Very well said! I’ve been married for 29 years and we have worked hard to keep it that way. It’s not ‘ring on and done’ it’s growing and changing and learning
This is probably the most mature thing I’ve seen an influencer post. Good on you. I’m sorry that that happened. I’m married, and there are definitely highs and lows that nobody talks about.
That’s the truth. I’ve been with my husband for for 12 years. We’ve had amazing times and we’ve had rough times. But that is life, nothing is ever perfect. What matters is that there is respect and the care to worth through those challenges. Nobody is immune from hardships and it’s how we handle those trying times that matters.
Upfront, you didnt bring it to social media, the other girl did. She claimed you were being passive aggressive through videos(when you didnt even know who she was), brought up your husbands messages to her(which i dont believe were sexual, but was specifically about his marriage), it was a very nasty move on her front. I believe she proudly put "that homewrecker" as her bio on tiktok and was answering EVERYONES questions on the topic. Im not sure about you and your husbands relationship(as i shouldnt unless you want to share) but SHE brought it up. She speculated on it. Good on you for not wanting to bring her into this, but its not wrong to hold people accountable. She started this mess. But you ARE a very mature person and as someone who was there for the whole drama, you handled it well all the way through
@wearetheworld6962 I can't attest for his accountability as they handled everything privately, I CAN blame the OF girl for bringing it to social media cause she did. She started it.
@@nothanks71he gave her the opportunity to do so by getting involved with the other woman in the first place, though. If he had never gotten involved she wouldn’t have had anything to post. It’s like if I gave my spouse’s nude photos to someone and they posted them, yes they were wrong to post but I was wrong first by giving them something TO post. I’m assuming that’s what the other commenter was saying.
@@Kknderbueno it doesn't matter as it's between them, that's the point. The OF girl said that Ashlee was being shady towards her and brought info up FIRST. Idk the specifics of Ashlee and her husband's marriage, I'm not sure what he did cause they didn't share it. The OF model made repeated videos to the point that it came off as harassment towards Ashlee. Also your analogy makes no sense cause nude photos are a tangible thing, the OF model kept making vague statements and didn't say exactly what he did. He spoke with her, the OF model said "no need to be shady(Ashlee wasnt) he loves you" and all these things and it got to the point where she had to address some things. We can acknowledge people harassing other people and not down play their behavior. All this "the husband is to blame first!" doesn't work when you have a woman actively targeting you and making repeated videos about you. Harassing someone cause you thought they were being "shady" towards you is objectively nasty behaviour. I'm not bringing up the husband's behavior cause I genuinely don't know what he did SPECIFICALLY and wanted to address the harassment in particular. Ik what ik and know what I don't. Ashlee said she doesn't want to bring the other parties up and I just wanted to reaffirm that she wasn't the one who made everything public
@@Kknderbueno no one’s saying that he is a perfect angel. People fk up. But regardless of what happened in their relationship it’s not the public’s business unless THEY wanted it to be. That OF girl decided she wanted to make their marriage issues public for clout (not to mention LIED claiming she had an affair with the husband which wasn’t true) and that’s extremely wrong. It needs to stop being normalized to share people’s dirty laundry for the sole purpose of hurting them. Unless another individual or the public is somehow in danger by something someone is doing, sharing people’s personal business like this for attention is a sh*tty thing to do. That’s the point.
It makes me so happy to see good examples of creators that know when to keep things private and make mature decisions ❤ so even though I’m not a regular viewer of her content, I knew I wanted to support her bc she really deserves more attention.
Not only that, she took genuine accountability for her actions, rather than just blaming him or the woman who started the rumours. On the internet, that's as rare as rocking horse sh1t! 😂😂
@@taiyabazaheer9492can you please stop? The whole video is about ppl making comments about their marriage. It is literally none of our business. It has nothing to do with their content.
Been married almost 10 yrs. No one knows what goes on when the front door closes and the drapes get pulled shut-except you two! Hold your values in high regard, work on your shit, and tell the world to kick rocks. Take care of yourselves and those babies! I wish yall all the best. ❤
I think growing up children will realize that it was better for their parents to split up rather than having to hear shouts from the bedroom, witnessing ur crying mother or father, and having to live with the guilt that if it had not been for the children the parents wouldn't have to suffer like this
@@adaezez8378 I wasn't evem reffering to Ashley but rather replying to this comment because its important to know that when there is no respect in the relationship, the whole family suffers. I was just adding my point of view so that people don't think being in an abusive relationship will somehow save the kids
We understand. When someone is absolutely heartbroken, they can’t be in a good headspace, leading to unwise decisions out of hurt. We’re happy to see that the both of you are doing well and used this situation to gain wisdom in the end.
Sometimes you need to let yout pain out and you did, maybe it wasn't the best idea but it's natural. I'm now happy you're happy. People will always talk, even if you don't to anything they'll make something up!
No body will forget that he cheated regardless of how many videos she makes, and if he cheats again that will be the first thing people will throw at her.
