Why are UK authorities ignoring honour killings?

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  • čas přidán 8. 12. 2013
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    There are 8 to 10 thousand forced marriages in the UK every year. As authorities are accused of taking 'honour' crimes too lightly, girls who resist or refuse a marriage can face abuse, torture, even death.
    "We have kidnappings, abductions, sexual offences. Anything that you can imagine could happen does happen in the name of honour", Nazir Afzal, the Chief Prosecutor for Northwest England, tells us. Shafilia Ahmed simply wanted to be a lawyer and to make her own relationship choices. But her parents judged the 17-year-old's aspirations to be shameful to the family, so they killed her and made their other children watch the consequences of perceived dishonour. In the multi-cultural corners of the United Kingdom law enforcement authorities are struggling to address the problem. Police, in particular, have been accused of not taking honour crime seriously, ignoring clear warning signs and pleas for help. Detective Constable Palbinder Singh says part of the problem is being too culturally sensitive. "It's a ruse. We won't interfere with that family, it's their culture. Well hang on a minute, crimes are being committed, people's lives are being destroyed, people's freedoms are being suppressed."
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  • @KellyanneKashaS
    @KellyanneKashaS Před 5 lety +2526

    So refusing to marry & become a lawyer brings dishonor to your family but ordering rape & murder on your own daughter restores it WTF on what planet does that make any sort of sense.
    I'd be proud my child was doing so well to become a lawyer.
    Laws need to be sorted for this to be stopped.

    • @MissMaria1988
      @MissMaria1988 Před 5 lety +18

      No.. to not do as they like. To not abey your parents then their honor in the society is at stake.

    • @619gyal
      @619gyal Před 5 lety +77

      Once you set foot in USA rules don't apply. The US will have your back

    • @mariteramirez1763
      @mariteramirez1763 Před 5 lety +50

      Right wtf is that. So sad.

    • @nat_wood23
      @nat_wood23 Před 5 lety +41

      My thoughts exactly. I can't believe people would do this.

    • @MishalxIrfan
      @MishalxIrfan Před 5 lety +64

      @@619gyal lol, no Karen. That's not true AT ALL. these women were killed in the U.K. and there are honour killings in Canada and the USA as well. No country has your back if you're black or brown, because we are the minority in these countries.

  • @deniseg-hill1730
    @deniseg-hill1730 Před 8 lety +3662

    Don't call it honour it's just cold blooded murder

    • @Warewolfgirl1
      @Warewolfgirl1 Před 5 lety +53

      It's based on the families honour. Hence why it's called honour killings and violence.

    • @HmpoeTd
      @HmpoeTd Před 5 lety +12

      Queen of King queenofking The same thing goes in your society only you have parents who kill thier own children for insurance money . Criminal behavior has nothing to do with religion or faith period

    • @QGprincess
      @QGprincess Před 5 lety +7

      Denise G- Hill exactly!!!

    • @seandoherty1021
      @seandoherty1021 Před 5 lety +22

      Hasna Mullins I think it’s fair to say that people of all faiths/religions, cultures, races, and or genders do some pretty fucked up shit! Evil knows nothing of racism!

    • @seandoherty1021
      @seandoherty1021 Před 5 lety +7

      Hasna Mullins I’m not even from the UK and I’d like to apologize for what Kris Jones Jones said to you.. that was uncalled for and disgusting!

  • @chioptnstdr3448
    @chioptnstdr3448 Před 3 lety +2001

    Fathers from certain cultures really don’t even think their daughters are human beings

    • @tatatotaetae3103
      @tatatotaetae3103 Před 3 lety +206

      Not only father's even women! One of my mom's cousin was tired of spending on her daughter and was like " Oh god i wish i can marry her away, so that i dont have to spend so much on her"

    • @SosaZAwad
      @SosaZAwad Před 3 lety +35

      Yup all they have is a kids to spread their name and so she can marry a guy with a good reputation really stupid

    • @tariqkamal6141
      @tariqkamal6141 Před 3 lety +4

      I Asian I married nobody asked me about my will nether her ,I have two children older one 9 year younger one is 6 ,
      Now u tell me what should I do
      Option
      Leave her
      Stay with her
      Kill my parents why they did to me this
      Kill my self or wife
      Or final option kill them all no one spear include me

    • @margarethall4559
      @margarethall4559 Před 3 lety +59

      It should be a condition of entry to UK that these immigrants don’t practice their medieval ways against women! If so they will be sent back to country of origin!

    • @valentinamasei7777
      @valentinamasei7777 Před 3 lety +37

      @@margarethall4559 or simply not letting them in, much easier not to deal with the problem at all.

  • @elissacelesteortivez-haugh7632

    I was one of those women for over 17yrs. Married at 17. I was beaten and strangled to death twice. My babies breaking through the door and jumping on and hitting their father. I had mere seconds. It was documented by my Doctor- everyone knew but many feared that man. I stood up to him, suffering a spinal fracture at one point.. I am also an ethnic woman. I now suffer from RMS, and Osteoarthritis of my spine. I even have tearing in the cushions between the discs.. I have been discriminated against for more than half my life. As a result, I suffer immensely due to poor medical care. We need to change as a society in so many ways .. It changes you forever.

    • @nars5332
      @nars5332 Před 2 lety +21

      I'm so sorry love

    • @liars6495
      @liars6495 Před 2 měsíci

      Bitch how can you be strangled to death twice , you only die once and how were you able to comment on this video if you are dead ? You do not look like a Muslim woman , so stop acting satanist .

    • @Joe-qm4yv
      @Joe-qm4yv Před 18 dny +1

      Blame political correctness which allows this stuff to go unchecked 🤷

  • @schnee78
    @schnee78 Před 8 lety +3634

    If you have such parents, you don´t need enemies.

    • @brendakabanda2181
      @brendakabanda2181 Před 5 lety +134

      Exactly, who needs enemies when you have such a family.

    • @nanaaba1373
      @nanaaba1373 Před 5 lety +21

      schnee78
      I know right! U blood and flesh!

    • @dylanblack8487
      @dylanblack8487 Před 5 lety +9

      schnee78 Raheem don’t look happy.

    • @shemnar1
      @shemnar1 Před 5 lety +13

      EXACTLY

    • @taxitours2492
      @taxitours2492 Před 5 lety +35

      You made kids and you do not make their minds,,, and please Live and let them live....life is short guys please enjoy it

  • @Jazzisa311
    @Jazzisa311 Před 4 lety +1877

    Dude, it's a good thing the guy is asking her if she really wants to get married, but he should ask her ALONE, without her parents sitting next to her!!

    • @sanji546
      @sanji546 Před 4 lety +11

      Roxy Woodward cute comment lovely

    • @sanji546
      @sanji546 Před 4 lety +10

      Roxy Woodward very good comment i appreciate it

    • @hasithi3416
      @hasithi3416 Před 4 lety +23

      Roxy Woodward yes that’s the point

    • @jesseblack3550
      @jesseblack3550 Před 4 lety +90

      She looked like she didn't want to marry him!!

    • @manahilzahra3564
      @manahilzahra3564 Před 4 lety +58

      Roxy Woodward doubt the parents would want to leave her alone with... a man... especially when she’s not even married... the gender diversity is real

  • @roserusso8477
    @roserusso8477 Před 8 měsíci +53

    as a 23 year old pakistani woman who grew up in scotland, i could never imagine my parents doing something so horrific. My parents have always stressed the importance of education, my parent are supporting my dreams of become a lawyer, and are so proud. I feel so sad for all the girls with evil parents like these

    • @charvinaila7907
      @charvinaila7907 Před 7 měsíci +6

      You are lucky dear that your parents are good to you.

    • @garyjaguar8066
      @garyjaguar8066 Před 4 měsíci +2

      But you married your cousin .
      And have two children which are disabled.

    • @roserusso8477
      @roserusso8477 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@garyjaguar8066 since when did you know anything about me? Thanks for letting me know I’m married Ig! Wasn’t planning on getting married but since you said I am I must be!
      Oh and ladies and gentlemen here’s a perfect example of the “disabled kids’ that have been mentioned, stay safe and use protection people or you’ll end up with a man child like @garyjaguar8066

    • @garyjaguar8066
      @garyjaguar8066 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@roserusso8477 your father sent you to Pakistan in 2022 .
      Stop lying

    • @roserusso8477
      @roserusso8477 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@garyjaguar8066 what the hell are you talking about?

