DID SHE EMBEZZLE HER HUSBAND'S BUSINESS? || Justice Court EP 184

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  • @user-qk3xo7km8g
    @user-qk3xo7km8g Před 3 měsíci +38

    If a woman could bodly say a marriage is not toxic while the man insisted... She has already finished the man💯

    • @Theuncleposh
      @Theuncleposh Před 3 měsíci +1

      You are a very wise person. Means that one person is so used to toxicity that they think it’s normal. That man is exhausted

    • @anasipaul314
      @anasipaul314 Před 3 měsíci

      She has finished the man

    • @a.p4066
      @a.p4066 Před 3 měsíci

      She has absolutely no awareness of how toxic the relationship was and that’s the key sign that she is toxic

    • @jacoik9580
      @jacoik9580 Před 3 měsíci

      😂😆 lolxxxxx hahahaha abi

    • @emekaobi2727
      @emekaobi2727 Před 3 měsíci +3

      She is saying it is not toxic because she is getting everything she needs

  • @basilokunkwa6128
    @basilokunkwa6128 Před 3 měsíci +19

    She was in charge of the man’s business and the her family took advantage of that. Nobody is talking about how she built a house for her family.

  • @diranadeniran
    @diranadeniran Před 3 měsíci +80

    They were eating from the capital unknowingly. Business needs time to grow and less profit at start.
    The same way he came back and rush marriage, the same way he's expecting business turn over

  • @suleimanaliyu4353
    @suleimanaliyu4353 Před 3 měsíci +55

    This lady is not sounding irresponsible...
    She sound like a good wife

    • @Joel_yuifx
      @Joel_yuifx Před 3 měsíci

      You are truly miserable

    • @chukwukadibiaokonkwo3973
      @chukwukadibiaokonkwo3973 Před 3 měsíci

      And she was building from where ?

    • @YouthImpactAfricanVoices
      @YouthImpactAfricanVoices Před 3 měsíci +1

      She's my cousin, you are right!

    • @rachealedmund4625
      @rachealedmund4625 Před 3 měsíci

      @@chukwukadibiaokonkwo3973building what?? Do you know her personally? Una go just open mouth waaa start to talk…. Once it concerns women body go dey pepper una

  • @dorcasobodoukwu7495
    @dorcasobodoukwu7495 Před 3 měsíci +22

    I know the man is angry but from my observation, the woman was living a lavished lifestyle when the business was booming and did not bother about its falling. She is the type that has the mentality that whatever it is, my husband must find a way to take care of me. If not, she would had raised alarm when the business was going down. I am also suspecting her family members. They were not helping matters with demands too

    • @nwaogungozi4670
      @nwaogungozi4670 Před 3 měsíci

      The both of them were doing that

    • @Goddess_Nkem
      @Goddess_Nkem Před 2 měsíci

      Business was not even booming… yet there was so much money to do many things… 3 years? Plus house renovation in the village? Thats a lot of money… the man himself slack. He is not good with money management.

  • @rowlandmbah7260
    @rowlandmbah7260 Před 3 měsíci +34

    That's what you get when you jump into a business without passing through apprenticeship

    • @akpewevivian1812
      @akpewevivian1812 Před 3 měsíci +5

      You want to grow business overnight. It doesn't work that way

    • @ellisofosu4805
      @ellisofosu4805 Před 2 měsíci

      Plenty went through it n still failed

  • @kennyoris4952
    @kennyoris4952 Před 3 měsíci +67

    This problem is the situation in the country, you will think that someone is behind your predicament, this lady has know fault at all, you should have set apart some money for the personal used,and not touch business money at all, please take back your wife,the way she spoke she definitely knows what she wants, please don't destroy this family,it shall pass in Jesus name.

  • @ukokaluuko4649
    @ukokaluuko4649 Před 3 měsíci +50

    The man feels robbed and is frustrated by the failure of his first business and is now scapegoating his wife. 80% of all new businesses fail even in good economies, it might be higher in Nigeria where there are no stats. I wish he would get over his hurt and reclaim his family since there are no accusations of serious issues such as domestic violence, infidelity, etc. Throwing away his family at this point would be a double tragedy.

    • @uzoruchenna4863
      @uzoruchenna4863 Před 3 měsíci +4

      The man doesn't know about business education. I don't think he is business educated that's why he is channeling all the blame on the woman

    • @uzoruchenna4863
      @uzoruchenna4863 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Honestly. He has a good wife. it's just lack of business sense which led to the failure of the business that is frustrating the man. And he is now channeling the blames on the woman

    • @YouthImpactAfricanVoices
      @YouthImpactAfricanVoices Před 3 měsíci +2

      You got that correct✅.

    • @wayneandrews4667
      @wayneandrews4667 Před 3 měsíci

      She ain't good she had nothing an took from him an he has nothing

    • @wafaricharles4238
      @wafaricharles4238 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Where did she get the money to build a house when business wasn’t going well

  • @maputufitness9593
    @maputufitness9593 Před 3 měsíci +22

    The woman seems very humble. Its unfortunate the husband became her boss and she didn't managed the business well as expected. Theyll have s beautiful marriage if the business hasnt been in between them.

  • @NukelimerCodes
    @NukelimerCodes Před 3 měsíci +108

    I like this man's oratory skill.

    • @ukokaluuko4649
      @ukokaluuko4649 Před 3 měsíci +11

      Many orators make a shipwreck of their lives, unless their livelihood depends on those rhetorical skills. I think it’s because they talk a good game and substitute that for action.