@@jbo6018 I hear that, putting your life online does give other people the right to voice their thoughts and opinions, but us being invested and caring still doesn’t mean we’re entitled to an explanation, just means we’re a bit curious or nosy, which is normal 😆. Also, the couple themselves didn’t make it our business, some people on Tik tok saw a man in someone else’s video and since they just happened to be having issues at the time everyone just ran with it, making all kinds of assumptions and headlines as the internet does. Everyone just believed what they read opposed to doing any fact checking themselves lol, and by fact-checking I mean just watching the “proof” because it CLEARLY wasn’t him. Being dragged so far into a scandal that had no substance would so frustrating, and had she rebutted, her response wouldn’t have done much for the media already swirling with accusations and stories. But even so, they doesn’t owe us an explanation to anything, it’s not our marriage lol. I also wouldn’t call it taking accountability, I would say she was waiting for the shitstorm of a false narrative to pass before commenting on it (and all while trying to figure out and navigate their real marital issues). Especially because again, all we had to do was watch the video to disprove the initial claims that started the media shitshow lol 😂
I hope we hear the same from him too. He had no problem saying bad things about you on social media i want to hear the same wise words you say and take accountability for his actions specially when he was the one that step out of the relationship.
She did admitted they were both being mean to each other and were wrong for it. I'm pretty sure they are tired of the narrative and just want to move on. You don't need to hear everyone side. They don't owe you a thing. It's their clear they want to move on. Him telling his side will only allow for more negative comments and remarks. Their marriage, not yours, to decide how they want to resolve their matters.
Its been very clear that he's not somebody that really likes to be on social media they way she does. Im sure face to face as they talked things over he apologized to her as she did to him.
@abizar3660 when did I said I'm own anything, he put his business out here and was the one saying that she was only using him for views and that he was the victim and that's why he step out. I'm not own anything and you are right it is not my business, but I'm allowed to talk about it. Because he was the one putting his business out there for everyone to see. Look you don't have to like what I said and you can tell me something because I put my opinion out there. You don't have to agree, but I stand on what I said.
@Ponce17 and to be clear he didn't mind be on social media when he was talking bad about her making videos how she was just using him for views. He also doesn't mind the money from social media
what?? not to argue but she just said they want to keep everything off the internet theres no reason why he should apologise publicly he doesnt owe anyone but HER an apology and u can tell theyre healthy now so theres no need for this
Bless you, girl. I understand forgiveness, I just hope he treats you right & learns a lesson. If he does you wrong or talks down on you again, I hope you do what's right for you and your kids. You deserve so much better either way.
his response to what he actually did & not taking accountability at all was insane . he’s now conditioned you into believing you did wrong & caused him to do certain things ,, but when flipped around your reactions to him was just bad behavior from you . narc behavior . when he hurts you again don’t be surprised .
Thank you! I’m glad I’m not the only one that didn’t forget what happened. This man was most definitely cheating the way he took no accountability at all and just bashed his wife on the internet. Honestly don’t even believe that it wasn’t him in the video. Looked just like him and the other girl said it was him, I watched her videos when it happened.
sad to see everyone else praising her for "taking accountability" and keeping her marriage together ... like she isnt taking accountability for HIS actions. absolutely insane lmfaoo
Clearing this up definitely is good for both you and your husbands mental health honestly. I'm happy for you both! I hope more people stop believe everything they see on social media
if she was the one that cheated he would never have forgiven her that's why women lose everyone in comment talking about maturity what about the maturity of men and holding them accountable for their actions
Yeah ppl praising this is kind of wild. I don't think ppl should bash her either, it's her life and she can do what she wants. But everyone acting like she's doing something noble and mature is weird
Yeah, while im genuinely want to be happy for them, the cheating is still a no for me, good on them for working it out but dont tell other to just "talk about it and move on" because ehe broke your trust and slept with someone else and theres a lot that goes on in cheating because you can back out of it but he did it willingly It doesn't sit right with me, but whatever
As long as you're happy... one of my biggest issues in my past relationships is being made to look like a fool. I personally couldn't have my spouse embarrass me for the world to see. We all handle things differently though. Glad you guys are happy.
Oh man. I feel this so hard. It’s so painful to be going about your day and to see a false but incredibly hurtful statement about you or your family. Hate that you had to do this to clear it up but you always keep it so real, like there is just nothing to hate. You rule and I’m so happy for you and your family 💜
I feel like him and the chick made u believe this. i only say this bcs you didnt really bring it to social media, SHE DID. nobody knew it was legit true and nobody knew who it was till the third girl in this situation wanted her ten mins of fame. im glad yall worked through it.and wish yall best, but I feel like you hardly brought it to social media until you HAD TO , bcs people were starting malicious lies aka the one asking for her ten mins of fame.
Thank you! I'm not a hater. But why is she the one taking accountability when they were the ones all over the internet demonizing her!? I'm just glad to see someone keeping it real in here
Yes! I was like "girl you've always been the mature in this 'sitch" i don't have tik tok so maybe she spoke more on it when it was happening on *that* platform, idk, but she never gave any other energy to me. Real tight lipped ab it.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 your marriage, your rules, your way, your business. I love how far youve come. We all can say and do things to hurt our significant other when we ourselves are hurting; that is a very human response to very human feelings. It speaks volumes you are able to stand back and objectively point out your mistakes and especially your shortcomings...make changes to better yourself, your relationship and especially your situation. Awesome work 👍🏽❤❤
Mad respect to show your vulnerabilities about your weaknesses. To show your real problems in a real marriage. And you're Strength, dedication and love for your family to work on yall. Thank you for your honesty and showing some of us we are not alone in struggles.
