Cross Dresser interview-Amy

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  • čas přidán 10. 09. 2024
  • Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Amy, a cross dresser in Los Angeles.
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  • @WES_5150
    @WES_5150 Před měsícem +986

    By far the most female looking male cross dresser I have ever seen.

    • @kthatrapqueen
      @kthatrapqueen Před měsícem +8

      🤔😬

    • @butterfly2604
      @butterfly2604 Před měsícem +88

      Absolutely however once he talks it's all over.😊

    • @jojobee42
      @jojobee42 Před měsícem

      Yes! I actually thought it's a woman who sometimes likes to dress up as a man ~ it's the voice that revealed he's a man!

    • @anamericanprayer1967
      @anamericanprayer1967 Před měsícem +19

      @@butterfly2604you took the words out of my mouth ❤ totally agree

    • @jamescrowther1234
      @jamescrowther1234 Před měsícem +18

      The shoulders don't lie though, unfortunately.

  • @Lulus-Regrets
    @Lulus-Regrets Před 22 dny +122

    "I dress for my own male gaze"
    That is one of the most fascinating things I've heard: thank you for sharing your perspective and experience!

    • @spiralvoid45
      @spiralvoid45 Před 13 dny +5

      its called Autogynephilia, there's alot of research on this topic. It's basically a sexual orientation, its like being gay

    • @laureldaisysage
      @laureldaisysage Před 22 hodinami

      ​@@spiralvoid45no, gays are androphilic, meaning they like men. Autogynephiles are attracted to themselves, but as women

  • @carlalaudicinaLFC
    @carlalaudicinaLFC Před 23 dny +57

    This is my favorite interview. As an image designer starting out many years ago, I had one particular client who was a cross dresser. I helped him put together packages of beauty supplies from the salon I worked at. He was a local real estate agent. Anyway, there is a definite difference between a cross dresser, a person who does drag, a trans individual...guys who are straight who cross dress, I just think they are very artistic and that arouses them.
    My partner of 12 years is androgynous in style, but very masculine, sexually.
    Never doubt the masculinity of a gentle man. :)
    Lastly, in the 80s rock n roll scene, men felt the freedom to beautiful, even if they weren't gay. Artists

  • @eljj7968
    @eljj7968 Před měsícem +88

    When I was a teenager I used to work in a high end department store and we had a regular who would come and buy women's shoes. He was a straight older guy, happily married to a woman and totally open that he was a cross dresser. This was 15 years ago and I feel like a little less talked about, but honestly no one blinked an eye, he was a nice guy and a good customer.

    • @kanstrand
      @kanstrand Před měsícem

      There’s a really cool guy who’s page on IG I stumbled upon who is a cisgender male, married to a woman, and dresses in skirts and high heels from the waist down but as a man from the waist up and he models and he legit looks amazing, it’s not my thing but if it makes him happy I think more power to him :-)

    • @trgiun
      @trgiun Před 25 dny +1

      What is the reasoning usually? I can’t understand it unless there is a clear sexual reason. Like, that’s it. There’s no other reason to do this

    • @eljj7968
      @eljj7968 Před 25 dny +1

      @@trgiun Can't say I ever asked him why lol, but it really doesn't matter.

  • @parkerposey8155
    @parkerposey8155 Před měsícem +66

    A man who just explained why I still have clothes from highschool 35 years later. I'm really glad he has a supportive family/friend base. And his wife is a good person. I'm really happy for them!

  • @brooklyn5793
    @brooklyn5793 Před měsícem +141

    He is really pretty…interview with his wife would be fabulous!

  • @aninanikin
    @aninanikin Před 21 dnem +21

    Thank you so much for this interview, Mark. Amy speaks for all of us crossdressers (I am one). 💖
    Amy's statement "I dress for my own male gaze," hits the spot and resonates with me and I am sure for many other fellow crossdressers out there. 🤗 The simplest way to put it is that we are such big fans of feminity & women that we want to look like one & embrace our feminine side. I am not gay nor attracted to males & I am married too (but unlike Amy, I have to keep this secret).
    Stay gorgeous, Amy, you have a beautiful soul ❤️
    Xoxo

    • @laurarebb6923
      @laurarebb6923 Před 16 dny

      I love you, as a human being. It’s ok. Truly. ❤

  • @hannahmitchell87
    @hannahmitchell87 Před měsícem +32

    Seems like a sincere, gentle, thoughtful person. Very attractive inside & out & rocks the feminine vibe way better than me!
    A Part 2 with masculine presentation would be fab cause I'm struggling to picture him as a skater dude (which I hope is a compliment).
    Huge respect to you for living your life YOUR way X

    • @gamingbros-tk3tm
      @gamingbros-tk3tm Před 20 dny

      I would love to see an interview with his masculine self but I understand that if he did do that interview it would put his true identity out there. He has stated that not everyone that knows his male side knows he does that but I hope once he's more open to everyone that he would agree to do an interview.

  • @KQDYMagallaz
    @KQDYMagallaz Před měsícem +112

    Amy looks 100% passable, until he opens his mouth BUT LOOKS 100% SO GOOD, and hes so happy, so thats fantastic

    • @beakamon
      @beakamon Před měsícem +8

      Right just one of those pretty men! Lol

  • @dawnatilla2469
    @dawnatilla2469 Před měsícem +53

    this man is hot and despite looking amazing as a female...his hotness as a male (internal/external) is also shining through. Well done A!

    • @viewdemonde
      @viewdemonde Před 22 dny +4

      Yes, it does! I bet he’s just as cute as a man.

    • @jean55547
      @jean55547 Před 18 dny

      he is hot 🔥❤ and without the makeup and dresses he soo cuuuute n hottie 🥰

    • @cosmic2591
      @cosmic2591 Před 17 dny

      absolutely 😁

    • @zeo3947
      @zeo3947 Před 10 dny

      @@jean55547does he have any social media we could follow?

