Make Friends Easily - Be More Social and Friendly | Subliminal Theta Binaural Beats Meditation
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If you find yourself preoccupied with how to make new friends, then listen to this session. This meditation has hidden positive affirmations that will help you feel more confident, excited to connect with others and become a friendlier person.
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The theta Binaural Beats contain 2 base frequencies (both have 4 Hz theta waves):
639 Hz Solfeggio frequencies: related to connection with other people and building relationships
140.25 Hz: related to social integration; associated with the orbit of pluto.
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Some of the affirmations of this meditation:
I connect easily with others
Making new friends is a fun experience
I am allowing myself to open up to people
I am making people feel comfortable around me
I am a good listener and people feel comfortable sharing their feelings with me
My social skills are improving each and every day
It is easy for me to hold a conversation effortlessly
I am letting go of the need to impress others
It is easy for me to be myself when socializing with others
It is safe for me to feel comfortable around other people
Interactions with others are intriguing me
I enjoy interacting with friends and new people
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I came back from a party crying because everyone has friends to hang out with and I’m there and I’m in the corner doing nothing I hope this works.... I’ll do anything to stop being awkward I want a good life, I want someone who I can read books with someone who I can watch vines with someone who I can say how I feel to someone who makes me happy someone like a friend please say the universe will do something for me I’m never giving up
I literally think the SAME way. I want someone to read books with and go out to eat with and watch shows with. But stay positive hopefully this video helps you just as much as I hope it will help me!
May this work for you and for me as well. 💛🌸
Don’t worry, about a thing. Cuz every little thing, is gonna be all right:)
hey I been there, learn to relax more , and try meditation. good luck
We all can be friends
This is where I have come to - fellow introvert😖
hahahha we stay strong!
We people together can be friends.
L you are surely a good person
Im not sure about all of us being friends i cant trust anyone nomore
do you wanna be my friend?
@@unicornmagiccat4759 awww its okay i feel you..
Yes...
I felt alone until I read the comments to this video
If a person has 2 or 3 *true-blue* friends throughout their lives, why then they are very blessed indeed.
Blue?
@@chaarrllotte660 IT MEANS THE PERFECTEST FRIENDS😎
I do have two best friends but a trio group is not that wonderful one person is always left out so I am here.
🙏🍀💕
@@tah_uwu That's true, one person will always be left out in a trio
I hope that everyone here will meet new, life long friends.
A true friend will like you for who you are, will want to spend time with you, make you laugh and listen to you when things are tough.
Good luck!
Thank u!
Thank u 🙏💕
The world is far to selfish for that to happen if you don’t make friends when your young your on your own
There is an old saying misery needs company learn to enjoy your own company you will conquer life when you do I love and bless you all very much peace
All I wanna say to you is
If you're struggeling with social anxiety and want to fix out. Don't just aim for being ok at it, aim for being amazing at it! Don't go from an outcast to an average conversationalist, go no the road to be that kind of guy that does things, that nobody else has the guts to do, who can go up to strangers and have a good time, who can make a fool of himself and still be respected, who will be looked up by other people, because of his incredible magnetism.
Thats what I'm aiming for
Imagine how the world could look like if we would all be like that
cheers
Agreed but how do you do it?
Sounds nice but how
If we was all like that we would bang heads there is nothing wrong with being quiet and peaceful to been seen and not heard is the best way.
Love and forgiveness is all we need blessings
@@dhs.explorer Believe. Practice. Achieve.
I 100% agree with you. This is how the world is supposed to be. Humans are social creatures, and we all judge, but why should we? And why should we be afraid to be judged? We're all just trying to be happy
I hope that anybody reading this has and will continue to make really true friends. I call on the universe to make this true for me and for all of you :)!
🙏❤️Thank u
Does anyone here have 0 friends
Yup, me.
0 true friend
Suga's Rap Infires i didn't get uh
Is that possible guys? Do u mean real true friends...there are different types of friends. I have friends but we dont hang out often. We communicate a lot.