I'm glad you are taking time to work things through and dealing with the issues, rather than sitting here daily addressing each troll that is coming for you guys. You don't owe anyone an explanation or any information at all, bc your business is exactly that YOURS. You do what works for you. my ex husband and I had gone through quite a few rough patches that we didn't think we could get through. We have three kids together and wanted so badly for it to work, but we were young teens when we married so we didn't know what we were getting in to. We just thought that is what you are supposed to do when you care about someone and bring a life into this world. Its not easy by any means to make things work. We were able to work things out for over a decade before we did eventually have to cut ties bc we were creating a toxic environment for our kids and I didn't want them thinking any part of our anger towards each other was ok or normal. I made a lot of mistakes back then and I don't want to make any excuses for them. We did what we did, we screwed up, we dealt with our issues when we could and when we knew it was a wrap, we called it a day and went our own ways and are both better for it. You can't just exist/coexist, you have to be living it and both being happy, not keeping score or playing the blame game- also you should not have to compromise everything bc that too is unfair to both parties. Once you sacrifice so much neither of you are the same person you were and can't be true to yourself if you are living as someone else's image of you rather than being authentic. You both deserve to be happy whatever that looks like. Thanks for being real and sharing your story with us. A lot of people need to hear that social media is not all facts and that you need to check your sources and do your due diligence before going out there and trolling people who are clearly going thru something difficult. Speaking kind words costs nothing. I hope things truly work out for you both as a couple. Love to you and your family.
YES QUEEN ❤ This is a BSST CASE SCENARIO when it comes to divorce. It's crazy how people WANT you to stay broken up when you're trying to salvage a good thing instead of letting it fade away. I support you two 100% as I am in a similar situation with my ex-husband. ❤ true love always finds a way to bring soul mates back together!
Are you and ex husband back together or are you in the process of getting back together, if you don't mind me asking? I'm in similar situation I'm currently separated from my wife but we are both fighting for each other and our marriage, we are slowly but surely getting there!
@darkknight6219 we've been back together since 2020 and getting remarried soon. Nothing like a global pandemic to show us what really matters! 😆 We dated off and on through the whole divorce process. The divorce was only final for like 4 months before I moved back in with him. We had a lot to work through, but we did! We have a very healthy, happy relationship now. 💜 Don't give up on your wife, buddy. There's still a chance you two can work through whatever tore the two you apart if you want to badly enough. We did therapy and leaned on our faith to get through the first year of working things out. 🙏 My prayers are with you and your wife.
I love this! Thank you for not giving up on your relationship! Thank you for being a good example to other couples who may be going through a rough patch.
Good for both of you. Marriage is hard, I can't imagine the added pressure under the spotlight. Mistakes get made but I applaud you for both continuing to put in the work.
GIRL!!!! Healthy, happy, mature, smart men & women champion people working on their marriage. I’m so unbelievably happy that you two are still together & are working on yourselves individually & together, as a couple. Always sending extra well wishes & prayers your way. So happy for you both. ❤🙏🏽
I love it!!! You are a beautiful woman and a beautiful family fighter!!! You can't be a lover and not a fighter, you can't love what you can't fight for. God bless you and your family.🙏🏾❤️
I have made the exact same mistakes concerning social media & some folks are always so quick to jump in & make things so much worse. It's like they live to see other people suffer. Thanks for the update! 💜
Thank you for the transparency. There was a bigger message here and i thank you for that. I also hear you!! Marriage is absolutely worth fighting for. That is why unconditional love exists. God bless❤
I’m glad you are back, but I’m also glad that you took a break from social media because it seemed to help you a bit in your personal life. Your personal life is no one’s business except your’s. I’m also glad that you and your husband are working things out and that you two are doing better. Sending love! 💗
Congratulations. I'm so glad you have ultimately chosen to stand up for yourself. You sound like great people who are growing off of each other, and still learning individualizing as well as bringing that individuality together.
I’m glad you’re working things out. Mistakes happen. What we choose to do with that is up to us. Moving on with your marriage takes a lot of hard work. Keep on y’all! Happy for you! ❤
Homegirl…you deserve far better. You know damn well.. you know damn well he treated you disgracefully and tried to make a fool of you in front of the WORLD. You can’t love someone and do what he did. He’s a pos and you deserve better. Your excuses for him are sad… there is no excuses.
She's too far gone in it to realize sadly. This is what men do, they cheat on you with prostitutes and then they come crawling back with sad puppy eyes the moment they realize they can't take care of themselves. Once a cheater, always a cheater. She'll understand eventually
This is awesome, love the honestly and transparency. Thank you for clarifying, even if you don’t owe us any type of explanation. I am really happy you two are making your marriage work. ❤️
I’m so glad you were open and honest about the experience and openly admitted it shouldn’t have been on social media. Many ppl don’t have the balls to come out and say it once something has been said. I pray you two have a great future ahead!
Oh ya!!! So very very happy for you both. Keep lovin each other through all the ups and downs. Rooting for you both, but really rooting for you as a couple.❤
Unfortunately those rumors are going to always be around but hopefully fade out for the most part… marriage is tough and being human is tough, but I’m so glad you are both able to work things out!!❤❤
So much respect for you. Out of all the people going through this. Your accountability is top tier! I love your maturity sis! Whole heartedly it’s no one’s business but you ate sis ! And congratulations on your success
I’m actually really happy for you! ❤ that is so big of both of you to admit your wrongs and come together to build a better relationship. I bet the kids will also be so happy. Love and support girl!
I’m really proud of the two of you for working it out. Wow! I’m so happy for your family! Marriage is between two people and maintaining that sacred bond is a reminder to us all! Sending lots of love and energy!
