Jennifer Lopez's Struggle With Self-Esteem | TODAY
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- Jennifer Lopez has written an open and revealing book “True Love,” and she tells Kathie Lee and Hoda that she jumped into a relationship too quickly after her divorce from Marc Anthony.
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Jennifer Lopez's Struggle With Self-Esteem | TODAY - Zábava
If she can have self esteem issues, no one is off limits.
J5Howa That’s not true at all many beautiful women have self-esteem issues because they’re only validated because of their physical beauty and they never develop their inner self it sounds crazy but I see it all the time
46foryounger Livestreams What do you mean "develope their inner self" ?
French Vanilla I mean having something substantial to offer besides a pretty face.
J5Howa video
She's a human we all feel same things
One thing I love about Jlo is she does not make excuses, never has. She keeps on going no matter what. She's amazingly driven as well which I also admire. You cannot stop her. She doesn't always make the right choice but when she makes bad ones ( like P Diddy) she knows when to walk away. She's a very wise woman. Most of us let ourselves stew in self pity but you can tell she doesn't do that. She picks herself up and moves on. Most celebs seem unstable mentally but Jlo is unusually stable and normal.
WOW. To hear her say "I never became whole on my own!" I've been yelling this to J-lo from the TV screen for years, and never thought she would get it. She likened herself to a butterfly in driftly from 1 relationship to another. But I noticed she took some me-time before A-rod. She gets it now. YOU HAVE TO HEAL, and grow from within.
Lisa Jones Time in between means nothing if you don't know what needs to be healed.
Still moving still fluttering from one relationship to another. Being on your own isn't easy
Mmmm... not really the case now...
@@margholtz I know. Sadly jlo resorted to going back to an ex to rediscover love there. But what shes looking for isnt there either. You can write a book on self love and still never love yourself. We are also designed to be in relationship, so its understandable that she's longing to be loved like all of us. She'll find the real love she's looking for in Jesus Christ and a relationship with him. Because when everyone else in life has walked away, God never does.
I'm so glad she finally got there because the world already knew that she went from man to man and that it wasn't healthy. I've said that for years about her since she did Selena. She always had a man and I've never known her to be alone. Now she knows that it wasn't healthy and that you must heal before moving on to someone else.
yes...she went from impulsive latina to reflexive woman very able to learn from life and experiences...to be happier and feel better inside, more inner love and inner peace. And always working hard n making money
;-)
+mamiluisamia Yes & you can attract any man at anytime as a celebrity it was an easy pattern for her to fall into. Many other celebs are doing the same thing whether they are man or woman. Something that will be happening until the end of time!
+Kristen Albertelly yes, in a way, it is so. But Celebrities have a limit normal ppl has not: they are too famous to going out and simply meet new ppl just like us...You see? fame is a sort of freedom and a sort of cage at the same time...
At least millionaires can hide if they want to. Once I dated a millionaire, and he hide this from me till he was sure I loved him being an employee :)
Errr, she's still with a man.
mamiluisamia is he end up marrying u?
I respect Jen's honesty
"SHE IS TRULY DOWN TO EARTH AND IS HONESTLY BEAUTIFUL LADY"!! I LOVE HER STYLE"!!
I can totally relate to everything she has said about becoming whole within yourself.. I get it. I want her book now.
Hosts are not letting Jlo speak
Nancy Bagga Ikr! It's annoying!
Hate it
She never ages and I love how she lifts up people
She's so amazing. Love you JLO😘🔐👏😌.
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Agree. I love her too. I wish look in my 45 as young as her! :)
We've all been in her shoes in one way or another. And we've all done our mistakes in life. Is all a process to grow from our mistakes, kuz this is a school. And to become better human beings. I truly think when we become better with human beings we se life so diffrent . I applauded her for her sincerity and corage.
well said!
Here in 2021. She is now with Ben. Love that she moved on to Ben so quickly after A-Rod.
She is beyond afraid to be alone. Plain and simple.
@Flora GoodVibes oh she is. Beyond clingy.
She looks so gorgeous here. I love that lipstick.
A love for a man /husband ...is a totally different type of love than that of mother/ child. I must say...the ultimate and most powerful love is the Agape love. The love God has for us. When we really learn and accept and feel that love of Christ....we will be able to recipricate the other loves and freely give them.
agreeed!!!!
The journey of a human being. 💓
Not for starving children in Zimbabwe
Jennifer Lopez is still looking very beautiful and very kind. She really doesn't have to struggle with her own esteem at all. She has already built her own successful entertainment career as a great singer, dancer as a well-known performer through her own hard working and efforts. She is also a responsible mom and tries her very best to be a good wife. Moreover, she's very kind and reasonable person. I believe this is where the esteem comes from naturally. This is also why she doesn't need to be worried about it. Because I believe the hard working, decency, loving-kindness nature and generous mind of the forgiveness, principles and responsibilities as well as our own loyalty and patriotism to America and America's own foundation and constitutions also the unity. I love to watch her performance.
