Hangovers for Introverts

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  • čas přidán 21. 08. 2024

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  • @DidrickNamtvedt
    @DidrickNamtvedt Před 2 lety +82

    Literally me after every social event I take part in. I relate so deeply to this.

    • @pennyp7382
      @pennyp7382 Před rokem

      Just stay away from everyone then. This attitude is so selfish and gross. I get it.. but to take so much pride in being the center of the universe is incredibly me me me at the core.

    • @DidrickNamtvedt
      @DidrickNamtvedt Před rokem +2

      @@pennyp7382 I didn't say I never socialize because I do, and I definitely enjoy socializing but it can also wear me out quicker than what the case is for extroverts. And that's the thing about us introverts that needs to be understood: We don't hate people and we also don't view ourselves as the center of the universe (I certainly don't view myself as such) so to accuse every introvert out there of being self absorbed and narcissistic is just really ignorant in my opinion. Us introverts are as different as people in general. Some are more outgoing than others but we generally need more alone-time than extroverts and that's perfectly okay. It doesn't thereby mean that we think the world revovlves around us, it certainly does not.

    • @pennyp7382
      @pennyp7382 Před rokem

      @@DidrickNamtvedt OK. Why are you explaining yourself to me.

    • @pennyp7382
      @pennyp7382 Před rokem

      @@DidrickNamtvedt Thanks for the breakdown. I get it. I'm an introverted human with extraordinary people skills lol. ✨️ Here is your chill 💊. 😎

    • @pennyp7382
      @pennyp7382 Před rokem

      @@DidrickNamtvedt Yes..You're special. You are standing up for something you aren't. Introverts...true introverts would never try and prove a point 👉 to a stranger on the WWW.

  • @DB20204
    @DB20204 Před 2 lety +52

    OMG! So true!! I agreed to a weekend of family hiking. While my family knows I'm an introvert, they don't understand how draining it is. I was exhausted afterwards. They were shocked, since I'm an avid runner and in better shape than them. I had to explain that a 10 mile hike is no problem, but the 60 minute car ride where I had to make polite conversation had me crashing.

    • @jessieelliott3157
      @jessieelliott3157 Před 2 lety +3

      Exactly. Its the car ride with other people that i would avoid at all costs. My husbands like just jump in with us for the 2 day trip or come camping with us and sleep in our tent. Im crying inside because the holiday has become more stressful than i can endure.

    • @kmarch6630
      @kmarch6630 Před 2 lety +1

      Tell us you think you're all that without telling us you think you're all that.

    • @pennyp7382
      @pennyp7382 Před rokem

      The term is wayyy overused. You're just a too good B. It's exhausting for you to compare yourself to them. You constantly have to "be" someone else around people...MOST PEOPLE THAT IDENTIFY AS AN "INTROVERT" ARE REALLY JUST FAF. FAKE AS FUCK.

    • @pennyp7382
      @pennyp7382 Před rokem

      @@jessieelliott3157 What a pathetic mindset. 😒 Most "introverts" are just bitches. Entitled..whiney...me me me. Introverts are just so wrapped up in themselves...how dare you 😤 😫. Then the second they are left alone...we know what happens next....PAY ATTENTION TO ME.....IF YOU IDENTIFY AS AN "INTROVERT" YOU'RE JUST A SELFISH TOO GOOD.

  • @karenblohm3279
    @karenblohm3279 Před 2 lety +38

    I feel that way with people, too. I like being with people but my anxiety goes up from the noise of chatting.

    • @daynamorris2399
      @daynamorris2399 Před 11 měsíci

      Maybe you should get checked for sensory processing disorder

  • @clairekurdelak2913
    @clairekurdelak2913 Před 2 lety +11

    High school graduation this past weekend! Several nice parties, and by the end the introverts were all saying this! Several people I didn’t guess to be introverted, too. It doesn’t mean we don’t like people or can’t socialize, it just means we neeeed recovery time!