So proud of you!! I’ve had your back this whole time and ILL KEEP HAVING YOUR BACK!! I appreciate your maturity, mentality, personality, all of it! You rock, keep on rockin’ Ash!! 💪🙌🩷
So glad you two have been working it out, you both seem like LOVELY people and deserve ALL the happiness together. My husband and I have just had our first wedding anniversary (on our 9th anniversary together, lol) and the silly banter and energy you have together is what I want to keep fostering with my husband too ❤
Very amazing to see this mature content come across social media... VERY VERY IMPRESSED THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR BRAVERY FOR DOING WHAT YOU JUST DONE!!! LOVE IT❤❤❤
Good for you both! People give up too easily and quickly these days 😔. I wish you all the very best as you work things out 🙏🏽. Your best days are ahead of you! 😊
When I tell you I clicked on this so fricking fast.. Very happy for you two, will always be rooting for love to win 💘 Marriage ain't easy but it's so worth it
Well said! All that matters is that you both are happy and thriving and that you both are doin what's best for you two as husband and wife and as individuals and as a family. The rest doesn't matter! Girl you have my supprt and I'm gonna mind ny own business and be happy for you both and be happy for your family! 💖🙂
So proud of you both. I don’t post anything about my marriage or problems on Facebook because it’s really nobody’s business but mine and my husband’s. So glad y’all worked it out and righted your wrongs because you make a beautiful family and need to be in each others corners.❤️
❤ you've always been such an inspiration to me. Thanks for your honesty and for expressing your boundaries. It is none if our business, but I am glad you shared this with us. ❤
Thank you for being Vulnerable ❤There is many dimensions in life, knowing when to separate them can be tough, financial, mentally, emotionally, and even physically sometimes ❤ We go through what we grow through, IF YOU LET IT. Great for you Ashley, don't let Anyone Steal what was Already Yours to Begin With❤ Heavy on the Power and the Energy that comes with it❤This is what people mean, when they say, stay woke, keep that Third Eye open❤You got this❤Rooting 4 U❤
I had to step away from normal social media it was giving me an anxiety attack, I can only imagine what it did to you during that rough time. Much love and support to you and your family ❤❤❤❤
First things first, GIRL you look amazing, that glow 🤩 You don’t owe anyone other than each other an explanation, ever! It’s your marriage and your life, let people think what they want as long as you’re both happy. I’ve had my channel for 10 years and in that time many times I’ve been accused of making my husband up because I don’t really include him in my content. I think I’ve shown his picture like twice and I don’t think he’s ever been in any of my videos. It’s just to keep people from prying into our lives. I’d rather they believe what they want than to have any real world issues with him. Obviously I don’t at all compare to you in audience size but I had to guard all of my peace no matter how small of a disruption it creates. Wishing you both the best.
Wow! That is an excellent way to demonstrate development! I am extremely proud of you and hope that you and your spouse experience nothing but the best.
1. Strong people work on their marriage, just like you two did.
2. Not our business
3. Love you both.
Very well said!
I’ve been married for 29 years and we have worked hard to keep it that way. It’s not ‘ring on and done’ it’s growing and changing and learning
Ditto this.
I agree with the first two.
Agreed!!!!!!!!!
Not working through cheating doesn’t make you weak. Please let go of that narrative.
I loved this. No bashing… Just straight GROWN WOMAN ACCOUNTABILITY
FOR REALZZZ
This is probably the most mature thing I’ve seen an influencer post. Good on you. I’m sorry that that happened. I’m married, and there are definitely highs and lows that nobody talks about.
Someone should talk about it. To many people try n portray the "perfect" and sweet couple.
That’s the truth. I’ve been with my husband for for 12 years. We’ve had amazing times and we’ve had rough times. But that is life, nothing is ever perfect. What matters is that there is respect and the care to worth through those challenges. Nobody is immune from hardships and it’s how we handle those trying times that matters.
AMEN ‼️
I’m happy for u❤
Fuck that. Single is better.
Upfront, you didnt bring it to social media, the other girl did. She claimed you were being passive aggressive through videos(when you didnt even know who she was), brought up your husbands messages to her(which i dont believe were sexual, but was specifically about his marriage), it was a very nasty move on her front. I believe she proudly put "that homewrecker" as her bio on tiktok and was answering EVERYONES questions on the topic. Im not sure about you and your husbands relationship(as i shouldnt unless you want to share) but SHE brought it up. She speculated on it.
Good on you for not wanting to bring her into this, but its not wrong to hold people accountable. She started this mess. But you ARE a very mature person and as someone who was there for the whole drama, you handled it well all the way through
And her husband should be accountable #1
@wearetheworld6962 I can't attest for his accountability as they handled everything privately, I CAN blame the OF girl for bringing it to social media cause she did. She started it.
@@nothanks71he gave her the opportunity to do so by getting involved with the other woman in the first place, though. If he had never gotten involved she wouldn’t have had anything to post.
It’s like if I gave my spouse’s nude photos to someone and they posted them, yes they were wrong to post but I was wrong first by giving them something TO post.
I’m assuming that’s what the other commenter was saying.
@@Kknderbueno it doesn't matter as it's between them, that's the point. The OF girl said that Ashlee was being shady towards her and brought info up FIRST. Idk the specifics of Ashlee and her husband's marriage, I'm not sure what he did cause they didn't share it. The OF model made repeated videos to the point that it came off as harassment towards Ashlee. Also your analogy makes no sense cause nude photos are a tangible thing, the OF model kept making vague statements and didn't say exactly what he did. He spoke with her, the OF model said "no need to be shady(Ashlee wasnt) he loves you" and all these things and it got to the point where she had to address some things. We can acknowledge people harassing other people and not down play their behavior.
All this "the husband is to blame first!" doesn't work when you have a woman actively targeting you and making repeated videos about you. Harassing someone cause you thought they were being "shady" towards you is objectively nasty behaviour.