  • @suzannedavies2480
    @suzannedavies2480 Před 2 lety +72

    Sorry about my rant below but I was a teacher in an inner city school and lost five girls from my class to forced marriages abroad and honour killings were known as being held over the girls even at such an age as the primary school children I taught. It’s so scary. I had a lot of trouble when dealing with the male family members on parents evenings or if I needed to talk to them about the child in my class. I even had a father come into my class whilst they were all gathered around and beat his daughter with a large stick, when I intervened he hit me too but I wasn’t having anyone beaten in my care!! It was a major eye opener and the things these children told me in confidence is horrific!!

  • @zainabmohamed930
    @zainabmohamed930 Před 3 lety +1646

    Imagine being so evil to kill your own child.

  • @stopstalkingme878
    @stopstalkingme878 Před 3 lety +1965

    I don’t understand why people force their daughters to marry boys the parents like. It’s not the parents who are spending the rest of their life with the boy. It’s their daughter.

    • @SD_91
      @SD_91 Před 3 lety +142

      Typical indian and Pakistan thinking ... Not coming out out it

    • @Maria-ph7mw
      @Maria-ph7mw Před 3 lety +227

      They see their daughters as objects to use and abuse, not actual people with feelings and rights.

    • @fructosecornsyrup5759
      @fructosecornsyrup5759 Před 3 lety +72

      I can understand the use of a parents' blessing - a *good* parent knows what is best for their child, and sometimes when you're in love, you don't notice that your significant other may actually be a monster. That's why it's so important for a parent to be onboard with a marriage, to make sure the child will be safe. But to force a child to marry is another thing entirely... It's terrible, and it shouldn't be happening in a developed society.

    • @ghosto.o1704
      @ghosto.o1704 Před 3 lety +54

      The parents assume that they know better than their daughters simple as that. Many parents of every culture think they know what's best for their children and will lead them in certain directions. These are examples of that taken to the extreme and of course they are wrong and thankfully in this country these killings are recognised as the crimes that they are.

    • @rankingresearchdata
      @rankingresearchdata Před 3 lety +2

      @@fructosecornsyrup5759 2:00 song name *"Tum hi ho by Arijit singh from Aashiqi 2"*

  • @_Jay_Singh
    @_Jay_Singh Před 2 lety +151

    I'm so glad I was born into a south asian family with a strong mother figure. My mom grew up on a farm with no electricity in rural India, but managed to put herself college, move to America and complete medical school here. She has a very domineering personality and would NEVER take any sh*t from my dad or anyone else😂 I'm just glad my little sister has a strong woman to look up too, it's so sad that many people look at woman as property rather than people.

    • @toni-anngayle5909
      @toni-anngayle5909 Před 2 lety +21

      Your mom sounds like a boss! Love that for you

    • @harshaaditya3648
      @harshaaditya3648 Před 2 lety +8

      Man,you are lucky...your mom is based 😎
      Say namaste to maa ji from my behalf 🙏

    • @LionQueenn
      @LionQueenn Před 2 lety +3

      Respect to your mother✨

    • @32446
      @32446 Před rokem +4

      That’s an incredible achievement. Actually in the UK the mothers are often the lead person in forced marriage and honour based violence. Sad but true.

    • @beantrader4723
      @beantrader4723 Před rokem

      Since the beg. of time, 10,000 yrs ago when the first man was created in the image of God, Satan has worked his evil in order to destroy what God has made. The entire Old Testament is filled with pagan religions that worship things of the world instead of God...it is filled with man murdering innocent human beings to pagan gods...it is filled with pagan religions that murder without punishment. God said there is ONLY ONE God, ONE religion and that is the Heavenly teachings sent through Christ to re-teach a pagan world that which was lost in the Garden of Eden through choosing to worship the world instead of God. In this case, England is already a country of idle worshipers of flesh, thus, the centuries old belief in worshiping humans re: queen Liz etc. These are pagan religions that enchant millions of idle worshipers who worship in Satan's kingdom instead of obeying God and worshiping Him alone. "Honour killing" is nothing more than one more pagan religion that worships the teachings of Satan instead of God. God commanded, "You shall not kill". Any man-made religion that ignores, rejects, or contradicts God IS a pagan religion, one that worships the teachings of Satan, in his kingdom, which is the world. All these commenters are stupid fools for not recognizing that the root of all evil is Satan.

  • @miauwerks2745
    @miauwerks2745 Před 3 lety +30

    If people say I'm racist with this kind of people, I don't care.

  • @howardg7162
    @howardg7162 Před 4 lety +1546

    As the father of a grown up daughter I can’t imagine causing her harm , it’s unimaginable

    • @esthermas4703
      @esthermas4703 Před 4 lety +63

      I can only imagine this sick behaviour shown in the documentary if you see your daughters as burdens that need to be married off asap. Really sad, indeed

    • @DONNAMOZMUN
      @DONNAMOZMUN Před 4 lety +3

      Ikr

    • @Isochest
      @Isochest Před 4 lety +3

      @Amb Dar No

    • @dmethil
      @dmethil Před 4 lety +6

      Still the likes of Corbyn kiss their ass

    • @Isochest
      @Isochest Před 4 lety +1

      @@dmethil True.

  • @stephenchase6611
    @stephenchase6611 Před 4 lety +965

    This is the only wedding I've ever seen where nobody seems happy.

    • @JohnWilliams-ke3sb
      @JohnWilliams-ke3sb Před 4 lety +6

      Poorbanazoverlookedbybritishpigsrestinpeacelovelybanaz

    • @incognito.283
      @incognito.283 Před 4 lety +118

      Welcome to south asia and middle east

    • @Rippenhengst
      @Rippenhengst Před 4 lety +21

      @@JohnWilliams-ke3sb Can you translate this crap?

    • @kartik5876
      @kartik5876 Před 4 lety +19

      What are you talking about? They all are happy

    • @hiimalonelypotato8184
      @hiimalonelypotato8184 Před 4 lety +17

      Mitra Mazumder why do all four of you have purple pfp? XD also im sure every single arab and south asian isnt miserable, i mean look at me :D People who have that ideology in their heads should just stay in the 3rd world countries they came from tbf

  • @karenwoods5206
    @karenwoods5206 Před 3 lety +199

    I've read Jaswinder Singhara's book and that woman suffered so to say that she's made a career out of what happened to her is ignorant, disgusting individual. She's made a successful life, using her own difficult situation to empower herself and others and for that she should be very proud

    • @vaishakmuralidharan7605
      @vaishakmuralidharan7605 Před 2 lety +23

      Haven't read the book, but thought exactly the same. To present no argument or statistics and outrightly insulting her, how disgusting. The man is afraid of being disowned by the community and knows how to lie through his teeth like a politician. Exactly what the detective said when asked about his engagement with the community, that this is being driven by the community's leaders

    • @cuteladybug8622
      @cuteladybug8622 Před 2 lety +5

      Would you prefer her not say anything about what happened to her and her sister Robina? It's because of her and other campaigners that the public now know about honor-based violence, and can better spot the signs, and hopefully stop tragedies from occurring.

    • @32446
      @32446 Před rokem +1

      I find JS such an inspirational woman.

    • @beantrader4723
      @beantrader4723 Před rokem +1

      Well, what have 'you' done for the cause in the last 12 months? What changes have 'you' done in order to make a difference? How have 'you' been working on your own life in order to get rid of all the evil that 'you' practice and accept doing against God?

    • @karenwoods5206
      @karenwoods5206 Před rokem +2

      @@beantrader4723 wtf are you talking about?

  • @Woodman-Spare-that-tree
    @Woodman-Spare-that-tree Před 2 lety +20

    Why do we have to import foreign criminal practices that were never known in Britain before?

  • @suzyt9911
    @suzyt9911 Před 4 lety +1693

    Its not the police that are failing these girls it is their families, their culture, their religious leaders. Their parents are the worst offenders.