  • @user-cu7mt3iy1e
    @user-cu7mt3iy1e Před měsícem +207

    I'm Ana, 71 years old, and I've been Crossdressing for over 5 decades .In my experience, Amy is a typical CD, a little closeted, which is common in CDing.
    A conservative count is 1 in 10 males crossdress.Most CD's are Heterosexual not Gay. There is a difference between drag queen and crossdressers .It is too different self-expression.
    Amy was very open and honest in the way she expressed her
    Thank you, Mark, for this interview
    Respectfully
    Ana
    ⚧️☯️☮️

    • @Aquabob1
      @Aquabob1 Před měsícem

      I bet you look like a 71 year old dude in a dress…….

    • @hairyape3935
      @hairyape3935 Před měsícem +8

      If most are alledge heterosexuals, how do they approach women? In dresses? Or are they like most men who live outside the nor.: I will tell her later after she gets to know me?

    • @magicdamage8900
      @magicdamage8900 Před měsícem

      ​@@hairyape3935What a loaded question. Thanks for your contribution. 🙄

    • @user-cu7mt3iy1e
      @user-cu7mt3iy1e Před měsícem +6

      Just depends on the person it could be all 3 ways of the questions you ask .
      Thank you for asking
      Hope this answers your questions
      Ana
      ⚧️☮️☯️

    • @MariaCascalheira-sh9eq
      @MariaCascalheira-sh9eq Před měsícem

      ❤😊

  • @Itchitesticleez
    @Itchitesticleez Před měsícem +95

    People like this exist. I loathe the fact we make people feel shame for being authenticly themselves.

    • @jarellgaddy8587
      @jarellgaddy8587 Před 22 dny

      There is nothing authentic about a man dressing up as a woman.

  • @ninaki80
    @ninaki80 Před 21 dnem +7

    Particularly loved watching the switch between the nervousness and the excitement of it being ok to do what you enjoy. The change in body language during the interview was such a pleasure to watch. Great interview

  • @ashby4211
    @ashby4211 Před měsícem +470

    I wish he had done this interview with his wife. I wonder how different it would have been.

    • @millasboo
      @millasboo Před měsícem +8

      Ehh she I believe as certain cd’s transition into the gender they wear

    • @ow3wells
      @ow3wells Před měsícem +74

      You would be surprised., some women don’t care, I watched a documentary where a physician cross dressed to relax after work, his wife of 35 years didn’t care.

    • @LeileeBaker805
      @LeileeBaker805 Před měsícem +43

      Why do polygamous couples get married?🤔

    • @leneo1731
      @leneo1731 Před měsícem +60

      If you love a person, you love them no matter what.
      To have a partner who cross dresses would be my least concern!
      I see these partnerships as so incredibly beautiful because these people obviously see beyond the exterior and care about what's really important, meaning what's inside a persons heart.
      To be allowed to be totally open but still being loved unconditionally is what very few of us experience.

    • @AI3Dorinte
      @AI3Dorinte Před měsícem +5

      @@LeileeBaker805 for the economical / medical benefits?

  • @ijustagirl74
    @ijustagirl74 Před měsícem +126

    I like the fact he says he is a man and feels like a man,he just likes dressing up...He has a gentle feminine side and he suits it .I bet he looks like a good looking man,and pulls off dressing feminine.I wish Rebecca could live like this.This man is comfortable,gentle and his has supportive loving wife and mother,siblings..He has manarisim when talking similar to Elon musk,

    • @dawnatilla2469
      @dawnatilla2469 Před měsícem +6

      good points.. esp. re: Rebecca..wow...I wish the same!

    • @e8ghtmileshigh1
      @e8ghtmileshigh1 Před měsícem +4

      Gay men and straight men dress up like women for completely different reasons.

    • @kellivincenzo5410
      @kellivincenzo5410 Před 28 dny +2

      Agree Pretty when CD... Very good looking man

    • @fruitloopbabe91
      @fruitloopbabe91 Před 23 dny

      I guess it shows the difference a stable, well off and privledged upbringing can make in a person...I would love to see Rebecca having the support needed to maintain mental health. I dont think mark constantly saying youre not transgender helps...

    • @carlalaudicinaLFC
      @carlalaudicinaLFC Před 23 dny

      He's just reiterating to make sure with the subject at hand. It's not antagonistic.

  • @fernkitty
    @fernkitty Před měsícem +45

    The thumbnail and b&w segment almost don't look like the same person. Interesting how different angles can do that.

    • @johnnyutah6056
      @johnnyutah6056 Před měsícem +3

      I feel like that al the time, it might be the b& w images

    • @xdranzer0004
      @xdranzer0004 Před 18 dny +1

      And lighting

    • @LadyBooger
      @LadyBooger Před 11 dny +1

      Mark's thumbnails usually look more harsh I guess it's more compelling.

  • @AbeeraImran-sj8gz
    @AbeeraImran-sj8gz Před měsícem +132

    the sudden "is your mom very attractive?" made me burst out laughing.

    • @crazycatladyjo2688
      @crazycatladyjo2688 Před měsícem +9

      Kinda reaching there. lol

    • @kell-yh4ec
      @kell-yh4ec Před měsícem +9

      Well usually men look like their moms so

    • @Daveortiz693
      @Daveortiz693 Před měsícem +3

      @@kell-yh4ec😅

    • @shannonsmith2642
      @shannonsmith2642 Před měsícem +21

      @@AbeeraImran-sj8gz mark trying to to get a date.

    • @kell-yh4ec
      @kell-yh4ec Před měsícem +5

      @@Daveortiz693 its true a good amount of men have prettier features than women naturally thats why women do lashes, makeup and sometimes nose jobs, shave down their chin/jaw because they look like their dads. Women tend to look like their dads.

  • @reneebrown55
    @reneebrown55 Před měsícem +118

    I love how he is embracing all of himself rather than allowing society to dictate what parts are acceptable to express

    • @TheScotian82
      @TheScotian82 Před měsícem +9

      F that. Shaming is what kept things mostly sane and decent.
      What you do effects others, remember?