    • @MichaelOdinakachukwu
      @MichaelOdinakachukwu Před 3 měsíci +13

      Both the man and the woman are good with words.

    • @milescapital4167
      @milescapital4167 Před 3 měsíci +6

      It was as if he was reading a News at 9pm. What a skill.

    • @HILLARYMICHAELBISHOP
      @HILLARYMICHAELBISHOP Před 3 měsíci +2

      He's a public Speaker

  • @Cheque17
    @Cheque17 Před 3 měsíci +21

    I think the man is not in love again, but seems the lady still wants the marriage. There’s something likeable and mature about these two. It’s unfortunate the marriage has gone bad. I think the man blaming the woman for the business failure is not fair. Nigeria probably happened to them.
    Very articulate and fluent couple.

    • @gigiFLOWER2023
      @gigiFLOWER2023 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Immediate he saw the business not going as he wished, he should have returned back to Dubai... Unless their is more to the story, He could have had another family... Or investments that didn't profit well also.

  • @latestviralnewstv
    @latestviralnewstv Před měsícem +1

    Never put any of your relationships close to a new business, because they would think stealing from you is normal.
    I took my family off from my building construction when i quickly discovered the habit of unseriousness and high demand of products money. So i finally gave it to someone i can shout on if he's not doing what i want and now i spent less that what i was spending before. I hope they can still reconcile and rebuild their mistakes.

  • @jidemoh4211
    @jidemoh4211 Před 3 měsíci +12

    I totally understand what went wrong. The man is the first Igbo man I know who doesn't know how to do business. How can you be making expenses directly from sales? You're eating the chicken laying the eggs already.

    • @sharonicyblue7142
      @sharonicyblue7142 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Honestly. Imagine taking out money from total sales, without knowing how much profit you made from that total sales

    • @stellaayodeji2501
      @stellaayodeji2501 Před 3 měsíci

      The best reasonable intelligent comments on this issue.

    • @stellaayodeji2501
      @stellaayodeji2501 Před 3 měsíci

      The best and reasonable intelligent comment on this issue

    • @kidscomedy6481
      @kidscomedy6481 Před měsícem

      Accounting was poor. You eat from your profit and not from total sales. Investment must not be used.

  • @olusholaolaleye4300
    @olusholaolaleye4300 Před 3 měsíci +61

    Culturally, we have a way of blaming our misfortunes on women. It was obvious the business wasn't viable and its collapse was imminent. I empathize with the lady.

    • @Mariamsadventure
      @Mariamsadventure Před 3 měsíci +6

      It was not obvious, she misused the money

    • @ikennachukwuka2113
      @ikennachukwuka2113 Před 3 měsíci +12

      No that is not the problem here, her family is more in the marriage and she is the type want to do everything for her family they control her, that is why a day for them to go back they ask the lady to come so the husband can come over and, she don't have her own opinion in her home her family chose what she will do. Brother no marry from a family that your mother in law will be the one telling your wife what to do. I want to tell you that the woman build the house

    • @evelinek.4493
      @evelinek.4493 Před 3 měsíci +8

      ​​@@Mariamsadventure Both of you proved the commentators point. Both of them are to blame as the business is both of their responsibility. Not just the lady (besides the lady was even the one that gave an accurate business analysis of the problems their business was facing)

    • @evelinek.4493
      @evelinek.4493 Před 3 měsíci

      ​​@@ikennachukwuka2113Both of you proved the commentators point. Both of them are to blame as the business is both of their responsibility. Not just the lady (besides the lady was even the one that gave an accurate business analysis of the problems their business was facing)

    • @adaugo
      @adaugo Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@Mariamsadventurerest already Mariam..Not every business will make profit

  • @olumuyiwarosemary9809
    @olumuyiwarosemary9809 Před 3 měsíci +17

    This man is putting unnecessary blame on the wife.
    Business takes time to grow. Never automatic. The.method of running the business and fund is poor.
    Oga left madam to be doing his business, who does that.
    As a new business he ought to take it to a level before leaving the wife to mamage it after teaching her the business route.
    I wandered where he goes after dropping the wife in the shop in the morning.
    Oga take responsibility. Your wife did not squander your money..
    Stay and grow ur business. Let madam go and find her own job as she suggested. This will enable u know how the business is doing.
    Don't trade blame.
    With the attitude i perceive from your narrative, even if u marry another person i doubt if u will take the business higher
    Go learn from others. Instead of branching in beer palour, go look for who will mentor u on business growth and success.
    To break even in business is hard work.
    I pray u both reconcile your difference s and forge ahead.
    Put God in your home and business and u will smile.
    I come.in peace

  • @ritchpoint
    @ritchpoint Před 3 měsíci +17

    The man supposed to be auditing his BUSINESS quarterly to know if a large sum is been taken out, but was careless..

  • @Ibro.kitchen
    @Ibro.kitchen Před 3 měsíci +28

    The main issue here is money-, money has finished and d man is unhappy... the fact is that it's not the marriage the man is unhappy about, it's d fact that money has finished. May God bless every man with unending financial resources to keep being man enough. Amen.

  • @judeodoemena7409
    @judeodoemena7409 Před 3 měsíci +40

    Lack of business knowledge from both parties is reason for what's going on.
    May they reconcile. Both are nice persons from my observation.

    • @nwamakapeace4813
      @nwamakapeace4813 Před 3 měsíci

      Nothing like lack of bizness knowledge... She z not a good person simple

    • @nwoluoluchi109
      @nwoluoluchi109 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@nwamakapeace4813Ypu must be related to the man. Tell him he lacks knowledge 9f boz n what sent him back from Duboa is stil after him...

