Sexual Diversity & Kink: What Every Counselor Should Know
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 5. 07. 2024
- Exploring Sexual Diversity & Kink: What Every Counselor Should Know to provide ethical services Counselor Educaiton Webinar Dr. Dawn-Elise Snipes, PHD, LPC-MHSP, LMHC #kink #sexuality #counselling
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Chapters
00:00:00 - Introduction to Sexual Diversity and Kink
00:06:30 - Kink as Personal Expression
00:14:12 - The Importance of Safe and Smart Engagement in Kink
00:21:39 - Kink and Sexual Behaviors
00:29:08 - Consensual Non-Monogamy vs Unethical Cheating
00:36:35 - Valuing Diversity and Prioritizing Safety
00:43:53 - Healthy Dynamics in BDSM Relationships
00:51:13 - Depathologizing Kink and BDSM
01:12:22 - Understanding and Accepting Non-Traditional Relationship Structures
01:05:41 - Conclusion and Next Week's Episode
Thank you. From a 40+ yes BDSM practioner, you covered this well and gracious sensitivity.
Thank you. I appreciate your support. It is always a bit unnerving covering controversial topics.
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Thank you Judith. I appreciate you being a supporter from the beginning of the channel. :)
Thank you, dear Doc. I am privileged to work with clients in the kink community and want to meet them where they are. This information is very helpful.
Thanks for this. You helped me pass the certification process last year. Now, as a substance abuse counselor practicing in a rehab, I run into all the "flavors of the sexual rainbow!" I needed to develop a non-judgmental, informed perspective, so this video was helpful
Glad it was. I just released the BDSM video too. There is so much misinformation around BDSM and how, without communication and respect , it can quickly turn into abuse.
Thank you for this
Youâre most welcome
This is something I have never heard. đź
Thanks for watching and for sharing
Nice to hear a rational talk on the subject, and so far, not bias. A range of types with a range of subtypes also. A good bit of crossover also between types. I'm not on fetlife or Facebook or Twitter or such. I've been locked out of Facebook for over a decade Twitter for many years. So, not what some might try to generalize. Nice to see you went over safe words, but if they are gaged. Then signals like stomps or knocks or such should be known and depends on setup.
One you might want to look into as some of them may need help. Baby girl type, a large chunk of them seem to have lost kids. Ether in child birth or at a young age. Over an age and weight range, even more likely so. Or that's what I saw in the ones I talked to. It's been a few years, but things should be the same for statistics and linking trauma to a kink type. I only got to talk to about 60 to 70 of them. So I could be off. But it shocked me to see so many with the hidden truama.
55:58 I would say I get that feeling a good bit. Almost alien even talking the same language. lol
good point about physical "safe signs"
Hi @Adriana_stan can you please make a video on how naltrexone works in our body for compulsive sexual behaviour and till when dosage can be increased if you have severe sex addiction in general sense.
That is a question better addressed by your medical doctor.
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@@Adriana_Stan Ma'am after one year I will pursue MA psychology could assist me with it could you guide on basis of you experience what should I do and what should not I have to do? What all mistakes should I not make ?
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What country are you pursuing it in? That makes a big difference.
With reference to BDSM and domination, I would contend that the roots or it are:
Itâs a reflection of infantile desire for containment. When emotionally aroused, as a young child, the expectation was that any alarm or distress felt would be mitigated by the containment provided by the carer, normally the mother. In adult life this situation, if not previously satisfied in childhood, can be replayed when levels of arousal, often sexual, are encountered and again a figure of containment is sought⊠the dominant woman (mother). The dominant partner will also be often containing their own anxiety in controlling youâŠ.. so the dance of life goes on!
Is there any wrong with this? obviously not, itâs just adults playing out fantasies. The only possible down side is that it is a developmental dead end and leaves no potential for growth and adjustment to a more mature form of relationship.The process simply produces a closed cycle that can never be altered and brings those who participate back to the same place after every session. Although in acting out it allows expression of often powerful infantile emotions that otherwise might be expressed in less benign way.
That is one hypothesis, but by no means applies to most, let alone all kinky people.
@@earlgrey2130 Well, provide an intersting alternative perspective. All human behaviour is motivated by a need of some sort.
You should see how obsessed and repetitive these guys are đ
Sometimes it is a need to try out different forms of play... just like some people like skydiving or roller coasters
I am not a fan of positive sex culture, and BDSM kink though I realize for some people it is healthy way of experiencing their sexualality,
Being in the recovery community we/I see people come in all to often absolutely broken by this behavior, whether its around opening up and inevitable feelings of jealousy, fear and resentment to actual physical abuse (Dom/Sub relationships etc
Plus the transmission of various STDs again I want emphatically point out that for many it works in a healthy way
But from what Ive seen many choose this without any preparation or even their partners consent and it can be absolutely distructive
For those it works, good luck, because if it doesn't, I will see you in therapy
Hopefully before it wrecks all other aspects of your life
As I said repeatedly in the presentation...it must be safe, sane and consensual. There are a lot of people that participate in the culture who find it very empowering and actually increases emotional intimacy in their relationships. And if you are playing only with your partner, then STDs really are not a worry.
@DocSnipes I hear you and respect your view, I enjoy your videos very much but this is an issue that is extremely complicated and (in my experience) tends to go sideways more often than not (maybe I lack perspective due to my experience-I concede that pount)
Overall I agree with you I just wanted to lend a voice to those who feel as I do
You are inserting your own bias here.
BDSM is not abuse.
Abuse is abuse and one party is not consenting.
@BookWorm2369 maybe so, I certainly wouldn't want to take away anyones right to practice it
Im just pointing out that from what I've witnessed, stories from people, especially those in the gay/trans & recovery community
For them it' can be playing with fire,
Just be careful you don't get burnt.
People can attack me or disagree with me that's fine, but it's only fair that both sides be allowed to have a voice in this