    • @flogriffin291
      @flogriffin291 Před 4 lety +101

      Suzy T And the police.

    • @suzyt9911
      @suzyt9911 Před 4 lety +75

      @@flogriffin291 And just what would you have the police do? Patrol every airport, and stop every family travelling to Pakistan to ask if they are forcing their daughter to marry, to which the parents will reply, No we are not. Perhaps you would have them attend every muslim wedding and ask if the marriage is forced. Until the "honour culture "is stamped out these dreadful things will continue to happen to these girls.

    • @flogriffin291
      @flogriffin291 Před 4 lety +120

      Suzy T No, but when someone comes forward and says that their parents have just attempted to murder them they should not be told they're being melodramatic, only to be murdered the following week. The same thing happens every week to victims of domestic violence who have gone to the police for help. The sad thing is that most people presume these events are one off failures by the authorities, but they are pretty much routine, especially if there's a cultural element.

    • @suzyt9911
      @suzyt9911 Před 4 lety +19

      @@flogriffin291 My heart bleeds for these poor girls, it is unimaginable that their own family would hurt them in the name of "honour", but you cannot blame the police, As a past victim of domestic violence, I have nothing but praise the police in my personal experience.

    • @flogriffin291
      @flogriffin291 Před 4 lety +11

      Suzy T I'm glad that you had a good outcome.

  • @texasspinesurgeon
    @texasspinesurgeon Před 7 lety +902

    Don't ever underestimate the value of freedom

  • @Noobie-cs1ot
    @Noobie-cs1ot Před 3 lety +77

    Until I saw this video I didn't know about this even though I'm British. It makes me sad to remember those popular Asian girls disappearing from my secondary school and everyone thought they just moved somewhere else.😞

    • @Noobie-cs1ot
      @Noobie-cs1ot Před 3 lety +9

      I'm not sure whether they moved or got married off. I don't think it happens now tho. I miss those girls

    • @sierrahjmartinez6703
      @sierrahjmartinez6703 Před 6 měsíci +2

      I knew Muslim friends who's sisters at a certain age would get sent back home where they are children but can marry very very old men then they come back here when they are considered adults and it's all legally good.

  • @Warewolfgirl1
    @Warewolfgirl1 Před rokem +15

    Imagine coming to a Western country, raising children there and being offended that said children adopt western views and ambitions.

  • @qcoe115
    @qcoe115 Před 3 lety +592

    Daughter kisses boy, "disgraces" family.
    Daughter killed.
    Society "We good now. Honor restored. Kiss never happened.
    🙄🙄🙄

    • @kripitamody2543
      @kripitamody2543 Před 2 lety +9

      In Asian culture kissing an opposite sex before marriage is considered as a sin.

    • @irenemulindwairen4138
      @irenemulindwairen4138 Před 2 lety +35

      @@kripitamody2543
      Which is understandable but it does not give grounds to have a girl killed.

    • @sasasadsfgasd9576
      @sasasadsfgasd9576 Před 2 lety +3

      @@kripitamody2543 my sister was kissing me whole the time as a kid

    • @comradeleppi2000
      @comradeleppi2000 Před 2 lety

      @@kripitamody2543 more like southeast Asian

    • @comradeleppi2000
      @comradeleppi2000 Před 2 lety +3

      @@sasasadsfgasd9576 lol that is your sibling.

  • @breeliah
    @breeliah Před 4 lety +448

    My best friend works in the police and he’s always telling me about the frustration of trying to stop honour killings. There’s usually lots of calls about domestic abuse but even after a woman gives a statement or tries to leave, the family hunt her down and force her to drop charges. Sometimes even extended family are involved and if she has no money the woman has nowhere to go. My best friend tells me it’s the most frustratingly sad cases he deals with.

    • @lidiatanasescu4807
      @lidiatanasescu4807 Před 2 lety +12

      That's so sad..😢😭😭😭

    • @sarithsalim1
      @sarithsalim1 Před 2 lety

      India Australia czcams.com/video/nGA51ce1T9I/video.html dowry deaths

    • @jojolafrite90
      @jojolafrite90 Před 2 lety +14

      Same crap i every religious communities. Disgusting.

    • @susanKWithAnE
      @susanKWithAnE Před rokem +10

      In most places in the U.S. it’s enough that someone has marks. The DA presses charges on the perpetrator

    • @advocatevarunrathi2831
      @advocatevarunrathi2831 Před rokem

      It is in Islamic culture and not in hindu cultures...
      Pakistan is the root cause. Your bastard leader Winston created it and put it on south asia...

  • @tannygodisbeautiful9690
    @tannygodisbeautiful9690 Před 3 lety +52

    How do you stuff a plastic bag down your own child's throat and then dump her body in the river. I have brought shame to my family many times over and my mother loves me none the less she says I am her rose

    • @LunarFlame455
      @LunarFlame455 Před 2 lety +8

      How could you do that to anyone especially your own kin is beyond me.

    • @pagethreemodel
      @pagethreemodel Před 2 lety +4

      Sociopathy is rampant in these cultures. They uphold something as fickle and superficial as family reputation, and so much to the extent that they would kill, to maintain it. Nasty stuff.

  • @bayaraamara3378
    @bayaraamara3378 Před 3 lety +41

    Imagine this is common practice back in their country. Sad.

    • @abdulraheem5422
      @abdulraheem5422 Před 3 lety +6

      imagine the amount of girls that just kept quiet and took the abuse. it's safe to assume that more than 1000 in England have been apart of this

    • @nassrakhan863
      @nassrakhan863 Před 22 dny

      It is not a common practice even in their own home countries.

  • @snehamore7049
    @snehamore7049 Před 3 lety +490

    I am from India and my family is not like this but I've relatives who think like this.This is so sick!

  • @tabbycat6458
    @tabbycat6458 Před 4 lety +536

    I wouldn't marry those monsters if they offered me a billion dollars

    • @greenheadmetalchips6669
      @greenheadmetalchips6669 Před 4 lety +94

      As someone who comes from a traditional Arabic background I say same. If I ever get forced into a marriage, the man will get his dick ripped off and he'll be my victim of honor killing. Better than wasting my entire life as an abused slave.

    • @mariasmith2198
      @mariasmith2198 Před 4 lety +18

      Its more the stick then the carrot. Either you marry them, or you get kicked out of your home or worse.

    • @bobsingh5521
      @bobsingh5521 Před 4 lety +3

      Tabitha Brennan
      We’re pretty good in the sack

    • @bobsingh5521
      @bobsingh5521 Před 4 lety +1

      Sinjin Smythe
      Good for them. They are on to something

    • @bobsingh5521
      @bobsingh5521 Před 4 lety

      Randolph Ross
      😂🤣🤪

  • @Rosebud100
    @Rosebud100 Před 3 lety +22

    It’s very simple; ANYONE LIVING IN BRITAIN HAS TO FOLLOW BRITISH LAW AND BE PROTECTED BY BRITISH LAW!!!!!!

  • @drp8208
    @drp8208 Před 3 lety +14

    Honor killings should never be allowed!!!

  • @thecriticalthinkingchannel462

    They say weddings are usually a woman's day...... can any body see any smiles of joy on those women faces? I saw a mix between sadness and fear.

    • @glendalanden2916
      @glendalanden2916 Před 5 lety +45

      I saw the same. This is happening worldwide, especially muslims. It seems as if No government, or, local officials will do anything, because they don't want to upset Muslim people, they just leave them to be as they are, not as the society they live amoung. They want to stay Politically Correct.......... SHAME, TO ALLOW

    • @saifullahalafghani2472
      @saifullahalafghani2472 Před 5 lety +9

      The Critical Thinking Channel it is a cultural thing that the women must be sad on their wedding day, because they are leaving the parents home.

    • @MonicaC143-_-
      @MonicaC143-_- Před 5 lety +23

      Saifullah Al Afghani ,😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂!How can you say a lie like this?You think we are blind?Stoopid?Uneducated?No,no,no,our eyes its wide shut...