Bella Pop me
I just tend to make the wrong friends that's why I'm here
I don't really write comments but I NEED to share this experience. Generally i always sit in class alone or like talking to my one or two friends. But I don't know what happened today, I was so free... correct words automatically came out of my mouth which led to a good conversation. I texted for the first time in my group chat... though I had the feeling of being unwanted (if it was any other day, I'd start freaking out with my hands shaking and all) but today I didnot stop. I really want to make friends in college to experience a good college life (the ones that you hear about in stories). I was feeling so depressed and lonely (i desperately need friends) yesterday, but now I am in a much better place. Idk if anybody is gonna read this but I'm just putting it out there. If all of this is happening because of this video, then this is life-changing. Thank you so much.. I'm gonna be listening to this every night.
UPDATE- I really wanted to befriend this guy and he fucking talked to me..like we both watch anime and he knew that, and he started a conversation.
congrats, im happy for you🥰
This is wonderful! Keep it up!
i’ll be honest! i did not believe in subliminals at all.. and i’m still kind of skeptical. but i literally listened this for eh, 10 minutes ish at night. woke up the next day and found it a lot easier to interact and have conversations. i also listened to another subliminal for the same amount of minutes and it was about self confidence and today, i felt really good about myself. this is all coming from a person who actually used to laugh at subliminals because i thought they didn’t work. thank you so much for the small improvements i’ve been seeing. i’ll continue listening to see what other improvements i see and i will update you all.
could be placebo effect but idc. i’ll take it if it means me feeling this way about myself and my interactions every day :))
kekelovequeen its a placebo effect thing. If you’re telling yourself you’re gonna do good, you’re gonna do good. This video didn’t magically do something to you, you did it to yourself.
@@kekelovequeen do you still have the results?
Meeting new people is easy. Making friends is a different story.
im a stay at home mom and always at home and literally have no friends...it would just be nice to have someone to talk to
Cassandra Kiger add me on fb Julian Ricciardo (with the sunglasses on) and we can talk if you want
Read this as im drinking morning coffee. Im a stay at home Mom too! 💖
People always say having kids makes you have a fuller life. I had some foster children and felt lonelier. My life literally revolved around taking care of their needs. Anyone who thinks being a mom is easy should try it full time for at least a month; it can be very isolating.
@@stelladallasAlabama Being a parent is the hardest and most selfless thing you can do. You have to give up on many of your own dreams and relationships. I hope you find another parent to talk with and share your experiences with!
How is ur life now?
Heres a campfire traveler, stay here as long as you like.
After meditating to this for about 13 minutes, I started to cry - literally, with tears!
Why? What you felt?
😘
I'm listening to this and I'm naturally more calm and enthusiastic when I'm talking and I talk more, hope the same affect Happens in school cause I don't have friends!
Ultra Remix how's it going ?
I wish your purpose of watching this video manifests itself. Good luck dear
did it work for u?
I'm not sure where you are today, but I sincerely hope this has worked well for you.
kasumiblue hey thanks guys, yes I’m here and listening to this again. But I did make a lot of friends that year. Actually met really good people. But I’m back to square 1. I still talk to two of them, but I developed feelings for on of them, and the other one developed feelings for me (which isn’t mutual). So I basically don’t have any real friends in my surroundings now except for long distance ones I made Atleast 4 years ago. I came back here because I was thinking this morning about how many friends I had when I was younger and it was ALOT, I was really popular and confident. So I’m trying to manifest that. Good luck to you guys on your journey as well.
You know your lonely when your listening to this 😔
Shrek 5 is the I haven’t killed myself yeap
I am not lonely, i am alone and i love it!
OR JJST TOXIC FRIENDS AND ASSOCIATES IN YOUR EXPERIENCES THAT YOU WANT TO EXPERIENCE WITH THEM NO MORE
. . . .
I just want to have ease when people mock or saying me mr/man or ms/woman after they saw me almost everytime, it's a completely disaster to a nonbinary asperger student😭
Many people constantly do that even when I'm taking exams😭😭, my exams are approaching.... 😭😭😭
I used to get bullied a lot in school, to the point where everyday I was always called names, mocked, insulted, and people would destroy my stuff on purpose and confront me in the middle of class just to embarrass me. I felt bad and a little hopeless because I was new there, and it felt like I didn't have anybody but now I'm recovering.