I'm not bringing up the husband's behavior cause I genuinely don't know what he did SPECIFICALLY and wanted to address the harassment in particular. Ik what ik and know what I don't. Ashlee said she doesn't want to bring the other parties up and I just wanted to reaffirm that she wasn't the one who made everything public
@@Kknderbueno no one’s saying that he is a perfect angel. People fk up. But regardless of what happened in their relationship it’s not the public’s business unless THEY wanted it to be. That OF girl decided she wanted to make their marriage issues public for clout (not to mention LIED claiming she had an affair with the husband which wasn’t true) and that’s extremely wrong. It needs to stop being normalized to share people’s dirty laundry for the sole purpose of hurting them.
Unless another individual or the public is somehow in danger by something someone is doing, sharing people’s personal business like this for attention is a sh*tty thing to do. That’s the point.
Holy crap, is this an actual adult on social media making mature decisions?!? Like spotting a unicorn in the wild. 😆
Lmao this!! The internet is not your diary😅
So if it was her husband then wat
It makes me so happy to see good examples of creators that know when to keep things private and make mature decisions ❤ so even though I’m not a regular viewer of her content, I knew I wanted to support her bc she really deserves more attention.
Not only that, she took genuine accountability for her actions, rather than just blaming him or the woman who started the rumours.
On the internet, that's as rare as rocking horse sh1t! 😂😂
So mature of you 😑😑😑 get a life
I love when people fight for their marriage! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Me too!!
Yes, this!!
But didn't he cheat on her? Pardon me if that was a rumour too.
@@taiyabazaheer9492can you please stop? The whole video is about ppl making comments about their marriage. It is literally none of our business. It has nothing to do with their content.
@@taiyabazaheer9492Did you not listen to a word that she said in the video? Let it go.
Been married almost 10 yrs. No one knows what goes on when the front door closes and the drapes get pulled shut-except you two! Hold your values in high regard, work on your shit, and tell the world to kick rocks. Take care of yourselves and those babies! I wish yall all the best. ❤
We’ll said
I think growing up children will realize that it was better for their parents to split up rather than having to hear shouts from the bedroom, witnessing ur crying mother or father, and having to live with the guilt that if it had not been for the children the parents wouldn't have to suffer like this
@@justscrolling7829this is random 😭
@@justscrolling7829but you dont know if thats what is happening so maybe chill
@@adaezez8378 I wasn't evem reffering to Ashley but rather replying to this comment because its important to know that when there is no respect in the relationship, the whole family suffers. I was just adding my point of view so that people don't think being in an abusive relationship will somehow save the kids
We understand. When someone is absolutely heartbroken, they can’t be in a good headspace, leading to unwise decisions out of hurt. We’re happy to see that the both of you are doing well and used this situation to gain wisdom in the end.
This!✔️
Your marriage is nobody's business but yours and his. Hopefully this video will stop people from making comment's. Sending you hugs!!!
Absolutely!!!
That part!
Sometimes you need to let yout pain out and you did, maybe it wasn't the best idea but it's natural.
I'm now happy you're happy. People will always talk, even if you don't to anything they'll make something up!
No body will forget that he cheated regardless of how many videos she makes, and if he cheats again that will be the first thing people will throw at her.
@@nunyabusinessbro8527one again it ain't nobody's business but theirs. People need to worry about their own lives
None of our business anyway, just glad you came back ❤️
I agree, except they made it our business. This is her taking accountability for that
Agree
@@jbo6018 Even with it online it still wasn't our business. We don't know these people.
@@jbo6018 I hear that, putting your life online does give other people the right to voice their thoughts and opinions, but us being invested and caring still doesn’t mean we’re entitled to an explanation, just means we’re a bit curious or nosy, which is normal 😆. Also, the couple themselves didn’t make it our business, some people on Tik tok saw a man in someone else’s video and since they just happened to be having issues at the time everyone just ran with it, making all kinds of assumptions and headlines as the internet does. Everyone just believed what they read opposed to doing any fact checking themselves lol, and by fact-checking I mean just watching the “proof” because it CLEARLY wasn’t him. Being dragged so far into a scandal that had no substance would so frustrating, and had she rebutted, her response wouldn’t have done much for the media already swirling with accusations and stories. But even so, they doesn’t owe us an explanation to anything, it’s not our marriage lol. I also wouldn’t call it taking accountability, I would say she was waiting for the shitstorm of a false narrative to pass before commenting on it (and all while trying to figure out and navigate their real marital issues). Especially because again, all we had to do was watch the video to disprove the initial claims that started the media shitshow lol 😂
Her and him back! They made good content together
I hope we hear the same from him too. He had no problem saying bad things about you on social media i want to hear the same wise words you say and take accountability for his actions specially when he was the one that step out of the relationship.
She did admitted they were both being mean to each other and were wrong for it. I'm pretty sure they are tired of the narrative and just want to move on. You don't need to hear everyone side. They don't owe you a thing. It's their clear they want to move on. Him telling his side will only allow for more negative comments and remarks. Their marriage, not yours, to decide how they want to resolve their matters.
Its been very clear that he's not somebody that really likes to be on social media they way she does. Im sure face to face as they talked things over he apologized to her as she did to him.
@abizar3660 when did I said I'm own anything, he put his business out here and was the one saying that she was only using him for views and that he was the victim and that's why he step out. I'm not own anything and you are right it is not my business, but I'm allowed to talk about it. Because he was the one putting his business out there for everyone to see. Look you don't have to like what I said and you can tell me something because I put my opinion out there. You don't have to agree, but I stand on what I said.