  • @jayes8191
    @jayes8191 Před 2 lety +10

    OMG yes, this is so me. I LOVED quarantine! ☺️

    • @pennyp7382
      @pennyp7382 Před rokem

      That's gross. You need to learn people skills. I never went in quarantine or locked down...not once..

  • @ashleychapman615
    @ashleychapman615 Před 2 lety +17

    I need to be alone for at least a week after a family get together, lol

  • @earthstar7534
    @earthstar7534 Před 2 lety +8

    My poor husband has been accused of treating me some sort of way because I'm a power introvert and he knows talking for me sometimes makes it easier when people play 20 questions with me. I just don't like to talk and talk. My husband loves to talk. Let our extroverts absorb some of the blow without assuming I'm being bulldozed lol

  • @gammeldansk1
    @gammeldansk1 Před 2 lety +35

    I call those social hangovers xD

  • @PWeb89
    @PWeb89 Před 2 lety +14

    So true! My friends didn’t understand why I didn’t want to hang out this weekend but I had a big week last week! Between work and helping out with VBS in the evenings I was sooooo DONE with people! But this week should be a bit quieter!

  • @debsnamhtor1700
    @debsnamhtor1700 Před 2 lety +4

    This!!! I often enjoy making connections and yet I find it sooooo draining

  • @shannonrobb5608
    @shannonrobb5608 Před 2 lety +3

    People hangover! Ive been there alot lately with returning back to the office

  • @donsoil4president376
    @donsoil4president376 Před 2 lety +8

    You guys were so much fun on the Amazing Race!!!👍👍

  • @timeenuf4200
    @timeenuf4200 Před 2 lety +3

    I so understand. I have to conduct kids art classes for 2 hours three times a week and while it's on so am I. After I crash and sometime shed a tiny tear.

  • @jen-heartofglass7339
    @jen-heartofglass7339 Před 2 lety +2

    So true. The stress leaves me exhausted 🤣

  • @KellyGoodnow
    @KellyGoodnow Před 2 lety +2

    HAHA! So relatable! I LOVE watching your videos! Number 1 fan!

  • @justanothertiredmom4
    @justanothertiredmom4 Před 2 lety +2

    So completely true!! There is more than one kind of hangover.

  • @barbara-jothompson8369
    @barbara-jothompson8369 Před 2 lety +1

    Hehehe. Watched this whilst hibernating in the hotel room after telling friends I can’t hang out. Spent the day meeting new people. So exhausting

  • @lourar.2800
    @lourar.2800 Před 2 lety +2

    Omg I thought this was just me😆
    Thank you for sharing this

  • @HopesAdventuresYT
    @HopesAdventuresYT Před 2 lety +2

    Lol so true!!!
    500th like
    Keep up the amazing work

  • @sandymills.27
    @sandymills.27 Před 2 lety +6

    So true!

  • @TheFyinews
    @TheFyinews Před 2 lety +2

    Having social anxiety I totally know what you're saying

  • @patriciadurham643
    @patriciadurham643 Před 2 lety +2

    It definitely is exhausting!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @artfuldodger870
    @artfuldodger870 Před 2 lety +2

    I can totally relate. I'm a people person but only with people I know and feel comfortable. But even then, I'm exhausted sometimes and the visit needs to be for short periods of time. It has gotten worse for me with age & I'm 57.

  • @YoMateo.
    @YoMateo. Před 2 lety +16

    Whoever’s reading this, I pray that whatever your going through gets better and whatever your struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day! Amen::

  • @whofandb
    @whofandb Před 2 lety +1

    This is what happens to me after a social event. I can barely wake up and I just want to sleep.

  • @highlysensitiveforestgreen2096

    Unless I'm with people I really like very much, I'm not much of a people person either. I didn't even mind quarantine very much. I missed going to the library and the forested backyard at Climping, but *otherwise I enjoyed my quarantine period very much* (the day after Memorial Day through June 7). I had the internet and Harry Potter books to entertain me.

  • @KM-lu7nh
    @KM-lu7nh Před 2 lety +1

    Truth. Exhausting 😩

  • @Songdaddy
    @Songdaddy Před 2 lety +2

    OMG this was me Sunday. My youngest son graduated on Saturday and all the people.