If social skills were graded even mcdonald’s wouldn’t hire me.
Relatable
Beautiful
@Ni**** F*g why is your username that- 🥴
If you're seeing this and you are like some of the many people in the comments who say they have no friends, I'm always open to be friends if you want! I hope this subliminal will hope you achieve your goals in life and become the person you want to be. I wish you the best of luck, you can do it! I believe in you. :)
kasumiblue if you want you can add me on Snapchat (soso.0310) or follow me on Instagram (@sarahtorabi__) it would be nice to make some new friends and btw I live in Sweden 😁
Thank u ❤️
I’m 47 and have no friends I have a boyfriend that turns out to not s good friend. I pray I can find one loyal female friend to be able to share happy moments with or just to feel wanted once in my lifetime
I'm in my 30's and I'm down to my last friend from my 20's ...and that friendship is one-sided and toxic. She's passive-agressive and would passively accuse me of copying her when she would copy all of my life choices. She's very competitive when I'm the "stay in my lane" kind of girl. I feel so petty as I type this. I would really desire life long, healthy friendships, who are positive-always on your side, encourage you, honest/straightforward, and can give me the freedom to be myself without any competition.
I want friends on high, positive energy levels... I think I've earned that right from doing so much work from my 20's to now. Of course, I'll keep working on myself and growing but I'm not the same girl I was when we first got to be friends...
10 seconds listening and my friend just sent me a message
Same
I have a pretty big group of friends but they aren’t REAL friends ya know? In my opinion I think it’s better to have few real friends rather than have a lot of friends that could easily be pretending. I almost feel more alone this way. I hope this works and good luck
What makes you think they aren't real friends?
elizabeth xx talking behind my back
Sprouse Hart results?
Same
🍀🙏
I'm even an extrovert and still have trouble meeting "true" friends. It's gotten better as I work on more lessons spiritually but I wanting to break through more barriers in this area!
I am a friend magnet and my friends love and support me!
It workss!! Met a lot of new friends today!
In high school (even before that) i swear I had like 5 close friends at least and many others that just liked talking to me. I was very active with my facial expressions and body language, so much so that my family thought i had some kind of disorder or mentally challenged. I didn't change tho, not until we moved and lost all my friends. That's when i did a 180° and became monotone, boring and uninterested... my social capabilities slipped away and so did my personality. I want that back. I truly don't care about the negative opinions of envious people. I wanna be happy and not lonely anymore.
Thank you so much for this subliminal, I noticed I made big progress. I listen to it while I sleep. Before, I was awkward to take part in discussions but now it became very natural, so I attract more social interactions. It feels really good going to high school feeling confident and not as anxious as before. :-)
Cc Panda how long did this take for you to see the effects??
@@trippysunset678 Sorry for the late answer, I had no notifications. I listened to it for about 1 month (^_^)
Cc Panda its all good! Thank you :p
@@ccpanda4807 do you still have the results?
@@videoproduction1692 It's been a while since I listened to that but yes, I still have the results :)
I hope this works. I don’t want to be left alone at a party table anymore. I just want someone to talk to me and have a conversation. And don’t feel like I am there just so I can be there
I'm a transfer student, so I don't know anyone in my school. Its just hard for me to have to watch everyone have a great time at lunch with each other while I wait for it to be done. I just want a good friend group, that would make school so much easier
A life full of adventure and meeting people
I have always had problems making friends and talking to ppl I can always seem to sense rejection so I dont even try.....ppl always say I look like I dont wanna be bothered but that is just the intense anxiety and uncomfortable feeling I get being around others....I wish I wasnt this way....this is a very hard life for me I cry all the time
I can relate so much. I don't talk much because I feel socially awkward and every time when I tried to get out of my comfort zone and go between people I regreted it.(I really don't feel safe to be talkative with new people and then they are to me like: "Why don't you talk? Why are you so quiet? Tell us something about you.") Always happens something what made me feel ashamed when I speak. And I have this even online too. When I say something gramatically wrong or if I spell something incorrectly, people made of it big thing and point finger at it so it even more make me to be just quiet. + Like in your case, they think that when I am quiet I am arrogant, but thats really not true.