    • @gurpaljohal8643
      @gurpaljohal8643 Před 4 lety +1

      Bollywood you are full of bullshit!

    • @rinila207
      @rinila207 Před 4 lety +8

      I'm not condoning it. It's another societal expectation that the bride should be sullen because. I joked with my mom and said, "Of course I'll cry at my wedding...because it'll be a freaking miracle if I even get married." 😂😂😂 But if you're talking specifically about Nagina's wedding and how the women were caught on camera, then that's not fear. It was just bad timing. We have dedicated memes and jokes about how wedding cameramen always catches us at the wrong time 😂😂😂

  • @trixietru
    @trixietru Před 5 lety +368

    It is MURDER and has nothing to do with honour. Stop calling it honour!

    • @tropicalstrings
      @tropicalstrings Před 5 lety +16

      It is the expression. Like revenge killings

    • @tropicalstrings
      @tropicalstrings Před 5 lety +1

      An honour killing is in IN the own family. Father, with coran in his hand telling his son to kill his. daughter. If you drive a car and drive somebody dead does not mean you are a murderer.

    • @nhazin4389
      @nhazin4389 Před 5 lety +3

      @@tropicalstrings Whosoever killed a person ... it shall be as if he had killed all mankind" (5:32).
      There are evil in every country and every religion.
      Religion is most peaceful and best way of life.
      People do evil kills them self and kills others. That's not the way of God. Peace.

    • @dbzgal04
      @dbzgal04 Před 5 lety +10

      @@nhazin4389 If I may ask, if indeed Islam opposes forced marriages and honor killings, what would be the proper way to handle a Muslim girl/woman falling in love with a non-Muslim boy/man? Since men are allowed to marry non-Muslims while women are forbidden to do so, because the kids automatically (and must) follow their father's religion. No offense, but if Islam truly is about peace and love why should any of that even matter anyway?

    • @nhazin4389
      @nhazin4389 Před 4 lety +2

      @@tropicalstrings it says if you killed a person
      It doesn't mention religion. Look it up it's in the Quran

  • @trashketchup1497
    @trashketchup1497 Před 3 lety +32

    Lol at them acting like she had ANY consent or choice in that marriage 🙄

    • @iqranadeem9837
      @iqranadeem9837 Před 3 lety

      Religiously, she does have a choice. Chapter 4 verse 19 makes that clear. But unfortunately, most of that community would either be shocked or extremely disappointed

  • @ashleylynn2701
    @ashleylynn2701 Před 3 lety +37

    The guy who marries the couple I love how he says if they don’t want it it ain’t happening. This stuff should not happen and still does it is so heartbreaking to hear these stories

  • @darlenevanetten6154
    @darlenevanetten6154 Před 4 lety +262

    The only woman smiling at that wedding was the bride and it looked more like a grimace of fear than a smile. Of course all the men smirked.

  • @currypablo
    @currypablo Před 4 lety +525

    Much respect to that Sikh police officer. Speaking the truth and representing his community in an "honourable" manner.

    • @zaynohara4203
      @zaynohara4203 Před 3 lety +9

      I guess you haven't heard of aarushi talwar then

    • @zaynohara4203
      @zaynohara4203 Před 3 lety +9

      Or of gagandip or of jassi

    • @Srankillerttt
      @Srankillerttt Před 3 lety +9

      @@zaynohara4203 Aarushi Talwar case is India's problem not UK

    • @Srankillerttt
      @Srankillerttt Před 3 lety +1

      @@zaynohara4203 Jassi's case is fake it's even proof

    • @zaynohara4203
      @zaynohara4203 Před 3 lety +10

      @@Srankillerttt when did I say that it's UK's or India's problem the discussion was about Sikhs being involved in honour killings not about India or Uk

  • @kw4201
    @kw4201 Před 2 lety +7

    Lmao that man talking about consent. “Would you like to get married or get murder?”

  • @cucumber623
    @cucumber623 Před 3 lety +15

    it doesnt help when she is being asked if she is marrying of her own free will with her parents right next to her, the imam should ask them to leave the room

  • @shygirlcomplex
    @shygirlcomplex Před 4 lety +400

    All the ladies at that wedding looked completely miserable

    • @kathleen5237
      @kathleen5237 Před 4 lety +55

      Notice how they segregate the sexes? Even in dancing the men dance together. The women sit together. They are conditioned to marry. Many also marry relatives causing a high proportion of disabled kids or kids with health issues. That in turn causes a high cost to the NHS/taxpayers. The culture is completely different to what Europeans are used to. I don't know why they want to live here. They could do all their strange behaviours in countries used to the backward cultures

    • @harolddburke4726
      @harolddburke4726 Před 4 lety +11

      @@kathleen5237 They are having twice as many children. In twenty years or so....

    • @kathleen5237
      @kathleen5237 Před 4 lety +24

      @@harolddburke4726 I see it in my community. The women marry and don't go to work, even young ones. To put it crudely they are just baby machines. 6 children in a family, no problem. More, more, more. Then they brag Islam is growing fast - through sheer birth numbers though. Many leave or pretend to follow it. Otherwise they can be at the least shunned and at the worst murdered

    • @bobsingh5521
      @bobsingh5521 Před 4 lety +5

      Kate
      You are being overwhelmed by brownies

    • @blossmctoss
      @blossmctoss Před 4 lety +3

      @@kathleen5237 mean abit Like the Irish baby making machines lol pot kettle black .

  • @buffbuff5016
    @buffbuff5016 Před 5 lety +390

    If you live in country that has different laws, then you abide by those laws. Culture be damned.

    • @CS-sk3qg
      @CS-sk3qg Před 4 lety +12

      They should be fucking kicked out or sentenced to harsh punishments to set an example.

    • @fredlomeda3118
      @fredlomeda3118 Před 4 lety +6

      Better not to go in that land. The MOST STUPID ACTION of these muslim men.

    • @qitzpaquitojr.reston2337
      @qitzpaquitojr.reston2337 Před 4 lety +4

      muslims are seem to be untouchable. Shame Britain

    • @awesomenitin
      @awesomenitin Před 4 lety +10

      @Virginia i can tell you that indian constitution also doesn't allow for any such bullshit. It gives equal rights to people, it is just the uneducated, conservative people who do such things because other uneducated people of their tribe/village talk ill about them, thus the need to save the honor.
      Educated and broad minded people in India or of indian origin don't do any such things.
      But ofcourse the narrow-minded are probably more in numbers.

    • @Beamshipcaptain
      @Beamshipcaptain Před 4 lety +5

      @paul castle Which is why President Trump does not permit Muslims to enter, same as China and Japan.

  • @Yamashitafreak
    @Yamashitafreak Před 2 lety +20

    I find it funny that this is about honor. Because their action of killing a family member they couldn't supress shows they had no honor in the first place. I find so many of their practises dishonorable and obviously dispicable that I don't understand how they think that murder is permissable or even hororable. How skewered and disregarding the value of human life must that culture be. That community is so hateful, ungrateful and toxic.

  • @annanananananana1442
    @annanananananana1442 Před 3 lety +17

    Wow that was a good piece. These people are amazing for standing strong in their identity, and also for what is right.

  • @britters220
    @britters220 Před 8 lety +150

    raped by her uncle and father? WTF?! thats sick.

    • @SaffireSanchezOfficial
      @SaffireSanchezOfficial Před 8 lety +18

      +britters220 "ordered by"

    • @britters220
      @britters220 Před 8 lety +4

      oh thanks. XD hurr durr.

    • @SaffireSanchezOfficial
      @SaffireSanchezOfficial Před 8 lety +1

      I double took and had to check lol!