    • @FlockOfYahweh
      @FlockOfYahweh Před měsícem

      He’s expressing outwardly his p0rn addiction which gradually overtime manifested into this

    • @sugarsore
      @sugarsore Před měsícem +15

      ​@@TheScotian82There are no positives about shame. It only keeps people unhappy. This man is causing no harm by doing this.

    • @ktrain-hj6jm
      @ktrain-hj6jm Před měsícem +8

      @@sugarsoretrue. Shame is not just “shame on you” when someone does something wrong, or feeling shame when we’ve done something bad. I think certain shame is appropriate and necessary but not when someone is being who they genuinely are and not harming others.

    • @sugarsore
      @sugarsore Před měsícem +7

      @@ktrain-hj6jm Shame is never appropriate. Guilt may be appropriate in some cases. Shame is the belief that "I am bad." Guilt is the belief that "my behavior is bad."

  • @HotPenny82
    @HotPenny82 Před měsícem +20

    Such a lovely soul. I love Amy’s energy and manner of speaking. Was a wonderful watch. Thank you for sharing of yourself Amy, and thank you ☺️to you as well Mark!

  • @jadedmonk7001
    @jadedmonk7001 Před měsícem +109

    Amy's mannerisms and overall body language are extremely graceful and feminine. Not to mention their natural beauty. I'd never guess that they were, in fact, a biological male.

    • @Anonymous-cg7od
      @Anonymous-cg7od Před měsícem +16

      Bs

    • @WHAT_THE_F0XX
      @WHAT_THE_F0XX Před měsícem +8

      ​@@Anonymous-cg7odyour comment is BS

    • @Anonymous-cg7od
      @Anonymous-cg7od Před měsícem

      @WHAT_THE_F0XX how? You can see the blokes breastless chest, 'never would have guessed' btw

    • @Silversmoke1000
      @Silversmoke1000 Před měsícem +3

      Until he opens his mouth. :)

    • @maverickbull1909
      @maverickbull1909 Před měsícem

      Well he’s been cross dressing since he was 7 so I would expect that

  • @baileyslife3469
    @baileyslife3469 Před 22 dny +7

    I’m glad the comments are as accepting as I am , he’s not tryna become a woman , he’s not mentally unstable and wanting to masochise his body , he just like to feel pretty and it’s a kink obviously .. he’s not hurting anyone , he’s open honest kind respectful, .. I love when ppl can be there authentic selves

  • @fernandocalifornia
    @fernandocalifornia Před měsícem +61

    Deeply interesting, thanks for sharing your story and shine some light into a world many don’t know (and therefore judge).

  • @JackieW-hb7zt
    @JackieW-hb7zt Před měsícem +181

    I want to know more about the dominatrix, the wife, and the polyamorous lifestyle! Bring him back with his wife, Mark!!!!!! Or the dom! Lol

    • @parisa5014
      @parisa5014 Před měsícem

      Why did this person do the interview if they were going to be such a liar!? I found his socials, first of all he is NOT "straight" by any means! His dominatrix "girlfriend" is another crossdressing MAN with a HUGE **** and they make onlyfan videos together. Also, this person definitely seems transgender judging by the photos on his socials, I guarantee in less than a year he will start transitioning. Also, he HAS to be rich because there's no freaking way after seeing his socials a wife would ever go for this at all, looks like he spends an EXTREME amount of time on all of this and that his dominatrix BOYFRIEND also takes up most of his time. His socials are also just so gross, he clearly developed some sort of mental issues from watching all of that disgusting sissy hypnosis stuff online.

    • @kaliblue
      @kaliblue Před měsícem

      Dominatrix isn't anything special just another pr-stitute

    • @olivialerat2027
      @olivialerat2027 Před 20 dny +2

      The IG of the Dom is house of iris. She makes good content

    • @kaliblue
      @kaliblue Před 20 dny

      @@olivialerat2027 for a service top

    • @Ohhhwehere
      @Ohhhwehere Před 17 dny

      @@olivialerat2027thanks! yea it looks great

  • @andrewburchett5028
    @andrewburchett5028 Před měsícem +212

    I looked at the thumbnail and thought, "she dresses like a dude?" I clicked on the video and heard the voice and thought, "OOOOOOOHHHHHH" Hahahahaha. Anyway, He's got bigger balls than 99% of dudes out there. Cheers!

    • @SlavesWereGood
      @SlavesWereGood Před měsícem

      No

    • @GIZREED
      @GIZREED Před měsícem +13

      Playing dress up doesnt make you brave. Wtf are you talking about

    • @andromedaspark2241
      @andromedaspark2241 Před měsícem +19

      ​@@GIZREED​ They're only clothes. You only look down on men wearing women's clothes if you look down on women, because we wear traditionally men's clothes daily. There's a reason why a lot of women are not bothered at all by his clothes but some rather brittle men are. Interesting that this bothers you.

    • @quietatse
      @quietatse Před měsícem +4

      😅 Yeah, I thought I'll be seeing the reverse uno card

    • @bentheredonethat-lx6nh
      @bentheredonethat-lx6nh Před měsícem +2

      @@andromedaspark2241
      This goes for the Female as well. I discriminate against no one. A woman is to be a woman, just as a man is to be a man.

  • @D.H.-mg2cz
    @D.H.-mg2cz Před měsícem +178

    Mind you, centuries ago or in in other cultures men dressed and dress far more colourful, with frills and lace and precious jewelery, wore wigs, heels, make up, often more colourful than women at the same time. Times & cultures change.

    • @millasboo
      @millasboo Před měsícem +3

      Yep . Like they like what they like

    • @yourfavoritenetcitizen6525
      @yourfavoritenetcitizen6525 Před měsícem +12

      Right. 17th century French aristocracy.

    • @kristenharden3157
      @kristenharden3157 Před měsícem +9

      I don't care what people wear but you are exaggerating.

    • @autumnnoelle5221
      @autumnnoelle5221 Před měsícem +8

      @@yourfavoritenetcitizen6525 yeah look now the Olympics are a joke!

    • @shondra6
      @shondra6 Před měsícem +3

      Yes they did in fact. 👍🏻

  • @janetpersons7647
    @janetpersons7647 Před měsícem +37

    Thank you Amy. So mellow. Super chill. And thank you for keeping it cute and classy in your interpretation of us women. Much appreciated.