    • @jamesrodgersmndala855
      @jamesrodgersmndala855 Před 3 měsíci

      What do you know about business you .
      This is marriage be careful

  • @sumayyajunaidu1085
    @sumayyajunaidu1085 Před 2 měsíci +3

    I don't like joined business with anyone even family

  • @HILLARYMICHAELBISHOP
    @HILLARYMICHAELBISHOP Před 3 měsíci +4

    They are good Couple.
    I never heard of infidelity or Domestic Violence in their words.
    I think their Marriage is Reconcilable.

  • @e.u7778
    @e.u7778 Před 3 měsíci +16

    WAS HE NOT CHECKING HIS BUSINESS ACCOUNT LEGDER...HOW CAN U OPEN A BUSINESS, LOOK THE OTHER WAY AND LATER BLAME YOUR WIFE FOR RUNNING THE BUSINESS DOWN? THE ONLY BUSINESS SUSTAINING YOUR FAMILY....I'M SORRY, BUT THIS YOUNG MAN IS NOT A SERIOUS HUMAN BEING...A YOUNG LADY THAT JUST FINISHED HER YOUTH SERVICE...U SHLD BE GUIDING HER, NOT HEAPING RESPONSIBILITIES ON HER WITHOUT ANY ADEQUATE TRAINNING OR EXPERIENCE....

  • @King_phabulous
    @King_phabulous Před 3 měsíci +50

    Country hard sha... I blame inflation. Anyone buying and selling in this country now needs a lot of grace. 😢

  • @prisciliaclassique766
    @prisciliaclassique766 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Toxic women or toxic pple are very manipulative only the one inside feel the pain pple outside cannot see it

  • @onyemaikeh5287
    @onyemaikeh5287 Před 3 měsíci +32

    This brother is tired, and I perfectly understand why he’s so tired.

    • @yvettewilliams5967
      @yvettewilliams5967 Před 3 měsíci

      He is tired from servicing many ladies instead of being a responsible father. He is tired alright😄

    • @a.p4066
      @a.p4066 Před 3 měsíci

      You got the gist

  • @AncientHebrewNeverDied
    @AncientHebrewNeverDied Před 3 měsíci +48

    The lady is amazing! He should have provided a separate account for living expenses and set a monthly salary for his wife. He didn't monitor the expenses against the profit!

    • @bimpeoduyemi197
      @bimpeoduyemi197 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Exactly. And he now expects to get the money spent back as profit. Man does not know that what you put into your wife is what you get in return.

    • @bashirolayinka3863
      @bashirolayinka3863 Před 3 měsíci

      Onishorire

    • @AncientHebrewNeverDied
      @AncientHebrewNeverDied Před 3 měsíci

      @@bashirolayinka3863 You are too late but pls receive your wishes for me seventy-fold! 😎

  • @ebukastephen1595
    @ebukastephen1595 Před 3 měsíci +46

    The woman might not be a bad person but the truth is she sends her parent and siblings money from the business

    • @Mariamsadventure
      @Mariamsadventure Před 3 měsíci +2

      Is that west she should be doing??

    • @aallthingsbeautiful
      @aallthingsbeautiful Před 3 měsíci +2

      100 percent... She definitely does... the man on the other hand is not stable to grow the business he is more eager for the proceeds/gains and less concerned about putting in the effort, learn the ropes, go through the process to make sure the business succeeds.

    • @adejugbemike6366
      @adejugbemike6366 Před 3 měsíci

      Very correct 💯

    • @joeadeleke
      @joeadeleke Před 3 měsíci +5

      Where's the proof? Even the husband is just insinuating and his claim is out of frustration... He cannot give any instance of she sending the money, so why do you believe him?
      And the 15m is probably the capital of the business too...
      Lastly, Lack of money and setbacks would lead to depression, no joy, drinking etc. He just transferred all these to his wife

    • @ukokaluuko4649
      @ukokaluuko4649 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I don’t know why you’re so sure, maybe you know them personally. The husband probably has unrealistic expectations regarding the business and was frustrated when it fell short. Also it appears he was a bit too hands off.

  • @mekwunyesunday1226
    @mekwunyesunday1226 Před 3 měsíci +8

    I have said this before now, from siblings to parents to wife and in-laws, do business with them on your peril. I learn in a had way after making some mistakes. I rather do give away with my money than doing business with close relatives.

  • @pklamourcreations4642
    @pklamourcreations4642 Před 3 měsíci +13

    This case is a sad one. The man established a business and gave instructions for both the capital and profit to be chewed like chewing gum then expects the book keeper (his wife)to manufacture the money again after it had been chopped! Onyeze dubai don hustle sotey, e don tire. He can never accept that he was irresponsible financially. Also, how do you ask a NYSC girl to manage a business of millions for you solely? New business you havent monitored or run yourself. The matter get as e be. Anyway, the girl still loves him very much. I see the way she looks at him. God will restore the marriage. But it looks like onyeze dubai don go meet fake prophets wey tell am say the woman na hin problem. With this his behaviour, let him marry 700 wives like solo, na thesame outcome.

