Caring for Aging Parents as a Black Midlifer I The Melanated Midlife Podcast I Episode 6

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  • čas přidán 26. 05. 2024
  • Host: Dr. Akilah Willery
    Guest: Chaundy Satterwhite
    Chaundy’s story is all too common as many other midlifers find themselves entering their sandwich era, where they are essentially “sandwiched” in between caregiving for their aging parents and still raising their own children. This episode will make you think about all the things you don’t know you need to know when it comes to caring for mama or daddy, when they can no longer take care of themselves.
    Website: www.gengapliving.com/
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Komentáře • 23

  • @nkhen_c357
    @nkhen_c357 Před 29 dny +21

    Being a caregiver is not easy as a child. You must become a parent and still respect your parent and deal with new personality. You can get burnout

    • @melanatedmidlife
      @melanatedmidlife  Před 28 dny +2

      It is such a unique and delicate dichotomy. You are so on point.

    • @aleshapalmer186
      @aleshapalmer186 Před 12 dny

      I’m at the burnout stage now. A nurse comes to the house but she does is check blood pressure, blood oxygen.

  • @promayes8186
    @promayes8186 Před 20 dny +7

    I'm glad this sister is doing this service because it's needed. I was a health advocate and care giver to my parents until their deaths but had I not been employed in the healthcare field I'm sure I would have needed this type of help. This is a great show of substance. Love the show

  • @bernie4952
    @bernie4952 Před 9 dny +1

    Great episode! Thank you for this conversation and information.

    • @melanatedmidlife
      @melanatedmidlife  Před 8 dny +1

      Thanks for checking it out! Hope the information is helpful.

  • @chees24
    @chees24 Před 17 dny +5

    An algorithm must be real. Because I literally got my mother out of rehab from a fall just yesterday. I've never looked on CZcams for anything about this, but this happened to just pop-up in my feed and to God be the glory for this popping up. I needed to see this and I SO appreciate the content. I just subscribed.

    • @ishaonpurpose
      @ishaonpurpose Před 17 dny +1

      You know they’re listening! I’m packing up my mother’s apartment right now and this showed up in my feed.

    • @melanatedmidlife
      @melanatedmidlife  Před 16 dny +2

      Yep the algorithm is doing it thing! Hope the message reached you in time.

  • @charleneball9090
    @charleneball9090 Před 21 dnem +6

    What she's doing so much needed ‼️ Wow, this is my testimony I'm currently living this Life. 😢 I definitely will check out website.

  • @patriciapylant2107
    @patriciapylant2107 Před 13 dny

    Thank you, thank you!

  • @Kay-zc7bs
    @Kay-zc7bs Před 23 dny +4

    My God, I needed to hear this conversation because the majority of us don’t think that far. Thank you so much for sharing.

    • @melanatedmidlife
      @melanatedmidlife  Před 23 dny +1

      Thanks for letting us know it was helpful. We need to have more of these conversations about mom and dad.

  • @ishaonpurpose
    @ishaonpurpose Před 17 dny +1

    Thank you so much for this. I just moved back to my home state after 28 years to move my mom in with me. The new adventure begins in three days and I’m so nervous about what the balancing act will look like when it comes to giving her a good life and maintaining my professional responsibilities.

    • @melanatedmidlife
      @melanatedmidlife  Před 16 dny +1

      Hoping the transition is a smooth one for both of you. Sending you a virtual hug.🤗

  • @user-xx7ug3cw3o
    @user-xx7ug3cw3o Před měsícem +4

    So very proud of all you have done and continue to do. Keep blessing us all!!!❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏

  • @KathleenPMartin
    @KathleenPMartin Před 21 dnem +3

    It’s great to see this episode and I am preparing myself and definitely helping my parents. Thank U

  • @RoaAdams-gd9ct
    @RoaAdams-gd9ct Před 18 dny +2

    Depending on the state of residency you may want to consider a Trust versus a Will. In Georgia, a Will filed with their County Probate Court is fine as long as all assets are in Georgia. In Texas, if you have all assets in Texas or other states, then you need to have a Trust, Power of Attorney, and Advance Health Care Directive.

  • @anandaleeke
    @anandaleeke Před 13 dny

    Thanks for this podcast episode.