I really appreciate how open and honest she was about her not feeling whole on her own. I need to work on myself too
She's is so beautiful one day I seen her when she was doing her movie Parker she was so nice and very friendly she couldn't talk because of foam rolling but she was so sweet and very lovable and and I'm a huge fan of her I love her
great I love her so much
they kept interrupting her :/
Her hair loks just amazing.. looks beautiful like always.. so great and super woman, really love her and blessed her life!!
@BorissRaco How much shine and bounce does it need? Except for the false color, it looks great.
give Jlo space to speak please
I've had a couple female friends of mine seemingly take pride when they tell me that "they never stay single for long," and in the case of one woman has never gone more than a month of being single since High School. By this, I don't mean that they stay with the same guy for years and years, but rather that they bounce from relationship to relationship with little time in between. I can't understand why this is something that some women take pride in.
Frank Albarran me neither, how about learning to be with yourself.. but in Jlo's case i believe that she has so much stress because of her work and needs some sort of 'comfort'
Frank Albarran because they base their value on men's opinions. It's quite sad actually.
Because rejection is painful, because not making it work can make us force it to work with someone else to not have to look in at us at what we were lacking in that failed relationship.
A self validation attempt. If no one wants me then it MUST BE my fault the relationship didn't work out. So they go dating and immediately someone shows interest... of course they do. So many people in the world and only one you the odds are tons will date you. And why not she is gorgeous and smart etc but to her rushing to get with someone else was probably a self validation that if someone would date her so easily then she wasn't the problem in the relationship. She was good enough to date. See the "proof" was in how many people wanted to be with her or so one thinks. Never considering that in reality both people lack and both people contribute to both the problems and success in a relationship. It always takes 2.
Lol I’ve never stayed single for long but I have a life away from my husband
Men do it all the time!!
I will always love Her spirit it is so beautiful 💖
I LOYE. Yoy
The one that REALLY has self esteem issues is the lady in the background that waves EVERY time the camera is on her. Jeeeezzz.
Lmaoooooo
billville111 lol
I was just thinking that. drives me crazy.......
Lmmfao 🤣😂😂
billville111 LOL
She is freaking STUNNING!!!!!!!
What! J.lo struggling with self esteem issues... she's perfect. From the hoods perspective... shorties a 10.😉love the dress, hair, e.t.c. from head to toe. She looks incredible.
She’s so real and honest and never tries to hide who she is. This is one of her best interviews. The number one problem JLo has is that the men she attracts can’t handle HER success. They are envious of her and want her to diminish who she is as a superstar in order for them to not feel inadequate. It is obvious that her current spouse is very jealous of her career. Even if she were to dim her light to please him, rest assured that it will NEVER be enough for him. EVER. She deserves sooooo much better. JLo por favor no dejes de ser quien eres solo para que tu pareja no se sienta menos. Ese no es tu problema, es de él y solo de él. Déjalo volar. TU te mereces muchísimo más.
She's an angel on earth
I struggled with that and I have to be born again to get self-esteem from the Holy Spirit Jesus is the only way to learn to be hole the kid thing dosent work I said the same thing I'm above average you can't do it when people tare you down and expect you to be a robot. To many people actlike your soposed to act like you have it easy and there isn't problems and your horrible if you want to like the way you look . Then that's all a man acts like it cares about and wants a slave I don't no about the rest of you I couldn't get what I was supposed to get or feel like I could be me.
Darla Paxton pls stop this fairytale. Religion does not cure
I feel sad, dont have love in my life besides my family but im struggling to find that person and it effects me
Amazing woman!!!! So brave, so honest, so humble!!!!
I think she basically has self-esteem problems, thats why she has to be always 100% in every area of her life. She works very very hard to be "perfect" inside and out...so desperately seeking love from the outside. I really wish and hope she will find it in herself and then she does not have to be perfect anymore.
great interview
I love jlo she looks amazing and is a great mother to her twins. You go girl, keep up the great work. ..👍
shes seems sweet
Is admirable, how her work for make all your resources, by yourself.🙌
The TITLE 😂😂😂😂😂 pleaaasee
I thought about "Max and Emmie," from Dragon Tales lol
She’s beautiful 😭
I admire you Jlo.
Kathie is not a good listener, and loves to interrupt. On a positive note...I looooove Jennifer! I’m so glad she’s figured it out. ❤️🤗
I feel like they talk over her and cut her off
Omg Kathy shut up u were constantly interrupting!! Lib you Jen
Jlo eres la mejor
no comments here related to her book. Guess no one has read it.
Awwwwww...J.LO 💚💚💚💚👍🙌🙌🙌🙌🤗👑❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️. YASSSS
She still stunning and number 1
Love you JLo you are looking hotter then ever...
I'm glad such an amazing influencer is saying out loud that after a relationship ends, you need to learn to become whole again after the lessons learned before jumping to the next relationship
I love Jennifer Lopez
Admire you JLO♡♡
She is so pretty and strong it’s amazing
Jlo is amazing
I love how she says max and Emme saved them! Their bday is tmr!!!