@Ponce17 and to be clear he didn't mind be on social media when he was talking bad about her making videos how she was just using him for views. He also doesn't mind the money from social media
what?? not to argue but she just said they want to keep everything off the internet
theres no reason why he should apologise publicly
he doesnt owe anyone but HER an apology and u can tell theyre healthy now so theres no need for this
0:05 The hold on that mans pecks! 🤣😂🤣
Marriage is hard without being in social media. The internet makes it that much harder. Kudos to both of you❤
I was reading the comments are realized that my last name is part of your last name lol. Mine is Liszewski
Your maturity, grace, and wisdom shine ❤ I’ve always admired the way you carry yourself but especially this. You are a great example.
Yes I agree 💯
Bless you, girl. I understand forgiveness, I just hope he treats you right & learns a lesson. If he does you wrong or talks down on you again, I hope you do what's right for you and your kids. You deserve so much better either way.
his response to what he actually did & not taking accountability at all was insane . he’s now conditioned you into believing you did wrong & caused him to do certain things ,, but when flipped around your reactions to him was just bad behavior from you . narc behavior . when he hurts you again don’t be surprised .
Thank you! I’m glad I’m not the only one that didn’t forget what happened. This man was most definitely cheating the way he took no accountability at all and just bashed his wife on the internet. Honestly don’t even believe that it wasn’t him in the video. Looked just like him and the other girl said it was him, I watched her videos when it happened.
sad to see everyone else praising her for "taking accountability" and keeping her marriage together ... like she isnt taking accountability for HIS actions. absolutely insane lmfaoo
He will cheat again, sad to say.
Clearing this up definitely is good for both you and your husbands mental health honestly. I'm happy for you both! I hope more people stop believe everything they see on social media
Agree!
All I will say is that I hope you are being treated well. YOU have nothing to apologize for, and YOU handled yourself with class the whole way.
if she was the one that cheated he would never have forgiven her that's why women lose everyone in comment talking about maturity what about the maturity of men and holding them accountable for their actions
men don’t have accountability
Yeah ppl praising this is kind of wild. I don't think ppl should bash her either, it's her life and she can do what she wants. But everyone acting like she's doing something noble and mature is weird
Yeah, while im genuinely want to be happy for them, the cheating is still a no for me, good on them for working it out but dont tell other to just "talk about it and move on" because ehe broke your trust and slept with someone else and theres a lot that goes on in cheating because you can back out of it but he did it willingly
It doesn't sit right with me, but whatever
She on her grown woman ish right here. Like it and wish you and your husband the best! 💯
Amen. Well said and to the point. Period. End of story!
I'm happy to hear this and wish you a lifetime of happiness together❤
As long as you're happy... one of my biggest issues in my past relationships is being made to look like a fool. I personally couldn't have my spouse embarrass me for the world to see. We all handle things differently though. Glad you guys are happy.
Oh man. I feel this so hard. It’s so painful to be going about your day and to see a false but incredibly hurtful statement about you or your family. Hate that you had to do this to clear it up but you always keep it so real, like there is just nothing to hate. You rule and I’m so happy for you and your family 💜
Well said!! So happy you and your husband worked through it all! Marriage ain’t no punk ❤
So happy for yall and you were 💯 correct about social media. Great message
I feel like him and the chick made u believe this. i only say this bcs you didnt really bring it to social media, SHE DID. nobody knew it was legit true and nobody knew who it was till the third girl in this situation wanted her ten mins of fame. im glad yall worked through it.and wish yall best, but I feel like you hardly brought it to social media until you HAD TO , bcs people were starting malicious lies aka the one asking for her ten mins of fame.
Thank you! I'm not a hater. But why is she the one taking accountability when they were the ones all over the internet demonizing her!? I'm just glad to see someone keeping it real in here
Yes! I was like "girl you've always been the mature in this 'sitch" i don't have tik tok so maybe she spoke more on it when it was happening on *that* platform, idk, but she never gave any other energy to me. Real tight lipped ab it.
Still nobodies business of course & always happy to see a family work it out❤️💅
She sounds just like a victim of a narcissist who has believed the lies in the hoover 😂 It's fine, she'll be back crying when he embarrasses her again
@@playadremingrl no Fr that man called her a user and made it seem like she never cared for him while Ashley still kept it classy
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 your marriage, your rules, your way, your business. I love how far youve come. We all can say and do things to hurt our significant other when we ourselves are hurting; that is a very human response to very human feelings. It speaks volumes you are able to stand back and objectively point out your mistakes and especially your shortcomings...make changes to better yourself, your relationship and especially your situation. Awesome work 👍🏽❤❤
Mad respect to show your vulnerabilities about your weaknesses.
To show your real problems in a real marriage.
And you're Strength, dedication and love for your family to work on yall. Thank you for your honesty and showing some of us we are not alone in struggles.