  • @misacruzader
    @misacruzader Před 22 dny +9

    He seems to be on the verge of tears for the entire interview, voice shuddering. He must be terrified to be revealing this part of himself, but he should have no shame. He's absolutely gorgeous. I have an ex who was such a pretty man and I remember he told me he was ordering a maid outfit and I got so excited, but he never wore it for me. I think there's a separation, secretive, private element to being a CD.

  • @revolutionary_evolution
    @revolutionary_evolution Před měsícem +42

    Wow... He's beautiful. Simply stunning! Love love love your makeup. You did such an excellent job. Can't say it enough... GORGEOUS. 💖💖💖

  • @FLBeautyQueen
    @FLBeautyQueen Před měsícem +11

    As long as she doesn’t speak, Amy definitely passed as a beautiful young lady⭐️❤️💕

    • @liivikasaarman995
      @liivikasaarman995 Před 22 dny

      Except hands - gestures are gentle but hands hint the guy who goes gym

  • @margaretchiotti
    @margaretchiotti Před měsícem +23

    How great that he can be himself. And how fantastic he has a wife that can support his freedom. That it is true love. ❤

  • @JenniferKowack-m5e
    @JenniferKowack-m5e Před 22 dny +6

    Such a beautiful person! His soft spoken voice had me in a trance. Very beautiful as a woman. Would loved to have seen him dressed as a man. Hope to see Amy again. Great interview! 🫶🏻

  • @chaos-fk6fs
    @chaos-fk6fs Před měsícem +100

    Perfect example of a „normal freak“. Love the channel for humanizing different life styles.

    • @user-rw8rc3yp9d
      @user-rw8rc3yp9d Před měsícem +1

      🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

    • @leneo1731
      @leneo1731 Před měsícem +8

      What defines normal these days, really?
      And is it really a goal to be normal?
      The way I interpret normal, it's boring because normal means people are all the same.
      I don't want to be normal or regular.
      I want to be original and stand out!

    • @sonie4208
      @sonie4208 Před měsícem +6

      Just a thought but If you loved humanizing people and the work this channel does, I don’t think you should be calling anyone a freak. At the end of the day, people are just that, people. Normality is a societal construct and not everyone fits into a box. That doesn’t make them a freak, it just means they’ve lived a difference experience you don’t understand.

    • @chaos-fk6fs
      @chaos-fk6fs Před měsícem +4

      @@sonie4208 you clearly don’t understand the meaning of „“. I already registered that some try to twist my words but I’m not for games like that. We are all normal in the same way like we are all freaks no matter where we come from or how we look that’s exactly the point I was making.

    • @southphillylilly
      @southphillylilly Před měsícem +3

      @@chaos-fk6fs you can say what you want, but calling somebody a freak has never had positive connotations. I'm sure if you were to call Amy a freak to her face, it wouldn't be appreciated.

  • @sn1000k
    @sn1000k Před měsícem +37

    Can't believe people can't believe he's straight. I'm a CD and it's kind of all about appreciation for women. I'm not gay in the least. It's just, like he said, liking looking different ways. It's fun.

  • @SoldierOfLoveForNow
    @SoldierOfLoveForNow Před měsícem +25

    Why is he is so GORGEOUS ??

    • @Србомбоница86
      @Србомбоница86 Před 28 dny

      He isn't ??maybe it's a western culture thing but omg no ,he isn't pretty

    • @zeo3947
      @zeo3947 Před 10 dny

      @@Србомбоница86look at yourself in the mirror before talking on someone else’s looks please

    • @Србомбоница86
      @Србомбоница86 Před 10 dny

      @@zeo3947 well I am pretty to myself

  • @WorldInformerGuy
    @WorldInformerGuy Před měsícem +20

    this dude seems super chill

  • @mrgoosyloosy
    @mrgoosyloosy Před měsícem +119

    Getting Ariana Grande on is impressive!

  • @mariechosgaire6984
    @mariechosgaire6984 Před měsícem +65

    He looks 100 times more of a woman than I do. People think I am trans and it's awful. Fair play to him.

    • @crazycatladyjo2688
      @crazycatladyjo2688 Před měsícem +10

      I'm sorry.

    • @margaretwebb389
      @margaretwebb389 Před měsícem +11

      I am sorry to hear that! Give them the finger! We are so judged!

    • @julieharden8671
      @julieharden8671 Před měsícem +9

      I am so sorry.. Some people suck

    • @kanstrand
      @kanstrand Před měsícem +10

      When i had really short hair, i was called sir and him all the time, it really embarrassed me - like my boobs are huge, how would anyone think I’m a dude? LOL

    • @pottymouth9891
      @pottymouth9891 Před měsícem

      This is what people mean when they say transphobia hurts EVERYONE. Including cis-gender people.

  • @BILLBRAZIL100
    @BILLBRAZIL100 Před měsícem +59

    Body language is my thing and he can tells me a lot . He kept his legs crossed in the same position the entire interview. His hands always in contact (only) over his right thigh. The eye contact (only ) happens when Mark asks him questions. He is the only interviewee that keeps the same body position the longest. I watch every video here and Annalise body language. I have never seeing a crossdresser looking like a female naturally . For everyone out there be happy no matter what your decision may be in like . Be yourself don’t get hurt and don’t hurt others . Peace and love

    • @Amazingme17
      @Amazingme17 Před měsícem

      Interesting. From what I'm seeing is him being in touch with his femininity.

    • @livesofluxuries
      @livesofluxuries Před měsícem +10

      What does it tell you.. not sure what you’re saying. To me he’s just nervous. Like he said he only does this in private sexual settings. Never out to public. This is a 5 million viewer subscriber channel on CZcams.