    • @BohemianConspiracy
      @BohemianConspiracy Před 8 lety +24

      +britters220 This happened in 2006 she was 20... In fact her uncle and father decided to kill her but they send some of her cousins to do the job... rape her and then kill her... Some months prior she already survive to a murder attent by his father... she went to the police...but the police do nothing serious...
      Even previously she was married at 17 with somebody that she did not choose from his community (Iraqui Kurds)...
      This ended in divorce 2 years later because her husband was violent and repeatedly raped her...
      Now last thing... this girl found the time to find a boyfriend a few months before she died... her true love boyfriend was an Irani Kurd... that means both were Kurds... but this never happy family do not supported it...
      What is strange is that her boyfriend and her were Kurds and her family was angry anyway !
      What about if is she was with a black african?... or white christian brit ? they are beyond haterz...
      The father the oncle and two cousins took around 20 years of prison

    • @britters220
      @britters220 Před 8 lety +21

      well hope they get sodomized in prison complete with painful anal fissures that never completely heal on their own.
      In an idealistic world Deadpool would castrate them. #Deadpool

  • @TheLandOfTears
    @TheLandOfTears Před 5 lety +229

    I've got a great idea on how to stop honour killings... Pass a law in which whomever commits honour killings lose all their property plus a life sentence, believe me this wouldn't occur anymore.

    • @richardrodrigues783
      @richardrodrigues783 Před 5 lety +6

      TheLandOfTears s It would but which politician will enforce this!
      They want the vote of this community!
      So the law and order of England takes a backseat.

    • @harryugwu7304
      @harryugwu7304 Před 4 lety +3

      How about a death sentence instead

    • @Manisa-ce1oy
      @Manisa-ce1oy Před 4 lety +3

      Do you think the government couldn't stop these bullshits if wanted!!!?

    • @annm.7176
      @annm.7176 Před 4 lety

      The troubled Britain and America they don't come up against these people. they let them have Sharia law and the whole business.

    • @annm.7176
      @annm.7176 Před 4 lety

      The trouble with these people in Britain and America will not come up against Sharia law. Cowards

  • @WeepingWillow422
    @WeepingWillow422 Před 3 lety +7

    Thank you for shedding light on this issue.

  • @graysonwalker
    @graysonwalker Před 9 měsíci +7

    Shame on England giving this Sikh such a position

  • @jlewis122
    @jlewis122 Před 5 lety +306

    The clip of only the men dancing at the wedding said it all ...

    • @protectork9831
      @protectork9831 Před 4 lety +16

      That is dhole, men dance to it. Though marriage of Muslim but the people playing the instrument are sikh. Women will dance to songs and "gidha" .

    • @bobsingh5521
      @bobsingh5521 Před 4 lety +1

      Sinjin Smythe
      Your knowledge of Pakistanis is unmatched

    • @brendanatale7504
      @brendanatale7504 Před 4 lety +6

      Are. They gay?....sure looks that way...how strange these people are.

    • @evmoraga7854
      @evmoraga7854 Před 4 lety +2

      @@protectork9831 Exactly. It is a completely different culture.

    • @annabellargueta1155
      @annabellargueta1155 Před 4 lety +5

      Brenda Natale omg crazy you see a different culture and think of them as strange. sorry not everyone is caucasian sis😗 people with cultures have different dances, seems like you know nothing of it.

  • @farhanaahmad4148
    @farhanaahmad4148 Před 5 lety +111

    Honor killing is a crime that should be punished full stop.

    • @gneshvdev
      @gneshvdev Před 4 lety +2

      Farhana Ahmad: Oh wait.... Honor Killing not crime in UK? No wonder that’s why so many girls in Pakistan Bangladesh and India getting killed. Now wait again, isn’t laws in these countries are still as is as British left? No wonder that’s why Honor Killing is not criminalized in UK. I hope those who kill their daughters were in USA. Trust me, those parents would be in prison long time back. Or should I say in less than a week they will in prison to ROT like a RAT.

    • @rebeckamullardtheglamazonv3623
      @rebeckamullardtheglamazonv3623 Před 4 lety

      It never will be get over it

    • @kathleen5237
      @kathleen5237 Před 4 lety +1

      Yes, it's murder. Why do they want to have kids only to murder them if they want a free, happy life instead of miserable obedience?

    • @SimonTheRock1
      @SimonTheRock1 Před 4 lety

      @@gneshvdev what's the difference between Canada, USA and Europe these days?

  • @karmaisabitch2870
    @karmaisabitch2870 Před 3 lety +6

    HONOR KILLING...2 words that dont go together !!!!!!!!

    • @crafty629
      @crafty629 Před 3 lety +2

      Yes i agree its straight up murder

  • @beccabowers4997
    @beccabowers4997 Před 2 lety +9

    Omg I couldn't imagine a plastic bag forced down my throat...wow unbelievable...I have asthma and I know how that feels not being able to breathe... just imagine how terrifying that must have been for that 17 year old child cause she was still a child...any parent/parents that can murder their child/children should get the death penalty no matter the circumstances...rest in peace young ladies 🙏🙏🙏

  • @amybrown746
    @amybrown746 Před 5 lety +48

    A politician that says it’s not a problem 😂🙄 surprise surprise 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @juanitajuanita5757
    @juanitajuanita5757 Před 4 lety +573

    What honour ? To kill your own daughter?? Is that u call honour? So crazy doing..insane beliefs

    • @bobsingh5521
      @bobsingh5521 Před 4 lety +1

      juanita juanita
      Jes Wanita

    • @lisajones719
      @lisajones719 Před 4 lety +20

      If parents did that in the U.S.A. the parents would get the death penalty

    • @toqa6735
      @toqa6735 Před 4 lety

      💔

    • @rockydj1000
      @rockydj1000 Před 4 lety +35

      I am from India and its almost funny. These clowns from south Asian countries like India, Pakistan and Bangladesh fantasize about living in western countries. They think of it as a status symbol. But when it comes to accepting their host countries’ value, they fail miserably. They have no fucking honour. Some of these fuckwits would literally suck dicks to go to western counties. Sorry for my language but this makes me really angry. These people are the reason why third world countries stay the way they are

    • @Isochest
      @Isochest Před 4 lety +4

      They have no honour nor morality. They have their tribal cult. That's all

  • @tannygodisbeautiful9690
    @tannygodisbeautiful9690 Před 3 lety +12

    The British authorities claiming they do not know what a joke 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

  • @silverysnowfox
    @silverysnowfox Před 3 lety +10

    The Sikh community in general is very conservative; my cousin married a girl from that community and a majority of the Sikh temples would not wed them because my cousin wasn't the same kind of Indian. They had to find a more modern and accepting temple to conduct a Sikh wedding for them. I find it very sad that culture and religion divide humans more than they unite them.

  • @RodrigoHernandez.562
    @RodrigoHernandez.562 Před 10 lety +80

    What kind of parents would kill their own daughter?

    • @xrabkurdx
      @xrabkurdx Před 10 lety +14

      Pakistani parents.

    • @cosmicmuffin322
      @cosmicmuffin322 Před 6 lety +8

      Parents who do it in the name of religion, God, and male domination. As he said, they are crimes committed in "the name of the father, the son, and the blessed males of the family".

    • @minh-hieupham4442
      @minh-hieupham4442 Před 5 lety +5

      Sick evil heartless parents who shouldn’t be allowed to have kids

    • @Mayfan44
      @Mayfan44 Před 3 lety

      Parents from.very regressive mindsets

    • @elixir7054
      @elixir7054 Před rokem

      And indians

  • @mimIsra1
    @mimIsra1 Před 5 lety +154

    Thank goodness I can do as I please.

  • @maria-212
    @maria-212 Před 3 lety +26

    I’m Arab and part south Asian too and I come from a Muslim household, and I always feel thankful my mum (who although is a muslim was raised mainly in the west) let’s me have boyfriends and wear shorter clothes and live my life. I go to a Pakistani majority high school in The uk and so many girls I know went to Pakistan and never came back and I fear the worst for them. Never stop feeling grateful for your freedom, so many people especially girls don’t have it.

    • @karanmattoo2482
      @karanmattoo2482 Před 2 lety +5

      They're not dead, they're in Pakistan living their life as their husband's 4th wife.

  • @Migs251046
    @Migs251046 Před 3 lety +2

    How absolutely disgusting 😡😡😡

  • @chileanzombie42
    @chileanzombie42 Před 4 lety +128

    If I didn’t run away from my arranged marriage , my mother would have murdered me. I did ask for help from the person who gave me a heads up but they said they couldn’t go against the family. I didn’t tell or ask anyone else for help as if my own family wouldn’t protect or help me , no one would.I was turning 16 & he was 30

    • @jubileej1629
      @jubileej1629 Před 3 lety +13

      I am so sorry this happened to you

    • @chileanzombie42
      @chileanzombie42 Před 3 lety +27

      @@jubileej1629 Thank you .I'm very lucky I ran away as I have a lovely life now.

