lot of stories about white women hating on me even the one I don't even know.
When are we gonna hear these stories in corporate America
@@candyxoxo19 Not ready yet iam still going through something
That's one of the reasons I left corporate America only to find they are like that everywhere if they are in positions of authority.
The more I've been complimented for my work and my appearance, the more of a target I became to the WW in management.
They are disgusting, competitive, underhanded and insecure AF!
I just went through the same ish again and my co-worker contacted me and let me know everyone sees it.
He said they are starting to put in complaints on her and feel like she is a cancer to the whole department.
We had a diverse race of supervisors and she was over them all.
All of the other supervisors were respectful and complimentary and she hated when they praised me.
The more compliments I received, the worse it got with her (not surprising)
The co-worker that contacted me was a male who was also very good at his job and he said, it always has to be a WW that messes everything up.
Not only do they go insane if you are good at your job, but when men, especially BM, even speak to BW, just on a platonic level, they get retarded AF and start losing it. They literally act like the BM is their property.
I have gotten along well with some WW co-workers, although they pull that victim ish all the time, but when they are in authority, they are like a dark crazy cloud over everything
@@Mazetzet-gw6fyMosr of us are...it's the reason why we are all starting businesses. Trying to keep our mental health and stop being abused!
Me too!
She's not allowed to ask the question?!?!! But yt women can ask theirs... colonizers trying to colonize what questions can be asked... LOL but really sad too
but blk men have the means, yet havent built platforms for you and I to vent , voice and a private space away from Nazi admins and moderators , so we're now scared of taking action with the men and boys we birth ??gotcha
They are very controlling.
Y'all are allowed to dish it out, but can't take it back or else you cry racism and try to silence the Whites who dare to oppose your BS points and lies about us. See how that works?
@@sayeedharem4673That's funny you would use THAT N word, considering EVERY big social media platform like CZcams pander to your antiwhite BS.
Veil's falling. Finally! 😃
This is the year of revelation!
SMH. Yep. They have absolutely proven our point. The fact that they collectively reported that sister’s account and got her demonetized speaks volumes. And they wonder why we don’t want to have anything to do with them.
Y’all gotta realize those folks are just like their ancestors. They have their same DNA and their same ways. Stay away from them don’t trust them.
NOOOOO !!! LIE'S TOLD 🎤
Would you rather be stuck in a room with a BM or BW?
@@arnitaxavier9446If the bm and or bw are self haters then yes.
@@brimontXP This is a random BM or BW. Much like it was a Random WM or WW. You have no information on the person you will be stuck with.
@@arnitaxavier9446 For me it's a BW, cuz BM have the tendency to be crude & I don't want to deal w/their perversions.
Yt men (except maybe gay/queer) don’t usually see us a competition
Yt women do
I’m not EVER surprised by yts behavior
I’m glad she mentioned gay white men. Because of course their attitudes and mannerisms are copied from white women and multiplied be 10.
you can only be competition to a Becky if the men in your family provide, protect ,build and ride for you Theyll see that and try to take whatever crumbs fall by the wayside .Since blk men havent featured us as a collective neither hospitals ,films , comics or art ....we bk women must act now
Racism isn't limited to gender though. Whilst WM don't view BW as competition, I think even by the content creator asking the question, it's making it seem as though WM are fine with BW at work and I'd say that isn't the case, especially when you're more likely to have a male boss than a female one. WW will most likely outwardly show they don't like you. whereas, WM will pretend they do, but behind office doors, take action that could be detrimental to your working life. Overall, though, some people in all places, and of all races, you will connect with or clash with. That's my perspective anyway.
I honestly believe they know exactly what they're doing. The real reason they're angry, upset, and ready to report this creator is bc she called them out and made them uncomfortable. We have to stop giving them grace bc I promise they won't give it to us.
I've heard stories from great grandmas, grandmas, and moms and i have had my own experiences with White Women and ain't been nice.
In my experience, working with WW for 34 years has been a roller coaster ride. Some were ok, but others were terrible humans to both men and women if they didn't get their way.
1. WW actively concern themselves and insert themselves into ALL spaces.
2. Their damsel in distress syndrome is real, and the WM in my office often complained about their wives not having the capability to do the most basic tasks and how they were financially stressed because their educated wives demanded to be at home moms after the kids are over daycare age.