    • @blakasmurf
      @blakasmurf Před měsícem +3

      @@livesofluxuries Yeah I don't get what they were exactly saying either. But I think @Amazingme17 is right they've definitely practiced feminine body language add on top of that nervous it's like he's fell into his femininity even more. Most guys would probably be arms folded, legs down but not too far apart. He's sitting in with a feminine crossed leg and hands together in lap for over 30 minutes so there's that

    • @hannahmitchell87
      @hannahmitchell87 Před měsícem

      What are you interpreting from the body language you described?
      Also, do you watch the Behavioral Arts? Highly recommend!

    • @dotsylvain1094
      @dotsylvain1094 Před měsícem

      Maybe he was nervous, dummy

  • @wesleyalan9179
    @wesleyalan9179 Před měsícem +49

    Very cool. I'd like to see him back in his male form for an interview. Thanks, Amy/ Mark🤘

    • @LisaJohnson-dx1dp
      @LisaJohnson-dx1dp Před měsícem +1

      So like, do you like, really like, the way he like, talks? haaaahaaa

    • @wesleyalan9179
      @wesleyalan9179 Před měsícem +2

      @@LisaJohnson-dx1dp
      Like... totally 😅

    • @TheScotian82
      @TheScotian82 Před měsícem

      wellll maybe not "very" cool....

    • @wesleyalan9179
      @wesleyalan9179 Před měsícem

      @@TheScotian82
      Well, I say very cool to just about anything, lol

  • @kimpacker1632
    @kimpacker1632 Před měsícem +11

    I love how his tattoos peak thru the sheer shirt. He looks great!

  • @badcassandra2915
    @badcassandra2915 Před měsícem +86

    I feel like he has a lot of anxiety. He sounds so hesitant about everything

    • @catherinepraus8635
      @catherinepraus8635 Před měsícem +12

      Do you blame him

    • @nellyfarmer3053
      @nellyfarmer3053 Před měsícem +23

      He’s also a little breathless because his corset is so tight.

    • @badcassandra2915
      @badcassandra2915 Před měsícem +2

      @@nellyfarmer3053 yes, that could be part of it

    • @dawnatilla2469
      @dawnatilla2469 Před měsícem +7

      nah..you are def misreading...an anxious man does not come out on the internet as a crossdresser and discuss personal life details in front of the snake pit that is CZcams comment threads..it takes balls and reserve..inner strength. What you are hearing is a slight vocal fry. he appears quite relaxed.

    • @JackLalane-yt4iu
      @JackLalane-yt4iu Před měsícem +1

      Excellent psychological diagnostic assessment 🩺.

  • @robliguori6988
    @robliguori6988 Před měsícem +17

    I appreciate this guy s openness and honesty. I respect it.

  • @Dinah92
    @Dinah92 Před 22 dny +3

    It’s interesting he said he had a lot of anger issues and one would never pick up on that. He said doing this helped him with that. I think there is more he is not saying and it would be nice to see what his wife or girlfriend of 1 year has to say if he is open to that. He is a fascinating person. Also what he does for work. Thanks Mark again for finding someone unique to interview.

  • @Onemillionbucks
    @Onemillionbucks Před 29 dny +3

    Honestly he's gorgeous and doesn't look awkward or unattractive in this interview at all!

  • @user-fr2hv3ip6f
    @user-fr2hv3ip6f Před měsícem +47

    I almost find the comment board more interesting than the subject. The fact that other people can have such an emotional reaction to a man wearing women's clothes just shows that the "weirdness" is not confined to Amy. If the topic was someone who liked to wear tuxedos to casual events or dress up in Halloween costumes every two weeks, it's hard to imagine the same level of vitriol that some commenters have here. Also interesting how many people need to insist he is gay, like it eases their cognitive dissonance to put him in this box they've set up. I would think it would be a lot easier to admit you're gay in this day and age - indeed, "A Gay Man" wouldn't begin to make the cut for this channel...

    • @miroz5824
      @miroz5824 Před měsícem +5

      *Thank you* for this comment!

    • @user-fr2hv3ip6f
      @user-fr2hv3ip6f Před měsícem +5

      @@lvr8429 See, that is really interesting to me...of course one can distinguish the difference, but the point is that one invokes a strong emotional response in some people. When you say "can't distinguish," I suspect you mean "don't have a strong emotional reaction" between the two...in which case yes, I hope it does speak volumes about me.

    • @crazycatladyjo2688
      @crazycatladyjo2688 Před měsícem

      I know. Right? I have always heard that most cross dressers are straight but who that isn't related or married to them cares?

    • @Ichthys42
      @Ichthys42 Před měsícem

      ​@@user-fr2hv3ip6f it speaks to a corroded sense of decency.

  • @sableallison7685
    @sableallison7685 Před 16 dny +2

    omg this is so relatable to my experience! Honestly this gives me so much validation. My particular motives for crossdressing and the way I've integrated it into my life are very much like what this person is describing. I'm not trans or gay, I'm simply a crossdresser, and yes there is a sexual component to it, and it's absolutely ok. I'm also around the same age. So cool to find some accurate representation, makes me feel a little less like a freak.

  • @GCzene
    @GCzene Před 6 dny +3

    I knew a deeply closeted, deeply conflicted CD'er. I wish so much that they had the self-acceptance that Amy has.

  • @maryandrews2265
    @maryandrews2265 Před měsícem +7

    Amy - Thank you. That was such an honest and interesting interview. And you’re beautiful. Enjoy your life sweetheart!

  • @gbrooks_1187
    @gbrooks_1187 Před měsícem +4

    Amy was nervous, but they did amazing . It's a process to live happily. Its worth it though.

  • @roode8413
    @roode8413 Před měsícem +24

    Really enjoyed this video. It would be great to see a video with his transformation from start to finish

    • @TheScotian82
      @TheScotian82 Před měsícem +2

      yea wouldnt that be nice to experiment with a guys life for your entertainment

    • @SoftWhiteUnderbelly
      @SoftWhiteUnderbelly  Před měsícem

      czcams.com/video/sItLOK0WXPE/video.htmlsi=y1HmJ5kkLMH9hefe

  • @fionarobins4958
    @fionarobins4958 Před měsícem +7

    In the 4yrs ive been watching Mark's channel ive never felt confused when seeing the thumbnail for an interview until today,as i saw amys picture in the thumbnail ithought "how can a woman be a crossdresser???🥴&then as the interveiw started&amy opened her mouth to speak it hit me,"crikey how can a man look so much like a girl".
    Id love to see what Amy looks like as a dude,i have so much respect &admiration for anyone who is living the way they want to,Thank u Mark for introducing us to another unique individual.....😊💜🫶🇬🇧

  • @Ezada
    @Ezada Před 20 dny +1

    This is a wonderful interview. Thank you, Iris, for mentioning it on your page.

