This is a great video thank you. We must teach young women how to identify negative, abusive behavior and personality. Your tips will help them to see it. In the end God will always have the answer as to their true character. If they have a bad character, they will also not consider your opinion or want to build a home with respect between you. And they will never change permanently (they might change temporarily, but it cannot last). I hope more women will choose good husbands.
When you identify the bad character, address it with him and if no changes then don't move on if u can't deal with it...why I say address it cus there might be a possibility he looks into it and works on it...cus a guy will change and seek for help if he values his purpose in life. The reason why he must have a purpose and vision in life.
offcourse .discussion involved addressing the red flags. however u don't need to wait to go into marriage to adress that, do it in your courtship period, the will always be signs to tell if he is not making effort to change. Saying I will change and taking specific actions to help you change are 2 different things.
So me I have learned to make sure the major killer fir me does exist from day day. : this involve cheating, abuse. Because u see these two I can't deal with them even for 1 day again talk less if rest of my life.😂
@@Datchristianwoman definitely...Its not addressing it while in the marriage...it's addressing it while in the dating/courtship stage thus the reason for your video..advice before u say I do
@@Datchristianwoman my dear....as women our intuitions don't lie to us and as a Christian we have added advantage..I mean a Christian who has a true relationship with God you know....walking in the spirit of discernment...u will pick the red flags..God will even show u in dreams even about his background...if God can reveal the things your future husband is dealing with even before u meet him so u start praying for him what more the red flags..just that we ignore them like u say...the soul and spirit are always at war with each other...having a true accountability partner helps alot to put some sense when the head is over crowded with butterfly feelings🤣
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Very insightful . Thanks for sharing. God bless
Thank you to for you sharing your thoughts 🙏 ❤
This is a great video thank you. We must teach young women how to identify negative, abusive behavior and personality. Your tips will help them to see it. In the end God will always have the answer as to their true character. If they have a bad character, they will also not consider your opinion or want to build a home with respect between you. And they will never change permanently (they might change temporarily, but it cannot last). I hope more women will choose good husbands.
Amen.
When you identify the bad character, address it with him and if no changes then don't move on if u can't deal with it...why I say address it cus there might be a possibility he looks into it and works on it...cus a guy will change and seek for help if he values his purpose in life. The reason why he must have a purpose and vision in life.
offcourse .discussion involved addressing the red flags. however u don't need to wait to go into marriage to adress that, do it in your courtship period, the will always be signs to tell if he is not making effort to change. Saying I will change and taking specific actions to help you change are 2 different things.
So me I have learned to make sure the major killer fir me does exist from day day. : this involve cheating, abuse. Because u see these two I can't deal with them even for 1 day again talk less if rest of my life.😂
@@Datchristianwoman definitely...Its not addressing it while in the marriage...it's addressing it while in the dating/courtship stage thus the reason for your video..advice before u say I do
@@Datchristianwoman my dear....as women our intuitions don't lie to us and as a Christian we have added advantage..I mean a Christian who has a true relationship with God you know....walking in the spirit of discernment...u will pick the red flags..God will even show u in dreams even about his background...if God can reveal the things your future husband is dealing with even before u meet him so u start praying for him what more the red flags..just that we ignore them like u say...the soul and spirit are always at war with each other...having a true accountability partner helps alot to put some sense when the head is over crowded with butterfly feelings🤣