3. You can't present yourself as smarter than them even though we have different degrees and pay scales.
4. You can't show your creativity. I cook and decorate our office to perfection and WW complained.
5. WW find the token melanated person to do their dirty work to other melanated people to avoid a conversation when they are wrong.
6. A WW complained about me coming into the office. "Put together and smelling good."
7. My daughter and my white co-worker daughter were home for spring break, and she forced her daughter to go home and put herself together while she was injured because my daughter came in PUT TOGETHER.
8. I have seen a WW try to use their influence to get a person assigned in a different country because her daughter fell in love with a Mexican man.
9. WW make it a point to know what you did over the weekend, where you live to assess your property value, and the level of degrees that our kids have.
10. Ultimately!!!! If a WM come into my office and take an interest in a woman of color, WW come unglued because they can't fathom the thought that WM are attracted to women of color. And ask each other, how did she attract an attractive and high earning WM.
Nothing but facts!
11. WW come unhinged when they find out a rich black man does not want them . That he prefers his own women.
Absolutely on point! And yes they want to know about your weekend, holiday, vacation because they have to measure themselves up against it to try and figure out who they are- nothing
Zero lies detected!! 💯
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Although this is true, it’s better to work with wm than ww. However, we cannot ignore that wm seem to condone ww behavior. When bw expresses their concerns, wm tends to disregard them, and ww's behavior goes unchecked.
When white women speak, white men see their moms, sisters , aunts and daughters…. They will defend it.. as they should… Our MEN missed the MEMO… those guys will always protect their women right or wrong….
Had Black Women had the same privilege of OUR MEN seeing us that way; and protecting us …it would be a balance and women of all races will have mutual respect for one another….THE SCALES ARE NOT BALANCED.
They see us a strays, we have no protection other than each other, and that becomes a threat for them…😮😮😮 The threat is the fact that we Self Teach ,Self Motivate ourselves , multi-talented and task on another level, very intelligent and witty, excellent business women and leaders , and our looks are given youthful beauty,even when aging,…etc. I can go on…😂😂😂
This is true but the same if not worse can be said about bw. You all act entitled to non bm jobs, resources, and opportunities while screaming racism, misogyny, and saying how much you all prefer bm. Why would wm favor bw over ww when most bw don’t like wm? Ww are still wm daughters, sisters, mothers, friends, and dating prospects. What’s bm excuse as to why they favor other groups of women over bw? Bw have to change their perspective.
True, they stay on code
Im 49 yrs old, sistas, listen...pick the man and the damn bear!!
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😂😂 Its really that bad!
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WW and hard drugs are the fastest way for a BM to ruin his life...Best advice I have ever gotten
Not just hard drugs don't feed into the lie that liquor and weed Is okay. It's not. Stay away from those too for a clear mind
Anyways ppl who like that stuff let em be as is. Bible says he whose filthy let him be filthy still
@@nikkin.9206
I've literally lived around both. And I Def trust the bear over ww.
Incredible lmao
400 years of this craziness. We are waking up
That's the problem!!! Should never take that long!!!
@@todahisreal6378Better late than never.🎉🎉🎉🎉
No still try to be accepted by them ,the newest fad white man , black women glow up on CZcams ! Only race on earth explaining interracial relationship. Sooooo tired of this stupidity.
@@todahisreal6378🎯🎯🎯
@@todahisreal6378We were revolting since our captivity.
We never waited, we just got tired.
white woman's. That's what we're talking about, and this is the point we Melanin women are talking about
WW are dangerous to black women & mostly our men. Lies will get you killed
This is kinda random but black women riding in new luxury vehicles, please share your experiences of WW’s strange reaction to seeing you.
YES, it's become comic view for me over the years. Each occasion below I've noticed that it's been mostly older WW age 40/50+ doing weird jealous stuff.
WWomen (never a WMale) have stopped me or come over to me as I'm loading groceries, getting in/out my car or waiting on the hand car wash.