I'm glad you are taking time to work things through and dealing with the issues, rather than sitting here daily addressing each troll that is coming for you guys. You don't owe anyone an explanation or any information at all, bc your business is exactly that YOURS. You do what works for you. my ex husband and I had gone through quite a few rough patches that we didn't think we could get through. We have three kids together and wanted so badly for it to work, but we were young teens when we married so we didn't know what we were getting in to. We just thought that is what you are supposed to do when you care about someone and bring a life into this world. Its not easy by any means to make things work. We were able to work things out for over a decade before we did eventually have to cut ties bc we were creating a toxic environment for our kids and I didn't want them thinking any part of our anger towards each other was ok or normal. I made a lot of mistakes back then and I don't want to make any excuses for them. We did what we did, we screwed up, we dealt with our issues when we could and when we knew it was a wrap, we called it a day and went our own ways and are both better for it. You can't just exist/coexist, you have to be living it and both being happy, not keeping score or playing the blame game- also you should not have to compromise everything bc that too is unfair to both parties. Once you sacrifice so much neither of you are the same person you were and can't be true to yourself if you are living as someone else's image of you rather than being authentic. You both deserve to be happy whatever that looks like. Thanks for being real and sharing your story with us. A lot of people need to hear that social media is not all facts and that you need to check your sources and do your due diligence before going out there and trolling people who are clearly going thru something difficult. Speaking kind words costs nothing. I hope things truly work out for you both as a couple. Love to you and your family.
YES QUEEN ❤ This is a BSST CASE SCENARIO when it comes to divorce. It's crazy how people WANT you to stay broken up when you're trying to salvage a good thing instead of letting it fade away. I support you two 100% as I am in a similar situation with my ex-husband. ❤ true love always finds a way to bring soul mates back together!
Are you and ex husband back together or are you in the process of getting back together, if you don't mind me asking? I'm in similar situation I'm currently separated from my wife but we are both fighting for each other and our marriage, we are slowly but surely getting there!
@darkknight6219 we've been back together since 2020 and getting remarried soon. Nothing like a global pandemic to show us what really matters! 😆 We dated off and on through the whole divorce process. The divorce was only final for like 4 months before I moved back in with him. We had a lot to work through, but we did! We have a very healthy, happy relationship now. 💜 Don't give up on your wife, buddy. There's still a chance you two can work through whatever tore the two you apart if you want to badly enough. We did therapy and leaned on our faith to get through the first year of working things out. 🙏 My prayers are with you and your wife.
I love this! Thank you for not giving up on your relationship! Thank you for being a good example to other couples who may be going through a rough patch.
hair suits you so well
Amen! It is definitely worth fighting for. Im happy for you both.
Good for both of you. Marriage is hard, I can't imagine the added pressure under the spotlight. Mistakes get made but I applaud you for both continuing to put in the work.
i'm so sorry! i know things must be very tough, but you go Ashley! you are handling it so well and i'm so happy you guys ard working things out!
Love always wins!!! 🥰🥰🥰 I’m so happy for yall! I wish you many many many more years of love and patience and blessings ❤❤❤❤❤
You are amazing and keep being amazing … I’m glad everything is working out 💪🏾💪🏾many blessings to you and your family
Good for you Ashley!!! Wishing you, your hubby, & babies nothing but the best!! 😊❤
Im so proud of you and your husband! Fight fight fight!!!
GIRL!!!! Healthy, happy, mature, smart men & women champion people working on their marriage.
I’m so unbelievably happy that you two are still together & are working on yourselves individually & together, as a couple.
Always sending extra well wishes & prayers your way. So happy for you both. ❤🙏🏽
I love it!!! You are a beautiful woman and a beautiful family fighter!!! You can't be a lover and not a fighter, you can't love what you can't fight for. God bless you and your family.🙏🏾❤️
I'm glad to see you both!! Stay prayed up!💙💖🩷🩵
always so well spoken, graceful and articulate. ❤
I have made the exact same mistakes concerning social media & some folks are always so quick to jump in & make things so much worse. It's like they live to see other people suffer. Thanks for the update! 💜
Thank you for the transparency. There was a bigger message here and i thank you for that. I also hear you!! Marriage is absolutely worth fighting for. That is why unconditional love exists. God bless❤
Happy that y’all were able to resolve things privately. Wishing happiness and longevity to you and your marriage 💞
I’m glad you are back, but I’m also glad that you took a break from social media because it seemed to help you a bit in your personal life. Your personal life is no one’s business except your’s. I’m also glad that you and your husband are working things out and that you two are doing better. Sending love! 💗
Congratulations. I'm so glad you have ultimately chosen to stand up for yourself. You sound like great people who are growing off of each other, and still learning individualizing as well as bringing that individuality together.
I’m glad you’re working things out. Mistakes happen. What we choose to do with that is up to us. Moving on with your marriage takes a lot of hard work. Keep on y’all! Happy for you! ❤
Enough said ! I am glad you are doing well and that you are resolving your problems privately. ❤
Subbed for this raw ass honesty. It's rare to see. Glad to hear a majority of this was all rumors!
Homegirl…you deserve far better. You know damn well.. you know damn well he treated you disgracefully and tried to make a fool of you in front of the WORLD. You can’t love someone and do what he did. He’s a pos and you deserve better. Your excuses for him are sad… there is no excuses.
She's too far gone in it to realize sadly. This is what men do, they cheat on you with prostitutes and then they come crawling back with sad puppy eyes the moment they realize they can't take care of themselves. Once a cheater, always a cheater. She'll understand eventually
I'm confused she said it obviously wasn't him but she believed it?
No brain 🧠 😂
Well spoken and I'm glad. I loved seeing you two together
Awwww proud of you both!! Rooting for yall!!
Thank you for sharing this!! I admire the decision you’ve made to keep it private ❤ your marriage is indeed worth fighting for ❤
God bless! So glad to hear you guys are staying in the fight. Communication (amongst yourselves) is the golden key to your success.