  • @Ashes_to_Ashes628
    @Ashes_to_Ashes628 Před 2 lety +1

    This is me. Lol I'm literally exhausted after having to talk to much and interact with people.

  • @AfterCoffeeWithJess
    @AfterCoffeeWithJess Před 2 lety +1

    finally someone understands me

  • @roszainclaassen9746
    @roszainclaassen9746 Před 2 lety

    Me every time! You speak to my soul❤️

  • @gaylemiller7090
    @gaylemiller7090 Před 2 lety +2

    Totally agree!

  • @doreebaker-newbery9597
    @doreebaker-newbery9597 Před 2 lety +2

    I totally get it!

  • @mayanelson980
    @mayanelson980 Před rokem

    As an introvert, I totally agree.

  • @nataliecruz1280
    @nataliecruz1280 Před 2 lety

    Ain’t that the truth! Lol it takes time to recover the energy level.

  • @BengaliBonita
    @BengaliBonita Před 2 lety +1

    Lololol story of my life 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @a.m.a.484
    @a.m.a.484 Před 2 lety +1

    L❤️VE THIS!!!! 🙌

  • @kmarch6630
    @kmarch6630 Před 2 lety +1

    I have people hangovers too.

  • @zaynamoore
    @zaynamoore Před 3 měsíci

    Not me, if I'm hungover I definitely drank, but my adult daughter. Even when she was a teen and did sleepovers, she'd come home a disappear for a day or two just to process and unwind.

  • @oscarthomas9130
    @oscarthomas9130 Před 2 lety +2

    Crawl up in bed with soft pillows and comforters,take some aspirin and ibuprofen,sip some tomato juice or hot green tea,go sleep and be lazy for 2 days. Just Do It America !!!

  • @cherylcarlson3315
    @cherylcarlson3315 Před 2 lety +1

    just had to go get new car battery have covid test and stopped at local grocery, so don't want to deal with people for WEEKS but must have one interaction tomorrow and several Wednesday.. gonna take all my grit to do it.

  • @margaretmroz6039
    @margaretmroz6039 Před 2 lety +1

    Yes, that is me

  • @aspieangel1988
    @aspieangel1988 Před 2 lety

    Lol 😂 in my case I get a hangover for extroverts. If I’m alone, I get an extrovert hangover because I crave attention and it feels like I’m suffocating when I can’t go out 😂

  • @jacjac2010
    @jacjac2010 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow, how does she know me? I feel that way after 3 hours with just ONE other person, sometimes even my husband LOL

  • @VoidKing666
    @VoidKing666 Před 2 lety +1

    I had a birthday party with some of my best friends this weekend. It was great, but I was just dead for the next two days.

  • @karenhackney9920
    @karenhackney9920 Před 2 lety +1

    Truth! 🤣

  • @lorindav5549
    @lorindav5549 Před 2 lety

    I don't mind people, it's all the "small talk."

  • @idbehappy2
    @idbehappy2 Před rokem

    I can relate to this!

  • @sandraoconnor5700
    @sandraoconnor5700 Před rokem

    Absolutely the truth🤯🤯🤯🤯

  • @DC-ef8op
    @DC-ef8op Před 2 lety +1

    so true.

  • @maryd.2416
    @maryd.2416 Před 2 lety +1

    So true!!!😆

  • @kristiurmy5303
    @kristiurmy5303 Před 2 lety

    So very true.

  • @copiouscareerist
    @copiouscareerist Před 2 lety

    I wish there was a "concoction drink" for this....like a raw egg mixed with tomato juice or something. (barf) But, I would try and drink that just to get rid of that feeling after social activity. xo

  • @steelsheen
    @steelsheen Před 2 lety

    #accurate Kim!!