They've made eye contact to give me a nasty look. Move their cars at the gas pump. Have come over invading my space acting fake EXTRA asking _"What type of car is this!?! It's beautiful!!!! You're tiny, how do you handle such a big car"_ 😱😱
It's a newer premium German mfg car. It's NOT _exotic_ but it is nice. There's PLENTY of them on the road in SoCal. What I've figured out is they really want to make this stank _statement,_ to a stranger, but can't. _"How can YOU, a BWoman, afford to have a late model car that even I don't/can't have._ They're always in a silent race against other women, except you don't know to lace your running shoes.
When I've caught what they were up to a few times, I've told them the _truth,_ and..I RUB IT IN! since they're really being a sneaky sh!t starting PAggressive Karen: I sweetly say _"My "executive" huZband is a car fanatic._ Keywords I KNOW they'll hate to hear coming from me because it confirms that I'm not struggling single BWoman. It signals to them that I too have the nice lifestyle most of them have always had. Unfortunately, I know the WCommunity doesn't automatically equate "executive" to black men. My hubby is not black. I go on to add: _"He LOVES nice everyday cars and is also an antique collector. I don't care about cars nearly as much as he does, yet he still BUYS me a new one every 3 yrs. This one is for errands & our 2 big dogs._ The hostile look that washes over their faces😡😤 My husband has witnessed it when the woman didn't think we were a couple going to the same car. I know they're driving off calling me all kinds of black witches🤬 😂
SideBar: I mean NO disrespect to hardworking SingleMoms/Sistas. I don't have kids but once upon a time I've been in a tough spot too. It ain't pretty nor fun. I've got so much respect & LOVE for you👸🏾❤Always choose yourself first. DIVEST your dating options!
@@beeznhoney4323 It is so considerate of you to add this side note!!! You must be a really empathetic person. Not that it should mean anything to you, but, happy that you're doing well financially and relationship wise.
I was warned to NEVER tell them where you live or drive nice vehicles. Ever.
I had a woman ask about my car and the features … during all of this , she kept pointing at her car (a Lexus) and kept saying “see that’s my Lexus over there “ …. I’m like lady this isn’t a competition…. Just weird
I also had a Caucasian women tell me , Oh ! It must be nice to not have to buy gas … I’m like okkkk , you definitely could’ve kept that to yourself… she didn’t compliment or anything , just made that comment …
I have people flip me off, and I even had one female wightwalker sideswipe me. People also always ask what I do, and how I afford my lifestyle. No one asks wp how they get anything.
I really dislike how we as BW and BM allow white people to say "I know your afraid of us and I, we, should make you feel comfortable". That's gives into an ego and superiority complex.
Me too cause nobody is scared of them but just aware of them and their ways!
I’m not afraid of them. What I’m afraid of is how they will be put 6 feet under and I run away, escaping jail time or being behind bars.😂😂😂😂
@@sen10ritakhRight. People who like to antagonize others are dangerous to be around.
Bingo. There's this unnecessary self-assignment to do something... anything. The discontent with unprovoked attacks isn't to now try hard to make me comfortable. Don't go out of the way to harm, don't go out of the way appease... GET OUT OF THE WAY. You're not needed, stop inserting yourself.
listen im white and a woman. I’ve worked with all types of women and they all seem to be terrible to each other! i’d rather work with any man of any color over any woman of any color
Please link her CZcams, I want to support this sister, because I’m also a very smart and astute, beautiful black woman. Who has been constantly railroaded by women like this all of my life. This is why I have always had a side hustle, and I’m working my absolute best to have my own business so I don’t have to deal with this type of nonsense or working world anymore. I implore other black women to do the same.🙏🏾
Yes. Peace, respect, love, and abundance to you Sis. I'm doing the same quietly. May your business endeavors exceed your expectations.♥️♥️♥️♥️
Absolutely! Keep encouraging our young Black sisters to do this. I'm doing the same. We don't need to tolerate this diabolical abuse from these WW entities.
I am also working on my exit plan
I definitely have repressed the memories of working for white women, my best times ever were working for white men so there’s that. WW literally brought me to tears at this one job because they kept picking on me about my hair and outfits, as a receptionist job of a big hair salon business. not to mention I was the only black receptionist and even though I made the most commissions and tips and I was there from open to close I got treated the worst. I’ll never forget. but I learned at my last job eight years ago as a 20-year-old working for a white woman, that I would never work for someone else again unless it’s for my own clients. I’ve been working for myself ever since. Thank God, I have the skills to do that.