This is awesome, love the honestly and transparency. Thank you for clarifying, even if you don’t owe us any type of explanation. I am really happy you two are making your marriage work. ❤️
That’s right boo! 👏Don’t let these folks trick you out of your happiness💗
I love this! I appreciate you both for fighting for your marriage! 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Love this!!! The two of you are perfect together!!! So happy you stayed strong and together!!!!! ❤
And the people rejoiced!!! 🙌🎉
I’m so glad you were open and honest about the experience and openly admitted it shouldn’t have been on social media. Many ppl don’t have the balls to come out and say it once something has been said. I pray you two have a great future ahead!
Oh ya!!! So very very happy for you both. Keep lovin each other through all the ups and downs. Rooting for you both, but really rooting for you as a couple.❤
Unfortunately those rumors are going to always be around but hopefully fade out for the most part… marriage is tough and being human is tough, but I’m so glad you are both able to work things out!!❤❤
God bless you. That’s great you 2 decided it’s worth fighting for
Love love love this! Be blessed you two!
So much respect for you. Out of all the people going through this. Your accountability is top tier! I love your maturity sis! Whole heartedly it’s no one’s business but you ate sis !
And congratulations on your success
I’m actually really happy for you! ❤ that is so big of both of you to admit your wrongs and come together to build a better relationship. I bet the kids will also be so happy. Love and support girl!
I love you two together. Sending you love from Canada. ❤ We all make mistakes, we all have tough times. We're human.
I’m really proud of the two of you for working it out. Wow! I’m so happy for your family! Marriage is between two people and maintaining that sacred bond is a reminder to us all! Sending lots of love and energy!
I love this! Glad you guys are working it out! ❤
All that matters is y’all are happy, please don’t ever feel like you owe anyone any explanation for anything ❤❤
Amen - you’re doing the right thing. Keep up the work!
So proud of you!! I’ve had your back this whole time and ILL KEEP HAVING YOUR BACK!! I appreciate your maturity, mentality, personality, all of it! You rock, keep on rockin’ Ash!! 💪🙌🩷
Glad y’all are working together to make it better. Y’all are good together 🙌🏾
Boosting for the algorithm 🙌 Love your work, keep it up! 🌻🐝
Please explain what you mean TIA ❤
Amen Ashley!!! Love you, and wish nothing but the best for you. 🥰
So glad you two have been working it out, you both seem like LOVELY people and deserve ALL the happiness together. My husband and I have just had our first wedding anniversary (on our 9th anniversary together, lol) and the silly banter and energy you have together is what I want to keep fostering with my husband too ❤
Very amazing to see this mature content come across social media... VERY VERY IMPRESSED THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR BRAVERY FOR DOING WHAT YOU JUST DONE!!! LOVE IT❤❤❤
So happy for you, and you look vibrant and beautiful. 💛💛💛
Bless your union…glad you all could work it out
Good for you both! People give up too easily and quickly these days 😔. I wish you all the very best as you work things out 🙏🏽. Your best days are ahead of you! 😊
So happy for you. This is inspiring.
Good for y'all. So happy that you are working it out.
Happy for you both!! Remember, there is peace in privacy💗
So glad to hear it! Was hoping yall would work it out.❤
When I tell you I clicked on this so fricking fast.. Very happy for you two, will always be rooting for love to win 💘 Marriage ain't easy but it's so worth it
Well said! All that matters is that you both are happy and thriving and that you both are doin what's best for you two as husband and wife and as individuals and as a family. The rest doesn't matter! Girl you have my supprt and I'm gonna mind ny own business and be happy for you both and be happy for your family! 💖🙂
So proud of you both. I don’t post anything about my marriage or problems on Facebook because it’s really nobody’s business but mine and my husband’s. So glad y’all worked it out and righted your wrongs because you make a beautiful family and need to be in each others corners.❤️
❤ you've always been such an inspiration to me. Thanks for your honesty and for expressing your boundaries. It is none if our business, but I am glad you shared this with us. ❤
I hope all of your followers see this because like you said there is so many rumors going around.. I’m just glad y’all are happy. ❤
Happy for y’all! ❤
Thank you for being Vulnerable ❤There is many dimensions in life, knowing when to separate them can be tough, financial, mentally, emotionally, and even physically sometimes ❤ We go through what we grow through, IF YOU LET IT. Great for you Ashley, don't let Anyone Steal what was Already Yours to Begin With❤ Heavy on the Power and the Energy that comes with it❤This is what people mean, when they say, stay woke, keep that Third Eye open❤You got this❤Rooting 4 U❤
I had to step away from normal social media it was giving me an anxiety attack, I can only imagine what it did to you during that rough time. Much love and support to you and your family ❤❤❤❤
First things first, GIRL you look amazing, that glow 🤩
You don’t owe anyone other than each other an explanation, ever! It’s your marriage and your life, let people think what they want as long as you’re both happy.
I’ve had my channel for 10 years and in that time many times I’ve been accused of making my husband up because I don’t really include him in my content. I think I’ve shown his picture like twice and I don’t think he’s ever been in any of my videos. It’s just to keep people from prying into our lives. I’d rather they believe what they want than to have any real world issues with him. Obviously I don’t at all compare to you in audience size but I had to guard all of my peace no matter how small of a disruption it creates.
Wishing you both the best.
Wow! That is an excellent way to demonstrate development! I am extremely proud of you and hope that you and your spouse experience nothing but the best.
THIS! This was what was needed and what was deserved as you did put your life out there for others to watch. But good for you about this
This made me so happy. So much love to both of you!!❤
Good on you for keeping it real. A lot of social media influencers never actually address the rumors or just clear the air.