Thank you so much Vortex Success for your inspiring messages; they are really helping to change my life for the better. I listen to them everyday.I feel and act more confident now. I realized that I am already great just the way I am, I just needed to see it. God bless you & thanks again
deontay jenkins Thank you so much! I appreciate it.
I am always confident but now I fell more confident than I was before thank you for posting this video! :))
Vortex Success thanks for making this
thank you vortex!i know we talked about this last year.i will make a donation soon.these video sublms help me each step of the way.and i will talk to you more.thank you so much again!so easy to listen to these while i am doing some work on internet!
Thank You and thanks to all of my friends!
This actually works
go out and talk to people! thats how I make friends and it works for ke and dont care what others think of you. be confident in yourself!
MichelleVa 77 easier said than done
I know right wayyy easier said than done
Some people are very shy... this subliminal will help them👍🏻🤗
MichelleVa 77 not to easy when you have social anxiety
Wow thanks I’m alright now wow magic pazaz :0
This vidio was a great experience. I love the music its so relaxing and the day after I listened to this I managed to make new friends!
OMFG life saver thanks for this btw 😩❤️
How about people here who are depressed and betrayed trying to start a new make friends here in this thread.. as we all are coming through same position..
I'm so glad to hear this.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is beautiful!
hey people ;]
I am convinced; this magic song will make you a badass friend chooser ;-] Then you have the confidence to walk to people and ask them if they fulfill what you desire in others, like a secret service super guy ;-}
lol :) can you share results with us?
When I want to talk to friends, they always look at me as a weird person, then ostracized, I also feel like I'm not being treated like what my friends do to my other friends.I feel something strange about myself.Since then I have become shy and quiet, afraid of being rejected.
And it's been a trauma for me until now.
When I want to try to find friends, I'm always afraid of being rejected.
I have been listening now for 36 days straight. I have a playlist of I believe 7 different videos like this, yet this one had helped me the most. I've never been a social person. I have anxiety and that tends to make me just do what I have to do and go home. Yet I've always wanted a life full of true and honest friendships. I want to help people. In order to do these things you have to be "people friendly" -- Perhaps it's mind over matter and I'm telling myself things are better just because I've been listening to this, but either way something has changed and I am very thankful. I will continue to listen to this every night. I went 4 days without listening to it (holiday weekend) and I felt the disconnect. Would you be willing to make your videos black screen videos? As I listen to them at night while falling asleep and CZcams doesn't allow for their program to run in the background. So I'm having to put my phone under my pillow to hide the light which in turn over heats my phone. Thanks so much.
Do you find yourself making new friendships?
Just download the video and play it on your mx player. Enable background play and it will play even when the screen is locked
***** CZcams red isn't compatible with many low end devices and not available in many countries including Nepal(thats where I'm from) so I suggested MX player
+Erin H no download video didnt work as the online one
quick question how many friends have you made so far because I only have 2 friends sorry if this question is too much
I never go out and I have no friends literally zero.....my ex friend didn’t want to be my friend anymore....then I moved schools....life is tough 😪good luck to everyone ❤️
Good luck to you too :) I hope things work out for you
Thank you you to
awww, hugs to you!
Aww hugs to you
You are not alone. Remember that. I'm have zero friends too
I've never been able to form relationships with people!!I'm nervous even around my own grown up Kids I'm hoping that this will help me recover As I'm very Depressed and I'm doing a lot of other videos to recover literally all day every day !!I've not long been doing this Subliminal but I cry so much doing it !!Hope I'm recovered soon !!Thank you for this and for free too !!
I will make trust worthy friends.
I suffer health problems so I'm always at home n literally have no friends.
aw im sorry. i hope u feel better and make some friends :/
Can I be your friends to I feel that no one likes me 😢😢 like when they talk to me they don't want to talk even my bff make me bad they also leave me out sometimes and that's makes me so depressed 😭😭😭😖😖😖
Kimberly Ziegler i understand how you feel too. im going through that too where people dont seem to want to hang out and i feel rejected and alone. can we be friends too?
noemistephanie93 can we make an online Instagram or kik group or some sort of chat cause I'm going through the same and at school I'm always ignored and not talked to and when I come home I talk with only one of my cousins and he's not online most of the day and I went to a different country and an old friend from my country too and most of the time he's in school so basically I don't talk with anyone more than my parents! So can u guys tell me what social medias u have, thank u! And hope this vid works :)
I have kik and Instagram!!