    • @quiqui6178
      @quiqui6178 Před 3 lety +4

      Dang I’m sorry this happened to u

    • @abantisarkar2055
      @abantisarkar2055 Před 3 lety +5

      @@chileanzombie42 good decision... God bless you. Stay happy.

    • @Marisol7773
      @Marisol7773 Před 2 lety +3

      You are an inspiration. So brave. God bless you!!

  • @trishahopkins6574
    @trishahopkins6574 Před 5 lety +216

    Honour my arse. It's about money marrying money or keeping money in the family. It's a disgrace

    • @maflor-dill9667
      @maflor-dill9667 Před 5 lety +7

      Trisha Hopkins Your comment seems to be on point.

    • @shuepsx652
      @shuepsx652 Před 4 lety +4

      @@texasgun2731 Then work for it and Stfu

    • @narararamammily5386
      @narararamammily5386 Před 4 lety +1

      Trisha Hopkins Sadly, that’s the same thing my mom said about money over love. She wants to put me in an arranged marriage like she did.
      I told her that I want to spend my life with someone who I could love than money. She then used the “What about the kids?” Or “Being rich can make your life easier” excuse.
      But I can clearly see that she’s not happy with my dad. He’s not abusive in anyway but she and him doesn’t have much in common and their differences in personality would clashed a lot. And she cannot get a divorce because it’s considered to be an embarrassment to the family to have a divorce in my country.

    • @arnie8604
      @arnie8604 Před 4 lety

      @@narararamammily5386have courage and follow YOUR dreams.

    • @maulamarsi7649
      @maulamarsi7649 Před 4 lety

      U on cuckoo land love

  • @khinclose5894
    @khinclose5894 Před 3 lety +13

    Whatever culture or traditions; killing to others or to their own members of their family is terrible crimes..it is so wrong and please stop of this.and put to ground "0".Justice must be served and laws must be obeyed...

  • @Yas-ju6fu
    @Yas-ju6fu Před rokem +4

    Isn’t it weird how a lot of the ‘honor’ killings involve the victim being r*ped in ‘honor’ 😑 that’s how you know it all about the male pleasure and ego

  • @paulwilson2133
    @paulwilson2133 Před 5 lety +188

    The girl who suffocated on a plastic bag by the hands of her parents, look how beautiful she was how can her parents kill her and not give a damn heartbreaking they had no right to do what they did to their daughter how dare they think they have the right they are nothing but cowards

    • @juliusmaehlich3138
      @juliusmaehlich3138 Před 5 lety +9

      Goodness gracious me. Parents must protect their children, not kill them. What s...t is that.

    • @bobsingh5521
      @bobsingh5521 Před 5 lety +1

      Paul Wilson
      But that's how they learn init?

    • @fredkyle8545
      @fredkyle8545 Před 5 lety +7

      BUT THESE ARE PEOPLE OF PEACE

    • @gmproduct1
      @gmproduct1 Před 5 lety +2

      They did it because the have no love in their hearts...

    • @Ian-dn6ld
      @Ian-dn6ld Před 5 lety +2

      hugh graeme It’s related to ethnocultural beliefs. If you listened, the connecting thought between the parents of this ethnic group (not genetically related) is the “paramount” consideration of family honor. By not marrying, they were all potentially ruining their family honor in the eyes of those of the same ethnocultural background. Connection to one’s ethnicity is on a spectrum from fully participating to unknowingly participating. This thought process of family honor finds itself between the two. Similar to the way some other groups do things “just because it’s how you do things.”

  • @cenoviss
    @cenoviss Před 5 lety +60

    I was forced to go overseas to get married. But my family listened after awhile. I am one of the lucky ones.

    • @rollinstoned9816
      @rollinstoned9816 Před 4 lety +1

      @G Singh all of those child rapist and murderers should honor suicided them selves..

  • @jillianrose3651
    @jillianrose3651 Před 2 lety +4

    They get honour and shame so backwards it is mind-bending to try and imagine people actually thinking this way.

  • @thecomenterthecomenter5569

    If you are bringing your honor killings in other countries, stay in your countries

  • @achaudhary2857
    @achaudhary2857 Před 3 lety +429

    That old Sikh man in parliament needs to be ashamed, it does happen in the Sikh community! My school mate was forced to marry when she was 15, we were all so scared for her, her younger sister ran away afterwards. She was British born Sikh it’s not an exception it happens all the time!!!!

    • @timothymorgow6118
      @timothymorgow6118 Před 3 lety

      mooo.moooommk.I.kmomomkkm

    • @timothymorgow6118
      @timothymorgow6118 Před 3 lety

      omooooomkokko.omkmomm.Kim.kk.ommokokmook.okoo

    • @hotthoddy5880
      @hotthoddy5880 Před 3 lety +14

      God, is she alright? Is she safe now?

    • @howey935
      @howey935 Před 3 lety +20

      I went to school with a Sikh lad who married his wife on their second meeting. Him and all 3 of his siblings had arranged marriage’s. one of the marriage’s nearly ended in tragedy and his brother was stabbed in his sleep off his wife. He was so lucky not to of been killed as the stab wound was only an inch from a main artery.

    • @hotthoddy5880
      @hotthoddy5880 Před 3 lety +37

      @@howey935 To be honest I really can't blame the wife. Probably she really didn't want to be married and resented her husband to the point she preferred jail over the marriage she was forced.

  • @missinginbc
    @missinginbc Před 8 lety +687

    Wow, watching this makes me really appreciate the freedom I have as a woman.

    • @GUCCI4126
      @GUCCI4126 Před 7 lety +9

      Ur so lucky:(

    • @babdullah5025
      @babdullah5025 Před 6 lety +9

      Realmatic 35 why do you utter garbage about Islam? this is a disgusting culture that needs to end not islam. nowhere in the quran it says kill women. This is about men and their sick & filthy minds. This has happened in europe too but the womens fight for their freedom has shaped the men. This reform will come to middle east too one day.

    • @babdullah5025
      @babdullah5025 Před 6 lety +2

      Mynx Mellon you don't have the brain to understand anything let alone islam. If islam was bad your women wouldn't turn to islam on a daily basis. everyday I see new white muslim women. search the real islam you'll find the truth, don't follow things blindly. I bet you haven't even read one page of the quran.

    • @JohnMorley1
      @JohnMorley1 Před 6 lety +16

      Enjoy it while it lasts.
      Not much longer darling.
      Not if you keep voting for people who bing more in and ignore the rate they are breeding at.
      Sweden is just about to fall and Germany and France are not far behind.
      We in the UK will be Islamic by 2050.
      Just keep on voting for people who will hide all the symptoms from you.
      We have had such a chain of gruesome murders hidden from the public here.
      It's got quite a pace to it by now and people convert if they live near muslims and can't afford to move house.
      We have no choice.
      Wake the hell up!

    • @babdullah5025
      @babdullah5025 Před 6 lety +1

      John Morley, so is that why after they convert to islam they also try to spread the truth and call other people to islam? Your obviuos lies make me laugh😅

  • @hattiecadwell6605
    @hattiecadwell6605 Před 3 lety +14

    I'm half Turkish Cypriot and from England. My dad was very strict and married my mum who was Caucasian. I wasn't allowed to do what I wanted. Im free now after being divorced when I was younger. Makes me so mad that these parents move to England and have the ordasity to force they're loved one's into arranged marriages. You can't live in the western world and expect this when mixing with other cultures.

  • @marcushaynes843
    @marcushaynes843 Před rokem +2

    This is barbaric and sick. There's no honor in committing cold-blooded, premeditated murder, especially murdering their own flesh and blood. Their sense of "honor" is fucked up.

  • @dannykirton6445
    @dannykirton6445 Před 4 lety +501

    A stone age ideology brings stone age actions.