Yep, and that be them picking from jealousy
As a bw at 62, I no longer work, but have had many jobs, hence many supervisors. I can only remember having two ww as supervisors.
I prefer the wm.
I had one wm supervisor say, just do your job and don't get me in trouble.
I've gotten great evaluations from both wm and the two ww.
Although one ww said I didn't show enough initiative; when I had, she felt I overstepped, so I stopped...just a job.
Wm insisted on my receiving awards, medals, going away parties, etc.
They don't feel threatened by me, tbh most were protective of me...I was good with that.🤷🏾♀️
They prefer our energy.
Agreed. They're definitely more protective overall...until ww come into the picture
I find that ww are more threatened by young black girls,especially if she's pretty, talented and darkskin. They rlly lose it if shes pretty and darkskin.
@sparklesp9304 I agree, wm will be supportive and nice to you until WW come into the picture. Then they will turn on you. My dept is in utter chaos now because of wm siding with all the ww. Needless to say, I've turned them all into hr.
I'd choose a bear over any human these days.
This!!
Covert colonizers vs overt colonizers?
Look at latest Marjorie Green situation as an example.
"Calm down" after insult.
I remember years ago I was walking by a white coworker and she told another white coworker that she didn’t like me. I never had any interaction with before. Never understood at the time why she felt that way. Of course over time I learn the reality. I was like 18/19 yrs old.
Just recently was introduced to a white lady on my first day on the job and it was clear she did not like me. Never ever met her before and every encounter I could feel she had an issue with me.
That reminds me of this interaction when I was around 18 or 19 some people are just weird and disconnected from being a decent human.
In my opinion, I’m always gonna choose the man over the woman regardless of the race. Some women are so insecure within themselves that no matter what you say or do they will still dislike you without even knowing you or your story. They could dislike you over your looks, your personality or just your energy in general. Some women are not a girls girl, which is fine but EVERYONE deserves the same respect.
What's crazy is she only asked, it's other women that answered.
Thats like punishing the reporter cause you don't like the answer the interviewee said.
That envy/ jealousy/ hatred is insane. We know who we are and what everyone wants to be like.
Yes!
Yeah, and that jealousy and hatred is coming from YOU folk the most. Or else you people wouldn't constantly be putting up content bashing white people/women all the damn time and getting away with it too because of how antiwhite social media is. But the second a white person calls out black people's BS though, suddenly all hell breaks loose. Because your kind can dish it out but can't take it.
@@nonaturalbornmalesallowed
That's blacc privilege for you.
I dated a couple WW and I must admit, they constantly talked crap about BW. They weren’t expecting to get put in their place for it though. I guess they thought I would agree.
Because that is how they converse with most bm. BM usually love that.
@@j.m.8545 yeah well, I don’t know if that’s true like people exaggerate it to be. Lots of blk dudes just date multiple races of women w/o hating on Bw. But you do have those BM that talk that stupid ish about BW and that’s who gets all the attention.
@@DeeRue9it is true
@@neo1053lol. It’s true sometimes but you’ll be surprised to find out ww do a lot of the same bull****Just in a different way. Just ask a WM…Us BM have our ways too. We’re a rough race of people overall. WW do have their advantages though. 😉
WW and BM make the perfect combination. Whenever I see the combo, I see enemies approaching.
As a yt lady myself, I agree. Collectively, we’re the absolute worst.
Female relationships are complex and deep. And when a female friend backstabs you, it’s awful. The only “friends” that did that to me were yt.
We are two faced as hell.
Yes , you guys are horrible . I avoid you guys at all costs.
@@family561 I thought I knew how shitty we were when I lived in Baltimore. Then I moved to rural Louisiana. Holy fuck these yt women down here are horrific
@@family561😂😂😂
I respect the honesty.🫂
@@firesign4297That comment was pandering. It is used to disarm black people. I never trust the commentor.
I've worked with a lot of WW in an office setting and the majority of them always did some underhanded stuff like searching mistakes you made to show management, and trying to get you on trouble or even fired. They feel like they always have to be the "go to" person, you can't know more than them, and they want all the praise and accolades so they try to dumb you down bc they think you're trying to take their job bc thats what they do. And the crazy thing is you're just minding our own business
I grew up in both Alabama and Tennessee but been in NJ 10 years and chil what I’ve found out is at least white ppl show u they are racist in the South while in the North u don’t know what ur getting.