Re opening Facebook to connect to positive events and art groups
I'm fearful of talking to people So I've just started this Subliminal and I know it's going to take me the 3 months as my problems are huge !!
A best friend would be really nice 🤩
Thank you so much ❤️🙏
I attract the perfect people at the right time...the universe connects me with my lifetime soul brothers and sisters....I love my creator for nurturing me and guiding me
🙏🍀
Ahhh! The sounds that start around 1:40 remind me of the soundtrack from Tokyo Mew Mew 🥰 that was my favorite show, it literally saved me in middle school!!! The main character literally radiates the energy I think we all want to embody here 🤗
I love the music! I have a hard time trusting people so perhaps this will help to open me up a bit. I'm involved in other types of spiritual practices so this coupled with those should help...
MsPcizzy how's it going ?
I had my family and one maybe two friends and then after listening to this the next day I had 25 best friends it really works although there is one part you need to focus more than others
Can you elaborate how you magically gained 25 best friends a day?
@@maranofan ikrrr
Weird Guy lolll
Weird Guy Don’t be so desperate :-) it’s just click bait. Of course I couldn’t gain 25 best friends instantly. Don’t be silly :-)
@@maranofan 😂
I'll be 31 years old soon and I literally have no social life whatsoever. Been alone my entire life...
I do love being alone and only be there for people. I'm in love with philosophy and mystery of life in general.
But sometimes, it does hurt to be just alone all the time.
Some friends, even online at first, would still be great.
Same, but being friends with people and loving the mystery of life is somehow giving me anxiety.
TY for your video. Great, uplifting goal - to be more confident : ) PS: Wonderful scenery
A great way to get the biggest impact with subliminals: Listen upon rising, and right before bed...
Yesterday I met an old friend I wasn't expecting to see him in the college and it was funny because he has full driving license but he has no car and me I have learner license and I have car but I can only drive if someone has full license beside me. It was really good to meet him we can both drive to college now and relax
Love the music.
Honestly I’m here because I’m going into college in a few months time and I want to have a fresh start have more TRUE friends because currently I feel stuck as I’m twisted in a fake friendship that I rely on all the time without it I’ll be so lonely but also kinda feel and wish to escape I hope there’s a better future ahead :)
Do you have one for friends? I personally do not have friends - like literally...I don't go out that's how bad it is..and it is really affecting me..I wanted to know if you have any videos that can make have friends that I like to be around and have a normal relationship and enjoy my life.. (feel lie I am missing on so many things)
this one is for making friends!!!
I can be your friend
does someone want to be my friend 😢😢😣😣😣😟😟😟😳😵😵😵😵😖😖😖
Sure :)
Kimberly Ziegler lets be friends kimberlyy
I am alone in a foreign country...my husbands business failed, we separated, still talk....but I feel for the others posting here...as sometimes in my life I have had great friends...KEEP listening to these positive thinking tapes, I also like Social Anxiety, 3 hours by Vortex....they do work, but you need to keep going...just only 1 or 2 and keep playing all the time....You can make friends all your life...friends are easier than romantic love or money for me...give and help and share and people do this back....say kind words...these ideas work better on some people, so notice who responds to you....! All my best to others here.
She does have some for love and money too. I don't know how well they work yet but that's something that came to mind for me, reading what you wrote, it might be worth a try, unless you are already listening to those too? Or if you want to focus on this and social anxiety first and then when you feel the changes are more permanent you could listen to some love and money ones by Vortex Success. I don't know which to recommend cos there are a few, I guess whatever resonates best with you?
thankyou!
I feel so lonely. I got no friend in my uni
I am social.i have much self doubt
I will make friends easily
I hope this meditation help, and everyone here will be happy...🌸 ayyy yes I'm asperger with ADHD and also an introvert.... All my childhood, i Always usually been the reject one, making friends it's hard for people like us, and I'm not interested to the same things like a NT people..... Now I'm almost 20 and lonely af :/ the real question is, "How to make friends when you're an """"adult"""" now?"