    • @oneman80840
      @oneman80840 Před 4 lety +24

      This is not an “ideology” it is a cultural problem
      The imam even explains this

    • @dannykirton6445
      @dannykirton6445 Před 4 lety +57

      @@oneman80840 you keep telling yourself that, who knows you might even end up believing it yourself

    • @oneman80840
      @oneman80840 Před 4 lety +7

      Danny Kirton
      Idk mate your acting irrational try to think things through if you have the brains

    • @dannykirton6445
      @dannykirton6445 Před 4 lety +29

      @@oneman80840 If you had brains you'd know it's "you're" rather than your.

    • @lets_wrapitup
      @lets_wrapitup Před 3 lety +10

      Danny Kirton how is that a counter? Your comment is so pathetic, the religion has nothing to do with it. In fact it discourages it immensely, it’s their culture

  • @M1710100
    @M1710100 Před 5 lety +70

    Respect to the women fighting against this violence and talking publicly. I can only imagine what kind of threats they are faced with.

  • @carolinerowles5951
    @carolinerowles5951 Před 2 lety +2

    That old goat from the house of lords should be stripped of his position as he's a disgrace! He's either naïve or complicit, either way he needs removing from his position of prominence. 😡😡😡

  • @JuriAmari
    @JuriAmari Před 3 lety +13

    I’ve watched Jaswinder’s TED talk. It’s a must-watch. I’m glad her daughter married for love. I pray more people who want to marry will marry for true love and compassion and everyone lives the lives they want.

  • @Daylady1028
    @Daylady1028 Před 8 lety +345

    All of the women in this were so beautiful. I feel sad for any one forced into marriage, regardless of their culture.

    • @9996741699
      @9996741699 Před 5 lety +4

      Don't mind me saying but you're cuter than them.

    • @ilhamomar5596
      @ilhamomar5596 Před 5 lety +7

      @@thetruthhere8606 |You seem like a bad role model tbh

    • @Ed-ty1kr
      @Ed-ty1kr Před 5 lety +1

      Except if they are white.

    • @simtrate3959
      @simtrate3959 Před 5 lety +2

      They should grow mustaches and shave their heads, buy leather bike wear and slap around their nasty murderous relatives. Death to Islam.

    • @berketahirgil6535
      @berketahirgil6535 Před 7 měsíci

      So if they are ugly it's okay?

  • @b3st3stwifey
    @b3st3stwifey Před 8 lety +1243

    why immigrante to another country to keep your rural caveman traditions? mind you im a Muslim female and also an immigrant.

    • @b3st3stwifey
      @b3st3stwifey Před 8 lety +22

      *immigrate

    • @Silviaa1976
      @Silviaa1976 Před 8 lety +125

      I completely agree! If arranged marriages and "family honor" (in the MEN'S eyes) is so important, why not stay and LIVE in a country where IT IS practiced and important?
      On another note, I see why the men can be so posessive (not that it makes it right) but the women are GORGEOUS! And this is coming from a heterosexual Latina woman!

    • @starlighteuu
      @starlighteuu Před 6 lety +57

      b3st3stwifey I agree, my family moved awya from this so we as girls could have a better life and do what we want. As a muslim i get it, but my family said we used to do it back in the day because we had no choice or opportunity, whereas now we do have choices and that includes marrying the person when you want and whoever you want.

    • @TheAninas
      @TheAninas Před 6 lety +55

      I feel so bad for the women in other countries who have no support !

    • @sonimurat
      @sonimurat Před 5 lety +25

      So sad, but you made up a very good point that I was thinking while watching this video, why you have come in western in the first time? My neighbors are from somali, and their culture is to not CUT, REMOVE theirs daughters clits, it’s very painful 😖 some bleeds to death 💀 these kind of things need be stopped 😡

  • @nobaso620
    @nobaso620 Před 2 lety +5

    One reason I respect western culture is that it embraces the idea of free will.The rest of us are living in chains

  • @safuramahamadu3426
    @safuramahamadu3426 Před 2 lety +6

    Innocent girls being killed because of honour, it's heartbreaking barbaric and infringement on their human rights, #say no honour killing

  • @mastaofkush
    @mastaofkush Před 5 lety +118

    The fact that the woman's or wife's rights are even being discussed at the wedding just proves how few "rights" the woman actually has.
    All that bullshit about consent is all something that should go unsaid. It should already be known. This is just a way to cover their tracks.
    If that woman in fact did say she had a problem with the marriage she would be killed for bringing dishonor to her family...
    The whole concept of "Honor" is ancient and antiquated to me.
    The Japanese may have a very strange culture regarding honor as well but at least the dishonorable one kills his/herself instead of getting MURDERED by your own FAMILY.

    • @swepea6558
      @swepea6558 Před 5 lety +6

      Junger Flaanger still wrong

    • @ASprinkleOfRandom
      @ASprinkleOfRandom Před 5 lety +2

      Yet here we stand in 2019 where movements like the #metoo are being disregarded - women actively trying to speak out about basic rights yet we still struggle so no I don't think talking about women's rights at a wedding that proves anything -.-. Also what shitty point were you trying to convey?

    • @ASprinkleOfRandom
      @ASprinkleOfRandom Před 5 lety +2

      @N GUY 26:27? She seems quite happy. But ofcourse it's also sad because she'll be leaving her family...

    • @ASprinkleOfRandom
      @ASprinkleOfRandom Před 5 lety +1

      @N GUY it's the same wedding...

    • @stacey4u2luv
      @stacey4u2luv Před 4 lety +4

      It is to brain wash their women to believe that islam brought more rights for women and honour than any other religion, sadly their women believe it.

  • @mxxya___
    @mxxya___ Před 4 lety +52

    My step dad’s niece was Murdered by her own family in their home country, just because she was in love with someone they didn’t like. They would rather take someone’s life than ruin their status in their community, always thinking “what will people say,” They made it look like a suicide and it was never looked in to. That poor girl deserves justice, just as many other innocent girls

    • @JR-iw8du
      @JR-iw8du Před 8 měsíci +1

      That's terrible. Girls should be treasured by their family, why would you want to harm some one you are supposed to love.

    • @manichairdo9265
      @manichairdo9265 Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@JR-iw8duIn some countries and/or in religions females can be left to die at birth. Or brought up as a modern slave in the kitchen. They can be raped by fathers etc or murdered by the family. Shafilia lived a few miles from me and we knew at the outset that she had been murdered by her evil parents for wanting to dress like her 'Western' friends even though her dad was once married to a white woman if my memory serves me well.
      It took years for the savages to be thrown in the slammer.

    • @Hartchell
      @Hartchell Před 5 měsíci

      You should speak out anonymously about it.. you cannot keep it a secret or you will be punished when you get to another side. You really should give that girl a justice.🙏🏻

  • @kathylopez5278
    @kathylopez5278 Před 5 měsíci +1

    They make a show of "mutual consent" but i bet it was not. Let the bride speak in private & offer her a way out. Unbelieveble these girls have no way out even if they go to Police. Can't change culture until they are held "accountable".

  • @lynnlance351
    @lynnlance351 Před rokem +11

    Do not mistreat girls
    Do not murder girls
    Do not call it honour when you dishonour a human being who is a young girl

  • @ArrasiEham
    @ArrasiEham Před 5 lety +158

    These people are hipocrits. If they want the children to follow rules of their home land, they should have stayed in their country. Expose them to u.k /u.s values n expect them to follow their country 's values is wrong.

  • @tieko-k
    @tieko-k Před 5 lety +106

    Made me thankful that I have freedom even though im just a waitress

    • @sujanmondal4673
      @sujanmondal4673 Před 4 lety +22

      money, status can not define a person only happiness can!!

  • @Biobele
    @Biobele Před 3 lety +4

    i am an African, dear Britain i will tell you something, Pakistan is Not pakistan because it is pakistan, it is Pakistan because of Pakistani's if you want britain to be pakistan keep accepting PAKISTANI MUSLIMS goodluck Britain

  • @eleanorcrawford9978
    @eleanorcrawford9978 Před 5 dny +2

    These parents are a disgrace and shameful what they’re doing to their daughters. Their old fashioned ways don’t belong in the U.K.
    There’s no honour in killing a young lady because she refuses a marriage to a stranger the parents are sick and shameful.