My granny used to say that. She was from Georgia but when they moved North she said they'd go into restaurants that didn't have any signs posted and people just wouldn't greet them or ask if they wanted to order, so they'd just end up leaving. It's disgusting.
WAAAY back in the day, New Jersey was known as New Georgia. It is also bordered by PennsylTUCKY.
This!!!
I'm also from NJ. Them eyetalians and gews trust me they dont like our kind. Not at all, went to school with them it be cool on the SURFACE...
Yep. Moved up north to PA. that history book is full of lies. They are far more racist than the south! But I found out. Yes I did.
They are not our allies.
My experience is that I can’t trust w hite ppl at all. Period.
I have to agree with the point the sister with the glasses made about white men in the US. A WM is not threatened by a black woman because he knows his place in society is at the top regardless of how hard the BW works. In my experience, WW are the primary gatekeepers of opportunity and they are okay with you being under them or being perceived as subordinate. However, once you are someone looked at as a potential threat (whether imagined or real), they will be spiraling with anxiety to plot against you. I must also say that my highest paying position was the result of two WW -- so all WW are not this way but keep in mind, I was not a threat to either woman given their level of influence and status.
They are true setup artists. They are used to being coddled and catered to.
I dont care who is in that conference room. i have out-smarted and out karen-ed both wm and ww. You Have to learn how to play their games because they never play fair.
That part. Always one step ahead. I'm always expecting bullshit and condescending attitudes and jealously. I'm so used to it, these ppl are miserable.
How do you do that
Whats amazing to me is they will let you live in their house to work for them, but they have a problem with you living next door. CRAZY!!!!
I’m still puzzled by how years ago they were fine with you BREASTFEEDING their babies but you couldn’t use their bathroom. A BW’s bodily fluids can go into your child but not your toilet? Sorry for the mental image but there’s no better way to put it.
Ok im back for the lady that tried to hand the Black Woman the dog shyt. Man if she tried to hand that to me i woulda said the same thing and soon as she rolled her eyes and walked past I woulda said "throw that shyt away and make it snappy.....hurry up too" 😂😂
Some white women, including white queer women, think that because they are marginalized that makes them immune to being racist or holding other similar beliefs about marginalized groups they're not parts of. They either think they their oppression is the worst and so they can't possibly be oppressing other groups, or that experiencing one (or two) types of oppression makes them all-knowing about all types of oppression. That how we get terfs and racist white women. As a white trans man I have more experience seeing this in terfs but I genuinely think it's the same way of thinking. We shouldn't forget that the first wave of feminism was extremely racist. They excluded non-white and working class women from the movement, in the UK the suffragettes wanted to vote so they can represent women in the colonies but didn't want anyone in the colonies to have a vote for themselves, and they also ostracized white middle-class women who were inclusive of women of colour and working class women from the movement. Feminism has racist roots which should be enough proof that just because someone experiences one form of marginalisation, that doesn't make them immune to perpetuating the marginalisation of other groups.
I wasn’t always apprehensive about ww, but after Trump was elected and it was shown that educated ww voted for him in droves, I don’t trust them.
Mmmmmmmmm wowah
That part! I thought there's no way he'll get their vote after his grab em by the p comment, but then those heifers went and made t-shirts! 🤬
I'm a WW and I would take the WM in the office, too. They're bullies, whereas the WM is more likely to say what he's there to say and go back to what he was doing before.
I’m a WW too and wouldn’t want either to be quite frank. WM at my previous jobs have tried to k*ll me and/or stalk me before for not sleeping with them while other WW have waged psychological warfare onto me. I like more diverse workplaces too, because when it’s just white people or majority white people everyone is stabbing each other in the back and it’s TENSE all of the time. I cannot stand it!
Wow, the self hate on this thread is real. Lol, pathetc.
I would not want none of them to walk into the room with me!
I feel the same. I hate even going into a store with a bunch of them in it. I will just leave. They are absolutely horrible creatures to even be around.
The fact that her page is showing up more frequently following demonetization is very telling. Their actions have inadvertently proven our point en masse!
Yt W, y'all get an A+!
For me, id rather join the team meeting in my home , off camera, on mute lmao. 😅
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Okay!