    • @jessiekeya
      @jessiekeya Před 3 měsíci +3

      God bless you. Only someone with wisdom can understand what’s going on here. Those people shouting she wants free money I don’t understand. The girl is young with little experience not to talk of experience running a multimillion business. The man was careless. Marrying a wife does not mean she would just work magic to make life perfect for you when, he was putting minimal effort to manage his business

    • @Mariamsadventure
      @Mariamsadventure Před 3 měsíci +1

      So instead of holding the woman accountable for indirectly stealing, you’re placing full blame on the man? Okay

    • @AncientHebrewNeverDied
      @AncientHebrewNeverDied Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@MariamsadventureWhere did you see any evidence of stealing in this video? 😮

    • @ladytee5509
      @ladytee5509 Před 3 měsíci +2

      Absolutely👌...d man needs to be accountable, rather than looking for who to blame for his bad decisions...he needs to look inwards!

    • @evelinek.4493
      @evelinek.4493 Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@AncientHebrewNeverDied clearly that commentators has an issue with women 🤣. I've just been seeing them post negative comments. I bet you, they didn't even watch and comprehend the facts of the case

  • @agomchidimmaevangeline4585
    @agomchidimmaevangeline4585 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I can’t imagine bringing up my family issues to a public space like this . Omo 🌝. Una no get family members

    • @successwahua4088
      @successwahua4088 Před 16 dny

      There re some cases that the family members don't even know who to believe and what to do

  • @emmanuelutomi1347
    @emmanuelutomi1347 Před 3 měsíci +59

    The man speaks so well...and the lady is still interested in the marriage.I pray they settle amicably

    • @biodunayinde9711
      @biodunayinde9711 Před 3 měsíci +5

      she is interested in the free money you mean?

    • @aaa-pp
      @aaa-pp Před 3 měsíci +5

      She speaks well also.

    • @aaa-pp
      @aaa-pp Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@biodunayinde9711What free money, so let him prove the business was making money.

    • @jessiekeya
      @jessiekeya Před 3 měsíci +21

      @@biodunayinde9711what do you mean by free money? Who is supposed to take care of her and her children if not the man

    • @blessed-lf8xz
      @blessed-lf8xz Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@biodunayinde9711😢😢😢😢😢

  • @motunrayoajayi6328
    @motunrayoajayi6328 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Business is very hard to do if you don’t understand it

  • @jerrywonda9002
    @jerrywonda9002 Před 3 měsíci +10

    My own observation:
    I think this man is venting his frustration on his wife...

  • @evelinek.4493
    @evelinek.4493 Před 3 měsíci +20

    As a product of parents like this (similar toxic personality) instead of pointing fingers, it's ok to take personal accountability first, instead of finding fault with the other party. Only then can both come together, admit their own mistakes aka (showing maturity). And find a way together as a couple on how to move forward. And please be careful of how you speak about each other (there is power in the tongue) 🙏🏾
    I had to learn all this myself. Parents please don't forget your children they are the ones suffering the most. I was one of them (currently 23)

    • @Ibro.kitchen
      @Ibro.kitchen Před 3 měsíci +4

      Sorry, I'm also one from a toxic marriage... And I've grown up not being able to have a steady relationship with anyone of the opposite sex...still struggling to find healing from my childhood experiences...and still unmarried at 43.

    • @anthonymark5758
      @anthonymark5758 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I can relate.
      May the Lord be with u.

    • @realkemiadeyemo
      @realkemiadeyemo Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@Ibro.kitchenTry to see a therapist. May God heal you

    • @Ibro.kitchen
      @Ibro.kitchen Před 3 měsíci

      @@realkemiadeyemo Amen. Thank you

  • @SosoJandy
    @SosoJandy Před 3 měsíci +27

    As someone who managed shops for my late mum, i know exactly what the wife did.
    It’s never regarded as stealing 😂but it is. During daily sales we do something called partial remittance. So then when you make sales 150k in a day, you only write 120k as daily sales and have to do right it in a book, it’s might not be much but because it’s a daily act it will later emerge into something big.
    The mistake she made was to renovate her father’s house with those personal savings from the business instead of giving her husband since they were in a bad financial state. She should have used it for something that would benefit the family.

    • @ifeanyioparah8340
      @ifeanyioparah8340 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Hmm so it's definitely true she stole money

    • @user-nw4cg3xh4n
      @user-nw4cg3xh4n Před 3 měsíci +1

      Taking any money that is not yours is stealing... There should be proper accountability whether it is sole proprietorship or joint business

    • @UcheSokoto
      @UcheSokoto Před 3 měsíci

      you can make a good wife, I'm here in Holland i need a good woman that can help me so that we can grow together

    • @debbieembale3443
      @debbieembale3443 Před 2 měsíci

      Sometimes we don't listen, she mentioned that before collects money she tells him and she records whatever she collects. They do all their expenses from the business, when she complained to him he said will they stave. She even suggested to work but he complained that she doesn't want to help him grow his business. He's just frustrated that things didn't go as he planned. She also mentioned that the profit coming from the business is small.

  • @nnekaokonkoh4112
    @nnekaokonkoh4112 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Why is no one talking about how he claimed she beat her maid and the house she built?

    • @Thewolfofsynthethics
      @Thewolfofsynthethics Před 3 měsíci

      Like I noticed the same thing too .ran down the family business for her own selfish interests

    • @lodunsi
      @lodunsi Před 17 dny

      she said she did not build any house. Did you hear that

  • @lasisirauf7340
    @lasisirauf7340 Před 3 měsíci +20

    Gather here when you know that any time judge Funmi remove her glasses she is about to be sincere 💯with people in front of her

  • @truecleaningqueen
    @truecleaningqueen Před 3 měsíci +15

    When running a business with your significant other, it is important that you have each person's role clearly stated out. Doing business with ones spouse can be a very good thing if well done but if not well done, it can ruin the most beautiful relationship.