  • @ericspeltier
    @ericspeltier Před měsícem +9

    It's important that people hear that you CAN be a CD, and, simultaneously hetero. Thank you for opening up.

  • @gaelmacpherson7392
    @gaelmacpherson7392 Před měsícem +26

    Melbourne Australia had the Seahorse Club mid 1980's for cross dressers. I had friends with boutique clothing business. They developed a good relationship with group. Fashion parade with wives and girlfriends.

  • @janetpersons7647
    @janetpersons7647 Před měsícem +11

    In the early 80's I had a nail salon and two of my clients crossdressed. They were not gay and were married with kids. Both had wives that were fine with it. They crossdressed periodically and I did the long nails for them. One told me he enjoyed it as a stress release. He was a successful businessman. Your guest reminds me of them. Just kinda chill low key doing it. Androgyny used to be like that too. People just did it. It was artsy and interesting. And of course the glam rock hair bands. They pushed the boundaries.

    • @glenda4utoo
      @glenda4utoo Před 22 dny +2

      80's bands were all cross dressers

  • @jumanaalomary7895
    @jumanaalomary7895 Před 6 dny

    I don’t know if it’s just me but the way he talks is very peaceful and feels safe. I can listen to him all day

  • @anacc3257
    @anacc3257 Před měsícem +7

    3:14 That direct question😂😂

  • @NLin-fx8ib
    @NLin-fx8ib Před 23 dny +2

    He does not hurt anyone with this. He is super lovely. Live and let live.

  • @dime4026
    @dime4026 Před měsícem +41

    Hi Amy. I hope you find happiness and joy in your life.

  • @Hercules372
    @Hercules372 Před 27 dny +6

    Would have appreciated photos of him in his male appearance

  • @ziggy8757
    @ziggy8757 Před měsícem +45

    I dont sense a strong conviction when he says hes not gay.... hmmm

    • @avalondreaming1433
      @avalondreaming1433 Před měsícem +5

      He seems extremely frightened.

    • @OKBoomer2k
      @OKBoomer2k Před měsícem +18

      I'm sure having a camera on him adds to the uncomfortable feeling.

    • @millasboo
      @millasboo Před měsícem +2

      ⁠@@avalondreaming1433no i doubt that more likely she’s trying to find herself fully. They’re a CD so she might be trying figure out if she wants to continue being a cd

    • @jimmyjump8335
      @jimmyjump8335 Před měsícem +2

      he aint dudein too hard with those eyebrows

    • @Emzzz78
      @Emzzz78 Před měsícem

      @@millasboohe*

  • @Hercules372
    @Hercules372 Před 27 dny +4

    He’s a very gentle mature spirit

  • @skryp2415
    @skryp2415 Před měsícem +29

    This really isnt abnormal...and its not new..outfits are fun and makeup is art ..its creative and fun and you can feel free...we all live one time..do what ya want

    • @Groundedsquirrel
      @Groundedsquirrel Před měsícem

      Women are “allowed”
      so much more freedom in how we adorn ourselves with fabrics, metals, paints and locks. I often feel I’d be jealous of all that freedom were I male.

  • @tinerea7464
    @tinerea7464 Před měsícem +77

    I feel there is something a bit off here. Hes not being completely honest about something. 🤔🇨🇦

    • @millasboo
      @millasboo Před měsícem +18

      Why the Canadian flag?

    • @kristenharden3157
      @kristenharden3157 Před měsícem +7

      I agree

    • @fireflyflyhigh
      @fireflyflyhigh Před měsícem +6

      ​@@millasboo
      🇩🇪

    • @k-lashnikova0078
      @k-lashnikova0078 Před měsícem +3

      @@millasboo😂😂 for real

    • @ahley333
      @ahley333 Před měsícem +14

      you sound prejudiced,, he just sounds uncomfortable. i dont imagine its easy talking about this with some normal guy
      i also doubt they have much in common

  • @life_withl
    @life_withl Před měsícem +15

    Acceptance is key, especially the way you broke it down with self awareness… I personally am plain as vanilla 😂 - however I appreciate you sharing.

  • @spiralvoid45
    @spiralvoid45 Před 13 dny +1

    it's nice to see interviews like this, Amy seems like a really chill and down to earth person, we need more gender-bendy people like this doing interviews to help remove the shame and stigma of feminine males. There's nothing wrong with it. Keep being YOU!!

  • @gabbygirl7765
    @gabbygirl7765 Před měsícem +32

    im willing to bet we are missing the whole other half of this story.

    • @parisa5014
      @parisa5014 Před 28 dny +9

      YEP... I am dying to hear from his wife! Look up his socials, he lied about the extent of all of this to such an extreme. It is not what he painted it out to be.

    • @mascottie
      @mascottie Před 24 dny +8

      @@parisa5014what did he lie about? What’s his social media accounts? I don’t know his name

    • @thatswhatsup0493
      @thatswhatsup0493 Před 21 dnem

      ​@@parisa5014 how'd you find his socials? How do you know he lied ? 😮

    • @Ginger_Popp
      @Ginger_Popp Před 20 dny

      @@parisa5014whaaaat? Where are the socials? Spill the tea!

    • @parisa5014
      @parisa5014 Před 7 dny

      @@Ginger_Popp also he has a "sissification" fetish, this is not simply a crossdressing thing. He calls himself a "sissy". If he is straight I also don't understand why he seeks compliments from other men (not women) all over the internet and speaks sexually with them

  • @mommapancakess
    @mommapancakess Před měsícem +19

    I respect that he admits that it's a sexual thing! I don't respect that other people try to get him to go out in public doing/wearing what he himself considers to be a sexual thing. It's not okay for society to push people to do what those people consider to be sexual in public. This opens the door wide for autogynephilic behavior in women's spaces. Be careful what you wish for ladies. No everyone is as respectful and lovely and honest as Amy.

