The Pain of Prodigal Children

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  • čas přidán 4. 04. 2013
  • Moira Brown speaks with Lorie Hartshorn about the journey she went on with her 3 prodigal children.
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Komentáře • 77

  • @trudyoutschoorn2438
    @trudyoutschoorn2438 Před 4 lety +34

    Praying for my son who hasn't spoken to me for over a year. It really hurts . He is 31 years but for a mother our children are still our kids and it really hurts.

    • @christinawilliamson3907
      @christinawilliamson3907 Před 3 lety +2

      I am going through the loss of my Adult daughter and her husband and them not allowing me to see my children. Prior to this sudden abandonment, I had watched my special needs grandson every weekday, and evening babysitting, Monday through Friday since his birth. I took him to special schools everyday, doctor appointments and physical and speech therapy for six years. This precious child was hurt by my not being in his life and then his parents lied to him saying I did not want to come anymore see him anymore. This precious tender boy with special needs was so hurt when he was told by his parents that I only been came and watched him; because it was my job. I was never paid a cent. I retired early to watch this precious first grandchild. A year and a half later this continue. We live five minutes apart. I cannot get past the grief. I have never found the reason. I babysat one evening for my grandsons while my daughter and her husband went on “date night.” The next day there was no contact at all and has not been.

    • @janeteringsmuth3780
      @janeteringsmuth3780 Před 6 měsíci

      So sorry. It really hurts

  • @iallen7572
    @iallen7572 Před 4 lety +45

    I wish there was a help group for moms rejected by their kids at 16+. My heart is broken.

    • @amandaskryweropinion
      @amandaskryweropinion Před 3 lety +2

      Sending you understanding and love from another Mother in South Africa. Never stop praying for your child. There are power in prayer.

    • @RachaelDeBruin
      @RachaelDeBruin Před 3 lety +4

      There is! I joined it a while ago. "Hurting Moms Mending Hearts" on FB (Rick Warren's wife Kay recommended it so I joined a few years ago). Great biblical support there.

    • @marisoljackson2369
      @marisoljackson2369 Před 3 lety +1

      Praying for your.❤️

  • @ridlyneknight8229
    @ridlyneknight8229 Před 4 lety +18

    I am going through this with my only son,please pray for him .

  • @evacolon5780
    @evacolon5780 Před 4 lety +17

    Ive had my share of downfalls i refuse to give up i need my son back to the man he needs to be

  • @GinaTaeTelevision
    @GinaTaeTelevision Před 3 měsíci

    This is so helpful . Specially hearing from the boys!

  • @sarahdavies3690
    @sarahdavies3690 Před 5 lety +12

    Thank you so much for this message. I am currently going through this situation with my beautiful daughter. I believe it's an epidemic. The loss, shame and guilt is terrible at times. Her boyfriend is using substances. Apparently she is now on antidepressants. We are all praying for her, and will never give up.

    • @silviaruiz5378
      @silviaruiz5378 Před 3 lety +1

      Hi Sarah, how is your daughter doing? I pray that she is doing better.

    • @sarahdavies3690
      @sarahdavies3690 Před 3 lety

      Silvia Ruiz very kind of you for asking. Unfortunately things are still the same, she is still in a low place, we pray one day things will really improve for herself, so we can be a happy healthy family again. Very best wishes to you

  • @carolynstockton5876
    @carolynstockton5876 Před 5 lety +11

    This story is very similar to my own family’s. Through the faith in Christ that I and my family shared, with prayer and giving our lives over to His will, everything changed and now we are all blessed without the pain of addiction.

  • @Sundayschoolnetwork
    @Sundayschoolnetwork Před 5 lety +13

    It's so heartbreaking. I don't quit praying.

  • @susanwimmer2275
    @susanwimmer2275 Před 5 lety +5

    How blessed you were to have been surrounded by those with holy boldness who knew HOW to pray & LOVE you and your family!

  • @evacolon5780
    @evacolon5780 Před 4 lety +9

    I have three sons bit my middle one is my troubled son addicted to k2 he chosed to be in the streets I wont give up but i do lose hope i broke down yesturday i really need guidance ive tried everything possible to do the best i can for michael and i was brought up in church i havent been in church in a while bit believe in power of prayer

  • @dianehitesinsurance
    @dianehitesinsurance Před 5 lety +5

    Thanks so much...fighting for my sons

  • @hoperules8874
    @hoperules8874 Před 6 lety +14

    This is SO encouraging! Thank God for you!