  • @adejugbemike6366
    @adejugbemike6366 Před 3 měsíci +13

    What i see is that this mam got married too early without getting fully on his feet...

    • @ariyoayodele718
      @ariyoayodele718 Před 3 měsíci

      What do you mean by too early, didn't you see the white hair already

    • @ellmarich
      @ellmarich Před 3 měsíci +3

      @@ariyoayodele718early marriage isn’t about age, but maturity

    • @adejugbemike6366
      @adejugbemike6366 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@ellmarich God bless you brother for this beautiful explanation. My definition of early isn't age related but stability financially.

  • @christianndubuisi8433
    @christianndubuisi8433 Před 3 měsíci +11

    Mr man don't transfer the anger of your collapsed business to your wife. It's clear you don't know about business very well, because your supposed to know that you don't leave your business like that until it's well established and flourishing. You didn't marry her under duress. Nigeria is not Dubai, so you must adjust to Nigeria system of managing life, and not ending up in beer parlour. Because even if you marry another woman but God forbid, the same thing will still happen. So as the man of the house, you control your business and your family. Your wife is only there to help, not to control.

  • @Microbes1
    @Microbes1 Před 3 měsíci +7

    This man is just feeling frustrated because of his business failure. The wife is the easiest person to blame for the failure.
    This couple is a strong workforce with a perfect counseling and business orientation....
    God help them

    • @HILLARYMICHAELBISHOP
      @HILLARYMICHAELBISHOP Před 3 měsíci

      Exactly

    • @ellisofosu4805
      @ellisofosu4805 Před 2 měsíci

      Who was managing the business
      Don't worry, ur own will come soon I hope u get the heart to contain it

  • @sholabirn5197
    @sholabirn5197 Před 3 měsíci +9

    Is the Economy of the country that is causing the breakup. God help us !!

    • @gigiFLOWER2023
      @gigiFLOWER2023 Před 3 měsíci +1

      And the Europeans come there and have no problem, because they just sit back and allow them.. I don't understand, with as many Africans compared to them reading in Africa, how can this be allowed? Very sad.

  • @anosikeeunice610
    @anosikeeunice610 Před 3 měsíci +3

    The man thought the woman could manage the business well and feed the family from it. It's so sad

  • @olawuyisegun1234
    @olawuyisegun1234 Před měsícem +1

    You are doing well ma'am, continue your good work, may God rewards you

  • @segunhudu260
    @segunhudu260 Před 3 měsíci +45

    Honestly, the family doesn't need to break up. The wife still loves her husband, so the man should soften his heart and accept his wife back ; reconciliation and new strategies are what the family needs. Trust me, finding a beautiful, intelligent and hardworking woman, in modern time, is like a cow passing through the eyes of a needle!!! Man, GO BACK Home!!! The street are not smiling oooo !!! 😔😔😔!

    • @user-ff5fj2pt6y
      @user-ff5fj2pt6y Před 3 měsíci

      This is funny even if your woman cheat go back too her. That man mental health is paramount simp

    • @akandeabiodun4566
      @akandeabiodun4566 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Go back where?

    • @lionmichealtv5289
      @lionmichealtv5289 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Until he kpai you go understand.
      See white hair all over the mans head.

    • @samuelchukwuma1480
      @samuelchukwuma1480 Před 3 měsíci +1

      i will never support that

    • @emekaukaigwe5668
      @emekaukaigwe5668 Před 3 měsíci

      That woman is purely narcissistic and very toxic, energy don't lie, and it's has affected the man's fortune, she will want to stay because shes benefiting from the mans energy as hes going down she will be progressing unknowingly to the man..these are deep things only the selective few understands..

  • @AkorChristopher-zq5iy
    @AkorChristopher-zq5iy Před 3 měsíci +52

    I love this program and the judge with her transparency.
    Keep up the good work.

    • @segunhudu260
      @segunhudu260 Před 3 měsíci +1

      I love her more than you!!! 😂😂😂

    • @AkorChristopher-zq5iy
      @AkorChristopher-zq5iy Před 3 měsíci +2

      You're funny, even you I love you but the reason why I referred to her was how she'd feel so comfortable advising couples to solve their problem amicably.

    • @AkorChristopher-zq5iy
      @AkorChristopher-zq5iy Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@segunhudu260 I love you too.

    • @Glorious2480
      @Glorious2480 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Love is in the air. 😂😂😂.

    • @miracleanibe1441
      @miracleanibe1441 Před 3 měsíci

      😅😅😅​@@Glorious2480

  • @oyizacomedy2949
    @oyizacomedy2949 Před 3 měsíci +5

    I have date someone like this woman, they will always say the relationship is perfect and we understand ourselves but am not happy with the relationship

    • @kimmie2679
      @kimmie2679 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Maybe you are unhappy with yourself. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @suppaprosolutions6639
      @suppaprosolutions6639 Před 3 měsíci

      She is very smart
      The man can't win her

  • @sumumachiosisiego7077
    @sumumachiosisiego7077 Před 14 dny

    She's definitely very greedy.

  • @OluOgbobine
    @OluOgbobine Před 3 měsíci +4

    What trainings did he give to her making her the sales, accountant, etc. He should go jor. All these exerting type of husband. He didn’t build his business with structure.