  • @mo_7199
    @mo_7199 Před 3 lety +534

    I come from a conservativeish Indian family, and I live in the US, but no. Don't use culture as an excuse for abuse. Abuse is abuse no matter who is doing it or who is its victim.

    • @ZS-iq8cj
      @ZS-iq8cj Před 3 lety +1

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    • @mo_7199
      @mo_7199 Před 3 lety +4

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    • @mo_7199
      @mo_7199 Před 3 lety +1

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    • @ZS-iq8cj
      @ZS-iq8cj Před 3 lety

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    • @mo_7199
      @mo_7199 Před 3 lety +1

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  • @seigedrakonera5689
    @seigedrakonera5689 Před 6 lety +164

    "Are you getting married under your own free will? Are you are under no force no pressure to get married? "
    Oh suuure, like hell shed say no mid calibration literally sandwiched between her parents. I cant help but think this is more for show to give the illusion of choice. If she said no I'd wager it would not end well for her.

    • @FKAAYA
      @FKAAYA Před 5 lety +26

      As a Muslim I can confirm that, of course she'll say yes in the middle of the fucking wedding.

    • @krissee6961
      @krissee6961 Před 5 lety +2

      Except for the eyes to eyes smile between that particular couple

    • @hbsblkk3842
      @hbsblkk3842 Před 3 lety

      Tbf she looked pretty happy

  • @JoeyJoeJoeJr.Shabadoo
    @JoeyJoeJoeJr.Shabadoo Před 3 lety +18

    10:01 damn he has got the dopest mustache I have ever scene.

  • @jordanmartineau8523
    @jordanmartineau8523 Před 3 lety +5

    You’re absolutely right, Shirley. There is no such thing as honor killing. Such gibberish like that never existed.

  • @strategicgamingwithaacorns2874

    "Why are UK authorities ignoring honor killings?"
    Because the UK deems that harassing dissidents is more important than protecting the innocent, _especially_ when the dissidents criticize honor killings and other customs of the "religion of peace".

    • @sarah5893
      @sarah5893 Před 4 lety +3

      Because it's not worth the grief or the shit people in power like Dianne Abbott & Muslim councillor's in towns& cities that out number non Muslim councillor's cause them!

    • @lateshpatil5307
      @lateshpatil5307 Před 4 lety +10

      @@sarah5893 LoL heard that a Muslim in house of lords was taken in for 2 counts of child rape.

    • @sarah5893
      @sarah5893 Před 4 lety

      @Faffy1819 G What's your fucking problem?

    • @zaradimple3980
      @zaradimple3980 Před 4 lety +2

      You have set up your own courts, why are you blaming UK, you do not want to integrate, what do you want Uk to do, you get on with it. You cannot eat your cake and still have it. Why should UK interfere with your mess. I am truly sorry for the individual but you insist on your tradition???? Change it if its a cause of crime and pain.

    • @walleyperch
      @walleyperch Před 4 lety +11

      @@sarah5893 I was born in England over 70 years ago - it's not the same country any more - it's garbage and the people in charge are idiots - I'm so glad my parents brought my brother and me to Canada when I was 5. Now the problem is to keep Canada from degenerating into chaos like the U.K......

  • @funbitch9789
    @funbitch9789 Před 4 lety +185

    You’re safe in the UK now... oops, no you’re not!

    • @ZS-iq8cj
      @ZS-iq8cj Před 3 lety

      The way the government handling this pandemic is an utter joke.

    • @ZS-iq8cj
      @ZS-iq8cj Před 3 lety

      It's the worst in the UK

    • @ZS-iq8cj
      @ZS-iq8cj Před 3 lety

      @White Revolt Not what I was aiming for mate but okay

  • @howey935
    @howey935 Před 3 lety +4

    I went to school with a lad whose family moved to the U.K. from Pakistan and him his brother and both sisters all had arranged marriages. Micky (the lad the same age as myself) had only met his wife twice before they married. They’ve been married for over 20 years have 3 kids and seem very happy. Then there’s his younger brother whose arranged marriage only lasted just over a year because of domestic violence, his wife stabbed him and tried to kill him whilst he slept. He was so lucky not to of died as the stab wound was less than an inch from a main artery and he would of bled out before any help would of gotten there.

  • @astaola3383
    @astaola3383 Před 2 lety +3

    You need laws: People travelling abroad with children under age 18 will not be accepted back to the country without their children

  • @sakinehbs
    @sakinehbs Před 8 lety +291

    It is men's world, as you see only men are happy at the wedding ,they are the one who are dancing and having great time .all the rules are written by men for men .woman has no say so.but it can be changed.

    • @sweety784
      @sweety784 Před 5 lety +15

      Yep... they reach the age where they can finally possess a wife...

    • @annaw2909
      @annaw2909 Před 5 lety +5

      sakinehbs
      suckers r happy to get laid every time they feel like it from that day on

    • @poojavishwakarma7251
      @poojavishwakarma7251 Před 5 lety +1

      sakinehbs but woman are dragged by woman not by man....

    • @schimaMon3
      @schimaMon3 Před 5 lety +1

      I agree..I've noticed it too and thought the same thing...sad and corrupt world rulled by men..

    • @zaaraal7286
      @zaaraal7286 Před 5 lety

      @@sonny8395 afghans marry between afghans we love our culture too much to go with germans..

  • @CASSIELIVESHERE
    @CASSIELIVESHERE Před 9 lety +68

    Police and Governments need to listen to these womens cry for help.

  • @Jojo-kp5eb
    @Jojo-kp5eb Před 8 měsíci +2

    Such a backwards community, killing in the name of honour, absolutely no honour in killing your own family. RIP Beautiful ladies ❤

    • @RR-pc7yv
      @RR-pc7yv Před měsícem

      Which specific community you're referring to? Pakistani one?

  • @nerdy4172
    @nerdy4172 Před 2 lety +4

    This is the outlook of societies, where it is obligatory to respect your parents, no matter how bad they are.

  • @dylana2776
    @dylana2776 Před 5 lety +59

    Lmao it’s ironic considering the parents are caught and brought greater shame to the family

    • @angelareele858
      @angelareele858 Před 5 lety

      D Y L A N probably not,.....× greater ×, Shame

    • @poonamshinde9597
      @poonamshinde9597 Před 4 lety +9

      according to their society they did the right thing and all other people in that society will instill fear in their children by giving these people as examples of what would happen to them if they don't obey or follow the rules.

  • @susanmorgan8833
    @susanmorgan8833 Před 4 lety +224

    How do they call it 'honor' killings when it is obvious those committing the crime have no honor, and neither do those willfully concealing, and thereby becoming complicit in, the crime.

    • @mylesbellott5676
      @mylesbellott5676 Před 4 lety +3

      It's just an excuse to commit the crime. That's all it is

    • @myahmajid
      @myahmajid Před 4 lety +3

      Myles Mylo it’s not an excuse at all. these people- as disgusting as they are- are not using this as a justification to just fulfil something theyv always wanted to do or tick something off their bucket list. There is so much pride within the asian community, they constantly think of what other family members will think and therefore do anything they can to create this perfect, ideal life. It’s disgusting because theyr looking at what other people think over their own children’s happiness but no, its just an excuse.

    • @mylesbellott5676
      @mylesbellott5676 Před 4 lety +2

      @@myahmajid okay google

    • @myahmajid
      @myahmajid Před 4 lety

      Myles Mylo welcome hun xxx

    • @sarithsalim1
      @sarithsalim1 Před 2 lety

      India Australia czcams.com/video/nGA51ce1T9I/video.html dowry deaths

  • @genko7405
    @genko7405 Před 8 měsíci +3

    I feel sad for all those beautiful souls still living under these conditions

  • @heatherhudson9891
    @heatherhudson9891 Před 3 lety +1

    Imagine that. A plastic bag forced down her throat because she wanted to be a lawyer. Dear God how cruel. They need educating. Its up to the elders or whatever to change this monstrosity of belief. Sickening