  • @maudegone1
    @maudegone1 Před 3 lety +1

    Fantastic interview. Great interviewer and honest truthful testimony. Praying for prodigal husband

  • @beulaho
    @beulaho Před 5 lety +4

    That house analogy is so great in clarifying how we can inadvertently allow the enemy and the demonic realm into our lives 😯

  • @Sevendandra
    @Sevendandra Před 5 lety +16

    Going through some of this right now with my teenage son.

  • @cheryljune1603
    @cheryljune1603 Před 4 lety +3

    True, raising granddaughter until this week she moved out at age 19.9 years old. She was/is so mean . There is a different spirit here now

  • @chandrasingh7030
    @chandrasingh7030 Před 6 lety +8

    Glory be to God thank you for sharing may God bless and bring this family together in love and unity

  • @crysralt6
    @crysralt6 Před 4 lety +2

    Thank you for sharing. We are going through a similar situation and gives me hope.

  • @jenniferhodge6881
    @jenniferhodge6881 Před 5 lety +39

    There is an epidemic going on with young adult children rejecting their parents. I had no idea until our adult daughter and her husband banned us from their lives. Our daughter suffers from anxiety and depression. We are praying for her healing.

    • @courtdash362
      @courtdash362 Před 5 lety +10

      Jennifer Hodge me too! Except it’s my son and his wife. I cannot figure out why she doesn’t like me until now after watching this! It’s a spiritual battle since she does not walk with Christ. Now my son says he’s agnostic. I just want him back in my life and even her as well. I know I have to pray for compassion for them but it’s so hard when they block me out of their lives now!
      I will pray for your family !

    • @courtdash362
      @courtdash362 Před 5 lety +4

      It’s like she has this spell on him to chose her over his family when we know there is room for all. She has used the oujia board before and I know that doesn’t help the situation.

    • @jenniferhodge6881
      @jenniferhodge6881 Před 5 lety +7

      Yes she is an open doorway. Keep praying for your son and your daughter-in-law. Learn about spiritual warfare and the prayers that can break the darkness around them. Have you ever been in a great mood and suddenly you feel a great depression when someone walks in. That's not your depression, that is someone who is under something evil. They probably don't even know why. Don't ever dismiss the Holy Spirt when he warns you.

    • @amandaseevers9199
      @amandaseevers9199 Před 5 lety +10

      Same here. My 18year old daughter left home to live with her boyfriend. We don't know where she is. Lord save our children

    • @marilunavamu4560
      @marilunavamu4560 Před 5 lety +3

      This is so sad, for me is my son and his wife we have not seen meet our grandson yet. She is a none believer 😔. I pray for all of you now

  • @beenameshramkar1697
    @beenameshramkar1697 Před 2 měsíci

    Prayers for my prodigal son to come back up Jesus

  • @chandrasingh7030
    @chandrasingh7030 Před 6 lety +4

    God bless these boys and may the lord bless and keep them in the arms of the lord

  • @evalehde3869
    @evalehde3869 Před 3 měsíci

    Living this nightmare. But our sin is 31 years old. His father and I were married 39 years this last December. Happily for thirty seven. These last two years of dealing with our son as an addict and in and out of jail have us turning on one another.

  • @ps9906
    @ps9906 Před 5 lety +3

    I spent many nights praying all night.

    • @katjamelnik4800
      @katjamelnik4800 Před rokem +1

      May i ASK you, how is the Situation now?

    • @ps9906
      @ps9906 Před rokem +2

      @@katjamelnik4800 she is doing well. She went to college and graduated top of he class. She has a beautiful family and a successful career. It's not perfect but it's pretty darn good. And we speak quite often.

    • @katjamelnik4800
      @katjamelnik4800 Před rokem +1

      @@ps9906 Thank you so much for answering.
      Hallelujah, I'm so happy for you and your Daughter. I thank you. You give me Hope for my Situation.
      Today my Son left our Family. He is 18 Years old. I'm so sad and helpless.
      God Bless You!

    • @ps9906
      @ps9906 Před rokem

      @@katjamelnik4800 my daughter said she was leaving at 18. She was 17 at the time. I told her she could be 18 now. All she had to do was go to school and call if she wasn't coming home for the night. But I would no longer cook clean or give her money. She would be responsible for everything that she needed. I was providing a safe place for her but she was on her own It kept her home and made things better. Best wishes to you,❤️

    • @katjamelnik4800
      @katjamelnik4800 Před rokem

      @@ps9906 thank you!