  • @bidemifolakedada8457
    @bidemifolakedada8457 Před 3 měsíci +22

    Marriage is something else 😳 that is why it is good to ask God before you get married

    • @biodunayinde9711
      @biodunayinde9711 Před 3 měsíci +5

      which of the god do you ask. Pastors wey dem marriage crash no ask god or wetin you dey yarn. There is nothing about god for marriage. Na logic. If you no understand am, pray and fast for 100 years, it will fail

    • @user-qq1sx8yx8b
      @user-qq1sx8yx8b Před 3 měsíci +4

      ​@@biodunayinde9711you took the response out of my mouth. Everything they call God even the one you can do yourself.

    • @seteoluisikilulanrelanre2359
      @seteoluisikilulanrelanre2359 Před 3 měsíci +1

      My bro, Igbo say marriage is like a wrapped gift, you open it before knowing that is inside.
      Yorùbá say marriage is like something you bought in the dark, you won't know what it looks like until day break.

    • @Mariamsadventure
      @Mariamsadventure Před 3 měsíci

      The my asked ogun Abi???

    • @Mariamsadventure
      @Mariamsadventure Před 3 měsíci

      @@biodunayinde9711logic that you lack Abi??? Smh.

  • @adedoyino.honour2454
    @adedoyino.honour2454 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I am just learning how to handle my life more better

  • @shayomicheal2131
    @shayomicheal2131 Před 12 dny

    Where did she see money to build house for her parent?

  • @ogbonnasam9997
    @ogbonnasam9997 Před 3 měsíci +9

    She said the marriage was never toxic but she has threatened to leave the house 7 times in 3 years, this woman also brutalized her house girl and everyone is acting like they didn’t hear that part? She ran his business down but is claiming otherwise 🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @juilsjuils674
      @juilsjuils674 Před 3 měsíci

      Brutalize? The husband will say anything to make her look bad. The worst people to take as help are families cause no matter what you do,they expect you to do more. Some hope you will send them money even while training their kids and when you don't,fight.
      I have a first hand experience with this.
      Finally,why will his mother be the one to decide they don't need a help in the house?

  • @agnesgimina
    @agnesgimina Před 3 měsíci +10

    The both of you did know each other before saying yes to each other

  • @user-nh9xg7sk2x
    @user-nh9xg7sk2x Před 3 měsíci +10

    She's not the problem. He wants to japa and does not want wife and children responsibility abroad.

  • @christopheronah
    @christopheronah Před 3 měsíci +4

    They were mismanaging the business capital, I think where the man got it all feeded up was the peace he no longer enjoyed at home and the property he said he saw in the village

  • @emmanuelchijioke8750
    @emmanuelchijioke8750 Před 3 měsíci +3

    The man and the lady don't really have any problem, just understanding is missing because of the situation in Nigeria, someone who cam3 back from abroad with high moral to set up a business and bad government policies frustrated him and he thinks it's his wife causes the problem, NO . Just take your wife back rebuild your home . Millions of people are going through that . Buhari messed up with Nigeria business environment, and Tinubu is now doing the worst. Many guys abroad are afraid to bring down their business in Nigeria because you gonna lose 📉 your money 💰 in a short period of time.

  • @shayshayman3369
    @shayshayman3369 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Finances and marriage go like five and six!

  • @mariscat5243
    @mariscat5243 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Happy weekend everyone please always be patient to each other because you guys have children together and you guys try to love each other again I know that love is not enough but be patient

  • @oyatoyepeter7838
    @oyatoyepeter7838 Před 3 měsíci +2

    If he came back with nothing ?
    How the business start ?
    How the marriage start?
    Where the money come from ?

  • @obatarheblessing376
    @obatarheblessing376 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Thanks my Lord... Wisdom always on point

  • @emmanueladekunlemalves8774
    @emmanueladekunlemalves8774 Před 3 měsíci +3

    As simple as this case look it's a difficult one

  • @TheAfricanGist
    @TheAfricanGist Před 3 měsíci +10

    As someone who worked for one of the top FMCG brands in Nigeria & Internationally, the years from 2016 to 2020 were absolutely not the years to invest as a Distributor expecially as a newcomer. Likelihood of failure is 97%. The Judge was wrong to blame her for that business failure.

    • @joeadeleke
      @joeadeleke Před 3 měsíci +10

      She did not totally blame her, Judge just told her was she was meant to have done, which she clarified she did.
      Life has been hard on the guy and he carried the frustration into the marriage

    • @okwunnandudi7085
      @okwunnandudi7085 Před 3 měsíci +3

      She did not blame her for business failure.
      She only blamed her for not doing her due diligence to prevent her husband from finishing his capital.
      If she had really kept her records well, especially the profit records, she would have proper evidence to prove her husband wrong and even save her marriage.

    • @Mariamsadventure
      @Mariamsadventure Před 3 měsíci

      What would have happened if she did not use the business money for personal use???

    • @evelinek.4493
      @evelinek.4493 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@Mariamsadventurepersonal use as in for the family Which her husband authorized her to use ? Did you even watch the case

    • @adaugo
      @adaugo Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@evelinek.4493don't mind her, she is everywhere in the comment ranting

  • @liveevent3646
    @liveevent3646 Před 3 měsíci +6

    When investing in a business, even after a year you might not get up to 10% profit.. its better you have a different money for spending and leave the business money alone because definitely you'll eat the business profit and the capital you used in starting it

  • @djiemmatv954
    @djiemmatv954 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Na so our uncle wife build 6 rooms bungalow for her papa house with the husband business. Business collapsed! Man used lands for loan, still he won't see capital nor gain after business. It's common with Abia State women.......
    For her grandma, dad and mom to support her, she did it!