Their actions prove the original content creators point. Oh the irony!
Some funny shit huh lol
they proved her point quickly. Fanbase is Black owned. She should switch to them. But please keep us posted on any updates on supporting her for us non Tik Tok users. Thanks for reporting on this. 💙
The Muslim lady made a great point, that wyt men don't become aggressive with them because they will be seen as the monster.
White women love to play psychological mind games
The crazy part is I would still walk in with a white man over her because she can still be just as manipulative for the very reasons she explained. People will always use their strengths to get what they want
@@tricieb.5921Stop being paranoid, White women are NOT out to get you.
I’ve definitely seen this behavior irl. A lot of ww refuse to see the privilege they still have because the conversation is only around wm. We also have to look at the history of feminism and how it only included ww for so long and how so many ww still subscribe to white feminism
White feminism isn't even for black women because black American women have always had to be the provider for our households since slavery.
BW are not scared of ww 😊
I will always choose a bear. I choose neither.
After what happened with Jonathan Majors and that white lady that literally chased him up n down the block, Im not surprised theyre shocked we didnt fall for it
Ok black pickme.
They don't care... simple yall! Move on. They will never get it until they come down off the high horse. Until then why would they listen they feel they are above everyone. ITS THAT SIMPLE MOVE ON...
I'm not on tik tok but as a BW I would rather work with WM than WW any day. Men are more straightforward & I've just had better experiences with WM everytime in corporate America. I don't feel threatened by WM & in fact many of them have been my work champions. But I have been harmed by WW numerous times for no dam reason. And being in HR, WW are everywhere & it makes it hard for me to feel safe in staying at any company cuz I just straight be clocking how long it will take for a WW to act up 😒 They never disappoint 🙄
I don't have a problem with them touching my hair. They touch first so i grab second. Get a whole handful and pull. That person will never do it again. It will never stop them but it makes me smile 😅
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I was like naw smh at first but yeas iktr😂
You. Are. Hilarious. 😂
Aw man this is some good stuff 😅😅😅
😂😂 ima start doing this. Ima start asking , how did you get it sooo...straight..? With a handful and a confused face.
They don't like when you mirror their behaviors. 😂. I do this too. If you don't like it, don't do it!
I totally understand the rude hair touching thing is a tangible way to say Is your hair real? I wear locs and they are down to my back now. I had a random ww come up to me and pull one then was perplexed like So its all yours? I was like yes...why wouldn't it be? They were looking foolish later. It is a way some of them feel they are superior to black women its dumb because not all bw have short hair but some they get a thrill when they see our hair isn't our own so they can say we have no hair and must use theirs. However they get filled with envy because they can aee more of us rocking our natural hair at all lengths.
Wait a minute. A WW at work came up to you, touched your hair, threw it down, and you say... Nothing? Most of the time, they can sense who to pull ish on.
You're right. I think I'm too passive. So people try stuff at times. But I'm not one to say anything either. Smh. But that would have been so upsetting. Hearing about it is infuriating.
You're right. But that's also why she has a job!
Yep. Like Terry Crews.
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sis, it's OKAY to check your haters. Defend yourself! Just stay professional. Just in case you're accused of being the angry/violent BWoman, turn your phone camera on record, record the conversation, but you don't have to point the phone at them.
@@beeznhoney4323 thank you so much for that advice. I think sometimes I feel it's easier to absorb the situation than to do anything but you're so right. That only leaves me feeling bad in the end and they get no repercussions.
I nearly beat a white chick az for lying when I work with capital one - literally hating on my top sales . And shocked thinking she white that would trumpet over my charisma . . Just catch up . , and another one for talking behind my back for another sales job as a an ambassador. They hate when u do better than them . And when I say talking behind my back saying I’m flirting with potential clients . Like wtf . . So yes I’ll agree- a wm than ww in conference room , because most men don’t take women as competition until u step on their toes but women will always feel threaten by another woman in a competitive market .