I have been lonely ever since I moved. I hope to meet some new friends soon.
Help me a bit with my shyness and feelings of awkwardness and to feel safe to open up and receive and give to people who are good for me and I them
I’ve had a lot of toxic/abusive people in life and that lowered my self esteem to where I am too shy to befriend nice people, then I feel unlovable/unlikable so I am trying this for 30 days. I am keeping a diary on my phone so I will update at the end of the 30 days
omfg same
How did it go
@@Matt-hz6fv it worked i made some new friends and found a new partner
@@lauraspicer1892 Just with this music or did you do more stuff(also congrats)
@@Matt-hz6fv thanks, I only did this one
Well I hope my bff and I can work out on our relationship but that’s only if the universe wants to because it hurts a lot knowing that someone that was so special to you could turn on you. I hope I can find more friends and hang out with them and I hope that they will be loyal and it doesn’t matter what we go through there still there for me
And overall I just pray that every here is blessed with new and beautiful friendships
Same 🍀🙏💕
I don't really understand why, I got sooo depressed listening to this subliminal. I actually do have many friends and I can relatively easily make new contacts, usually people like me... but on the inside I feel lonely and hardly connected at all to any of these people. I struggle with building truly meaningful connections, often I have the same friend for years, yet I don't feel much closer to them than in the beginning, and this is making me sad. I often also don't really believe that my friends truly like me even though they choose to spend time with me and do activities together, why would they do this if they didn't like me? In my head I know that they like me, yet I don't truly feel it in my heart. It's like there's a barrier. I think it's still a relict from being bullied in school... I really wish to be able to break through it and feel the connection to my friends more deeply. Because I am truly lucky, I've met so many people with amazing personnalities and good hearts in my life... I don't want to feel isolated anymore.
I feel the same way about my family members btw, it's not like we have a bad relation but I simply cannot feel a strong "heart to heart" connection no matter how much I look for it... why is that?
@@sarahfara1539 I have experienced the same. It’s due to a blocked heart chakra. Learn to love yourself more than you could have ever imagined, and loving others and letting them love you is easy. Do some research on how to open the heart, there are many methods
I'm okay when it's one-on-one with someone, but in groups it's a whole different story. Being on the Asperger's spectrum/naturally introverted doesn't help. I'm comfortable being alone, but I would like to have more chances to hang out with friends. It's like you want it, but when you get it you've had enough of them and want to be alone! It's so frustrating.
I ❤️ you all even if I don’t know you !
from my childhood I have been a socially awkward person. Ever in my life I had any boyfriends. even though I wished to have one I was always nervous and uncomfortable with boys. I don't know why I m feeling like that, I m a really skinny one so I have a feeling that I m ugly and I knew that looks are not necessarily for liking a person but I m still awkward and I try to avoid eye contact with other people. I want to escape from this and I really hope that this subliminal would help me.
purple pearl , here is the big secret: make people feel good about themselves.
Let people talk about themselves.
Here is a technique. 1. Make an observation. Example. The coffee smells wonderful.
2. State an opinion. Example. I love coffee in the morning. It makes me happy.
3. Ask a question. Example. What makes you happy in the morning?
Then let them talk, and talk and talk.
Do not be waiting for your turn to talk. Do not be thinking about something to say. Do not try one upping them with an example from your life. Trust me, they'd rather talk about themselves.
Just keep asking, and why do you love that?
Then relate it to their childhood.
Example. And when did you know as a child that XYZ made you happy in the morning? Let them talk. When they smile, you smile and nod. When they smile or laugh, reach out and touch their arm. Or hand. One second, then remove your hand. Do NOT look at your hand when you touch them, look them in the eyes.
One guy took the index finger of his right hand, swung his arm out in an arc and touched my upper left arm briefly when he introduced himself. He touched me when he said "it is a pleasure to meet you", he touched me on the word pleasure. So I waited a second, smiled then said, "aren't you nice to say so" and on the word NICE I touched him with my right index finger in exactly the same way. He had the biggest grin on his face because I had mirrored his action. People are attracted to you when you mirror them.