  • @baronofgreymatter14
    @baronofgreymatter14 Před 2 lety

    Kim ..Listen to a song by the band Jinjer called Wallflower..Its for us introverts and you are gonna love it

  • @samma6652
    @samma6652 Před 2 lety

    This is my life 🤣

  • @tam-i-am2022
    @tam-i-am2022 Před 2 lety +1

    💯

  • @ceceb6264
    @ceceb6264 Před 2 lety

    Yep this is so correct

  • @mamaprepper1494
    @mamaprepper1494 Před 2 lety +1

    Love this so me

  • @le_th_
    @le_th_ Před rokem

    People ARE exhausting...and I score 51% extrovert and 49% introvert.

  • @NYGRLINTN
    @NYGRLINTN Před 2 lety

    100% accurate!!!

  • @Olivia-jy9jf
    @Olivia-jy9jf Před 2 lety +1

    I so get it. Lol 💓❤️

  • @JYYB
    @JYYB Před 2 lety

    This is like 99.9% of humanity because of COVID. 😂😭

  • @michellegibbsvickoren8103

    So TRUE!

  • @archeryrocks8902
    @archeryrocks8902 Před rokem

    This happens to me, I have never drank, I am 13 😂

  • @alynawatersmusic
    @alynawatersmusic Před rokem

    It’s me! 😂

  • @saratalbot6147
    @saratalbot6147 Před 2 lety

    This is my husband, I try to plan "rest Days" in for him after we hang out with people. 😂 I don't fully understand it... And my family REALLY doesn't understand it, which is hard. 🤗❤️

  • @k.l.8804
    @k.l.8804 Před 2 lety

    There is not a drop of exaggeration in this. This is presicely how it is. Even with people I really like/love but whom not of my immediate family. Even with them I need a break every now and then 😅🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @megankrahl1182
    @megankrahl1182 Před 2 lety

    The more strangers the worse it is.

  • @tiffany5575
    @tiffany5575 Před 2 lety

    Amen!

  • @julieebeem1981
    @julieebeem1981 Před 2 lety

    yep!

  • @debranielsen2002
    @debranielsen2002 Před 2 lety

    Yes!!!

  • @kj6446
    @kj6446 Před 2 lety

    Exactly

  • @sandysiepert7724
    @sandysiepert7724 Před 2 lety

    This is my husband 100%!

  • @Izinaima
    @Izinaima Před rokem

    I had… 6-7 extroverts and an Extreme introvert, so I’m DONE! 😂

  • @finneganpupsavedbythebell

    Omg yes😅

  • @carmengracepuentes7953

    Yeah :)

  • @Bluemoon.537
    @Bluemoon.537 Před rokem

    People are so tiring🙄 I score 100% introvert

  • @bigjohn08865
    @bigjohn08865 Před 2 lety

    😄

  • @gabriellasilva642
    @gabriellasilva642 Před 4 měsíci

    Why do you think I'm scrolling rn lol

  • @machinist7230
    @machinist7230 Před 2 lety +2

    The older I get, the more I want to move away from "civilization".🤔

  • @Caledoniadream
    @Caledoniadream Před 2 lety

    Oh, people...they are the worst. Especially when mixed with alcohol.

  • @rosacrico3536
    @rosacrico3536 Před 2 lety

    Hahaha

  • @babybree175
    @babybree175 Před 2 lety

    Lol soo an handover of people not a drink..got it

  • @GinaR21212
    @GinaR21212 Před rokem

    🤣

  • @missnaomi613
    @missnaomi613 Před 2 lety

    1) I can so relate to this!
    2) Holderness Family, I know this isn't the main focus of this video, but I know that you appreciate human diversity, so I'll say it. Happy Pride Month. 🙏❤️🏳️‍🌈

  • @suzannebert3652
    @suzannebert3652 Před 2 lety +1

    To short of video

  • @sfitz0076
    @sfitz0076 Před 2 lety

    "Introvert"

  • @shannonigans2220
    @shannonigans2220 Před rokem

    Not a true introvert… she’s on the phone!

  • @susannagiesey9657
    @susannagiesey9657 Před 2 lety +1

    So true!

  • @Mel-qz4xj
    @Mel-qz4xj Před 2 lety

    So true!!!