I forgot to lock my car door after dropping off Lyft passengers and a drunk yt lady kept trying to get in! Well, a drunk yt man did hop in and scared the crap out of me! The moral of my story is, "Just lock your doors people!" The other thing about being a Rideshare driver is every single drunk person I gave a ride to was palm colored! One man was a yt Medical student who was so drunk, he just kept crying and asking me if I could take him back to where his friend was because he couldn't remember the phone number he had just given him! I drove far to a building out in nowhereville and his passkey wouldn't work! So, asked him to call someone (he tried to explain, but was having a hard time>>> so he handed me his phone>>>>Lolsss). I explained to the voice on the phone and he came down to meet him and take him inside! Weird stuff! Man, I have some wild stories! Oh yeah, that reminds me of a couple who got into my car with two giant bottles of liquor and I asked them to put them down on the floor just in case a cop sees them, I won't get a ticket! The yt woman got all huffy with me, but her yt partner said he understood and complied!
that's true GA Y m en and wh it women in the same boat
Someone said to me that “ not all skin folk are kin folk”.
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YT women play passive aggressive games. They appear to be nice but if you’re a threat in any way shape or form they will sabotage you.
Omg this is so true, quick story, when I call to make arrangements with my car note I have had the opportunity to speak to WW and WM on the phone who was handling my acct, & I’ll be honest the WW was very short with me and even though I was eligible she didn’t want to help me and set up a payment arrangement so after I got off the phone with her I called right back& this time it was a WM, not only was he very polite he cheered me up & he was very eager to make sure he gave me the best options available to me , so if I had to do it again I would definitely prefer a WM instead no offense to WW cause not all WW are like that but maaan there are plenty of them that give off this Ora sometimes before you even get near them.
I notice the lady mentioned gay white men at 11:10 being a threat too. I think it shows how catty ppl can be to you when they view you as sexual competition. I think that’s where it stems from. I know ppl don’t like admitting this but people can be catty and borderline abusive to you when they see you as competition in terms of love (if they seek validation from the gender they’re attracted to). Of course straight men can be jealous too but I think most of the times, being pretty or at least decent looking can make a straight man not be as disrespectful to you sadly while white women and gay men HATE black women who are deemed attractive.
Yes that's a great way of putting it. Sexual competition. I deal with this a lot, even with women who are not single. I just be vibing and minding my business and someone will say a snarky comment to me, or I get back handed compliments etc, and I notice weird behaviors. It's so weird like can't we just exist and this isn't just ww, this is all races of women I've experienced jealousy of others towards me. And they don't even realize it, it's a weird energy they give off.
@@makeuplayshaa I’ve experienced the same exact thing; it’s even worse in the workplace. Jealous ppl are so insufferable like just go to therapy or something
Yeah bw complain about non bw and mixed w being in our spaces but non bw feel the same way we feel if not worse whenever we are around non bm. And the fact that more bw are starting to interracially upsets them. Bm and ww wanted us to hate wm for so long.
Yep, and the sad thing is that a straight man will NEVER want a gay man, so their nastiness is so futile. They just make themselves look pathetic because men who like women will NEVER want them, so there IS no competition. They are delusional.
@@Kendricknia well non blk women and mixed women being “in our space” defeats the purpose of it being ours. I have no problem with then stumbling upon us and making a supporting or observational comment but making it center them is strange. Also having then represent us in the media erases us bc the world is already colorist enough. They definitely don’t like how more of us are dating out.
I had worked at a very prestigious hospital in Baltimore. You all know the one that starts with a J. I worked in an office position for a year and a half with no problem. At the time we, the clinical reviewers had a black interim manager. She was wonderful. They eventually hired a manager that was a respiratory therapist and put her as manager of nurses. She knew nothing about the job and was intimidated that the nurses knew more than she did about this position. She literally wanted to fire everyone that had been hired before she got there to hide her gross incompetence. She micro managed, took credit for work she didn't do. One of the scariest people to work for is someone hired for a position that does not have the background because they are so terrified of being found out they will do anything to cover up their inadequacies. She's probably still there today terrorizing people.
I don't understand why the Muslim woman inserted herself in this because this question was posed to black women.
The Muslim lady explained very clearly why. I appreciate the perspective she offered on this. It was informative and helpful on understanding this issue. It just shows that this is a pervasive problem.
Because she is facing the same issue. Don’t start this. Breaking women into smaller and smaller groups, and asking them not to support one another is the MOST effective tool to increase patriarchy and white supremacy.
Exactly its the same thing they are doing to BW , they're also competing with black muslim women too,