    • @njlauren
      @njlauren Před měsícem

      Oh, please,stop it. Autogynophelia as an explanation for trans women is bunk, pure and simple, it is terf nonsense to try and demean them. Amy is a fetishistic CD, which is fine, but don't use that to try and justify trans phobia, it is bs.

  • @pswer1600
    @pswer1600 Před měsícem +43

    Bring on the girlfriend and wife with him in an interview.

  • @jenayacouture59
    @jenayacouture59 Před 6 dny +1

    I can relate to so much she said. Thank you for sharing. 💓

  • @izzydeadyet7336
    @izzydeadyet7336 Před měsícem +85

    I had my kids with a man who dressed in women’s underwear under his clothes.. otherwise no one would suspect it of him.. I used to think it was funny I could find women’s underwear in his drawer and not worry he was cheating but that they were his! And he always does a 360 when a well dressed woman walks by, because he’s checking out the outfit! But he’s almost gotten his ass kicked by men because of it

    • @ColinPatrickWeiss
      @ColinPatrickWeiss Před měsícem

      would be funny if he was playing 4D chess, and cheated all the time and loved to steal every one of his affairs undies and sniff them after the fact and you bought this story of his. lmao.

    • @Idiot-lf4cj
      @Idiot-lf4cj Před měsícem

      maybe I am prejudiced: hard to believe, that it is only the underwear??? underwear is more like a symptom, hint that there is more? just curious to ask!

    • @Goddid7733
      @Goddid7733 Před měsícem +12

      bro....

    • @candieland4276
      @candieland4276 Před měsícem +23

      um...you know he's gay, right!?

    • @user-rw8rc3yp9d
      @user-rw8rc3yp9d Před měsícem +14

      seek mental help

  • @jacobwheeler6136
    @jacobwheeler6136 Před měsícem +2

    He explains it so well... I stopped purging because it's very expensive

  • @mikeolly67
    @mikeolly67 Před měsícem +21

    This is confusing. So he says it is sexual but he’s not gay, he also says it’s visual. So I wonder if it’s like he’s creating in himself what he finds attractive in a woman?
    If I just saw a picture, I’d never guess this was a man.
    He’s not hurting anyone and seems very level headed, so it’s not anyone’s business .

    • @nessal4078
      @nessal4078 Před měsícem +8

      I don’t think he’s gay. Sexuality is really different in everyone and it’s not a new thing I’m 37 and growing up we had a family friend in his 40s who was a cross dresser but completely attracted to women. It’s self expression and sexuality

    • @millasboo
      @millasboo Před měsícem +3

      @@nessal4078exactly it might just be a self gratification type of sexual thing more so gynophilla as they’re grossly attracted towards the feminine aspect of their bodies and others. Amy is gorgeous and they do their makeup very well.

    • @akhiltrc9708
      @akhiltrc9708 Před měsícem +8

      I think the label is Autogynophilia.

    • @kthatrapqueen
      @kthatrapqueen Před měsícem

      He's an autogynephilic

    • @0remor
      @0remor Před měsícem +7

      He mentions it being for his own male gaze of the ideal woman.

  • @salepass1575
    @salepass1575 Před měsícem +13

    If we are okay with women wearing pants, so why men cant wear dresses?

    • @kellianderson9890
      @kellianderson9890 Před měsícem +3

      Yes, many women dress in men's clothes. I love to be feminine and wear dresses, etc. - but, I also, enjoy a good simple masculine outfit. Still waiting for an event to wear a tux!

    • @SoldierOfLoveForNow
      @SoldierOfLoveForNow Před měsícem +1

      Double standards ,Hypocrisy, mixed with delusion

    • @mariaportas5401
      @mariaportas5401 Před měsícem

      When women wear pants I don't think they get sexually aroused

    • @Noobkaibot
      @Noobkaibot Před 22 dny

      How did this joke go over both these peoples heads? Good lord.

  • @user-pr8ib1sh8v
    @user-pr8ib1sh8v Před měsícem +107

    Thought it was a beautiful girl until he opened his mouth and a man’s voice appeared.

    • @nme.00104
      @nme.00104 Před měsícem +4

      did too,

    • @shibby1998
      @shibby1998 Před měsícem +14

      does not negate the fact they
      is beautiful

    • @DARKINBLADE.
      @DARKINBLADE. Před měsícem +2

      @@shibby1998Actually it does.

    • @anacc3257
      @anacc3257 Před měsícem

      @@DARKINBLADE. A little.

    • @SW107love
      @SW107love Před měsícem

      He is a man what do you expect!!😂

  • @suestoll9571
    @suestoll9571 Před měsícem +6

    He looks really pretty and I like his style. This seems normal and fun to me. He's not trying to body modify and not even gay.
    Love him! ❤️

  • @LivingLifeAwake
    @LivingLifeAwake Před 18 dny +1

    I work at a hospital and we have a person who dresses in and out of both genders wigs and dresses to baggy pants and hoodies and it’s beautiful to see their freedom

  • @KBarraza
    @KBarraza Před měsícem +12

    He is beautiful! GIRRRL those lashes, smile, clear skin AND healthy hair 💅🏼✨💖

  • @Lila-BeamMeUpAlready
    @Lila-BeamMeUpAlready Před 22 dny +2

    If Amy had YT TikTok , Amy would be quite popular. I’d like to see Amy’s male fashion also.

  • @jeanjustice5924
    @jeanjustice5924 Před měsícem +9

    Would love a interview from his wife .

  • @ValC-vn5vl
    @ValC-vn5vl Před měsícem +4

    Not cool to hide something, especially like this from your spouse. They are people too, with their own personal beliefs and opinions.

  • @lauralee9694
    @lauralee9694 Před měsícem +2

    This human is fascinating, great interview Mark.