Jennifer is my role model 💟💟💟💟
Love Jen
Jennifer is awesome😍👌
Love her work ethics! Happy she's finally in a great place. There's nothing like having a loving Mother and positive friends!
JLO you're an incredible giving, loving person.
YOU ROCK!!!
Love J.Lo 😍
Proud of you honey
She is Ghe best♥
She is so beautiful. ..
The dress is gorgeous.
Jlo the book true love is you 😍
Maybe from stealing songs from black women and leaving there vocals in she didn’t even sing the songs half of the time 💀💀
Love you jlo ❤️ 😘
OMG she just don't age...
@Akiya's Angels Botox, fillers, nose job, facials, face peels, micro needling, ipl treatments , healthy diet, exercise, no alcohol, no drugs, no smoking, no caffeine
oh and the latina blood, i am turning 40 and i look 20
Did you see the before and after face lift get serious how stupid !!!
She also had her nose job two of them.
Nice book jlo 😎
too much of love is the worst thing, parents should understand
I LOVE U JLO!
JLO IS STUNNING AND ROOTS VIBES
JLO has it so rough. She is such a role model for our soldiers in Afghanistan , Iraq and in the jungles of Africa. If they only knew how rough of a life JLO is living then they would think, "its not too bad in this wasteland compared to where JLO is." Part of the Navy Seal mental toughness training program they are made to read JLO's book. JLO's book is also a must read for surviving behind enemy lines class. JLO is really amazing and has lots of courage because she feels stress like a normal human.
I enjoyed the book
That woman does NOT have low self esteem... Wtf?
Caoimhe Cogar Well, If you watched Jennifer Lopez's Episode of Behind The Music, She was hopping from one man after another. Every time one relationship failed, She jumped right into another one right after that. Instead of working on herself, really learning to loving herself first and not relying on a man to love her and depending on him to make her feel whole and complete and her not doing that for herself. That's not low self-esteem to you? Lol... A woman with confidence and self love would work on herself and take a step back and take a break from relationships and realize that one relationship after another is NOT healthy. She would work on herself in the mean time until the man really meant for her came along. 💯 💯
I really enjoyed Jennifer Lopez being very human in this moment. I love her being so straight up.
Great
She is Gorgeous
Come on Lopez.........we love you a lot and even worship you.........great singer, dancer, actress and a model you are........if you get anxiety or panicky we get depression because we your great fans........but this is natural soon you will be out of it...
Fabulous!
still Jenny from the block 💝
That color looks gourgous in Jennifer Lopez!
I want to read that book.
Ppl are so silly at times...one cannot judge a person's self-esteem from their clothing....wtf!! Some of the comments are so stupid.
Kids are our future!
Я хочу , чтобы Дженнифер Лопес всегда улыбалась потому , что 1) У нее бесценная улыбочка 2) Ее улыбочка это лекарство от всех болезней 3)Ее улыбочка самая красивая 4)Ее улыбочка самая добрая 5)Ее улыбочка ярчем чем солнышко на небе . 6)Ее улыбочка Освещает Всю планету по утрам и всегда .
Beautiful ❤️🖤🖤🖤🖤❤️🖤
Lol she went from Alex, to Ben... in ten seconds. Cmon.
Many women go through the same stuff. Heartache doesn't discriminate. Jennifer Lopez is doing the same thing now though. Going from her last fiance to an old flame. Been there,done that so I empathise. But I dont see shes learnt or she's healing if she's repeating the same mistakes . I guess life is lonely for women especially if they haven't got a husband or been through failed relationships or divorce. Money and fame can't buy love. And no matter how much luxuries you have in life, its worthless without a nice loving fsmily of your own to share it with. I wouldn't want jlos life . I'd rather a husband to be the father of my children and to be together thriugh old age.
This is totally awesome jlo you wrote a book i dont believe ever you cant do anything you set your mind too
She still doing it today.
But wait I’m disappointed she’s still doing that …
it is funny it takes us 40 years to learn to love ourselves because of bad parenting.
If all the ladies were eaqually beautiful, Kathy wins hands down. Funny and compassionate. JLo is great, but people want to laugh. She takes the cake.
Amazing interview. Love jlo!
Luv
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This is the first time I hear that Marc wasn’t happy. I thought it was just her.
Omg make them stop talk. We want to hear JLo speak!
Love you Jennifer Lopez ❤
So obvious for years JLo looks to be very uncomfortable and genuinely very sad. I feel bc her parents divorced when she was a lot younger that can def carry on to adulthood and can never cope with that uncertainty. She simply doesn't know how to unite with a partner and never will. She's got a lot of insecurities when it comes to love, and it shows in photos and vids. And not to mention, the people who surround her aren't any help - all they want is to make $$$$ off of her.
Good way to sell a book!
j. Lo is beautiful woman see look great on here age