You are a beautiful soul don’t call your self ugly
EruditeObserver you’re amazing. Really sometimes us socially awkward people need is someone to tell us HOW to be with people and social norms. Thank you
So well said! Thank you!
I have health problems and nobody cares. Real life isn't like the movies, where real friends come to you and help you.... Sad... I want good friends 🥺
My friends are very good when iam success and rich..but they leave me alone when iam down
CPTSD brings me here
I'm thinking, being social has more benefits than having friends. When I'm at a drive thru or buying things in-store... that's when I use up all my social battery. I don't know how to put my words correctly to be understood and trip on my words... many 'umm, aaa' in between or just uncomfortably long pauses.
The only way I can escape that, is to rehears it extremely AND HOPE not to be interrupted; In a fast and monotone way. It's a struggle y'all
Hello UNIVERSE , my life so wonderful and beautiful , thankyou to blees me...i ask you now Universe , really Happy if you give me a new Friends , whose real like fammily friends , so excited right? 😊🥰 Thankyou GOD.
can this also help you find out things to say and when im in class and have to work in a group i dont have the confidence to say something will this help that too
tibnvc y you h
I want real friends not fake friends
all of my past friends have been fake and my current 'best friend' is rlly annoying and not funny and just not for me so i rlly hope this works lol
I guess that’s why you buried ur friend
I have friends but always the second choice. So I want to have friends who choose me first for once. I want to be someone’s favorite person.
I make friends easily.
I really need this, I really want friends and to be social but I am super introvert and have ASD so I can’t express emoitions and just look emoitionless
Sumayya if you want you can add me on Snapchat (soso.0310) or follow me on Instagram (@sarahtorabi__) it would be nice to make some new friends and btw I live in Sweden 😁
I think I’m an introvert so here I am
I have never seen 2 pretty best friends-
Who is very shy and has no friends
Does this really make you more social? And if so, for how long (and for how long i mean how many days, weeks or months) should i hear it ?
thats what i wanna know
Looks like glacier national park =)
Im late but I need this Im moving schools and the only person I have is my cousin to hang out with but i dont wanna bother her hope it works for me and yall :")
I did make friends but rn there’s only like one specific friend who I would do everything w but we’re going through problems so
What happens if I listen it on 2x speed
My parents signed me in for another school. I don't wanna go because i know i'm going to be all awkward and lonely. I didn't have friends for the longest time on my life but i made some friends this year.. It's honestly so sad that i have to leave them again. My parents and i are going to check out the school later. I'm honestly really scared because i keep thinking about how lonely and alone i will be. I really hope i can get some friends kdldzpmdjzjgooc.
If you are here then I was here too
Last year I got accepted in Music college, I was so happy but.....
Music college is not suitable for me I think, that is not my place. Every time after concert all of my friends took a picture together, they have a friend to give them a flower after concert, while me I'm looks like a stupid people after concert, there's no one give me flower or even no one congratulate me. I'm the only one who have no photos after concert because nobody asked me to take a picture together. And I always run to bathroom to hiding after concert. It's happened so often because my university always held a lot of concert, and everytime we practice, I have no friends to talk with. So now I think I'm depression because everynight I always cry and I have a lot of worries who will want to talk with me today or tomorrow. I always feels lonely in crowded place. I hope my parents didn't know all of my social struggle. I think they might be crying if they know I became like this.
*sorry for my bad grammar
Update
Thank you so much. After listening to this once, when I went to a bar, it seemed (as I am shy) I could talk to the bartender quite easily! Should I keep listening to this to furter enhance my Social Skills??
Yes you should! Do you still feel outgoing?
+lexi22is No not so much, but I did it just a couple of times and that was long ago. I should begin listening again I guess..
+lexi22is No not so much, but I did it just a couple of times and that was long ago. I should begin listening again I guess...
+Shaneiii4 _ I don't remember exactly, but maybe I listened once for (almost) an hour and I thought it had effect during the time at the bar, couple of hours.
+Shaneiii4 _ I used headphones and I don't know if you should actively listen or not. I think the person who uploaded this knows best, let me know too :)
Im here so im not socialy awkward with her
I want to be friend with her
The rest destiny will take the lead
I hope this works
So how was it
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