  • @CocoaBunnie2009
    @CocoaBunnie2009 Před 6 dny

    He seems like the sweetest guy ever 🖤 his wife is so lucky

  • @SebastianKrabs
    @SebastianKrabs Před měsícem +22

    Folks might not like it, but this is what peak masculinity looks like. No cap. 🚫🧢

    • @mysticmisfit777
      @mysticmisfit777 Před měsícem +8

      I hope you're kidding...

    • @LimoneneDaddy
      @LimoneneDaddy Před měsícem +1

      *Trump supporters currently losing their shit, scrambling trying to come up with the most 13 yr old tough kid response to this tomfoolery posted on this Liberal channel* 😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂😅😂 *mentions guns and something about an ammendment, but then just breaks down into how much they hate women and scared of black/hispanic people they are*

    • @markwilliams2006
      @markwilliams2006 Před měsícem

      Yeah he definitely likes BBC sissy videos

    • @SaintLoser314
      @SaintLoser314 Před měsícem +3

      True. Doing what feels right and not letting peoples judgments and hang ups get in the way

    • @TheScotian82
      @TheScotian82 Před měsícem +2

      lmfao K bud.

  • @merextas
    @merextas Před 20 dny

    So happy to see that people are so supportive and positive on here. Absolutely loved this interview ❤🙌

  • @917hazel
    @917hazel Před měsícem +10

    The comments always say more about the person commenting than the one they are commenting on.
    If someone makes me feel uncomfortable, I look at myself first. Learn a lot about myself that way.
    Thanks for this interview💫

  • @amandaill
    @amandaill Před 11 dny

    This is great. Thank you so much for sharing and to Amy for doing this and being out there. An inspiration!

  • @ktrain-hj6jm
    @ktrain-hj6jm Před měsícem +4

    He’s beautiful dressed as a girl and looks like he’s a gorgeous man. Definitely sounds gorgeous!

  • @Ginger_Popp
    @Ginger_Popp Před 20 dny +1

    Cross dressing is something I have struggled to understand so this was interesting for me. Trans gender women makes sense to me but this for me has always been so much more mysterious. The concept that he’s not gay and not trans but enjoys dressing like this is so interesting.

  • @shibby1998
    @shibby1998 Před měsícem +3

    I want to hug her...or him or whatever they identify as !!!!! I can hear the raw emotion from the very beginning . Hope he or she feels so free after this and goes home to wifey and just remains happy and unashamed

  • @starryvacancy
    @starryvacancy Před 22 dny

    You're so open and soft and honest...it's so refreshing and beautiful. So in awe of you Amy!

  • @aaronarmstrongaa
    @aaronarmstrongaa Před měsícem +36

    Poor guy is soooo nervous.

    • @autumnnoelle5221
      @autumnnoelle5221 Před měsícem

      stop babying grown men pathetic

    • @tangie06_33
      @tangie06_33 Před měsícem +2

      He sounds like he's holding his breath. Almost afraid to say something.

    • @autumnnoelle5221
      @autumnnoelle5221 Před měsícem

      quit babying grown men it's pathetic

    • @annikajohansson9171
      @annikajohansson9171 Před měsícem

      I've seen worse...lips shaking, etc. I think he's doing great

  • @prokesuk
    @prokesuk Před měsícem +2

    "hundreds of years ago" Within Mark's lifetime a person could be arrested for dressing as the opposite sex. Not to mention the violence that one could encounter.

  • @Monique-d6k
    @Monique-d6k Před měsícem +22

    I have a lot of respect for this guy

    • @LisaJohnson-dx1dp
      @LisaJohnson-dx1dp Před měsícem +3

      So like, do you like, really like, the way he like, talks? haaaahaaa

    • @Monique-d6k
      @Monique-d6k Před měsícem

      @@LisaJohnson-dx1dp for the fact he doesn’t go out in public with his dick out like Rebecca and does it inside a studio

    • @TheScotian82
      @TheScotian82 Před měsícem

      K.
      Im sure he would occupy a spot in your friend zone

    • @SoldierOfLoveForNow
      @SoldierOfLoveForNow Před měsícem +1

      Same

  • @Julie-cd5pz
    @Julie-cd5pz Před dnem

    Very beautiful person. Her talking style and cadence kept reminding me of the way Elon Musk talks. She seems very smart and yet laid back at the same time. Love it.

  • @Bear5177
    @Bear5177 Před měsícem +5

    What a lovely person! Thank you for sharing!

  • @denebrhodes8135
    @denebrhodes8135 Před 22 dny

    Gotta thank Amy for having the courage

  • @InstantKarma313
    @InstantKarma313 Před měsícem +9

    Have a good day Mark.

  • @marieevelyndunlap
    @marieevelyndunlap Před měsícem +2

    I graduated from high school in the early 1970's. At the after grad party, one of my male friends and I switched outfits part way through the evening. He wore my Scarlett O'Hara, Gone With the Wind, style dress and I wore his tuxedo. We were so matter of fact about it that no one knew what to do with us. We both had a curiosity about cross dressing and I still don't see anything wrong with that. It hurts no one. I would love to see another interview with Amy ... perhaps with his wife or the dominatrix. That would be very cool.

  • @LoloO42
    @LoloO42 Před měsícem +6

    Very, very pretty. Great style, too. The only thing I find weird is that he's in an open relationship and married. Why get married? That's just a financial partnership.

    • @TheScotian82
      @TheScotian82 Před měsícem

      You f'n women need to stop encouraging this 💩

    • @annikajohansson9171
      @annikajohansson9171 Před měsícem

      I've heard it argued it's more spiritually evolved. No jealousy, etc

    • @chanelhardy1841
      @chanelhardy1841 Před 22 dny

      That part didn't surprise me at all, and is usually the case with taboo lifestyles. It's kind of discouraging tho, because I'd love to see people like this in monogamous relationships. But I never do. Wouldn't be surprised if his wife is queer.

    • @vigridr7614
      @vigridr7614 Před 5 dny

      I'd be very surprised if the wife is real, but maybe I'm the weird one for that.