  • @oedeko3020
    @oedeko3020 Před 2 měsíci +1

    If you are married, and your wife builds a house for her parents without your knowledge, what would you do?
    Unfortunately, many mothers coerce their daughters into buying expensive cars for them , or building them a house. I can not image what my reaction would be, if I worked alone, and my wife builds a house for her parents.

  • @henryopiah3194
    @henryopiah3194 Před 3 měsíci +19

    The man should accept the business risks and failings. U better take back your wife.

    • @adejugbemike6366
      @adejugbemike6366 Před 3 měsíci

      Don't speak like this bro. I don't know if you are married but if you are not, you will understand that anything that negotiates your peace of mind, by nature you will react

    • @abishagmusa8230
      @abishagmusa8230 Před 3 měsíci +4

      ​@@adejugbemike6366His lack of peace is from the frustration of his failed business.

    • @davidleandro7026
      @davidleandro7026 Před 3 měsíci

      @@abishagmusa8230why would she build house with someone else money for her parents

    • @jamesrodgersmndala855
      @jamesrodgersmndala855 Před 3 měsíci

      Aman is speaking out of Experience

  • @user-pf2no3hq2u
    @user-pf2no3hq2u Před 3 měsíci +4

    I was about to put blame on the wife, but when i listen carefully to her statements i have to put the blame on bad economy , government policy, all this things now affect their marriage, because the business money is being over used in paying bills, i pray God change his mind to accept her wife back

  • @osas3857
    @osas3857 Před 3 měsíci +5

    I learnt alot from this episode about business

  • @tifnicole-youractiontaking4492

    Awe heck I've never seen this show have a to be continued. Where is part 2?

  • @michaelugwu6495
    @michaelugwu6495 Před 3 měsíci +2

    When running a business you have to separate your business expenses from your other expenses. Then pay yourself and other workers a salary from which they solve their other problems. Then every month and every 3 months you should audit your accounts to see if you are making profits or losses.

  • @andrewik5203
    @andrewik5203 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I feel for this man

  • @augustinepatrick8535
    @augustinepatrick8535 Před 2 měsíci +1

    She run down d business nothing she wan tell me

  • @chinonsoajibo3967
    @chinonsoajibo3967 Před 3 měsíci +1

    They really need counseling at this moment,it had happened it has happened,its not easy running a business in this country,they should try and resolve everything because of the children ,no marriage is perfect,it is well.

  • @ericata7350
    @ericata7350 Před 3 měsíci +72

    From a business mindset this woman did a good job by being accountable. If you are not fit to do business and accept loss don't do the business. I only see misunderstanding here. None of them is evil 👺

    • @Ibro.kitchen
      @Ibro.kitchen Před 3 měsíci +12

      You're very right...the main issue here is money-, money has finished and d man is unhappy... the fact is that it's not the marriage the man is unhappy about, it's d fact that money has finished. May God bless every man with unending financial resources to keep being man enough. Amen.

    • @Mariamsadventure
      @Mariamsadventure Před 3 měsíci +5

      @@Ibro.kitchenthe main issue is her wasting business money

    • @Ibro.kitchen
      @Ibro.kitchen Před 3 měsíci +8

      @@Mariamsadventure of course, but the man was giving her a go ahead to spend the money (infact the man was the one endorsing the spending...he once told her "are we going to starve"... and in the court the man was laughing when the woman pointed that out... The only mistake the woman made was she didn't use her discretion and put the spending on check. Now that money has finished, the man blames her.

    • @wisdomugo5094
      @wisdomugo5094 Před 3 měsíci +5

      Bro if you are not abroad and open business for someone in Nigeria to manage no just talk. I'm talking out of experience. Wife, family members this is who they are, only few will do the business well. My own is over 13m naira businesses and same excuse of no profit but if I say make I sale the property they will not agree. Pray to get a virtuous woman if not you will understand.

    • @nmaunusual
      @nmaunusual Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@wisdomugo5094did you have someone supervising the business thuo?

  • @aliceumo1109
    @aliceumo1109 Před 3 měsíci +1

    At this point I believe they should go their separate ways. It won’t work anymore

  • @Envaild204
    @Envaild204 Před 3 měsíci +14

    😢😢😢 judge funmi teaching entrepreneurship😊😊😊😊😊... Learned a lot

  • @chukwudebeluchidimmacynthi2789
    @chukwudebeluchidimmacynthi2789 Před 3 měsíci +1

    The man na really English teacher 😢😮 and the woman really loves him. I pray they come back together

  • @josiahenunwa841
    @josiahenunwa841 Před 3 měsíci

    The man is really in pain,it’s always good to get a woman who actually wants your success not the type who’s after your money

  • @johnm.3415
    @johnm.3415 Před 3 měsíci +22

    I like this lady . She seems to be saying the truth . Besides she looks very humble & responsible.❤️

  • @chicadimples1878
    @chicadimples1878 Před 3 měsíci

    The woman is suppose to be your sales girl, your accountant, your wife and the mother of your children!!!
    See how easy it was to blame her...women dey suffer oh. Madam go and look for job. God will help you train your girls.

  • @sumumachiosisiego7077
    @sumumachiosisiego7077 Před 14 dny

    This girl erikpoo na ego this man.❤

  • @amunidara7732
    @amunidara7732 Před 3 měsíci +2

    First time I'll be seeing an Igbo man that is not taking responsibility for his children

  • @gigiFLOWER2023
    @gigiFLOWER2023 Před 3 měsíci

    Theirs always more to the story... Anyway... Valuable lessons shown here.