  • @sweetmelody9985
    @sweetmelody9985 Před 4 lety +5

    I wish my stubborn husband would pray with me everyday n nights

  • @brifontaine5149
    @brifontaine5149 Před měsícem

    ❤ I hope that my Prodigal daughter Faith-lynn turns herself around 😢

  • @codyd.1415
    @codyd.1415 Před 3 lety +1

    My 15 year old daughter just told me yesterday via email: “so if you want to see me or take me to lunch.... the only way that will happen is if you pay me $150.00”.
    So there is clearly a chance I’ll have a relationship with my child again. I’m super excited about it!!
    I’m saving up my money. 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @jacquelineweatherall5986
    @jacquelineweatherall5986 Před 2 měsíci

    2024 I'm experience this now pass 16 years son in jail, dark music, drugs, worldly nonsense 😢 God is bringing him home 🏡 Jesus name 🙏

  • @c848
    @c848 Před 3 lety +1

    Indeed music is a medium through which Satan finds entrance, then bad company and then it takes over little by little till he is cast out.

  • @lutchmeedhooky7892
    @lutchmeedhooky7892 Před 3 lety +1

    Pray for my son he left my home

  • @judithkellerman612
    @judithkellerman612 Před 3 lety

    I experience the same, two children, but all weapon I have and doing is prayer and belief

  • @joeldecoster8816
    @joeldecoster8816 Před 3 lety +1

    we cant escape from our own mind, we are all guilty, and we all are alone, noone asks to be borne and noone wants to be rejected,

  • @vickibaker8372
    @vickibaker8372 Před 4 lety +1

    A house divided cannot stand.

    • @delraetharratt2512
      @delraetharratt2512 Před 3 lety

      This is so true! It's hard enough being alone praying for the children but it's so draining having a husband that refuses to pray! Through it all I know that miracles can happen for my family!

  • @sharronwolfe7711
    @sharronwolfe7711 Před 4 lety +1

    Oh, how we need to know about spiritual warfare and have prayer partners who will join with us in warfare over our families! Our churches have missed the mark in not teaching it, practicing it, and the entire body of Christ suffers - The Lord said my people are destroyed for lack of knowledge! (Hosea 4:6)
    Praying the Lord to guide us into all truth for His sake and for the body of Christ to stand up and be counted!

  • @thatwifelife2138
    @thatwifelife2138 Před 4 lety +1

    If the enemy never came to visit then where would my faith be?
    Christian parents we must educate our kids on the world and not shield them from it.

  • @azzurres1
    @azzurres1 Před 6 lety +4

    I tell you.. Praying works.. Also saying bad stuff over others is like a spell. I prayed for my children, then my wife calls me saying simon was going first time to the toilette, just suddenly. I didnt pray for it. But you dont have to say god what u need. He knows it! But PRAY!

  • @shaleetacarter2097
    @shaleetacarter2097 Před 2 měsíci

    I can’t relate with all three of mine

  • @hanalulgjuraj6879
    @hanalulgjuraj6879 Před 6 lety +5

    I'm a prodigal child, disowned by my parents. it's been 6 years

    • @barbarabravoparrish8056
      @barbarabravoparrish8056 Před 6 lety +2

      Hana Lulgjuraj accept Jesus as your savior and your life will change and then go to your parents and ask them to forgive you and start going to church with your family . God bless you

    • @hanalulgjuraj6879
      @hanalulgjuraj6879 Před 6 lety +8

      Barbara vargas
      I AM a Christan and have done all that but they stay the way they are and that's ok, I'm going to focus on my walk with the Lord and continue to pray for my family. God bless 😊

    • @jonichris50
      @jonichris50 Před 5 lety +3

      Hana, I'm so sorry. Why have your parents rejected you? I just read that you are s Christian now. So happy to hear that. Again, sorry your parents are not working on your relationship.

    • @catbee1452
      @catbee1452 Před 5 lety +2

      Hana L, prayer can move mountains, my sister. It was a very long time before I could forgive my mother. I took being 'broken' by our second daughter, that I felt prompted by the Holy Spirit to forgive my mom. Your prayer can change them too. He can soften their hearts but first we have to soften ours. xox

    • @vickibaker8372
      @vickibaker8372 Před 4 lety +1

      Unforgiveness is a sin

  • @randolphalderette1782
    @randolphalderette1782 Před 6 lety +1

    Thank you THANK YOU THANK YOU ELOHIM YAH ABBA YAHWEH YAHSUHA inHIS RUACH HA KODESH AMEN Iii JOHN ELIJAH And ELISHA iiiiiii LITE iii SHALOMIII ELECT HALLELUYAH BEAUTIFUL WARNING huh. PEACE iii I iii SHALOMIII ELECT HALLELUYAH BEAUTIFUL FAMILY iii