What the hell were you doing down there?

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  • čas přidán 7. 09. 2024
  • What the hell were you doing down there? #caregiver #alzheimerscaregiver #imBetty #alzheimerscare #ENDALZ #hospice #hospicecare #alzheimersawareness #dementia #alzheimers

Komentáře • 46

  • @janetlongislandsticher
    @janetlongislandsticher Před 5 měsíci +23

    I feel so sad every time she says she want to go home. 😢

    • @sandraosborn171
      @sandraosborn171 Před 5 měsíci +3

      Guess it's so sad but she can feel something we cannot see yet

    • @MOM-cx6mm
      @MOM-cx6mm Před 5 měsíci +4

      Made me tear up😢

  • @elfena5438
    @elfena5438 Před 5 měsíci +8

    As a kid, when I was away from home during school break. It was the first time I felt homesick. She seems homesick and wants to go home. It wasn’t the parents that I missed. It was home, it was my safe place.

  • @patpat4317
    @patpat4317 Před 5 měsíci +27

    I read somewhere that people with Alzheimer's like familiarity and as Betty is sometimes asking to go home do you have any of her furniture from her previous home? I thought maybe you could convert a room in the house to look like her old living room and then when she wants to go home she could be wheeled in there and pretend she's home. She could then come out thinking she's visiting Josh's house and then go back 'home' again when she wants to. Just my thoughts ❤

    • @PM-gx2bp
      @PM-gx2bp Před 5 měsíci +8

      She is probably at a stage she doesn’t remember her old home either.

    • @user-mc8di2ch9d
      @user-mc8di2ch9d Před 2 měsíci +1

      Don't lie to her...ever.

    • @PM-gx2bp
      @PM-gx2bp Před 2 měsíci +3

      @@user-mc8di2ch9d It’s not that simple. Sometimes it is better to tell a small white lie than tell the truth and get a person really upset. If someone with Alzheimer’s was asking for their parent it’s probably not wise to tell to their face that the parent is dead even if that is true. I’m not saying to tell that the parent is alive but explain gently that the parent is safe and in a good place.

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor Před měsícem +1

      See their mind will go back 40 years so it'll be the living room 40 YEARS AGO.

    • @poetross
      @poetross Před 22 dny +1

      I've heard several saying they just want to go home a few months before they pass. Heaven = Home ❤

  • @elainereynolds7701
    @elainereynolds7701 Před 5 měsíci +6

    My Mother wanted to go Home, to Her Mother's... That would break my Heart. I have Love for you in my heart Betty when I see your tears.

  • @lastnbrown
    @lastnbrown Před 5 měsíci +4

    Bless her heart. Ask her if she would like to go for a ride? I bet she loves driving.😇

  • @donnataylor980
    @donnataylor980 Před 5 měsíci +4

    😢 she's so sweet and cute that made me cry😢 home is were the heart is❤❤❤ maybe she can look at some old pictures😊

  • @michaelhungate7506
    @michaelhungate7506 Před 5 měsíci +6

    Yeah,WHAT THE HELL JOSH!!!😊😊😊Betty's humor comes through. 😂

  • @GirlsBestFriend777
    @GirlsBestFriend777 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Bless all of you. Betty you seem such a lovely lady. Makes me just want to give you a big hug.

  • @ClandestineGirl16X
    @ClandestineGirl16X Před 5 měsíci +4

    I'm so sorry she's going through this.

  • @ritaatchison5327
    @ritaatchison5327 Před 5 měsíci +5

    So sad but seems she has people around her that take good care of her.

  • @sonjabryant2567
    @sonjabryant2567 Před 5 měsíci +4

    It does make you sad when you her Betty cry’s and says she wants to go home

  • @judgejenny2251
    @judgejenny2251 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Love you Betty!❤❤❤

  • @DeniseOoten
    @DeniseOoten Před 5 měsíci +7

    Sweet,Sweet Betty ❤

  • @JinnaPsurny-tz6ru
    @JinnaPsurny-tz6ru Před 5 měsíci +4

    Betty sweetie,, you look so tired!!!: Let her go home ❤❤

  • @novasoto5092
    @novasoto5092 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Made me tear up when Betty said she just wants to go home.😢 Sending Big Hugs to Betty❤😊❤ Nova from New Mexico😊

  • @stimpyfranklin8052
    @stimpyfranklin8052 Před 5 měsíci +6

    I love you, Betty ❤.

  • @RF1972.
    @RF1972. Před 5 měsíci +5

    You are so precious ❤

  • @Godsoldier777
    @Godsoldier777 Před 5 měsíci +2

    So precious.

  • @mcgarveyamy
    @mcgarveyamy Před 5 měsíci +5

    She is so cute!!!!

  • @BaMaBo-tz8pk
    @BaMaBo-tz8pk Před dnem

    😪😪🥺🥺🙏, now she is "at home" and have peace 🌈.

  • @reneesantiago6496
    @reneesantiago6496 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I agree with Betty! A grown man strolling around Disney World?????😂😂😂😂 Very odd indeed

    • @judgejenny2251
      @judgejenny2251 Před 5 měsíci +2

      Who said he was alone?

    • @elfena5438
      @elfena5438 Před 5 měsíci +2

      I don’t see anything wrong with grown adults going to Walt Disney.

    • @user-mc8di2ch9d
      @user-mc8di2ch9d Před 2 měsíci

      Where is her daughter in law?

    • @TW-te1ir
      @TW-te1ir Před 21 dnem

      He needed a break and that made him happy. Don’t judge him, he’s a wonderful, loving son

  • @jannetterosario8902
    @jannetterosario8902 Před 5 měsíci +2

    I Love Mom💖🙏✨️✨️✨️

  • @knightbreed70
    @knightbreed70 Před 5 měsíci +1

    👍❤️

  • @donkim8018
    @donkim8018 Před 5 měsíci +5

    Going to controversial Disney World is nothing to be proud of!

  • @RF1972.
    @RF1972. Před 5 měsíci +4

    Does Betty miss her home she use to live in😢?

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor Před měsícem +2

      She's been living with him for 10 years. The home in her mind is likely from when she was like 30.

  • @lauraanderson7492
    @lauraanderson7492 Před 5 měsíci +2

    Does she know your dad’s name? What does she think she needs to do at “home”? That my give you an insight to why she says that.

  • @solangekeller5887
    @solangekeller5887 Před 5 měsíci +1

    Does she realize that you’re gone when you’re on holidays??

  • @ruthanndavis2453
    @ruthanndavis2453 Před 5 měsíci

    WTH Lol 😂

  • @ljohnson669
    @ljohnson669 Před 4 měsíci

    Does Miss Betty and her husband live with her son Josh?

    • @JinnaPsurny-tz6ru
      @JinnaPsurny-tz6ru Před 2 měsíci +1

      Yes they do live with Josh.

    • @OffGridInvestor
      @OffGridInvestor Před měsícem

      They have for 10 years. But alzheimers patients often think they're 28 or 32 or something. So home to her is probably sometime 50 years ago or more.

  • @bettybelongia7213
    @bettybelongia7213 Před 5 měsíci

    ❤❤😢