  • @peterahiaba9195
    @peterahiaba9195 Před 12 dny

    If the man was not doing any other business, that was bringing income, how come he could not monitor the business. Its not like he travelled. He was the one taking them to the shop and bringing them back home. Why will he blame her for the fail business. It is also largely his fault. They were eating the capital together. They both have fault in the fail of the business. It was even a new business at that. There was no proper planning.

  • @ayidujonah5372
    @ayidujonah5372 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Abeg d woman no get problem at all

  • @oladokunola4257
    @oladokunola4257 Před 3 měsíci +1

    The man was the one who opened a room for the woman to misappropriate the funds, there was no close monitoring and record of how he's taking from the money and the woman took advantage of it.

  • @electromecstore1367
    @electromecstore1367 Před 3 měsíci +2

    The woman explained it well. But you dont open our business for a lady first. Open her business for her and if she can handles it well, you can bring her to our business. Must ladies sees every money as profit.

  • @kevinekperechi6520
    @kevinekperechi6520 Před 12 dny

    The woman was more or less like a secretary and the husband the boss. The woman was doing her work perfectly. Taking money and recording everything down. Lack of business idea and mismanagement from the man side crippled the business

  • @osasokunbor1121
    @osasokunbor1121 Před 3 měsíci +4

    I just feel for this man they say behind every successful man there's a good woman behind it emmm

    • @biodunayinde9711
      @biodunayinde9711 Před 3 měsíci +5

      Behind every successful man, there is no woman. Na that man dey behind himself

    • @Mariamsadventure
      @Mariamsadventure Před 3 měsíci

      @@biodunayinde9711if it’s not their mother, it’s their wives….

    • @chizobaajiere4674
      @chizobaajiere4674 Před 3 měsíci +9

      From the whole thing he has no idea about being successful. Every dime was for eating. No plan at all. Then the next is put pour all Frustration on the wife because he failed.

  • @adaoraobi2460
    @adaoraobi2460 Před 3 měsíci +18

    This man is well detailed...when someone is telling you an event which happened with date/year backing it up..the person is a historian

    • @biodunayinde9711
      @biodunayinde9711 Před 3 měsíci +7

      he made very big error allowing his wife have access to business money. She go chop the money and nothing go happen. I run a business with my wife but na only me dey in charge of money. The reason is very simple

    • @jessiekeya
      @jessiekeya Před 3 měsíci +3

      @@biodunayinde9711not everyone can many money well. It’s not about the woman being wicked or anything but when two people who cannot manage finances marry, it’s always a disaster. Hence the importance of courting before marriage. You study your partner, find strength in them in areas you are weak

    • @AncientHebrewNeverDied
      @AncientHebrewNeverDied Před 3 měsíci +3

      Liars, too, can be well-rehearsed.

  • @cathyeshiet5589
    @cathyeshiet5589 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Building with for your parents without your partner's awareness is bad. Her parents are not helping

    • @ThandiweMukandatsama
      @ThandiweMukandatsama Před 3 měsíci

      She didn’t.she It is her grandfathers house, even her father doesn’t own a house

  • @sumumachiosisiego7077
    @sumumachiosisiego7077 Před 14 dny

    Pathological liar...

  • @Childofmercy-xs2he
    @Childofmercy-xs2he Před 3 měsíci +2

    Let this people settle down and rebuild their love again

  • @okeyhenryichet3248
    @okeyhenryichet3248 Před 3 měsíci +3

    This is exactly what I went through. It was a big mistake for me to marry a pathological liar, a perfect master of pretense. They're not in it for the marriage; they are after the money. They planned it from the beginning of the marriage to ruin your life. Bringing Okija shrine into this case is just a slick way to fault the man. They keep records of everything for a day like this in court. I am a perfect example but thank God my backups are intact.

    • @michaelonyebuchi7532
      @michaelonyebuchi7532 Před 3 měsíci

      "I literally believe you. There's more to what the man is saying. Any woman who tells you our marriage is not toxic and the man is complaining, my brother, run!"

  • @dannydct1
    @dannydct1 Před 3 měsíci +7

    You see Marriage is more than a pretty face. My man said he is tired and i can see and believe him. Only he knows what he is passing through

    • @DexterElliott-xe8cb
      @DexterElliott-xe8cb Před 3 měsíci +1

      I understand he needs be alone for his mental health b4 him loose am. This lady is a regular hustler

  • @gracebassey7198
    @gracebassey7198 Před 3 měsíci +13

    A man that plays the victim, and finds a way to tag his problems on people. Don't let the big grammer fool you.

  • @viceroyvivian3272
    @viceroyvivian3272 Před 3 měsíci

    I have being running s business for my husband for years and i have friends doing same. I xan run down the business without my husband knowing because i am in control, he has other business he is managing. Stop blaming the man, he trust his wife just like my husband did me but she decided to be nwunye odogwu at home; i dont feed all my family request, i select the most important and solve because if the business collapse, it willl go again me and my children

  • @princessethel968
    @princessethel968 Před 3 měsíci +1

    The man speaks very well

    • @gigiFLOWER2023
      @gigiFLOWER2023 Před 3 měsíci

      It's true, I can tell he was being honest... I hope we can learn the end result... He needed someone from Dubai, who maybe thought like he thought, to build the business very well... No matter how long a business is going, if they placed Jesus in front and prayers, while playing soft music the business will never Crash. I believe in the ambiance of it all..

  • @ambroseambrose641
    @ambroseambrose641 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Who notice the beauty of judge fummi

  • @user-hs6rn1wp6z
    @user-hs6rn1wp6z Před 3 měsíci

    They should reconcile and get their act together.